On the flip side, if you do stick around and help someone learn to love themselves, there's a very real chance that they will lose attraction for you once they have built up a healthy amount of self-esteem with which to view the relationship. To be clear, there's nothing wrong with that, but don't invest in salvaging anyone else's self-worth if you can't handle that possibility.
That makes sense because one is trying to preserve the integrity of the relationship. One requires healthy boundaries in order to sustain her preceived benefit, which is a functional, cohesive unit; whereas the other sees everything else as inconsequential relative to the derived benefit. Respect in those cases is not even secondary, it's of no consequence. She may say, as long as I get this thing, nothing else matters
That'd be like trying save a ship that's in danger of sinking. No matter how much hard work you do, it would end up sinking. Protect yuh energy folks! 🕊️🕊️
Hurt people hurt people. It’s how they regulate their emotions. In the end these people always receive the same energy they put out.
On the flip side, if you do stick around and help someone learn to love themselves, there's a very real chance that they will lose attraction for you once they have built up a healthy amount of self-esteem with which to view the relationship. To be clear, there's nothing wrong with that, but don't invest in salvaging anyone else's self-worth if you can't handle that possibility.
That's ground breaking. To help someone out of that dark place then be abandoned. DIABOLICAL
We hurt people that love us and love people that hurt us -Kdot
That makes sense because one is trying to preserve the integrity of the relationship. One requires healthy boundaries in order to sustain her preceived benefit, which is a functional, cohesive unit; whereas the other sees everything else as inconsequential relative to the derived benefit. Respect in those cases is not even secondary, it's of no consequence. She may say, as long as I get this thing, nothing else matters
That'd be like trying save a ship that's in danger of sinking. No matter how much hard work you do, it would end up sinking. Protect yuh energy folks! 🕊️🕊️