AITA for telling my husband I'll get a divorce if he doesn't let me adopt my daughter?
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- Опубліковано 13 вер 2024
- Relationship Ultimatum! In this intense story, I confront my husband about adopting my 'daughter,' leading to a heated argument and a threat of divorce. Who's right in this emotional dilemma? #AITA
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She should get divorced regardless.
Yea
100%
It's not just the daughter thing. He has already drifted away, there's nothing to stick around for. Just leave
Yeah the whole adoption thing is silly, it’s an adult. But the entire rest of the story is a red flag and no marriage works when their priorities don’t align at all, kids are a make or break issue before marriage
Leave you should’ve left along time ago but it’s never to kate
As a Trans person who was taken in by a new family, I appreciate this.
NTA Ummm you already wanted to get divorced lol. He sounds like a big kid himself.
NTA, he’s the second most useless lover (other than the dad or other lovers I’ve heard from other Reddit stories) in existence, divorce him instantly, he doesn’t care about your feelings and needs.
Bro what how could OP have stayed that long I would’ve left long ago 💀💀
Divorce him, divorce him, divorce him, divorce him, he is garbage.
NTA, drop him and enjoy your beautiful happy homemade family
He is selfish. Divorce him. You have your daufhter for support
From what she is telling she should get a divorce. Period...
This post was both sad and beautiful
She is 20 years old, why do you need to adopt a grown ass person? 😂😂😂😂 If that still a teenager i would understand, just keep having a mother and daughter relationship and no need paperwork involved.
So that her awful parents won’t try to claim rights to her inheritance or possible children down the road. Adult adoption is often desired in situations where the original parents were abusive.
@@ButchPleaseImFabulous she can leave everything in a will, a lot of people do that without been adopted. She is 20 years old, a grown ass, no need for adoptiom a anymore.
@@larissagomes451real this is a grown ass person and she’s fighting his battles for him 💀
*Where's The Video With The Updates!*
1. Can you adopt a legal adult?
2. YTA for forcing an adoption when you married him knowing he'll object.
3. You'd be NTA to devorce him for litterally any other reason you mentionned. And you probably should.
Yes you can adopt a legal adult, this is often done for reasons such as making medical decisions when the adult themself can't. The adoption would essentially mean her bio father can't make medical decisions for her when she's incapable (such as taking her off life support or giving the go ahead for a surgery after a car crash or something), so these kinds of adoptions, especially in her case, are very important
it still is a valid reason and i think it's closer to a straw that broke the camels back because if the other stuff and ignoring of her problems wasn't happening (if he was a better partner) he would have most likely supported her
Mother & son more like it 😂😂 she adopted a broken mentally ill kid good for her. Who wouldn't divorce her
Ew. At least the woman has gotten help for her trauma, clearly you haven't gotten over your dad leaving to "have a quick smoke".
@@marqkc Bros dad was too busy with work and now his only solace in life is making 2016 jabs at trans people. Circus tragedy special.
Bruh he was cutting himself… I just can’t stand the idea of cutting yourself.
I’ve been in very dark spots myself like everybody but never have I ever considered cutting myself or anything like that, it just feels unnatural and unrealistic.
lack of empathy there buddy?
She was cutting herself, just cause you can't stand the idea of it either doesn't mean others can't and won't do so. It is a major issue and there are whole apps dedicated to tracking how long one has been without SH as a way of feeling achieved for doing better for so long
Okey, so you brought a stranger to your home knowing your husband doesn't want children & you want to adopt that person, I hope you understand people clarify things in advance for a reason so you can move on if you can't live with those things, I also think you are telling a one sided story & and not mentioning you entitled & toxic behaviour which shows in this adoption situation clearly.