certain channels, i do not like to give attention to.. but, i will say he describes himself as, "obese" and "poor". if you want to see video clips from his livestream, being told by the bar of his high bar bill that needed to be paid.. you can use the following link. rb.gy/21qxp4
I kind of needed to hear this. Appreciate it I can't believe people will spend that much on attention I was in The Philippines for the first time last month , Dumaguete All kinds of freelance women were walking up to me with the price of $40 😂 One woman only wanted $10 😮
I’ve been there twice. If a girl is moving in with you too quickly run. A good Filipina will make you wait several dates to even marriage before she beds you. If she moves fast she has either save me from poverty mindset or I’ll take him for as much as I can mindsets. I know all women want to be provided for but be careful how quickly they jump into the love mode.
We watch because we could have easily been them. Its what happens when you put higher value on something looking to exploit your vulnerabilites at your weakest points. Its best to keep learning how far a woman would go and apply to life that "all that glitters not gold'
Well as someone with absolutely no game to the point that I make Frankenstein look like Romeo, I have no choice but to go retail. The trick is to try to stay safe and not get scammed in the process. Which is why I watch videos like this.
I went into a girly bar last night in Manila with a friend, at the famous Burgos Street. We had a couple beers and watched the girls in bikinis. None of them approached us or asked for the ladydrinks at all. Not all places are so aggressive. I got the impression, we needed to wave and invite them to our table first. Otherwise they left us alone to enjoy our beers, and just watch the girls. We watched the pole dancing and enjoyed it, no huge unexpected bill, you payed for each drink as you ordered. It was not that expensive. Don't let this video scare you away if you want to have some beers and see some girls.
@@dbuck1964 to clarify sometimes they come to you with a tab sheet for you to sign. And if your not paying attention. The bill can be quite high pay as you order when they give you your drink pay in cash
@@dbuck1964 He said order 1st round and pay...never run a tab. They will tack on extra expenses or your associates will leave early and you pay it all...or both.
@@dbuck1964 I guess technically it's correct. But, it really has to do with how you look at it. For instance. The 2 nevers cancel each other. So, he could be saying "let them have you keep signing every round. However, he could just be saying "never let them have you keep signing every round" and added the second "never" to simply emphasize it. But, that would contradict himself. Unless you put in a comma between "you" and "keep". In other words, "Never let them have you, keep signing every round" "Have you", meaning, trick you. So, yes, it's confusing. Basically it's missing all the punctuation.
I learned the girly bar marketing dynamic while in the Army back in my 20s. That was it for me. Never went back. I've noticed two annoying dynamics here with respect to the girly bars: 1. The expats who frequent the places, think the bar girl really loves them, get burned, then loudly complain how *all* Filipinas are scammers 2. An increasing number of Western women who travel here with the intent of "outing" the Passport Bros. They visit only the red light district in Manila, then use that to substantiate that all the Filipinas are scamming gold diggers and all the Passport Bros are pathetic losers. That's like visiting only insane asylums in the US to prove all Americans are insane.
Very good video. I was last in the Philippines in 1986. It worked just the same way back then.. I went there with this knowledge. So I never had these problems. BUT I saw PLENTY of people that did.
This is pretty much the norm in any strip club/gentlemen's club in the US for many years. The worst place to fall for this is in Vegas around the strip, drinks for yourself can easily be $30+ and lady drinks can be $100 each. If you're dumb enough to get a bottle, you could be out an easy $1000-$2000+
Reekay, thanks for the solid advice as usual. I can't ever see myself seeking "professional" company. However, your AI asian ladies made me realize a man can not fully understand his weakness until she is a few feet away, beautiful and a trained wallet assassin.
Thanks Dr. Reekay for the reminder why I don't do Bars especially when I visit the Philippines next year...I usually have a wine when I am forced to go with friends or my Crew members after a flight...But we usually have 1 drink due to us having a trip in the morning..But a girly Bar does nothing for me whatsoever...I've never been that desperate to pick up a Bar girl and do my thing with her...I will just pass on the Girly bars overall...
i'm glad it was helpful. stay safe.. plenty of good women to be found just going about your day. grocery stores, bakery, veggie market.. very easy to meet women in the PH.
This still sounds cheaper than going on a normal date in the U.S. Especially here in California. If you go out for dinner, drinks , movies you are out a minimum of 3 to 400 bucks. If you drink a little too much you have to add uber onto that as well.
Very good video. I've been to a couple and always leave after 1 or 2. Another point is never bring your credit card. In Vietnam they don't have bar fines, at least where I went, they usually have a room on top of the bar. I've never considered that either because of the fear of STD's. If you got no game, it's a lot cheaper to go to a massage parlor for a happy ending
It has now been fully a half of a century since myself and my shipmates landed in Olongapo City. We were quick to learn the ins and outs of what it was all about. The entire scenario. And there was complete understanding with the girls as well. Yes, there were a few hard lessons on both sides, and I could go into that. But we rarely tell these stories. And once it was all said and done. Virtually all players came out of it intact. The girls benefited greatly from us and we really were all they had. We were quick to find out that there were very few hardcore hookers in the mix. The vast majority of these girls were very sweet, loving and trustworthy. Many of us took girlfriends. And there were many marriages that came out of that time, as well. And indeed there are those, who are still living there now, happily wedded. Just the way it was.... USS Chicago CG 11
Good advice Reekay, thanks for sharing. Was stationed at Olongapo in the late 1980’s and seen all you mentioned here. Also, I speak Spanish fluently and during a visit to Tijuana with coworkers, could hear the bar girl’s comments. What some were saying about their customers was not nice.
Your choice of bar type depends on your reason for going out. If you just want to get drunk and go home alone, go to a "bar". If you want to dance and find a possible freelancer, go to a "disco". If you want to listen to loud music and bounce a spinner on your lap and go home with someone for a cost, go to a girly bar. Simple.
I went to a disco bar in Mexico City. I had some people ask if they could join me. I said sure and had fun dancing the night away. When I returned from a dance all the people were gone. The bartender gave me the bill for the people drinking all night long and I had to pay.
You didn't even get close to worst scenario where the girls drug you and take everything in your wallet. Depending on what they slip you, you may even help them clean out your ATM card. I have managed these places in Florida, so yes it even happens in the US.
yes. that's true. especially in columbia. in the PH, it's still amateur-hour compared to columbia for intense criminal outcomes. the only exception being men that are dumb enough to fall asleep with her spending the night.. only to wake up later and find their valuables and/or passport stolen.
If he is a novice, then he should have a wingman to show him “the ropes”. These areas have lots of guys around who have mastered the art of these women and many will offer help. UA-cam has plenty of guys who specialize in this type of content that a guy should watch before going.
the funny/ironic thing is.. the vlogger i mentioned spends a lot of time 'schooling' guys on the bar scene.. and yet he got with his pants down unable to pay the high bill he racked up at a girly bar.
in the PH, doing such a video would count as a defamation violation.. even though the facts are true. so even though there are a few high profile cases discussed in the offline expat network, i won't be doing any videos on it.
@@Lifebeyondthesea It's crazy how they go after people for speaking up against them. In Thailand I had similar issues when buying things from stores/ online. They tell you that if you leave a bad review it 'voids the warranty'. Absolutely insane.
I’m debating whether to be an expat. Then I think, Those kinds of bars are all over the US too. Find a low cost of living town like San Antonio and retire near home and close to the grandkids. Take a long cruise. Long visits. But emigration is a big step.
stay away from the the girly bars but if your going to go i recommend you avoid playing pool against them keep your tool wrapped and for the love of all things holy do not butterfly if you see a girl on the regular you belong to her and she may snip you if she catches you
10:33 to add context in Philippine culture the riches person is expected to pay and as a foreigner it’ll be assumed it’s you. So be careful fellas with group settings
Stationed in Subic in the 80s for 5 years. Went to all the bars. Never paid for a ladies drink. I've been called a cheap skate in Tagalog, but you get used to it. It's a game, you try to stretch out your money, they try to extract it.
no. the AI always dolls up the girls no matter what i tell it to do. ha! i have seen some amazing 8's and 9's at these places over the years. ('apple' in sibulan comes to mind.) however the reality is that these girls tend to get 'rice belly' after drinking so much soda and eating high-carb/deep-fried foods on their shift. it's one way to know how long they've been in-the-business. if you ask them, they will always respond, "oh, i just started 2 weeks ago." ha!
600 usd !? Waoh, seems that inflation has gone crazy since 2008… I remember a time at los angeles s dollhouse spending a good time with drinks and girls, then taking the cutest one to the hotel for 5,000 pesos max. (3,000 for the girl, 2,000 for a lot of drinks and plenty of time at the doll.). I guess that time is over.
in 2015, cebu.. freelancers were running 1,000 to 1,500p for overnight. guys tell me that now it has bumped up to 2,500+ just for short-time. (they blame the over-paying korean visitors)
aaah i see. Well it actually makes sense since ‘rich’ asian countries such as korea or japan have that night culture where you go to what they call a hostess club. There you just chat and drink with beautifully dressed and made up girls in a luxurious room. The funny thing is you get out the shop with a bill of at least a grant and not bringing back any of the girls since that is the system. you may negotiate with the girl, however : 1- it won t be free (ironic. Remember what you have just paid for only chatting and drinking.) 2-it will be up to her and only her to decide. She will eventually say yes, IF you are lucky (and wealthy of course lol). Anyway i understand why prices flashed up in the phils. They just respond to the asian demand after all.
@@Lifebeyondthesea It's Hoe-flation. I was in LA about two months ago and I went to check out the city strip club scene while I was in town. Completely empty, the girls have raised their prices so high no men are coming to the clubs anymore. It's a complete ghost-town, and this was during the 4th of July holiday weekend.
Honestly, I'd rather go straight for p2p and leave the small talk for afterwards when I'm more relaxed and we're running down the clock. But at the same time I went to some "con-cafes" in Japan and had a good time for a decent price.
Manila can be more business like, but still a nice selection. Just be ready for the Bar fine routine. But if you head out further in the provinces...Angeles or Barretto, they girls are cooler n will play pool with you. Fun to hang out n flirt. Bar fine the hottest one n take her home. not like here at all.
Someone could argue, I rather she leave me when I run out of money, instead of her leaving me simply because she got bored or she met another guy then leaves with all the money that I do have.
Spent some time in Thailand visiting some well-known streets, and there is nothing more off-putting than a girl you do not know, trying to lock eyes with you and then grabbing your arm and refusing to let go until you agree to her price. And that is saying nothing about the overtly fake "wow you so stroooong. I like yoOuUu..."
exactly. once you know the score, you just look at these women thinking, "seriously, do i look that stupid?" same game-plan as any Hooters franchise. you get flooded with attention and then they charge inflated prices for a burger with fries. these same girls won't give you the time of day should you happen to bump into them at the grocery store.
@@Lifebeyondthesea Always have a hearty meal before leaving the house. Saves your stomach from getting peckish and saves your liver from working overtime.
I really don't see the point of traveling 10K miles to do that prostitution thing, especially when it is so sordid in that context. The only way I'd avail the services of a professional would be if she actually was a professional escort, and my time was more valuable than hers. Which it's not the case because I don't make a grand per hour.
At 67 yrs of age, and married to a woman who -- either from menopause or a stroke (maybe both) -- has zero interest in sex and is also not so attractive anymore, I will frequent such establishments and allow myself to believe the "handsome man" trope from these girls. There's this thing called "Suspension of Disbelief" that allow us to immerse ourselves in movies or television programs, even though we know it is acting and special-effects. The same applies here. I know full well they aren't attracted to me. I understand I'm a Farang, and have no shot at being her boyfriend, let alone in a committed relationship, with one of these cuties. I am well aware that my tallywhacker no longer functions like it used to, if at all... Despite all of the above, merely being in the close presence of a young, pretty woman can be quite invigorating to a man of my age, albeit briefly. For me, it is worth a few dollars that I can't take with me to the grave.
Not free, but five ladies to sit with: One large pizza, one pitcher of beer, hours of conversation. In the Philippines, the challenge is finding one (or five) women I want to talk to for hours. If I manage that, it's a winning day.
I live in Thailand, I have seen all this but I've never been stupid enough to go into these establishments, you already know the outcome.... If your not stupid
Stay from these places and the girls …just think of what she is doing for a living…l got stuck a couple of times there paying the tab..with my girlfriend and her friends and relatives not the bar girls
My first time in Thailand was spent in Pattaya because a friend was living there. The bars, bar girls, and all that came with it was not for me. I don't mind a drink and a snack, but the hustle,? Nope!
Tell us about KTV bars. They are all over Cebu city and even in Cambodia. K stands for Korean and the TV refers to karaoke on the tv. I think. I’ve never been in one, but I know girls that work there and when I met them online, they invited me. They pretend to be looking for dates, but they were. They are fishing to bring men into their bar. And behind the screen, there may not even be a girl.
i was over there in olongapo nearly 60 years ago.then the total price including motel was $8.00 lol,,,,,,,,,inflation has hit. lol,,,,,,,but it was a deal because you got your free dose of clap. lol
If you're flush, or just rich, or relatively well off, it can be a a lovely time to go to such a place with your eyes open, and a large, but set amount to spend. Just go crazy, spend lots of money, don't worry about it, have fun and go home happy. The only way to do it cheap without being a stressed out miser, is don't stay long. Spend what you plan to and leave.
They are a good place to go for koreans or japanese who have neither time or english language skills. they are used to the whole pay for play game. Of course retiring guys with lots of time and english skills should not go near those places.
Well l don’t like to drink alcohol so I won’t be going into those places, maybe a place that serves food along side with alcohol. But nope, no desire to go there but thanks for the video
You say "foreigner" like they don't do this everywhere. These places are all over the U.S., UK, Eastern Europe, Turkey, literally anywhere there is women and booze.
Could you just ask the girl how much she gets paid for each of those drink tickets, then make her a better offer? i.e. she'd get more money and you'd pay less by cutting out the bar? Or are the bar owners wise to that and have ways to prevent it?
@@Lifebeyondthesea Sorry, I didn't explain it well. Say they cost 400p and she answers that she gets 150p for each one. If she sits and talks to you a while and consumes 5 of them, you'd be out 2000p and she'd make 750p. Couldn't you offer her to sit with you for the same amount of time with no lady-drinks at all in return for you giving her 1000p directly? She'd make more and you'd spend less and get the same time with her.
all the images in the vids, i create with AI for illustrative purposes. i often try to pattern the AI model after the person discussed. in the PH.. i'd say about 6% are a 7 thru a 10. with maybe 1% being a 10. but, they are very approachable. using real women means getting model releases for each. not cost effective to be paying models for photo shots.
These gogos were more worth it 10 years ago when the girls were nude and would be touchy feely. Now they're just boring like regular bars, but much more expensive for both your drinks and hers. Thailand bars have even gone so far as to remove any happy hour or draft specials at many of these places...which before covid were everywhere..a big rip off now!
all the images in the vids, i create with AI for illustrative purposes. i often try to pattern the AI model after the person discussed. in the PH.. i'd say about 6% are a 7 thru a 10. with maybe 1% being a 10. but, they are very approachable. using real women means getting model releases for each. not cost effective to be paying models for photo shots.
Is it just me but if you ignore the sexy body of the girls, then you notice all there eyes are wonky. I'm guessing all AI generated images but damn the eyes are scary.
11:20 who is the vlogger?
certain channels, i do not like to give attention to.. but, i will say he describes himself as, "obese" and "poor". if you want to see video clips from his livestream, being told by the bar of his high bar bill that needed to be paid.. you can use the following link.
rb.gy/21qxp4
this is what I want to know, too.
Another Great Video!
so funny obese and poor
Reekay,you did it again.another great video.BRAVO.😊😊😊
I think the highest retail you can pay is marriage to any woman but especially a western woman
I kind of needed to hear this. Appreciate it
I can't believe people will spend that much on attention
I was in The Philippines for the first time last month , Dumaguete All kinds of freelance women were walking up to me with the price of $40 😂 One woman only wanted $10 😮
I don't know why I watch these videos, as I don't expect I'll ever go to the Philippines, and yet I do.
Living vicariously through someone else from the safety of your home 😁
lol same here I think I just get entertained by the thought of so many losers getting scammed daily over lusting for a woman
I’ve been there twice. If a girl is moving in with you too quickly run. A good Filipina will make you wait several dates to even marriage before she beds you. If she moves fast she has either save me from poverty mindset or I’ll take him for as much as I can mindsets. I know all women want to be provided for but be careful how quickly they jump into the love mode.
We watch because we could have easily been them. Its what happens when you put higher value on something looking to exploit your vulnerabilites at your weakest points. Its best to keep learning how far a woman would go and apply to life that "all that glitters not gold'
Well as someone with absolutely no game to the point that I make Frankenstein look like Romeo, I have no choice but to go retail. The trick is to try to stay safe and not get scammed in the process. Which is why I watch videos like this.
Excellent advice I hope this advice saves some expat life.
I hope so too
Paying the highest retail price...that is literally the best description of a girly bar I've ever heard.
Only thing better than learning from your mistakes, going to a girly bar with a pocket full of money!! :)
I went into a girly bar last night in Manila with a friend, at the famous Burgos Street. We had a couple beers and watched the girls in bikinis. None of them approached us or asked for the ladydrinks at all. Not all places are so aggressive. I got the impression, we needed to wave and invite them to our table first. Otherwise they left us alone to enjoy our beers, and just watch the girls. We watched the pole dancing and enjoyed it, no huge unexpected bill, you payed for each drink as you ordered. It was not that expensive. Don't let this video scare you away if you want to have some beers and see some girls.
I love girly bars, just know your budget and have fun!
Never never let them have you keep signing every round. Pay as you order period
What you wrote here doesn’t make sense, you’re saying the same thing twice.
@@dbuck1964 to clarify sometimes they come to you with a tab sheet for you to sign. And if your not paying attention. The bill can be quite high pay as you order when they give you your drink pay in cash
He’s saying don’t run a tab. Pay for each round individually as you get it. I agree.
@@dbuck1964 He said order 1st round and pay...never run a tab. They will tack on extra expenses or your associates will leave early and you pay it all...or both.
@@dbuck1964 I guess technically it's correct. But, it really has to do with how you look at it. For instance. The 2 nevers cancel each other. So, he could be saying "let them have you keep signing every round. However, he could just be saying "never let them have you keep signing every round" and added the second "never" to simply emphasize it. But, that would contradict himself. Unless you put in a comma between "you" and "keep". In other words, "Never let them have you, keep signing every round" "Have you", meaning, trick you. So, yes, it's confusing. Basically it's missing all the punctuation.
Perfect and accurate analogy of the different bars 🍸 👌
I learned the girly bar marketing dynamic while in the Army back in my 20s. That was it for me. Never went back. I've noticed two annoying dynamics here with respect to the girly bars:
1. The expats who frequent the places, think the bar girl really loves them, get burned, then loudly complain how *all* Filipinas are scammers
2. An increasing number of Western women who travel here with the intent of "outing" the Passport Bros. They visit only the red light district in Manila, then use that to substantiate that all the Filipinas are scamming gold diggers and all the Passport Bros are pathetic losers. That's like visiting only insane asylums in the US to prove all Americans are insane.
very true.
American woman complain about them being gold diggers it's like talking to a mirror in her eyes she's reflecting 😅
I love those places. Just talk to them and meet them after their sift. Get it for a low low cost.
Very good video. I was last in the Philippines in 1986. It worked just the same way back then.. I went there with this knowledge. So I never had these problems. BUT I saw PLENTY of people that did.
Perfect video ❤
Perfect delivery of information 🎉 cut straight to the point with no extra BS. Love it
Very good informative video thank you for sharing 👍🏾!
Thanks for watching!
Yo bro! I thoroughly enjoyed this video. Thank you ✌🏾😎
This is pretty much the norm in any strip club/gentlemen's club in the US for many years. The worst place to fall for this is in Vegas around the strip, drinks for yourself can easily be $30+ and lady drinks can be $100 each. If you're dumb enough to get a bottle, you could be out an easy $1000-$2000+
Reekay, thanks for the solid advice as usual. I can't ever see myself seeking "professional" company. However, your AI asian ladies made me realize a man can not fully understand his weakness until she is a few feet away, beautiful and a trained wallet assassin.
I found the video interesting, and I will be back for more videos! Thank you for sharing your experiences.
Great video... so glad you told it just the way it really is...!!!
Again, THANKS ... for a great video !!! 🤑🤑🤑
Thanks Dr. Reekay for the reminder why I don't do Bars especially when I visit the Philippines next year...I usually have a wine when I am forced to go with friends or my Crew members after a flight...But we usually have 1 drink due to us having a trip in the morning..But a girly Bar does nothing for me whatsoever...I've never been that desperate to pick up a Bar girl and do my thing with her...I will just pass on the Girly bars overall...
Very interesting and informative information thank you when I plan my future trip to the Philippines 🇵🇭
i'm glad it was helpful. stay safe.. plenty of good women to be found just going about your day. grocery stores, bakery, veggie market.. very easy to meet women in the PH.
This still sounds cheaper than going on a normal date in the U.S. Especially here in California. If you go out for dinner, drinks , movies you are out a minimum of 3 to 400 bucks. If you drink a little too much you have to add uber onto that as well.
Better to learn from mistakes of others than from yours. Much more to learn from and you are not hurt.
Very good video. I've been to a couple and always leave after 1 or 2. Another point is never bring your credit card.
In Vietnam they don't have bar fines, at least where I went, they usually have a room on top of the bar. I've never considered that either because of the fear of STD's. If you got no game, it's a lot cheaper to go to a massage parlor for a happy ending
Too class advice, thank you 😊
Glad it was helpful!
It has now been fully a half of a century since myself and my shipmates landed in Olongapo City. We were quick to learn the ins and outs of what it was all about. The entire scenario. And there was complete understanding with the girls as well. Yes, there were a few hard lessons on both sides, and I could go into that. But we rarely tell these stories.
And once it was all said and done. Virtually all players came out of it intact. The girls benefited greatly from us and we really were all they had. We were quick to find out that there were very few hardcore hookers in the mix. The vast majority of these girls were very sweet, loving and trustworthy. Many of us took girlfriends. And there were many marriages that came out of that time, as well. And indeed there are those, who are still living there now, happily wedded. Just the way it was....
USS Chicago CG 11
sometimes i look back at previous adventures and wonder how i came out pretty much okay. others were not so fortunate.
Great 👍
Good advice Reekay, thanks for sharing. Was stationed at Olongapo in the late 1980’s and seen all you mentioned here. Also, I speak Spanish fluently and during a visit to Tijuana with coworkers, could hear the bar girl’s comments. What some were saying about their customers was not nice.
Thanks for the info!
Angeles works differently. Its one price. You just pay the bar and they pay the girl half. Manila you pay both.
That is why I liked AC. And never spent much time in Manila.
@John_Henry83 same. Not a fan of manila
Throughout my travel, I stay away from nightlife, bars, massage, gambling, drugs....etc nothing good will happen from those places.
Actually it can be a good stress reduction.
Especially because the law will always be against you.
Had a First Sargent tell me ‘nothing good happens after midnight.’ Took me a while to understand but I learned to live by it.
@@SmokeythewelderI had the same wisdom imparted from another senior NCO back in the day.
Actually, in Olongapo City there were many fantastic things that took place after midnight. You just had to have the chops to make it happen.
Your choice of bar type depends on your reason for going out. If you just want to get drunk and go home alone, go to a "bar". If you want to dance and find a possible freelancer, go to a "disco". If you want to listen to loud music and bounce a spinner on your lap and go home with someone for a cost, go to a girly bar. Simple.
Great video
Sounds like western dating, but cheaper... they see all guys as a mark.
There are bars like that in Little Havana in Miami FL too.
Go to the 41 second mark and look at the guy in the red shirt. Trust me, it's worth your time.
ha!!
AI generated graphics are pretty hilarious.
You write it like this, Go to the 0:41 timestamp
I went to a disco bar in Mexico City. I had some people ask if they could join me. I said sure and had fun dancing the night away. When I returned from a dance all the people were gone. The bartender gave me the bill for the people drinking all night long and I had to pay.
the trick there is to ditch them before they ditch you. ha!
Such nonsense of them.
Facts.
Although not all guys that go in bars are idiots or not able to get a girl outside the bar.
You didn't even get close to worst scenario where the girls drug you and take everything in your wallet. Depending on what they slip you, you may even help them clean out your ATM card. I have managed these places in Florida, so yes it even happens in the US.
yes. that's true. especially in columbia. in the PH, it's still amateur-hour compared to columbia for intense criminal outcomes.
the only exception being men that are dumb enough to fall asleep with her spending the night.. only to wake up later and find their valuables and/or passport stolen.
Handsome Crab. 🎉
If he is a novice, then he should have a wingman to show him “the ropes”. These areas have lots of guys around who have mastered the art of these women and many will offer help. UA-cam has plenty of guys who specialize in this type of content that a guy should watch before going.
the funny/ironic thing is.. the vlogger i mentioned spends a lot of time 'schooling' guys on the bar scene.. and yet he got with his pants down unable to pay the high bill he racked up at a girly bar.
Reekay can you do a video on expats here who have gone to jail and why. That would be a great video.
in the PH, doing such a video would count as a defamation violation.. even though the facts are true. so even though there are a few high profile cases discussed in the offline expat network, i won't be doing any videos on it.
@@Lifebeyondthesea It's crazy how they go after people for speaking up against them.
In Thailand I had similar issues when buying things from stores/ online. They tell you that if you leave a bad review it 'voids the warranty'.
Absolutely insane.
@Lifebeyondthesea CAN YOU POINT US TO WHERE WE CAN OBTAIN SUCH INFORMATION. .THANKS
@@BigJack273 here..
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I've always avoided bars. If i drink i drink at home with my wife. But I'll admit a good ol honky tonk can be fun occasionally lol.
I’m debating whether to be an expat. Then I think, Those kinds of bars are all over the US too. Find a low cost of living town like San Antonio and retire near home and close to the grandkids. Take a long cruise. Long visits. But emigration is a big step.
I live in san Antonio 😊
San Antonio is hot.Octobet and it is still hot.
stay away from the the girly bars but if your going to go i recommend you avoid playing pool against them
keep your tool wrapped and for the love of all things holy do not butterfly if you see a girl on the regular you belong to her and she may snip you if she catches you
ANOYHER GREAT VIDEO
Good Info
Lots of great advice in this video but summed up simply, like you said, “overpriced sloppy seconds”.
10:33 to add context in Philippine culture the riches person is expected to pay and as a foreigner it’ll be assumed it’s you. So be careful fellas with group settings
Stationed in Subic in the 80s for 5 years. Went to all the bars. Never paid for a ladies drink. I've been called a cheap skate in Tagalog, but you get used to it. It's a game, you try to stretch out your money, they try to extract it.
Most of these Girls are Outstanding, I don't imagine they are like this???
no. the AI always dolls up the girls no matter what i tell it to do. ha! i have seen some amazing 8's and 9's at these places over the years. ('apple' in sibulan comes to mind.)
however the reality is that these girls tend to get 'rice belly' after drinking so much soda and eating high-carb/deep-fried foods on their shift. it's one way to know how long they've been in-the-business. if you ask them, they will always respond, "oh, i just started 2 weeks ago." ha!
Have more than 2 beers, and they get better.
Only about 1 or 2 % of the women will be as attractive as the women shown here.
At least eight kids over in Philippines, I have to go to the South Korea now
Just pay the bar fee and take the girl back to a hotel
600 usd !? Waoh, seems that inflation has gone crazy since 2008…
I remember a time at los angeles s dollhouse spending a good time with drinks and girls, then taking the cutest one to the hotel for 5,000 pesos max. (3,000 for the girl, 2,000 for a lot of drinks and plenty of time at the doll.).
I guess that time is over.
in 2015, cebu.. freelancers were running 1,000 to 1,500p for overnight. guys tell me that now it has bumped up to 2,500+ just for short-time. (they blame the over-paying korean visitors)
aaah i see. Well it actually makes sense since ‘rich’ asian countries such as korea or japan have that night culture where you go to what they call a hostess club. There you just chat and drink with beautifully dressed and made up girls in a luxurious room. The funny thing is you get out the shop with a bill of at least a grant and not bringing back any of the girls since that is the system. you may negotiate with the girl, however :
1- it won t be free (ironic. Remember what you have just paid for only chatting and drinking.)
2-it will be up to her and only her to decide. She will eventually say yes, IF you are lucky (and wealthy of course lol).
Anyway i understand why prices flashed up in the phils. They just respond to the asian demand after all.
@@Lifebeyondthesea It's Hoe-flation. I was in LA about two months ago and I went to check out the city strip club scene while I was in town. Completely empty, the girls have raised their prices so high no men are coming to the clubs anymore. It's a complete ghost-town, and this was during the 4th of July holiday weekend.
Honestly, I'd rather go straight for p2p and leave the small talk for afterwards when I'm more relaxed and we're running down the clock. But at the same time I went to some "con-cafes" in Japan and had a good time for a decent price.
Manila can be more business like, but still a nice selection. Just be ready for the Bar fine routine. But if you head out further in the provinces...Angeles or Barretto, they girls are cooler n will play pool with you. Fun to hang out n flirt. Bar fine the hottest one n take her home. not like here at all.
W C Fields: I spent most of my money on drinking, chasing women and gambling. The rest I waisted.
Someone could argue, I rather she leave me when I run out of money, instead of her leaving me simply because she got bored or she met another guy then leaves with all the money that I do have.
All single mom girls here, i usually go for the college girls. And they have to be a perfect 10
Why the bar? Just look on your phone for a free lancer.
Where specifically do you look?
I'm surprised this video has to be made in the first place. ... Oh you so handsome .... ok you pay me now. 😁
No matter how many videos you put out guys will continue to pay thousands for some hot box it’ll literally never stop
Spent some time in Thailand visiting some well-known streets, and there is nothing more off-putting than a girl you do not know, trying to lock eyes with you and then grabbing your arm and refusing to let go until you agree to her price.
And that is saying nothing about the overtly fake "wow you so stroooong. I like yoOuUu..."
exactly. once you know the score, you just look at these women thinking, "seriously, do i look that stupid?"
same game-plan as any Hooters franchise. you get flooded with attention and then they charge inflated prices for a burger with fries. these same girls won't give you the time of day should you happen to bump into them at the grocery store.
@@Lifebeyondthesea Always have a hearty meal before leaving the house.
Saves your stomach from getting peckish and saves your liver from working overtime.
I really don't see the point of traveling 10K miles to do that prostitution thing, especially when it is so sordid in that context.
The only way I'd avail the services of a professional would be if she actually was a professional escort, and my time was more valuable than hers. Which it's not the case because I don't make a grand per hour.
In all fairness, Mark was warned about the online thing. Yet, he decided to forego this advice. You can lead a horse to water...
At 67 yrs of age, and married to a woman who -- either from menopause or a stroke (maybe both) -- has zero interest in sex and is also not so attractive anymore, I will frequent such establishments and allow myself to believe the "handsome man" trope from these girls. There's this thing called "Suspension of Disbelief" that allow us to immerse ourselves in movies or television programs, even though we know it is acting and special-effects. The same applies here. I know full well they aren't attracted to me. I understand I'm a Farang, and have no shot at being her boyfriend, let alone in a committed relationship, with one of these cuties. I am well aware that my tallywhacker no longer functions like it used to, if at all... Despite all of the above, merely being in the close presence of a young, pretty woman can be quite invigorating to a man of my age, albeit briefly. For me, it is worth a few dollars that I can't take with me to the grave.
OBVIOUSLY the lady drinks are more expensive - do you expect the company of young ladies to be free?
Not free, but five ladies to sit with: One large pizza, one pitcher of beer, hours of conversation. In the Philippines, the challenge is finding one (or five) women I want to talk to for hours. If I manage that, it's a winning day.
I live in Thailand, I have seen all this but I've never been stupid enough to go into these establishments, you already know the outcome.... If your not stupid
Stay from these places and the girls …just think of what she is doing for a living…l got stuck a couple of times there paying the tab..with my girlfriend and her friends and relatives not the bar girls
My first time in Thailand was spent in Pattaya because a friend was living there. The bars, bar girls, and all that came with it was not for me. I don't mind a drink and a snack, but the hustle,? Nope!
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Tell us about KTV bars. They are all over Cebu city and even in Cambodia. K stands for Korean and the TV refers to karaoke on the tv. I think. I’ve never been in one, but I know girls that work there and when I met them online, they invited me. They pretend to be looking for dates, but they were. They are fishing to bring men into their bar. And behind the screen, there may not even be a girl.
yes, here is the link that is more focused on KTV bars in the philippines..
ua-cam.com/video/ghwfWSssCCU/v-deo.html
i was over there in olongapo nearly 60 years ago.then the total price including motel was $8.00 lol,,,,,,,,,inflation has hit. lol,,,,,,,but it was a deal because you got your free dose of clap. lol
I was there 30 years ago and it was $20 with the room for long time.
If you're flush, or just rich, or relatively well off, it can be a a lovely time to go to such a place with your eyes open, and a large, but set amount to spend. Just go crazy, spend lots of money, don't worry about it, have fun and go home happy.
The only way to do it cheap without being a stressed out miser, is don't stay long. Spend what you plan to and leave.
They are a good place to go for koreans or japanese who have neither time or english language skills. they are used to the whole pay for play game. Of course retiring guys with lots of time and english skills should not go near those places.
Been to two of these places in the US in my life and they do not interest me. Very good video.
Well l don’t like to drink alcohol so I won’t be going into those places, maybe a place that serves food along side with alcohol. But nope, no desire to go there but thanks for the video
TIJUANA! :)
That's true but the same in a marriage but you can go weeks without sex so a relationship can be worse
Highest retail price...😂
You say "foreigner" like they don't do this everywhere. These places are all over the U.S., UK, Eastern Europe, Turkey, literally anywhere there is women and booze.
and many who visit the countries you listed arrive there as a foreigner/tourist.
@ but if they’re from the places i just listed they would expect these things. Would they not?
I'm, glad I'm not a bar person.
Could you just ask the girl how much she gets paid for each of those drink tickets, then make her a better offer? i.e. she'd get more money and you'd pay less by cutting out the bar? Or are the bar owners wise to that and have ways to prevent it?
that's not going to work. if the lady-drink is say, 400p, then 400p needs to get paid for the bill. the women don't set the prices, the bar does.
@@Lifebeyondthesea Sorry, I didn't explain it well. Say they cost 400p and she answers that she gets 150p for each one. If she sits and talks to you a while and consumes 5 of them, you'd be out 2000p and she'd make 750p. Couldn't you offer her to sit with you for the same amount of time with no lady-drinks at all in return for you giving her 1000p directly? She'd make more and you'd spend less and get the same time with her.
Nice message. But I think the photos are AI
all the images in the vids, i create with AI for illustrative purposes. i often try to pattern the AI model after the person discussed.
in the PH.. i'd say about 6% are a 7 thru a 10. with maybe 1% being a 10. but, they are very approachable.
using real women means getting model releases for each. not cost effective to be paying models for photo shots.
Everyone goes there for the cheap girls. If you don't you are missing out.
Well... Good thing i found my company before leaving America. I don't like sex work
Gee, sounds just like a club in any number of American cities.
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Just say no. As Always, May God Bless you and yours! 😇
These gogos were more worth it 10 years ago when the girls were nude and would be touchy feely. Now they're just boring like regular bars, but much more expensive for both your drinks and hers. Thailand bars have even gone so far as to remove any happy hour or draft specials at many of these places...which before covid were everywhere..a big rip off now!
It’s a business model, just like a strip club. Take it for what it is. No different than making it rain in the strip club.
If you bring them back to your hotel room you should have them shower with you when you walk in
Can the costumer take out the ladies and have sex in the hotel room
I've got no time for the career hose milkers, lol. Not here, not there.
A I photos
all the images in the vids, i create with AI for illustrative purposes. i often try to pattern the AI model after the person discussed.
in the PH.. i'd say about 6% are a 7 thru a 10. with maybe 1% being a 10. but, they are very approachable.
using real women means getting model releases for each. not cost effective to be paying models for photo shots.
This is all common sense..I think...what guy doesn't know this
you'd be surprised how many guys get rolled with a high bill from these places... all week long.
Peso's say so
Thats why you go short time for some sip sip and bounce
Is it just me but if you ignore the sexy body of the girls, then you notice all there eyes are wonky. I'm guessing all AI generated images but damn the eyes are scary.
Don't go to stupid shit bars .