John 3:16 "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life". 2 Corinthians 1:3-5 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God. For as we share abundantly in Christ’s sufferings, so through Christ we share abundantly in comfort too. John 15:13 13 Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. Hello Sir, if you ever feel emotional distress or broken. Just know that there is a timeless perfect being that sacrificed Himself out of His love for you and the sins that humanity has committed against Him. He always will love you but sin is evil and should be hated. Because He hates people who commit evil. For love is a multi facited concept. You don't love your mother the same as your wife. In the the same way God loves unbelievers differently that His children that love and believe in Him. But it is also true that there are people that truely hate God so they will be treated as enemies since they are enemies. Hope for Wicked People Yet there is hope for the wicked, which is to say, there is hope for all of us. “Therefore, as one trespass led to condemnation for all men, so one act of righteousness leads to justification and life for all men. For as by the one man’s disobedience the many were made sinners, so by the one man’s obedience the many will be made righteous” (Romans 5:18-19). www.challies.com/what-god-hates/god-hates-wicked-people/
John 3:16 "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life". 2 Corinthians 1:3-5 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God. For as we share abundantly in Christ’s sufferings, so through Christ we share abundantly in comfort too. John 15:13 13 Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. Hello Sir, if you ever feel emotional distress or broken. Just know that there is a timeless perfect being that sacrificed Himself out of His love for you and the sins that humanity has committed against Him. He always will love you but sin is evil and should be hated. Because He hates people who commit evil. For love is a multi facited concept. You don't love your mother the same as your wife. In the the same way God loves unbelievers differently that His children that love and believe in Him. But it is also true that there are people that truely hate God so they will be treated as enemies since they are enemies. Hope for Wicked People Yet there is hope for the wicked, which is to say, there is hope for all of us. “Therefore, as one trespass led to condemnation for all men, so one act of righteousness leads to justification and life for all men. For as by the one man’s disobedience the many were made sinners, so by the one man’s obedience the many will be made righteous” (Romans 5:18-19). www.challies.com/what-god-hates/god-hates-wicked-people/ Salvation is being saved or rescued from the penalty of separation from God. To be saved from your sin, take these three steps: Ask forgiveness for your sins; be willing to turn from your sins; and believe that Jesus Christ-our Lord and Savior-died for your sins and rose again. goingfarther.net/basics-of-christianity/salvation/
You're a beautiful soul who made one of the most iconic songs of all time about a difficult topic. You are important. You are loved. You're not alone in your suffering even though it feels like it a lot of the time. I'm happy you exist, keep fighting Tay!
i’m in a really similar position where i feel extremely alone and i can’t really find a place where i belong so i understand how you feel but you’re doing really well by trying your best to keep up with college and gym, it may not feel like a lot but it’s more than enough, please keep pushing through and i’m more than happy to keep talking about this with you :)
im sorry you relate to me in that way, being alone sucks and im also struggling to find belonging where i am and as a person. im trying to do what i can everyday regarding my academics and gym but i always have the lingering feeling that its never enough, even though ik its good what im doing i dont want to be complacent as i once was before all of this, but your words do comfort me in what effort ive been trying to put in. Its horrible that your in the position youre in, and i really do hope better for you as well, youll be in my prayers, im also here for you too, if theres anything you want to talk about in depth my insta is @jeffie.ming . I hope you're doing well even through this rough time, keep being strong, later stranger.
hey just wanted to thank you for this comment. I've been juggling my days with my personal business/finances, college, gym and work altogether it gets so hard and lonely sometimes because i live in a small town/neighbourhood and it feels like nobody around me thinks the same way
the way you kept saying "I don't know" hit me so hard. Every time i feel like this I immediately just go "I don't know" repeatedly to myself. I just want to be in a state of nothingness. I don't want to feel sad, angry, frustrated -- I want to feel nothing. The "I don't know" 's is the closest thing for me to that state. Head up king, its all up from here.
you absolutely do not want to feel nothing, you think that would be some momentary catharsis and it is, until you realise the endgame of depression is not utter despair, it's numbness, the absence of much meaningful emotion at all. it is very painful to be apathetic to things around you, and once you feel are trapped in that state of nothingness, you will realise it is nothing to aspire to - you could get married, and feel nothing, get that promotion and feel nothing, watch a great show for the first time and be able to recognise it's great, but feel nothing about it. keep feeling, be angry, lonely, overwhelmed, and it will feel all the much better when it's good again.
dude this video breaks my heart, i catch myself feeling the same way far too often. we all need to be kinder to ourselves and i hope life shines brighter for you soon :/
absolutely, if everyone treated themselves the way they deserve to be treated, the world be a significantly better place. sometimes its just so hard to tho, ive found its hard for me to truly forgive others especially when severe wrong-occurs and ive never really fixed that from my childhood and its seeped into my late teenager years like it is now. compared to that, its even more difficult for me to forgive myself for certain actions too, i get so hung up on things i do after the fact and then i become ashamed for feeling that way in the first place and it just becomes a loop of negative energy. that being said, im still striving to work on that, because im self aware of it but im also trying to keep myself accountable for my actions so its a little awkward for me at the moment. im sure the ill reach the light at the end of the tunnel soon enough, thank for the encouragement and wishes, have a great one.
@@jeffiealtmy god all of this , literal ALL of what you said is myself too , I can’t forgive so many people that I deal with so many years and they are so many, or my parents who have done things I consider unacceptable to me , I can’t keep up with this , I should forgive all of them for heal myself from their actions but we should never forgot what they did to us , if people around understand one day that everyone , everyday fight a hell inside them , a fight no one know and treat other with respect and dignity , that would be the moment humanity would evolve
I feel so seen. You’re crying and I wanna cry with you but instead I can’t help but softly smile. The fact that I’m not the only one feeling as lonely as I do is so comforting. It’s reassuring to know that you are going through the same exact thing I am too. There’s something so authentic and unfiltered about this video that I just wish I could reciprocate and converse back. I’ve been living alone for the past 2 years of college so far, I’ve never dated anyone, my family is on a different continent than the one I chose to go study at. I only ever leave my apartment to go to class or the library. I have no one to feel excited to meet up with despite having friends, I’m not truly myself with anyone here. I feel you. I wish I could reach out to you through the screen, I really do.
And on top of that basically all my friends have boyfriends, live with their families… It truly felt like I’ve been the only one feeling so lonely up until UA-cam recommended me your video.
Join a club or social group that is unrelated to academics and try your best to make friends there. It might not be easy and it might take a while but realize that you need to put in effort to form deep social connections. You aren't going to be given them out of thin air.
As a senior college student myself, the best thing I can give you is to do the things you KNOW in your heart are good for you. Try doing anything and everything that you have heard to benefit people; mediate, read books (If your interested in Christian books, I would recommend Mere Christianity by CS Lewis. Great book), workout (you already do), sleep schedule, morning walks, journaling (tried it, actually does help. Slows down your thoughts and helps you process things). The first year of college was pretty bleak for myself too. No friends, no partner, and it could get really hard to be motivated to keep going. Just know that if you do the right things, good things will happen to you. Talk to professors, other people in your class you think are cool. Ask people to go out for coffee. Chill in the library and people-watch. Don't just go to class and go home, go somewhere, anywhere where people are. Good luck to ya
Yea ive trying to do things that benefit me, eating healthier (with some cheat days), gyming when im not sick, walking, listening to music, being around people through school or other means, all of which help with tough times. Ill keep doing what i think is good for me and im sure things will look up like they are now with this whole yt journaling reaching so many people, including you. I will do my best to get out of my comfort zone and socialize more when i can. Thanks for the advice, it really means a lot. Have a great one, and i hope you have a great final year in college :)
Lifes too short gang keep your head up and remember that sometimes is better being alone than in a toxic environment/situationship. Keep smiling stay happy ! ! !
your right on the dot with that. doing my best gangy, life is too short to worry too much, and being alone is way better than being in something toxic or harmful for both parties. Ill keep smiling and happy as long as you do! have a great one
@@jeffiealtJohn 3:16 "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life". 2 Corinthians 1:3-5 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God. For as we share abundantly in Christ’s sufferings, so through Christ we share abundantly in comfort too. John 15:13 13 Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. Hello Sir, if you ever feel emotional distress or broken. Just know that there is a timeless perfect being that sacrificed Himself out of His love for you and the sins that humanity has committed against Him. He always will love you but sin is evil and should be hated. Because He hates people who commit evil. For love is a multi facited concept. You don't love your mother the same as your wife. In the the same way God loves unbelievers differently that His children that love and believe in Him. But it is also true that there are people that truely hate God so they will be treated as enemies since they are enemies. Hope for Wicked People Yet there is hope for the wicked, which is to say, there is hope for all of us. “Therefore, as one trespass led to condemnation for all men, so one act of righteousness leads to justification and life for all men. For as by the one man’s disobedience the many were made sinners, so by the one man’s obedience the many will be made righteous” (Romans 5:18-19). www.challies.com/what-god-hates/god-hates-wicked-people/
@@jeffiealtJohn 3:16 "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life". 2 Corinthians 1:3-5 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God. For as we share abundantly in Christ’s sufferings, so through Christ we share abundantly in comfort too. John 15:13 13 Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. Hello Sir, if you ever feel emotional distress or broken. Just know that there is a timeless perfect being that sacrificed Himself out of His love for you and the sins that humanity has committed against Him. He always will love you but sin is evil and should be hated. Because He hates people who commit evil. For love is a multi facited concept. You don't love your mother the same as your wife. In the the same way God loves unbelievers differently that His children that love and believe in Him. But it is also true that there are people that truely hate God so they will be treated as enemies since they are enemies. Hope for Wicked People Yet there is hope for the wicked, which is to say, there is hope for all of us. “Therefore, as one trespass led to condemnation for all men, so one act of righteousness leads to justification and life for all men. For as by the one man’s disobedience the many were made sinners, so by the one man’s obedience the many will be made righteous” (Romans 5:18-19). www.challies.com/what-god-hates/god-hates-wicked-people/ Salvation is being saved or rescued from the penalty of separation from God. To be saved from your sin, take these three steps: Ask forgiveness for your sins; be willing to turn from your sins; and believe that Jesus Christ-our Lord and Savior-died for your sins and rose again. goingfarther.net/basics-of-christianity/salvation/
It was suddenly on my home page. I think whenever nights like this come to haunt me again, I can come and watch this video. Then we can cry together. I'm sorry. I don't have anything positive to say right now. Maybe I should just cry. Thank you. It takes courage and strength to share this.
i would do anything for a heartfelt hug right now, im sure ill get many soon from family when i see them for thanksgiving. i grateful the gesture and i wish i could give you a hug too, much love.
Emotional suffering is something I’m also experiencing. The pain is so much more sharper and existential than anything else. I want to say sitting and conversing with oneself ultimately is the only solution but I truly don’t know since that task itself is extremely difficult.
John 3:16 "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life". 2 Corinthians 1:3-5 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God. For as we share abundantly in Christ’s sufferings, so through Christ we share abundantly in comfort too. John 15:13 13 Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. Hello Sir, if you ever feel emotional distress or broken. Just know that there is a timeless perfect being that sacrificed Himself out of His love for you and the sins that humanity has committed against Him. He always will love you but sin is evil and should be hated. Because He hates people who commit evil. For love is a multi facited concept. You don't love your mother the same as your wife. In the the same way God loves unbelievers differently that His children that love and believe in Him. But it is also true that there are people that truely hate God so they will be treated as enemies since they are enemies. Hope for Wicked People Yet there is hope for the wicked, which is to say, there is hope for all of us. “Therefore, as one trespass led to condemnation for all men, so one act of righteousness leads to justification and life for all men. For as by the one man’s disobedience the many were made sinners, so by the one man’s obedience the many will be made righteous” (Romans 5:18-19). www.challies.com/what-god-hates/god-hates-wicked-people/ Salvation is being saved or rescued from the penalty of separation from God. To be saved from your sin, take these three steps: Ask forgiveness for your sins; be willing to turn from your sins; and believe that Jesus Christ-our Lord and Savior-died for your sins and rose again. goingfarther.net/basics-of-christianity/salvation/
thanks for posting something so vulnerable. ive been having a rough time recently and a lot of my thoughts have been stuck on exactly this. its so difficult adjusting to being alone for the first time. it feels like everybody around me has it completely figured out and they just know how to form deep, lasting relationships with people. and that just feels unattainable for me sometimes. but this video is a comforting reminder that im not entirely alone in my loneliness! its nice to be reminded that im not the only person in the world who feels this way. camaraderie with strangers online is awesome lol. im sure that things will look up for you soon. you seem like a lovely person and it sucks that you're going through this. im wishing you the best!
im wishing you all the best as well, even through all the mess, your comments and everyone else that gives feedback to me on their experiences and advice has been one of the biggest blessings in recent time, and i appreciate all of it. it truly is comforting knowing that we arent alone in this feeling of loneliness, even as tragic as it is. on to what you said first, its rough, it does seem so many people have it worked out and i seem to be lost in everything and im just out wondering how or what am i supposed to do to get what they have, how do i get things figured out or have the relationship where theres joy, its disheartening. but we are all on our own journey and im sure you and i will have things turn up for the better, i wish you the best, lmk if theres anything i can do, later.
People often seem to forget that being alone and feeling alone are two separate things, being alone is nice sometimes (no people around, no social pressure, etc) but feeling alone is something that many people dread and sadly go through nonetheless. I wish you all the best and really want you to know that you are truly not alone and that, in comparison to people who suffer in silence, people see, hear and relate to your struggles. You are strong not only for persevering this difficult time in your life but also for raising your voice and letting other people see this vulnerability. We love you, you’re doing great ❤
videos like these give us a sign that we're not alone, it makes us feel seen in a sense knowing that people know how we feel and can share our pain. it's a tough path and a tough climb but you're not alone :)
I dont think i have ever felt like this in my life. It feels like there is a queue line of people waiting to hang out, and even if there wasnt, i could just find somebody like you to vibe with in 10 minutes of looking
You’re not alone and you’re not alone in feeling this way. One thing i heard about this pain really helped me. When you are a baby and you’re learning to walk. You fall and you cry and cry because that’s the worst pain you know. Now this is the new worst pain. It’s deep this hurt. But you gotta feel it. I’m about 10-11 months out from a breakup. It gets better but you still get those wave. Some hit harder than others. The hard ones stop being as frequent as time goes one.
I've never really thought about it like that but it really does make sense, this has been the worse thing for me recently, and even though i hope it stays the worse im sure there will be more hardships to come. Regardless ill keep doing my best to put the effort needed to learn what i can out of this mess. You're perspective really does help, and its awesome that you're doing better after 10-11 months time. Your encouragement is uplifting, hope you have a great one stranger, lets do our best.
I feel you buddy, you’re not alone 🤍 I have these moments of crying too. I’m reading the Bible for the first time in my life. You’re in my prayers sweetheart 🙏🏻
I know how hard it is to post something like this, it's really comforting to hear other people feel like this. Sometimes it just really hits you. The best advice I can give is to embrace it, and take it as a period of meditation and reflection (easier said than done). Everyone goes through these phases and just dont get caught in the pitfall (easier said than done)
as you said, easier said than done :). for sure i understand what you're getting at, i think ive done my best to get past the biggest pitfalls int he initial time after the breakup so its just making sure that the remaining emotions that come i continue to embrace them and do what i can to improve from them. hopefully the winter season doesn't over cook my emotions in a negative way but i'm sure ill be fine. im grateful for the advice and thanks for the appreciation and listening in to me blabber about. have a great one
you should be proud of yourself for being able to cry and feel these sorts of things, i cant explain why but ur ability to be super sad about being alone is one of the things that will help you get through it. don't worry about being alone, bc one day u will likely have the opposite problem and have too many people to see and have to neglect certain relationships. if that sounds stupid its bc it is. we always have too many around us, or we have no one at all. its so hard to be uncertain and to let ourselves be in a state of not knowing. i suggest running towards the fire. find things that you relate to whether that be songs that help you feel this shit, or poetry, or religion, or people. my first year of college i knew no one and spent so much time alone without any meaningful or fun connections. every day was empty. now things are different, and its because i chose to keep going. always try to remember that you have a connection with yourself, and that being alone happens, but won't last too long. on a practical note i suggest getting involved in some sort of program or club or anything. to be honest i have friends that went through college and made 0 friends and only talked to some classmates during class and their roommate. sometimes u just have to take it upon yourself to find people to hang out with and get close to. also! soooo many people in college feel this exact thing (did i mention i went through this exact thing 2 years ago) and you are not alone in this feeling or experience. therefore, should you go looking for other people to connect with, you will almost certainly find others going through this. feel free to cry bro, be open with yourself that you are scared or sad or angry or whatever. ur so cool for expressing what ur going through. hope u find some peace, bless u
i completely understand what you're saying, from the ability to being able to express emotion to there being an upside to all of this one day, even though there may be uncertainty. When i have time, i try to run towards the fire, find things that give meaning to my emotions and just getting out of my comfort zone generally, it helps a lot even if i dont want to do it initially. And your experience through this really does help me feel less uncertain, so many people like you and others have expressed that it does get better and tell me their personal experiences with all of it, its absolutely changed my outlook on all of this, very contrast to how i was feeling when i made the video, not to say the emotion still lingers. Im currently in a esports program so i connect with people and volunteer for events through it, its been good, and id like to do more clubs but time is a resource that i dont have a lot of atm. i do have friends but like i may have said in the video it can be hard to relate to them in some ways emotionally, but that shouldnt have more stop trying to get closer, cus you never know where those friendships lead to. Ill keep expressing my emotions and luckily a lot of the negative has faded away with how many people have wanted to connect with me on this topic, its been honestly overwhelming, but i enjoy responding and talking with everyone, it gives me a good purpose in that i can help others too. ill keep trying to find my peace in all of this, bless you.
It's those moments when you are truly left alone with your thoughts that you find out about yourself. Real scary shit, trying to figure out how to name them or confronting how to get better at dealing with them. Not to mention how that deals with relationships and friendships. Still gonna be there after you work through it but at least you can understand it better. journaling is nice (cringe but just putting something out helps)
this might sound weird but to me its so comforting to see how even the ppl from across the world feel the same things, has the same worries as me. really makes me realize how it's human nature to feel these things
lately, I've been seeing many of us feeling this way. It's nice to see that we aren't alone in this type of state and train of thought about life and where we currently are, and that there are others out there feeling the same way. we just completely feel isolated, alone, and out of place. we just reminisce about the past when we had company here and there, friends, or close families. sometimes, it's nice to be alone until a certain point in life, like now... where we don't want to be alone anymore. we want someone to talk to, to connect with, to share our days with companions, partners, or simply a family member. It's tough but we just gotta work on things slowly, we are all somewhere, confused about things. and that's fine... it's our first time being somewhere like this, at this age. I understand how you feel, we all understand each other in some way. but besides all that, I hope we all will stop feeling alone and have what we desire soon within a person or a passion. be safe and kind to yourself until then. we are all trying to live and be something in life.
i just got this in my recommended too and also ive never seen a comment section where every one is ranting about the same struggle and the fact that this came out yesterday and its over 100 comments. ive been feeling lonely too recently. but the fact that i actually have tried to be social since the summer is the thing that makes me feel more lonely and lowkey sad because I cant seem to find people that are like me lol
i totally get what you're saying, I've been socially awkward all my life and always felt lonely, but now that I'm trying harder i feel even more lonely, and even if i have friends, they have closer friends so i always feel out of place
I’ve been having the same thoughts lately. Like I’ve never felt true loneliness till now and it’s such a dark feeling and realization. Went through a breakup with my partner of 7 years. And before that I had friends and roommates. Now I’m living in a city I’ve never lived in and building connections very hard. Trying to accept it and move through it ❤
Thank you for sharing I’ve been going through the same it’s hard when it just hits after tolerating and ignoring it for so long. It sucks a lot but I learned it’s a part of adulthood and finding your place. It’s not talked about enough. Just know it’s temporary time in your life and soon you’ll look back and be surprised how far you came and how much you’ve grown!
i agree to the fullest, its funny how every year you look back and think last year you were so immature or goofy and the same the year before. I'm sure in a years time ill say the same thing about myself now, and im looking forward to that time. Adulthood is scary and im barely starting, but im sure ill find my place, i got my whole life ahead of me after all.
I feel you. Just gotta keep moving forward and keep your head high! Be open to connection and you will find your people. It may take time but we are social creatures :)
I’m in a similar situation, this summer I graduated highschool, my ex girlfriend broke up with me and my few best friends left me behind, I remember a few days after my break up I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder 2 and an eating disorder. After that day I hated everything in my head, leading up to my graduation I would always go to one of my teachers that I got close with, because he grew up with my older brother and I felt a real connection with him. I remember every I would go to his classroom after school hours and I would burst in tears. He had told me once that, if your alone it is necessary for you to build lore. Because if your happy all the time you’ll become stagnant. You realize the older you get the less time you’ll have alone because eventually you’ll get married and have kids. But I think we’ve all met those types of people who sit around do nothing and have no lore. We’ve all been told that time heals and that life gets better with time, and though that is true, its only true for those try to move forward and try to be better. Because some people actually let things effect them for their whole life. And just figure out your purpose. Ever since my situation I’ve just been focused on my purpose which is fashion and music, and even though sometimes I feel like I won’t find another person to love and to spend the majority of my time with or even another friend I can call my brother. As long as I have my purpose I’ll forever be in love with that. I’ve recently kinda of gave on love in a way, but I just just realized it’ll never work up for me because I’m no good enough but that’s fine because instead of worrying about something you can’t control you go and worry about what you can control, and you should always go and put that energy into build up something for yourself, and just enjoy everything as if it’s your last because it’s so rare that we’re alive. Go outside, go watch the river, travel, get that tattoo, try new foods, go meet new people. We’re so full of life to be so stuck. And remember don’t be obsessive on anything because it eventually it takes over you like a drug
going through the same exact shit man. Still haven't made a deep connection w anyone throughout college yet and it's been three years. Still have never had a gf either, I might just be destined to stay alone but all we can do is push through. Just keep your head up and know you aren't alone 💯
I say the exact same to you, keep your head up through the hardship your going through, you arent alone in this either. you seem like a great guy, someone will come along whether it be a friend or a partner in which you want feel the feeling of bieng alone, i dont think anyone is destined to be alone. I really hope the best for you man, and thank you for your inspiration and encouragment, if theres anything i can do to help just hmu on socials, keep going brotha.
I met my girlfriend about a year ago. We spent so much time together almost every second of free time we had it was together. She was my first love and my best friend. Until we broke up. And Ive never felt so lonely and so sad right afterwards. Heartbroken. It hurts a lot. Its been about 2 months and im still sad about it from time to time but thibgs have gotten better. It didnt feel like it for a while but I know things will get better for you too. You have taken the first and hardest step which is acknowledging your feelings. It takes a lot of courage to do that and to open up about it. You're not alone. ❤
Your video popped up on my feed and I'm so sorry for what you're going through. Loneliness is one of the hardest emotions to handle. The connection we have with others is so important and I just want you to know you're not alone! It's not emo or cringy at all; it's really good that you're talking about it!🫂🤗Sending you hugs!!
These nights will change you as a young guy. It was my sophomore year of college, and it was like my 1,000th time dragging myself to the cafeteria to sit at a huge table and eat chicken tenders, and fries.. Alone. It just hit me all at once and I couldn't stop myself from crying. The feeling is unexplainable.
at this point really i know how much pain it is to be alone and isolated eventhough it is hard to live but i understood that this is life itself ,the definition of life being unfair some are born to never feel alone and some are forced to experience this heart tearing isolation , and try to live with it until it evetually stops , the important part of it however is being hopeful and never loose sight of a better future this is what keeps us alive as humans, if all hope is gone, people unfortunately end it all thinking this will never change while you have no idea over your future no one know what is going to happen next , what is the next beautiful soul you might meet tomorrow in a week in months or years ,just keep your head up and learn to rise again , find solas in simple things , improve and really love yourself ❤, you are not alone .
the most certain thing out of this uncertainty is that YOU ARE LOVED. You are cherished, you are dear, you are WORTHY. The strongest of characters go through the toughest of times to get the thickest of skin so that in the future when they find the love of their life they are able to appreciate the love and reciprocate it x infinite
i feel the same way. I lost everything and everyone in a snap and i struggle to wake up everyday and just do what im supposed to do. i tried to take therapy and painkillers, but i still feel like im stuck, still crying silently in bathroom stalls mid-classes and in the middle of the night. its been such a tough year, and ive been feeling hopeless. its kinda hard to brush off the feeling that im unlovable and not worth anyone’s time, because in the back of my mind the people that i have loved from the bottom of my heart has chosen to not talk to me or stay in my life as a conscious choice. however im still here and im wondering what else i have to fulfill in this world, and the uncertainty kind of keeps me grounded, albeit wanting to disappear everyday. i hope we can all make it out of here one day.
It hurts seeing you cry :( 💔 I can't tell you enough how much I relate to you. I've been alone for about 4 years now due to being in online school, and am still lonely, so I've never had the chance to make any friends growing up, basically having no social life. At first I thought I could accept it, but later it hit me hard as I realized how lonely I am, and all my emotions start coming out in unstoppable tears. I felt so pathetic for feeling lonely, but I didn't realize how common it was. Having no one to talk to is really tough, I wouldn't wish it on anyone. I've been told that when I start getting a job and start going out more for whatever necessary reason, I'll meet someone, which I really hope to be true. I really hope you know that even though you may be alone, it won't last forever. I promise things will get better for you. You're strong for going through being lonely, it's truly a sad thing to experience. I hope you live happily and won't have to experience being lonely. I love you ❤❤
Same I did online all throughout high school so now everyone has friends and I’ve lost all of mine. It’s tough but we’ll make it through this and it won’t last forever.
i agree, you, i, and everyone else who experience it dont deserve it. im sorry your feeling down from the video and that the similar situation your going through gets much better, as everyone else says, it gets better with time, and its not the same for evveryone so dont rush the feelings like i did, just embrace. I hope things get better for you too, if you ever need to pm me or talk more just hmu on the socials, i wish you the best in your tough journey, over and out.
Gadamit maaan u break my heart a little bit ... even though i'm guy ! I wish if i was brave like you and be vulnerable like this! U are so amazing and u seems a good guy ... And I hope this tremendous sadness goes away soon u deserve better !
Thank you for the video bro i really appreciate it. I feel just like you. Although I know i am trying to do better, when i dont have any close friends everything is more stressful. I am always in my head and i break down crying randomly. It is so hard to focus. It's my first time being so lonely, and i feel like a total disappointment. Especially bc in uni everybody says how networking is so important and such. In my floor all the girls are hanging out together and friendly with each other and i feel like an alien. And i cant keep having hope that it will get better because my social skills are rotting. It feels so void and meaningless. I dont explicitly tell my family that i have no friends but i know that they might have realized it, i dont wanna make them sad and stressed about me. Thank you so much again, you seem like a honestly great person. Wishing that it will get better for all of us and let's all try to change this 💪
I have been alone in all 6 years of my senior school. It was HARD too hard and i didn't had anyone to tell how lonely I was. I was too depressed but no one really understood me. I am in college now although I don't really have that friends with whom I can share anything but still I have one or 2 people I talk to in college from time to time. And you know what after being really lonely for too many years I don't even mind being alone now or not having friends. Its almost like I have become accustomed to being alone which I think is not really healthy but that's what it is now but it still hurts sometimes. Its really comforting to see that people here relate to this. More power to y'all!!
Loneliness comes and goes. Its something we all experience pertaining our circumstances or situations we are in. Its okay to feel lonely at times and its completely okay to talk it out with anyone . Maybe talking to a counselor in college is good that has helped me get through some things in college too. I had feelings of isolation and sadness of not having any close friends as I use to when I was younger or relationships I had with people. I kinda just came to the realisation that people do just come and go sometimes but the right people will stay with you through hardships. Even if you have not found those people they will come to you. Just keep your mind and eyes open :)
i can relate and so many other people in these comments do man. you might feel alone in the sense that you have nobody around you right now as it isnt a physical presence you can see, but youre not alone entirely regarding your situation - tons of people are going through the same thing. even just people that you walk past by in your day-to-day life are likely struggling with internal and/or external issues. you are never truly alone and your existence as a sole person makes a difference. i believe it shows here in this video, your comment section proves it - as much as a bunch of internet faces may not have much worth to you, they are people who relate with you and can share their experiences in their comment because of you. it can get lonely and it will feel lonely as you grow older, but there is always room for more people being welcomed in your life no matter where they came from. in general, life has a bunch of uncertainties, and you have a bunch of decisions to make based upon those. its not always the most fun to deal with, but it is the process of life and having responsibility. you are also not alone in this, tons of people are unsure where their future lies, whether it be confusion for what career they want to go into or other little details of what makes up their complex life. it can be terrifying to have the whole future solely lie in your hands, especially when dealing with these big feelings of not knowing what to do in the world. your mind will change a lot, youll be unsure about your decisions and if you shouldve done something, everyone has had those moments. in the end of things, just try to make the most of what you have everyday, because everyday you are creating your future. today is different from yesterday, therefore its the future. do what you enjoy. being disconnected from family and friends is certainly not easy and you are doing well throughout that hardship. the social detachment can be very difficult since what you knew before was social connection and personal, physical bonds. not having consistent relationships/friendships can be disheartening sometimes when you want interaction in an also consistent manner. things related to social life will come in waves like you said, there will be good and bad experiences, arguments and so on and so forth. but you are not permanently alone, there is relatability and connection everywhere. there is so many people in the world, you will meet more people eventually who can surround you during these lonely times when you feel far away from family and everybody you knew. like you said, you will see your family during thanksgiving/christmas which sounds fun, i hope you have a great time - but please remember, do cherish those times instead of focusing on the negativity that you will have to go back and experience the distance once again. jeffie, you are a very strong person for being able to withstand these experiences, for they are not easy. but this like any other time, is just a period of time in your life or a phase i guess you could say. there will be new seasons that come along and you will experience new things. i wish the best for you, and im glad i found this video.
we're all connected + One, i'm 26 and feel you on so many levels!!! you don't have to *do* anything other than just let yourself exist, human BEING vs human doing. all that matters is love... you sound very intelligent, logical, and well spoken through the emotions, you're seeing through the illusions while so many people are stuck in them still. it'll all be okay in the end, if it's not ok then it's not the end.. sending u so much love!!!! also ur not a mess, ur just a human doing ur best
I'm in and out around this feeling all my life, but the one thing I can tell you - it's like a spiritual experience, and Imo leads to a great self-realisation or significant changes. GL
Its tough fr man. Im 22 and with work and gym i feel like i dont really have time to make friends and find ppl to talk to. I feel alone almost everyday but i try to look at it like this is just a rough moment and that it will be over eventually and the sun will shine brighter after. Loving the videos man i think you should keep making these or even upload gaming or gym progress as a way to escape these thoughts. Imo its not unhealthy to think about these moments but i think its unhealthy if u let it drown you and i think these videos are helping u combat this. Hope to see more content in the future whether its this or gaming or even gym stuff!
I get what you mean it’s not easy feeling like you don’t have anyone close that you can truly open up to or look forward to seeing every day, my break up was pretty recent and it was out of nowhere she kinda gave me hope for the next day to come but now we gotta find more hope in ourselves I hate feeling alone so much
yea man thats super tough, i feel exactly how you are feeling, i hate being alone, especially when there was someone more significant to my life in the recent past, it does create a void in a way. she dumped me out of the blue and it left me broken and in shambles, and trying to find more hope in myself is a battle everyday, but it is getting better. if you need to talk more im here for you. im sorry you had to experience that, no one deserves it.
same my dad never cried so i thought i had to keep it in he said men are supposed to be strong but he doesnt understand what this whole generation is going through
im definitely feeling this right now. i live 700 miles away from parents, i dont have friends other than my roommates, stopped talking to my online ones, and everyday feels tough socially. especially since i love raving and just recently traveled out of state with a group of strangers and found myself becoming so depressed afterwards because i got a taste of what having a fun friend group is like again. i never thought i'd miss high school because i actually had friends by my side. the only thing keeping me going is knowing it will get better again someday. seeing that other people go through the same does bring some type of comfort, however sad it may be :(
im sorry you relate to the lonliness, being away from parents and family in general is hard, i completely understand that and i wish i was with my family right now too. ive defintely had a part in that fact ive lost connections with a lot of my online friends, and in general just not doing better keeping up with those around me has done its part in making me feel socially isolated in my own way, even though i know im not alone it still feels like i am frequently sometimes when i go about my day. youre not alone in the feeling, and i am here for you if you need to talk more. Raving sounds like a lot of fun and im glad you get to have a good time when you experience it, i hope it gets better for you soon and that you'll find a fun friend group again :)
I’ve been feeling that way since the last 9 month and on some days it does hit a lot harder than others. I’m still not sure what’s the right way to cope with this feeling or what to do about it.. I’m not really sure of anything honestly. I just hold on to the hope that things will get better eventually know that It’s ok to cry and that your feelings are valid. keep your head up 🤍
Dude I feel you on every point in this video. That lost in limbo feeling is something I’ve been feeling for a couple of years. I hope you feel better and find people that appreciate you man. We never know when something amazing is around the corner, the best thing we can do is do what’s best for ourselves and keep moving. You ain’t alone bro as long as you’re still doing good things for yourself (school and gym) you’re gonna be in a better place than you were before. Good luck homie I hope you get outta this slump.
i got you and sometimes even if i have people around me i feel the loneliness and back the days i was struggling with depression. sometimes feel like im the loneliest and everyone is keep going and im the one in the darkness but its our journey right ? hope that we will make it trough❤
I love how this pops up to me when I'm feeling the same. Thank you for this video. I love how you put in an effort to talk about it. Many of us don't. It feels so shitty to an extent that it's hard to carry on with life. Sending love, Take care🥺💗 It will all be better one day
i've dealt with crushing loneliness for the last year, even with having really supportive friends. i even find myself talking to myself a lot to make sense of my feelings like you do here. i can't even count how many nights i've had like yours here, and i made it through all of them. you are not alone and you are strong enough to get through it. wishing you the best.
You are loved! Even though you're alone you are still loved. Things don't last forever and that includes hard feelings. Keep your head high and remember you're always loved (and love yourself too)
Usually never comment but just wanted to say I realliy appreciate you being emotionally vulnerable for all see. In a similar boat; uncertain about how to navigate moving forward alone despite having a wonderful supporrt system of family and friends I can reach out to. Similarly I've recently recognized it's okay and healthy to let yourself feel your intense emotions (sadness, anxiety etc.) because were humans and not robots. Time is supposed to heal all wounds but some days are going to be harder than the last and you'll struggle and that's totally fine. Cheers
Time does heal all wounds, there may be scars, but they're healed, and it will get better, i totally agree. Only very recently ive recognized the importance of letting myself feel emotions, its always something ive either never experienced or neglected, so im proud that you're realized recently too. I really hope you can get through all the uncertainty, im sure your family and friends all want to be there for you, its okay to be uncertain, many people and the world go through life that way, and its okay. let me know if theres anything i can do for you, and thank you for being vulnerable with me as well, you're a great person. be kind and take care of yourself.
I know this sounds cliche to say, but you're not alone. I'm a couple years out of university now and realizing just how far behind i feel in comparison to others my age, and in the past year I've really began to reflect and reconsider all the things i thought i wanted to do in life, which sometimes makes me feel so aimless and lost. Some of my hardest times mentally were during my last couple years of college, so I definitely understand that feeling of lonliness and hopelessness. Since then I've found that SO many people experience these same thoughts and feellings during this time of their lives, and I think these rough times are just another part of our growing process as we figure ourselves out and what we want to do with our lives. Ironically when we feel most alone there's usually hundreds of thousands of others out there feeling the same way we do. Jeez i didn't mean to ramble so much, but this video just touched a soft spot for me. Also big kudos to you for having the courage to post a video being so vulnerable and real. There's too many guys out there who don't realize how common these feelings are and that it's totally okay and healthy to let it out when you need to. I'm sure just by posting this you've helped a lot of other people in ways you don't even realize. There's more i could say but I don't want to leave an entire essay in your comment section lol. But keep pushing through this hard time, I promise things get better. They always do. Best wishes and positive thoughts towards you 🫶
This video comforted me a little, even though it is a sensitive subject, I felt welcomed by the fact that I often have this same feeling knowing that I'm not alone in this feeling, even though I'm alone, is comforting Thank you for sharing your feelings.take care, I hope you get well.
Actually you are pretty strong to be able to express your views i feel the same all the time and i just don't say anything to anyone and just stay smiling like everything is okay
I remember when I was around 19-22 I felt this way, you go from having people in your life to having no one and that reality sucks. What I learned is that we create our own reality so we have to decide what we do next when we wake up. A lot of things help such as signing up to a salsa course, meeting 1 person every week at the gym (and having a genuine conversation with them), approaching people on the streets etc and at some point you'll realize that most people are just lonely social people and that its gonna be okay. God bless brotha, you're doing great!
Remember that this life is temporary, it can be stressful to meet strangers (and I know it was for me) but at the end, we have 1 life so enjoy the ride my brotha and take risks that would have scared the younger you
hey just wanted to say that I understand that feeling and what you’re going through, this brought me back to when I was in high school, I would feel so uncertain about my future and so tired of being / feeling alone but please know that you’re not alone and little by little, you’ll get through this🫶 sending you lots of strength
I’m in the exact same situation bro it feels like everyday is harder than the last and I feel more lonely than ever. just cried when I got home from the gym and your video came up on my feed as I was wiping the tears. You’re definitely not alone man we’re in this together
I can understand how you feel, this overwhelming uncertainty and strange dark feelings... I gave up college few months ago cause i was living in a big city and depression hit me so hard i had to come back to my family's house. Just like you i grew up in a Christian house, but I feel distant and unable to go back to spiritual disciplines. I just want to say youre not alone, we're all figure it out at some point i guess, sending you happiness and blessings from the bottom of heart ❤
thank u for sharing this, ive been feeling the same thing the past few weeks and have been crying my eyes every night whenever i get back home and its such a weird feeling. I related to everything u said, from companionship to religion, how to navigate lonliness the next day, the uncertainty or having a real connection with someone close to u. i jus sih i could give u a hug and also myself cause yea i jus felt every word u said and i truly appriciate u being open about it cause alot of people feel the same way but not everyone is welling or is good at opening up and expressing how they feel. I d love to connect with you and learn how to navigate this from each other!
for sure, a hug would do absolute wonder right now but cant do that through a screen :(. i dont know if you need to hear this buts its completely okay to cry, in fact, i encourage it, after my breakup, i cried every night, for hours, for about a month, and thats okay, although at the time i was ashamed of being broken and expressing it that way, in hindsight, it was a great thing so although it may be crappy, keep crying until you dont feel the need to anymore. its dreadful that you feel alone too, but funny enough, you and i arent alone in this feeling, and hopefully you can take comfort in that as i've recently been able too. Im happy i was able to share my feelings and be vulnerable to you, although in a way its a little tragic, im glad ive been able to be something you can relate too even if its not in a positive energy type of way. thank you for sharing what you've shared, and if you want to talk i have my insta: jeffie.ming and other socials if you prefer them if you need to talk, im here.
@@jeffiealt Thank you so much for your kindness and openness-it really means a lot. It’s comforting to know I’m not alone, and I appreciate your support. and id love to connect, ill def add u on insta :))! i hope we both learn to navigate and get thru this stronger on the other side with a bit of grace
If I could give you a hug man I would. I may just be a stranger, but your not alone dude, I hear you. Your here and you're invaluable. I hope you have a long and happy life.
Brotha I’m 31 and have recently began to feel that way. People will assume I’m in a great spot but it bothers me more than I care to admit. Don’t be like me. I vented to my supervisors at work and felt weak. They were pretty understanding but it’s a pretty hard thing to open up about. Psychedelics are the answer but it isn’t a “smooth” journey. It will lead you to the version of you, you’re waiting for.
had a breakdown today and this vid showed up on the right time. i hope we all will be well rested enough to start moving again, slow yet unsteady but we are still going somewhere. take care over there
bro I know how u feel 100% I feel alone all the time I have no irl friends outside my family and I play with friends online but its not the same dude if u ever need anyone to talk to or just remember that guy from youtube stay strong bro I mean I could use someone to talk to and never feel embarrassed about how u feel and never hold it in trust me it just makes u depressed and even angry when u hold stuff like this in I know all too well nobody goes through this life unscathed we all gonna feel some sorta way and go through shit and sometimes its a massive kick to the balls but i'm learning u gotta hang on till that one door opens and the stuff u been feeling doesn't feel so bad anymore God is there bro we gotta wait for him to open that door tell him what ur feeling tell him the things u want to do talk to him about ur troubles talk to him like he's there with u love u bro
I have also felt this pretty strongly this past year. I went through a break up over a 1.5 year long relationship. It sucks, but the freedom really gives you time to reflect. I had to find what was important and it wasn’t easy. It isn’t easy. I don’t know about you but I have a whole lot of issues I have to figure out. If you start framing this season of your life as a challenging time that shows you things about yourself that you never knew, it helps the feelings get a little better. More than anything though, rest, enjoy some new hobbies, take some long walks, listen to new music and read some books. I found that these kind of experiences were/are very cathartic for me. I wish you the best of luck man. It really does feel like “luck” is what we need when we feel like this. Really focus on changing the way you see things. It isn’t easy, but it’s not all that bad. “Count your blessings” as they say.
Proud of you! Sharing something so raw and real, takes guts. This is such a genuine thing. Maybe see if you can find local volunteering opportunities or use an event finder/ local community calendar to find events near you, and schedule to do something new every week. Also don't be afraid to befriend older people, it's a great chance to get different perspectives and they also tend to be great at connecting people. I think it is inevitable struggle for our generation because of a combination of factors (Panera, growing up chronically online, glamourization of hyper-individualism) ~ but I guess the silver-lining is we will value friendship more when we find good ones. Cheering for you as someone figuring it out too. PS. I think people here would also be very open to a discord community, if that would be of some start too
Hi Jeffie, Thank you for sharing your feelings with us and showing your vulnerabilities. That takes a lot of courage. I deeply relate to what you said on many levels. My teenage years and twenties felt like hitting rock bottom over and over again, and the world didn’t seem to care how miserably unlucky one person could get. Maintaining relationships is difficult, especially when other aspects of your life aren’t going well-and even more so if you were taught as a child that showing vulnerability is shameful or a sign of weakness. I often wandered without a place to call home. And whenever I thought I’d finally found one, the relationship somehow turned toxic. Over time, I started believing that someone like me, coming from a broken background, doesn’t deserve a home. No matter how hard I tried, I thought I’d end up ruining it-or that I would only attract other broken people and inevitably turn the relationship toxic. As time went on, I grew numb to the void and pain, and I started romanticizing the idea that loneliness and death are inextricably intertwined with life. It’s been a journey of discovering who I really am. The truth is, nature is inherently brutal. Aging, diseases, and accidents happen, and they can take away everything we have. That’s why we built civilization, which can act as a comforting safety net if you’re lucky enough to live in one of those countries. But if we are truly left alone in the world-which will likely happen eventually if you live long enough without children-we have to save ourselves and rebuild that safety net from the ground up. You have to find new meaning and a new purpose, even if that feels pointless right now. This is easier said than done when you’re still grieving the loss of loved ones. But the world is for the living. You either die or adapt. When you are truly alone, no one will save you. No one will know you are suffering. You have to save yourself. Sharing your sadness on UA-cam might be one way for you to achieve that, and I deeply respect that. It’s a commendable move.
Big ass 20 second bro hug your way dude. You’re gonna be good. Been right where you’re at, and trust me man, it gets better. It’s times like this for me that help me realize the importance of the times that I struggled because it made me a better, more rounded person that also has the ability to empathize and help others. You got this bro… you got this. Peace
sending you lots of hugs, your ability to comprehend and put to words how you feel shows the depth you are capable of and you will meet like minded people who will understand you in a way you are capable of understanding and connecting with others, you are doing great truly
thank you for the hugs and encouragement, im glad people can see and relate to what i was feeling, even if i wasn't able to articulate it in the best im still happy it reached those who need it. ill keep doing what i can everyday, again thank you, you're also doing great
Just cried two days in a row by myself cus I feel the same way as you do. Even with a roommate I can’t seem to connect with her and I feel so alone. But I know we can get through this feeling, we just have to sit with the feeling I guess. I miss my family so much, and they’re in a different country.
Wow, I really resonate with what you're going through, especially with the faith aspect. It’s so true that God is with us, but even He acknowledged with Adam that it’s not good for us to be alone. Loneliness can feel so raw, it’s in those quiet moments that we really notice how much we crave connection, whether it’s with family, friends, or even just the small interactions that remind us we’re not invisible. Honestly, I don’t have a perfect answer for it either, but I’m learning that being patient and open to God's timing for relationships helps, maybe joining youth groups too. This also comes from someone who wishes she was more religious, recently it feels like I take whatever i have left in my just to pick up the bible. Being a believer is work too, sometimes it drains you, sometimes you wonder when your season of loneliness ends because it feels like pure agony. That feeling of not just wanting people around, but wanting to feel like you understand each other, or having people you think of when you think of happiness, even if you're different in your own ways. Your honesty really touched me and I really want to cry with you! If it comforts you even just a little bit, I just wanted you to know that youre not alone in this. With the amount of people who relate, maybe it's a cannon event or something, as in, it's an essential part of growth. Maybe there are things you can only learn when you're alone, maybe being alone with yourself is the best time to learn about yourself. Either way, while we as watchers don't 100% know you on a really personal level, we do want to be there and make you feel seen. We're like "alone together" if that makes any senss at all💀💀💀 But keep your head up, you are just like the sun, you do dip below the horizon, it definitely happens, but no matter how long you're below the horizon, you'll rise up again for real!! You're not alone in this big bro! God bless❤
I can relate. I'm so flicking lonely nowadays, I do work but I never click with people and I'm feeling there's something wrong with me. And going to gym and seeing people laughing and feeling themselves makes me sob, I wanna be like them, I feel like I will never find my "people" and already I'm stressing about wedding, 'cause I have no one to invite r ask to be my bridemade. I have times I isolate myself, and feel guilty about that and then talking about being lonely wolf, but my mental health just sucks. And fact I'm just trying my best but nothing is enough, nowadays I'm just thinking is it because I'm not pretty like other girls etc.
Earlier this year, I actually planned to join church activities even tho I'm not even THAT religious, just to have like people around me, family don't call me much and I'm just so lonely and alone.
It makes me sad that so many of us feel like that.
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John 3:16
"For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life".
2 Corinthians 1:3-5
Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God. For as we share abundantly in Christ’s sufferings, so through Christ we share abundantly in comfort too.
John 15:13
13 Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.
Hello Sir, if you ever feel emotional distress or broken. Just know that there is a timeless perfect being that sacrificed Himself out of His love for you and the sins that humanity has committed against Him. He always will love you but sin is evil and should be hated. Because He hates people who commit evil. For love is a multi facited concept. You don't love your mother the same as your wife. In the the same way God loves unbelievers differently that His children that love and believe in Him. But it is also true that there are people that truely hate God so they will be treated as enemies since they are enemies.
Hope for Wicked People
Yet there is hope for the wicked, which is to say, there is hope for all of us. “Therefore, as one trespass led to condemnation for all men, so one act of righteousness leads to justification and life for all men. For as by the one man’s disobedience the many were made sinners, so by the one man’s obedience the many will be made righteous” (Romans 5:18-19).
www.challies.com/what-god-hates/god-hates-wicked-people/
John 3:16
"For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life".
2 Corinthians 1:3-5
Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God. For as we share abundantly in Christ’s sufferings, so through Christ we share abundantly in comfort too.
John 15:13
13 Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.
Hello Sir, if you ever feel emotional distress or broken. Just know that there is a timeless perfect being that sacrificed Himself out of His love for you and the sins that humanity has committed against Him. He always will love you but sin is evil and should be hated. Because He hates people who commit evil. For love is a multi facited concept. You don't love your mother the same as your wife. In the the same way God loves unbelievers differently that His children that love and believe in Him. But it is also true that there are people that truely hate God so they will be treated as enemies since they are enemies.
Hope for Wicked People
Yet there is hope for the wicked, which is to say, there is hope for all of us. “Therefore, as one trespass led to condemnation for all men, so one act of righteousness leads to justification and life for all men. For as by the one man’s disobedience the many were made sinners, so by the one man’s obedience the many will be made righteous” (Romans 5:18-19).
www.challies.com/what-god-hates/god-hates-wicked-people/
Salvation is being saved or rescued from the penalty of separation from God. To be saved from your sin, take these three steps: Ask forgiveness for your sins; be willing to turn from your sins; and believe that Jesus Christ-our Lord and Savior-died for your sins and rose again.
goingfarther.net/basics-of-christianity/salvation/
I feel VERY alone and isolated too.
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that's crazy cause u got, millions of followers, it just proves social media dosen't full fills us
Vamos ser amigos!
Bros everywhere even on a 17k video
You're a beautiful soul who made one of the most iconic songs of all time about a difficult topic. You are important. You are loved. You're not alone in your suffering even though it feels like it a lot of the time. I'm happy you exist, keep fighting Tay!
i’m in a really similar position where i feel extremely alone and i can’t really find a place where i belong so i understand how you feel but you’re doing really well by trying your best to keep up with college and gym, it may not feel like a lot but it’s more than enough, please keep pushing through and i’m more than happy to keep talking about this with you :)
im sorry you relate to me in that way, being alone sucks and im also struggling to find belonging where i am and as a person. im trying to do what i can everyday regarding my academics and gym but i always have the lingering feeling that its never enough, even though ik its good what im doing i dont want to be complacent as i once was before all of this, but your words do comfort me in what effort ive been trying to put in. Its horrible that your in the position youre in, and i really do hope better for you as well, youll be in my prayers, im also here for you too, if theres anything you want to talk about in depth my insta is @jeffie.ming . I hope you're doing well even through this rough time, keep being strong, later stranger.
hey just wanted to thank you for this comment.
I've been juggling my days with my personal business/finances, college, gym and work altogether
it gets so hard and lonely sometimes because i live in a small town/neighbourhood and it feels like nobody around me thinks the same way
the way you kept saying "I don't know" hit me so hard. Every time i feel like this I immediately just go "I don't know" repeatedly to myself. I just want to be in a state of nothingness. I don't want to feel sad, angry, frustrated -- I want to feel nothing. The "I don't know" 's is the closest thing for me to that state. Head up king, its all up from here.
I have that too
I have the same thing. But does this indicate the absurdity of life?
you absolutely do not want to feel nothing, you think that would be some momentary catharsis and it is, until you realise the endgame of depression is not utter despair, it's numbness, the absence of much meaningful emotion at all. it is very painful to be apathetic to things around you, and once you feel are trapped in that state of nothingness, you will realise it is nothing to aspire to - you could get married, and feel nothing, get that promotion and feel nothing, watch a great show for the first time and be able to recognise it's great, but feel nothing about it. keep feeling, be angry, lonely, overwhelmed, and it will feel all the much better when it's good again.
Meditation is that feeling but in a good way
I don't know either... life is a mystery.
dude this video breaks my heart, i catch myself feeling the same way far too often. we all need to be kinder to ourselves and i hope life shines brighter for you soon :/
absolutely, if everyone treated themselves the way they deserve to be treated, the world be a significantly better place. sometimes its just so hard to tho, ive found its hard for me to truly forgive others especially when severe wrong-occurs and ive never really fixed that from my childhood and its seeped into my late teenager years like it is now. compared to that, its even more difficult for me to forgive myself for certain actions too, i get so hung up on things i do after the fact and then i become ashamed for feeling that way in the first place and it just becomes a loop of negative energy. that being said, im still striving to work on that, because im self aware of it but im also trying to keep myself accountable for my actions so its a little awkward for me at the moment. im sure the ill reach the light at the end of the tunnel soon enough, thank for the encouragement and wishes, have a great one.
@@jeffiealt bible?
@@jeffiealtmy god all of this , literal ALL of what you said is myself too , I can’t forgive so many people that I deal with so many years and they are so many, or my parents who have done things I consider unacceptable to me , I can’t keep up with this , I should forgive all of them for heal myself from their actions but we should never forgot what they did to us , if people around understand one day that everyone , everyday fight a hell inside them , a fight no one know and treat other with respect and dignity , that would be the moment humanity would evolve
@@jeffiealtI hope so much you will heal soon as I hope to myself too brother 🥺
I feel so seen.
You’re crying and I wanna cry with you but instead I can’t help but softly smile. The fact that I’m not the only one feeling as lonely as I do is so comforting.
It’s reassuring to know that you are going through the same exact thing I am too. There’s something so authentic and unfiltered about this video that I just wish I could reciprocate and converse back.
I’ve been living alone for the past 2 years of college so far, I’ve never dated anyone, my family is on a different continent than the one I chose to go study at. I only ever leave my apartment to go to class or the library. I have no one to feel excited to meet up with despite having friends, I’m not truly myself with anyone here.
I feel you. I wish I could reach out to you through the screen, I really do.
And on top of that basically all my friends have boyfriends, live with their families… It truly felt like I’ve been the only one feeling so lonely up until UA-cam recommended me your video.
I feel you bro, I'm in a pretty similar situation myself
Join a club or social group that is unrelated to academics and try your best to make friends there. It might not be easy and it might take a while but realize that you need to put in effort to form deep social connections. You aren't going to be given them out of thin air.
As a senior college student myself, the best thing I can give you is to do the things you KNOW in your heart are good for you. Try doing anything and everything that you have heard to benefit people; mediate, read books (If your interested in Christian books, I would recommend Mere Christianity by CS Lewis. Great book), workout (you already do), sleep schedule, morning walks, journaling (tried it, actually does help. Slows down your thoughts and helps you process things).
The first year of college was pretty bleak for myself too. No friends, no partner, and it could get really hard to be motivated to keep going. Just know that if you do the right things, good things will happen to you. Talk to professors, other people in your class you think are cool. Ask people to go out for coffee. Chill in the library and people-watch. Don't just go to class and go home, go somewhere, anywhere where people are. Good luck to ya
Yea ive trying to do things that benefit me, eating healthier (with some cheat days), gyming when im not sick, walking, listening to music, being around people through school or other means, all of which help with tough times. Ill keep doing what i think is good for me and im sure things will look up like they are now with this whole yt journaling reaching so many people, including you. I will do my best to get out of my comfort zone and socialize more when i can. Thanks for the advice, it really means a lot. Have a great one, and i hope you have a great final year in college :)
I Literally Love Your Message. That Kind Of Articulate Heart Felt Sharing Is A Blessing.
Like Nietzsche says Christianity tends to attack people when they´re at their weakest...
Lifes too short gang keep your head up and remember that sometimes is better being alone than in a toxic environment/situationship. Keep smiling stay happy ! ! !
your right on the dot with that. doing my best gangy, life is too short to worry too much, and being alone is way better than being in something toxic or harmful for both parties. Ill keep smiling and happy as long as you do! have a great one
@@jeffiealtJohn 3:16
"For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life".
2 Corinthians 1:3-5
Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God. For as we share abundantly in Christ’s sufferings, so through Christ we share abundantly in comfort too.
John 15:13
13 Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.
Hello Sir, if you ever feel emotional distress or broken. Just know that there is a timeless perfect being that sacrificed Himself out of His love for you and the sins that humanity has committed against Him. He always will love you but sin is evil and should be hated. Because He hates people who commit evil. For love is a multi facited concept. You don't love your mother the same as your wife. In the the same way God loves unbelievers differently that His children that love and believe in Him. But it is also true that there are people that truely hate God so they will be treated as enemies since they are enemies.
Hope for Wicked People
Yet there is hope for the wicked, which is to say, there is hope for all of us. “Therefore, as one trespass led to condemnation for all men, so one act of righteousness leads to justification and life for all men. For as by the one man’s disobedience the many were made sinners, so by the one man’s obedience the many will be made righteous” (Romans 5:18-19).
www.challies.com/what-god-hates/god-hates-wicked-people/
@@jeffiealtJohn 3:16
"For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life".
2 Corinthians 1:3-5
Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God. For as we share abundantly in Christ’s sufferings, so through Christ we share abundantly in comfort too.
John 15:13
13 Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.
Hello Sir, if you ever feel emotional distress or broken. Just know that there is a timeless perfect being that sacrificed Himself out of His love for you and the sins that humanity has committed against Him. He always will love you but sin is evil and should be hated. Because He hates people who commit evil. For love is a multi facited concept. You don't love your mother the same as your wife. In the the same way God loves unbelievers differently that His children that love and believe in Him. But it is also true that there are people that truely hate God so they will be treated as enemies since they are enemies.
Hope for Wicked People
Yet there is hope for the wicked, which is to say, there is hope for all of us. “Therefore, as one trespass led to condemnation for all men, so one act of righteousness leads to justification and life for all men. For as by the one man’s disobedience the many were made sinners, so by the one man’s obedience the many will be made righteous” (Romans 5:18-19).
www.challies.com/what-god-hates/god-hates-wicked-people/
Salvation is being saved or rescued from the penalty of separation from God. To be saved from your sin, take these three steps: Ask forgiveness for your sins; be willing to turn from your sins; and believe that Jesus Christ-our Lord and Savior-died for your sins and rose again.
goingfarther.net/basics-of-christianity/salvation/
It was suddenly on my home page. I think whenever nights like this come to haunt me again, I can come and watch this video. Then we can cry together.
I'm sorry. I don't have anything positive to say right now. Maybe I should just cry.
Thank you. It takes courage and strength to share this.
jeez I want to give u a hug
i would do anything for a heartfelt hug right now, im sure ill get many soon from family when i see them for thanksgiving. i grateful the gesture and i wish i could give you a hug too, much love.
@@jeffiealtyou are adorable 🥺✨ I also wish that I could give you some affection
Emotional suffering is something I’m also experiencing. The pain is so much more sharper and existential than anything else. I want to say sitting and conversing with oneself ultimately is the only solution but I truly don’t know since that task itself is extremely difficult.
John 3:16
"For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life".
2 Corinthians 1:3-5
Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God. For as we share abundantly in Christ’s sufferings, so through Christ we share abundantly in comfort too.
John 15:13
13 Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.
Hello Sir, if you ever feel emotional distress or broken. Just know that there is a timeless perfect being that sacrificed Himself out of His love for you and the sins that humanity has committed against Him. He always will love you but sin is evil and should be hated. Because He hates people who commit evil. For love is a multi facited concept. You don't love your mother the same as your wife. In the the same way God loves unbelievers differently that His children that love and believe in Him. But it is also true that there are people that truely hate God so they will be treated as enemies since they are enemies.
Hope for Wicked People
Yet there is hope for the wicked, which is to say, there is hope for all of us. “Therefore, as one trespass led to condemnation for all men, so one act of righteousness leads to justification and life for all men. For as by the one man’s disobedience the many were made sinners, so by the one man’s obedience the many will be made righteous” (Romans 5:18-19).
www.challies.com/what-god-hates/god-hates-wicked-people/
Salvation is being saved or rescued from the penalty of separation from God. To be saved from your sin, take these three steps: Ask forgiveness for your sins; be willing to turn from your sins; and believe that Jesus Christ-our Lord and Savior-died for your sins and rose again.
goingfarther.net/basics-of-christianity/salvation/
Being self aware and talking it into existence that you are / and feel alone is step one. You're doing great, keep it up. We heard you and we see you.
thanks for posting something so vulnerable. ive been having a rough time recently and a lot of my thoughts have been stuck on exactly this. its so difficult adjusting to being alone for the first time. it feels like everybody around me has it completely figured out and they just know how to form deep, lasting relationships with people. and that just feels unattainable for me sometimes.
but this video is a comforting reminder that im not entirely alone in my loneliness! its nice to be reminded that im not the only person in the world who feels this way. camaraderie with strangers online is awesome lol. im sure that things will look up for you soon. you seem like a lovely person and it sucks that you're going through this. im wishing you the best!
im wishing you all the best as well, even through all the mess, your comments and everyone else that gives feedback to me on their experiences and advice has been one of the biggest blessings in recent time, and i appreciate all of it. it truly is comforting knowing that we arent alone in this feeling of loneliness, even as tragic as it is.
on to what you said first, its rough, it does seem so many people have it worked out and i seem to be lost in everything and im just out wondering how or what am i supposed to do to get what they have, how do i get things figured out or have the relationship where theres joy, its disheartening. but we are all on our own journey and im sure you and i will have things turn up for the better, i wish you the best, lmk if theres anything i can do, later.
@@jeffiealt It Often Seems That Other People Have It All Worked Out. Trust Me. It just Seems So. We Are All Works In Progress. Blessings.
People often seem to forget that being alone and feeling alone are two separate things, being alone is nice sometimes (no people around, no social pressure, etc) but feeling alone is something that many people dread and sadly go through nonetheless. I wish you all the best and really want you to know that you are truly not alone and that, in comparison to people who suffer in silence, people see, hear and relate to your struggles. You are strong not only for persevering this difficult time in your life but also for raising your voice and letting other people see this vulnerability. We love you, you’re doing great ❤
Thank you for being so raw and honest man, too many people these days preach, and too many less are down to earth
videos like these give us a sign that we're not alone, it makes us feel seen in a sense knowing that people know how we feel and can share our pain.
it's a tough path and a tough climb but you're not alone :)
I dont think i have ever felt like this in my life. It feels like there is a queue line of people waiting to hang out, and even if there wasnt, i could just find somebody like you to vibe with in 10 minutes of looking
The fact that sooooo many of us feel like this and still we feel like we are alone in it🥺🫂
You’re not alone and you’re not alone in feeling this way. One thing i heard about this pain really helped me.
When you are a baby and you’re learning to walk. You fall and you cry and cry because that’s the worst pain you know. Now this is the new worst pain. It’s deep this hurt. But you gotta feel it.
I’m about 10-11 months out from a breakup. It gets better but you still get those wave. Some hit harder than others. The hard ones stop being as frequent as time goes one.
I've never really thought about it like that but it really does make sense, this has been the worse thing for me recently, and even though i hope it stays the worse im sure there will be more hardships to come. Regardless ill keep doing my best to put the effort needed to learn what i can out of this mess. You're perspective really does help, and its awesome that you're doing better after 10-11 months time. Your encouragement is uplifting, hope you have a great one stranger, lets do our best.
I feel you buddy, you’re not alone 🤍 I have these moments of crying too. I’m reading the Bible for the first time in my life. You’re in my prayers sweetheart 🙏🏻
I know how hard it is to post something like this, it's really comforting to hear other people feel like this. Sometimes it just really hits you. The best advice I can give is to embrace it, and take it as a period of meditation and reflection (easier said than done). Everyone goes through these phases and just dont get caught in the pitfall (easier said than done)
as you said, easier said than done :). for sure i understand what you're getting at, i think ive done my best to get past the biggest pitfalls int he initial time after the breakup so its just making sure that the remaining emotions that come i continue to embrace them and do what i can to improve from them. hopefully the winter season doesn't over cook my emotions in a negative way but i'm sure ill be fine. im grateful for the advice and thanks for the appreciation and listening in to me blabber about. have a great one
you should be proud of yourself for being able to cry and feel these sorts of things, i cant explain why but ur ability to be super sad about being alone is one of the things that will help you get through it. don't worry about being alone, bc one day u will likely have the opposite problem and have too many people to see and have to neglect certain relationships. if that sounds stupid its bc it is. we always have too many around us, or we have no one at all. its so hard to be uncertain and to let ourselves be in a state of not knowing. i suggest running towards the fire. find things that you relate to whether that be songs that help you feel this shit, or poetry, or religion, or people. my first year of college i knew no one and spent so much time alone without any meaningful or fun connections. every day was empty. now things are different, and its because i chose to keep going. always try to remember that you have a connection with yourself, and that being alone happens, but won't last too long. on a practical note i suggest getting involved in some sort of program or club or anything. to be honest i have friends that went through college and made 0 friends and only talked to some classmates during class and their roommate. sometimes u just have to take it upon yourself to find people to hang out with and get close to. also! soooo many people in college feel this exact thing (did i mention i went through this exact thing 2 years ago) and you are not alone in this feeling or experience. therefore, should you go looking for other people to connect with, you will almost certainly find others going through this. feel free to cry bro, be open with yourself that you are scared or sad or angry or whatever. ur so cool for expressing what ur going through. hope u find some peace, bless u
i completely understand what you're saying, from the ability to being able to express emotion to there being an upside to all of this one day, even though there may be uncertainty. When i have time, i try to run towards the fire, find things that give meaning to my emotions and just getting out of my comfort zone generally, it helps a lot even if i dont want to do it initially. And your experience through this really does help me feel less uncertain, so many people like you and others have expressed that it does get better and tell me their personal experiences with all of it, its absolutely changed my outlook on all of this, very contrast to how i was feeling when i made the video, not to say the emotion still lingers. Im currently in a esports program so i connect with people and volunteer for events through it, its been good, and id like to do more clubs but time is a resource that i dont have a lot of atm. i do have friends but like i may have said in the video it can be hard to relate to them in some ways emotionally, but that shouldnt have more stop trying to get closer, cus you never know where those friendships lead to. Ill keep expressing my emotions and luckily a lot of the negative has faded away with how many people have wanted to connect with me on this topic, its been honestly overwhelming, but i enjoy responding and talking with everyone, it gives me a good purpose in that i can help others too. ill keep trying to find my peace in all of this, bless you.
It's those moments when you are truly left alone with your thoughts that you find out about yourself.
Real scary shit, trying to figure out how to name them or confronting how to get better at dealing with them. Not to mention how that deals with relationships and friendships.
Still gonna be there after you work through it but at least you can understand it better. journaling is nice (cringe but just putting something out helps)
this might sound weird but to me its so comforting to see how even the ppl from across the world feel the same things, has the same worries as me. really makes me realize how it's human nature to feel these things
my heart seeks a friend like you, pls don’t isolate.
lately, I've been seeing many of us feeling this way. It's nice to see that we aren't alone in this type of state and train of thought about life and where we currently are, and that there are others out there feeling the same way. we just completely feel isolated, alone, and out of place. we just reminisce about the past when we had company here and there, friends, or close families. sometimes, it's nice to be alone until a certain point in life, like now... where we don't want to be alone anymore. we want someone to talk to, to connect with, to share our days with companions, partners, or simply a family member. It's tough but we just gotta work on things slowly, we are all somewhere, confused about things. and that's fine... it's our first time being somewhere like this, at this age. I understand how you feel, we all understand each other in some way.
but besides all that, I hope we all will stop feeling alone and have what we desire soon within a person or a passion. be safe and kind to yourself until then. we are all trying to live and be something in life.
we're all gonna make it one day
thats a fact, lets keep our heads up till the next horizon
i just got this in my recommended too and also ive never seen a comment section where every one is ranting about the same struggle and the fact that this came out yesterday and its over 100 comments.
ive been feeling lonely too recently. but the fact that i actually have tried to be social since the summer is the thing that makes me feel more lonely and lowkey sad because I cant seem to find people that are like me lol
i totally get what you're saying, I've been socially awkward all my life and always felt lonely, but now that I'm trying harder i feel even more lonely, and even if i have friends, they have closer friends so i always feel out of place
Yet. Just Not Yet. Blessings Strength Love. This Too Shall Pass.
I’ve been having the same thoughts lately. Like I’ve never felt true loneliness till now and it’s such a dark feeling and realization. Went through a breakup with my partner of 7 years. And before that I had friends and roommates. Now I’m living in a city I’ve never lived in and building connections very hard. Trying to accept it and move through it ❤
These are growing pains baby. It will be okay.
this was recommended to me and i’m not even subscribed to this channel but it’s exactly how i feel
Thank you for sharing I’ve been going through the same it’s hard when it just hits after tolerating and ignoring it for so long. It sucks a lot but I learned it’s a part of adulthood and finding your place. It’s not talked about enough. Just know it’s temporary time in your life and soon you’ll look back and be surprised how far you came and how much you’ve grown!
i agree to the fullest, its funny how every year you look back and think last year you were so immature or goofy and the same the year before. I'm sure in a years time ill say the same thing about myself now, and im looking forward to that time. Adulthood is scary and im barely starting, but im sure ill find my place, i got my whole life ahead of me after all.
@@jeffiealthey man wish you best of luck God bless you bro
I feel you. Just gotta keep moving forward and keep your head high! Be open to connection and you will find your people. It may take time but we are social creatures :)
I’m in a similar situation, this summer I graduated highschool, my ex girlfriend broke up with me and my few best friends left me behind, I remember a few days after my break up I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder 2 and an eating disorder. After that day I hated everything in my head, leading up to my graduation I would always go to one of my teachers that I got close with, because he grew up with my older brother and I felt a real connection with him. I remember every I would go to his classroom after school hours and I would burst in tears. He had told me once that, if your alone it is necessary for you to build lore. Because if your happy all the time you’ll become stagnant. You realize the older you get the less time you’ll have alone because eventually you’ll get married and have kids. But I think we’ve all met those types of people who sit around do nothing and have no lore. We’ve all been told that time heals and that life gets better with time, and though that is true, its only true for those try to move forward and try to be better. Because some people actually let things effect them for their whole life. And just figure out your purpose. Ever since my situation I’ve just been focused on my purpose which is fashion and music, and even though sometimes I feel like I won’t find another person to love and to spend the majority of my time with or even another friend I can call my brother. As long as I have my purpose I’ll forever be in love with that. I’ve recently kinda of gave on love in a way, but I just just realized it’ll never work up for me because I’m no good enough but that’s fine because instead of worrying about something you can’t control you go and worry about what you can control, and you should always go and put that energy into build up something for yourself, and just enjoy everything as if it’s your last because it’s so rare that we’re alive. Go outside, go watch the river, travel, get that tattoo, try new foods, go meet new people. We’re so full of life to be so stuck. And remember don’t be obsessive on anything because it eventually it takes over you like a drug
going through the same exact shit man. Still haven't made a deep connection w anyone throughout college yet and it's been three years. Still have never had a gf either, I might just be destined to stay alone but all we can do is push through. Just keep your head up and know you aren't alone 💯
I say the exact same to you, keep your head up through the hardship your going through, you arent alone in this either. you seem like a great guy, someone will come along whether it be a friend or a partner in which you want feel the feeling of bieng alone, i dont think anyone is destined to be alone. I really hope the best for you man, and thank you for your inspiration and encouragment, if theres anything i can do to help just hmu on socials, keep going brotha.
I met my girlfriend about a year ago. We spent so much time together almost every second of free time we had it was together. She was my first love and my best friend. Until we broke up. And Ive never felt so lonely and so sad right afterwards. Heartbroken. It hurts a lot.
Its been about 2 months and im still sad about it from time to time but thibgs have gotten better. It didnt feel like it for a while but I know things will get better for you too.
You have taken the first and hardest step which is acknowledging your feelings. It takes a lot of courage to do that and to open up about it. You're not alone. ❤
Your video popped up on my feed and I'm so sorry for what you're going through. Loneliness is one of the hardest emotions to handle. The connection we have with others is so important and I just want you to know you're not alone! It's not emo or cringy at all; it's really good that you're talking about it!🫂🤗Sending you hugs!!
love u brozie, stay up im in uni too, and we are all one under the sun.
indeed, we're all under one sun, stay up get the money up, love you too brozie
relatable video especially about the wishing u were more religious, thank u for posting
I could write an essay about how i feel right now, but just sending love to everyone reading this. Feel hugged. ❤️
Blessings.
I feel you. Hope you find your peace, the happy life you always wanted. And hope you feel ok🩵 I’m proud of you
These nights will change you as a young guy.
It was my sophomore year of college, and it was like my 1,000th time dragging myself to the cafeteria to sit at a huge table and eat chicken tenders, and fries.. Alone.
It just hit me all at once and I couldn't stop myself from crying. The feeling is unexplainable.
I’ve been reading psalm 42 a lot lately. Thanks for sharing this moment man. Our hearts were made for so much more than this.
at this point really i know how much pain it is to be alone and isolated eventhough it is hard to live but i understood that this is life itself ,the definition of life being unfair some are born to never feel alone and some are forced to experience this heart tearing isolation , and try to live with it until it evetually stops , the important part of it however is being hopeful and never loose sight of a better future this is what keeps us alive as humans, if all hope is gone, people unfortunately end it all thinking this will never change while you have no idea over your future no one know what is going to happen next , what is the next beautiful soul you might meet tomorrow in a week in months or years ,just keep your head up and learn to rise again , find solas in simple things , improve and really love yourself ❤, you are not alone .
the most certain thing out of this uncertainty is that YOU ARE LOVED. You are cherished, you are dear, you are WORTHY. The strongest of characters go through the toughest of times to get the thickest of skin so that in the future when they find the love of their life they are able to appreciate the love and reciprocate it x infinite
i feel the same way. I lost everything and everyone in a snap and i struggle to wake up everyday and just do what im supposed to do. i tried to take therapy and painkillers, but i still feel like im stuck, still crying silently in bathroom stalls mid-classes and in the middle of the night. its been such a tough year, and ive been feeling hopeless.
its kinda hard to brush off the feeling that im unlovable and not worth anyone’s time, because in the back of my mind the people that i have loved from the bottom of my heart has chosen to not talk to me or stay in my life as a conscious choice. however im still here and im wondering what else i have to fulfill in this world, and the uncertainty kind of keeps me grounded, albeit wanting to disappear everyday. i hope we can all make it out of here one day.
Blessings. Strength. Love.
It hurts seeing you cry :( 💔 I can't tell you enough how much I relate to you. I've been alone for about 4 years now due to being in online school, and am still lonely, so I've never had the chance to make any friends growing up, basically having no social life. At first I thought I could accept it, but later it hit me hard as I realized how lonely I am, and all my emotions start coming out in unstoppable tears. I felt so pathetic for feeling lonely, but I didn't realize how common it was. Having no one to talk to is really tough, I wouldn't wish it on anyone. I've been told that when I start getting a job and start going out more for whatever necessary reason, I'll meet someone, which I really hope to be true. I really hope you know that even though you may be alone, it won't last forever. I promise things will get better for you. You're strong for going through being lonely, it's truly a sad thing to experience. I hope you live happily and won't have to experience being lonely. I love you ❤❤
Same I did online all throughout high school so now everyone has friends and I’ve lost all of mine. It’s tough but we’ll make it through this and it won’t last forever.
Rooting for you, my friend. I feel VERY alone right now in this period of my life.
this makes me sad.. i hope you're ok cuz im going thru similar situation. no one deserves it. i hope things get better for u...
i agree, you, i, and everyone else who experience it dont deserve it. im sorry your feeling down from the video and that the similar situation your going through gets much better, as everyone else says, it gets better with time, and its not the same for evveryone so dont rush the feelings like i did, just embrace. I hope things get better for you too, if you ever need to pm me or talk more just hmu on the socials, i wish you the best in your tough journey, over and out.
Gadamit maaan u break my heart a little bit ... even though i'm guy !
I wish if i was brave like you and be vulnerable like this!
U are so amazing and u seems a good guy ... And I hope this tremendous sadness goes away soon u deserve better !
Thank you for the video bro i really appreciate it. I feel just like you. Although I know i am trying to do better, when i dont have any close friends everything is more stressful. I am always in my head and i break down crying randomly. It is so hard to focus. It's my first time being so lonely, and i feel like a total disappointment. Especially bc in uni everybody says how networking is so important and such. In my floor all the girls are hanging out together and friendly with each other and i feel like an alien. And i cant keep having hope that it will get better because my social skills are rotting. It feels so void and meaningless. I dont explicitly tell my family that i have no friends but i know that they might have realized it, i dont wanna make them sad and stressed about me. Thank you so much again, you seem like a honestly great person. Wishing that it will get better for all of us and let's all try to change this 💪
Awesome 💯 Happy Saturday from Palm Beach Florida
I have been alone in all 6 years of my senior school. It was HARD too hard and i didn't had anyone to tell how lonely I was. I was too depressed but no one really understood me. I am in college now although I don't really have that friends with whom I can share anything but still I have one or 2 people I talk to in college from time to time. And you know what after being really lonely for too many years I don't even mind being alone now or not having friends. Its almost like I have become accustomed to being alone which I think is not really healthy but that's what it is now but it still hurts sometimes. Its really comforting to see that people here relate to this. More power to y'all!!
Loneliness comes and goes. Its something we all experience pertaining our circumstances or situations we are in. Its okay to feel lonely at times and its completely okay to talk it out with anyone . Maybe talking to a counselor in college is good that has helped me get through some things in college too. I had feelings of isolation and sadness of not having any close friends as I use to when I was younger or relationships I had with people. I kinda just came to the realisation that people do just come and go sometimes but the right people will stay with you through hardships. Even if you have not found those people they will come to you. Just keep your mind and eyes open :)
i can relate and so many other people in these comments do man. you might feel alone in the sense that you have nobody around you right now as it isnt a physical presence you can see, but youre not alone entirely regarding your situation - tons of people are going through the same thing. even just people that you walk past by in your day-to-day life are likely struggling with internal and/or external issues. you are never truly alone and your existence as a sole person makes a difference. i believe it shows here in this video, your comment section proves it - as much as a bunch of internet faces may not have much worth to you, they are people who relate with you and can share their experiences in their comment because of you. it can get lonely and it will feel lonely as you grow older, but there is always room for more people being welcomed in your life no matter where they came from.
in general, life has a bunch of uncertainties, and you have a bunch of decisions to make based upon those. its not always the most fun to deal with, but it is the process of life and having responsibility. you are also not alone in this, tons of people are unsure where their future lies, whether it be confusion for what career they want to go into or other little details of what makes up their complex life. it can be terrifying to have the whole future solely lie in your hands, especially when dealing with these big feelings of not knowing what to do in the world. your mind will change a lot, youll be unsure about your decisions and if you shouldve done something, everyone has had those moments. in the end of things, just try to make the most of what you have everyday, because everyday you are creating your future. today is different from yesterday, therefore its the future. do what you enjoy.
being disconnected from family and friends is certainly not easy and you are doing well throughout that hardship. the social detachment can be very difficult since what you knew before was social connection and personal, physical bonds. not having consistent relationships/friendships can be disheartening sometimes when you want interaction in an also consistent manner. things related to social life will come in waves like you said, there will be good and bad experiences, arguments and so on and so forth. but you are not permanently alone, there is relatability and connection everywhere. there is so many people in the world, you will meet more people eventually who can surround you during these lonely times when you feel far away from family and everybody you knew. like you said, you will see your family during thanksgiving/christmas which sounds fun, i hope you have a great time - but please remember, do cherish those times instead of focusing on the negativity that you will have to go back and experience the distance once again.
jeffie, you are a very strong person for being able to withstand these experiences, for they are not easy. but this like any other time, is just a period of time in your life or a phase i guess you could say. there will be new seasons that come along and you will experience new things. i wish the best for you, and im glad i found this video.
we're all connected + One, i'm 26 and feel you on so many levels!!! you don't have to *do* anything other than just let yourself exist, human BEING vs human doing. all that matters is love... you sound very intelligent, logical, and well spoken through the emotions, you're seeing through the illusions while so many people are stuck in them still. it'll all be okay in the end, if it's not ok then it's not the end.. sending u so much love!!!! also ur not a mess, ur just a human doing ur best
Beautiful comment
We're All Works In Progress. Be Kind To Yourselves And To Each Other People. Blessings.
I'm in and out around this feeling all my life, but the one thing I can tell you - it's like a spiritual experience, and Imo leads to a great self-realisation or significant changes. GL
Its tough fr man. Im 22 and with work and gym i feel like i dont really have time to make friends and find ppl to talk to. I feel alone almost everyday but i try to look at it like this is just a rough moment and that it will be over eventually and the sun will shine brighter after. Loving the videos man i think you should keep making these or even upload gaming or gym progress as a way to escape these thoughts. Imo its not unhealthy to think about these moments but i think its unhealthy if u let it drown you and i think these videos are helping u combat this. Hope to see more content in the future whether its this or gaming or even gym stuff!
Love Your Positive Message Man. Blessings.
I get what you mean it’s not easy feeling like you don’t have anyone close that you can truly open up to or look forward to seeing every day, my break up was pretty recent and it was out of nowhere she kinda gave me hope for the next day to come but now we gotta find more hope in ourselves I hate feeling alone so much
yea man thats super tough, i feel exactly how you are feeling, i hate being alone, especially when there was someone more significant to my life in the recent past, it does create a void in a way. she dumped me out of the blue and it left me broken and in shambles, and trying to find more hope in myself is a battle everyday, but it is getting better. if you need to talk more im here for you. im sorry you had to experience that, no one deserves it.
same my dad never cried so i thought i had to keep it in he said men are supposed to be strong but he doesnt understand what this whole generation is going through
im definitely feeling this right now. i live 700 miles away from parents, i dont have friends other than my roommates, stopped talking to my online ones, and everyday feels tough socially. especially since i love raving and just recently traveled out of state with a group of strangers and found myself becoming so depressed afterwards because i got a taste of what having a fun friend group is like again. i never thought i'd miss high school because i actually had friends by my side. the only thing keeping me going is knowing it will get better again someday. seeing that other people go through the same does bring some type of comfort, however sad it may be :(
im sorry you relate to the lonliness, being away from parents and family in general is hard, i completely understand that and i wish i was with my family right now too. ive defintely had a part in that fact ive lost connections with a lot of my online friends, and in general just not doing better keeping up with those around me has done its part in making me feel socially isolated in my own way, even though i know im not alone it still feels like i am frequently sometimes when i go about my day. youre not alone in the feeling, and i am here for you if you need to talk more. Raving sounds like a lot of fun and im glad you get to have a good time when you experience it, i hope it gets better for you soon and that you'll find a fun friend group again :)
I’ve been feeling that way since the last 9 month and on some days it does hit a lot harder than others. I’m still not sure what’s the right way to cope with this feeling or what to do about it.. I’m not really sure of anything honestly. I just hold on to the hope that things will get better eventually
know that It’s ok to cry and that your feelings are valid. keep your head up 🤍
Dude I feel you on every point in this video. That lost in limbo feeling is something I’ve been feeling for a couple of years. I hope you feel better and find people that appreciate you man. We never know when something amazing is around the corner, the best thing we can do is do what’s best for ourselves and keep moving. You ain’t alone bro as long as you’re still doing good things for yourself (school and gym) you’re gonna be in a better place than you were before. Good luck homie I hope you get outta this slump.
i got you and sometimes even if i have people around me i feel the loneliness and back the days i was struggling with depression. sometimes feel like im the loneliest and everyone is keep going and im the one in the darkness but its our journey right ? hope that we will make it trough❤
I love how this pops up to me when I'm feeling the same. Thank you for this video. I love how you put in an effort to talk about it. Many of us don't. It feels so shitty to an extent that it's hard to carry on with life. Sending love, Take care🥺💗 It will all be better one day
i've dealt with crushing loneliness for the last year, even with having really supportive friends. i even find myself talking to myself a lot to make sense of my feelings like you do here. i can't even count how many nights i've had like yours here, and i made it through all of them. you are not alone and you are strong enough to get through it. wishing you the best.
You are loved! Even though you're alone you are still loved. Things don't last forever and that includes hard feelings. Keep your head high and remember you're always loved (and love yourself too)
sorry i’m a little late but i wanted to say i’m really proud of you for everything you’ve achieved, even if i don’t know you personally
Usually never comment but just wanted to say I realliy appreciate you being emotionally vulnerable for all see. In a similar boat; uncertain about how to navigate moving forward alone despite having a wonderful supporrt system of family and friends I can reach out to. Similarly I've recently recognized it's okay and healthy to let yourself feel your intense emotions (sadness, anxiety etc.) because were humans and not robots. Time is supposed to heal all wounds but some days are going to be harder than the last and you'll struggle and that's totally fine. Cheers
Time does heal all wounds, there may be scars, but they're healed, and it will get better, i totally agree. Only very recently ive recognized the importance of letting myself feel emotions, its always something ive either never experienced or neglected, so im proud that you're realized recently too. I really hope you can get through all the uncertainty, im sure your family and friends all want to be there for you, its okay to be uncertain, many people and the world go through life that way, and its okay. let me know if theres anything i can do for you, and thank you for being vulnerable with me as well, you're a great person. be kind and take care of yourself.
I just wanna give him a hug❤
I know this sounds cliche to say, but you're not alone. I'm a couple years out of university now and realizing just how far behind i feel in comparison to others my age, and in the past year I've really began to reflect and reconsider all the things i thought i wanted to do in life, which sometimes makes me feel so aimless and lost. Some of my hardest times mentally were during my last couple years of college, so I definitely understand that feeling of lonliness and hopelessness. Since then I've found that SO many people experience these same thoughts and feellings during this time of their lives, and I think these rough times are just another part of our growing process as we figure ourselves out and what we want to do with our lives. Ironically when we feel most alone there's usually hundreds of thousands of others out there feeling the same way we do.
Jeez i didn't mean to ramble so much, but this video just touched a soft spot for me. Also big kudos to you for having the courage to post a video being so vulnerable and real. There's too many guys out there who don't realize how common these feelings are and that it's totally okay and healthy to let it out when you need to. I'm sure just by posting this you've helped a lot of other people in ways you don't even realize.
There's more i could say but I don't want to leave an entire essay in your comment section lol. But keep pushing through this hard time, I promise things get better. They always do. Best wishes and positive thoughts towards you 🫶
This video comforted me a little, even though it is a sensitive subject, I felt welcomed by the fact that I often have this same feeling knowing that I'm not alone in this feeling, even though I'm alone, is comforting Thank you for sharing your feelings.take care, I hope you get well.
Actually you are pretty strong to be able to express your views i feel the same all the time and i just don't say anything to anyone and just stay smiling like everything is okay
Sending you strength and resilience. You got this.
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I remember when I was around 19-22 I felt this way, you go from having people in your life to having no one and that reality sucks. What I learned is that we create our own reality so we have to decide what we do next when we wake up. A lot of things help such as signing up to a salsa course, meeting 1 person every week at the gym (and having a genuine conversation with them), approaching people on the streets etc and at some point you'll realize that most people are just lonely social people and that its gonna be okay. God bless brotha, you're doing great!
Remember that this life is temporary, it can be stressful to meet strangers (and I know it was for me) but at the end, we have 1 life so enjoy the ride my brotha and take risks that would have scared the younger you
hey just wanted to say that I understand that feeling and what you’re going through, this brought me back to when I was in high school, I would feel so uncertain about my future and so tired of being / feeling alone but please know that you’re not alone and little by little, you’ll get through this🫶 sending you lots of strength
God bless your soul brother.God is with you throughout and he loves you keep going good things come to those who wait
Its crazy we all feel the same way but we cant meet all together
Do not give up buddy please
It will get better
You just have to keep going
This is one of the realest videos I have ever seen
I’m in the exact same situation bro it feels like everyday is harder than the last and I feel more lonely than ever. just cried when I got home from the gym and your video came up on my feed as I was wiping the tears. You’re definitely not alone man we’re in this together
I can understand how you feel, this overwhelming uncertainty and strange dark feelings... I gave up college few months ago cause i was living in a big city and depression hit me so hard i had to come back to my family's house. Just like you i grew up in a Christian house, but I feel distant and unable to go back to spiritual disciplines. I just want to say youre not alone, we're all figure it out at some point i guess, sending you happiness and blessings from the bottom of heart ❤
thank u for sharing this, ive been feeling the same thing the past few weeks and have been crying my eyes every night whenever i get back home and its such a weird feeling. I related to everything u said, from companionship to religion, how to navigate lonliness the next day, the uncertainty or having a real connection with someone close to u. i jus sih i could give u a hug and also myself cause yea i jus felt every word u said and i truly appriciate u being open about it cause alot of people feel the same way but not everyone is welling or is good at opening up and expressing how they feel. I d love to connect with you and learn how to navigate this from each other!
for sure, a hug would do absolute wonder right now but cant do that through a screen :(. i dont know if you need to hear this buts its completely okay to cry, in fact, i encourage it, after my breakup, i cried every night, for hours, for about a month, and thats okay, although at the time i was ashamed of being broken and expressing it that way, in hindsight, it was a great thing so although it may be crappy, keep crying until you dont feel the need to anymore. its dreadful that you feel alone too, but funny enough, you and i arent alone in this feeling, and hopefully you can take comfort in that as i've recently been able too. Im happy i was able to share my feelings and be vulnerable to you, although in a way its a little tragic, im glad ive been able to be something you can relate too even if its not in a positive energy type of way. thank you for sharing what you've shared, and if you want to talk i have my insta: jeffie.ming and other socials if you prefer them if you need to talk, im here.
@@jeffiealt Thank you so much for your kindness and openness-it really means a lot. It’s comforting to know I’m not alone, and I appreciate your support. and id love to connect, ill def add u on insta :))! i hope we both learn to navigate and get thru this stronger on the other side with a bit of grace
If I could give you a hug man I would. I may just be a stranger, but your not alone dude, I hear you. Your here and you're invaluable. I hope you have a long and happy life.
Brotha I’m 31 and have recently began to feel that way. People will assume I’m in a great spot but it bothers me more than I care to admit. Don’t be like me. I vented to my supervisors at work and felt weak. They were pretty understanding but it’s a pretty hard thing to open up about. Psychedelics are the answer but it isn’t a “smooth” journey. It will lead you to the version of you, you’re waiting for.
Dang I did something similar and was bullied out of quitting, then sent to the psych ward because of "journeying"... But good luck to you!
had a breakdown today and this vid showed up on the right time. i hope we all will be well rested enough to start moving again, slow yet unsteady but we are still going somewhere. take care over there
Same man. It’s just all work no love.
bro I know how u feel 100% I feel alone all the time I have no irl friends outside my family and I play with friends online but its not the same dude if u ever need anyone to talk to or just remember that guy from youtube stay strong bro I mean I could use someone to talk to and never feel embarrassed about how u feel and never hold it in trust me it just makes u depressed and even angry when u hold stuff like this in I know all too well nobody goes through this life unscathed we all gonna feel some sorta way and go through shit and sometimes its a massive kick to the balls but i'm learning u gotta hang on till that one door opens and the stuff u been feeling doesn't feel so bad anymore God is there bro we gotta wait for him to open that door tell him what ur feeling tell him the things u want to do talk to him about ur troubles talk to him like he's there with u love u bro
Blessings. Strength. Love.
been feeling the same way recently myself. hope the best for you dude
seeing such a pretty boy so sad makes me frown man. :(
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So ugly dudes deserve to be sad
Yes very attractive lol
yes only ugly people deserve to be sad
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I have also felt this pretty strongly this past year. I went through a break up over a 1.5 year long relationship. It sucks, but the freedom really gives you time to reflect. I had to find what was important and it wasn’t easy. It isn’t easy. I don’t know about you but I have a whole lot of issues I have to figure out. If you start framing this season of your life as a challenging time that shows you things about yourself that you never knew, it helps the feelings get a little better. More than anything though, rest, enjoy some new hobbies, take some long walks, listen to new music and read some books. I found that these kind of experiences were/are very cathartic for me. I wish you the best of luck man. It really does feel like “luck” is what we need when we feel like this. Really focus on changing the way you see things. It isn’t easy, but it’s not all that bad. “Count your blessings” as they say.
Proud of you! Sharing something so raw and real, takes guts. This is such a genuine thing.
Maybe see if you can find local volunteering opportunities or use an event finder/ local community calendar to find events near you, and schedule to do something new every week. Also don't be afraid to befriend older people, it's a great chance to get different perspectives and they also tend to be great at connecting people.
I think it is inevitable struggle for our generation because of a combination of factors (Panera, growing up chronically online, glamourization of hyper-individualism) ~ but I guess the silver-lining is we will value friendship more when we find good ones. Cheering for you as someone figuring it out too.
PS. I think people here would also be very open to a discord community, if that would be of some start too
Hi Jeffie,
Thank you for sharing your feelings with us and showing your vulnerabilities. That takes a lot of courage. I deeply relate to what you said on many levels. My teenage years and twenties felt like hitting rock bottom over and over again, and the world didn’t seem to care how miserably unlucky one person could get. Maintaining relationships is difficult, especially when other aspects of your life aren’t going well-and even more so if you were taught as a child that showing vulnerability is shameful or a sign of weakness.
I often wandered without a place to call home. And whenever I thought I’d finally found one, the relationship somehow turned toxic. Over time, I started believing that someone like me, coming from a broken background, doesn’t deserve a home. No matter how hard I tried, I thought I’d end up ruining it-or that I would only attract other broken people and inevitably turn the relationship toxic. As time went on, I grew numb to the void and pain, and I started romanticizing the idea that loneliness and death are inextricably intertwined with life. It’s been a journey of discovering who I really am.
The truth is, nature is inherently brutal. Aging, diseases, and accidents happen, and they can take away everything we have. That’s why we built civilization, which can act as a comforting safety net if you’re lucky enough to live in one of those countries. But if we are truly left alone in the world-which will likely happen eventually if you live long enough without children-we have to save ourselves and rebuild that safety net from the ground up. You have to find new meaning and a new purpose, even if that feels pointless right now.
This is easier said than done when you’re still grieving the loss of loved ones. But the world is for the living. You either die or adapt. When you are truly alone, no one will save you. No one will know you are suffering. You have to save yourself. Sharing your sadness on UA-cam might be one way for you to achieve that, and I deeply respect that. It’s a commendable move.
I feel you bro, Im in a very similar situation myself.
Big ass 20 second bro hug your way dude. You’re gonna be good. Been right where you’re at, and trust me man, it gets better. It’s times like this for me that help me realize the importance of the times that I struggled because it made me a better, more rounded person that also has the ability to empathize and help others. You got this bro… you got this. Peace
sending you lots of hugs, your ability to comprehend and put to words how you feel shows the depth you are capable of and you will meet like minded people who will understand you in a way you are capable of understanding and connecting with others, you are doing great truly
thank you for the hugs and encouragement, im glad people can see and relate to what i was feeling, even if i wasn't able to articulate it in the best im still happy it reached those who need it. ill keep doing what i can everyday, again thank you, you're also doing great
Just cried two days in a row by myself cus I feel the same way as you do. Even with a roommate I can’t seem to connect with her and I feel so alone. But I know we can get through this feeling, we just have to sit with the feeling I guess. I miss my family so much, and they’re in a different country.
Wow, I really resonate with what you're going through, especially with the faith aspect. It’s so true that God is with us, but even He acknowledged with Adam that it’s not good for us to be alone. Loneliness can feel so raw, it’s in those quiet moments that we really notice how much we crave connection, whether it’s with family, friends, or even just the small interactions that remind us we’re not invisible.
Honestly, I don’t have a perfect answer for it either, but I’m learning that being patient and open to God's timing for relationships helps, maybe joining youth groups too.
This also comes from someone who wishes she was more religious, recently it feels like I take whatever i have left in my just to pick up the bible. Being a believer is work too, sometimes it drains you, sometimes you wonder when your season of loneliness ends because it feels like pure agony. That feeling of not just wanting people around, but wanting to feel like you understand each other, or having people you think of when you think of happiness, even if you're different in your own ways.
Your honesty really touched me and I really want to cry with you! If it comforts you even just a little bit, I just wanted you to know that youre not alone in this. With the amount of people who relate, maybe it's a cannon event or something, as in, it's an essential part of growth. Maybe there are things you can only learn when you're alone, maybe being alone with yourself is the best time to learn about yourself.
Either way, while we as watchers don't 100% know you on a really personal level, we do want to be there and make you feel seen. We're like "alone together" if that makes any senss at all💀💀💀 But keep your head up, you are just like the sun, you do dip below the horizon, it definitely happens, but no matter how long you're below the horizon, you'll rise up again for real!!
You're not alone in this big bro! God bless❤
Seeing how many people relate to this just breaks my heart. I hope everyone gets to heal forever
I can relate. I'm so flicking lonely nowadays, I do work but I never click with people and I'm feeling there's something wrong with me. And going to gym and seeing people laughing and feeling themselves makes me sob, I wanna be like them, I feel like I will never find my "people" and already I'm stressing about wedding, 'cause I have no one to invite r ask to be my bridemade. I have times I isolate myself, and feel guilty about that and then talking about being lonely wolf, but my mental health just sucks. And fact I'm just trying my best but nothing is enough, nowadays I'm just thinking is it because I'm not pretty like other girls etc.
Earlier this year, I actually planned to join church activities even tho I'm not even THAT religious, just to have like people around me, family don't call me much and I'm just so lonely and alone.
I'm glad this came to my recommendation, hope we both can be happy and not alone one day
Relatable man... Hope you get through it