I have seen this type of life FIRST HAND!!!! My father is still providing for my mom and he has been dead almost 30 years. My mom is receiving his retirement and it covers the mortgage and the utilities.
I’ve only seen this first hand from someone else household. There was a married man in our church who knew he was dying and didn’t want his wife left with a burden. Before he died, he made sure the house was paid off, major repairs were fixed and bought a brand new car. She retired and got her retirement money and his. That’s how you take care of your wife.
Thank you Chasing Yonci. If you have any relational/business questions, please feel free to schedule a connection call with me. www.kendallficklin.com/acuity
I would’ve paid top-dollar to hear Kendall’s wisdom. Usually I have much more to say, but I’m still digesting all the golden nuggets he dropped. This episode was worth every second. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Big thanks to you all!!
He's definitely absolutely right I respect his train of thought..... keep preaching and teaching because these people are on a super agenda to emasculate the black man and I say no deal men be men period....team work makes the dream work... blessings to you...❤️
This is hands down my fave episode. He has so much wisdom and broke everything down into manageable chunks. Fellas y’all did a great job listening, being students, asking the right questions, and being vulnerable. Really great job y’all!
I commend these two young men and their desire to learn what Kendall has to say. Stay strong guys. Don't get discouraged. I wish you the best success!!
I literally paused this video and threw out all my weed. It’s time to get focused !! Thanks for all the free game. Another great video, definitely enjoyed this.
Im a young woman that grew up without a father and rarely had positive male role models in my life. This interview was so helpful for me and gives me insight in what to look for and expect for self and from a man. Thank you 🙏🏾
Heck yeah! Rocking together and being more, NOT neutral or parasitic! Just got to find a woman who is right for me because I will pay it all since that is my heart.
I, like most black women grew up without a father. My mother was the sole provider. Even though she was feminine she was very much in her masculine energy because she was the sole provider. So, I grew up knowing I could never depend on a man for nothing. Then I met Ben, a provider, I pushed him away because I wasn’t use to that. But, then a older black women who’s a neighbor broke it down to me. So, I reconnected with Ben and we have been together ever since. Shout out to April Mason her channel was therapy.
I didn't watch the whole thing, only the first few minutes, but I hope that at some point during this hour-long discourse, someone reminded him that it was women, not men, who caused these societal changes. It was women who started the feminist movement and demanded to be able to work, pay their own bills, be treated as men, etc. Now they have that, how is it the fault of men? He needs to address that fact before I can take any of this other stuff he's saying seriously.
@@earlholt5152 there were men besting their wives who had no control over their own inheritance like she said. Did you study history as to why the women's rights movement was started? Additionally, we weren't even born when it did start. The women that did are still married or died married.
Amazing interview. Great knowledge. My dad still pays all the bills and takes care of home for my mom. They've been married 52 yrs and are in their 70s!!! I admire him so much. He is my introduction as a real man and I love and respect him to the fullest.
The amount of gems 💎 being given out in this interview is mind blowing. I appreciate this platform and every time I watch an interview I unlock new thoughts and growth. I appreciate the content yal boys keep going and don’t ever stop 💯💪🏾
I am a 48 year old woman. Who had her father for the first seventeen years of my life. He went to be with the Lord about eight years ago. I’ve learned and relearned a lot of things in this episode. I am watching it again as I am typing. Thanks so much for this.
The advice about complements put things in perspective. I been hard on myself bc I'm learning how to manage and multiply money but not make more. Now I see that's a strength I'll bring into a relationship with someone whose strength is to make it. Thank y'all for high quality practical advice 🙏🏽
Gotta watch this again💯 I am in that season where I don’t have time for all that extra either, but these targets, goals, and objectives jotted down. That slapped me in the face. Thanks brothers, new follower 💕
I really LOVE the information that you put out and I really want to share with others BUT some may not give the chance to hear you out because of the profanity.
This was a excellent discussion with many nuggets! In every other culture it seems the norm of taking on a wife is valued and this concept of providing is understood. It baffles me that this could be considered stupid or dumb and the new idea in the black community appears to be a focus of men leading with money and investing in material things as a flex or bate to attract women and then complain if he has to provide. Why is it that unions these days seem to be more about her function or role in helping it elevating him financially then him being position to do that before he weds ? I would think as adults both men and women should be in a financial stable place with a posture to build, not come into the relationship looking to maintain what they may could not or now need her help to accomplish, achieve goals or thrive and it's more women doing this and responsible for households and communities without a roommate type situation. I agree, their should be a CEO and a CFO in the marriage just as a business. If her skill is stong in cultivating while you are providing the compromise should be that her finance can be allocated to help build, invest and add pleasurable balance to a higher quality of living until the ROI but not required. Women birth children, usually function as a caregiver whenever needed so if a household " requires" her income I personally would say the family is establishing a living beyond their means and setting themselves up for challenges. A women single leading and proving for herself is completely different the becoming someone's wife taking on a submissive posture of serve while basically being treated like a roommate! I would hope men in our community begin to see our intelligence and cultivating attributes that make the world go around. We bor legacies of stronger children and families, create viable and more productive black community with the bases of a strong union and strong family structure with a strong man that willfully provides. I have been married almost 25 yrs and have 4 son we preach creating a strong foundation before taking on a wife! The black community does not require worries so provision should be the standard.
I have been checking out the past podcasts and haven’t been disappointed. Happily I have subscribed to this channel. I look forward to the current content💕. As for the guest, I need to follow what ever he had going on. 😊
I really truly hope they listen and understand what he shared. Especially when he said how much are you actually putting into those "important" things in your life. Because that defines how you approach relationships. I loved this. So helpful. Well done.
I am glad to hear you say that your mom made a Man. I tell people that all the time because it’s the mother that put everything in the child that they need to no. At 11 I taught my Son about responsibility how to pay utilities in the home and how to write checks and to become his own man and have his own business. I am very proud of him for he has his own business and have also built his own home. And I am great full that he listened
Finally finished the whole episode. As a woman, this is the OG I need in my life. He confirms a lot of things I’ve been mediating about. Things I’m teaching myself as a woman and things I desire in a man. (p.s ladies we all know when a man either has that dog in him or not. We be knowing lol)
WELL SAID👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Hardly Initiated has done it AGAIN!!!! Thank YOU!!! This 50/50 BS (we know who said that; will someone tell her to PLEASE SHUT UP). If you’re going to do 50/50 you’ve got a roommate. Stay SINGLE!!!!
Your next read fellas is “The Masculine In Relationship” by GS Youngblood! EVERYTHING you two need to know about maintaining your masculine frame in a relationship with a strong feminine woman! 💯
Rhythm, balance, tomato, tomatoe… some people want to be different so bad “I’m 54 but I look 30”, no sir you look 54. I like knowledge but not cockiness 🙄
To all the women who think that not having a father matters - I grew up with my father, and a very good father at that, and still, I discovered that men can’t be trusted when I became a woman. In fact, my mother knew that men can’t be trusted too, bcuz when I was about 7 or 8 years old, my mother told me that I’ll never know what it is to have a good man, bcuz men don’t come like your daddy anymore. And of course, I didn’t believe her. But it turned out that what she said is true. I don’t know what it is to have a good man. My mom was right on the money with that prediction. And what I actually found is that men are indifferent to nice moral women and prefer women not wrapped too tight and loose, and I was nice and moral. And refused to become something I’m not. Which is why I can’t trust men. And the same thing is true for my niece who is 26. She still a virgin and don’t know what it is to have a good man either. So, I really don’t know what all this talk about men paying for everything is about. I seen a few guys do that, but there’s a tradeoff where those guys are a massive pain in the neck with it. Which is not worth it. Why live in pain just for the man to pay for everything? Money is not what’s really going on between men and moral women. The real barrier is indifference. Men want to be struggle bandits to moral women and play them for suckers, and actually falls in love with 304 type of women and want to make it there. So, I’m not going all along with a man over money. I don’t care if he’ll pay for everything or not. I want nothing to do with a man who prefers a wild, loose, or mentally ill women bcuz I’m not like that. And money can’t compensate for incompatibility.
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I have seen this type of life FIRST HAND!!!! My father is still providing for my mom and he has been dead almost 30 years. My mom is receiving his retirement and it covers the mortgage and the utilities.
I usually don't do this but you are fine and chocolate 🍫😍 hence your profile picture
I’ve only seen this first hand from someone else household. There was a married man in our church who knew he was dying and didn’t want his wife left with a burden. Before he died, he made sure the house was paid off, major repairs were fixed and bought a brand new car. She retired and got her retirement money and his. That’s how you take care of your wife.
Love that more men are speaking up. This is the exact game my Daddy taught me and I had a proposal in 3 months. 💍
Thank you Chasing Yonci. If you have any relational/business questions, please feel free to schedule a connection call with me.
www.kendallficklin.com/acuity
I would’ve paid top-dollar to hear Kendall’s wisdom. Usually I have much more to say, but I’m still digesting all the golden nuggets he dropped. This episode was worth every second. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Big thanks to you all!!
Thank you Kay
He's definitely absolutely right I respect his train of thought..... keep preaching and teaching because these people are on a super agenda to emasculate the black man and I say no deal men be men period....team work makes the dream work... blessings to you...❤️
Fax!!!
Amen…..definition of a man = equal respect for women!!! This is the definition of equality that women are looking for.
This is hands down my fave episode. He has so much wisdom and broke everything down into manageable chunks. Fellas y’all did a great job listening, being students, asking the right questions, and being vulnerable. Really great job y’all!
I can’t believe I’m watching this a year later. This was amazing information. I need to watch this over and take notes.
I commend these two young men and their desire to learn what Kendall has to say. Stay strong guys. Don't get discouraged. I wish you the best success!!
I literally paused this video and threw out all my weed. It’s time to get focused !! Thanks for all the free game. Another great video, definitely enjoyed this.
😂😂😂 LETS GET IT 💪🏽💪🏽
Im a young woman that grew up without a father and rarely had positive male role models in my life. This interview was so helpful for me and gives me insight in what to look for and expect for self and from a man. Thank you 🙏🏾
5 minutes in and this Rhythm speech is speaking to me! Applying this mentality ASAP
Heck yeah! Rocking together and being more, NOT neutral or parasitic! Just got to find a woman who is right for me because I will pay it all since that is my heart.
I, like most black women grew up without a father. My mother was the sole provider. Even though she was feminine she was very much in her masculine energy because she was the sole provider. So, I grew up knowing I could never depend on a man for nothing. Then I met Ben, a provider, I pushed him away because I wasn’t use to that. But, then a older black women who’s a neighbor broke it down to me. So, I reconnected with Ben and we have been together ever since. Shout out to April Mason her channel was therapy.
Beautiful 💕
This was a whole word, I wish more men would speak about this openly because so many are lost, men and women need these nuggets.
This what I'm talking about. This is real. One of my favorite interviews.
This is such a good conversation! Thank you for this ! I learned a lot from this and I am a female !!
I didn't watch the whole thing, only the first few minutes, but I hope that at some point during this hour-long discourse, someone reminded him that it was women, not men, who caused these societal changes. It was women who started the feminist movement and demanded to be able to work, pay their own bills, be treated as men, etc. Now they have that, how is it the fault of men? He needs to address that fact before I can take any of this other stuff he's saying seriously.
@@earlholt5152 🤣😂 because there wasn't protection in place. So women had to get beat and cheated on just to have a bank account.
@@earlholt5152 there were men besting their wives who had no control over their own inheritance like she said. Did you study history as to why the women's rights movement was started? Additionally, we weren't even born when it did start. The women that did are still married or died married.
I feel every man & woman needs to watch this seriously. we need ORDER RESTORED! into our community.
This episode has me taking notes.
Amazing interview. Great knowledge. My dad still pays all the bills and takes care of home for my mom. They've been married 52 yrs and are in their 70s!!! I admire him so much. He is my introduction as a real man and I love and respect him to the fullest.
This was an amazing conversation. Some much knowledge was dropped for the men and the women. This was such a blessing.
Wow! I love and needed this episode in this exact moment. 🙌🏾💕
The gems that our young women and men need coming up!
That's my Coach 💪🏾This was that fire 🔥
Thhhhhaaaaannnkkkk you for this I’m in tears. Keep woman feminine
It’s Milo winking at us at the end for me! 🥰
Everything you said is so true!! More black men need to learn from you.
This podcast blew me away. I learned a lot from you guys and I am a female. Thank you guys for your wisdom and I pray to find a evolve man
Blew you away enough to subscribe? ;)
The most powerful episode yet!!!
Man this was such a good conversation! Needed to see this
The amount of gems 💎 being given out in this interview is mind blowing. I appreciate this platform and every time I watch an interview I unlock new thoughts and growth. I appreciate the content yal boys keep going and don’t ever stop 💯💪🏾
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This guy is the "Master" guys need to replicate. He's straight up.
Thanks J
#1 interview thus far
Thank you Rachael. Feel free to schedule a connection call with me.
www.kendallficklin.com/acuity
You really made me see how the role of a woman could be enhanced with this man of value! Where were you when I needed you guys 😂👠
I am a 48 year old woman. Who had her father for the first seventeen years of my life. He went to be with the Lord about eight years ago. I’ve learned and relearned a lot of things in this episode. I am watching it again as I am typing. Thanks so much for this.
Loved this conversation!!!
The advice about complements put things in perspective. I been hard on myself bc I'm learning how to manage and multiply money but not make more. Now I see that's a strength I'll bring into a relationship with someone whose strength is to make it. Thank y'all for high quality practical advice 🙏🏽
Thank you Ari. If you have any business/relational questions feel free to schedule a connection call with me.
www.kendallficklin.com/acuity
I say all the time. Everybody got a role to play...... He dropped MANY gems. Giving you tour flowers Mr. Ficklin!!
Thank you!!!
Wonderful interview, learned soo much!
Stunned with the wisdom of this man and these hosts today praise God for you all❤
I love this interview!!
Respect for all the gems dropped! Truly inspired by his leadership!
This was🔥🔥🔥🔥. Excellent content!
Amazing conversation!
Just... WOW! ...I SOOO needed to hear all of this right now! Thank you. God bless you all
Thank you. Feel free to schedule a connection call with me.
www.kendallficklin.com/acuity
This was soo great and very informative...
This was so inspiring!
Gotta watch this again💯 I am in that season where I don’t have time for all that extra either, but these targets, goals, and objectives jotted down. That slapped me in the face. Thanks brothers, new follower 💕
Loved this podcast! I’m 55 and I learned a lot and got confirmation on other things. Goals, objectives, and targets
Good Conversation!
This discussion was much needed.
Mannn I needed to hear this today!!! ❤I’ve never took notes during a podcast lol. Thank y’all!!!
Great interview 🔥🔥🔥🔥
This episode was so refreshing. Thanks for the gems that you've dropped sir.
I am a woman. And my God this touched my soul!!! Much respect to these brothers .
Thank you Kim. Feel free to schedule a connection call with me.
www.kendallficklin.com/acuity
Man!! I love his wisdom and masculinity!!!
I really LOVE the information that you put out and I really want to share with others BUT some may not give the chance to hear you out because of the profanity.
This was a excellent discussion with many nuggets! In every other culture it seems the norm of taking on a wife is valued and this concept of providing is understood. It baffles me that this could be considered stupid or dumb and the new idea in the black community appears to be a focus of men leading with money and investing in material things as a flex or bate to attract women and then complain if he has to provide. Why is it that unions these days seem to be more about her function or role in helping it elevating him financially then him being position to do that before he weds ? I would think as adults both men and women should be in a financial stable place with a posture to build, not come into the relationship looking to maintain what they may could not or now need her help to accomplish, achieve goals or thrive and it's more women doing this and responsible for households and communities without a roommate type situation. I agree, their should be a CEO and a CFO in the marriage just as a business. If her skill is stong in cultivating while you are providing the compromise should be that her finance can be allocated to help build, invest and add pleasurable balance to a higher quality of living until the ROI but not required. Women birth children, usually function as a caregiver whenever needed so if a household " requires" her income I personally would say the family is establishing a living beyond their means and setting themselves up for challenges. A women single leading and proving for herself is completely different the becoming someone's wife taking on a submissive posture of serve while basically being treated like a roommate! I would hope men in our community begin to see our intelligence and cultivating attributes that make the world go around. We bor legacies of stronger children and families, create viable and more productive black community with the bases of a strong union and strong family structure with a strong man that willfully provides. I have been married almost 25 yrs and have 4 son we preach creating a strong foundation before taking on a wife! The black community does not require worries so provision should be the standard.
I have been checking out the past podcasts and haven’t been disappointed. Happily I have subscribed to this channel. I look forward to the current content💕. As for the guest, I need to follow what ever he had going on. 😊
BAR....What I needed to do was more important than what I wanted to do. Whhhhheeeeewwww💖💖💖💖💖🔥🔥🔥🔥
Really enjoyed this episode
This was amazing..I loved this interview and the topics.
Ima just name this the best one yet fellas!
OMG PLEASE PUT HIM ON EVERY DAY! THIS IS AN AMAZING MAN, AN AMAZING MAN!!
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@@mellineacoffee1590 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
I agree next level fr
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I really truly hope they listen and understand what he shared. Especially when he said how much are you actually putting into those "important" things in your life. Because that defines how you approach relationships. I loved this. So helpful. Well done.
Facts On ALL Levels! Thank you‼️ 👑🔥🫶🏽🙏🏽
I am glad to hear you say that your mom made a Man. I tell people that all the time because it’s the mother that put everything in the child that they need to no. At 11 I taught my Son about responsibility how to pay utilities in the home and how to write checks and to become his own man and have his own business. I am very proud of him for he has his own business and have also built his own home. And I am great full that he listened
This interview here… I loved every bit of the wisdom and knowledge that was given here, I want/need more for my soul ❤
Thank you Mikelle. Feel free to schedule a connection call with me.
www.kendallficklin.com/acuity
Finally finished the whole episode. As a woman, this is the OG I need in my life. He confirms a lot of things I’ve been mediating about. Things I’m teaching myself as a woman and things I desire in a man.
(p.s ladies we all know when a man either has that dog in him or not. We be knowing lol)
Thanks for sharing
Thank You for this podcast, Coach thank you for your wisdom and revelation.
Thank you!!!
New Subscriber here. Great video alot of Men and Women need to watch this.
Thank you guys. I learned a lot and I can pass it on to my boys. To turn them it to men that are going correct.
WELL SAID👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Hardly Initiated has done it AGAIN!!!! Thank YOU!!! This 50/50 BS (we know who said that; will someone tell her to PLEASE SHUT UP). If you’re going to do 50/50 you’ve got a roommate. Stay SINGLE!!!!
Amazing listen, I truly loved all of this.
I’ve been in a relationship for four years , paid all the bills was the provider , I finally got out ! I need a real man , never experienced that !!!
Thank you! I needed this
I really enjoyed this episode.
Coach k! You real
This was a masterclass!!💯
Yes He Is A Real Man
This the real manosphere!
34:37 this is a great episode
Great interview
Love the shirt
Speak facts Kendall! Truth!
Whew, women have to remain in their space. Naturally we nurture and cultivate 🙌🏾 🙌🏾
Your next read fellas is “The Masculine In Relationship” by GS Youngblood! EVERYTHING you two need to know about maintaining your masculine frame in a relationship with a strong feminine woman! 💯
The title will throw you off. But damn it hit different. 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
Systems are definitely key
I love this!
Awesome!🙌🏾
...actual black men?!
I'm so happy.
Love this!!! ❤❤❤❤❤
Great conversation 👏👏👏👏
#NewSubscriber
The best podcast 💥💕💥💕💥💕
Dang I’ve been trying to find work life balance now I know!!!
Yes I have shared this episode too! Once again awesome and refreshing conversation. I took lots of notes. Thanks for all you you! Stay Blessed fellas
Rhythm, balance, tomato, tomatoe… some people want to be different so bad
“I’m 54 but I look 30”, no sir you look 54.
I like knowledge but not cockiness 🙄
😂😂😂😂
To all the women who think that not having a father matters - I grew up with my father, and a very good father at that, and still, I discovered that men can’t be trusted when I became a woman. In fact, my mother knew that men can’t be trusted too, bcuz when I was about 7 or 8 years old, my mother told me that I’ll never know what it is to have a good man, bcuz men don’t come like your daddy anymore. And of course, I didn’t believe her. But it turned out that what she said is true.
I don’t know what it is to have a good man. My mom was right on the money with that prediction. And what I actually found is that men are indifferent to nice moral women and prefer women not wrapped too tight and loose, and I was nice and moral. And refused to become something I’m not. Which is why I can’t trust men.
And the same thing is true for my niece who is 26. She still a virgin and don’t know what it is to have a good man either. So, I really don’t know what all this talk about men paying for everything is about. I seen a few guys do that, but there’s a tradeoff where those guys are a massive pain in the neck with it. Which is not worth it. Why live in pain just for the man to pay for everything?
Money is not what’s really going on between men and moral women. The real barrier is indifference. Men want to be struggle bandits to moral women and play them for suckers, and actually falls in love with 304 type of women and want to make it there. So, I’m not going all along with a man over money. I don’t care if he’ll pay for everything or not. I want nothing to do with a man who prefers a wild, loose, or mentally ill women bcuz I’m not like that. And money can’t compensate for incompatibility.
Teach!!!
Powerful 💥