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Ma'am What you have told is absolutely right......Iam taking Medications for depression for last 3.5 years....Psychiatrist not reducing the dose of medicines even after these much years.....Im slogging very hard in the work environment every day ..for being in the place where i not ought to be...Spending 9 hours here in this work environment is taking a hell out of me....but im forced to continue here ...for the sake of societal reputation ....for running family finances (my parents rely on my salary)....for partaking and sustaining my family's reputation....more over im not able to find an alternate option after resigning this post...stuck in the loop for the sake of parents,due to lack of clarity on future.....what to do next after resigning from here...Moreover friends warn me you will regret later if u resign the job ...without setting an alternate option....
Psychiaterist should reduce the dose and look how your body reacts to it but if he /she doesn't then consult other doctors.
In which position you're working? I'm sure with your experience slowly you can build another career for yourself, my brother used to work in corporate sector, he used to leave at 7am and used to come home at 10 pm, he wanted to leave the job but not bc of the family responsibilities, in COVID he got layed off from his job and now he opened his little restorant and he's happy and everyone is helping him.
@WittyCatty11.. I'm working in a media company....previously I was in marketing dept ...but due to severity of my illness...I requested my top management for Department change ....though in the same organization I'm working in another department...which need skills of a journalist...but not fits to my skills.....
@@RahulSharma-d3vIn the span of last 3.5 years ...I consulted / changed 4 doctors...all of them advised same medicines
Plz seek a good astrologer that might help. @@sreekanthm2296
12.26 eye opening statement . 100% true
3.06 also aptly said, working in a job which one doesn't like
People resonate when someone share it. Cause it makes us realise that we are not alone, we are not weak as label by others. I truly loved the way you said that respect, how you are wired. Thanks for making this video.
Agreed, I used to thinkay be it's me who cannot handle politics or work or people. But Anna death kind of made me realise I am not alone and not that is my problem
I left EY after 6 month of joining and bcoz I got to know they will suck my blood from my body😂😂 and moved to Microsoft...now I am alive😅😅
Thanks for sharing this, its really important to first take care of ourselves than worrying about losing some toxic job.. glad you realized soon... 💓
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Microsoft is also same, they are blood Sucker.
Hi Varsha,
More strength to you, you are putting it in words and to a broader forum, which many of us are unable to describe the feeling we go through on daily basis.
Hopefully this discussion of work culture is discussed within higher echelon of Corporate corridors.
Thanks a lot.. 🙏
Last line was amazing ,,,,,waiting for that video ,,,,,Thanks a lot
Every statement is filled with wisdom ..... Thanks for making such videos.
Many comes from background of lower middle class to even less. Lot of stugle is seen. Such people have lot of responsibilities. And done times they keep giving, burning out. Many people keep working hard, spending more hours but their office environment takes all but does not give credit. People around even family member does not understand and simply label them as weak for dealing with politics.
Its true when she said, its about how you are feeling the stress, not about how greatly others are dealing with it.
Respecting on wired personality is do much important.
Very true Varsha! I am suffering from Anxiety and over chatting in my mind which is killing me every second. I'm traveling in the wrong ship and I trapped myself.
Please work on getting yourself out of this, anxiety is a thing that you can't even explain to others, its destroys you slowly in silence.. no one understands how you actually feel... please take care and prioritize your health.. nothing else in the world matters if you don't feel well.. all the best..💓
You talked very sensibly, good to hear someone understands our problems and have empathy.
I was working for a corporate advertising company for a tenure of 1 year. Each and every day i felt over pressurized due to a toxic manager.
1) heavey workload
2) no proper recognition n lack of support
3) sleepless nights
Thank god i releived from that toxic workplace.
Thanks varsha for valuable advices! 👏👏
Please share your experiences - it will help us understand the situations of real world corporate culture - specially for freshers who are naive & inexperienced
In India, money >> physical and mental health
Btw, your communication skill is top notch. You said about accurate scenario.
Very true..each word in this video is eye opener
Extremely sad news, in India only Central Government Employees, Officials are getting huge DA increments, Salary every year, in private sectors only some and specific roles of employees are enjoying the maximum fruits and benefits of salaries, benefits etc etc, while on the other hand in almost various BPO/IT/ITES and other private sectors maximum sections of employees are only going through hustle, hard work, stress, fear of job loss, panics which is ultimately causing all kinds of diseases, complex diseases and bringing trauma, stress, anxiety in them and resulting in several life threatening illness or some fatal incidents, there is actually no proper laws and rules to talk on behalf of all this sections of private sector employees, they are just hired like some kinda labour's and then thrown into a box full of uncertainties only, we need proper justice for all this private sector employees soon right now and right away because we have already seen a lot and tolerated a lot.
True, stress is silently entering everyone's life at a very young and age and people are getting all sort of diseases, ailments which were only associated with very old age are now killing people full of youth & future.. really disheartening..
Government give a dash to how we are treated in Corporates they are more concerned about 30% tax. And spending it on free ka anaj and houses for others.
Join group d in railway or army enjoy life
12 years back in my office one person who is newly married passed away due to heart attack during night shift work.
That's very unfortunate 🥺 Thanks for sharing this.. 🙏 People at all levels should know this that stress is not fatal only to aged ones.. youth is at risk equally..
Excellent episode and outstanding insights Varsha. The very first point was an eye opener for me as to why people get stressed. I have spent over two and a half decades in the industry and I know many who have. I never felt stressed out despite working almost 16 hours a day sometimes even on weekends. Yes, I would feel exhausted and tired and sometimes even take one hour nap. The main reason now I understand is that actually I enjoyed what I was doing and I still do. In fact a couple of weeks ago I had put in that much work even at this age. There was no stress because I was eager to figure out things which I didn't understand and I am good at that and enjoy doing it.
Another very important point that you made was "Job/Earnings as a status symbol", the lure of it all. I myself have quit certain things just because I didn't enjoy doing it, eg MEAN stack despite the fact that I had got good feedbacks, there were demands and I was offered good money, much more than my core competency. But i just quit it because I wasn't enjoying it.
I probably might be ok with my work in tech . But job does not just involves that. It involves so much. I have shared your prev videos too worth shairing. But dont other hrs at corporate speaks so much crucial things at masses. Anyways thanks for your values you shared
Please share your story and experience with us so that it can help us understand how to deal with that situation if it arises.. Thanks in advance..
tq so much. its an eye opener.
Informative video mam. Even I'm trying to switch from the current non IT job but the current situation isn't allowing me to do so
Thank you for your advice. My experience is my asset and helps me a lot in dealing with the office politics
Very powerful video and very much relatable ❤
Hello Varsha Madam,
If next company employee joining ke samay pe your last working manager contact, colleague contact na mangtey hue only salary and bank statement slips maangtey hai for general verifications then only employee will start giving real feedback to HR teams while exit or while doing jobs ..kyuki tum interview clear karlo offer lelo then agar tum previous employer ke pass not required feedback mangtey aur wo manager personally tumhare se saath kuch bad past hoga toh wo tumko harm kar sakta agar next company us managers ko unnecessarily serious leke
Professionals should start looking at their well being and not just big brands, big titles,big money...its better to earn 20k less and keep work boundaries
In the same company, males worked 72 hours continuously and have resigned!
Naukar naukar hi hota hai 😂
Rest well Ma'am, such a tragedy !
Hi mam,
Thanks for addressing this.
But toxicity is everywhere now, how can we switch multiple times when we found one..
Please make video on this ...
So true please read the book Adrenal Fatigue
Our wellbeing is our responsibility. Companies care only about profits. Shaming employees for taking breaks is even prevalent in MNCs. The toxic hustle culture is glorified by some millennials. I have observed the generation Z is more aware about mental and physical health and speak up about it in workplaces and I feel great they are doing it. Like you rightly said job is just a way to earn money that's it. We should not link our success, prestige, social status to it.
Fine. Thank you
Varsha Ma'am......Im have no clue / clarity regarding what to do if i resigns my current job....Without Income / month end paycheque .....current depression and OCD Symptoms what i am facing now ...and taking medications for, will get worsen.... Kindly Advice Ma'am what to do in this juncture
I want to here your story.
Ye Dream company concept pata nhai kaha se aya ..duniya ke toppers say ya air kahi se
If someone has faced a similar situation what type of treatment should a person go for? Like a therapist, psychologist or which doctor?
So less awareness about all these things in our country
Resignation should be the first treatment. A full body oil massage (for as many days as you like and can afford) should be the second treatment. The question of other treatments arises if these two are insufficient.
Time ki limit mein and pay scale and salary ki limit mein pure din and har second unlimited Kam ka pressure and usko performance and Positive outcomes ka result dikhane mein stress....yeh sab ek middle class Wale employee ko jinda lassh bana deta hey 😭😭😭
Share this video until it reaches finance minister
I worked with that organisation for. 2 years left because I was overworked, 24*7 it was only work I could think of. No time for lunch or dinner. All shift and time zones were to be covered. Calls moved last minute, work dumped by uk, us stakeholder and they left on vacation 4 times a year minimum. By the end I had neck/head ache daily, left arm till head used to pain, was breathless even while on calls, anxiety all the time. I likedy work but not like this. And was threatened tby Indian bosses. 😢
Glad you can escape from a toxic environment and thanks for sharing, we all need to know that we are not alone, things happen with all of us, but we suffer in silos thinking its only us... take care.. 💓
@@theCorporateDiaries I agree, we can't even share it as trust is zero. Unfortunately Anna's death made it clear that it was not me, not that I was incapable of handling work, people na all. It was their culture. Thank you for this video ❤️
Now I am scared 😅 should i really go in corporate or should i just do some local job and start preparation for government jobs 😢
Government can be just as bad. I’ve been on both sides and imo government has been more toxic.
Sbko uss bichari ke name ke views khane hai
Work-Life BALANCE as an Employment Law..
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1. Work is supposed to support life and not vice versa..
2. Nothing bigger than Life..
3. But..No work..no money..no Life
4. Ideally there should be 50% work and 50% life..
5. Every human being borns empty and die empty..
6. Everyone needs minimum "capita income" & "Standard of living"
7. Life is Dynamic..so is work..so we need Dynamic Balance..
8. Work should lead to Flexible, Healthy and Prosperous Life..
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I dont like my job and want to resign but not getting any job elsewere. I have bills and EMI to pay.
Thanks for sharing this Varsha, it's true and relatable
👍👍 Please make next video on things in HR industry that HR don't want us to know
Glad u chose this topic❤
I couldn’t agree more. I myself experienced the extreme and honoured my health rather than seeking validation and I’m proud of it. Very sensitive and important topic and you gave justice to the topic. Thanks for making this one and would like to hear your story.
I work in a top MNC. I recently joined it after a switch but here Everyone almost daily talks about leaving the company..all the topics start somewhere and end on how to leave company..
Then I realised --
People just keeping talking about it but fail to take action on the things which they talk.
Wonderful video. Lots of pearls of wisdom peppered in there. Please continue you good work🙏
I am in a similar condition madam. Every day I hate going to work. Every day when I wake up my first thought is that again I have to go to work in that hell. I have planned to resign after 2026. I don't have any backup but I can't take this stressful life.
I feel that I fit in all these factors mentioned by you, I am exhausted
However I want to know what should one do, I mean what's the solution
Should I leave without a job
Hi mam love videos.
I just wanted to ask that in this tight market as an early professional should we negotiate the salary
Yes madam your have pointed out the core reason for stress, yes this is not only work place even in families and social society 😊
It is related to many of us. Thanks for sharing ur experience ❤
You have been a victim in your past
Thanks ma'm
I want to hear your story
I would love to hear your story.
Please make vedio on your story
Survive; you will rise ❤
Good Video
True
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Same things were happening with me.. I decided to left the job.. Though it was my dream job.. But nothing is bigger than my mental peace and my family
This video was definitely worth watching and listening to closely what you said. I do watch your videos even though when you talk about scenarios, they're based on IT/ Software industry when I happen to be someone who's worked in BPO industry only of which no one as credible as you talks about on UA-cam yet there are many aspects for example company policies, organization structure etc. are pretty much the same in IT and BPO in especially in both product and service based MNC companies so I always appreciate your 2 cents from every video that I watch from your channel. Please do share your story of how you got into that difficult phase of real stress and how you overcame it, that would be really helpful to many, myself included even though I have been into stress from work, had to quit many jobs, been on medications ot in short been there; however, the intensity of such issues are always different. Lastly, for now just want to say thank you so much for your valuable content, it really is invaluable!❤
👍👍👍👌👌👌thanks fr sharing it feels dat v r not alone.all felt worthless, couldn't handle office politics, n didnt like hectic corporate culture.
The bombastic vibe you've given that "Noukar noukar hi hota hai until you work for your own company " ! ❤❤❤❤
Of Course we would like to hear your story....
What you have shared means a lot.
I have already resigned and will take a career break. Made sure i have finance to back up for a year, and debt free.
Agreed with you Ma'am, it's eye opener
Be alert for this type of work culture
Please share your story
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I worked in the tech division of muthoot fincorp. Due to toxic work culture, i had to resign.
Thanks for sharing this... it helps people understand that its okay to leave toxic jobs.. and its not happening only to them.. we are all in it together and lets normalize saying "good bye" to toxic jobs on the spot..
Please make a Video on which Type of Companies can have a Toxic Work Culture.
1. Product Based Companies
2. Service Based Companies
Sure, though I already have some old videos on these 2 type of companies, but always remember, toxicity comes from people and you can find toxic managers everywhere.. the company might be great but you may get a reporting to the most toxic person of the company... so its really not about the type of company, its about the people you are working with...
Identify the toxicity as soon as you can and walk away...
Toxic people are everywhere. It is not based on which type of company. Having worked in both environments, I found toxic people in both places
Is it ok to expose toxicity of organization i am currently working after leaving it ? linked In
Trust me ,aise manager mil jaaye...bhar milte unhe do dho dunga...i will not stress...muje yad h meri mnc me naya manager aya tha daily daily negativity ,dream me oressure strees tab maine ek din decide kiya ab batunga sale manage r ...jo kehte professionally ulta jawab deta ...sala smjb gaya hoga ....ek bar maine sale ko smjya apni basha me subhajga jis din maine dream,stress feel Kiya tha excessively,...uske bat se sala thoda normal hua....age jabhi kaha kuch ...maine bhi professional smjyav..jo karna kiiye kar shift closed ,work ...ab line me a gaya. ....guys plese apni feelings smjna koi hr ,manager care nhi karenga.....darna nhi ...ye sab