HOW TO SUBMIT TO (RESPECT) YOUR HUSBAND

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  • The Bible admonishes women to submit to their husbands. This has met a lot of misinterpretations. What exactly does it mean in practical terms?
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  • @gloriaayira1559
    @gloriaayira1559 3 роки тому +164

    Submit your will to your husband
    Discuss your plans with him
    Make him feel like he is in charge
    Make him feel like a super hero
    .....well understood...God bless you

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  3 роки тому +3

      Great! Thanks for watching! Please share with others

    • @MyLifeAsRaphael
      @MyLifeAsRaphael 5 місяців тому +1

      Insecurity men with all the talk about submission.

    • @Arwaa.M.Jarrin
      @Arwaa.M.Jarrin 2 місяці тому

      Some men were created to be celibate. Celibacy is their test in the world. Because they're sensitive and emotional and because they are dependent on people and human emotions of feelings of love and loyalty, celibacy is their test and celibacy is their answer. Celibacy is their blessing and celibacy they think is their curse. And whenever an intelligent and wise man goes into a relationship and seeks love and happiness in this world from a woman, he ends up suffering so much through other reasons that he ends up emotionally and mentally breaking down and becoming depressed and dependent upon a man emotionally physically and eventually sexually.
      And many of them end up falling in love with younger boys after sexually being involved with an intelligent and emotional man who feels dishonoured and humiliated by the sexually serving their boyfriends and husbands.
      The answer is very simple. Celibacy...
      Purity. Piety. Chastity.
      Although for a person who is mentally and emotionally depressed and spends all his life crying weeping and wailing and being sad, the greatest nightmare of that person is to be single and chaste. But if they could suffer that pain of celibacy for 3 to 5 years, then they would find such happiness and such fulfilment in their lives and they would never ever have to go through the long part of seeking sexual pleasure from a woman and then falling in love with a man and then becoming a criminal to keep that man and then becoming a murderer and a monster and a weak person who is dependent on another person's love and has to destroy the universe and every religion and every law just to justify themselves and they're sick sexual sexuality.
      Although celibacy and Chastity is a word of fear and terror to men. These two words hold every honour, every friendship, every happiness, every power, every fulfilment, health happiness honour respect true friendships ultimate happiness and ultimate success in this world and the next for every single emotional and intelligent man.
      No man in the world suffered because of celibacy. No man in the world ever suffered because of chastity. No man was ever famed because he was celibate. No man was ever tortured because he was chaste. No man was ever tortured and humiliated and assaulted because he was pious. No man was ever killed murdered or framed for being celibate and chaste and pure

  • @pathforwardteam260
    @pathforwardteam260 6 місяців тому +18

    I don’t need to make my husband feel like he is a superhero. He Is a superhero. He is my super super hero. He is simply my Gift and Blessing from Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta Allah !

  • @mayasayonara9169
    @mayasayonara9169 10 місяців тому +19

    This is the first video where I hear submission is not 'silence'. I think that is very important because there are nuances to this commandment that need to be explained

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  10 місяців тому +3

      You surely listened intently. Thank you. Please share with others. Indeed, SUBMISSION IS NOT SILENCE!

  • @ashleynzambi5286
    @ashleynzambi5286 8 місяців тому +11

    Thank you for this video. Short with simple but practical elements to apply. I’m currently on a journey to learn to better submit to my husband and respect. Please pray for me 🙏🏾

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  8 місяців тому +1

      Thanks for watching. Kindly share with others. God be with you on the journey

  • @garimabr
    @garimabr 6 місяців тому +20

    Dear, future husband I'm working on myself to be a better wife for you ❤.

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  6 місяців тому +3

      Sounds so sweet. I wish you the very best on this journey

  • @Gracestephenson37
    @Gracestephenson37 6 місяців тому +5

    Current here to learn how to respect and appreciate my man.

  • @annemarielabreche
    @annemarielabreche 3 місяці тому +4

    You have confidence in his abilities to do everything. That is powerful.

  • @monicathompson9751
    @monicathompson9751 5 місяців тому +5

    GOD is preparing me for my Husband..
    Thank you this is great context..😊

  • @TamaraGrace
    @TamaraGrace 2 роки тому +6

    I really appreciated this video. It gave me more clarity. Thank you

  • @boxit9224
    @boxit9224 2 роки тому +11

    Thank you so much this really opened my eyes more on how to treat my man 🙏🏽💕

  • @aishagrace4637
    @aishagrace4637 2 роки тому +42

    I almost rule my marriage 😢 but all thanks to God almighty we are back together... I learnt from this a lot! God bless you sir

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  2 роки тому +5

      To God be the glory! I am glad this has been helpful. I pray that the happiness you have be multiplied as you enjoy the best of marriage

    • @aishagrace4637
      @aishagrace4637 2 роки тому +3

      @@JoeAndor amen!

    • @Kteerene
      @Kteerene Рік тому

      My dear im also learning alot

  • @empisusana3465
    @empisusana3465 2 роки тому +4

    Incredible insights. Thanks a lot for the explicit explanation. More grace🙏🏽

  • @latonyabostic7810
    @latonyabostic7810 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you . I really needed this topic broken down .

  • @juliekaloki6195
    @juliekaloki6195 Рік тому +16

    Thanks so much yesterday I almost ruined my relationship with my husband he loves me so much but I don't know I kept on arguing with him for 2 hrs for no apparent reason today I fasted and prayed theb I found you video thanks bro am watching from Poland

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  Рік тому +1

      I am glad that the content of the video was helpful. You can share with others. You can continue to enjoy the videos on this channel. God bless you.

    • @AlexisGonzalez-lm6ur
      @AlexisGonzalez-lm6ur 9 місяців тому

      I’m here for the same reason!

    • @susanhaines7358
      @susanhaines7358 2 місяці тому

      The Happy Wife School here on UA-cam can get some results too

  • @nehagupta1166
    @nehagupta1166 28 днів тому +3

    I submit my will to my husband, he will be the head of our family
    I will make him incharge
    I will make him my superhero
    I will discuss all the things with him

  • @mabelnakawooya1429
    @mabelnakawooya1429 2 роки тому +30

    Wow, Thank you for helping me understand this topic of submission better

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  2 роки тому

      Thanks for watching. Please share with others

  • @ebentechstudio
    @ebentechstudio Рік тому +4

    your smile alone is enough to make understanding easy

  • @Kiva3110
    @Kiva3110 4 місяці тому +5

    I’m engaged now and I want to get ready for marriage ❤

  • @Prodby629
    @Prodby629 4 місяці тому +4

    Never like the word submit ,
    But respect and willingness is better 🙏🏽💛

    • @canwetalk1790
      @canwetalk1790 2 місяці тому

      What you just said is you like your words better than God’s because that word is from the Bible as it pertains to Marriage. God chose to use that very word . Man did not choose that word. You have to ask yourself if you have a problem with the word submit which God chose to use. what other words that come from God do you have a problem with. We cannot choose which words to question, and which words not to, especially when it comes from the mouth of the living God. If you do that then you start to live your life according to your will, and not His

    • @melstarr1864
      @melstarr1864 Місяць тому

      @@canwetalk1790Remember, though, that the Bible was not written in English, and there are lots of translations out there.

  • @Aguywithacoolname
    @Aguywithacoolname 4 місяці тому +2

    I Truly Enjoyed, Loved Watching and Listening to you. Thank you for sharing and giving us these precious jewels..it is amazing..priceless. I am a very strong,intellegent, independent woman and omg my personality unmatched, it is soooo unbelievably dominant, Im soo confident w a sharp intuition so its extremely difficult for me to submit. I so want to submit to him,its the true desire in my heart but i jus didnt know what submit means..thank you so so so much !!!

  • @Tnc874
    @Tnc874 Рік тому +1

    Good video. You're very specific on Husband. And i 100% agree

  • @carolynclarke3682
    @carolynclarke3682 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much this is really helpful

  • @414_kiaraaa3
    @414_kiaraaa3 5 місяців тому +2

    LORD YOU REALLY GOT ME HERE THANK YOU ❤️ I WENT through hell and back YAHWEH SEEN IT ALL THANK YOU. MY HUSBAND IM GETTING READY

  • @Tania689
    @Tania689 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you for sharing and how you broke it down.

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  2 роки тому

      Thanks for watching. Keep enjoying the context here. And please share with others as well.

  • @Emma-jp1zq
    @Emma-jp1zq Рік тому +1

    thank you so much, i learned a lot!

  • @TheKingAndQueenionaire
    @TheKingAndQueenionaire 11 місяців тому +2

    Wonderful and Sound advice. I really needed to hear this like a year ago but glad Godl led me here today!
    I have subscribed ❤

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  11 місяців тому

      Thanks for the feedback and thanks for watching

  • @isaiahkarthur3228
    @isaiahkarthur3228 Рік тому +1

    Wow
    Insightful
    God bless you Sir

  • @mirandahughes
    @mirandahughes 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for doing this video!!! 🎉✝️👑🔥

  • @gideonafful955
    @gideonafful955 3 роки тому +1

    Good one there Dr!

  • @ayannalewis8470
    @ayannalewis8470 5 місяців тому +1

    Love this quotes

  • @SillyKoala
    @SillyKoala 2 роки тому +3

    Such a beautiful list.

  • @josephinesawai7353
    @josephinesawai7353 2 місяці тому +1

    Thanks very much Sir for your nice thoughts

  • @Caitlyn.brooke
    @Caitlyn.brooke Рік тому +7

    This helped me understand submissive way so much better thank you

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  Рік тому

      Thanks for watching. Please share with others

  • @susanhaines7358
    @susanhaines7358 2 місяці тому +1

    So many men think.submission means silence. We over here ducking because of their bad choices but cannot say Whoa!!!

  • @estherdurace5584
    @estherdurace5584 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks for this video

  • @tbri5852
    @tbri5852 2 роки тому +5

    Studying now since Im having relationship problems with my future husband

  • @laceyrhodes4858
    @laceyrhodes4858 Рік тому +2

    Thank you so much. 🙏🏼💞

  • @melodyvibes872
    @melodyvibes872 2 роки тому +2

    Thank You SIR.

  • @mintentional
    @mintentional Рік тому +7

    Thank you for this message. I'm ready to submit to him🙏

  • @damitaallen5481
    @damitaallen5481 4 місяці тому +1

    Great video 🤗❤️

  • @thanhhangdieukha
    @thanhhangdieukha 5 місяців тому +2

    Currently here to become a better woman for my man

  • @user-sj7gy9tu4h
    @user-sj7gy9tu4h Рік тому +1

    thank you for this, I think I was doing things in a wrong way.

  • @Nkosingiphile_LadyWisdom
    @Nkosingiphile_LadyWisdom 5 місяців тому +2

    ❤❤This is so practical and eloquent. Thank you Dr... I would like a more in depth on point NO 1... It sounds a little scary...

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  5 місяців тому +1

      It sounds really scary and looks difficult. But it’s just about recognition; not silence. Many people preach silence, but to submit implies that in everything you do, you should recognise the role of your husband.

    • @Nkosingiphile_LadyWisdom
      @Nkosingiphile_LadyWisdom 5 місяців тому +1

      @@JoeAndor please do you have a book for us? If not please consider it, 😊

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  5 місяців тому

      @@Nkosingiphile_LadyWisdom I have a book titled Little Giants. There are copies available for sale. You can also get a copy on Amazon kindle books

  • @texasseoul9779
    @texasseoul9779 Рік тому +1

    This was very helpful thank you 🙏

  • @pedrogarces4064
    @pedrogarces4064 Рік тому +1

    Thank you sir

  • @user-mf6sd4yq4r
    @user-mf6sd4yq4r 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you 😊

  • @HeidiGolff
    @HeidiGolff 10 місяців тому

    My husband IS my super-hero! I trust him to do what is best for me.

  • @vacaspen5038
    @vacaspen5038 2 роки тому +2

    21st century. It is not the only way but a chosen way of people.
    You are aware of other cultures.
    It is your life your body, Your mind And s Soul. Choose with awareness and participate in what you want. It's very good that people found it very practical mundane way to act out these practices

  • @amyj.4992
    @amyj.4992 2 місяці тому +1

    I love hyping my husband 💕👑 up and affirming the king 🌊👑💖 in him

  • @evelynmichael9142
    @evelynmichael9142 Рік тому +1

    Wow this is good

  • @MS-ns4ki
    @MS-ns4ki 3 місяці тому +1

    Someone is trying to teach me a lesson and make me submissive. I say this because if I approach him in a way that isn't with feminine kindness, he ignores me. It is challenging. If he treated me right, it would come naturally.

  • @UNQContour-xr8st
    @UNQContour-xr8st 25 днів тому +1

    Amen thank you Lord Jesus Christ Amen

  • @Jay-dq6vu
    @Jay-dq6vu Рік тому +1

    Thats very true

  • @thejojoverse1553
    @thejojoverse1553 Рік тому +3

    My husband says thank you.

  • @wejuliritasuccess8079
    @wejuliritasuccess8079 Рік тому +3

    Thank you sir for the teaching. However on the last point, there's a man who will tell you my duty is to provide for my family not to run around the house fixing Small small things. What do you do about that?

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  Рік тому +1

      That’s true. We can’t put all men in one group. Some are different. The majority of men would however prefer to be given the recognition; it builds their ego.

    • @irenesteele3913
      @irenesteele3913 2 місяці тому

      Please pray for me. I have dis this my way for 28 years and have suffered the consequences. I'm trying and praying it's not too late for my marriage. Please pray for me.

  • @chivonfortney1656
    @chivonfortney1656 9 місяців тому +1

    I need to work on this.

  • @melawieeinapfel8594
    @melawieeinapfel8594 2 роки тому +2

    what if I never make any plans?

  • @shakiyaashakiyaa4764
    @shakiyaashakiyaa4764 Рік тому +2

    Wow….. no wonder I’m getting the reaction I am getting from my man. He wants me to submit my Will …. And I just don’t think I can … the first man that let me down was my father that is why I do not put my life/plans in any /one man’s’ hands because I Will Not Let Me Down & I Will not Fail My Children And So My Thought Process Is What Guarantees Me He Has Me & My Children Like I Do ? I Work & I Make Good Money So That’s Already My Security What Else Am I Missing ?

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  Рік тому +1

      Submitting your will shouldn’t imply total silence. It is about recognition. Just let him feel like he’s your man. Things will fall in

  • @Porsher22
    @Porsher22 2 роки тому

    Thank you

  • @noahplays3698
    @noahplays3698 Місяць тому +1

    Omg!!! I am so controlling… and I’m getting married soon. I need to work on this. I have been a single mother for soooo long. Doing everything and taking care of everything.

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  13 днів тому

      I wish you all the best in your marriage. There’s no need to control; but remember that submission is not silence

  • @hotfunbread
    @hotfunbread 9 місяців тому +1

    Please send me and my SO good energy everyone, i really messed up as the women im his life & have left him depleted & so upset with me as I have disrespected him time & time again

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  9 місяців тому

      Connect and let us talk

  • @MirriamChijikwa-lc9jy
    @MirriamChijikwa-lc9jy 5 місяців тому +1

    Thankyou ❤🇿🇲

  • @miampoy
    @miampoy 9 місяців тому

    How do you submit when your husband left once, came back and then left again and now want you back in the condition that you’d leave everything behind to go where he is?

  • @bernicelatsu3127
    @bernicelatsu3127 10 місяців тому

    Thanks soo much i ve leaent alot.
    L

  • @beverlyampem7686
    @beverlyampem7686 4 місяці тому

    I won't to learn more about being submissive you have said a lot one of the things you said that I really like you said how to make our husbands full like a hero how do I do that

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  4 місяці тому

      Men naturally have an ego. They want to feel like they can solve problems. So your man will see your recognition if you allow him fix the simple things around the house without necessarily running to the "expert" every time. He wants to feel like an expert - your hero.

  • @Prophetessdaejaligula
    @Prophetessdaejaligula 2 роки тому +1

    Amen 🙏🏽

  • @unctionstudios
    @unctionstudios 4 місяці тому +2

    All these you said applies to husband too, Husbands should submit to wives too...

    • @Marysteven353
      @Marysteven353 Місяць тому

      Nowhere in the Bible is it written that a man should "submit" to his wife.
      However, he is mandated to love her, even as CHRIST loved the church.
      Let's try to live by the guideline that was given to us, which is the bible

  • @tdb19872
    @tdb19872 2 роки тому +22

    Submission to your husband and respecting (actually scripturally speaking it is to REVERENCE your husband) your husband are absolutely not the same thing. To respect one's husband is to show him the honor and deference due to him as your head, the one in authority over you. Submission to your husband is your obiedience to him in everything that isn't explicit sin, even to the extent you would obey Christ Himself. It's a very simple, black and white issue and at the very core of a woman's existence.

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  2 роки тому +1

      Thanks for the thoughts

    • @vacaspen5038
      @vacaspen5038 2 роки тому

      It's not the core of a woman. Remember there was a woman made 1st to show sleep on the tree of life DEI TY Granted her authority over for adamant Eve so that she can execute the punishment against her.
      Remember the most ties still AS HERA mother of Yeah Eve It's between a second type of woman and a transgendered male To female..

    • @tdb19872
      @tdb19872 2 роки тому +4

      @@vacaspen5038 are you high drugs or something? Not even sure what it is you're attempting to say. Woman was made from man, for man, to be mans helper and to be obiedient to him in all thing's not sin. Man was not made for woman, man was made to rule, woman was made to obey. Theses are simply hard biblical facts.

    • @ashley_brown6106
      @ashley_brown6106 Рік тому +1

      @@tdb19872 I have one word for you: evolution

    • @Chloeeezyyy
      @Chloeeezyyy 8 місяців тому +1

      That’s not Bible lol. 😆

  • @dannydyoh
    @dannydyoh Рік тому +4

    Ladies, listen to this man. Stop taking advise from other women regarding men. Most women don't know what they are saying. It's like a man giving advise to women about pregnancy.

  • @liberatedthroughsubmission
    @liberatedthroughsubmission Рік тому +1

    What is the biblical principle for submission?

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  Рік тому +1

      Husbands and wives are called upon to submit to one another out of reverence for God. This is demonstrated by love and submission. And so in my understanding, to submit is to give one’s spouse the needed recognition and attention.

  • @andreaberryman5354
    @andreaberryman5354 Рік тому

    I'm 45, own my home outright, have had to be in charge for so long, that I don't even know how to go about submitting to this man unless we live together. He wants me to move in and take charge of my life. Why am I not wanting him in charge???

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  Рік тому

      You don’t necessarily have to stop being in charge. Submission is about recognition. Recognize that you have a husband

    • @dannydyoh
      @dannydyoh Рік тому +1

      If you are a strong woman and don't need a man, there is no shame living and growing old alone. Many old women are doing it right now. You just need some pets. Living alone is better than living in a unhealthy relationship.

  • @riyapandey1426
    @riyapandey1426 28 днів тому +1

    he already feels like a superhero.now what?

  • @constipatedaf
    @constipatedaf Рік тому

    I need help.
    I have problems respecting and submitting my husband. He disrespect me Infront of ppl, he disregard my wishes, he disrespect my family and my culture and most importantly he has hit me multiple times.
    How to trust him?

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  Рік тому

      Let’s plan to talk in detail if possible. We can work things out.

    • @Plans4YouJer2911
      @Plans4YouJer2911 7 місяців тому

      Physical Abuse is Wrong
      Depending on where you live
      If in the USA, there are safe houses
      If you have children, take them with you

  • @user-yl2ej4ex6l
    @user-yl2ej4ex6l 3 місяці тому +1

    Lord 🙏 please help me to respect my man always please 🙏 Lord

  • @ayannalewis8470
    @ayannalewis8470 5 місяців тому +1

    Amennnn

  • @minkatekodanielle8828
    @minkatekodanielle8828 8 місяців тому +1

    I'm single but I'm praying for a good partner and I'm trying to be a good partner to them

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  8 місяців тому

      May God grant you your heart’s desires

  • @juliacarter9240
    @juliacarter9240 Рік тому

  • @junillasangma6161
    @junillasangma6161 2 місяці тому +1

    I want to be good wife to my husband❤

  • @chrisharris2367
    @chrisharris2367 2 роки тому +2

    But men and women are to both be faithful and men to love their wives and take care of their home financial
    Most men arent faithful hence marriages dont last

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  2 роки тому

      True. Both husbands and wives have a role to play…. Please find in link below my post on what the husband ought to do…..
      ua-cam.com/video/GNUqpIBLv4U/v-deo.html

  • @queenace2070
    @queenace2070 2 роки тому +10

    What about a narcissist husband who never takes accountability for their share of the wrong in the marriage?

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  2 роки тому +22

      In the first place one should not make the mistake of marrying such a man. Marry a man that you can respect. If you can’t do so, the marriage can’t be enjoyed!

    • @queenace2070
      @queenace2070 2 роки тому

      @@JoeAndor I am not able to leave this husband I am so in love with him.

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  2 роки тому +6

      @@queenace2070 In that case, I think you’ll need counseling on how to accept him for who he is and adjust your principles to live with him

    • @queenace2070
      @queenace2070 2 роки тому +2

      @@JoeAndor Thank you 🙏 I will if God give me strength 😭😢😏

    • @sanelesikosana4437
      @sanelesikosana4437 2 роки тому +4

      @@JoeAndor But shouldn't the ''adjusting'' be done by both partners?

  • @lifewithtshidiedza381
    @lifewithtshidiedza381 2 роки тому +8

    Submission is mutual
    We submit to one another
    Narcissim teaches submit to your husband but reality no Marriage is likely to be without abuse if the wife submits only.....never marry a man who won't submit to you or your abilities

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  2 роки тому +4

      So true. In my presentation on “HOW TO LOVE YOUR WIFE”, I made this point. Thanks for highlighting it.

    • @saikoa2129
      @saikoa2129 Рік тому +1

      Respectfully it's not mutual..... Either your in will of the most high or not.... As a married man I love my wife as Christ loved the church..... Meaning displaying fruits of the spirit..... Just like in Eden, Eve/women are easily influenced by outside device's. Christian women in general are failing due to applying worldly concept's to an institution the most high established not man. A man does Not submit to his wife. He submits to Christ..... There's no compromise nor bargaining for a higher position. Christ submits to the father... And children submit to their mother's..... Unfortunately most women in general think they can compromise their way out of the established order. A woman that's totally submitted to God shouldn't have an issue submitting to her husband.... It contradicts the very intuition many women claim to have........ You can't be out of order and believe God is still blessing you. Believer's today have been so indoctrinated into prosperity teaching they forget even Satan offered Christ All the kingdoms of the world if he just worshipped him..... Gotta check your source.... Either we're going to do what the word says or not but you can't serve 2 masters 🤷🏿‍♂️

    • @lifewithtshidiedza381
      @lifewithtshidiedza381 Рік тому

      @@saikoa2129 lol....if u think u can't submit to your wife how are u going to live on earth with her daily??? U mean u can do anything in your home cos you are a man....this is Hilario. Mutual submission my brother it means u respect the abilities of one another and their strengths and so forth. It's only proudly men , narcissists that think u can't submit to your wife as a man. How do u live with them then. You should come to my church and let my pastor teach you on that. He will mentor u.

    • @lifewithtshidiedza381
      @lifewithtshidiedza381 Рік тому

      @@saikoa2129 let me help you....if you want to buy a car and your wife says no...let's rather build a house....what is a man supposed to do??? A man of God who loves the Lord and is not of pride will sit down with his wife and talk to his wife.....u can't do anything as a man cos the Bible says wives should submit to a man....you will come out as an abuser.....u must be careful

    • @saikoa2129
      @saikoa2129 Рік тому

      @@lifewithtshidiedza381 you using extremes to a simple situation 🤦🏿‍♂️ a Man that's submitted to Christ is already in position. You can make All the excuses you want but you can't negate what the word says or what it instructs wives to do...... So let me ask you a question.... Are you submitted to the Most high🤔 bc if you are..... Your discernment should be A1.... Better yet another question.... I suppose kids can negotiate what type of parent you should be, what type of job you have, decide where the money goes, tells you when you can eat??..... It's ironic you'd expect a child to submit to you but you won't submit to your husband...... Again it's out of order..... The steps of a righteous man is led by God therefore if you are prayed up and totally submitted........ you shouldn't have to come up with all these reasons for not doing so...... Personally speaking my wife and I are equally yoked. Therefore she understands my needs as a man and her needs as a woman aren't the same..... To love your wife like Christ loved the church means displaying fruits of the spirit.... Which are love joy peace long suffering gentleness goodness meekness faithfulness temperance..etc.... To submit to your husband simply means to yeild. Like I said earlier too many Christian women try to apply worldly concept's to an institution only the father established. Being the head doesn't mean dictator like most have been conditioned watching all these Tyler Perry plays and movies..... Being the head of the family means you take on sole responsibility for your families well being and is held accountable.... To the most high....... You want equal power but not equal responsibility and accountability that comes along with it..... In a nutshell two individuals who are completely submitted to God can discern and see These red flags before courtship begins...... Anything else besides that is your own doing. Happily married with 2 boys... We work together Yes but we understand our roles. Anything with 2 heads is a monster.

  • @R-avel-Gifted
    @R-avel-Gifted 4 місяці тому

    I think it has to be equal I live in the land of the equality so that men have to submit to his wife and his wife have to submit to his modern times wife has to be loving and caring for the husband and Share everything time space memorize plants, success, intimacy,

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  4 місяці тому

      I think you should probably watch the sequel which is for men.
      I believe in equality

  • @R-avel-Gifted
    @R-avel-Gifted 4 місяці тому

    I am from America woman in America are very independent, so I think I will be having a lot of trouble sumeeting to a man I’m not slave

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  4 місяці тому

      Submission is not slavery. Biblical submission is not about where one comes from. Women everywhere are supposed to be INDEPENDENT, not only American women. However, irrespective of where you come from, the fact that you’re independent doesn’t mean you should disrespect the man you are married to. Submission is about recognition, not slavery.

  • @kofiadom3667
    @kofiadom3667 3 роки тому +3

    Hahahaha
    What does it mean when you say ‘he’s not really in charge?’

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  3 роки тому +21

      Marriage is a partnership and it takes the two to move things. So in reality, the man alone is not REALLY in charge

  • @ibtissamchoukri3137
    @ibtissamchoukri3137 2 роки тому +1

    Do all those things for urself for reinforcing ur confidence sweety not for ur husbands confidence u re not a psycolog

  • @desmondlewis4860
    @desmondlewis4860 Рік тому +3

    When you say , "Make him feel like he's in control even though he's not in control," contradicts your entire video.

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  Рік тому +4

      It may look like a contradiction, but in actual fact, it is not. Marriage is not particularly in the control of any one of the partners. Usually men think they are the ones in control. Hence, when they come to the reality that they are not, it hurts their ego.
      For a woman to show respect to her husband, she has to give him the needed RECOGNITION so as to make them feel like they are in charge. So the essence of that point is for the woman to give him the recognition.

    • @desmondlewis4860
      @desmondlewis4860 Рік тому +1

      @Dr. Josiah B. Andor so give him recognition by being deceptive? Ok. The video would be better titled as "Make him think he's in control".

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  Рік тому +1

      @@desmondlewis4860 Giving your man the needed recognition doesn’t imply deception. If it is deceptive, then you shouldn’t even be married in the first place.

    • @kearakent5935
      @kearakent5935 8 місяців тому

      Y'all egos real hurt. At the end of the day you can't control ANYBODY but yourself. With that being said would you want to be with a helpless man nor a man who does not see his worth, who does not see that he is in control of not only himself but his relationship? Would you rather have a man you can walk over and boss around? When a man feels out of control he breaks down mentally and emotionally. Again NOBODY CONTROLS ANYONE OR ANYTHING BUT THEMSELVES AND HOW THEY REACT TO ANY GIVEN SITUATION AT ANY GIVEN TIME. You don't control him or your kids or anyone else and neither does he but he still needs to know sometimes.

  • @TreyParkersBitch
    @TreyParkersBitch Рік тому +2

    Oh, a man telling me to submit and accept a man’s authority. I don’t think so. I’m in a committed relationship and we do not hold authority over each other. You can try to be like, “It’s not about explicit obedience” but that’s what it is. What about men being better husbands to their wives?

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  Рік тому +2

      Please watch the sequel to this, HOW TO LOVE YOUR WIFE, where I spoke about the role men should play.

    • @OfficiallyCey
      @OfficiallyCey Рік тому +3

      You are in your masculine energy not your divine feminine energy

    • @TreyParkersBitch
      @TreyParkersBitch Рік тому

      @@OfficiallyCey I am very feminine. What kind of whacko bases femininity on being submissive to a man?

    • @priscillachinsembu4669
      @priscillachinsembu4669 3 місяці тому

      Oh wow he is talking to women not men🤦🏿‍♀️why do you people need to make this so tough.....

  • @R-avel-Gifted
    @R-avel-Gifted 4 місяці тому

    Funny, sorry I think I do I wouldn’t have no problem telling my husband everything I do but I am not the type of submissive woman. I am independent like if I want to travel somewhere because I’m a prophetess I help the homeless I travel different cities normally spend four months in each city do whatever I need to do. Is the only person I am submitted to is God

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  4 місяці тому +1

      You don’t need your husband’s approval to do your God-given tasks. But as a godly wife, you need to give your husband the needed recognition. That’s what submission is all about. It’s not about asking for his permission to travels.

  • @simpliceiradukunda276
    @simpliceiradukunda276 6 місяців тому +1

    I received the grace to respect and submit to my Husband in Jesus’s name

    • @priusa8113
      @priusa8113 6 місяців тому +1

      La ilaha ila Allah ❤

  • @dmc1093
    @dmc1093 15 днів тому

    Why why why?? Should a women submit???? Are we not equal actually women are superior we produce life !! End of story .Relationships are equal give a take ...

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  13 днів тому

      Did you really watch the video? Your views and the views expressed here are not different. Except the superiority mentality.

  • @aikozoe6598
    @aikozoe6598 2 роки тому +4

    respect for the spouse goes both ways and it is the very same respect. man should respect his wife just as much as the wife respects her husband. the same way.
    The Bible says the husband is supposed to submit and obey his wife just as much as the wife should submit and obey her husband. the husband is supposed to put his wife first. he is supposed to DIE to himself for the sake of his wife. of course God is always first. for the husband and for the wife. there is no question about that. but in case of the husband he should put his wife first. befire himself. the Bible says that the woman is man's helper. that the very same word "helper" was used in refference to God Himself. God is our (people's) Helper. the very word HELPER means in that case that "a stronger one is helping the waker one" - the woman helps as the stronger one to the weaker one. this is what hebrew language conveys.
    eph 5;21 says KJV: "Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God." this verse is very simple to understand.
    in eph 5;25 we read "Husbands, love your wives just as Christ loved the church and gave himself for her" - it is a very easy verse to understand. it says that the husband is supposed to die for his wife. as Christ died for His Bride the Church. Lord Yeshu died on the cross with a lot of pain and suffering and agony in order to serve His Bride, to save her, to make her His Bride. the same way the husband is supposed to die to himself (his well being, his benefits, his pleasures,) and always put his wife's needs, calling, well-being, advantage, progress, happiness before him. men think that they are supposed to love their wives as they please.... no. no, no, no, no...nothing like that...1 cor 13:4-8 shows HOW they are supposed to love their wives: "Love is patient, love is kind, it is not envious. Love does not brag, it is not puffed up.
    It is not rude, it is not self-serving, it is not easily angered or resentful.
    It is not glad about injustice, but rejoices in the truth.
    It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
    " and SUCH should be the husband's love toward his wife....
    also in phl 2;3 we read about relationships "Instead of being motivated by selfish ambition or vanity, each of you should, in humility, be moved to treat one another as more important than yourself." - this is the Biblical model of treatining the wife by her husband.
    also in mat 20;27 we read about those who want to be first and lead: "and whoever wants to be first among you must be your slave" -
    The truth is that we all are supposed to serve one another, submit one to another, love one another. serving is the lifestyle of Bible believers. this is how we are to live. why? because we follow our Lord God and Savior Jesus Christ and the Bible says about Him: "just as the Son of Man did not come to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many." (mat 20;28)
    The Bible more often reminds women about submission because it is their weak point (women are natural leaders. if it wasnt so the punishment for the sin in the garden of eden about the man's rulership (which was done away with by the redemption of the Lord Jesus) would not have been punishment) and the Bible reminds men about loving their wives because it is their weak point but both - the woman and the man are supposed to love and submit and serve one another.

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  2 роки тому +2

      Excellent Submission. Respect/Submission is a two-way affair. Thanks for this. You may look at my sequel to this video, “How to Love your wife”. I touch on some of these issues that elude a lot of people.

    • @aikozoe6598
      @aikozoe6598 Рік тому

      @@TheSonOfGodWorshipsTheFather yes, Lord Yeshu Hamashiyah is our Lord and Savior. so it is good to stick to HIS Word and truth, not our traditions and human teachings

  • @ayannalewis8470
    @ayannalewis8470 5 місяців тому

    Submissive to your husband is listening and obeying is authority role in family and also have mutual agreement and working together

  • @ibtissamchoukri3137
    @ibtissamchoukri3137 2 роки тому

    U try ur all to make it funny right ?!

  • @womenjones6263
    @womenjones6263 2 роки тому +5

    We are to submit only in the fruits of the spirit.
    This man will have you on the wall of the Republic of Gilead. Little by Little man like this will have you lock in the your house. If you are under your husband's control than your husband will know he is loves by you. Ha Ha Ha. This is not a man of God. God let your will be done.
    If he is walking in the ways of the Lord, Our God he will not need to control you.
    Love is not ownership.

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  2 роки тому

      What does it mean to submit “in the fruits of the spirit”?

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  2 роки тому +2

      Have you watched “HOW TO LOVE YOUR WIFE”? It’s by the same man you claim is not a man of God simply because you think submission means suppression. You may need to do a comprehensive review

    • @womenjones6263
      @womenjones6263 2 роки тому +1

      @@JoeAndor ok. I will look at it. Thank you

    • @womenjones6263
      @womenjones6263 2 роки тому

      Number 4 was good.

    • @womenjones6263
      @womenjones6263 2 роки тому

      How dose God say to love one another ?
      Ephesians 4:2
      With all lowliness and meekness, with longsuffering, forbearing one another in love
      The Lord is slow to anger
      Work on your anger.
      "Nehemiah 9:17
      And refused to obey, neither were mindful of thy wonders that thou didst among them; but hardened their necks, and in their rebellion appointed a captain to return to their bondage: but thou art a God ready to pardon, gracious and merciful, slow to anger, and of great kindness, and forsookest them not.
      Joel 2:13
      And rend your heart, and not your garments, and turn unto the Lord your God: for he is gracious and merciful, slow to anger, and of great kindness, and repenteth him of the evil.
      Jonah 4:2
      And he prayed unto the Lord, and said, I pray thee, O Lord, was not this my saying, when I was yet in my country? Therefore I fled before unto Tarshish: for I knew that thou art a gracious God, and merciful, slow to anger, and of great kindness, and repentest thee of the evil.
      Nahum 1:3
      The Lord is slow to anger, and great in power, and will not at all acquit the wicked: the Lord hath his way in the whirlwind and in the storm, and the clouds are the dust of his feet.
      compassion
      2 Kings 13:23
      And the Lord was gracious unto them, and had compassion on them, and had respect unto them, because of his covenant with Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, and would not destroy them, neither cast he them from his presence as yet.
      2 Chronicles 30:9
      For if ye turn again unto the Lord, your brethren and your children shall find compassion before them that lead them captive, so that they shall come again into this land: for the Lord your God is gracious and merciful, and will not turn away his face from you, if ye return unto him.
      2 Chronicles 36:15
      And the Lord God of their fathers sent to them by his messengers, rising up betimes, and sending; because he had compassion on his people, and on his dwelling place
      God of patience
      So you learn and because patience
      Romans 15:5
      Now the God of patience and consolation grant you to be likeminded one toward another according to Christ Jesus:
      2 Corinthians 6:4
      But in all things approving ourselves as the ministers of God, in much patience, in afflictions, in necessities, in distresses,
      1 Thessalonians 1:3
      Remembering without ceasing your work of faith, and labour of love, and patience of hope in our Lord Jesus Christ, in the sight of God and our Father;
      2 Thessalonians 1:4
      So that we ourselves glory in you in the churches of God for your patience and faith in all your persecutions and tribulations that ye endure:
      1 Timothy 6:11
      But thou, O man of God, flee these things; and follow after righteousness, godliness, faith, love, patience, meekness.
      Hebrews 10:36
      For ye have need of patience, that, after ye have done the will of God, ye might receive the promise.
      Revelation 1:9
      I John, who also am your brother, and companion in tribulation, and in the kingdom and patience of Jesus Christ, was in the isle that is called Patmos, for the word of God, and for the testimony of Jesus Christ.
      What dose God say about our conversation s
      Psalm 50:23
      Whoso offereth praise glorifieth me: and to him that ordereth his conversation aright will I shew the salvation of God.
      2 Corinthians 1:12
      For our rejoicing is this, the testimony of our conscience, that in simplicity and godly sincerity, not with fleshly wisdom, but by the grace of God, we have had our conversation in the world, and more abundantly to you-ward.
      Galatians 1:13
      For ye have heard of my conversation in time past in the Jews' religion, how that beyond measure I persecuted the church of God, and wasted it:
      Ephesians 2:3
      Among whom also we all had our conversation in times past in the lusts of our flesh, fulfilling the desires of the flesh and of the mind; and were by nature the children of wrath, even as others.
      Ephesians 4:22
      That ye put off concerning the former conversation the old man, which is corrupt according to the deceitful lusts;
      Philippians 1:27
      Only let your conversation be as it becometh the gospel of Christ: that whether I come and see you, or else be absent, I may hear of your affairs, that ye stand fast in one spirit, with one mind striving together for the faith of the gospel;
      Philippians 3:20
      For our conversation is in heaven; from whence also we look for the Saviour, the Lord Jesus Christ:
      1 Timothy 4:12
      Let no man despise thy youth; but be thou an example of the believers, in word, in conversation, in charity, in spirit, in faith, in purity.
      Hebrews 13:5
      Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have: for he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.
      Hebrews 13:7
      Remember them which have the rule over you, who have spoken unto you the word of God: whose faith follow, considering the end of their conversation.
      James 3:13
      Who is a wise man and endued with knowledge among you? let him shew out of a good conversation his works with meekness of wisdom.
      1 Peter 1:15
      But as he which hath called you is holy, so be ye holy in all manner of conversation;
      1 Peter 1:18
      Forasmuch as ye know that ye were not redeemed with corruptible things, as silver and gold, from your vain conversation received by tradition from your fathers;
      1 Peter 2:12
      Having your conversation honest among the Gentiles: that, whereas they speak against you as evildoers, they may by your good works, which they shall behold, glorify God in the day of visitation.
      1 Peter 3:1
      Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;
      1 Peter 3:2
      While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear.
      1 Peter 3:16
      Having a good conscience; that, whereas they speak evil of you, as of evildoers, they may be ashamed that falsely accuse your good conversation in Christ.
      2 Peter 2:7
      And delivered just Lot, vexed with the filthy conversation of the wicked:
      2 Peter 3:11
      Seeing then that all these things shall be dissolved, what manner of persons ought ye to be in all holy conversation and godliness
      Seek to be meek
      Zephaniah 2:3
      Seek ye the Lord, all ye meek of the earth, which have wrought his judgment; seek righteousness, seek meekness: it may be ye shall be hid in the day of the Lord's anger.
      Numbers 12:3
      (Now the man Moses was very meek, above all the men which were upon the face of the earth.)
      Learn to be meek and lowly
      Matthew 11:29
      Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.
      1 Corinthians 4:21
      What will ye? shall I come unto you with a rod, or in love, and in the spirit of meekness?
      2 Corinthians 10:1
      Now I Paul myself beseech you by the meekness and gentleness of Christ, who in presence am base among you, but being absent am bold toward you:
      Galatians 6:1
      Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual, restore such an one in the spirit of meekness; considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted.
      Colossians 3:12
      Put on therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering;
      2 Timothy 2:25
      In meekness instructing those that oppose themselves; if God peradventure will give them repentance to the acknowledging of the truth;
      Titus 3:2
      To speak evil of no man, to be no brawlers, but gentle, shewing all meekness unto all men.
      James 1:21
      Wherefore lay apart all filthiness and superfluity of naughtiness, and receive with meekness the engrafted word, which is able to save your souls.
      James 3:13
      Who is a wise man and endued with knowledge among you? let him shew out of a good conversation his works with meekness of wisdom.
      1 Peter 3:4
      But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.
      1 Peter 3:15
      But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts: and be ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you with meekness and fear:
      How to Love your wife
      How did God love his people?
      How did God love the church?
      Show them how God did these thing.
      Like God be slow to anger
      Like God have patience
      Like God be compassionate
      Like God be kind and merciful
      Like God be humble
      Like God forgive
      Tenderheared

  • @malissahyatt2425
    @malissahyatt2425 Місяць тому +1

    😜😜😜😜😜😜😜😜😜😜😜😜😜😜
    NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE. NOPE.

  • @neoveronica9907
    @neoveronica9907 Рік тому

    Depends what kind of a man mine shoo o feletsa o mo rogile jerrrrr🥴🤔😅😂

    • @JoeAndor
      @JoeAndor  Рік тому

      True. It depends on the kind of man. So I often say, don’t marry a man you can’t respect. Just don’t! If he’s not worth your respect, he’s not worth marrying.

  • @user-bj9lz8mp5s
    @user-bj9lz8mp5s 17 днів тому +1

    Clinically diagnosed narcissist?

  • @Jenniferimafidon20
    @Jenniferimafidon20 Рік тому +1

    Thank you sir