Wrestling with Comparisons | J.B. Haws | 2019

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  • @SCPN333
    @SCPN333 2 місяці тому +5

    I'm glad my friend in YSA showed me this video.
    I left the church 5 to 7 years ago, I left mostly because I compared myself to others in the church.
    Friends were going on missions. Everyone in my ward seemed to be doing a lot better than me.
    I felt like I was an alien visiting from another planet and just couldn't wait to go home.
    I came back on Mother's Day of 2024, and everything was going well until recently, I started to compare again.
    My friend in YSA, though, showed me this video, and I am glad he did.
    It brought me great insight.

  • @KAMCmom
    @KAMCmom 2 роки тому +34

    Wow. I am a bit in shock right now at how comprehensibly this expresses something I have yearned to finally wrap my head around for years and years but kept coming up short of understanding. Thank you Bro. Haws for taking on your wrestle and helping me with mine. This has been added to my treasured collection of must hear talks and I am so very thankful to have found it today.

    • @itsgoodforthesoul9749
      @itsgoodforthesoul9749 Рік тому +1

      I love your comments and love you experienced this. As I have been turning my listening pleasures more toward things of the Lord; I too have had this same experience actually many times in the last 3 months. I have really needed this too!

  • @michaelwilson8286
    @michaelwilson8286 5 років тому +60

    Thank you Brother Haws for accepting this assignment. You will never know how much I needed to hear this message. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

  • @williamkerr6852
    @williamkerr6852 5 років тому +41

    J.B. - I was watching the “Don’t Miss This” video on UA-cam for this week’s “Come Follow Me” lesson when I saw your BYU Devotional at the top of the “Up Next” column, and although it was getting late I couldn’t pass it up. Your address was so timely for me because I fall into the comparison trap repeatedly. I am getting better at recognizing it and rejecting the thoughts as they occur, but there still seems to be a never-ending procession of comparisons on my mind. Thank you for your inspired presentation, it could not have been more timely for me. Things have come full circle - as a young missionary your dad taught Connie and myself 48 years ago. Your mom and dad took us through the temple when you were just a newborn - and now I get to learn from you with the same love and spirit that your dad had when he taught us. Thank you.
    Bill & Connie Kerr, Ohio

  • @kittyhunter01
    @kittyhunter01 3 роки тому +7

    Thank you for heeding your prompting to accept the opportunity to give this talk.

  • @michaeldraut
    @michaeldraut 3 роки тому +12

    Thank you Brother Haws. This talk is just as healing now as it was when you first gave it.

  • @rach5491
    @rach5491 3 роки тому +9

    Brother Haws still a power house for good. You were one of my favorite seminary teachers in high school. So grateful I had the privilege to learn from you and still to this day. Loved your devotional.

  • @joleneallen3043
    @joleneallen3043 4 роки тому +5

    What a wonderful talk. I would give anything to set at the lunch table and have those wonderful talks from you. To know how humble you are and how you want others to love the gospel as you do. You have a special place in my heart. I was so lucky to have worked with you for 3 years. Learned so much.

  • @Make.it.a.great.day2024
    @Make.it.a.great.day2024 3 роки тому +7

    This is one of my favorite talks. It was so well delivered . I have listened to it several times and shared it even more. Thanks for helping be a better person.

  • @normanharris6023
    @normanharris6023 5 років тому +9

    i have heard your talk now over 15 times. love every part of your testimony and talk....!! thank you I needed this...!

  • @jenniferfiso4403
    @jenniferfiso4403 3 роки тому +5

    One of my favorite talks. And I love Dr. Haws already. I feel his humility and genuine spirit. Thank you for this wonderful talk. And you were so awesome in Follow Him too. Thank you.

  • @monicagupta2646
    @monicagupta2646 3 роки тому +7

    A magnificiently remarkable and soul shaking talk. Thank you Bro Haws❤... Good reminder indeed ❤🙏

  • @daviddrysdale8882
    @daviddrysdale8882 3 роки тому +2

    Son of Hooper... Inspired teachings! You mentioned Maxwell, who reminded us that the singular pronoun, I, has no knees to bend, while the plural, we, bends it's knees...

  • @familynash3579
    @familynash3579 5 років тому +15

    This made a huge impact in my life! Thank you J.B.Haws! My first
    BYU Devotional was in the Fall of 1977 - this one was the best yet!

  • @everybodyndemdag
    @everybodyndemdag 5 років тому +10

    "This is His brother" I love that !!! What a great talk.

  • @brikarcrawford
    @brikarcrawford 3 роки тому +3

    This came at a time when I was praying that others might know that I love God because of the way I love them. Thank you!

  • @nquincyadams
    @nquincyadams 8 місяців тому +1

    This was amazing. I needed to hear this

  • @shredfreak93
    @shredfreak93 3 роки тому +4

    You did a wonderful job Brother Haws! I put this in a long list of devotional/general conference talks to refer back to. Thank you for this truly inspirational devotional and may God bless!

  • @al_lahn4264
    @al_lahn4264 Рік тому

    I'm so glad I listened to the prompting to find a BYU devotional speech this morning and found this one. I'm going to have to listen again, and perhaps again a third and many more times.

  • @Juicawins83
    @Juicawins83 10 місяців тому +1

    Best seminary teacher Ever! So Grateful to have had your guidance in high school. And even more grateful as an adult. Thank You!💕

  • @ZachJ367
    @ZachJ367 5 років тому +14

    Listen to this at 0.75 speed so it sounds more normal.
    Also that story at the end really got to me. I feel the love that God has for each of us as we are His literal Family.

  • @michelleahlmer7480
    @michelleahlmer7480 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you for accepting the invitation to speak. You have touched my heart.

  • @scottsoward
    @scottsoward 3 роки тому +2

    What a beautiful talk, so glad you decided to go through with it. Perfect reminder!

  • @mdudley775
    @mdudley775 3 роки тому +4

    I needed to hear this. Probably more than once. I'm so glad you spoke.

  • @ChadAtkinson
    @ChadAtkinson 5 років тому +7

    A beautiful, inspiring message. I can see that I have become too focused on myself - and this does not help me be the best I can be as an instrument in God’s hands and a blessing in the lives of others

  • @alyshiarobison2290
    @alyshiarobison2290 Рік тому

    I kept having to check that I wasn't listening to this on 1.5. I loved it all, beautiful!

  • @tyleralger6083
    @tyleralger6083 4 роки тому +2

    This talk is exactly what I needed today. Such an inspiring reminder to me to stop comparing myself against others.
    I will never forget that quote: "the race is against sin, not each other."

  • @AdamBalinski
    @AdamBalinski 5 років тому +4

    Watching this once is not enough!

  • @annmencl
    @annmencl Рік тому

    This talk just showed up in my feed. Such a great talk. I see this is something my family needs to work on. Comparison is truly the thief of joy.

  • @suewiggins3960
    @suewiggins3960 5 років тому +4

    What a beautiful talk. It was so well delivered by a man who exemplifies so many talents and yet has been able to be humble in so many great accomplishments. A talk well spoken and well lived.

  • @MilesTegg-jq5nn
    @MilesTegg-jq5nn 3 місяці тому

    Thank you. Yes, I have been convicted by this talk. I want this true love of Christ to fill me completely.

  • @AllTeacherCre
    @AllTeacherCre 5 років тому +7

    Thank soo much brother Haws for giving this talk. I had a lot of insights for my life and I really really thank you for that.

  • @hollyodii5969
    @hollyodii5969 4 роки тому +2

    What an inspiring talk! It made me feel so close to my Savior, like I could just reach out to him for help instantly!

  • @alpsalms9162
    @alpsalms9162 5 років тому +20

    I finally get it about comparison with this talk by J.B. Haws. It'll be watched again, THANKS!

  • @oldpowerlifter
    @oldpowerlifter 4 роки тому +10

    So glad he decided to give this talk... It's brilliant!

  • @Tlfundsr
    @Tlfundsr 3 роки тому +2

    That was truly amazing and very inspired. Thank you !

  • @mariagundaker2691
    @mariagundaker2691 Рік тому

    Humility, oh how big and important this God
    Iike quality truly is. We must always remember this.

  • @sarahrussie2317
    @sarahrussie2317 5 років тому +8

    Amazing talk! So glad you followed the feeling to do this! Thank you! ❤️

  • @jeehiesung6791
    @jeehiesung6791 5 років тому +4

    Beautiful. Incredible. Thank you for your inspired words

  • @alexanderscholtz7303
    @alexanderscholtz7303 2 роки тому +1

    I love this talk. Thank you so much!

  • @lauracalder4089
    @lauracalder4089 3 роки тому +1

    So very enjoyable to listen to!! So much take away!

  • @EliaGaitau
    @EliaGaitau 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you for a very wonderful and uplifting reminder. I needed to hear this.

  • @r.t.matila7647
    @r.t.matila7647 5 років тому +1

    What a wonderful talk! Thank you very much, Brother Haws.

  • @theactorfamily
    @theactorfamily 5 років тому +3

    been sharing this with friends all day. Thank you so much for putting in the time to ponder this and distill the issue into some really actionable thoughts :)

  • @imagineeverything1277
    @imagineeverything1277 5 років тому +4

    You nailed it Brother Haws! Cannot wait to hear more from you in the future 🙂

  • @saydee7878
    @saydee7878 3 роки тому

    I listen to this on the regular! Brilliant!

  • @SamanthaDouglas-l5b
    @SamanthaDouglas-l5b Рік тому

    Thank you so much for this!! I needed your inspired talk, so thank you.

  • @nanabeccareading
    @nanabeccareading 4 роки тому +2

    Profound and needed. Thank you.

  • @hansegbert3644
    @hansegbert3644 5 років тому +1

    Truly excellent devotional topic and fantastic presentation. WAY better than most of the others! :)

  • @vasilisasmith9024
    @vasilisasmith9024 5 років тому +2

    One of the best points ever! Thank you for giving this talk!

  • @thirdplanet4471
    @thirdplanet4471 5 років тому +3

    One of the funny things about comparisons is we usually compare the good stuff but we never compare the bad stuff like we may compare our wealth to someone who's richer but we don't want to compare our health to someone who's suffering from a deadly disease. Or at least something along those lines.

  • @JPBotero717
    @JPBotero717 4 роки тому +2

    What a great Speech

  • @bettymak2810
    @bettymak2810 9 місяців тому

    My dad always compares us to other ppl and just negative because we aren't millionaires lol so this talk was a breath of fresh air 💙

  • @trentmansfield9450
    @trentmansfield9450 4 роки тому +1

    They don't come much better than JB Haws. What a great man and friend to all!

  • @JustS0meChick
    @JustS0meChick 4 роки тому

    Can I just say that one of my greatest accomplishments in life is that I beat you in a spelling bee once? Not gloating, it’s just that we all knew you were so intelligent, and that was a point of pride for me in the moment. You murdered me in the next round. I spelled the stupidest word wrong (it was “standard” and I was so nervous I spelled it with 2 “d”s.) I don’t agree with you religiously, but I admire your intellect and I’m glad you’re doing so well.

  • @lincolnblumell8158
    @lincolnblumell8158 4 роки тому +1

    Great talk JB! I am blessed to be your colleague.

  • @denisebirdinparadise
    @denisebirdinparadise 5 років тому +2

    Thanks for this . . . I now have a better understanding.

  • @SnowberryDesignCo
    @SnowberryDesignCo Рік тому

    The childlike celebration for others. So sweet 🥹

  • @zissler1
    @zissler1 5 років тому +3

    I don't get why members think they are some how being humble if they turn down a talk or get out of the spotlight. Seems selfish, not humble! I'm so glad you did not deprive us of this talk because you were willing to be selfless!
    Edit: I realize the speaker didn't talk or mention it like it was some kind of brave action of humility, but a lot of members when they get up and say how they were thinking of going out of town and all that seem to give that impression. I feel like we really struggle with that at least in Utah. CS lewis wrote:
    "Do not imagine that if you meet a really humble man he will be what most people call “humble” nowadays: he will not be a sort of greasy, swarmy person, who is always telling you that, of course, he is nobody. Probably all you will think about him is that he seems a cheerful, intelligent chap who took a real interest in what you said to him. If you do dislike him it will be because you feel a little envious of anyone who seems to enjoy life so easily. He will not be thinking about humility: he will not be thinking about himself at all."

  • @davincent98
    @davincent98 5 років тому +1

    I heard this talk this morning on BYUtv and it came in handy for Sunday School because comparisons were mentioned often. It also reminded me of the Larry R. Lawrence talk from the October 2015 Conference, "What Lack I Yet?"

  • @campeonjpm9105
    @campeonjpm9105 5 років тому +3

    Exactly what I needed to hear

  • @frankcastle5513
    @frankcastle5513 3 роки тому +1

    "Comparison is the death of joy." - Mark Twain

  • @DJ_Osiris
    @DJ_Osiris Рік тому +1

    Watching at 0.75 speed is pretty good. He talks fast.

  • @jh-nl8yf
    @jh-nl8yf 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you 감사합니다

  • @Joshuacowley
    @Joshuacowley 5 років тому +1

    Love. Just love.

  • @aoteualcance
    @aoteualcance Місяць тому

    All I can say is... ❤❤❤❤❤❤ THANK YOU!

  • @raspberrygamer9675
    @raspberrygamer9675 Рік тому

    Thank you!!

  • @pianoGalVal
    @pianoGalVal Рік тому

    I wonder if his grandma, Mrs. Haws, was my first grade teacher at Municipal Elementary in Roy, Utah.

  • @dianneatkins2552
    @dianneatkins2552 11 місяців тому

    Fantastic talk thanks

  • @thanhdo5683
    @thanhdo5683 3 роки тому

    The video sound is pretty good, beyond my imagination

  • @ildenete3235
    @ildenete3235 Рік тому

    Eu fiquei o dia todo em casa, choveu o dia todo, costurei uma fronha para meu travesseiro, terminei agora ficou lindo, eu pude assistir muitos vídeos e ponderar e orar sobre o Evangelho Restaurado de Jesus Cristo. Amo a Sua graça e Seu amor, Sua restauração na minha vida, meu encontro com Deus. Amo meu Pai Celestial. Guardarei meus convênios com Deus para sempre porque amei a experiência de viver em retidão e santidade.
    Mas eu espero que haja um jeito melhor de concluir esta Obra Sagrada.

  • @bestamazonbuys690
    @bestamazonbuys690 2 роки тому +1

    I love it

  • @nacitrezik2969
    @nacitrezik2969 2 роки тому +1

    「あなたのコンテンツはとても感動的です」、

  • @DJmicaiah
    @DJmicaiah 2 роки тому

    Privilege is real but it also can be earned

  • @aceuni-rider6921
    @aceuni-rider6921 3 роки тому

    Privilege is not real! Everyone can be as successful as they strive to be.

  • @Cody_Wilkins
    @Cody_Wilkins 2 місяці тому +1

    How many likes does my comment have compared to everyone else?

  • @craigmartin6872
    @craigmartin6872 5 років тому

    Yes comparisons of if we are making it to the Celestial Kingdom. Or married in the temple. Or if our kids went on a mission. Or if we are "keeping our covenants" Or if we attend enough church. Or if we are serving in the right calling. We grew up in a church that taught us to compare ourselves to the "Measuring stick" of the church. Maybe we should look at HOW the church teaches us to constantly compare ourselves to how we aren't "enough" within the process of making it to the Celestial Kingdom. This would be a good starting point. Forget comparing ourselves to others. Let's focus on what has hung over us since our baptismal day.

  • @ZeyaniRSChrisanna
    @ZeyaniRSChrisanna 4 роки тому

    ⭐️⭐️🧡⭐️⭐️

  • @dt5216
    @dt5216 Рік тому

    🤍🤍🤍🤍

  • @cliftontaylor8392
    @cliftontaylor8392 3 роки тому

    talking way to fast