This Fake “Gym Creep” Sh*t Needs To Stop
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I don't go to the gym, but as neurodivergent (sp?) I have to just look up when I'm in public. I'm so terrified of being labeled a creep. I stare off into the void basically all the time. I'm not looking at you, I'm not looking at your body, I'm just blank staring off into space. I make it a point to look up in the air, or just constantly shift my gaze side to side. I'm not catching a charge because someone thinks I'm a creeper. It sucks.
I understand that entirely. I'm staring off in space from a conversation from twenty years ago half the time 😆
I especially hate walking up stairs behind a woman. There is nowhere for me to look except at my feet or in the sky. It's dangerous.
They need to make a gym for men only!!!! No women allowed at all whatsoever!
I don't blame you. The other day, my husband was about to do something very crazy. He has daughters, so he thinks every young woman out there are like his daughters, so the other day, he was about to approach a group of girls asking where they got their snow slide from because it looked a bit more stable than ours. I ran after him to tell him, "My dear man, you are 54, never ever risk approaching a group of young women, they are not like your daughters and they don't look at you as a father figure, all they think is that you are a creep approaching them." He looked at me all confused, so I had to bring him home and show him all these gym videos.
I feel for you. I do this too. Difference is as a woman, people think it's okay for me to look through others. This is the problem with the world we live in.
The blind man has a very big lawsuit and he’s going to win, and also hope he pushes to get those people fired
Discrimination against disabilities applies here
I hope all the people these slanderous bimbos have humiliated, sue them for all they're worth. Both on grounds of discrimination and defamation. They'll need all that onlyfans money to pay out the hefty lawsuits.
Depends on where he lives.
@KIKROX86 It's funny that you think the blind man cares to file a lawsuit for being falsely removed from a gym. Disabled individuals are often more tolerant.
@Kratatch Looks like he might live in the UK. We're not as litigious as Americans because payouts are far less than the stupid amounts Americans are awarded. However, the gym in this case likely breached the Disability Discrimination Act 1995 (UK law graduate here).
- wears skimpy clothes in public
- thinks everyone is looking at her
- starts problems with people who aren't looking at her, thinking that they're looking at her
She's unsocialized and narcissistic.
Malignant Narc. I feel sorry for any partner with her.
Product of no home training
you say "she's" as if this is only one bitch doing it.
Witch hunt, she knows authorities will placate her if she starts screaming witch. She manipulates authorities to harm others. Total power trip.
Yes, she is narcissistic.
I'm not a big fan of the lawsuit culture but blind guy should definitely sue for discrimination he would win without question and these employees need to be held accountable
With his payout, buy the gym and sack them all lol
@@paulpeart8895 And cancel that Karen's membership while he's at it.
@@SkaerKrowe cancel her front teeth!!!
There's a difference between frivolous lawsuit like the old lady and the hot coffee at McDonald's, or the alphabet Mafia terrorist and the christian baker. I don't know how it works in England, I hope blind guy can sue the gym out of existence.
@@jonrynearson31 the old lady and the coffee was not a frivolous lawsuit, the coffee was so hot it was scalding hot she got 3rd degree burn from it and it was the judge that increase the amount of money, before you cry foul you should look up thing
That blind guy needs to sue the gym that kicked him out. That and public shaming are the only way this bs ends.
God this is so frustrating, because as a disabled woman (cerebral palsy)I sometimes record my movements for my doctors,physical therapist, Pilates instructors so they see if I’m doing a movement correctly or it is actually doing harm to my body. These awful women ruin it for everyone even people like me who actually are doing this for my health 😞Or hell maybe they are doing it for positing actual educational videos on health and they where respectful to the gym RULES of respect.
Gyms should have never allowed Outside cameras inside gyms. There are security cameras for a reason. maybe ask for the security camera footage.
I know from experience this happens. I am legally blind I cannot see nothing but shadows and shapes and this actually has happened to me. I was in a bar and a man assaulted me because he claimed I was looking at his girlfriend. I then had to explain that I was blind and they did not believe me because I was staring right at or without even noticing. And then has a head of a friend remove you from the bar because he was threatening me and shoving me and assaulting me. This is the kind of stuff that sickens me because I don't look blind but what does blind look like.
That is ridiculous and happens way too often. I am also blind and I got accused of faking my blindness because I got around someone's house too well.
That's the best fuckin riddle me this question ever what does blind look like
@@ToughBeifong wow really that is some shit I am curious if you blind fellas are talking to type or if you are typing on a keyboard that is some savage shit if so you can't see it but my hat is off to you sirs
@@ToughBeifong I definitely get what you're saying. It's like what's the blind person look like number one sometimes people aren't educated sometimes people just ignorant and don't take the time to think about it. I've got the same thing because I have a UA-cam channel and I always wondered well why do you collect what you collect you can't see it or how are you doing videos if you can't c
That's terrible. There needs to be a law that automatically protects vision impaired people from accusations like this and assaults alike.
I had to stand up for a really good friend of mine who is blind. We were working out, I went to the bathroom and when I came back there this was clout chaser yelling at him and telling him if he didn't stop staring she was gonna call her husband have him f**k him up and then she proceeded to go get the manager. She gets back to us before the manager can get to us and she just proceeds to keep yelling at him. Well I didn't see the manager walking up so I just unleashed on this Karen. I told her to take that stick out her ass not everybody wants to look at a clout chaser who does nothing but walk the treadmill. I then proceed to tell her that my friend is blind and even if he could see he would definitely not stare at her. Well after I say what I want to say the manager who heard everything turns to her and says ma'am I'm sorry but you need to leave. The look on her face was priceless. On a side note my friend is gay so she wasn't his type anyway.
Oh, damn! Should have informed her of the fact he was gay as well. Would have been a double fail for her! 😁 It's a shame your friend has to put up with such morons!
Soooo she threatened him with physical violence? Yall should have cld he cops on that Bih!
@@samsneadd I was going to but he told me not too. He said and I quote "one day she will get 10x the fold".
@@ReannaAloi I thought about it after she left. It was ridiculous.
@@thatgirl9841 How? How is she gonna get 10x the fold, if nobody actually wants to make her accountable? A slap on the wrist will not teach her a lesson.
I have to give you and others credit for improving this situation. It's actually gotten somewhat better at the LA Fitness (or whatever name it goes by today) since the first of the year. We go 4-5 times a week and GROUPS of young women wearing (as my wife describes) "exercise lingerie" were to the point of expecting a 20' "open safe space" around where they were doing their videos so their girlfriends could get a full 360 degree photo shoot. They felt perfectly entitled to expect folks like me and my wife (mid-60s who have been going to the gym since high school) to move out of the way as they did their photo circumnavigation or else you were branded "Old Creeper".
A blind guy thrown out of a gym for staring? I can't decide if that's a joke that wrote itself or a sad story that that did.
It’s not even the first time this exact situation blew up on TikTok
🤡 planet
happened to pete gustin too. Its fucking stupid.
Both. I hate the whole world.
@@amandawilson890 it's gone bat shit crazy
The very sad thing is that she got a staff member, and that staff member didn't have the guys back and they kicked him out. So not only was the girl a narcissistic freak, she is being supported.
Staff dude was simp!!
Probably banging the gym bro who tossed him out.
Not only was she ugly on the outside, she was ugly on the inside.
@@michdee2860 He said staff member and never said he or she. Could have been a C U Next Tuesday staff member or a male cuck, wanting to white knight his way into that C U Next Tuesday's pants
@@michdee2860 exactly.
Am I a creep because sometimes I watch how people work out? Sometimes men watch in admiration not because they are creeps. Once, my brother was showing me women at the gym for admiration of how they are doing certain things so easily, and he can't. He was like, how can they do it, and I can't as a joke. People look at things to admire beauty it doesn't mean they are creeps.
No you arent! Watching to learn is completely different then watching for no reason. Just dont record them and its fine lol. (I cant speak for everyone, but thats what i think at least).
If anyone ever asks, just tell them you are trying to learn from them!
I'm over 60 now. Back in high school and through my military career I spent a lot of time in the gym. Even to this day I know I am not up on the latest lifting techniques. If I see someone doing an exercise that I am unfamiliar with I will watch, try to figure out the benefits and sometimes go up and ask what they're doing. Before TIK TOK the gym was a place to share knowledge and experience. We learned from each other and taught new people how to maximize results without hurting themselves.
Right I was gonna say the same thing does it make me a creep to sometimes look at how People work out and check out their form does that make me a creep
Yes, that's what the word "creep" means these days. No, I don't think you're a creep. I also don't think a guy looking at a girl at the gym cuz she's hot is a creep either.
Sadly, a guy simply doing normal heterosexual things, like stare at beautiful women is labeled as creepy these days.
Thanks Roma, its so good to hear that not all woman think that any man that they are not attracted too, who looks in their direction is not a creep. In my younger years if i looked at a woman and they saw me the result would be a nice smile, now im getting on and not attractive to them Im scared to even momentarily glance at some women. Im a people watcher, male, female, young, old, i dont stare and the vast majority of people know it is entirely innocent but there is a type that seem to want to attract attention and then be a victim.
He definitely needs to start a lawsuit against the gym for discrimination
davidpaikins, Without A Doubt.
Sue the gym 💯%
Don't worry about the woman that got you kicked out... it's the gym that needs to be sued!
So that they implement a non-discremantary policy against disabled people (ther blind in this case) and retrain thier staff.
Not only will this hit national news, but social media will go crazy!!! and eventually the woman's name will come out!
exactly what i was thinking! this is horrible. imagine not being able to see anything, and getting harrased by some lowlife bimbo, to eventually get thrown out for minding your own business.. he should definitely sue them.
@davy De Maseneer He didn't just get harassed. He said he was assaulted as well. Police report??
Yeah you really believe them media cares about a man. Regardless of the circumstances? Wishful thinking but it shouldn't be
Last I checked, cell phones were not allowed on every single gym floor I have been on. Most employees never enforce it. Signs are usually posted at the door and every 15-20 feet on the gym floor. Suddenly, no one knows how to read.
Phones are allowed. Video recording isn't without prior permission(s)
@@OmniscientWarrior yea defo this not that, maybe his local gym, but fuck me every gym i been to theres always someone taking selfies posing if there was a rule id say its getting fucked in the a, especially since everyone uses their phone to play a song/video/podcast whenever they go usually as well.
@@xxslears2xx even at that. Rules have to be enforced and I doubt "pretty" ladies have them equally enforced upon them. Hell I got attacked at a bar myself because I used the urinal in the men's restroom and unknowingly was next to a stall with two women in it. I was called creep and perv at first then they manipulated the crowd (open patio at a state fair) that I was a rapists that assaulted them just because they were embarrassed by the fact that a guy might have heard them tinkle in the toilet. Running away made me look guilty and staying would have probably made me dead. Guys aren't allowed in the woman's restroom period.
It's sad that some women are so mean to men, especially to a blind person. That's disrespectful and uncalled for.
Ugly on the inside as well as the outside.
Women are groomed to hate men by their parents and especially by society to hate men.
I drove to a local convenience store one afternoon and pulled into a parking spot. I was reading the flyers for item sales that were posted on the building. Then a couple of full of themselves teen girls walked in front of me and immediately acted like they just caught me peeking in on them in the shower.
How dare I. This is the world we find ourselves in. Is it too much for me to wish I could own my own space craft and get the flux away from everyone forever? Maybe, but I still feel like it.
They always just go right to calling you a "Pick me" normally I'd laugh my arse off at their stupidity but it's just NOT funny anymore, it's getting old and p1ssing me off now.
Dude so happy, honored and proud of you for mentioning neuro-divergent people. I’m 40 and got diagnosed with Aspergers at 38. No one that knew me even fathomed I have high functioning autism. I have struggled for social confidence because of this. No one understood because I was blessed with “decent” looks. But I’ve been bullied my whole life by women in so many ways. I never had a problem getting laid thankfully. But I’ve felt with so many sociopathic bully women in relationships and treated like a booty call. Thanks for mentioning my crew ❤
Yeah, I will second the male version of "pretty privilege" (handsome privilege?). I'm a Black man over 6 feet tall and still a bit buff. Women have never accused me of "creeping." Quite the opposite, they seem to seek my attention everywhere, even in the gym. I guess I'm protected but it's still unfair.
This is literally making me completely hate gyms with a burning passion. Going after blind people now? This is insanity. Major lawsuit inbound!
Don't hate the gyms, hate the people in them.
@@BullsMahunny nah, I'm gonna hate gyms regardless of people in it.
I will ALWAYS suggest to people to workout at home. Less bs to deal with.
@@PowerStunna Yeah the gym kicked him they are often as same at fault as those isane people
Makes me wanna grab a bunch of donuts and a liter of soda, park my skinny fat ass in front of the glass and just go to town on the snacks!
Unfortunately, the gut in question sounds British. If he is British citizen he may problems. As I undetermined it, and not a lawyer in GB their tort laws are such that even under the circumstances in the video he may have a hard time suing the gym and the woman. Hopefully. Not.
Kicking out a blind man for staring into nothingness. We already know the gymgoer who accused him of this is low I.Q., but then gym staff had to come over there and show everyone they were even lower I.Q. than the low I.Q. gymgoer (who accused him of this) by kicking him out. How low can we go? Seriously, how low does it get? Can it get lower than this? We might've hit rock bottom with this one.
@chuck 8094 Not in the UK they're not. And that's where the blind dude is from. Listen to his accent again. Not all countries have zero screening when accepting people into their police force, Chucky.
Oh yeah, it can get much worse. Imagine a similar situation but a vindictive wife and double digit IQ police officers.
Yep, and open and shut case of ping pong ball IQ!
Please don't ever stop doing what you do. You are definitely making a difference especially with videos like this!
That poor blind guy!! If I was a member at that gym, I would have cancelled my membership that day. And told my friends to do the same/not to visit that gym.
She's like a guardian angel for men 😆
She's only fighting for men because she's getting paid. She ain't for men if she ain't gettin nothin out of it
@@giohansonn true 💯
It always CRACKS me up how Roma says at the end of these "make sure to give THESE ladies NOOOO DIKKK" Lmao YES haha
@Gio Hansonn- There's a lot of times I agree with her, but there's also a lot of times that I think she promotes double standards & Hippocracy. Such as the other night when she was talking about how it's perfectly fine for MEN to date younger women bc "It's literally in their DNA" but if a WOMAN dates a younger man, it's only bc They have alterior motives. Which is complete BS. Not ALL WOMEN that date younger men have
Bad, malicious, or selfish intentions🤷♀️
@Gio Hansonn ~Also, I kno this is so random. But is ur name short for "Giovanni" by chance?🙂
If they really wanted to know if the guy was blind they could have asked for his ID.
thats why its a made up story we are all responding to...
Not necessarily, there was another UA-camr that had a similar story only except he had his ID, Caine and a blind guy t-shirt and Karen still yelled at him and got a manager who proceeded to tell him that he can't stare at people. Don't be so quick mark off these stories as made up, you'd be surprised at how stupid some people really are in society.
We need men only gyms. I’ve never felt that way before but I do now.
Sounds good in theory, but in pratice that company will be terrorised for excluding women.
@@afcansf5996 who cares tbh just run an ad on youtube where they play a short of shit like this and voila shit would work, if the internet supports it you can make a profit off it these days.
@@afcansf5996 yup
In my gym there is a "Ladies only" section. Doors with frosted glass and everything so no creep can look while some gal is getting her reps in.
There are even entire gyms that are exclusively for women. So I think on the face of it, the idea does have some merit. I think the concept is inherently sexist though - because nobody bats an eye at a "ladies only" gym or section of a gym. But I guess as soon as a "men only" gym opens for business because some dudes want to work out in peace without getting harassed by some Karen, it is going to be all torches and pitchforks, as @AFCA NSF said.
But then - just separating everyone will not solve the underlying issue. Clout chasers are gonna clout chase. No amount of separation will solve that. And if they cannot do it at the gym, they will do it someplace else. Bar, Swimming pool, you name it.
Besides, it is again just another small, but VERY loud and vocal minority who tries to ruin it for everyone by going "Meeeee! MEEEEEE! Look at MEEEEEEE!"
We should not give them a stage and just put them in their place. Which for cases like this is outside the door of the gym, with a life ban. Just make sure the door does not hit her butt on the way out, because she might sue the door off its hinges.
It exists. It’s called prison and there’s armed guards to protect you!!!
I saw another video online with the same story, a blind man was called a creep by a woman in a gym for "staring" at him and got kicked out.
I'm autistic, and when I'm focusing on something like a conversation, I "dissociate": I stare off blankly because my brain is no longer processing visual information, it's focusing on the hearing and speech centers. And my eyes may point in an unfortunate direction; I've been called a "creep" for inappropriate "staring" many times (including by a family member... wtf?!).
My family member (who is amply endowed) got even more insulted when I told her I wasn't even paying any attention to her "assets" that my eyes were pointed in the direction of. You really cannot win.
When i was growing up there were sum of the best children's books! They were staples of almost every kids shelves, toy-box or cubby. Most parents would read to their children and school teachers would read to the class, several times a week from these books, books that had timeless and essential life lessons in them! The story of, The boy who cried wolf, comes to mind here, as well as many other examples of, "crying victim", do these people and modern society not appreciate how much this wrongful behaviour, detracts and threatens REAL victims and encourages people to support whats right only when trending!? The whole human race needs an intervention but we have noone to do that for us.
That blind guys story made me depressed. It makes me so sad being a man.
Even disabled men are be victimised in the gym. I hope he sues them because he will differently win
It would be nice if the Karen and her cuck husband could be defendants in the lawsuit as well.
There is a blind tik-toker that talked about how this happened to him. Even when he proved be was blind they were still like.. "well just don't face her" . Lol. 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
The gym who kicked out the actual blind man should be facing a massive lawsuit for that shit.
This actually happened to blind surfer Pete gustin. It’s so sad that people are now making him look bad by faking this
This is why working out at home if possible is best. NO distractions... NO accusations... NO problem recording yourself if you want to post on the socials.
For real, backyard workouts are the best and I can grunt all I want.
yep, i'm a very private person and generally don't like to be around strangers, so i chose to workout at home and not only has my progress been amazing, but i get the peace of mind that i cannot be targeted for anything. the no distractions thing is probably the biggest point in favor of working out at home, turn off the phone, turn up the music and get it done.
I love and prefer to workout at home but I also attend a few classes at the gym 2-3 times per week for more variety and to pass the time instead of sitting in traffic after work. That said, as a woman, I don't care if men stare as long as they don't get in my personal space or hit on me. Also I have big boobs and realize that they're hard not to notice, and because I get hot fast I won't wear too much. But again, I'm not mad if I catch someone looking! Hell I have to try not to stare sometimes myself; we're only human! 😂
@@DavidPalmer_blinder I love it! Sounds like your an introvert such as myself...👊
@@TrishaAyshe I respect that you can be honest and acknowledge that...💯
This is why I go to the gym when it's late to avoid women like this, and he should pursue a lawsuit of some sort. Also, thank you.
I used to belong to a men only gym in the seventies.
They opened membership up to women to increase income.
In one year most of the men left, and after the men left, the women left !
I took my gym membership funds and set up a gym in my basement !
Men in apartments could do this in a second bedroom, maybe !?
To many people in this world create drama and problems .. it’s pretty wonderful to hear an unbiased opinion .
As a guy who frequents the gym, I do record things that I do, but the camera is focused on me. I record so I can see if I'm doing correct form as well as so I can send it to my friends who aren't even in the same state or even country as I am. If that happens at my gym, I'll accept it but it's sad for those who actually record for positive reasons can be punished for the self-entitled, attention-seeking children.
I'm sure if you have your camera turned on yourself it's okay. I mean look at all the women doing gym thirst trap videos who go to the gym solely to video themselves flexing their butt muscles in yoga pants for their followers with the hash tag # workout gains. They would have to kick all 9 million of them out too if they have a problem with you doing it
This seems to be big trend in Southern California coming into a gym and causing a distraction and making a fool of yourself. I work at a gym and have told many women that filming is not allowed, they get mad and usually leave without even working out.
Yeah, this should be the first step to improve the situation - forbidding to record at the gym.
I wish I could tell the blind guy to take gym to court and sue them for discriminating against a person with disabilities. In Canada it's a human rights tribunal.
That Blind guy should get rich quick. You gotta do it sometimes.
Yes, but not at the cost of the gym. Only inform them that "She just made you cancel my membership, thus turning a place of training into a place of trauma. Another spot that cares more about able bodied people and discriminates against the disabled. I would not come back here if you paid me 10 times as much for coming here as I had to originally pay for membership.". Get a lawyer to get her personal data from the gym and sue HER. Make an example out of HER, not the gym. Suing the gym won't fix things for other innocent people baselessly accused of being creeps.
@@LongandWeirdName didn't he say he got thrown out by an employe, while walking with his cane? i mean sue the employe tbh. if you actually wanna win the case. the women didn't throw anyone out. so its gonna be hard to sue her for anything except false accusations. which isn't gonna give him much.
I'm on the Autism Spectrum, and pretty socially awkward around women, and I was fired & banned from a whole chain of bars for my part time karaoke hosting job, because my job of EmCeeing - y'know, talking people up, getting the audience hyped for the singers, being friendly & complimentary - was "making multiple women uncomfortable" and I received "formal sexual harassment charges" filed against me.
And now I can't sleep because I keep replaying events over & over again, wondering what I did wrong, how did I cross a line I was always afraid to be in the same state as, let alone get near?
And I feel like I failed as a DJ/MC, I failed as a decent person, I failed as a SAFE person, and I failed my mom, who raised me to be a gentleman. 🥺
I used to go to LA Fitness. And one day as I was coming downstairs from where I usually did my morning cardio on an elliptical, I noticed a woman in the free weight area struggling to list weights onto the bar she wanted to use (trying to do more than she could obviously). I thought to myself "ok...don't know why she isn't asking for help when there are numerous guys around her, or why they aren't offering to help right off the bat." But by the time I got to the bottom of the stairs, stopped to get a sip of water....that woman charged up to me and demanded to know why I was eyeballing her so hard and making a huge scene! Eyeballing her...when it was barely more than a lingering look before I went about my way!!
Fortunately, one of the gym staff saw exactly what happened and escorted her out of the building. Turns out she had a history of doing that to people to try to get the gym to give her free stuff because she was "victimized in what should be a safe space." Well...thanks to what she pulled on me....she had to go find another safe space because they cancelled her membership. :)
I agree! Who walks around a Gym in baggy street trousers, with hoody on, and hands in pocket?! Nobody does!!!
The staff member that kicked the blind guy out defs took her side because they wanted to creep on her themselves
That staff member needs to be fired if true
A woman's version of a "CREEP" is a MAN who won't hand over his BANK ACCOUNT to her.
Just imagine if the blind guy was black...
and claimed to be cross dressing pre surgery lesbian...
It's actually funny that a girl can be so self absorbed that she accuses a blind man of staring at her. But to carry on the accusation after learning he is blind is very cruel and would be illegal in the UK.
Sadly, nowadays too many people want to be a victim or be oppressed to somehow satisfy their own insecurities. I was taken aback with the Me Too movement that had everybody and their brother claiming to have been raped and made it seem as if all men were rapists. It definitely left me with a different view of women. So, I effectively stay away because I don't want to be the next man that gets accused of having raped someone just because some woman had buyer's remorse. I don't do drama. However, it is truly what many women live for. I wish them all the best but I am tapping out. My peace of mind is way more important than any woman will ever be to me.
They are Making it Hard for us actual victims 😔
When nobody has ever stood up for you and somebody you might expect to be against you has your back... It's emotional.
And that's the reason I love this lady, "RomaArmy", and every woman like her.
As a man i want to thank you and the other women who stand up for us against this nonsense.
This is so sad. I found her post looked at it and the majority or the people didn’t know he was blind but they stuck up for him.
As if going to the gym isn't going to be daunting enough.
I'm not blind, but going to the gym for me is already a modest courage test.
This experience would put me off for life. I hope he keeps going.
It's not in anyone's long term interest for people like this to exist; I hope more gyms take more active measures to stop creep allegations.
I feel bad for the blind guy, he is probably going insane from being bombarded by phone calls from lawyers.
I really appreciate women like you you’re a rare gem men need more women friends like you thank you for the great content
Big hugs from Canada. I wish we had more like you.
Many of these women are so vain that it does not surprise me that a woman accusing blind men of goggling at her and/or other women would occur.
They're always looking for people online for people to tell them they're right in situations where that couldn't be further from the truth
You ROCK girl , thanks for everything your doing !
As a man it’s nice to see someone pointing out the obvious.
The blind gentlemen could have wrecked that gym legally. Like, the shit storm that he could have rained down upon them, and he just walked away from it. Huge respect for the guy. The crazy woman that got him kicked out would have had her life destroyed, and if she sees his video knows that he could go after her and she is getting away with her behavior, solely due to his own character and integrity.
I’ve been wanting you to talk about this for a min. I built a home gym because I’m ugly and got tired of the accusations myself. Women say they want six ft tall, six figure salary, six pack , home owner. That’s a lie! I’m all that but I’m ugly so I’ll die alone.
Go to church ⛪
Dying without an anchor how sad?
man stop calling yourself ugly... get some selfrespect bro. don't let these chicks get to your head. there are still women out there that will see your worth.
I don't understand this, in my neighborhood no man is over 6 feet tall no one, most men are under 5'5 the tallest, all of them are married, dating have girlfriends, what is this bullshit about height every man where I live has a family and they are very short some of them 5 feet...I live in the Bronx NYC..so I don't understand these comments at all.
I’ve seen dudes ugly as sin pull chicks. It’s their personality and ability to charm.
Then again maybe you’re being unrealistic with your choices and not willing to explore other avenues. Don’t play victim and get your fuck on.
I will keep saying it until it happens: CAN'T WE ALL JUST GET ALONG?!
It'll never happen so have fun repeating yourself for infinity.
@@lazybiker234 not with that mindset it won't
Nae that ship sailed during the storm of faux first world feminism
I truly think most of these women hadn't ever actually been harassed to know what harassment is. As a woman that's been followed with unwanted advances and more in my life, this ain't it lol. As you get older too you learn how to avoid attention (for the most part)...it's not that hard. I'm guilty of wearing a full face of makeup at the gym (I'm goth alternative and love my dramatic looks) but I also wear a full sweat suit looking like a 60 year old and I love it 😅 don't get any attention 👌
Unwanted advances? You poor thing!
@@HANKHILLFORTXGOVERNOR it happens...I'm not being a Feminist about it.
@@lucianaromulus1408 it's funny I want everyone to be able to be comfortable in their body, but I also think people should be able to talk to other people, contact and relationships are important.
I approach people of both sexes a lot and I'm sure they have been unwanted at times, but I always make sure to no trap people and let them know that there is no pressure in my approach.
And watch, people seem like they don't want to be approached when they don't, leave those people alone.
If you are neurodivergent and can't tell and you want to approach someone, just be frank.
Hey my brain doesn't read people well and there is no pressure in this, but I'm attracted to you and would love to get to know you over lunch if you are interested!
Then, if they say no or try to walk away, let them and go on with your day.
If someone gets mad at you for saying that, then it's just bad luck and keep doing it, 99.999 percent of people will be receptive in at least a friendly way.
Don't push it if they try to make excuses, they just don't know how to say no and that's fine.
I'm sure many of us feel weird about saying no.
This is how Ive been approaching people for the last 5 years and I have had a lot of luck forming great bonds and relationships.
I hope the blind guy sues that gym out of business. Thank you for bringing these issues to light
Yes, this is the one that made me get tears in my eyes. I was so angry at this.
Thank you Roma! For you! We need more woman with 🧠 like you ❤️
I see a HUGE settlement for this blind man.
I just want to say a big thank you to all the lovely women i have met on my travels throughout my life and maybe yours as well, so many. Those that have been a pleasure to know. Sense of humour, funny themselves, not afraid to admit they are wrong, not afraid to admit they are right. Women i have worked with etc. Caring women. Sensible women. Admirable women. I am really worried how things are going in the US between Women and Men right now and the differences. It seems it is at an all time low. So much hostility.
I had this happen to me 40 years ago, when I tried to correct a lady lifting free weights, she was doing it wrong, and was going to hurt herself. She complained to the gym attendant who promptly told her that I was a long time member, and a weight lifting expert. As a power lifter I learned early the proper way to lift, and the pain involved when one doesn't lift right. So yes I try to help folks, that ended that day, cause one female took offence to being corrected.
Man this is really getting out of hand…..it’s these women that think they are influencers but just desperate for views to make money off of UA-cam🤦🏼♂️😩
Thank God there are other sane women. I’m so glad I found your channel! I have raised 4 young MEN and worry a lot about them, but they see through that crap. 💜🌻🙌🏼
I'm so glad!
Smash that like button! 👌😎👍
Who are you? Do you mean your channel or are you just being a simp?
Nah 😂
I hate comments that asks or thanks for likes. Very weird 😐
Every man in the world could gouge out their own eyes and there'd still be women who would get onto guys claiming they're sniffing them from across the room
You mean Joe Biden right?
In defense of the blind man, WoW!! 😡 So it's a crime to look at someone nowadays? It's one thing to stare at a person and make them feel uncomfortable but we have eyes for a reason, to view our surroundings. If we don't pay attention to what or who's around us something could potentially harm us, right? Women going to the gym and calling men creeps for looking at them sounds like a bunch of buffoonery to me. Maybe the big muscular guy over by the bench press thinks I'm a creep too because I'm looking at him and impressed by watching him lift, I hope he doesn't call the cops and have them come escort me out for being a creep because I looked at him. Seriously though, people who do that need to get over themselves. If they were that damn "fine" or approachable they would be on the cover of a health & fitness magazine or at a fitness convention somewhere, where people get looked at on purpose, not at a local gym complaining about creepers. 🤣🤣🤣 Thanks Roma for going in on this one. 👏🏾
Girl, you ain't never lied! Ty for your channel!!
That first vid is BS i agree Roma, why would a dude dressed like he just walked in do that? Lmao 🤣 And I feel so bad for that blind dude.
Pretty sure the hubby is Thor too
@@danf3576 Lol yeah he didn't even approach or say anything to the guy if she felt so threatened? Just looked suspicious...
Well , her husband was really the creepy man in the back 🤭,( and he felt like crap after seeing that hunk man hit on her ) 😂
I stopped going to public gyms because of fear of false accusations. I tend to space out a lot. I got a lot of mental issues I'm working through in my head when I workout and I tend to just space out. Usually when I do this I make sure I'm looking in a direction nobodies in but once I get caught up in my thoughts I'm not paying attention and someone can easily walk into my field of view and I wouldn't notice. I said fuck it, I'm not gonna deal with this shit and got everything I needed to workout at home/on the road.
If I'm at the gym with my blind friend and he tells me he has been kicked out for "staring" at women! Well, after I pick myself up off the floor, I would immediately tell him to stand firm about his disability to the point of the gym being required to cal the police to have him removed. At the same time, I help call his lawyer as he will most definitely sue the pants off the gym and and the ass-padding gym shorts of the accuser!!! Upon leaving the gym, I insist he start picking out a new luxury home close to the beach, and of course, a guest house for myself next door!!!
I don’t get why seeing someone’s clothed body is labeled morally wrong. Is this really where humanity is now? The whole point of wearing clothes in public is to be modest so nothing can be seen.
The simple fact is, everyone can see the clothes you’re wearing, especially if you’re far enough way. That’s not harassment. And glances aren’t the same as staring.
What cracks me up is the fact that these women are so concerned about the one person they have captured on film. But not concerned about the millions of unknown faces that are watching thier video.
The best thing I've done gym wise is invest in a home gym. Cause I ain't got time to get caught up in all the fake shit that goes on in gyms these days.
There is a blind short-form content creator that had this happen to them.
Forget his name, but he posts shorts to UA-cam, and relayed a similar story like a year ago. Went blind in his teens, Surfs, is a Voice Actor. I would guess he's in his 40s or 50s based on the greys... I'll see if I can hunt it down.
Edit - Blind Surfer Pete Gustin is his channel name (and name name). The short in question is "Gym girl freaks out on me". Just verified it's the first hit on a youtube search.
I was called a creep at a waterpark, because I use to get alot of attention from younger women who worked there and the younger guys didnt like it.
It got really bad with gossip and caused me to get into trouble with security, who was as ignorant as the rest of the people who spread false rumors about me,fortunately they shut that ride down for good and nobody can surf anymore.
my image was ruined by false words,but I no longer see any of those people,but I have to agree it was a hurtful feeling for people treat me that way when all I done was tried to enjoy myself and others became jealous of me.
Some people are angry for good reason. Everyone deals with it differently but it doesn't help to make things even more difficult for them.
There is zero expectancy of privacy in a public place like a gym, so asking people for their permission in case they walk in front of your camera or are in the background is not valid in a court of law. That gym is wrong for putting up that sign at the entrance. It violates civil rights.
This is absolutely RIDICULOUS. They kicked the poor blind guy out?? Dude...he CAN'T SEE for crying out loud! If I was the gym manager I would've told that horrible woman to get out instead. Period. She actually harassed and disrespected a disabled individual in the face. No way I would tolerate that. I would point my finger towards the gym entrance and say " Madam, please apologize and get out". Simple.
We need to protect honesty, and make sure that there are legitimate but equivalent consequences to an individual’s actions.
Roma, you are absolutely amazing! I am so glad I came across your channel. Love you're work and thank you.
I had a woman approach and accuse me "I told her noone was watching you, leave me alone" she did not, so I went and got a worker and told them there is a woman harassing me. They went in the back, watched the video and kicked HER out. Instill thought it was interesting that they went back to watch the video.... I feel like if I were a woman they would have just believed me. But that why I spoke up first. Lesson guys, dont engage just report bad behavior immediately. Im sure there is a tear filled video out there about how some creep got her kicked out of the gym.
That first video was total bullshit. Total setup, especially when her husband showed up and the guy left on cue. Seriously, if he was a creep, he wouldn't leave. Why? Because a guy built like that, threatening someone build like he appears to be, would be arrested for assault.
I hope the blind guy gets a huge settlement from the gym and whoever kicked him out personally.
The biggest problem with this is that when there us a problem, women will be ignored. The gal who cried wolf.
Bravo for LA Fitness, assuming they enforce it.
Roma, women do have their own gyms. Curves and the YWCA are available, but women _fought_ for access to men-only spaces like the YMCA and boxing gyms. Going to work out isn't the drama-free zone it used to be. Women-only spaces have been preserved, while men-only spaces are all but extinct.
My bassist in one of my bands was legally blind. After playing for thousands of people, women came to the stage to let me know that he was staring at them the whole show. F'n bs.
The one thing I hate when I'm out and about running my errands is a woman that obviously dresses up in the booty shorts- lowcut halter top attire!!
She comes off as "look at me, I'm available, I need attention" and when you glance her way, she acts like she's been violated in some sort of way!!!!
THAT'S, what these women at the gym act like. Just my thoughts on this subject: I hope that blind guy gets his membership re-instated or another one at a safer gym. Deep respect for you Roma.
The second story happened to pete gustin (the blind surfer guy) too. These videos just show how unfair the gym is toward men escpecially blind men.
These situations are why, as a dude, I'm thankful to have held onto the habit of looking down at the floor/ground when I'm in public.
I remember this blind thing also with the blind serfer/ voice-over person also had the same thing happen to him.