Episode 26 | Seeing My Emotional Damages

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  • Опубліковано 6 вер 2024
  • Get ready for a real talk session with Allison in this episode, where she engages in a live therapeutic session with a coach, confronting her own emotional damages and exploring how she has coped with past traumas in her relationships. She candidly shares her experiences of self-isolation, self-sacrifice, and the deep-seated desire for validation and appreciation. Through her raw and vulnerable dialogue, Allison navigates the difficulties of her emotional drawbacks, shedding light on the patterns of selflessness and suppression that have defined her relationships and identity. Ultimately, the episode offers a glimpse into Allison's profound journey towards self-awareness and healing, inviting listeners and single mothers to reflect on their own emotional wounds and paths to freedom and speaking up for themselves.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 46

  • @sheneramackey6202
    @sheneramackey6202 3 місяці тому +4

    ALLISIONNNN I thank you for your transparency as sooo many things I can relate to and grow from your growth. The isolation and not understanding my worth and value and I am there and growing through this with you ❤. Thank you we will continue to break free. God I thank you I needed this. Please see you are in purpose and needed to help single mothers like me and struggling with seeing me and advocating for me and how I need people to show up for me.

  • @pamelaellison7214
    @pamelaellison7214 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you Allyson for your transparency, love you!

  • @laquettaleonard-johnson2603
    @laquettaleonard-johnson2603 3 місяці тому +1

    Love this!

  • @wandalipscomb-lee736
    @wandalipscomb-lee736 2 місяці тому +1

    Allison, Thank you for being transparent an allowing us an opportunity to learn from your experiences on your journey.
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  • @shenikaanderson5658
    @shenikaanderson5658 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for this Healing Movement. I am starting to see where I was emotionally throughout my life.

  • @barbarajohnsonmilburn6177
    @barbarajohnsonmilburn6177 3 місяці тому +3

    Thank you Allison for your transparency for you being honest. I've told you this before but I will say it again and the more I listen to you, the more plainer it becomes that you so remind me of myself when I was in my younger years. Often times in a lot of ways I felt like I was overlooked. When I spoke, it was like people would start talking to somebody else right in the middle of my conversation with them or I would feel like they weren't hearing me at all until I finally got to the point where I just kind of stop talking. I would hold things in and ignore what was said about me until I got to the point where I would just explode, and then of course when I exploded everybody looked at me like I was the quote unquote bad guy. It wasn't until I came to Dunamis that I begin to understand that I do have a voice and what I have to say is important and I am becoming more and more comfortable with saying what I need to say when I need to say it. But I do think that I will also take Jimmy's suggestion of saying to the person that I am speaking to yeah, I need you to hear this, I don't need your advice, I don't need your opinion, I just need you to listen so that I too can get what it is that I need and not what people project on to me. Great session I love this, I really did and thank you

  • @user-os4nt5kx8d
    @user-os4nt5kx8d 3 місяці тому +2

    Thanks for your transparency. I do the same isolation or just say ok ok and move on.

  • @wandalipscomb-lee736
    @wandalipscomb-lee736 2 місяці тому +1

    There was so much great advice given. I love that you saw your need for continued therapy for your greatness to be developed
    Allison you are definitely a voice to so many women whose struggling in their identity and purpose. Love you Allison ❤Thank you

  • @jerondahairston2794
    @jerondahairston2794 10 днів тому

    thank you Allison for sharing. I now understand your journey and now have some tools to move forward in mine..

  • @divinedy11
    @divinedy11 3 місяці тому +2

    Thank you for your transparency Alison, and thank you coach for asking all the right questions it truly helps me to recognize some of my childhood issues that I experienced and buried within as a child. I was raised in the era where our parents (in my case my mother) taught us that "children should be seen and not heard" (rejection ) "Shut up, get out of my face and to your room (abandonment), "because I said so" never given any explanations or understanding because they (adults) deemed us (children) as in important (only adults were important (low self-esteem). But now as an adult I can clearly see where the "rejection, isolation, hiding in myself, low self-esteem and not being able to express my true emotions came from. I was only taught how to "shut up," shut down," shut everything in," and "shut everybody out! But I thank God for Mama Dee, Dunamis Woman University Ariel, and Alison for bringing up every one of these topics/courses/workshops etc. because they address everything that is needed to bring "Healing For My soul" I am truly being healed from the inside out because of truth that is being revealed. "The truth makes me free." Not withholding the truth, but releasing our truths so we can be FREE❤️

  • @laquettaleonard-johnson2603
    @laquettaleonard-johnson2603 3 місяці тому +2

    Yes, that advice is so good. Sometimes we want someone to just listen. Not advise. No opinions. Just listen. Really lisen.

  • @roxiethomas7902
    @roxiethomas7902 2 місяці тому

    Allison I hear you loud and clear, your transparency was screaming at me. I have been treated like this my whole life as if my opinion was not valued or wanted. As a child I was always told to be quiet, what I had to say didn’t matter, I lost my mother and grandparents at the ages of 13 &14 all I had was my older siblings who were dealing with their own problems so I had to fight and still fighting to understand who I am and that I’m just as important as the next perso. Thank so much for this.

  • @jodi-annbrown418
    @jodi-annbrown418 Місяць тому

    Accepting and living in the truth instead of making yourself small because of past experiences - this hit home with me big time

  • @ShannnonArdoin
    @ShannnonArdoin 2 місяці тому +1

    This hit me hard because this is me isolation is what I do trying to communicate I definitely need to be in his sessions so much I got out of your transparency and truth Allison everyone of these podcasts have so much powerful messages in them thanks for sharing Allison and he is wonderful very bless at what he do thanks sir keep it coming you guys 👏🏾💜💜💜

  • @Veronicanash177
    @Veronicanash177 2 місяці тому

    Love this ❤❤

  • @darlenethompson5217
    @darlenethompson5217 Місяць тому

    This episode reflects myself with mom and family. Abandonment, rejected, unwanted. I was friendly, kind, and giving felt that outsiders. I was the people pleasure, not choosing to walk away because of being lonely. 😢

  • @user-sr4mz3ng2r
    @user-sr4mz3ng2r 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for opening up. I have isolated in my teen age years because I felt different. So I can relate.

  • @violetturner3544
    @violetturner3544 2 місяці тому

    Thank you, Allison, for your transparency. I can relate to a few things, if not all. Also, thank you Jimmie. This was a powerful episode.

  • @valerienettles4557
    @valerienettles4557 3 місяці тому +6

    That isolation for me easier than exposing myself to people who misunderstand me as the woman.

  • @deniselawrence3007
    @deniselawrence3007 2 місяці тому

    Big hugs ❤❤❤ for u my dear Allison, thank you for being so intimate with us and sharing your Heart

  • @lindawalker7689
    @lindawalker7689 3 місяці тому

    Great Episode

  • @rosemarlet1
    @rosemarlet1 3 місяці тому +1

    I can relate to Allison! Having seven sisters and being the middle one, I tend to keep to myself.

  • @csulbsmw07
    @csulbsmw07 3 місяці тому

    this was really good

  • @lashawnbradley4
    @lashawnbradley4 3 місяці тому +1

    Love you Allison for always speaking your truth 🫶🏽

  • @vanessaforney8493
    @vanessaforney8493 3 місяці тому

    Wow, powerful

  • @kellywhitted1535
    @kellywhitted1535 3 місяці тому +1

    Allison I love your transparency!!!❤❤❤

  • @rosemarlet1
    @rosemarlet1 3 місяці тому +1

    I love the advice given to advocate what I need when I communicate to others.

  • @annasteingibson9986
    @annasteingibson9986 2 місяці тому

    Your transparency was so moving I too have had and still have those feelings of not being heard or my opinion doesn't matter. It is better now but I truly know the feeling of being left out.

  • @annettelewis9725
    @annettelewis9725 3 місяці тому

    Thank you Allison for sharing your experience. I thought I was sitting in that chair. I had the same experience with one of sisters and I had to protect her and I isolated myself a lot.

  • @kb5958
    @kb5958 2 місяці тому +1

    Allison...You Are Beautifully Internally and Externally

  • @tenechiawalker5464
    @tenechiawalker5464 2 місяці тому

    Know who you are, and who’s you are ❤️🙏🏽💪🏽

  • @erickamose1344
    @erickamose1344 2 місяці тому

    I can really relate to this because I use to feel like I didn't have a voice and I've felt unworthy othen keeping everything bottle up sometimes afraid to speak I do relate thank you for releasing.

  • @kenyaterry4650
    @kenyaterry4650 3 місяці тому

    I can relate Allison

  • @tracycork3047
    @tracycork3047 2 місяці тому

    Allison, thank you for your transparency. I am the same way and took some revelation from this episode.

  • @danaemccain9940
    @danaemccain9940 2 місяці тому

    My thoughts are as you spoke, you are a mirror image of me. Except I seek to know me, and with that I have to cut out the things my Mother said. I am not her, and she is not me. Her ways were how she wanted things, but I'm having to accept what I want. If everything she gave me was right I don't believe I would Today try so hard and harder not to follow her ways. Allow yourself to be open to learn new things about me. Life hasn't ended because I experienced what she didnt teach me, but I've learned not to give into what I didnt get, but experience what I need to get to luve. Thank you Allison for the mirror image.

  • @tenechiawalker5464
    @tenechiawalker5464 2 місяці тому

    No more isolation ❤️🙏🏽💪🏽

  • @lashawnbradley4
    @lashawnbradley4 3 місяці тому +1

    I had a hard time my kids were my life once they left it was so hard for me because now what do I do now, I as so depress and cried everyday.

  • @lashawnbradley4
    @lashawnbradley4 3 місяці тому

    Good morning ladies 💜🫶🏽

  • @kellywhitted1535
    @kellywhitted1535 3 місяці тому +1

    I could see some of me in your life with my mom. I isolated a lot.

  • @tenechiawalker5464
    @tenechiawalker5464 2 місяці тому +1

    Be Me in Confidence I Am Different

  • @queenofsecondchances4442
    @queenofsecondchances4442 2 місяці тому

    Greetings family I am in here to relearn myself. i hope to learn how to move on.

  • @kb5958
    @kb5958 2 місяці тому +1

    Profound Yes DEEP As an empathic individual engaging with strong willed "bull dog" adamant dogmatic yet well-meaning personalities (Family and the workplace) it is a test for sure ...To those strong minded persona's: Do Y'all have compassion "Jesus Be A Fence" To avoid conflict and what comes across to me as very "controlling" persona's is to get QUIET To shut down Say something and those stern personalities knock you down Geez Naw avoid strife and the insults I get QUIET But now I Am Finding My Voice No longer hiding Thanks God Thanks DWE It is a Journey and an evolving PROCESS.... Opposite personalities neither right nor wrong Yin and Yang personalities Working on Standing Up For ME Speaking UP Definitely opportunity for Growth...
    Healing ❤ Scripture to STAND ON: "I Can Do All Things Through Christ Who Strengthens Me"...❤

  • @rosemarlet1
    @rosemarlet1 3 місяці тому

    Good morning ❤

  • @kellywhitted1535
    @kellywhitted1535 3 місяці тому

    Good Morning 🌞🌄

  • @racheljeannettet
    @racheljeannettet 3 місяці тому

    Good morning Beautifuls 👸🏾👸🏽👸🏿👸🏼👸🏻