Kathie Lee Gifford Makes Autistic Kid Cry on TV

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  • Опубліковано 3 січ 2011
  • This is the Kathie Lee Gifford video mentioned on The Howard Stern Show 1/4/11
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  • @Sigmundurg
    @Sigmundurg 10 років тому +874

    That song sounds like something straight out of South Park.

    • @ItsameAlex
      @ItsameAlex 10 років тому +10

      yup

    • @casperl8408
      @casperl8408 6 років тому +43

      Sigmundurg i was thinking the same thing! This whole thing feels like a south park sketch. Constantly escalating and getting worse and worse and then ending it with something incredibly ridiculous like making a song

    • @brightstarlit
      @brightstarlit 5 років тому +18

      I fucking lost it at 6:46 with that high note!!! Ahahaha haha 😆🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😅😅 I can’t!

    • @sydneyprescott3374
      @sydneyprescott3374 4 роки тому +4

      @@brightstarlit so dramatic!

    • @DeepScreenAnalysis
      @DeepScreenAnalysis 4 роки тому +11

      Sigmundurg that singer is absolutely terrifying.

  • @camilleparker7817
    @camilleparker7817 9 років тому +713

    Why are they talking to him like he's stupid? So rude.

    • @lngvly22
      @lngvly22 8 років тому +10

      Well, he does have mental disabilities.

    • @c.l.1820
      @c.l.1820 5 років тому +1

      It's hilarious tho

    • @connordennis1881
      @connordennis1881 4 роки тому +16

      Because they are bullies and probably didn’t get good grades in school

    • @user-bd1yv8gd5x
      @user-bd1yv8gd5x 4 роки тому +10

      Camille Parker Because they’re ignorant

    • @berrybluebird3842
      @berrybluebird3842 4 роки тому

      Because he is.

  • @deathbastardable
    @deathbastardable 8 років тому +786

    "Did you get any flack from any of your friends?" Jesus, the kid's sitting _right there_!

    • @jamessaemenes563
      @jamessaemenes563 6 років тому +78

      deathbastardable for they’re heavily implying he’s a shitty loser and that this 𝐊𝐢𝐝𝐬 “wonderful” for being his friend because he’s such a burden fuck these dumb clueless bimbos they’re the kind of people that need to be taken into a barn am shot

    • @haneenms6
      @haneenms6 3 роки тому +8

      @@jamessaemenes563 amen

    • @schewitt1977
      @schewitt1977 3 роки тому +5

      Its unfortunate that in the old days that yes that would have happened. However that doesn't mean the question should have been asked.

    • @ryanhoward3383
      @ryanhoward3383 2 роки тому +15

      Translation: Did you get flack as the coolest guy in school for befriending the biggest loser in school?

    • @linnybug719
      @linnybug719 Рік тому

      Kids are horrible and that was a legit question. People can be so judgemental

  • @tage202
    @tage202 7 років тому +516

    I died when she sung that horrible song. Poor kid had to sit through that roast.

  • @orlibloom4
    @orlibloom4 10 років тому +868

    This makes me so mad. They made a song about how just being his friend basically makes you a saint. Someone lowering themselves to say "hello" and sit with him is so "beautiful." Way to be inclusive. I was a socially awkward kid with no friends or partners in anything. I had a teacher legitimately clap and say, "Thank-you, you're a good person" to someone when they agreed to a forced partnership with me. It really gets you down and makes you feel even less wanted. These people are assholes and their song is horrible in every way.

    • @ArmyJames
      @ArmyJames 6 років тому +31

      orlibloom4 “We see them [social undesirables] every day.”

    • @sydneyprescott3374
      @sydneyprescott3374 4 роки тому +19

      😳😳 I had that happen once but the girl refused to sit next to me and made a scene with all the class laughing, and the teacher was like..ok, well go sit with candy

    • @Boobalopbop
      @Boobalopbop 4 роки тому +37

      I completely agree... The kid must never have felt like such a loser until that song. In his mind he must just see Graham as his friend who he likes and likes him. They're making it look like a charity situation, where the popular kid is just tolerating him. Ugh.

    • @frankvonfrauner
      @frankvonfrauner 3 роки тому +20

      @@ArmyJames "Instead of locking them up in institutions like we used to, we publicly tolerate them for social ADVANCEMENT!!!!!!!!" That was a line in the song right?

    • @klaudioindigo4577
      @klaudioindigo4577 3 роки тому +10

      their song does more of a job at highlighting the faults in capitalist individualism than in trying to praise human decency which shouldn't be praised in the first place its just horrible overall

  • @21Bellamore
    @21Bellamore 10 років тому +303

    It's like "Here's a gift basket for being a decent human being, Oh don't cry Grahm, you don't need one, the fact that someone bothered to acknowledge your presence is a gift enough" Geeze, its not that hard to be kind to someone. This lady's an airhead.

    • @1talldaddy
      @1talldaddy 10 років тому +34

      and let's not forget "Hey little buddy here's a song i wrote just for you about how shitty your life was until you made friends with the popular kid."

    • @daysgobye
      @daysgobye 3 роки тому +8

      And she called him Zack. She didn't even remember his name.

    • @joshuaneal7552
      @joshuaneal7552 3 роки тому +6

      "Oh, but at least we'll let you both go to the Cubs game!"
      Watch them both be White Sox fans.

  • @guynamedkyle
    @guynamedkyle 7 років тому +65

    Essentially, he got rewarded for not bullying the kid. Nice.

  • @cellini051
    @cellini051 9 років тому +319

    This is so stupid. They all laughed WAY too hard when Graham said the song was too sad. He was just saying how he felt. And Graham barely got any attention. I'm sure when Zach sat with Graham at lunch he didn't think he was going to be put on live tv, he just wanted to help Graham out. But no, the parents need attention and to say "oh wow my kid is just so great." Zach did a nice thing, Graham was happy, that's all there is to it. So many kids have done something like Zach has done, I don't understand why Zach's mom thought he was any more special.

    • @Anthonybevilacquaviolin
      @Anthonybevilacquaviolin 5 років тому +24

      I think Graham, as many autistic kids do. .. actually has an advanced musical comprehension. And I think him saying "it was too sad" was his nice way of saying it was sophomoric and poorly structured, and written by an imbacile.

    • @cuckingfunt8965
      @cuckingfunt8965 5 років тому +21

      Cause he is a star jock that is tall, handsome and popular. Its like the people on this show still live in the 80s

    • @joshuaneal7552
      @joshuaneal7552 3 роки тому +7

      Singer: You're all alone...You have no friends...No one says "hello" to you
      Graham: **cries**
      Kathie Lee: Oh, you had tears in your eyes! Did you like your song there, buddy?
      Graham: It was too sad.
      All the adults in the room: HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! **(Hoda losing her breath)**

    • @stephenreeds3632
      @stephenreeds3632 3 роки тому +5

      Because she defines herself through her children. Isn't he wonderful for not behaving like a jerk. It was so good of a jock to talk to a nerd. What a completely depressing story.

  • @lizlev4872
    @lizlev4872 10 років тому +247

    This is sick. Their treating him like he's a prop. And wow, this Zach dude doesn't deserve a freaking medal for acting like a normal healthy human being. Geez

    • @stephenreeds3632
      @stephenreeds3632 3 роки тому +14

      To his mother/lover he does. The whole thing makes you cringe. Wow isn't he lucky....one of the popular kids talks to him. His claim to fame? He's good at sports. That poor lad being made to cry for TV. Pathetic country.

  • @supachaloopa3611
    @supachaloopa3611 9 років тому +227

    I thought this was an SNL parody... but it really happened. That poor kid. This is just like the time they had that blind woman on the show and Kathy Lee insulted her 3 times during the segment- "Too bad you can't see the pretty dress we got you", "And if you look at the certificate...", and the worst one- "Tomorrow is your birthday. If you had ONE wish for a present, I bet you'd like a new tv". I fell out of my chair laughing so hard! A f*cking tv? Don't you think she'd want her eyesight !?!?! So she could watch tv !?!?

    • @isaacwheeler3086
      @isaacwheeler3086 3 роки тому +6

      Omg this actually happened!?

    • @Idiotic_B_Purcell
      @Idiotic_B_Purcell 3 роки тому +4

      Kathy Lee's a total jerkoff smdh

    • @graceamodeo1587
      @graceamodeo1587 3 роки тому +8

      Actually, blind people can watch tv. It's much easier now since a lot of shows have audio description. I'm blind myself and watch a lot of tv. I have an insignia fire tv which has a screen reader, so I can browse the menus and everything Doesn't make kathie lee any less dumb though. She's one of those people who don't get that we disabled people are just people trying to get through life, just like you guys. We're not here to inspire or anything like that.

  • @LoadPast
    @LoadPast 8 років тому +219

    Howard stern was 100% dead on

  • @thisaccountisnolongeravail7989
    @thisaccountisnolongeravail7989 9 років тому +191

    This is literally the most awkward thing I've ever seen.

  • @DonnaMariaWHV
    @DonnaMariaWHV 12 років тому +97

    I'm mum to a 15 y/o son with Asperger's and I can tell you as much bravery as it took for Zach to go and sit with a lonely little boy, it took Graham 10x more bravery to go to school every day knowing how isolated and alone he would be. Darthspeaks hit it head on. Honoring teens for something they should do anyway is going to raise a generation of self-serving adults. And what does this say to little Graham? That he was so degenerate that Zach deserved prize for even speaking to him? Disgusting.

    • @r4h4al
      @r4h4al Рік тому

      True it takes a lot of bravery when you're autistic to face school.

    • @bernard6255
      @bernard6255 6 місяців тому

      ...and here we are 12yrs later, and this generation has indeed grown up and this prediction has proven spot on. Self-righteous, Self-serving adults who thrive on the fuel of virtue signaling wokeness.

  • @whoaitsreesy
    @whoaitsreesy 8 років тому +239

    This is bad. Really bad. I felt embarrassed for Graham. How dare they laugh at him when he was being truthful. (by the way, I too am, autistic.)

  • @ella122112
    @ella122112 9 років тому +350

    This is really patronizing and weird. It must feel shitty to have it be such a huge deal that someone befriended you. Anyone would be lucky to be this kids friend, it's nothing special, I'm sure he's just a good kid. I've been around plenty of autistic people and unless they have certain requests of you I don't get why you shouldn't just treat them like everyone else. Autism is pretty damn common, this dude's normal.

    • @1talldaddy
      @1talldaddy 9 років тому +43

      that song that they wrote would make anybody feel shitty.

    • @atomicdawg100
      @atomicdawg100 5 років тому +15

      Kittens
      pretty sure this was the end of their “friendship”. the looks on both their faces including the forced smiles say it all.. probably one of the most traumatizing and humiliating moment of their lives.

    • @andrewkohler3707
      @andrewkohler3707 3 роки тому +8

      @@atomicdawg100 I hope it was not the end of their friendship; perhaps it could have been trauma bonding?

  • @arkjag2991
    @arkjag2991 2 роки тому +55

    The mom who wrote in to get her son on TV is the sickest person in all of this.

    • @CC3193
      @CC3193 7 місяців тому +4

      I have a school-aged son with autism. If I were Graeme’s mom, I’d have told Zach’s mom to ‘shove it’ if she invited us to this disgraceful shit-show.

    • @mrdowjones6986
      @mrdowjones6986 5 місяців тому +2

      Agreed, absolutely disgusting

  • @tonysillinger3285
    @tonysillinger3285 8 років тому +107

    Kathie Lee @ 4:50 to Zack. "Did you get any flack from it from any of your friends?"
    Is that an appropriate question to ask in front of Graham? Or in general? Very disrespectful on Kathie's part. Also, this question she asked truly shows how important being accepted and societal norms are to her.

    • @ryanhoward3383
      @ryanhoward3383 3 роки тому +5

      Exactly! I think it's actually Kathie Lee and Hoda who are the ones who lack social skills. Not gram

    • @thetortoise4107
      @thetortoise4107 Місяць тому

      Would have loved to have heard Howard's reaction to THAT clip

  • @dvdragon
    @dvdragon 7 років тому +216

    Too much Xanax and box wine.

    • @kharitonovboyanaleskeevich4226
      @kharitonovboyanaleskeevich4226 5 років тому +15

      Fucking stay at home moms lol, get some fucking life outside ur close family.

    • @CoffinDoll
      @CoffinDoll 4 роки тому +7

      dvdragon why doesn’t Kathy Lee write a song about frank when he was cheating lol -Howard Stern

  • @earlydawn81
    @earlydawn81 9 років тому +166

    the only message that Kathy Lee sent to this boy is "how outstanding it is for someone to actually want to be your friend" this was so difficult to watch it was mean. I wanted to jump through the screen and give him a hug and say Kathy is a knuckle head

  • @trollskullkid69
    @trollskullkid69 8 років тому +781

    Who came here from The Howard Stern Show?

    • @xZipperEdgex
      @xZipperEdgex 8 років тому +10

      Right here buddy.

    • @madlad2819
      @madlad2819 8 років тому +1

      Sup

    • @elchankilon1
      @elchankilon1 8 років тому +4

      stern yep

    • @Howard007
      @Howard007 8 років тому +2

      +trollskullkid69 suh dude

    • @dagnabbit6187
      @dagnabbit6187 8 років тому +2

      +trollskullkid69 My comment is above yours . Howard Stern has been a necessary evil for the Catharsis of a society like ours that can be unduly phony. Howard, however, has been a Scumbag himself and gone way too far before and somebody said Howard once did something vile to a mentally retarded person but I don't know whether that is true or a Google Bomb. If it is then I will take my post down . Otherwise it stays up because Kathy Lee deserves the ridicule for this Travestal segment.

  • @sammiemjh
    @sammiemjh 10 років тому +240

    I have an autistic brother, if someone wanted to make it on tv with him being "honored" for making friends with him at school I'd be disgusted. But that's just my opinion I guess..

    • @wilsonbubba
      @wilsonbubba 10 років тому +13

      My thoughts exactly!

    • @RandomHelpingGuy
      @RandomHelpingGuy 10 років тому +8

      They make it seem as if it's an accomplishment because he made a friend. The poor kid doesn't want to be laughed at by the hosts.

    • @Hannah-rt1nj
      @Hannah-rt1nj 4 роки тому +8

      Same. My brother is autistic and I would never let this happen. Over my dead body.

    • @dolam
      @dolam 4 роки тому +1

      By looking at the number of likes and dislikes i think a lot of people agree with you

    • @marbardan
      @marbardan Рік тому +1

      I blame the kid's soccer mom for this whole thing. What her son did was great, but she didn't need to escalate to praise him like this and put this little boy as the third wheel of this stupid worship.

  • @iwazhear77
    @iwazhear77 11 років тому +67

    "I'm very proud of my son Zach for showing a single shred of human decency. I think that he should be worshipped by the American television audience because he is not a completely selfish asshole and is capable of making friends. He is a hero."

    • @CC3193
      @CC3193 7 місяців тому +1

      Probably word-for-word on Zach’s college applications

  • @metalblade8787
    @metalblade8787 8 років тому +375

    the singer is terrible and that poor kid was obviously uncomfortable i mean seriously "YOU ARE ALL ALOOOOOOONE YOU ARE ALOOOOOOOOOOOOOONE"

    • @ronson232
      @ronson232 7 років тому +34

      Well, to be fair to the singer, she had crap of a song to work with.

    • @RhiannaBarr
      @RhiannaBarr 6 років тому +28

      MetalBlade the singer isnt actually awful....but the song is.

    • @haneenms6
      @haneenms6 4 роки тому +4

      😂😂😂😂😂😂 ahhh this is so baaad

    • @alexd976
      @alexd976 3 роки тому +2

      @@haneenms6 If your dissing that autistic kid you are a disgusting piece of crap💩💩💩💩

    • @haneenms6
      @haneenms6 3 роки тому +2

      @@alexd976 chill, when did I diss the kid. I felt really bad for him and I’m autistic too.

  • @JakeIsFine379
    @JakeIsFine379 10 років тому +298

    This is disgusting and inexcusable. Congrats on writing a song that humiliated a young boy and then laugh in his face when he says it's too much of a sad portrayal of his life. 9:14 'HEY! ALL ALONE! HAHAHA!' This is his life.

    • @Sugardaddy501
      @Sugardaddy501 10 років тому +8

      Good the kid learned how cruel life is and nobody cares about him.

    • @Sugardaddy501
      @Sugardaddy501 9 років тому +5

      EdudLufetips
      Nobody; I am a realist that knows you need a thick skin in life.

    • @Sugardaddy501
      @Sugardaddy501 9 років тому +1

      EdudLufetips
      I know that life is cruel nothing happened to me at all. I am perfectly fine and do not treat anybody special just because they have a mental illness.

    • @AreolaGrande94
      @AreolaGrande94 9 років тому +14

      the internet Is it that hard to understand? No one is asking you to treat anyone with any kind of illness in any way---- we have doctors for that.
      Your contradiction is precisely what is going on here- an attempt to treat a kid 'special,' by making a mockery of his condition to boost viewership. They turn a kid who deserves to be treated in no 'special' way at all-- good or bad-- into a pity case circus sideshow.
      Listen to some of the lyrics of this song. "they're angels in disguise..." WTF are they on? The kid is probably thinking "No dumb bitch, I'm a kid and I go to school and I mind my own business."
      A major point also is that not only is he developmentally challenged, he's a child. Even if he didn't have autism he'd believe his mother was doing the right thing by parading him out here, because that's the way nature works- you tend to trust your mother, of all people, has your best interests in mind.
      Empathy is not only not 'treating' anyone in any way, it is really easy to do. On one end of the spectrum you have truly evil people who probably make this kid the punchline of every joke, and on the other end you have kooky dolts like KLG highlighting his misery as he is forced to swallow it and pretend to play along.
      This kid didn't ask for any of this-- how do you know he's not already aware that the world hasn't dealt him the same cards as paris hilton? The only reason the story got out is because the other kid's mom (the star football player) called Kathie Lee GIfford's show and bragged about how her 'handsome, popular son befriended an autistic kid who sat alone at lunch, going on and on about how great of a son she has..etc." By this kid's age, you become aware that to some, he's a pariah. He was forced on there by an idiot mother... you can tell 2 seconds in that he would rather be stuck in a sewer somewhere than be surrounded by those cackling hens. He didn't need to be humiliated on TV for him to learn this life lesson that apparently you think he doesn't already experience every day.

    • @michaellabonte8780
      @michaellabonte8780 9 років тому

      the internet lol. Yea right. It's so easy to see threw your posts. You didn't develop your shitty outlook on life and your thick skin from being happy and treated well your whole life. Plus everyone knows fine stands for fucked up, insecure, neurotic, and emotional.

  • @littlemissblonde1231
    @littlemissblonde1231 8 років тому +107

    "you're the boss buddy, yeah you are!"
    what the fuck is he, a dog?

    • @michaelorourke2208
      @michaelorourke2208 8 років тому +38

      Also the "your quite the athlete" "I see your throwing the baseball"

    • @thetortoise4107
      @thetortoise4107 Рік тому +4

      and he's like "Yeah not really" in a sarcastic way hahahahahaha he knows whats up

    • @pauljordan4452
      @pauljordan4452 4 місяці тому +1

      ​@@thetortoise4107This lady got parodied on South Park!

  • @atanasijarzhentinski4576
    @atanasijarzhentinski4576 10 років тому +80

    Kathie Lee Gifford: "You had tears in your eyes, buddy. Did you like your song?"
    Graham: "No, it was a little too sad."
    People: *burst into laughter*
    Me: *is internally crying*

    • @Anthonybevilacquaviolin
      @Anthonybevilacquaviolin 5 років тому +12

      I think Graham, like many autistic people, does have an advanced musical comprehension. I think when he said it was too sad, it was his nice way of saying it was sophomoric, poorly structured, and written by an imbacile.

    • @joshuaneal7552
      @joshuaneal7552 3 роки тому +7

      ​@@Anthonybevilacquaviolin Yeah, the melody was as childish as it gets. Bearable, though. But damn, those lyrics were so thoughtless and mean. Despicable segment altogether. Atrocious television. As stupid as this world mostly is (especially mainstream media), it's still hard to believe that this is actually a thing.

    • @TeamFriendship8600
      @TeamFriendship8600 2 роки тому +8

      As an autistic person, one of the worst feelings is when people not only disregard your emotions, but actively mock them.

    • @ryanhoward3383
      @ryanhoward3383 2 роки тому +3

      We'll get david to jazz it up sometime "All alone! All alooooooooooooooooooooooooone!"

  • @TheHawk-dy4cl
    @TheHawk-dy4cl 9 років тому +56

    oh my god they humiliated this kid, imagine praising someone just for being friends with you, it's as if NO ONE could ever want to befriend you and now this guy is a hero for doing it. how insulting, how fucking awful

    • @stephenreeds3632
      @stephenreeds3632 3 роки тому +1

      He was SO brave not caring what his stupid friends might think! What a hero. Give it time we'll be like this v v soon.

  • @LoneCloudHopper
    @LoneCloudHopper 9 років тому +393

    The kid isn't stupid. He knows the adults care about themselves and each other, not him. The song is to make them feel good, not the kids. And it's an 'awww, poor widdle stupid you' attitude. Damn insulting.
    The irony is that he's probably the smartest one here.

    • @SouthBayLA1310
      @SouthBayLA1310 3 роки тому +4

      Autistic ppl are usually smart

    • @delilasloan8914
      @delilasloan8914 3 роки тому +14

      They are being condescending..it's horrible. Kathy Lee doesn't understand how bad this is .she is from a different time.

    • @chrisb4787
      @chrisb4787 2 роки тому +4

      He spoke his mind...they chalk is up to a joke when he's more serious than a heart attack.

    • @je19662008
      @je19662008 Рік тому

      @@delilasloan8914 KLG was never that bright. The way I see it, she's the boomer generation's answer to Kim Kardashian; famous for being famous. Except in a way, she's worse. At least KK knows what she is and doesn't pretend to herself or to anyone else she's anything but that. KLG spent her whole life and made an entire career out of convincing herself and everyone else she's anything but narcissistic. And of course, she married a Chad who, judging by his kids, Cody and Cassidy, might have actually been intelligent before all those head shots he took on the football field caught up with him.

    • @melodiefrances3898
      @melodiefrances3898 Рік тому +3

      ​@Delila Sloan not a different time, unfortunately. But absolutely a place of extreme entitlement.

  • @MuonRay
    @MuonRay 10 років тому +452

    This must be what hell is like, full of sadistic people not knowing they are inflicting pain and grinning all the while. This is actually really hard to watch, it's like watching slaughterhouse footage or of dogs being gassed.

    • @stevejobs3496
      @stevejobs3496 10 років тому +2

      I watch your physics videos. Wasn't expecting to see your comment here. I agree this is really sad.

    • @wakkowarner123
      @wakkowarner123 10 років тому +5

      Muon Ray Just watching that bit made me mad.

    • @johnthepalm
      @johnthepalm 10 років тому +29

      ***** I don't have autism and I probably would have committed suicide if I was brought on TV and told the only reason anyone hangs out with me is out of pity.

    • @andrewkohler3707
      @andrewkohler3707 3 роки тому +2

      I actually remember having at least one bad dream as a child of being horrified at something and then having an adult laugh at it-exactly as Muon Ray so cogently describes this hideous TV segment.

  • @katieq7686
    @katieq7686 8 років тому +104

    This whole video is like a damn satire.

    • @sO-mq6qh
      @sO-mq6qh 4 роки тому +3

      Expect it isn't...
      😢

  • @rudy12327
    @rudy12327 8 років тому +71

    this whole thing is insane. I can't fucking believe they wrote a song about it

    • @ryanhoward3383
      @ryanhoward3383 3 роки тому +2

      More proof that truth is Stranger Than Fiction

  • @nicolewilliams6052
    @nicolewilliams6052 8 років тому +340

    Oh god that was every bit as bad as Howard described.

    • @chillnonthemoon5028
      @chillnonthemoon5028 8 років тому +8

      i came from that to

    • @MissKrissy2010
      @MissKrissy2010 4 роки тому +8

      Even worse, really. When you see the kid on screen its just heartbreaking

  • @aDayInTheMindOfMe
    @aDayInTheMindOfMe 10 років тому +61

    come the fuck on.. Seriously, this must be hell for Graham, he is being made into a freak, and they are basically making a news story out of an everyday normal friendship. This is ridiculous, they act like autism makes him unable to have friends. jesus this is dumb.

  • @alesanaalove
    @alesanaalove 3 роки тому +26

    Poor boy looks like he is internally screaming the whole time. He must've been so uncomfortable.

  • @taylororie6419
    @taylororie6419 8 років тому +26

    "WHAT IS IT LIKE TO BE ALONE, SITTING AT THE CAFETERIA TABLE!?"

  • @brookespillman8781
    @brookespillman8781 8 років тому +66

    I CAN'T GET OVER HOW BAD THAT SONG SUCKED!!!

  • @AdeAlert
    @AdeAlert 10 років тому +82

    this is unbeliveable... seems like a sketch from south park or something, can't believe it is real tbh

  • @DomestikMC
    @DomestikMC 10 років тому +161

    "did you like your song?"
    "it was a little sad."
    "HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA"

    • @ArmyJames
      @ArmyJames 6 років тому +10

      DomestikMC It wasn’t even “his” song! It was directed at the older kid!

    • @dagnrl215
      @dagnrl215 5 років тому +13

      ALL ALONE, ALL ALONE!!!! like what the actual fuck just happened

    • @yocelin1087
      @yocelin1087 5 років тому +9

      Seriously awkward how everyone started laughing at the kid’s response when he was asked why he teared-up when listening to the song. JUST SO STUPID!

    • @Anthonybevilacquaviolin
      @Anthonybevilacquaviolin 5 років тому +8

      As a professional musician, I don't know WHAT the fuck I just listened to.
      But I do wish those two boys all the very best in life.

  • @tutorjulslee2357
    @tutorjulslee2357 7 років тому +58

    Zach should have told him mom it was messed up to send a letter in praising him for being a friend. And the other kid's mom should have never let him be exploited in such a way. And what makes Kathie Lee think singing a screechy soprano song to two teenage boys is what they want???

    • @c.l.1820
      @c.l.1820 5 років тому +6

      I'm sure both those guys didn't want to go. But mommy made them.

    • @sydneyprescott3374
      @sydneyprescott3374 4 роки тому +6

      I'm saying, why didn't these adult women know not to do something this embarrassing but im thinking these women love kathy lee and used their sons to get to meet her and be on tv

    • @kilaadams7354
      @kilaadams7354 4 роки тому +1

      It's the narcissistic moron in her. I don't want to know what poor Frank had to put up with dealing with her stupid grapefruit head.

  • @StrewthFroogals
    @StrewthFroogals 8 років тому +66

    as if this wasn't already uncomfortable, but that SONG....holy fuck that song was awful! WHYYYY!?!

    • @macymayo4849
      @macymayo4849 7 років тому +9

      easily one of the most irritating, aggravating god awful noises i heard in my life. I actually genuinely got pissed off after listening to that... GOOD GOD

  • @andrewschroy6368
    @andrewschroy6368 10 років тому +91

    Who came here because of Howard Stern?

    • @CoffinDoll
      @CoffinDoll 4 роки тому +2

      Andrew Schroy me. Why does frank smell like tuna fish

  • @horrorjunkie92
    @horrorjunkie92 9 років тому +50

    I hate how people treat Autistics. If someone is alone everyday and you know they have diagnosed bad social skills, you don't deserve a medal for talking to them. That's what everybody should automatically do!

    • @dinosaysrawr
      @dinosaysrawr 2 роки тому +2

      I deserve a medal for talking to neurotypicals. Imagine someone whose only hobbies are golf, watching The Bachelor, complaining about work stress, and following housing prices, and they can't even name their favorite Disney movie.

  • @vanillacreamdawson958
    @vanillacreamdawson958 8 років тому +25

    That moment everyone laughs at Grams comment of being a little too sad, that captures the exact moment that that kid dies completely inside.

  • @anthonycampos8057
    @anthonycampos8057 Рік тому +6

    This is the most disturbing thing ive ever seen. This poor kid is essentially being humiliated ON NATIONAL TELEVISION.

  • @RoseBVB
    @RoseBVB 10 років тому +156

    Okay, speaking as someone who has an autism spectrum disorder, I feel like they went completely overboard with this. First, they act as if he can't even comprehend whats going on, let me tell you, he really can, maybe even better than others. Second, the guy decided to sit next to him, yes, that may have made an impact on him, but you don't blow things completely out of proportion and write some dramatic song about it, and finally, they need to LISTEN to him. He obviously seemed uncomfortable with the situation, and he even said the song was really sad. They almost seemed to rub it in his face that he had a lonely life. No one wants that. Everytime a tv show that stereotypes autism spectrum disorders comes on, it get rubbed in my face and sometimes loads me with so much guilt that I cry (because who really wants to have their flaws they know about themselves mocked over and over again?). This is my problem with learning disabilities. They're either mocked in mainstream media, or they're seen as a problem that needs to be 'fixed' or 'dealt with'. We're not broken, we just think differently than most people do. Okay......end rant. Sorry.

    • @itsahatch
      @itsahatch 10 років тому +15

      He knows EXACTLY what's going on. And your right, better than any of them. None of them can see how terrible they are, otherwise none of those chairs would be occupied. He's so overwhelmed by it. Those forced smiles. In his eyes I could see he just wanted to smack Kathy, give them all the finger and walk off with his dignity. But he's trapped.

    • @sydneyprescott3374
      @sydneyprescott3374 4 роки тому +3

      Gram's mom was crying , Gram the saint!

    • @MoMo-nj2oc
      @MoMo-nj2oc 2 роки тому +4

      Don’t apologize. You’re absolutely right

  • @AlienatedCornea
    @AlienatedCornea 10 років тому +48

    Holy fuck, that song was hideous.

  • @mattwstewart205
    @mattwstewart205 4 роки тому +48

    Lol they’re treating this dude like he’s a leper. Talk about being tone deaf

  • @rallyboyd7151
    @rallyboyd7151 8 років тому +23

    Can't they see how uncomfortable and embarrassed he is? Kathy Lee is so dense loudly singing "YOU ARE ALL ALONE!" Right after he says "it was sad" about that song. If I was that kid's parent, I would have walked off with my kid.

  • @UniQueLyEviL
    @UniQueLyEviL 10 років тому +74

    Wait. What was with that horrific Disney wannabe bootleg song?! That was horrendous! WTF WAS THAT?!

  • @jbohler33
    @jbohler33 10 років тому +12

    At the end they gave the jock a basket of gifts and only gave him one of 2 tickets to a game. It was almost symbolic.

  • @SomethingSomethingg
    @SomethingSomethingg 3 роки тому +98

    As an Aspie myself this is both hilarious and degrading. It's always nice to see these popular, attractive, able-bodied/minded BMOC's receive a hero's welcome because they were willing to take one for the team, travel to the dregs of the school hierarchy and actually befriend one of us special ed losers. Congratulations, Graham! You've hit the Holy Grail that all of us Aspies dream of. You get to be yet another entry on a privileged kid's brag sheet!! Yay!!

    • @brandon11122
      @brandon11122 3 роки тому +11

      also asp, i remember so many times as a child being incredibly aware that people in a room with me were patronizing me for my lack of social skills and i would sit there and not say anything because i didn't feel the necessity to, the discomfort in those situations are felt even retrospectively. i feel like that's what's going on with him throughout this video, he's probably trying to figure out if they're actually doing a good thing for him or not

    • @jamesaustin1988
      @jamesaustin1988 3 роки тому +1

      Underrated comment.

    • @AoiUsagiOtoko
      @AoiUsagiOtoko Рік тому +1

      this comment made me laugh and then immediately i felt bad remembering this all really happened on live TV ffs

    • @SomethingSomethingg
      @SomethingSomethingg 11 місяців тому +2

      ​@@brandon11122It's horrible. Naturally that narcissist Kathie Lee not only has to inject herself into this story by writing a ridiculous song but she actually mistakes Graham's overwhelmed, pained tears for awe of her musical abilities. They even laugh at him when he says that it's too sad.

    • @mattybrunolucaszeneresalas9072
      @mattybrunolucaszeneresalas9072 9 місяців тому +1

      Privileged kids brag sheet?

  • @brookespillman8781
    @brookespillman8781 8 років тому +27

    This was so uncomfortable. I felt so bad for those two kids. Adults suck.

  • @dillasbebs622
    @dillasbebs622 10 років тому +51

    I am inspired by Zach's act of kindness, but I am disgusted by this program. Having been diagnosed with High Functioning Autism, which is very similar to Asperger's syndrome, I know that I would be very uncomfortable if I were in Graham's situation. These ladies made three horrible mistakes.
    1. They spoke to the boy like he was mentally handicapped. This is so degrading and offensive to autistic people, because autism and mental retardation are not the same!
    2. They laughed when he said the song was too sad. He most likely made this comment in all seriousness. Laughing about a comment that comes across as odd is one of the best ways to make an autistic person feel horrible.
    3. That song was just awful!
    Of course, this is all from my personal perspective, and I could be totally wrong about how that boy felt during this show. But either way, those ladies were acting very insensitively, and he looked visibly uncomfortable in this video, and at all the points where I would have been so also.

  • @chickenwing986
    @chickenwing986 8 років тому +137

    What a bunch of cold hearted, soulless, and deluded people (except for the poor 15 year old who is being totally victimized/patronized)

    • @dianesemele2568
      @dianesemele2568 8 років тому +20

      +Barry Soetoro are you kidding me???? If Zach had any ounce of self respect he would have said no to this whole thing and said "stop acting like I freed Tibet. I sat with a lonely kid at school. That's it. I don't need a frickin awards ceremony."

    • @chickenwing986
      @chickenwing986 8 років тому +14

      We're talking about Kathy Lee and Hoda's total lack of respect for the situation. Kathy Lee sees this as an opportunity to exploit the boys situation with one of her 'amazing' songs and simply cannot see, or is too deluded to see, that she is causing the boy pain.

    • @dagnabbit6187
      @dagnabbit6187 8 років тому +6

      +chickenwing986 I am not really in to that Body Language thing but somehow I get the vibe that Hoda thinks this is egotistically tacky of Kathie Lee but she is under contract to get along with her. We all have had to suck it up in life and plaster a smile on our face even though we wish when this occurs that we we were privileged enough to drop our pants and moon and break wind in to the faces of the offender we are obligated to tolerate.

    • @jamessaemenes563
      @jamessaemenes563 6 років тому +3

      chickenwing986 the guy who befriended him seems to get the hosts are being rude but those bitches should be shot

    • @kharitonovboyanaleskeevich4226
      @kharitonovboyanaleskeevich4226 5 років тому

      @@dianesemele2568 this, at least he should talk with his friend. If I was Zack I would talk with him and I would encourage him to off them if he can't at that moment I will gladly do it for him.

  • @RollerBear123
    @RollerBear123 7 років тому +9

    BREAKING NEWS: TWO KIDS BECAME FRIENDS

  • @RDJ1109
    @RDJ1109 4 роки тому +19

    Zack during that song "Oh my god this song is killing my high".

  • @MaoKittyMaoMao
    @MaoKittyMaoMao 10 років тому +65

    None of them seemed to know how Graham felt at all. They're just completely ignorant of how this is making that guy feel.
    The mother was wrong for putting him on the show. Didn't look like he wanted to even be there.
    His friend just seemed like an acquaintance.
    That and they probably didn't have an actual story for the show and decided to milk this.

    • @1talldaddy
      @1talldaddy 10 років тому +7

      yeah their "friendship" does seem self serving,especially when he said after they became friends everybody else wanted to be his friend.

    • @ArmyJames
      @ArmyJames 6 років тому +2

      The kid was simply used a convenient prop to advance the bit.

  • @erickamboomer
    @erickamboomer 8 років тому +20

    This is surreal. It seems like it should be a sequence in a fever dream where you're a kid who just sad down with a kid who was alone and now everyone is praising you and making you seem like the second coming of christ. And not only does that make you uncomfortable, but the kid with you is being talked to like a child and a song is sung about how alone he is and he begins to cry. And you're waiting for something to just hit you and put you back in that seat in the cafeteria a few weeks before.

  • @cometfun1914
    @cometfun1914 7 років тому +37

    _HEY LOOK AT ALL THIS STUFF!...BUT THESE ARE FOR ZACH NOT YOU GRAHAM!_ lmao 😂

  • @helgestegemoen73
    @helgestegemoen73 6 років тому +7

    Poor Graham. Breaks my heart when he says the song were a little too sad, followed by all the laughter. Would love if kathy smiled after hearing Howard Sterns song about her and Frank Gifford.

  • @cassiemcclellan4725
    @cassiemcclellan4725 10 років тому +23

    Wow. Put him in a more uncomfortable position. Rub the fact that he was alone in his face. Ignorant people! How can they not see how much pressure they put on him?
    He made friends, an upbeat song would have at least been nice. They should pick up a book and learn a bit about autism, or just learn how to read people in general.
    He handled it extremely well at least, however you can tell he was having suppressed meltdowns.

  • @MetalliCxZero
    @MetalliCxZero 10 років тому +38

    I was watching TheOnion videos and clicked on this one not realizing it wasn't satire lmao I can't believe this is serious

    • @ryanhoward3383
      @ryanhoward3383 5 років тому +1

      Well you know what they say. Truth is Stranger Than Fiction.

  • @KleWdSide
    @KleWdSide 9 років тому +129

    Shameless exploitation. And the lyrics are so treacly & badly written that it makes "Red Solo Cup" look like a Dylan song.

    • @dagnabbit6187
      @dagnabbit6187 9 років тому +4

      Mr Sarajevo LOL Are you referring to the Toby Keith opus. ? If you are go listen to " Shadow Dancing ' by Andy Gibb.

  • @nlimskater
    @nlimskater 9 років тому +59

    What a horrible song and song title, and what disrespect/unprofessional behavior by the hosts. Humor should never involve negative comments especially about someones life.
    SARCASTIC OR NOT

    • @nlimskater
      @nlimskater 9 років тому

      Learn to host a show, even I know this

    • @purpleandpimpin
      @purpleandpimpin 9 років тому +2

      I wonder how many itune downloads the song got.

    • @jeremysanders9336
      @jeremysanders9336 5 років тому

      There's nothing wrong with negative comments or deriving humor from them. The issue here is that they're saying these things right in front of the kid.

    • @Anthonybevilacquaviolin
      @Anthonybevilacquaviolin 5 років тому

      It took all of 6 measures for me to realize that song was written by an imbacile.

    • @kharitonovboyanaleskeevich4226
      @kharitonovboyanaleskeevich4226 5 років тому

      It's even worse if it's sarcastic hahah

  • @SoupFormifamli
    @SoupFormifamli 10 років тому +18

    Rewarding good people with a conversation with Kathie Lee Gifford. The world is fucked.

  • @amyroxy93
    @amyroxy93 8 років тому +62

    I have a physical disability and I am offended by this. If someone came up and wrote a song like this for me I would punch them in the face.

    • @RawKetchup
      @RawKetchup 3 роки тому

      Could you even reach their face?

    • @amyroxy93
      @amyroxy93 3 роки тому +1

      Yeah, I’d probably tower them too. I may be physically challenged but NOT vertically. 😊🤣

    • @johnsingleton393
      @johnsingleton393 3 роки тому +1

      @@RawKetchup Could you?

  • @cRownxassassin
    @cRownxassassin 10 років тому +10

    "Your the boss"
    "No not really" hahahahahahahahhaha

  • @shadowman2192
    @shadowman2192 Рік тому +3

    When I was in high school I used to protect the smaller kids from bullies.
    I didn’t need a nobel prize for it.

  • @samlsmithmusic
    @samlsmithmusic 7 років тому +11

    There are few things more wonderful than watching this video then immediately listening to Howard Stern's response. Kathie Lee is really one of the most revolting human beings on TV.

  • @thefonzkiss
    @thefonzkiss 4 роки тому +12

    “Miracles can happen”, because it’s a miracle someone wants to be his fake friend? How insulting.

    • @GodBlessGodBless1227
      @GodBlessGodBless1227 2 роки тому +1

      Zach isn’t faking it though. He legit wanted to befriend him. His mom, however, is nuts and so are the interviewers.

  • @t0asterbra1n
    @t0asterbra1n 4 роки тому +11

    I dont understand why they were laughing when he said the song was sad

    • @annettevillain4352
      @annettevillain4352 4 роки тому +10

      Because they are unaware of how horrible they are as human beings. They are the autistic ones when it comes to having an understanding of what it is like to hurt that boy's psyche.

  • @kennymurry3362
    @kennymurry3362 9 років тому +20

    I'm more than positive that Kathie Lee had good intentions but the song itself just sounds of hurtful..."Imagine if you never had a friend..You're all alone". If I were that kid I would have ran off the set. God bless his soul.

  • @g-8732
    @g-8732 10 років тому +7

    So it's a fucking miracle for the kid to have a friend?

  • @mrsilikeeggs
    @mrsilikeeggs 8 років тому +11

    Zach and especially Graham look so fucking uncomfortable. I have asperger's and if someone wanted to put me and some other person on tv for befriending me and sing a shitty song to us I'd fucking run away.

  • @markowalski1
    @markowalski1 3 роки тому +4

    10:07 The way the guy walks off is hilarious, he doesn't give a fuck. Like an old man crossing the street

  • @crimpy13
    @crimpy13 7 років тому +16

    That song was awkward af.

  • @thefonzkiss
    @thefonzkiss 4 роки тому +16

    Sad and embarrassing. The mother and Kathy Lee trying to make it all about how great THEY are and treating the kid like a leper or something.

  • @mida8261
    @mida8261 3 роки тому +5

    This is like South Park but in real life.

  • @MitchBloodGreen
    @MitchBloodGreen 3 роки тому +5

    Did they ever consider Graham actually has a part in the friendship & serves a function in Zack's life aside from being a human reminder of how virtuous he is? This segment made me cringe so hard, my facial tissue damn near ripped off of my cheek bone. JFC

  • @JupiterRising97
    @JupiterRising97 8 років тому +39

    This is a depressing song dedicated to you kid, it's called "All Alone"... really?? This video feels like a sketch or something, fucking hell.

    • @craigbarton146
      @craigbarton146 8 років тому +3

      exactly

    • @Taureg
      @Taureg 8 років тому +6

      welcome to the personality of Kathy Lee

  • @whereTheDooDoo-is
    @whereTheDooDoo-is 9 років тому +61

    Solomonster brought me here

    • @HibikITMD
      @HibikITMD 9 років тому +5

      Solomonster brought me as well

    • @AmazingBDG9197
      @AmazingBDG9197 9 років тому +4

      Me too.

    • @philsatis1878
      @philsatis1878 9 років тому +4

      Me too had to find this video when I heard the story

    • @FelineDelegate
      @FelineDelegate 9 років тому +2

      Same.

    • @CarlosSarceno
      @CarlosSarceno 9 років тому +7

      No way me too. OMG. Let's all get chocolate donuts and get wasted on hawaiian punch.

  • @ednunes9517
    @ednunes9517 9 років тому +10

    Ok. He clearly does not want to be there.

  • @eltonjohn3236
    @eltonjohn3236 9 років тому +15

    They hated that song, they're all lying.

  • @JXC25
    @JXC25 4 роки тому +6

    They literally put him on blast because he made a friend.

  • @UniQueLyEviL
    @UniQueLyEviL 10 років тому +65

    ROFL THIS SONG IS FUCKING HORRIBLE

    • @djpb2
      @djpb2 10 років тому +7

      ***** when the line "imagine if hello was a word you'd never heard" was sang i was on the floor. haven't laughed like that in so long.

  • @UltraJordanGaming
    @UltraJordanGaming 11 років тому +4

    They have to understand that he is trying to be serious and join in with the conversation but when people laugh at everything he he just stays quiet. Story of my life... I never speak to people...

  • @sunlightangel87
    @sunlightangel87 4 роки тому +7

    Oof!
    This has to be a joke. Did Seth MacFarlane write this song for a rejected Family Guy scene that NBC somehow found in a trash pile? This sounds like something Peter Griffin would sing to Meg if she made a friend.
    This is one of the most awkward live segments I have ever seen.

  • @RollerBear123
    @RollerBear123 7 років тому +11

    They talk about him like he's not a person

    • @stephenreeds3632
      @stephenreeds3632 3 роки тому

      To them he isn't. He's not good at sports, popular outgoing so that's no good in US. The Jock's mother plainly thinks of her son in a very strange way. Weird.

  • @lexisevans1438
    @lexisevans1438 10 років тому +19

    that song was insensitive

  • @Sjouwelke
    @Sjouwelke 10 років тому +19

    I feel so bad for him :(
    These people really don't know anything about autistic people! Omg...

  • @JohnDoe-ro4ic
    @JohnDoe-ro4ic 9 років тому +13

    What about Gram's present

  • @jamesaustin1988
    @jamesaustin1988 3 роки тому +4

    I was one of these kids. I'm on the spectrum. I sat alone at lunch. I had only one friend. I never was picked for group projects. But what was 10x worse was when people would treat me like this, like a little kid. It was disgusting how patronizing Kathie Lee was to Graham, calling him "sweetie" and "buddy". He can understand what you're saying normally, Kathie, he is sixteen years old, not sixteen months old. These people will never know what it's like to be treated like you are stupid by your peers and not knowing why. And how they gave the other kid a gift basket just for stepping down the social hierarchy and sitting with one of the special ed losers at lunch as if he made some kind of heroic sacrifice, with nothing in it for Graham except the Cubs tickets, which he had to take the jock to anyway. These Television Bimbos only did this to make themselves look good, not for the benefit of anyone else.

  • @jorgemacias4006
    @jorgemacias4006 10 років тому +16

    That was soooo cheesy, poor kid

  • @johnfalcon3614
    @johnfalcon3614 10 років тому +37

    That song was beautiful to say the least, really it was; the last fucking nail on the coffin to humiliate the kid on live tv .

  • @pauljordan4452
    @pauljordan4452 4 місяці тому

    I am autistic and reminded of my high school buddy Daniel. He was supportive like this when I was in school.
    He moved to NYC (we're Australian), is a high school teacher and pilot.

  • @nafost
    @nafost 9 років тому +17

    This is too painful to watch.

  • @moisesvega2122
    @moisesvega2122 11 років тому +4

    My older brother has Aspergers. This video reminds me of the many times he was openly ridiculed during our days in high school. Nothing made me more upset than to be told by other people to "instruct" him to avoid them. He lives across an entire country way from me & I just felt the need to express my undying love for the guy who was always there for me in whatever way he could be.

  • @oceanchicns
    @oceanchicns Рік тому +3

    I'm here because of Howard Stern! "It was a little too sad" ...haha dead.

  • @MellasPage
    @MellasPage 4 роки тому +8

    Ugh so...I'm a session singer, and I just ask that we please not judge this poor singer or the co-writer. Whoever has money calls the shots, so these poor people were at the mercy of Kathy Lee, I promise you. You can have the best voice in the world but it won't fix a bad song. My thoughts are with those two who had to cobble this song together (and especially the kids, for obvious reasons).

  • @MichaelBCharlotte
    @MichaelBCharlotte 3 роки тому +4

    9:25: "Zack, you enjoyed it?"
    Zack: Oh it was a great song, for sure.
    Lie of the century.

    • @ileachoffeverything6535
      @ileachoffeverything6535 3 роки тому +2

      LMAO

    • @KyuNoom
      @KyuNoom 3 роки тому +2

      You could tell he felt SO bad for Graham.

    • @MichaelBCharlotte
      @MichaelBCharlotte 3 роки тому +1

      @@KyuNoom exactly. Zack is a genuinely kind and good person who didn't do this for self-aggrandizement. He knew the Kathie Lee Gifford show segment was bullshit but was trying to be polite in the moment.