I discovered I was on the spectrum at 38, completely dropped the masks. My suffering pushed me to try meditation. Wim hoff taught me to overcome anxiety, Dr Joe Dispenza taught me to overcome depression. Now at 40 I live freely as myself. Empath, sensitive to taste, touch, light, smell, sound, vibrations. We are mirrors. It's much easier now.
Beautiful! 🦋 I love Wim and Dispenza too! Cold showers have been a game changer! 😇 I’m super curious… what are some of the deepest ways you tap in empathically? Also, how did you discover you’re apart of the spectrum? lol we’re all apart of The Spectrum of Totality 🌈
@@timothyammons9011it's all energy, open your heart and you will feel everything. Let go of fear, each fear one at a time... Things will start to calm down
@@Rob_TheOne Was there one specific thing/method from Wim Hoff which helped relieve/overcome anxiety? Do you still experience anxiety nowadays or got rid of fear completely? Im asking cuz im struggling with bad anxiety atm, not sure how to proceed. Thanks.
I as an autistic, asperger never had a calm mind, up until my awakening at around age 40 and started doing like others here qigong, wimhof, yoga, changing my diet and now I am able to meditate, but as an awakened I am now aware my sensory issues which is human interactions, human emotions, as the current unawakend human is anxious, unbalanced and very dependend on socializing, they lack of selflove, a heartcentered good feeling that is in me now so I dont really need to interact much with humans as I am fine, I am superhappy with my cats and in nature.....I am very sensitive to human energy, most human are very frustrated, animals so as me , we are in a neutral state, animals more than me, so they are wonderful and relaxing, I never feel relaxed with a human as they are a mess..😊
I am at 35 minutes and I had to stop the video and sob in shock at what she says. "Both are neglect. You are either neglecting your children or you are not neglecting them, but you are neglecting yourself" in your overfunctioning on their behalf. An entire foundational pattern just crumbled here, and I am awestruck. Bless you both.
This was so inspiring for two reasons: first, Pernille's background as someone on the Autism spectrum, and her early interest in meditation and Buddhism , but also, the catalyst to her awakening was her cancer diagnosis and how realizing that 80% of cancer patients will die, but 100% of us are definitely going to die, switched the lightbulb on, and not only did she awaken, but had a spontaneous remission of her cancer. My husband died at age 41, and my son died at age 37, both from cancer. I have realized that the way we talk about cancer, the vocabulary we use to discuss cancer, "fight," "battle," and the "war" on cancer; and the "treatments" for cancer are only three-poison, cut, and burn-forms of "attack" that only work against the patient, weaken the patient, and often make the cancer stronger. What you resist, persists and grows stronger, what you cast in darkness only serves to make it stronger and more powerful. So the language we use to form our thoughts is powerful. Many people have had remissions by loving their cancer, loving the cells in their bodies, changing their thoughts, "surrendering" to the situation rather than "battling" or "fighting" their cells, their bodies. There is a huge tome published by the Institute of Noetic Sciences in 1993, titled "Spontaneous Remission," filled with reports of people who had spontaneous remissions of many types of cancer. I don't recall that any of the people who had remissions "fought" or "battled" their cancer, but had some sort of change of mindset. Also, they did not let the medical industry dictate their treatment, but took charge of their own healing. Often the placebo effect played a part (an undervalued or downplayed protocol), but more often than not, it was a change of mind, an insight much like, Pernille had. For some, a diagnosis of cancer redirects them to a spiritual path and an awakening at some level. Angelo, you continue to amaze us with the wonderful and varied awakening stories you bring to your audience!. With a few exceptions, most of them have been through Buddhism, and the Zen path, etc. There are awakening stories from other paths that would be nice to see as well, Marshall Davis, who has a UA-cam channel on Christian non-duality, is one, for example. But, Caverly Morgan, also from the Budddhist tradition, started a meditation program in the Portland public schools, and just published a book, would be great person to interview.
I'm literally German AND autistic so I really don't know how to small talk :/ I also just learned recently that small talk is not about exchange of information, but just about making sounds to create a certain atmosphere or connection. I used to always wonder what people were trying to do with this information they were trying to get out of me like what my major is etc. But they weren't trying to do anything with it necessarily, just wanting to make sounds with me and vibe together
Great interview! When she said “ or you are not not neclecting them.. then you are neclecting yourself I started to cry so deeply out of the blue.. I realized that that’s what i have been doing.. for so long.. I am 63 years old.. and got this this huge insight❤️
I'll be 38 in a few weeks, and about a year ago I realized that I am clearly autistic but have never been diagnosed as it. I almost was diagnosed at the age of four by a doctor, but my parents presumably listened to other doctors who disagreed. I've always known that my mind works very differently from the norm, and it's been a perpetual source of frustration for me. It's very helpful to know that my mind is what it is, and that there isn't anything intrinsically wrong with it. I have some intellectual gifts and I have some challenges. I can be brilliant at things that most people aren't good at or interested in, and I can be utterly doltish at many things that most people seem to grasp easily.
Bless you, brother. As far as I know, I’m not autistic, but I can certainly be doltish in a variety of ways. Apparently it’s a human condition, not only an autistic one! 🤨😬😂 Best to you…
Wow. Appreciate you guys making this video so much. Also 38 and undiagnosed autistic finding out later in life. It’s amazing to me how many of us here are experiencing this.
Still debating whether or not to get formally evaluated myself. I practically never tell people I'm autistic, but everything tracks. Great conversation
Excellent interview. I wish to comment on the part where Ms. Damore said she heard something crash in the kitchen but upon entering saw nothing amiss. It was only when she felt the dirt on the kitchen table that she saw the broken flowerpot. Years ago, when I was about 14, I had a similar experience. I was playing a ‘hide and seek’ game with a girl a little younger than I who spoke no English. In the game, she hid a ball about 6 or 8 inches in diameter in a barn. After hiding it she waved me into the barn where I proceeded to look for it. Although a large barn it wasn’t difficult to search all the places where she could have hidden the ball but even so I could not find it. In frustration the girl began to gesticulate with her arms and hands, pointing repeatedly to the wall on my left. I looked to my left but saw only a wall with a sliding door at its top and stairs leading up to it. Just then, in the center of the wall squished between two rails, a circle appeared. The circle was then filled with a formless black, grey, and white. Then this filling immediately turned blue and 'became' the ball where the girl had hidden it from me in plain sight. It was quite something to watch my brain ‘create’ the ball out of nothing in less time than it takes to blink an eye. Because of this experience I've come to think that this is how the brain creates the world that we see around us all the time. There's nothing, then things just pop out. (I also wonder at times if there isn't something in my immediate surroundings that is definitely 'here' but which I can't see.)
Half hour in… Oh, I love this! Love the story of her waking up the morning after her insight about death. Love her matter of fact descriptions of being autistic. Smelling people as she ran, tasting colors. The confusing inauthenticity of small talk. Etc. After a lifetime without much contact with autism, I now live with a nephew who has Asperger’s, and my job is working with young men with severe autism. I am learning so much from her - and you, as always. Thank you both… 🙏💥💜
Such an amazing woman. What a great recommendation/embodiment of the beauty and power of not being “normal.” And what a clear reminder/statement that any time we point the finger at another, we are actually pointing at ourselves. That one landed here like a spiritual left hook! 🤬🤨😆😂 Great interview. No small talk on THIS channel, by God! 🙏💥👍
such a wonderful conversation between two wonderful people. Thank you so much for sharing. I guess I have autistic tendencies, because I never liked chit chats or small talk and didn’t get what it was about. I liked climbing trees all alone and discovering nature around the place my family and me was living then in southern Iraq. I brought animals home that needed help and I was so very happy when my teacher gave me one of his goat’s kids as a present. Pernille was like a deer running in the woods enjoying life and her super power gave her security ❤️ 🙏❤️
All boundaries, distances fell away...dissolution of me...liquidity of everything. Lasted a few years, at some point, experience of a "person" or "being" became sensed again. Seeing everything as undefined, needing no definition or fixing. Understand when she says "no attachment to living or not living"...
Thank you for another beautiful sharing. Pernille is absolutely brilliant and lovely. So much gratitude to both of you and to all the sweet souls who view, comment and participate on this wonderful channel.
Woah awesome I realised that I am likely autistic a couple of years ago although not been diagnosed (waiting period is 18 months in UK apparently) It has completely changed the way I see myself and deepened compassion
Absolutely fascinating, clarifying, enriching conversation. So many things I could say in response, but too much, no need.... Other than thank you, both🙏🙏🙏 I feel so unbelievably fortunate to have this access to such amazing, useful content... my eyes are tearing up with that upwelling of gratitude and sense of such amazing good fortune. This channel is a highly precious Dharma jewel ✨💎
OMG, I loved this conversation so much. I'll be watching this interview again, for sure. I want to hear each point again and really dive into it. Thank you both so much!
Angelo, thank you for finding so many incredible people to interview and being such a brilliant interviewer. I really resonate to and respect Pernilla. So appreciate learning about her. I started trying working with the Fetters off and on for awhile but seeing so much more in Pernilla's way gratitude explaining them. Looking forward to working with her on the Fetters. Big hug and gratitude 🤗 🙏 ❤
loved this talk with her! i relate to her a lot with how she talks (i'm 22 and i think i have/had ASD) and with how she explains stuff; it's very logical and clear mixed with expression; i love it!
To stand and talk about absolutely nothing! The need to talk and fill the void is a neurotypical issue for sure. She is ironically behaving more in line with the moment being her natural self not needing to add anything. I'm going to send this to my step daughter who is autistic.
50:20 🙏 Yes, that resonates so deeply. Just recognizing the innocence through which any emotion arises brings that opportunity for it to be embraced and dissolve into a sincere love. Thank you both these talks on emotions are incredibly down to earth and so profoundly helpful.
I came across Pernille's UA-cam channel a couple of weeks or so ago and I FEEL the transmission. Wow and both of you together!! WHAMMMMO!! Thank you so much :)
What an amazing lady……fantastic exciting extraordinary conversation…..love it…..thank you Pernille for the amazing work you do and for your sharing……much gratitude as always to you Angelo 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🌟❤
I've never been very interested in the (very) traditional lists of the fetters, but she has such a different and seemingly useful take on them!!! (An "actionable" take, to quote Angelo.) I'm wondering who else understands them in a similar way...
Lot of it she was saying resinates very well with J. Krishnamurtis message....specially, how our momentary observation gets recoded into the brain and then solidify into desire. Motives and desires is the root of all unhappiness and suffering. A cat, on the other hand, doesn't have that...just to make a comparison. Love it! Thanks Angelo for having her for us.
There are some thoughts that are about not approving of self or others that are accompanied by sensations in the body that get labeled negative by nearly all humans. Spiritual practices are often about reframing them, which can happen with inquiry or meditative practices, among other strategies, as has happened for these two. That’s why I listen!
This is AMAZING just what I've been looking for, very confronting, direct, honest, and for me personally I have found a real lack of autistic people in nonduality that I feel I can relate to in that particular aspect. I agree with every word said, but have one question for around 56:00 she is talking about Jan in the workplace. I had a similar issue with someone being very domineering in the workplace and I'm not sure how it relates to me. 90% of the workforce, including the people higher than her in the hierarchy all had issues and were hurt by her behaviour and manner. Did we all have the same issue? Or was it really something about her that was out of line? I don't want to fall into just thinking "lots of people found her difficult, so there's nothing for me to work on" if there is in fact something that I could work on. I found she talked all over my ideas a lot of the time, and was bossy even to people who were above her in rank, never self-reflected, didn't listen to patients, just steamrolled her own ideas and feelings over everything really. I felt very hurt by it, as did the others.
Wonderful interview! Clicked on the notification cos it said autism; what a joy to find it was about the fetters! Have been reading Kevin's writing on his website: love it all 💜 Thank you Angelo 🙏❤️
Im not sure if you are familiar, but the Law of One channelings really helped me to understand what is actually happening with autistic people from a quantum level. Autistic beings are operating in higher levels of consciousness and their bodies cannot house it!
Also Aspie here, took a long time to get to the initial awakening. I relate to so much, tho my sense of smell is useless - my main sense is probably body sensation, and it gets synesthesia with sights and consciousness and it used to be extremely uncomfortable. After listening to Angelo, I realized I was having some kind of non dual experience in the sense field all along, but it felt unbearable to I became avoidant and dissociating. I then began exposing myself to a lot of discomfort until I got used to it.. but you're always.. different. Hard to make out the words when there's background noise, hard to make small talk, etc.
Thank you so so much for this beautiful interview! I resonated with so many aspects and checked out your website, so much content I am curious about and will look into deeper. Thank you for offering all of this! Wonderful work that the both of you are doing! I am very greatful!
Woah, she has a fantastic perspective. -helps to see all this awakening journey stuff in a great way, I can sense very well the clarity and clear ‘seeing’ -my heart understands. (It’s interesting how mixed up my words are here) I get it! In a new way. (So heady, jeez)
Dude, I was just wondering earlier today if Americans beat around the bush more than other countries… still considering asking on Reddit. Then boom, Angelo says about Americans making more small~talk… hehe let’s have more big talk 😊
Can you do one about how ADHD can relate to thought identification and if it can be triggered by either awakening or perhaps mitigated via trauma/shadow work?
I have been wondering how the awakening process would unfold for someone who was blind from birth. Seems to me like there would be less resistance to awakening because of our usual tendencies to be so dualisticly oriented by sight.
Angelo, is it normal to experience fear at the idea of some of the fetters dropping away and experiencing these perceptual shifts? I know there’s nothing to be afraid of but my mind says it’s afraid of the LSD-like sense experience (although the ones I’ve had have all been enjoyable). It feels like the fear is a redirection. Just fear of letting go?
You know what's cool we're in the 121st year of the thalamic calendar but anyway 222 equals order out of chaos and not like don't grasp just let it be like I know who I am and what I am and what I'm at capable of doing and I'm going to do that thing that I really want to do really badly and I can't stop thinking about it or obsessing over it and also I love you
I have asperger too, i diagnosed myself thru inward meditation age of 40s. I was amazed to find out other people do not experience the senses like i do. I watched a shunyamurti video at sat yoga he was saying autism happens when soul leaves body, what do you think?
Anyone who said that is talking shite! Wonderful that you diagnosed yourself through meditation! My brother was diagnosed in his forties after being in and out of psychiatric hospitals (and abused by staff) since he was sixteen; unfortunately they refused to acknowledge it and continued to treat him as schizophrenic.
I am confused about your terminology. What exactly is your definition of "Awaking?" As opposed to "an awakening?" And you stipulate "non-dual realization as if it is opposed to "dual realization." Perhaps you could point me to a video where you cover the basics of your "teaching?" Thanks
I would start with the playlist “Introductory series” then move onto basics of awakening. From there awakening approaches if you want to engage the process
I discovered I was on the spectrum at 38, completely dropped the masks. My suffering pushed me to try meditation. Wim hoff taught me to overcome anxiety, Dr Joe Dispenza taught me to overcome depression. Now at 40 I live freely as myself. Empath, sensitive to taste, touch, light, smell, sound, vibrations. We are mirrors. It's much easier now.
Beautiful! 🦋
I love Wim and Dispenza too! Cold showers have been a game changer! 😇
I’m super curious… what are some of the deepest ways you tap in empathically?
Also, how did you discover you’re apart of the spectrum?
lol we’re all apart of The Spectrum of Totality 🌈
@@timothyammons9011it's all energy, open your heart and you will feel everything. Let go of fear, each fear one at a time... Things will start to calm down
I like her approach at doing ‘the work’ -the emotion work.
@@Rob_TheOne Was there one specific thing/method from Wim Hoff which helped relieve/overcome anxiety? Do you still experience anxiety nowadays or got rid of fear completely? Im asking cuz im struggling with bad anxiety atm, not sure how to proceed. Thanks.
I as an autistic, asperger never had a calm mind, up until my awakening at around age 40 and started doing like others here qigong, wimhof, yoga, changing my diet and now I am able to meditate, but as an awakened I am now aware my sensory issues which is human interactions, human emotions, as the current unawakend human is anxious, unbalanced and very dependend on socializing, they lack of selflove, a heartcentered good feeling that is in me now so I dont really need to interact much with humans as I am fine, I am superhappy with my cats and in nature.....I am very sensitive to human energy, most human are very frustrated, animals so as me , we are in a neutral state, animals more than me, so they are wonderful and relaxing, I never feel relaxed with a human as they are a mess..😊
I feel ya 😊
I agree
I am at 35 minutes and I had to stop the video and sob in shock at what she says. "Both are neglect. You are either neglecting your children or you are not neglecting them, but you are neglecting yourself" in your overfunctioning on their behalf. An entire foundational pattern just crumbled here, and I am awestruck. Bless you both.
This was so inspiring for two reasons: first, Pernille's background as someone on the Autism spectrum, and her early interest in meditation and Buddhism , but also, the catalyst to her awakening was her cancer diagnosis and how realizing that 80% of cancer patients will die, but 100% of us are definitely going to die, switched the lightbulb on, and not only did she awaken, but had a spontaneous remission of her cancer. My husband died at age 41, and my son died at age 37, both from cancer. I have realized that the way we talk about cancer, the vocabulary we use to discuss cancer, "fight," "battle," and the "war" on cancer; and the "treatments" for cancer are only three-poison, cut, and burn-forms of "attack" that only work against the patient, weaken the patient, and often make the cancer stronger. What you resist, persists and grows stronger, what you cast in darkness only serves to make it stronger and more powerful. So the language we use to form our thoughts is powerful. Many people have had remissions by loving their cancer, loving the cells in their bodies, changing their thoughts, "surrendering" to the situation rather than "battling" or "fighting" their cells, their bodies. There is a huge tome published by the Institute of Noetic Sciences in 1993, titled "Spontaneous Remission," filled with reports of people who had spontaneous remissions of many types of cancer. I don't recall that any of the people who had remissions "fought" or "battled" their cancer, but had some sort of change of mindset. Also, they did not let the medical industry dictate their treatment, but took charge of their own healing. Often the placebo effect played a part (an undervalued or downplayed protocol), but more often than not, it was a change of mind, an insight much like, Pernille had. For some, a diagnosis of cancer redirects them to a spiritual path and an awakening at some level. Angelo, you continue to amaze us with the wonderful and varied awakening stories you bring to your audience!. With a few exceptions, most of them have been through Buddhism, and the Zen path, etc. There are awakening stories from other paths that would be nice to see as well, Marshall Davis, who has a UA-cam channel on Christian non-duality, is one, for example. But, Caverly Morgan, also from the Budddhist tradition, started a meditation program in the Portland public schools, and just published a book, would be great person to interview.
I'm literally German AND autistic so I really don't know how to small talk :/ I also just learned recently that small talk is not about exchange of information, but just about making sounds to create a certain atmosphere or connection. I used to always wonder what people were trying to do with this information they were trying to get out of me like what my major is etc. But they weren't trying to do anything with it necessarily, just wanting to make sounds with me and vibe together
What terrific insight. Thank you!!!
Great interview! When she said “ or you are not not neclecting them.. then you are neclecting yourself I started to cry so deeply out of the blue.. I realized that that’s what i have been doing.. for so long.. I am 63 years old.. and got this this huge insight❤️
I can totally relate! I became a hermit. Less exhausting. Clingy expectations are uncomfortable.
Agree
Ditto!
I'll be 38 in a few weeks, and about a year ago I realized that I am clearly autistic but have never been diagnosed as it. I almost was diagnosed at the age of four by a doctor, but my parents presumably listened to other doctors who disagreed. I've always known that my mind works very differently from the norm, and it's been a perpetual source of frustration for me. It's very helpful to know that my mind is what it is, and that there isn't anything intrinsically wrong with it. I have some intellectual gifts and I have some challenges. I can be brilliant at things that most people aren't good at or interested in, and I can be utterly doltish at many things that most people seem to grasp easily.
Bless you, brother.
As far as I know, I’m not autistic, but I can certainly be doltish in a variety of ways. Apparently it’s a human condition, not only an autistic one!
🤨😬😂
Best to you…
@@macparker3549 Thank you!
Wow. Appreciate you guys making this video so much. Also 38 and undiagnosed autistic finding out later in life. It’s amazing to me how many of us here are experiencing this.
Nice to hear from you :)
@@SimplyAlwaysAwake 🙏🥰
One of the many reasons I love this channel is coming across soo many different and sweet people. I'm just happy they exist. Thanks for that, Angelo.
Still debating whether or not to get formally evaluated myself. I practically never tell people I'm autistic, but everything tracks. Great conversation
Excellent interview. I wish to comment on the part where Ms. Damore said she heard something crash in the kitchen but upon entering saw nothing amiss. It was only when she felt the dirt on the kitchen table that she saw the broken flowerpot.
Years ago, when I was about 14, I had a similar experience. I was playing a ‘hide and seek’ game with a girl a little younger than I who spoke no English. In the game, she hid a ball about 6 or 8 inches in diameter in a barn. After hiding it she waved me into the barn where I proceeded to look for it. Although a large barn it wasn’t difficult to search all the places where she could have hidden the ball but even so I could not find it. In frustration the girl began to gesticulate with her arms and hands, pointing repeatedly to the wall on my left.
I looked to my left but saw only a wall with a sliding door at its top and stairs leading up to it. Just then, in the center of the wall squished between two rails, a circle appeared. The circle was then filled with a formless black, grey, and white. Then this filling immediately turned blue and 'became' the ball where the girl had hidden it from me in plain sight.
It was quite something to watch my brain ‘create’ the ball out of nothing in less time than it takes to blink an eye. Because of this experience I've come to think that this is how the brain creates the world that we see around us all the time. There's nothing, then things just pop out. (I also wonder at times if there isn't something in my immediate surroundings that is definitely 'here' but which I can't see.)
Half hour in…
Oh, I love this!
Love the story of her waking up the morning after her insight about death.
Love her matter of fact descriptions of being autistic. Smelling people as she ran, tasting colors. The confusing inauthenticity of small talk. Etc.
After a lifetime without much contact with autism, I now live with a nephew who has Asperger’s, and my job is working with young men with severe autism.
I am learning so much from her - and you, as always.
Thank you both…
🙏💥💜
You’re welcome!
Such an amazing woman.
What a great recommendation/embodiment of the beauty and power of not being “normal.”
And what a clear reminder/statement that any time we point the finger at another, we are actually pointing at ourselves.
That one landed here like a spiritual left hook!
🤬🤨😆😂
Great interview. No small talk on THIS channel, by God!
🙏💥👍
@@macparker3549 and the freedom of not having to BE normal.
My goodness, it feels like she’s telling the experience of my life. I also had a TBI and cancer which led to an awakening. So many similarities.
such a wonderful conversation between two wonderful people. Thank you so much for sharing.
I guess I have autistic tendencies, because I never liked chit chats or small talk and didn’t get what it was about. I liked climbing trees all alone and discovering nature around the place my family and me was living then in southern Iraq. I brought animals home that needed help and I was so very happy when my teacher gave me one of his goat’s kids as a present.
Pernille was like a deer running in the woods enjoying life and her super power gave her security ❤️
🙏❤️
So beautiful! Thank you for sharing:)
Maybe i'm Autistic too because this chat was a work of Art, sublimely beautiful, thank you and bless you both!
All boundaries, distances fell away...dissolution of me...liquidity of everything. Lasted a few years, at some point, experience of a "person" or "being" became sensed again. Seeing everything as undefined, needing no definition or fixing. Understand when she says "no attachment to living or not living"...
Thank you for another beautiful sharing. Pernille is absolutely brilliant and lovely. So much gratitude to both of you and to all the sweet souls who view, comment and participate on this wonderful channel.
Really loving these interviews, Angelo. 😊
Same! I get something wonderful from each one. Thank you Angelo.
I have an autistic daughter and found this to be so very helpful and inspirational.
A HUGE thank you to both of you. 🙉💫🫂
Totally agree, Casen!
🙏💥💜🫥⭕️
Woah awesome I realised that I am likely autistic a couple of years ago although not been diagnosed (waiting period is 18 months in UK apparently) It has completely changed the way I see myself and deepened compassion
Absolutely fascinating, clarifying, enriching conversation.
So many things I could say in response, but too much, no need....
Other than thank you, both🙏🙏🙏
I feel so unbelievably fortunate to have this access to such amazing, useful content... my eyes are tearing up with that upwelling of gratitude and sense of such amazing good fortune.
This channel is a highly precious Dharma jewel ✨💎
So spot onnn!! Ty for this I feel understood. She even twirls her hair like me! 🫶🏼 Beautiful segment. Much love.
OMG, I loved this conversation so much. I'll be watching this interview again, for sure. I want to hear each point again and really dive into it. Thank you both so much!
Angelo, thank you for finding so many incredible people to interview and being such a brilliant interviewer. I really resonate to and respect Pernilla. So appreciate learning about her. I started trying working with the Fetters off and on for awhile but seeing so much more in Pernilla's way gratitude explaining them. Looking forward to working with her on the Fetters. Big hug and gratitude 🤗 🙏 ❤
I've been waiting for something like this!
loved this talk with her! i relate to her a lot with how she talks (i'm 22 and i think i have/had ASD) and with how she explains stuff; it's very logical and clear mixed with expression; i love it!
To stand and talk about absolutely nothing!
The need to talk and fill the void is a neurotypical issue for sure. She is ironically behaving more in line with the moment being her natural self not needing to add anything. I'm going to send this to my step daughter who is autistic.
Thank you for including this very important perspective. I am a 57-year old, PDA autistic woman with ADHD (AuDHD).
Pernille is just wonderful! ❤️
This is a good one! I want the books....translated into English from Damish.
50:20 🙏 Yes, that resonates so deeply. Just recognizing the innocence through which any emotion arises brings that opportunity for it to be embraced and dissolve into a sincere love. Thank you both these talks on emotions are incredibly down to earth and so profoundly helpful.
"I can only ever talk about my self"
Magic talk thanks.❤🙏
I came across Pernille's UA-cam channel a couple of weeks or so ago and I FEEL the transmission. Wow and both of you together!! WHAMMMMO!! Thank you so much :)
What an amazing lady……fantastic exciting extraordinary conversation…..love it…..thank you Pernille for the amazing work you do and for your sharing……much gratitude as always to you Angelo 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🌟❤
Listening to this resonates so much, lots of inner warmth and emotions hearing this talk 🙏🏼 💚
I've never been very interested in the (very) traditional lists of the fetters, but she has such a different and seemingly useful take on them!!! (An "actionable" take, to quote Angelo.) I'm wondering who else understands them in a similar way...
I adore Pernille ❤️
Lot of it she was saying resinates very well with J. Krishnamurtis message....specially, how our momentary observation gets recoded into the brain and then solidify into desire. Motives and desires is the root of all unhappiness and suffering. A cat, on the other hand, doesn't have that...just to make a comparison.
Love it! Thanks Angelo for having her for us.
Angelo I would love to see you in an interview with someone with achizophrenia
There are some thoughts that are about not approving of self or others that are accompanied by sensations in the body that get labeled negative by nearly all humans. Spiritual practices are often about reframing them, which can happen with inquiry or meditative practices, among other strategies, as has happened for these two. That’s why I listen!
So, so, so much love for this. ❤️
This is AMAZING just what I've been looking for, very confronting, direct, honest, and for me personally I have found a real lack of autistic people in nonduality that I feel I can relate to in that particular aspect. I agree with every word said, but have one question for around 56:00 she is talking about Jan in the workplace. I had a similar issue with someone being very domineering in the workplace and I'm not sure how it relates to me. 90% of the workforce, including the people higher than her in the hierarchy all had issues and were hurt by her behaviour and manner. Did we all have the same issue? Or was it really something about her that was out of line? I don't want to fall into just thinking "lots of people found her difficult, so there's nothing for me to work on" if there is in fact something that I could work on. I found she talked all over my ideas a lot of the time, and was bossy even to people who were above her in rank, never self-reflected, didn't listen to patients, just steamrolled her own ideas and feelings over everything really. I felt very hurt by it, as did the others.
I really enjoy how genuine she is. :)
Wonderful interview! Clicked on the notification cos it said autism; what a joy to find it was about the fetters! Have been reading Kevin's writing on his website: love it all 💜 Thank you Angelo 🙏❤️
Great interview ❗️
Im not sure if you are familiar, but the Law of One channelings really helped me to understand what is actually happening with autistic people from a quantum level. Autistic beings are operating in higher levels of consciousness and their bodies cannot house it!
If you're interested, consider "5th density wanderers". It connected many dots for me.
this interview is great !!
😊 I find mind control to be evil and toxic instead of like useful for any purpose.
Much Love to you both! Thank you 🙏🏻
Thank you both for sharing this inspiring interview! ❤
Fantastic interview. Thank you to both of you.
She’s wonderful!
Such an amazing interview! Love you both!
What an amazing and lovely conversation this was. So much goosebumps, I would say a lot of transmission! Thank you both ❤️🙏🏼✨
I relate to her very much
Also Aspie here, took a long time to get to the initial awakening. I relate to so much, tho my sense of smell is useless - my main sense is probably body sensation, and it gets synesthesia with sights and consciousness and it used to be extremely uncomfortable. After listening to Angelo, I realized I was having some kind of non dual experience in the sense field all along, but it felt unbearable to I became avoidant and dissociating. I then began exposing myself to a lot of discomfort until I got used to it.. but you're always.. different. Hard to make out the words when there's background noise, hard to make small talk, etc.
Thank you so so much for this beautiful interview! I resonated with so many aspects and checked out your website, so much content I am curious about and will look into deeper. Thank you for offering all of this! Wonderful work that the both of you are doing! I am very greatful!
you're very welcome
Much love to you both 🙏
Oh….my….goodness.
Just finished and am Listening again.
What a lovely , beautiful, helpful message and interview.
Woah, she has a fantastic perspective. -helps to see all this awakening journey stuff in a great way, I can sense very well the clarity and clear ‘seeing’ -my heart understands. (It’s interesting how mixed up my words are here) I get it! In a new way. (So heady, jeez)
Dude, I was just wondering earlier today if Americans beat around the bush more than other countries… still considering asking on Reddit.
Then boom, Angelo says about Americans making more small~talk…
hehe let’s have more big talk 😊
Brilliant interview, thank you ❤❤
Brilliant to find this.
This is a fascinating interview given this context.
alive, vibrant, helpful, clear..wowzaa, thanks for this interview, and all the links, j
Wow! So Clear
Can you do one about how ADHD can relate to thought identification and if it can be triggered by either awakening or perhaps mitigated via trauma/shadow work?
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I have been wondering how the awakening process would unfold for someone who was blind from birth. Seems to me like there would be less resistance to awakening because of our usual tendencies to be so dualisticly oriented by sight.
Great question would love to hear from someone with experience along these lines
@@stringvest8448 yes, check out Howard Stern interviewing Metallica about that song, it's quite moving.
This is absolutely great..
Angelo, is it normal to experience fear at the idea of some of the fetters dropping away and experiencing these perceptual shifts? I know there’s nothing to be afraid of but my mind says it’s afraid of the LSD-like sense experience (although the ones I’ve had have all been enjoyable). It feels like the fear is a redirection. Just fear of letting go?
Wonderful interview!!
You know what's cool we're in the 121st year of the thalamic calendar but anyway 222 equals order out of chaos and not like don't grasp just let it be like I know who I am and what I am and what I'm at capable of doing and I'm going to do that thing that I really want to do really badly and I can't stop thinking about it or obsessing over it and also I love you
FINALLY
I have asperger too, i diagnosed myself thru inward meditation age of 40s. I was amazed to find out other people do not experience the senses like i do. I watched a shunyamurti video at sat yoga he was saying autism happens when soul leaves body, what do you think?
Not sure what he means by that :)
Anyone who said that is talking shite! Wonderful that you diagnosed yourself through meditation! My brother was diagnosed in his forties after being in and out of psychiatric hospitals (and abused by staff) since he was sixteen; unfortunately they refused to acknowledge it and continued to treat him as schizophrenic.
Can you do one with someone with ADD?
Sure
Yes. Please 🙏🏼 ❤
Loving this one!
Can someone link her UA-cam? The link is not working
27:00 awakening
post-it on the post-it
Beautiful.
I am confused about your terminology. What exactly is your definition of "Awaking?" As opposed to "an awakening?" And you stipulate "non-dual realization as if it is opposed to "dual realization." Perhaps you could point me to a video where you cover the basics of your "teaching?" Thanks
I would start with the playlist “Introductory series” then move onto basics of awakening. From there awakening approaches if you want to engage the process
No sound?
Sound working fine here!