LONELY Christmas Vlog: My EXPERIENCE with the Dark Night of the Soul and How I OVERCAME It ✨️

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  • @jacrowe3477
    @jacrowe3477 Рік тому +7

    Thank you Toby for putting this out, I'm quite thankful for being alone this christmas, i'm going to embrace it. None of it feels the same anymore, i'm no longer prepared to go along to get along.we accept you as you are, you're authentic and come from the heart, great attributes!! Enjoy🥰

    • @Truthbewithyou
      @Truthbewithyou  Рік тому +3

      Thank you brother 😊 Always so lovely when that first comment comes in.. especially when it's a great one like this 😁🙏🏼 I love that take on it too, no longer prepared to go along just to get along, perfect 🙌🏼
      Enjoy mate, much love 💙

  • @yancyhebert9937
    @yancyhebert9937 Рік тому +5

    Yes I'm alone but not lonely. Great message. My six string acoustic guitar and I are fabulously fantastic. Happy holidays my young chap. Being not around toxic people is a holiday I don't have to recover from today. Being with my true self is becoming a great adventure may the universe bless you as much as your Being can enjoy. Toddler joy I enjoy

    • @Truthbewithyou
      @Truthbewithyou  Рік тому

      This is so lovely, thank you my brother 🙏🏼💙 I love guitars 🎸 ❤️

    • @yancyhebert9937
      @yancyhebert9937 Рік тому

      @@Truthbewithyou not any gee tar
      1988 BC Rich Mockingbird STG
      The best of the best 80's Def Leppard and Black Sabbath and stuff. Happy Christmas young chap

    • @barryoneill-ec9zz
      @barryoneill-ec9zz Рік тому +1

      And I also have my guitar and playing chess again, I’m in the uk in a damp house in Cambridge, heading back to Spain on Saturday,
      I cut ties with my whole family, except one sister, I’m completely alone and think it’s for the best, I want to spend the evening of my life Working on being closer with the creator.
      I won’t waste any more time on useless ignorant people,
      This past 4 years have opened my eyes to how this world really works,
      I beleive there is a God.
      Your not alone Toby,
      Looking forward to hearing more from you in the new year.

  • @jasonn7192
    @jasonn7192 Рік тому +5

    Thankyou Toby. Well done on over 1k subscribers 👏👏👏 I am by myself this Christmas (although we are never really alone🙏) would of turned down any invites also. Not even got the TV on here. Watch a lot of podcasts though. Seasons Greetings to everyone. Namaste 🙏🙏🙏🌠

    • @Truthbewithyou
      @Truthbewithyou  Рік тому +2

      Haha, exactly how I am spending mine, I'm currently under a blanket reading my book and eating humus, pita bread and olives 😂😂😂 have a good one mate, much love 😊🙌🏼💙

  • @BobHolyoake
    @BobHolyoake Рік тому +4

    Im on my own as usual, i dont keep company with people/ family who treat me weird because im in the 5th dimension + when they're still in the 3rd dimension... im happy going gym walks, Reversing my gray hair with coollodial copper. New look full of real Energy bless you 🙏

    • @Truthbewithyou
      @Truthbewithyou  Рік тому +1

      Thank you Bobs 😊 I must try some of this coolodial copper 😆 Might suit my grey stubble when I grow it. All the best mate, much love

    • @BobHolyoake
      @BobHolyoake Рік тому

      @@Truthbewithyou 💯🙏

  • @phoenixrising5088
    @phoenixrising5088 Рік тому +3

    Hi Toby, I dont have any family but I love having Christmas with my Greyhound, Fergus. Going out for a nature walk with him, is my Idea of chilling out with no one to answer to, or feel I need to go along with what they're doing. It's a great thing to enjoy your own company. Watching my Greyhound run is a bit like watching a Cheetah run. Great analogy by the way 😆 He's an ex racer so he's FAST. We both come home to peace perfect peace and we'll have our own Christmas meal together and chill out by the Log burner🔥and listen to music. Perfect Christmas Day. 🥂💖🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 Sending you love and light Toby and a peaceful Festive season. 💖🥰💫🌠🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

    • @tjlangley222
      @tjlangley222 Рік тому

      Awesome!

    • @Truthbewithyou
      @Truthbewithyou  Рік тому +1

      Oh this sounds like such a lovely day 🙏🏼 I'm glad you have Fergus with you, you know how much I love dogs, they are the main characters in most of my analogies 🤣🐕 🥰 I would love to be in Scotland now 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 enjoy and much love 😊🩵

    • @phoenixrising5088
      @phoenixrising5088 Рік тому

      @@Truthbewithyou Thanks Toby, we're never alone with our Dog's. They get us, more than most Humans. And they love us unconditionally. 😻 Ps. Had a walk in the rain down the River Dollar and he ran all round the field at the end of the River. I'm now having a dram. 🥃 Not a Drama 😆 thank you for enlightening us all, with your wise word's. 😘💫🌠💓🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

    • @Truthbewithyou
      @Truthbewithyou  Рік тому +1

      Sounds so nice 😍 🙏🏼 dogs love us because they dont have an ego mind guiding them to judge us ❤️
      Ps: I know what a dram is 😆. Your secret is safe with me 😂🥃🥃

    • @phoenixrising5088
      @phoenixrising5088 Рік тому +1

      @@Truthbewithyou 👍 🥃🥃💓

  • @Magicwerx
    @Magicwerx Рік тому +4

    Great Cheetah analogy Toby,but I digress lol,Merry Christmas Toby and everyone have a great one,namaste 🙏 👍

    • @Truthbewithyou
      @Truthbewithyou  Рік тому +3

      Hahaha, thank you and merry Christmas to you too 🙏🏼 Namaste 💙

  • @thefloatingapothecaryroman16
    @thefloatingapothecaryroman16 Рік тому +1

    Most people who are not awake accuse one as being selfish. They wont understand so no point trying, Ive tried. Family too sadly. Love and light to you in this yule period.

    • @Truthbewithyou
      @Truthbewithyou  Рік тому

      Absolutely 🙏🏼 Thank you and much love and light back to you 😊💫💙

  • @danielcarrick8603
    @danielcarrick8603 Рік тому +2

    The cheetah analogy was great! I'm the infidel of the family. I don't do christmas, easter, birthdays...none of it. They try to guilt me back into it in an effort to get me to comply and gain control. No more! Thank you, Toby!

    • @Truthbewithyou
      @Truthbewithyou  Рік тому +2

      Hahaha thank you, they are always ridiculous, but always seem to somehow work 😂😂
      I'm glad you have stayed true to yourself! That guilt tactic is all to common. Absolutely, stay loyal to what you know is best for you 🙏🏼much live mate 💙

  • @bennbanes6359
    @bennbanes6359 Рік тому +2

    Myself, i have never been able to keep a calendar date reality. I have never been able to adhere to birthdays or ither celebrations, even of my own. Birthdays always felt nore like a celebration with my mother, between us and no one else. Even with my beautiful partner, i have never made an "extra" effort on our anniversary. I try to celebrate her everyday if and when i can. Christmas for me, reminds me of those less fortunate than me. This year we are lucky, we are celebrating with neighbours.

    • @Truthbewithyou
      @Truthbewithyou  Рік тому +1

      This is the thing, it means many things to many people. But so many of us feel this unnecessary pressure to be a certain way 🙄
      I hope you enjoy at the neighbours brother. Much love, thank you and Namaste 🙏🏼 💙

  • @nancyP7448
    @nancyP7448 Рік тому +2

    I wish you best hopes and dreams to you Toby. Thank you for this message today. Merry Christmas!!

    • @Truthbewithyou
      @Truthbewithyou  Рік тому +1

      Thank you 🤗☺️ and you're so welcome 🙏🏼 much love and thank you for the continued support 🥰❤️

  • @kenrowland7864
    @kenrowland7864 Рік тому +1

    Got my prescious Dog with me....and she's the best companion anyone could possibly have.

    • @Truthbewithyou
      @Truthbewithyou  Рік тому +1

      They are such beatification animals, nothing but love for everything and everyone. And ever ready to drop everything and just play 😂 Beautiful things 🙏🏼🙏🏼 I'm glad you have her, much love to you both ❤️

  • @TheDucattiYvon
    @TheDucattiYvon Рік тому +1

    Loved the cheetah analogy it made me laugh 😆 i will be alone Christmas Day and I’m pleased about that I will be wrapped up with my little picnic and walking in nature 🎄❤️

    • @Truthbewithyou
      @Truthbewithyou  Рік тому

      Hahaah 🤭🤭 Thank you Yvonne 😁🥰 I'm glad you're happy!! And the picnic in nature, you know that is music to my ears. Perfect day 🙏🏼 much love to you ❤️

  • @jimnicosia5934
    @jimnicosia5934 Рік тому +1

    What bothers me is that I am seperated geographicaly from family and they don't even send me a text or call.

    • @Truthbewithyou
      @Truthbewithyou  Рік тому

      It is never an easy situation when our beliefs and expectations clash with theirs.... the letting go of expectations is what gave me a huge amount of relief when i experienced the same situation. If i thought they 'should', it would trigger my egoic mind when they 'did'nt'.
      I realised that when I let go of the 'shoulds', my ego stayed quiet, and there is where i found my peace 🙏🏼
      I wish you brother, and much love 🙌🏼💙

  • @stevebrine8866
    @stevebrine8866 Рік тому +1

    Great message Toby, Merry Christmas to you mate.

    • @Truthbewithyou
      @Truthbewithyou  Рік тому

      Thank you Steve 🙏🏼 much love and merry Christmas to you too 🩵

  • @GinaHardyYoga
    @GinaHardyYoga Рік тому

    Bless you! Just been to midnight mass. All we need is God/the Divine ❤

  • @GinaHardyYoga
    @GinaHardyYoga Рік тому

    You are so awake! Keep affirming this message. It’s key right now. ❤

  • @monicaroethlisberger2124
    @monicaroethlisberger2124 Рік тому

    Seasons greetings Toby. Loved the cheetah story, especially the way your eyes lit up when you told it. Thank you for continuing to share your message. I see you! Sending love and warm hugs.

    • @Truthbewithyou
      @Truthbewithyou  Рік тому +1

      Thank you so much, and seasons greetings to you too 😁😁 I love how popular the cheetah analogy was in this video 😂😂
      I will keep on keeping on with this message, and I really appreciate you supporting that and seeing me 🙌🏼🙌🏼 Thank you 😊
      Have a great new years and much love to u ❤️

  • @DavidKemp-xn4ln
    @DavidKemp-xn4ln Рік тому

    Merry Christmas Toby… and yeah you’re right. It’s fine to be alone if that’s what feels right. I’ve spent a few alone and I actually found it quite empowering, like I was doing what I wanted to do rather than what was expected.
    Love the going to get the water/ego analogy! 😂😂

    • @Truthbewithyou
      @Truthbewithyou  Рік тому

      Hahaha so many seemed to have liked this one 😂
      All the best mate, merry Christmas and much love 🙏🏼💙

  • @mrobinson4684
    @mrobinson4684 Рік тому

    Great video ❤

  • @blubird397
    @blubird397 Рік тому

    More love... 😊

    • @Truthbewithyou
      @Truthbewithyou  Рік тому +1

      And even more back to you Blubird 🙏🏼❤️

  • @barryoneill-ec9zz
    @barryoneill-ec9zz Рік тому

    The world is waking up, there’s going to be a lot of people joining us,

  • @malene3919
    @malene3919 Рік тому

    🙏❤️🤗

    • @Truthbewithyou
      @Truthbewithyou  Рік тому +1

      There she is 😍 I knew you'd appear 🥰 Thank you Malene 😊 ❤️

  • @nkordus
    @nkordus Рік тому

    💯

  • @sandrathraves5582
    @sandrathraves5582 Рік тому

    Made me laugh 😂