36 here. Please young men realise how young you are and it’s true life gets much better as you get older. More money, more freedoms, ppl take you more seriously and women of all ages like you. Enjoy your youth and the energy you have and don’t take things too serious.
I think a lot of people fail to realize how young 30 actually is. For most people 30 isn’t even close to half their lives. At 30 you still have so much life to live and when you get through your 20s working hard, living through your 30s and beyond will be much easier, funner, and more satisfying. I keep that in my mind all the time. I’m only 23. Cheer man, take care of yourself!
Rubbing my hands together for one of the realest youtuber of all time. Im down here in Zimbabwe. What you say applies for men everywhere. Even here in Africa. Keep it up!
Im 38. I still look like a man in his 20’s. Main reason, I never smoked, took drugs or consumed alcohol. I trained in the martial arts and generally lead an active lifestyle. What you do in your twenties will make a major impact on how you look in your thirties.
Gym=10 years of trainning Money=10 years of knowledge Social=10 years of experience That's why most men unless there athletes or celebrities peak at around age 30-50 vs. Woman who's core value is derided from there youth and beauty from natural hormones.
maybe it's my ability to not care as much about opinions. but i feel that i look better than when i was in my 20s. my face and my body. muscles just grow easy for me now compared to before. mind muscle connection takes time to really understand
@@raygengamer8440 that's normal but if you kept in shape you'll look better at ages 30-50 than 20-30 look at sean o pry David gandy Jon Kotorjareena Andres Velencoso Raju Naidu PSG Marlon texeria Nick Bateman Noah mills. I've been following high fashion for 7 years now so what do I know lol 😁
i dunno man. i hear some of us get better looking but others. although the ones who look like crap at 35 or older usually let go. with me i reached 30 last year and so many death's in family and from friends family. and with my family being over weight on average. i decided i wanna live long and happy as possible. this 1 year journey has been the best ever. if only people understood the mental gain not just the muscle gain. its the best.
@@raygengamer8440 it depends on the person but as Kris says "you have to put in the work in when you're young" I've only taken one day off in 10 years on a Sunday when I was age 21 to play farcry 3 instead of watching kickboxing matches so yea. It's hard but it's possible
Same for me at 15, literally just watched one Tommy Shelby bla and I liked kris and watched another video of his and then subscribed, if I didn’t watch that one video my life could have been fucked 😂😂
43 and in the best shape of my life, I'm currently at my highest weight ever and I have the lowest body fat percentage of my life. I crush all day everyday. What your life is at 30 and beyond is completely up to you. Honestly life is much better now, I'm so much more comfortable with who and what I am than when I was in my 20's, and like our man says I would destroy any younger version of myself. I dont expect that to stop till my late 50's.
These types of comments is why I do this. Love it man, would be great to get a bunch of video testimonials sent to my email from older guys for a compilation video - business@krissturmey.com - of course, only if you're comfortable. This goes for the guys below in this comment thread too
Great video my man. Only takes 3-6 months, maximum 1 year to MASSIVELY turn your life around. You may not be where you want but you'll be solidly on the path and you'll be well ahead of most guys. Success lies in doing the little things every day, or at least most days
This channel makes me feel so good about getting through my 20s. While I still feel anxious about getting older I feel a lot better realising that your life doesn't end when you turn 30. Definitely will keep my fitness and skin care routines going into the future to keep me looking and feeling young.
Turning 30 next week. Started going to the gym at 28 and a half, put on about 8kg of muscle (I have just a bit of belly fat that will go down in the next 2 months) and I will launch my IT startup in late June, early July this year. The sacrifices are worth it. Life is like a MMORPG...you need to get passed level 30 to REALLY enjoy it but everyone Stops at level 8. Also, please do a video of the importance of the people you surround yourself with. They define what is "normal" to you and that can either make you or break you forever. Breaking ties with losers is mandatory, no matter how hard it is.
Sounds perfect man, you've built the foundation, your best years are coming next. Yeah the topic of who you surround yourself with is essential, some people know what they should do but would rather fit in
I feel you, I know a guy who comes from a rich family so he is spoiled and he wants quality women but he is lazy in everything. Most of the times I talk to him I feel he is dragging me down and then I feel down ofcourse. That's why I try to reduce my contact with him but yeah, need to get busy again
I am turning 40 and can still pass for under 25 because over the years I never took drugs, binged on alcohol, or ate without continence. But I have maintained cleanliness standards, skin routines, and consistent workout regimens. I am better off financially than I was even 2 years ago and have upgraded my fashion sense along the way. Having said this, I am anticipating living to at least 100 and expecting my peak fitness years to be well into my 40s and 50s. My peak earning years I'd imagine would be in my 60s ad 70s, or possibly older. The point is, I look and feel 65% of my age while I attempt the achieve the intelligence and wisdom of many centuries during my lifetime. I am a man of vision and my purpose comes first. This is how I live as a Renaissance man. From the looks of it, you are on the right path for yourself as well. Keep it up!
This video makes me feel better. I remember turning 23 was depressing and with covid being around in my early 20s. I certainly hope so that my mind or late 20s, 30s and early 40s are my prime.
Personally I had a bruuutal 20s. Had to relearn how to walk and use my right hand on my own. I’m turning 30 in a couple weeks. My hand works again. Not only that I can wrist curl a 60lb dumbbell for 3 sets of 8-13 reps. That’s almost half my bw. Most I’ve done is 70lbs for 8 sets of 1-4 reps. My feet and legs are doing a lot better too. I’ve had to put insane amounts of dedication into reforging my feet into new feet. My long term goal is in 3 years at 33 to be able to wrist curl 120-150lbs in one hand and have dramatically improved my legs/feet from where they are now. As it stands I have a lot of trouble walking. I can walk quite a bit now but I use a cane 50% of the time and I probably have one of the worst limps of any young fella. It’s all good. The goal is to get beyond Olympic athlete jacked and reforge my crushed feet into new super feet. I’m also broke as a joke. But I’m on disability & no debt. So I’m in a good place. I’m starting a business atm. I have extremely low expectations the first year. And the second year. I’ve heard that the 3rd year is when business picks up. Several friends who own businesses who say it takes 3 years for a business to get going. So I’m planning to be in a really good spot come 35-36. And if worse comes to worse and my business goes nowhere after 4-5 years or so, I’ll forsake some gains and work 12-16 hours a day at Telus or something for a year or two remotely and not have a car and invest all my money in s&p500. It’s gonna be ok boys we got this.
Look at all the action starts throughout the decades. They're ALWAYS in their 30s, 40s, and 50s. Men age differently if you're not a slob, and if you are fix that. Men should absolutely look better in their 30s and 40s. More muscle, more put together, better personality, own place, own vehicle, more status at work, ect. Personally I'm more jacked and strong at 36 then I've ever been, and yes the attention from younger women is light years ahead if what it was at 25. Stay in the gym guys, seriously it matters. 35 and up is where it's at for a man.
Agreed. The guys I've always looked up to were ALWAYS between 30 to 60 y/o. The even older guys were the old sage former slayers, like Clint Eastwood ;)
Great video again bro. I hate these black pill channels that try to tell us that our peak is in our 20’s. I am not sure if you have ever seen any of those channels? Just an idea for a future video, maybe you could do a response video to some of those?
Men can get better with age, I have seen it for myself. My mate is like 39 and has like 10 girls blown up his phone all the time, sleeps with 18 yr olds all the time and I have witnessed this myself. He is tall and good looking but takes care of himself and has a purpose/youtube channel etc.. It exists and I dont think females want men to know.. One time my OWN MOTHER said to me in her own words " I think women get worse as they get older, but men look better".
Yes, I absolutely agree, I can simply just crush my of 21. Power, confidence, body, and asset are built when one gets disciple every day. Yo from Nepal bro.
Best thing happen to me in my life I like to read, rather than partying, I like small social circles I don't like to spend to much money and like to build body
I swear, I have more women between 18-25 give me the fuck me stare at the age of 43, then I ever did in my younger years. Men get so much better with age. It’s like a reverse correlation to women.
Funny thing about the Pokemon analogy is that average/weaker Pokemon with only 2 evolutions level up more quickly than the strongest Pokemon that have 3 evolutions. So even though woman reach there peak quicker than men at age 18-25 Men have a higher level cap but take longer like the strong Pokemon with 3 evolutions
I feel this way whenever I think of people who don't invest or don't even look into investing and they complain about having no money or being poor, all you had to do was invest for at least 10 years when you were young, even if you were working at mcdonalds, all u had to do was invest a portion of that paycheck, every paycheck, or a couple thousand a year.
Always an inspirational topic. Really puts things in perspective and keeps you thinking LONG-TERM. Any man who thinks like this will see the compound effect take place as life becomes easier and easier and shoots off exponentially. Then you'll look back and wonder woow I really came from that?
21 years old here. I want to thank you for making me realize I've got so much more time left than I previously thought. The habits I've developed this past year will make my life better exponentially later on. I'm already noticing small improvements now and I'm barely even getting started.
You're right. I'm 34. I was with one woman from the time I was 29-33 trying to do the wife, house, 3 kids things. Now that that ended I feel like I am playing catchup. For young men, do what he says. Work on yourself and put in the time when you're young. I still have a promising future but I will have to work much harder now than I would have if I internalized what he has been saying since I was in my early 20s
Hey Kris, I really enjoyed the video. Can you do a video about waking up energised? Many of us here are trying to live this active life and cram many hours of work into the day but are waking up tired and with no energy. If you could do a video addressing this it would be hugely appreciated! Thank you for your content
kris is right , if right now you can look at 50 cent is fit(45) and is dating 24 year old cuban girl Look at Artists like Eminem who is 48 he looks ten times attractive compared to when he was 28 it is completely different
These women who are 10's, in order to find men of equal value, it's just not possible unless the man is 30 or above. How many well built, masculine, 25 year old millionaires with a sensible head do you know?
If the average person lives to age 80 then trading in you're 20's to live an EPIC 30',40,50's is a 1:4 ratio. Or you're 20's are only 1/4 of you're prime life.
Exactly, such a good way to look at it. Plus people who work 9 to 5 and then party on weekends aren't getting much more out of life in their 20's than someone staying in, only 48 hours of enjoyment per week
I admire the fact that you are 28 and have all of this going for you. For myself I didn't start making videos till I was about 26 and taking the gym more seriously. I lived by myself for 5 years and learned alot in that time while developing some great skills along the way. I am 30 now and still don't look like my age haha, I believe men can still do a lot going into their 30s and 40s it doesn't stop for them at all, as long as they take care of themselves and make the right decisions. What I did for the 8+ years of my life has truely made a difference, even my friends say so and are astonished. Going from here, I still feel like a have a lot of potential and life to live just for the fact that I take care of myself. I also still believe financial freedom is in the cards for me, even if it takes me till I'm 50. Great video, love your content. Men need you in this day an age❤🙏
The slow gap you described happened to me and my homie in college. We were both ahead of the class and understood how to program (we were both CS majors) but I didn’t manage my time and studying as efficiently. And I am behind in courses and he graduated this year but we gonna utilize every opportunity 😤
According to actual studies, women under 25 are the most attractive according to men in general and those women in general find men in their late 20s the most attractive. 99 % of the young attractive women I see are together with men that are 2-3 years older.
Here's the thing, young and beautiful women are searching for the men closest to their age who are on their level/equal to them. These women have to look at men 28 and above to find it, as men younger than this simply have good looks and that's it
Hi Chris, I recently stumbled upon your channel. After watching a few of your videos, I can tell that you possess a deep understanding of personal development and genuinely want to help men improve their lives. I admire your dedication and knowledge in this field. I am reaching out to you today because I find myself at a crossroads in my life. I am 32 years old and have been struggling with various challenges that have hindered my personal growth and self-confidence. I am what some might call "skinny fat," and my face appears bloated. Due to my poor eating habits, I have had to have some teeth removed, which has further impacted my self-esteem. In the past, I used to be thin with a fast metabolism, but that has changed over time. I have dabbled in fitness and dieting, but I have never fully committed to making a lasting change. Additionally, I have little to no confidence when it comes to interacting with women. While I can be funny and make them laugh, I struggle with maintaining meaningful conversations. I believe my ADHD and Asperger's (autism) may contribute to my social difficulties, but I refuse to use them as excuses. Currently, I live with my parents and have wasted countless years indulging in video games, adult movies, and motivational videos without taking any real action. I attend Judo once a week, as well as math class and acting lessons, but beyond that, I feel unfulfilled and unsuccessful in my career as a security guard. I constantly find myself yearning for a job that stimulates my brain, offers variety, work-life balance, and allows me to earn a good income while providing value to others. I acknowledge that my situation is entirely self-inflicted, and I have spent far too much time focusing on what I lack rather than taking action to improve my life. I have fixated on my height, which is 5ft4, and my youthful appearance, blaming them for my lack of success. However, I now realize that I have been the problem all along. Despite feeling lost and overwhelmed, I am determined to change my circumstances. I am ready to commit to personal growth and take the necessary steps to become the best version of myself. I believe that with the right guidance and support, I can overcome these obstacles and create a more fulfilling life. I am grateful to have come across your channel, as I believe you can provide valuable insights and guidance on my journey towards self-improvement. I would greatly appreciate any advice, resources, or recommendations you can offer to help me navigate this transformative process. Thank you for taking the time to read my message. I look forward to hearing from you and learning from your expertise.
You keep saying that male advantage kicks in later but what if you are able to be a multi-millionare at age 20 and not at university because thats exactly me (been trading since age 13). But yeah I guess that when I'm 35 I'll have even more money making that time better. I also have been going to the gym 5 times a week since 15 and take care of my looks and fashion.
@@danieludoh.5732 I'm not going to tell you how I trade and I am not going to tell anyone. The most I can say is that its a type of pairs trading strategy.
Look if you're young and successful then just keep going. The here and now will be great and the male advantage will be even better. Take 1 or 2 days a week off to enjoy as you're ahead of the curve. I only promote the male advantage as most men will naturally be broke from 16 to 30
I like to this of us Males as Nasus, Our early game is horrendous, but once we stack that Q enough, we're beast if done right. (This is a Game to IRL example...)
It would also be very interesting if you learn game, channels like zay double edge and Mr locario speak so much game on women its something nice to learn so you don't end up in a position that you destroy your life. I like the idea as us guys wanting to be the minority not the majority because the value in the minority is much higher then that of the majority
I m 41, good shape (V taper, 6 packs), done some plastic rejuvenating surgeries on my face, have a good job at the government, speak 4 languages and I have to tell u: women were more attracted to me when I was 20 and chubby. When u turn 40, your 'light turns off', u dont get the looks anymore. I just cant imagine a 55 year old guy sleep ing with a 19 year old girl except for money. Age catches us all... men and women.
Fun fact my boss and he is the owner of the company is in his fifties and he look like a Greek God and a lot of women in our field of peofession want talk with him and be around him 😅😅😂😂 so don't tell me that men who did take care of them selfs don't look good
Could you make an in-depth holistic guide/video of the system your referring to at 7:54 please. Including how you manage your diet, and how you weight train please.
What do you think about the relationships with women, regarding your subject? do you think you can marry young (let's say 22) and keep the marriage for the rest of the life or it won't be likely to succeed and you'll have to wait till your Male Advantage to get women? and exclude marriage?
Marriage is a big no all together for me. I see no benefit. If you're going to do it, wait until like 35-38 the male advantage peak years, but you have to work hard to get there and make the most of it. Marry some 25-29 year old it works best. It's just so hard to succeed when you sink an early lump sum into marriage, then have someone else to take care of, not to mention the time lost, and if it doesn't work, 60% of your net worth gone
@@1STMAN lol I see plenty of people my age and younger being together with their girlfriend for years and some even have a kid or getting married. Sad to see that they dont see the same way we do
Mate, I started doing nofap there after your last video on it. I'd done it before years back but your vid made me curious to try again. Holy. I forgot how much f**king energy it gives you. But also how like primal it makes you, if that makes sense? I find myself gritting my teeth and stuff more 😂😂, don't put up with s**t. Not that I did before but more assertive if you get me? Feel like f**king Scarface over here.
Yeah man, nofap is crazy. Tomorrow I'm gonna start with a bodybuilding and crossfit workouts daily. I'm sure I'll he beast by the end of the year and also I'm looking for an extra job as I'm making 1400 a month net. If I can keep up with it, I would deal with 6 hour sleeps with my full time job, extra job and the gym 😎
as you're not 35 yet, we shall see how you develop, but based on your weight so far you seem to be up and down. On some videos, you have a chubby chin, then you seem to lean down a bit - lets see how you do. I'm 40 with a ripped physique and a great head of hear, it's callled running and it's free....
awesome content! I'd add that men in their 20's don't have to get super jacked yet, they just need to be in good shape, own a few fun toys (4WD, play guitar, always have mdma on you, etc) and rep a cool feminine style (harry styles) and you can pull a lot of girls over a masculine 40 yr old... take advantage of that window and then hit late 20's and do exactly what this guy is saying.
I just think it's a huge waste of 7 years from 18 to 25, sleeping around with low quality women. I don't know any non-famous guys under 25 who are sleeping with 10's
You make a strong point but I think you view things too simply, the percentage of people in the uk that achieve this lifestyle you paint is around 0.02%(earn £1m a year) the risk of pursuing a successful business is you ultimately fail and have nothing to show for it by the time your 40 (these people make up the majority of those that try) on top of that, no holidays, memories, relationships; because they spent all their income trying to make a business work. The reason the majority of people don't pursue that life style is because its ultimately very high risk, very high reward. People would rather balance work and pleasure continuously throughout their lives, as appose to delaying it to the age of 40 where it might never even happen anyway.
You cant fail in life unless you give up. One of your business ventures may fail, but if you never stop pursue success for 10 years or longer, you will achieve some sort of success, its almost inevitable. People dont get successful because they 1. dont try & 2. give up easily when meeting the slightest resistance or temptation.
@@Kain81023 Saying "you can't fail in life unless you give up" sounds like some motivational uplifting quote rather than a reflection of actual life experience. And achieving "some sort of success" isn't the same as the lifestyle that 1stman is promoting. If it was so obvious and easy, everyone would be in that situation.
@@musejames93 It sounds to me like you gave up on one of your life goals and ended up bitter about it. & No, success is definitely not easy. Success is a long road, full of sacrifices, hardships, loneliness & judgement. Thats exactly why most people never do anything extraordinary with their lives, but rather spend their life in the comfort zone, living and dying a simple, boring and mediocre life. Most people are not cut out for success and there's nothing wrong about that. You have the power to decide which life you want to live, but you cant have all the positives without the negatives.
@@Kain81023 I’m not sure we’re really standing at cross paths from one another, I don’t understand what your disagreement is. Your comment basically echoes what I typed originally. My original post was more a response to the belief that seems implicit in 1stmans video which is “all these guys are choosing the wrong path in life” “they should be doing this” “you’ll end up rich by 40” which is true to some extent... for the 0.2% of the population.
@@musejames93 Well, we got a little side tracked from the original topic because you hinted that i think it's easy to become successful. I dont think its easy to achieve success, where we disagree is that i believe that it's almost inevitable that you will end up successful if you never give up on your goal. Why i say "almost inevitable" is because there are no guarantees for anything, of course. But i dont think that most people really fail in their business ventures, i think thats highely unlikely if you try long enough. I rather think that most people dont really try 100% or that they give up very easily because they never learnt discipline & simply because they dont want it bad enough. Like i said, most people are not cut out for it, and theres nothing wrong with that. We all choose our own lives. Like i said before, if one of your business ventures fails, you can try again and again until you achieve your goal. Note that starting a company and making an exit is not the only way to achieve wealth. If you would for example invest your money for over 10-20 years you would in worst case scenario be much more well off than a regular Joe & and in best case scenario? who knows. But im absolutely conviced that if you would do everything in your power to become successful you would eventually achieve it to some degree. I also think that you can in fact enjoy your youth too, but maybe not to the extend that regular people do. It may not be smart to be a complete idiot in your 20s if you want to live your dream life in your 30s, 40s & beyond. The way i see it is that you may suffer a little bit right now, but the others will suffer way more later on.
36 here. Please young men realise how young you are and it’s true life gets much better as you get older. More money, more freedoms, ppl take you more seriously and women of all ages like you. Enjoy your youth and the energy you have and don’t take things too serious.
Thanks my brother! :)
“Life gets much better as you get older ” only if you work towards it.
@@tasmidrafid6955 for sure
IF you stay in shape. All the Hollywood actors are at their peak from 35 to beyond...and James Bond is never played by a man under 35...
@@joelk9182 Great point!
I’m only 25 & this channel has sparked an optimism I haven’t had in years. 💪🏿💯
This Chanell wakes us
Optimism and patience, they're superpowers for men
I used to be afraid of turning 30. You have taken away that fear from me now.
I think a lot of people fail to realize how young 30 actually is. For most people 30 isn’t even close to half their lives. At 30 you still have so much life to live and when you get through your 20s working hard, living through your 30s and beyond will be much easier, funner, and more satisfying.
I keep that in my mind all the time. I’m only 23. Cheer man, take care of yourself!
Don't replace the fear with complacent though keep the focus brother 👍🏿
@@jshd6638 success is the goal
The media tells a female narrative. 30 for men is day 1
@@1STMANseems like my life hasn't started yet
Rubbing my hands together for one of the realest youtuber of all time. Im down here in Zimbabwe. What you say applies for men everywhere. Even here in Africa. Keep it up!
For southeast asia too.
Alaska.
Watching from Gabon :D .And I totally share the ideas and vision put out in this channel.
Aye! I'm in Zimbabwe too
Botswana here
Im 38. I still look like a man in his 20’s. Main reason, I never smoked, took drugs or consumed alcohol.
I trained in the martial arts and generally lead an active lifestyle.
What you do in your twenties will make a major impact on how you look in your thirties.
Gym=10 years of trainning
Money=10 years of knowledge
Social=10 years of experience
That's why most men unless there athletes or celebrities peak at around age 30-50 vs. Woman who's core value is derided from there youth and beauty from natural hormones.
maybe it's my ability to not care as much about opinions. but i feel that i look better than when i was in my 20s. my face and my body. muscles just grow easy for me now compared to before. mind muscle connection takes time to really understand
@@raygengamer8440 that's normal but if you kept in shape you'll look better at ages 30-50 than 20-30 look at sean o pry David gandy Jon Kotorjareena Andres Velencoso Raju Naidu PSG Marlon texeria Nick Bateman Noah mills. I've been following high fashion for 7 years now so what do I know lol 😁
i dunno man. i hear some of us get better looking but others. although the ones who look like crap at 35 or older usually let go. with me i reached 30 last year and so many death's in family and from friends family. and with my family being over weight on average. i decided i wanna live long and happy as possible. this 1 year journey has been the best ever. if only people understood the mental gain not just the muscle gain. its the best.
@@raygengamer8440 it depends on the person but as Kris says "you have to put in the work in when you're young" I've only taken one day off in 10 years on a Sunday when I was age 21 to play farcry 3 instead of watching kickboxing matches so yea. It's hard but it's possible
@@rajunaidu7751 hey I almost kmow all the models u named, I been a big fashion follower too \m/
I feel so lucky to discover 1stman at the age of 18
Same for me at 15, literally just watched one Tommy Shelby bla and I liked kris and watched another video of his and then subscribed, if I didn’t watch that one video my life could have been fucked 😂😂
19 over here, But yeah...
17 😁
15 💯💪🏽
13😂
43 and in the best shape of my life, I'm currently at my highest weight ever and I have the lowest body fat percentage of my life.
I crush all day everyday. What your life is at 30 and beyond is completely up to you.
Honestly life is much better now, I'm so much more comfortable with who and what I am than when I was in my 20's, and like our man says I would destroy any younger version of myself. I dont expect that to stop till my late 50's.
At 50 I’m in better shape than in my 30’s.
respect bro 🙌🏽🙌🏽
These types of comments is why I do this. Love it man, would be great to get a bunch of video testimonials sent to my email from older guys for a compilation video - business@krissturmey.com - of course, only if you're comfortable. This goes for the guys below in this comment thread too
How are you doing with the ladies?
Great video my man. Only takes 3-6 months, maximum 1 year to MASSIVELY turn your life around. You may not be where you want but you'll be solidly on the path and you'll be well ahead of most guys.
Success lies in doing the little things every day, or at least most days
This is it Ian, you might not be a millionaire, but Jesus, doing something every day sure as hell puts you miles ahead of where you would've been
I will save this comment, it really inspired me. Thank you.
This channel makes me feel so good about getting through my 20s. While I still feel anxious about getting older I feel a lot better realising that your life doesn't end when you turn 30. Definitely will keep my fitness and skin care routines going into the future to keep me looking and feeling young.
water and the gym is what i do. ive even had a girl once say "are you really a boy? you skin is perfect.
also not smoking. drinking sometimes.
Turning 30 next week. Started going to the gym at 28 and a half, put on about 8kg of muscle (I have just a bit of belly fat that will go down in the next 2 months) and I will launch my IT startup in late June, early July this year. The sacrifices are worth it. Life is like a MMORPG...you need to get passed level 30 to REALLY enjoy it but everyone Stops at level 8. Also, please do a video of the importance of the people you surround yourself with. They define what is "normal" to you and that can either make you or break you forever. Breaking ties with losers is mandatory, no matter how hard it is.
Sounds perfect man, you've built the foundation, your best years are coming next. Yeah the topic of who you surround yourself with is essential, some people know what they should do but would rather fit in
I feel you, I know a guy who comes from a rich family so he is spoiled and he wants quality women but he is lazy in everything.
Most of the times I talk to him I feel he is dragging me down and then I feel down ofcourse. That's why I try to reduce my contact with him but yeah, need to get busy again
You’ve changed a lot of my views at life.
Nice man, makes me happy to know I'm having an impact
You have changed my mindset completely. I’m 18 and imma do everything I can to better myself for my peak
12 years of pre-season - test/try everything and take as many risks as you can
I am turning 40 and can still pass for under 25 because over the years I never took drugs, binged on alcohol, or ate without continence. But I have maintained cleanliness standards, skin routines, and consistent workout regimens. I am better off financially than I was even 2 years ago and have upgraded my fashion sense along the way. Having said this, I am anticipating living to at least 100 and expecting my peak fitness years to be well into my 40s and 50s. My peak earning years I'd imagine would be in my 60s ad 70s, or possibly older. The point is, I look and feel 65% of my age while I attempt the achieve the intelligence and wisdom of many centuries during my lifetime. I am a man of vision and my purpose comes first. This is how I live as a Renaissance man. From the looks of it, you are on the right path for yourself as well. Keep it up!
This is great man, love the mentality, top man
This video makes me feel better. I remember turning 23 was depressing and with covid being around in my early 20s. I certainly hope so that my mind or late 20s, 30s and early 40s are my prime.
Good to hear, 23 is so young. Doesn't mean you have time to waste, but you have time to mess up and still win which is why all men need patience
When you’ve learnt self improvement at 18 years old 😏. Can’t wait till I hit my Male advantage!
12 years!!!! Lets swap places please, I can't imagine where you'll be
"Don't focus on the 35 year old guy with no ambition, 'cause he's never had it." Damn.
Man.. this is golden.. you are golden man.. you giving us young man faith again...
Appreciate it man, that's very kind
Personally I had a bruuutal 20s. Had to relearn how to walk and use my right hand on my own. I’m turning 30 in a couple weeks. My hand works again. Not only that I can wrist curl a 60lb dumbbell for 3 sets of 8-13 reps. That’s almost half my bw. Most I’ve done is 70lbs for 8 sets of 1-4 reps.
My feet and legs are doing a lot better too. I’ve had to put insane amounts of dedication into reforging my feet into new feet.
My long term goal is in 3 years at 33 to be able to wrist curl 120-150lbs in one hand and have dramatically improved my legs/feet from where they are now.
As it stands I have a lot of trouble walking. I can walk quite a bit now but I use a cane 50% of the time and I probably have one of the worst limps of any young fella.
It’s all good. The goal is to get beyond Olympic athlete jacked and reforge my crushed feet into new super feet.
I’m also broke as a joke. But I’m on disability & no debt. So I’m in a good place.
I’m starting a business atm. I have extremely low expectations the first year. And the second year. I’ve heard that the 3rd year is when business picks up. Several friends who own businesses who say it takes 3 years for a business to get going.
So I’m planning to be in a really good spot come 35-36. And if worse comes to worse and my business goes nowhere after 4-5 years or so, I’ll forsake some gains and work 12-16 hours a day at Telus or something for a year or two remotely and not have a car and invest all my money in s&p500.
It’s gonna be ok boys we got this.
I am watching this video today on my 35th birthday and thank God I am on the right path.
Look at all the action starts throughout the decades. They're ALWAYS in their 30s, 40s, and 50s. Men age differently if you're not a slob, and if you are fix that. Men should absolutely look better in their 30s and 40s. More muscle, more put together, better personality, own place, own vehicle, more status at work, ect. Personally I'm more jacked and strong at 36 then I've ever been, and yes the attention from younger women is light years ahead if what it was at 25. Stay in the gym guys, seriously it matters. 35 and up is where it's at for a man.
Agreed. The guys I've always looked up to were ALWAYS between 30 to 60 y/o. The even older guys were the old sage former slayers, like Clint Eastwood ;)
If u dont know what kris is all about yet you’ve reached whats called the male advantage .. check it out buddy
Appreciate you sharing man, so many young guys need this
Great video again bro. I hate these black pill channels that try to tell us that our peak is in our 20’s. I am not sure if you have ever seen any of those channels? Just an idea for a future video, maybe you could do a response video to some of those?
100% I'll react to these videos. I hate these guys, they create more male depression than anything else, they're just twisted and disgruntled idiots
Men can get better with age, I have seen it for myself. My mate is like 39 and has like 10 girls blown up his phone all the time, sleeps with 18 yr olds all the time and I have witnessed this myself. He is tall and good looking but takes care of himself and has a purpose/youtube channel etc.. It exists and I dont think females want men to know.. One time my OWN MOTHER said to me in her own words " I think women get worse as they get older, but men look better".
I put ur video on while working out , when u mentioned whole bob thing i start working out harder and said to myself aint nobody wana be bob😭🤣
Hahaha yeah fuck Bob
Yes, I absolutely agree, I can simply just crush my of 21. Power, confidence, body, and asset are built when one gets disciple every day. Yo from Nepal bro.
Best thing happen to me in my life I like to read, rather than partying, I like small social circles I don't like to spend to much money and like to build body
im only 16 right now, but you and hamza are starting to spark some change into my life
I swear, I have more women between 18-25 give me the fuck me stare at the age of 43, then I ever did in my younger years. Men get so much better with age. It’s like a reverse correlation to women.
Turned 30 today. My fitness is off the charts. I can wrist curl half my bw. But my money game is severely lacking. I need to fix it.
This channel is gold.
Appreciate it man
This guy says soo much truth What a educated man I'm really happy for you mate Keep going on......
Thanks man, really appreciate the kind words
I'm binging this channel mate, pure gold advice.
Funny thing about the Pokemon analogy is that average/weaker Pokemon with only 2 evolutions level up more quickly than the strongest Pokemon that have 3 evolutions. So even though woman reach there peak quicker than men at age 18-25 Men have a higher level cap but take longer like the strong Pokemon with 3 evolutions
Hahaha that's actually really good, accurate too
youre not kidding man, raising a Gyrados is rough but its a monster at the end
@@Noah-rc3ip hes a Beast
Agree 💯%. I am 37 and best shape in my and all of the above.
I'm only 25. Embrace the grind and work on myself. Best to set myself up for my long term goals.
4th
Great topic, it gives young men hope, it can get dark at times tbh. Keep going!
Turning 30 this year. Felt like crap but I feel its because of the people I have been surrounded with lately. Objectively I am doing better each year
I feel this way whenever I think of people who don't invest or don't even look into investing and they complain about having no money or being poor, all you had to do was invest for at least 10 years when you were young, even if you were working at mcdonalds, all u had to do was invest a portion of that paycheck, every paycheck, or a couple thousand a year.
I always say this, doesn't matter how much you earn, it's all about how much you spend and how
people talk about investing but invest in what seriously? is there any books I can learn and are there any big risks?
Always an inspirational topic. Really puts things in perspective and keeps you thinking LONG-TERM. Any man who thinks like this will see the compound effect take place as life becomes easier and easier and shoots off exponentially. Then you'll look back and wonder woow I really came from that?
The looking back is the best part, gives you even more motivation
I must say if you get depressed was the realest problem I have ever heard.
21 years old here. I want to thank you for making me realize I've got so much more time left than I previously thought. The habits I've developed this past year will make my life better exponentially later on. I'm already noticing small improvements now and I'm barely even getting started.
You're right. I'm 34. I was with one woman from the time I was 29-33 trying to do the wife, house, 3 kids things. Now that that ended I feel like I am playing catchup. For young men, do what he says. Work on yourself and put in the time when you're young. I still have a promising future but I will have to work much harder now than I would have if I internalized what he has been saying since I was in my early 20s
Appreciate the support Chris. 34 is still so young, I just posted something on my community forum on UA-cam I think you'll like/give you optimism
@@1STMAN Thank you. I'll check it out.
Hadn’t even seen your channel until last week, now you’re top of the list.
Easy 1: charmander -> charmeleon -> charizard
Hey Kris, I really enjoyed the video. Can you do a video about waking up energised? Many of us here are trying to live this active life and cram many hours of work into the day but are waking up tired and with no energy. If you could do a video addressing this it would be hugely appreciated! Thank you for your content
Of course, I'll put something together
kris is right , if right now you can look at 50 cent is fit(45) and is dating 24 year old cuban girl
Look at Artists like Eminem who is 48 he looks ten times attractive compared to when he was 28
it is completely different
These women who are 10's, in order to find men of equal value, it's just not possible unless the man is 30 or above. How many well built, masculine, 25 year old millionaires with a sensible head do you know?
Good point bro! Long game 💯
inspirational buddy
Fun fact: nobody has finished the video yet
i have
2x speed
When i was 15 years i thought that 24 i will be done and have all things am 25 now i feel am starting 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦 ( ma bad for bad English)
Hahahaha yeah I'm 28 and feel like this year was year 1 of my journey, it's mental what the future holds for men
If the average person lives to age 80 then trading in you're 20's to live an EPIC 30',40,50's is a 1:4 ratio. Or you're 20's are only 1/4 of you're prime life.
Exactly, such a good way to look at it. Plus people who work 9 to 5 and then party on weekends aren't getting much more out of life in their 20's than someone staying in, only 48 hours of enjoyment per week
@@1STMAN yea, Happiness is just reality minus expectations anyway. For me a good day is working out, sitting in the sun and having a coffee lol 😄
I admire the fact that you are 28 and have all of this going for you. For myself I didn't start making videos till I was about 26 and taking the gym more seriously. I lived by myself for 5 years and learned alot in that time while developing some great skills along the way. I am 30 now and still don't look like my age haha, I believe men can still do a lot going into their 30s and 40s it doesn't stop for them at all, as long as they take care of themselves and make the right decisions. What I did for the 8+ years of my life has truely made a difference, even my friends say so and are astonished. Going from here, I still feel like a have a lot of potential and life to live just for the fact that I take care of myself. I also still believe financial freedom is in the cards for me, even if it takes me till I'm 50. Great video, love your content. Men need you in this day an age❤🙏
Thank you bro. Thank you
Was planning to workout and kris uploads a new video 😑
excuse 🙃
The slow gap you described happened to me and my homie in college. We were both ahead of the class and understood how to program (we were both CS majors) but I didn’t manage my time and studying as efficiently. And I am behind in courses and he graduated this year but we gonna utilize every opportunity 😤
It's hard to work hard when you're on top
Another wonderful video mate. This channel will reach great places soon. Thank you for the great content you always put out. Cheers mate
Thanks Brian that's very kind, appreciate you supporting during the early days
According to actual studies, women under 25 are the most attractive according to men in general and those women in general find men in their late 20s the most attractive. 99 % of the young attractive women I see are together with men that are 2-3 years older.
Here's the thing, young and beautiful women are searching for the men closest to their age who are on their level/equal to them. These women have to look at men 28 and above to find it, as men younger than this simply have good looks and that's it
Kris you’re fucking awesome bro. You give me so much optimism!
Fortunate to have stumbled upon this
Glad to have you here man, thanks for watching
Hi Chris,
I recently stumbled upon your channel. After watching a few of your videos, I can tell that you possess a deep understanding of personal development and genuinely want to help men improve their lives. I admire your dedication and knowledge in this field.
I am reaching out to you today because I find myself at a crossroads in my life. I am 32 years old and have been struggling with various challenges that have hindered my personal growth and self-confidence. I am what some might call "skinny fat," and my face appears bloated. Due to my poor eating habits, I have had to have some teeth removed, which has further impacted my self-esteem.
In the past, I used to be thin with a fast metabolism, but that has changed over time. I have dabbled in fitness and dieting, but I have never fully committed to making a lasting change. Additionally, I have little to no confidence when it comes to interacting with women. While I can be funny and make them laugh, I struggle with maintaining meaningful conversations. I believe my ADHD and Asperger's (autism) may contribute to my social difficulties, but I refuse to use them as excuses.
Currently, I live with my parents and have wasted countless years indulging in video games, adult movies, and motivational videos without taking any real action. I attend Judo once a week, as well as math class and acting lessons, but beyond that, I feel unfulfilled and unsuccessful in my career as a security guard. I constantly find myself yearning for a job that stimulates my brain, offers variety, work-life balance, and allows me to earn a good income while providing value to others.
I acknowledge that my situation is entirely self-inflicted, and I have spent far too much time focusing on what I lack rather than taking action to improve my life. I have fixated on my height, which is 5ft4, and my youthful appearance, blaming them for my lack of success. However, I now realize that I have been the problem all along.
Despite feeling lost and overwhelmed, I am determined to change my circumstances. I am ready to commit to personal growth and take the necessary steps to become the best version of myself. I believe that with the right guidance and support, I can overcome these obstacles and create a more fulfilling life.
I am grateful to have come across your channel, as I believe you can provide valuable insights and guidance on my journey towards self-improvement. I would greatly appreciate any advice, resources, or recommendations you can offer to help me navigate this transformative process.
Thank you for taking the time to read my message. I look forward to hearing from you and learning from your expertise.
this channel is a fucking gem
pure gold
Love the pokemon analogy
You keep saying that male advantage kicks in later but what if you are able to be a multi-millionare at age 20 and not at university because thats exactly me (been trading since age 13). But yeah I guess that when I'm 35 I'll have even more money making that time better. I also have been going to the gym 5 times a week since 15 and take care of my looks and fashion.
How Can I Contact You?
@@danieludoh.5732 I'm not going to tell you how I trade and I am not going to tell anyone. The most I can say is that its a type of pairs trading strategy.
Look if you're young and successful then just keep going. The here and now will be great and the male advantage will be even better. Take 1 or 2 days a week off to enjoy as you're ahead of the curve. I only promote the male advantage as most men will naturally be broke from 16 to 30
Most people aren't able to be that at 20 so your question is kinda pointless
Great man
As a man you can still change your life at age 35
We are all gonna be jacked silver foxes sleeping with 25 yo bimbos
Bruv the way your jawline has changed, mad.
this was deep
Im 32 and worked my ass off for my career, personal grooming and the gym. I smoke majority of guys in their 20s literally.
We have to digivolve. To MEGA!
Im new to the channel, good videos man, subscribed
Appreciate it, welcome to the community
@@1STMAN Thanks for everything man.
I like to this of us Males as Nasus,
Our early game is horrendous, but once we stack that Q enough, we're beast if done right.
(This is a Game to IRL example...)
It would also be very interesting if you learn game, channels like zay double edge and Mr locario speak so much game on women its something nice to learn so you don't end up in a position that you destroy your life. I like the idea as us guys wanting to be the minority not the majority because the value in the minority is much higher then that of the majority
The thumbnail picture guy looks kinda like a jacked Frodo
What a badass dude
Facts!
I m 41, good shape (V taper, 6 packs), done some plastic rejuvenating surgeries on my face, have a good job at the government, speak 4 languages and I have to tell u: women were more attracted to me when I was 20 and chubby. When u turn 40, your 'light turns off', u dont get the looks anymore. I just cant imagine a 55 year old guy sleep ing with a 19 year old girl except for money. Age catches us all... men and women.
Bro I guarantee you have no game and come off as awkward or don't even approach women at all.
2:39 I’m dying
Fun fact my boss and he is the owner of the company is in his fifties and he look like a Greek God and a lot of women in our field of peofession want talk with him and be around him 😅😅😂😂 so don't tell me that men who did take care of them selfs don't look good
I need to stop drinking so much.
Women can look better as they age if they look after them selves I disagree with this
yes!
Pretty sure you meant to signal with the other hand at 22:55 :P
I am litreally doing evrything u saying but i am lacking with wealth i dont wana do 9 to 5 , i wana start my buisness but i got no idea where to start
Use every penny from your 9 to 5 job to get you out. There's no other secret, that and patience is how I did it
Could you make an in-depth holistic guide/video of the system your referring to at 7:54 please.
Including how you manage your diet, and how you weight train please.
Old bald and broke 💔
Do zeck apron video
What do you think about the relationships with women, regarding your subject? do you think you can marry young (let's say 22) and keep the marriage for the rest of the life or it won't be likely to succeed and you'll have to wait till your Male Advantage to get women? and exclude marriage?
Marriage is a big no all together for me. I see no benefit. If you're going to do it, wait until like 35-38 the male advantage peak years, but you have to work hard to get there and make the most of it. Marry some 25-29 year old it works best. It's just so hard to succeed when you sink an early lump sum into marriage, then have someone else to take care of, not to mention the time lost, and if it doesn't work, 60% of your net worth gone
@@1STMAN lol I see plenty of people my age and younger being together with their girlfriend for years and some even have a kid or getting married.
Sad to see that they dont see the same way we do
Mate, I started doing nofap there after your last video on it. I'd done it before years back but your vid made me curious to try again.
Holy. I forgot how much f**king energy it gives you. But also how like primal it makes you, if that makes sense?
I find myself gritting my teeth and stuff more 😂😂, don't put up with s**t. Not that I did before but more assertive if you get me?
Feel like f**king Scarface over here.
Yeah man, nofap is crazy.
Tomorrow I'm gonna start with a bodybuilding and crossfit workouts daily.
I'm sure I'll he beast by the end of the year and also I'm looking for an extra job as I'm making 1400 a month net.
If I can keep up with it, I would deal with 6 hour sleeps with my full time job, extra job and the gym 😎
@@LPrulezhard crossfit is lame
@@KrisVic91 did you try it?
@@LPrulezhard no it's just well known it's lame. And they practice terrible form.
I know a lot of people who have one drink per night. (My mom and dad have always had happy hour and thats it) is that too much alcohol?
Quit alcohol before it quits you
Yeah I just think we don't need it at all. I barely drink unless it's a one off event like my 30th or my friends getting married
as you're not 35 yet, we shall see how you develop, but based on your weight so far you seem to be up and down. On some videos, you have a chubby chin, then you seem to lean down a bit - lets see how you do. I'm 40 with a ripped physique and a great head of hear, it's callled running and it's free....
awesome content!
I'd add that men in their 20's don't have to get super jacked yet, they just need to be in good shape, own a few fun toys (4WD, play guitar, always have mdma on you, etc) and rep a cool feminine style (harry styles) and you can pull a lot of girls over a masculine 40 yr old... take advantage of that window and then hit late 20's and do exactly what this guy is saying.
I just think it's a huge waste of 7 years from 18 to 25, sleeping around with low quality women. I don't know any non-famous guys under 25 who are sleeping with 10's
This is gross advice. I don’t want girls who do mdma.
@@TheJacali missing out
26:43
This guy gives the real deal life expense version of facts.
You make a strong point but I think you view things too simply, the percentage of people in the uk that achieve this lifestyle you paint is around 0.02%(earn £1m a year) the risk of pursuing a successful business is you ultimately fail and have nothing to show for it by the time your 40 (these people make up the majority of those that try) on top of that, no holidays, memories, relationships; because they spent all their income trying to make a business work.
The reason the majority of people don't pursue that life style is because its ultimately very high risk, very high reward. People would rather balance work and pleasure continuously throughout their lives, as appose to delaying it to the age of 40 where it might never even happen anyway.
You cant fail in life unless you give up. One of your business ventures may fail, but if you never stop pursue success for 10 years or longer, you will achieve some sort of success, its almost inevitable. People dont get successful because they 1. dont try & 2. give up easily when meeting the slightest resistance or temptation.
@@Kain81023 Saying "you can't fail in life unless you give up" sounds like some motivational uplifting quote rather than a reflection of actual life experience. And achieving "some sort of success" isn't the same as the lifestyle that 1stman is promoting. If it was so obvious and easy, everyone would be in that situation.
@@musejames93 It sounds to me like you gave up on one of your life goals and ended up bitter about it. & No, success is definitely not easy. Success is a long road, full of sacrifices, hardships, loneliness & judgement. Thats exactly why most people never do anything extraordinary with their lives, but rather spend their life in the comfort zone, living and dying a simple, boring and mediocre life.
Most people are not cut out for success and there's nothing wrong about that. You have the power to decide which life you want to live, but you cant have all the positives without the negatives.
@@Kain81023 I’m not sure we’re really standing at cross paths from one another, I don’t understand what your disagreement is. Your comment basically echoes what I typed originally.
My original post was more a response to the belief that seems implicit in 1stmans video which is “all these guys are choosing the wrong path in life” “they should be doing this” “you’ll end up rich by 40” which is true to some extent... for the 0.2% of the population.
@@musejames93 Well, we got a little side tracked from the original topic because you hinted that i think it's easy to become successful. I dont think its easy to achieve success, where we disagree is that i believe that it's almost inevitable that you will end up successful if you never give up on your goal.
Why i say "almost inevitable" is because there are no guarantees for anything, of course. But i dont think that most people really fail in their business ventures, i think thats highely unlikely if you try long enough. I rather think that most people dont really try 100% or that they give up very easily because they never learnt discipline & simply because they dont want it bad enough. Like i said, most people are not cut out for it, and theres nothing wrong with that. We all choose our own lives.
Like i said before, if one of your business ventures fails, you can try again and again until you achieve your goal. Note that starting a company and making an exit is not the only way to achieve wealth. If you would for example invest your money for over 10-20 years you would in worst case scenario be much more well off than a regular Joe & and in best case scenario? who knows. But im absolutely conviced that if you would do everything in your power to become successful you would eventually achieve it to some degree.
I also think that you can in fact enjoy your youth too, but maybe not to the extend that regular people do. It may not be smart to be a complete idiot in your 20s if you want to live your dream life in your 30s, 40s & beyond. The way i see it is that you may suffer a little bit right now, but the others will suffer way more later on.