My heart is with all of you. I went through a miscarriage and I can relate to all of you but I cannot cannot and will never be able to say I feel exactly the same way. I honor you, and respect you, and admire you for being able to live through the worst grief imaginable.
I lost my son at 4 months old. We are approaching a year since he’s passed away. Watching yall and yall expressing what yall have lost has helped me not feel alone 💙
I don't know how I stumbled on this beautiful channel. My heart goes out to all the precious babies and momma's and fathers. I am so glad you have each other to draw comfort from and not feel alone. I lost my 1 day old baby 28 years ago, there was nothing like this. I remember clearly leaving the hospital and my arms were aching, I later read that it is an actual symptom called aching arms and happens when you lose a baby. A course of tablets to take to dry up my milk, no bereavement resources and just expected to get on with life. Which I did but it was hard. I think the hardest thing for me as a mum was never hearing his name. We named him Kieran, he was our third child and we went on to have two more children. I lost the ability to enjoy my 2 subsequent pregnancies, I was always on 'high alert' for something to go wrong. I am now a new grandmother to a beautiful baby boy named Rudy and he fills my heart with such joy. Look after one another girls xxx♥♥♥
Thank you for sharing. I think more people need to hear these reflections. I'm not a loss mom and would never have any idea that these things happen after losing a child. My heart breaks for you all, thank you for being so brave and getting these important messages out there ❤
Honestly, the constant feeling that something bad could happen anytime is just horrible. I completely lost the ability to imagine a future for myself where I will be ok. I was happy without a child until I was 30 so now I am going to try to get there again because I do not see myself ever having the heart to have another baby
For awhile I would be annoyed when someone’s parent or grandparents died.. because older people are supposed to die..and babies aren’t! But after awhile I got over that and realized grief is grief no matter the situation. So well said ladies. Thank you for speaking out about your losses 💜
I'm so sorry for all of you. I've never been able to conceive and that in no way is the same pain you ladies are feeling. But what you are describing resonates with me. I use to think id have a baby as soon as I wanted one. Now I'm trying to learn what its like to live without a baby. I can see them in my heart and mind but I can't hold them. I can't make my husband a dad or my mom a grandma. I feel like the biggest failure and that all my hopes and dreams are destroyed.
My heart is with all of you. I went through a miscarriage and I can relate to all of you but I cannot cannot and will never be able to say I feel exactly the same way. I honor you, and respect you, and admire you for being able to live through the worst grief imaginable.
I lost my son at 4 months old. We are approaching a year since he’s passed away. Watching yall and yall expressing what yall have lost has helped me not feel alone 💙
I don't know how I stumbled on this beautiful channel. My heart goes out to all the precious babies and momma's and fathers. I am so glad you have each other to draw comfort from and not feel alone. I lost my 1 day old baby 28 years ago, there was nothing like this. I remember clearly leaving the hospital and my arms were aching, I later read that it is an actual symptom called aching arms and happens when you lose a baby. A course of tablets to take to dry up my milk, no bereavement resources and just expected to get on with life. Which I did but it was hard. I think the hardest thing for me as a mum was never hearing his name. We named him Kieran, he was our third child and we went on to have two more children. I lost the ability to enjoy my 2 subsequent pregnancies, I was always on 'high alert' for something to go wrong. I am now a new grandmother to a beautiful baby boy named Rudy and he fills my heart with such joy. Look after one another girls xxx♥♥♥
Thank you for sharing. I think more people need to hear these reflections. I'm not a loss mom and would never have any idea that these things happen after losing a child. My heart breaks for you all, thank you for being so brave and getting these important messages out there ❤
I lost my 2 sons and I couldn’t agree more with all these statements. I dedicate my life to my babies but I feel so lost and not able to do anything
I am sorry to u all 🥺 I wish all these babies were here, growing up to become adults..💔💔💔
Honestly, the constant feeling that something bad could happen anytime is just horrible. I completely lost the ability to imagine a future for myself where I will be ok.
I was happy without a child until I was 30 so now I am going to try to get there again because I do not see myself ever having the heart to have another baby
I lost a life partner. The hospital said it would make our bond so strong nothing could tear us apart or it would tear us apart.
For awhile I would be annoyed when someone’s parent or grandparents died.. because older people are supposed to die..and babies aren’t! But after awhile I got over that and realized grief is grief no matter the situation. So well said ladies. Thank you for speaking out about your losses 💜
I agree and feel all the same losses when I lost my two babies also and still do….sending hugs 🤗
This is very well done
At least 60y of “shoulda beens” it was a hard realization as he has a great that age. And my career and purpose.
I'm so sorry for all of you. I've never been able to conceive and that in no way is the same pain you ladies are feeling. But what you are describing resonates with me. I use to think id have a baby as soon as I wanted one. Now I'm trying to learn what its like to live without a baby. I can see them in my heart and mind but I can't hold them. I can't make my husband a dad or my mom a grandma. I feel like the biggest failure and that all my hopes and dreams are destroyed.
From someone who has lived through this - eventually you do get through to the other side, be kind to yourself, it's your journey NOT your fault
It's really hard to explain how I feel after losing my son 17 of june 2022 he almost 6months old..
So sorry for your loss sweet Mama.
Love you guys ❤️🩹
We’ll explained
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