My Boyfriend Disappeared

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  • Опубліковано 26 бер 2014
  • the coldest, most heartless way to end a relationship.
    it's literally like he vanished into thin air :/
    HELP!!! any insight, advice, or similar stories on how/why this happens would be comforting. also any positive messages and extra love today totally appreciated
    so sad.
    woah is me.
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    tweet me or find me on instagram @trishapaytas

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  • @spoookyrachel
    @spoookyrachel 7 років тому +430

    I miss single Trish in the old beach house, pre-glam squad.

    • @sweetlotusrain
      @sweetlotusrain 5 років тому +2

      Rachel MacKenzie me too :-/

    • @nikorusakura1068
      @nikorusakura1068 3 роки тому +1

      Me tooo :((((

    • @dakotajad4817
      @dakotajad4817 2 роки тому

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      @donaldkendall2645 2 роки тому

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    • @dakotajad4817
      @dakotajad4817 2 роки тому

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  • @feenauniverse
    @feenauniverse 10 років тому +220

    So I had a guy that proposed to me, had a kid with me, and was one of the most loving people I had ever been with that I loved so much.
    2 days after having our son, he vanished.
    He was at the hospital with us, witnessed the birth, stayed with me, drove me home, nothing was out of the ordinary or weird about his behavior.
    2 weeks later I was talking to my best friend on the phone about him, and heard some guy giggling in the background. I asked her who it was...they both busted out laughing and hung up.
    So yeah, it happens.

    • @laylayoung9439
      @laylayoung9439 10 років тому +2

      Ohh goshh! Same thing happened to me but only bf

    • @haileylynn1110
      @haileylynn1110 10 років тому +9

      omg you know what would do I would go to her house and start saying stuff like this: fuck you bitches and btw you bitches I hate u so much don't try to get me back again bye bitches

    • @Robustriley
      @Robustriley 10 років тому +6

      That's terrible :(

    • @scarletgarciaa
      @scarletgarciaa 10 років тому +10

      are you okay?

    • @fatimakhatun9744
      @fatimakhatun9744 10 років тому +15

      OMG NO:(((((( I hope you're okay x

  • @heather2324
    @heather2324 9 років тому +563

    Girl. THE SAME EXACT THING HAPPENED TO ME. It sounds like you're telling my story. Haha I dated a guy for a year, he was talking about marriage even, and then he vanished without warning. It wasn't until a year later that he contacted me and apologized. One day he changed his number, deleted his email, blocked me from all social media, etc. The day before, everything was completely normal, he told me how much he loved me, and so on. It is THE most confusing thing in the world. *high five* we both have the gift of attracting psychopaths.

    • @gonejja
      @gonejja 9 років тому +26

      damn, that is really weird. did you ever find out why he did that?

    • @NormalizeNotBeingaVictim
      @NormalizeNotBeingaVictim 9 років тому +14

      Similar situation with me too. Didnt date for a year but we were officially dating. 4 months in he just disappeared. Would text good morning and goodnight. And it had only been about 4 days so i wasnt worried because he was always busy but finally hear from him and he was apeshit. Talking about hes got a new girl and shes having his baby and im crazy stupid ugly and we never dated and yeah. He was a psycho. So i know how both of yall feel. Hope you were able to move on at least tho.

    • @heather2324
      @heather2324 9 років тому +28

      Nikki Narcosis He was apparently cheating on me towards the end of the relationship (which I found out from a friend several months after he disappeared). I don't think he had the balls to confront me about it so he did what was easiest-- ran away. That's the only conclusion I have been able to come to. He never said exactly why he did that.

    • @heather2324
      @heather2324 9 років тому +12

      Jessica Mills That is insane! I'm sorry you had to go through that. It definitely takes a lot longer to get over when there isn't any closure!

    • @takedrugsaaandfly
      @takedrugsaaandfly 9 років тому +5

      My ex did that to me after we've been together for 5 years. wohoo!

  • @RavenAzareathLovesHerBffs
    @RavenAzareathLovesHerBffs 9 років тому +538

    For all those saying "Oh maybe if you wouldn't spread your legs so easily" and all that other BULLSHIT stop. Nobody should be treated this way. People should love you for you regardless of what you wear or how you act around others

    • @Kazesai
      @Kazesai 9 років тому +11

      absolutely!

    • @chanteallan2983
      @chanteallan2983 9 років тому +1

      Yes

    • @lululeauh
      @lululeauh 9 років тому +1

      You are so right.

    • @rufusfluffy
      @rufusfluffy 9 років тому +1

      we need more people like you on earth

    • @liamcamey543
      @liamcamey543 9 років тому

      Fel Colette even if they way you act is like a serial killer? And the way you act around others is killing them?HMMMMMMMMMMMMM?

  • @thankunext1625
    @thankunext1625 7 років тому +162

    "I always kinda felt like he was using me but he made me so happy that i kinda looked passed it" AND HERE WE GO AGAIN WITH SEAN ://

    • @shelleyelizabeth78
      @shelleyelizabeth78 7 років тому +5

      So dead on.

    • @beautyfulldoll11
      @beautyfulldoll11 7 років тому +4

      Mikayla Eneria and again, and it's a year again. Technically not BF and gf either. Lol

    • @nil-8026
      @nil-8026 7 років тому +6

      As Alice (in wonderland) once said: "I give myself very good advice, but I very seldom follow it.."

  • @ladyslick121
    @ladyslick121 8 років тому +74

    My ex who I was with for 6 years - done exactly the same. He literally disappeared, never texted, called or answered my calls. Ever again. Without warning. All while posting pictures of normally living his life on instagram etc and having a ball without ever announcing to me he wants to breakup. He just vanished. He is the ultimate piece of shit. Hunny trust me, guys like this are the lowest type of men. But you'll only come to understand that in time. When you break up initially you'll only be able to think of the positives about them (as everyone initially does after a breakup!). But the reality is he is a cruel asshole. With a dangerous levels of cold and detached lack of empathy.

  • @mouseheadstudios
    @mouseheadstudios 7 років тому +148

    Damn, not saying Trisha isn't beautiful now, but wow she's stunning in this video. I prefer her natural lips, it gives her a more delicate look.

  • @TheTarotQueen
    @TheTarotQueen 9 років тому +73

    watching this a year after you posted this video and its amazing to see in what kind of positive place you are now!

    • @KristenGoulette1995
      @KristenGoulette1995 9 років тому

      how do you know it's the same guy?

    • @diffy7040
      @diffy7040 9 років тому +1

      Kristen Goulette in her new video she referred to this video saying it was the guy from this which is why I'm watching it XD I think it's on the channel blsd or something like that if you'd like to go back and watch it since she took it down from her own channel

    • @KristenGoulette1995
      @KristenGoulette1995 9 років тому

      what the video called??

    • @blueb3856
      @blueb3856 6 років тому +2

      Vanessa Somuayina try watching it 4 years after she posted it

  • @KYYOLO_
    @KYYOLO_ 10 років тому +239

    Maybe he was a spy and he wanted to see you for the very last time before he goes on a special mission.... Sorry I've been watching too many spy movies/books lately

  • @mustl0veshoes
    @mustl0veshoes 10 років тому +127

    You have to be realistic about relationships like this Trish, if he wanted to date you, he would. I have personally learned this the hard way and it sounds like you have too. A guy who doesn't want to be committed to you is generally just using you. He might enjoy your company, but he doesn't love you like you love him. Enjoy time with your friends and get out of the house!! You'll feel a lot better if you keep busy :)

  • @juliamorton331
    @juliamorton331 9 років тому +139

    I hope he watches this and feels horrible

    • @Anonymous.user.157
      @Anonymous.user.157 9 років тому +55

      Guys like this don't feel bad about anything they do. They care only for themselves. It's sad, but more common than not, I'm afraid.

    • @Joy-is-me
      @Joy-is-me 9 років тому +19

      Julia Morton He won't sweetie..

  • @Panthro-lo2lh
    @Panthro-lo2lh 9 років тому +133

    You were the side chick.

    • @katiehofmann89
      @katiehofmann89 9 років тому +19

      right?! he's probably married.

    • @valeriaseager9469
      @valeriaseager9469 9 років тому +1

      We'll he did have kids but still yah never know

    • @itsjohnnymc
      @itsjohnnymc 9 років тому +10

      Seeing the other videos with him, Yes I adore Trisha and respect her so much but I think she was a side chick, he was married or in a relationship or a predator.

    • @FishnetLullaby
      @FishnetLullaby 9 років тому

      @john Was this guy in her videos before??

    • @shereewatt6349
      @shereewatt6349 9 років тому

      FishnetLullaby theres a video called 'my boyfriend is ignoring me' or something like that. Hes in that 1 so im sure it will link to more with him in it if u watch that 1

  • @medusa51
    @medusa51 10 років тому +114

    Be like me hon. I am a total ice queen who's heart is guarded by machine guns on top of a tall tower with a dragon circling around it :)... don't cry :(

    • @medusa51
      @medusa51 10 років тому

      And I used to be like you :( xo

    • @kkat1994
      @kkat1994 10 років тому +1

      I use to be like that after a certain thing happened, but then I met a guy he was my best friend and turned into much more. Just need to find that best friend on matter what sex and just be happy.

    • @l0r3dy
      @l0r3dy 10 років тому +9

      You sound like Elsa

    • @medusa51
      @medusa51 10 років тому +2

      HAHAHAHA... yeah I do, don't I?

    • @glosumm
      @glosumm 10 років тому +1

      Chessqueen Heartbreak can do that unfortunately. And when the right one comes along you'll know cause he'll be the one willing to put time in to breaking down your walls. I know from experience, #ilovemyhusband

  • @ilyarry
    @ilyarry 10 років тому +77

    This happened to me. Turns out he was married..

    • @stlouisluv
      @stlouisluv 10 років тому +18

      Me too. I'm wondering if this is her case.

    • @mindy7488
      @mindy7488 10 років тому +3

      stlouisluv That's what I think

    • @scarletgarciaa
      @scarletgarciaa 10 років тому +11

      Poor thing

    • @fatimakhatun9744
      @fatimakhatun9744 10 років тому +13

      You deserve better :)

    • @scarletgarciaa
      @scarletgarciaa 10 років тому

      hope you found someone who you deserve girl power lol

  • @summervision3853
    @summervision3853 7 років тому +407

    Omg her lips were so cute

    • @shelleyelizabeth78
      @shelleyelizabeth78 7 років тому +48

      I hate the damage she has down to her lips now. She is actually naturally beautiful but bc of all the work it's kinda going south now and it's sad. I wish I were as pretty as she was b4 all the work.

    • @dizzystrawberry
      @dizzystrawberry 5 років тому +1

      SEV oh shut upppppp

    • @Rosie-zl7md
      @Rosie-zl7md 4 роки тому +2

      @@dizzystrawberry Stfu love

    • @kaitlyn8981
      @kaitlyn8981 11 місяців тому +3

      I know your comment is 6 years old but AGREED!

    • @shalinmurphy
      @shalinmurphy 4 місяці тому

      I think the lip injections she has now (2024) are too big and make her face look bigger than it is because they’re so poofy. I’ve gotten lip injections in the past and got Restylane Kysse and I feel that it looks soo much more natural than Juvederm. I think Juvederm gives that unnatural duck-lip appearance. I can’t believe how different she looks here! I used to watch her then too but she even sounds different, the way she speaks (not just the sound of her voice) and I truly feel for Trish, we have a lot of parallel things that have occurred in our lives.

  • @lexi2399
    @lexi2399 9 років тому +49

    I don't think you're overreacting or obsessed at all. You deserve answers and you're willing to do anything to get them. I've had the same thing happen to me before. I know how you feel.

  • @DaangMel
    @DaangMel 10 років тому +27

    Hey Trish! I recently just went through a breakup and I read "It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken" and this quote really helped me out: "It's hard not to rack your brain, searching for reasons why the two of you couldn't make it work, but sometimes the only real answer is the simplest one: People come together and move apart."

  • @jasonhorton
    @jasonhorton 10 років тому +40

    I heard it's called "ghosting" or something. Lame!

    • @jasonhorton
      @jasonhorton 10 років тому +5

      :)

    • @kamitaylor3274
      @kamitaylor3274 10 років тому

      Yah you guys would like super cute ❤️💋💋

    • @l7weenie273
      @l7weenie273 4 роки тому +3

      @@jasonhorton this comment aged well. five years later it's such a common term now 😁

  • @junpi8562
    @junpi8562 8 років тому +64

    She was so pretty before all the fillers. Huge eyes.

  • @Shelbizleee
    @Shelbizleee 8 років тому +25

    duuuude, being upset and outraged over this fuck boy is not crazy. You feel disrespected and that is justifiable. Stop trying to convince yourself that you are crazy. That irritates the shit out of me when you do that. I hate to see you put yourself down that way.

  • @sophiesworld8691
    @sophiesworld8691 10 років тому +75

    Sounds like he is married.

    • @sjwx90
      @sjwx90 10 років тому +29

      Wifey def found out about side chick

  • @MountCarcass
    @MountCarcass 10 років тому +69

    Just the title. "My boyfriend disappeared."
    I literally thought she was gonna say she lost him somewhere.

  • @musicmovesmyfeet
    @musicmovesmyfeet 6 років тому +18

    WOAH SHE LOOKS COMPLETELY DIFFERENT

  • @merenemo97
    @merenemo97 7 років тому +40

    This video made me sad :( Even though it was a while ago, her emotions were real, and she was young too. I feel bad for her even now :(

  • @AlwaysAmeera
    @AlwaysAmeera 10 років тому +17

    You look so pretty in this video. I don't think you did anything wrong... sounds like he was married or in a relationship or something the whole time to me... and the woman he was with finally found out about you. Seems like he was living two lives... and he met you online... The best cover up... thanks for being so honest!

  • @MISSPHOTOGENICBABY
    @MISSPHOTOGENICBABY 10 років тому +18

    You deserve so much more than that trish! Your a rose don't let him treat you like a weed love! And yeah I just lost my friends but I guess they were never really my friends anyway so it's not a loss it's a gain

  • @emytheteacher
    @emytheteacher 7 років тому +194

    wow its been only 2 years and trish looks so different

    • @miamartinez5684
      @miamartinez5684 7 років тому

      Bigger boobs 😂😂

    • @SpookySkully777
      @SpookySkully777 7 років тому +28

      +Iknouare ButwhatamI I think she looks better and younger here

    • @fazeless_sam_1327
      @fazeless_sam_1327 7 років тому +5

      lip injections

    • @lisabeee1098
      @lisabeee1098 7 років тому +40

      andrea smith her lips look sooo much better here

    • @SalGL
      @SalGL 7 років тому +8

      spooky scully 2yrs it's like a different person.

  • @hannahdempsey5593
    @hannahdempsey5593 7 років тому +294

    i like her lips better without the injections...anyone else?

  • @ashleydonanova5703
    @ashleydonanova5703 10 років тому +54

    His wife probably found all the texts and emails not saying you knew he had a wife, but................GIRL! He probably has a wife and kids, and a house. In another country or another state. Somewhere you don't know! Men are so good at playing the games.

    • @ashleydonanova5703
      @ashleydonanova5703 10 років тому

      are you a man?

    • @ashleydonanova5703
      @ashleydonanova5703 10 років тому

      God? O____O

    • @stlouisluv
      @stlouisluv 10 років тому +5

      I agree with u 100%. This has happened to me a few times (fml) and it turned out they were indeed married.

    • @scarletgarciaa
      @scarletgarciaa 10 років тому

      stlouisluv i know you told us

    • @stlouisluv
      @stlouisluv 10 років тому +1

      Scarlet Garcia Was I talking to you?

  • @vanityrae83
    @vanityrae83 10 років тому +111

    I was with my man for 4 years. I was a 19yr old exotic dancer & he was a 39yr old mortgage broker. A week after we met he invited me to Vegas & that's where our bond grew. At 1st I looked at him just like a customer. He bought me nice things, took me places I never been & showed a world &a lifestyle most girls only dream of. He convinced me to move in & after a year he proposed. We were engaged. 4 years we were together. One day he went on a out of town business trip, which wasn't uncommon. We spoke everyday, several times a day. Then suddenly he stopped calling & stopped answering my calls. I looked everywhere. Called every hotel, hospital, jail, friends, family, business associates. No one had any answers. After 2weeks of him missing, I get a knock on the door. It's a realtor telling me our home has been sold, I'm trespassing & have to leave within 24hrs. All the furniture was taken by movers that day &I left with just a suitcase of belongings. 23yrs old, heartbroken, confused, alone, naive. I went into a deep depression for a year. After that year of horrific dying heartbroken depression, I googled his name & found a phone number! I called it & got a voicemail & heard his voice & left a message, "guess who? Call me." 30 minutes later he called me back &I just asked, "Why?" He gave me some BS excuse & was totally being a Dick to me. "your sprung. Do you think I'm your soulmate? Just move on it'll be easier for you. I like blondes & blue eyed girls (complete opposite of me)" I finally got closer. He wasn't the man I loved anymore. He hurt me in ways unimaginable. Ways I never thought another person could hurt me. But I moved on. Now I'm 30yrs old & not a day goes by that he doesn't cross my mind. That I don't think "What If?" He was the only man I ever loved. But he didn't love me. I was just a young stripper to him & after the novelty wore off, he moved on. If I saw him today, I'd probably feel the same love I once had &I do want to see him. Just to show I'm not a little girl anymore. I'm a woman. Confident. Successful. Beautiful. & happy without you. I know how you feel Trisha. And I'm sorry. He will contact you in his own time. & it won't be too long either. Maybe a week, a month, or more? Goodluck & stay strong.

    • @serfcity1
      @serfcity1 10 років тому +5

      That story is really heart breaking for me. I can't say that you will find Mr. Right one day in the future, because quite frankly, who knows, right? Just try living life for yourself and if true love comes, don't be afraid to try again.

    • @Michele.Alejandraa
      @Michele.Alejandraa 10 років тому

      Wow reading that just reminded of my first grown up man. I was 8 yrs younger and it lasted on and off for nearly 10 yrs. I havent seen him in 4 years but I think of him every single day. It is insanely heartbreaking.

    • @rantwhore
      @rantwhore 10 років тому +2

      I really hope you find the man of your dreams, you're beautiful and deserve the world x

    • @csrileyesq
      @csrileyesq 10 років тому +1

      Come on

    • @TheAwsome5000
      @TheAwsome5000 10 років тому +12

      You were a stripper and you met a client and you thought that relationship was going to work.

  • @jennamitchell3745
    @jennamitchell3745 2 роки тому +11

    This breaks my heart trish. Knowing you on UA-cam now, and looking back at this. It explains why you react the way you do now. This would traumatize anyone

  • @hothorn10
    @hothorn10 9 років тому +17

    Same thing happened to my best friend. Her boyfriend just stopped talking to her. She even had plans and she texted him asking him about what they were doing and no answer. A couple of days go by and school starts (we were on thanksgiving break) and he doesn't talk to her. She asks if somethings wrong and he just kind of blows her off. She was so distraught and it hurt me to see her like that. She did nothing wrong and their relationship seemed like it was going great. She wasn't clingy at all. She acted like anyone who cared would act. He wouldn't even tell her why he just broke up with her the next day. I completely understand your confusion. People need to communicate their feelings. If they don't like you anymore they should just tell you instead of ignore you.

  • @Aphroditexx
    @Aphroditexx 10 років тому +59

    20 bucks on married.

  • @misfitforever15
    @misfitforever15 10 років тому +14

    I love that you aren't afraid to post stuff like this, everybody goes through tons of these weird complicated relationships and get hurt bad from it but nobody admits it. Society makes us feel weird or stupid in situations like this, so were stuck dealing with the pain alone and feel like were the only ones who would hurt so much over something so "stupid". Videos and stuff like this make me realize i'm not alone in feelings like this, thanks tris :)

  • @gameloverchic21
    @gameloverchic21 9 років тому +12

    I hate to see you upset 💕
    You don't deserve such heartbreak, love

  • @madibeaudry787
    @madibeaudry787 9 років тому +8

    i can't even get over this. your hair and makeup is on fleek in this video 😍😍

  • @vagas99
    @vagas99 10 років тому +45

    He made you his side piece.. a "hit it and quit it girl".. when you are having "fun" you shouldn't invest a year! you have fun for a month or two and you end it..
    With a "relationship" that is based on just "friends with benefits" you will never get any respect from the guy and he wont ever look at you as girlfriend material. If you really want a relationship from a guy.. You have to hold out on him until he commits.. if he's not willing to commit to you DON'T HAVE SEX with him! you have to respect yourself if you want a man to respect you. you need to block him from twitter delete him from your phone and delete this video and move on with your life.. go out with your girls and meet boys.. let them buy you drinks and have fun and forget this guy. you can do better.

  • @fave525
    @fave525 10 років тому +34

    Girl. You said he was using you. And you were aware of that. The guy's a piece of shit and nothing more. Please don't be sad because of him because he's not worth your tears.

  • @clickjen3337
    @clickjen3337 8 років тому +33

    It's called ghosting.

  • @tiffanyb6669
    @tiffanyb6669 9 років тому +80

    I'm not gonna rant like 99% of these comments but can I just point out how much more there is to this girl than her first impression gives off? She seems like a genuinely intelligent person. Every youtuber puts on an act for the camera sometimes but she gets very real for her subscribers and I can respect that and she's really NOT stupid. You can tell by the way she presents herself verbally. She doesn't deserve all of the hate she gets from people.

  • @Annaandmakeup
    @Annaandmakeup 10 років тому +6

    OMG Trisha :(( I am so so so sorry you're going through this. I wish I can give you the biggest huggie .. I promise this awful sad feeling will not last .. you're going to feel so much better and you're going to meet your true love of your life who WILL want to be with you and who WILL make you his gf .. who will love you for exactly who you are .. please be strong everything will be great.. love you so much MUAH

  • @GabriellaLascano
    @GabriellaLascano 10 років тому +33

    your makeup looks amazing here!!!!!!

  • @ashleymarie8375
    @ashleymarie8375 5 років тому +4

    Watching in 2019 and this still is true for you and this breaks my heart. I really hope you find someone who loves you and gives you what you deserve. I’ve been watching you since 2008ish? I feel like I legit know you.. I know it’s silly but whatever. I’m going to be 30 this year and have been through horrible relationships as well. Thank you for being so honest and putting your life so public. It makes me and I know a ton of other people feel not so alone. Love you trish!

  • @markjocobs3179
    @markjocobs3179 9 років тому +22

    when side bae thinks shes the main

  • @zapbrannigannn
    @zapbrannigannn 10 років тому +42

    He's married girl... not hearing from him on weekends etc. Married.

    • @HikariYumii
      @HikariYumii 10 років тому

      She said he's never committed and he has never married

    • @kafueru
      @kafueru 10 років тому +3

      BreezeHeart2420 But how would she know for real? I'm sure some men who are truly dedicated can hide their married lives very well.

    • @zapbrannigannn
      @zapbrannigannn 10 років тому

      Amanda Redding Indeed. Especially if she told him she loves him, he probably got scared off and realized his in over his head. Either that or his wife started suspecting things.

  • @katty81690
    @katty81690 10 років тому +23

    maybe he is married and his wife found out

  • @yasminsilwany7017
    @yasminsilwany7017 7 років тому +1

    Trisha I'm so sorry this happened to you. I know exactly what it feels like. It truly breaks my heart to see you try to talk through this and figure it out when it just makes no sense at all. Gosh I hope that a super great man finds you oneday. Your heart is so sweet and generous and you deserve to be treated the same way.

  • @sophkarps8246
    @sophkarps8246 9 років тому +12

    you look so pretty in this video trish!

  • @tak4e4
    @tak4e4 10 років тому +29

    My ex disappeared for two weeks once, turns out he was in jail though. Needless to say that didn't last long.
    Keep your chin up!

  • @RoseWoodgames
    @RoseWoodgames 10 років тому +12

    Of course you feel sad Trish! Guard you heart from guys that don't want to commit for the future. Stay strong and know that your subscribers love you!

  • @trezise81
    @trezise81 9 років тому +2

    trisha you are the most beautiful,intelligent person i know, and i know what your going through and it truly dose suck..its soo hard losing someone you truly loved and i have so much respect for how strong you are..you my inspiration so thank you (:

  • @emilyvelma3797
    @emilyvelma3797 8 років тому +6

    she's so strong bro....you can here how she wants to cry but she still uses a smile. she's so Beautiful though ♡

  • @ShaniGrimmond
    @ShaniGrimmond 10 років тому +18

    naww trish you are beautiful :(

  • @BeautyJunki101
    @BeautyJunki101 10 років тому +43

    Unfortunately it sounds like ur a "backburner girl" I was a backburner girl for YEARS! Guys would hang out with me BE with me tell me all these great things but at the end of the day i was the girl they used to take up time until they found their "one". Bc god they'd never actually "BE" with the thick big boobed girl that hung out in the bars and had all guy friends oh no...I actually had one guy LIVING WITH ME for 9 MONTHS then tell me one day wait....you thought we were in a "relationship"???? Ha! Moral of the story is I found someone who didnt use me as a backburner girl and who actually loved me for me and didn't care what other ppl or his rich parents thought of me! And 9 years later we're still together and have a son! So all I'm saying is don't let urself be that backburner Trish! You know when u r! I know its hard to turn down companionship when ur all alone but the more u turn down those types of relationships the closer u will get to the real ones!!! TRUST ME I'VE BEEN THERE!!!! ♥♥

    • @BIGGZIVKO
      @BIGGZIVKO 10 років тому

      i guess you aint wifey material then.......live with it...dont fight it....we need you.

    • @lemoniekey
      @lemoniekey 10 років тому

      And retweet something from jail?

    • @lemoniekey
      @lemoniekey 10 років тому

      And retweet something from jail?

    • @BIGGZIVKO
      @BIGGZIVKO 10 років тому

      lemoniekey
      .....HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.....you are so funny....HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.....very good....

  • @eepyeepybaby
    @eepyeepybaby 4 роки тому +4

    when this video first came out, i was absolutely heartbroken for trish.. and watching this today, 5 years later, it still hurts me :(

  • @ghoulpixels
    @ghoulpixels 9 років тому +8

    I've been through something like this before only it was really really minor. Last year I was dating a guy from Australia and he and I were really close. We talked everyday on Skype and everything and then once school started back up , I know that things will get busy but he just stopped texting me and vanished for a MONTH and one day , he just messaged me on facebook telling me that we're over and he blocked me from his page and social media as well. I never heard from him again , I wasn't that heartbroken but it still was confusing and pissed me the hell off.

    • @simplesuhostan2887
      @simplesuhostan2887 9 років тому +1

      Boys are like that unfortunately. I'm not saying all guys, but you gotta be careful what guys you choose. Some guys like to make women feel loved when really they're being used. Just be safe and cautious 😊

    • @suzieshackles
      @suzieshackles 8 років тому

      +KaliDesuCosplay He has another woman

  • @ashleighbaker26
    @ashleighbaker26 10 років тому +24

    "I'm not one of those pushy drama girls"
    *makes numerous videos about my boyfriend actually isn't my boyfriend is ignoring me*

    • @lexikrim5935
      @lexikrim5935 10 років тому +30

      you might wanna fucking not. I don't think you understand like what she's going through until you go through it to.

    • @musiCiSeVerythingG
      @musiCiSeVerythingG 9 років тому +1

      lexi krim
      she actually needs a therapist.

  • @anniecakes661
    @anniecakes661 10 років тому +23

    Read the book, He's Not That Into You. The author (a man) says that a man would rather be stampeded by a herd of elephants with flaming feet than tell a girl they just aren't that into her. He is brushing you off. He's just a typical man, A COWARD. Cry, obsess, get angry, eat, cry, obsess some more, then move on.

  • @poose101able
    @poose101able 8 років тому

    is this video taken on the same day at the call to cha/5.99 video?

  • @lindataylor3834
    @lindataylor3834 9 років тому +1

    I just stumbled across you today. I was watching makeup videos and one of yours popped up and I watched it. Then I watched this one. It was really sad and hard for me to see you in so much pain and heartbreak. No one deserves to be treated that way. It's like 4 months later so I pray that by now you are over that guy and happy again. And I hope you know there is absolutely nothing too tough for God to work out or carry you through. Be blessed!

  • @xoxokarmen20
    @xoxokarmen20 10 років тому +17

    He's most likely married. This happened to my close friend and the saddest thing was is she never even knew the whole time they were together. If he could do this to you then he most likely let lied to you about his life. If he told you he didn't want to commit to you, you should have stopped right there . Those type of guy aren't worth it. Don't put your eggs in one basket

  • @mariahannah5983
    @mariahannah5983 10 років тому +31

    this literally made me sad, and have tears in my eyes. I just really want to give you a hug right now, I just want to help you, believe me I really wish I could be in your position right now and give you a break while I figure out some answers for you... Please stay strong Trish

  • @michellelauravaleine1628
    @michellelauravaleine1628 9 років тому +1

    Trish, I freakin adore you! It's amazing to see that someone is exactly like me, all worried and just a NORMAL girl and not afraid to say it and show it. I HATE it when someone does the whole ignoring thing. Its so much better then to just say - i hate you, never talk to me again - instead of just ignore someone. It's so, so disrespectful. I think people are just too afraid of the consequences and they are jerks. You deserve 1000x better and you will get it.

  • @Crystal-lo1vf
    @Crystal-lo1vf 9 років тому +187

    You people are disgusting. She's going through a breakup and you guys are insulting her! Are you guys heartless?!?!? She doesn't deserve all this negativity!!!
    She is CRYING, and you guys still feel like insulting her during this time is necessary.
    Trisha, by now you are probably over him, but if you aren't, remember that there are so many other fishies in the sea :)
    Forget these people
    They don't understand how you feel because they have never been through a relationship like you did.
    We love you and don't ever forget that!

    • @usmcreyes40
      @usmcreyes40 9 років тому +7

      You and so many other people are so gullible.

    • @aretahokori1274
      @aretahokori1274 9 років тому +1

      Trisha, think of him as a douche he is one to leave u heart broken like that anyways ur an independent woman I know that but if u feel the need for love, u have all of us.

    • @justanotherreviewer6935
      @justanotherreviewer6935 4 роки тому

      Hey hun 😘. Just take it one day at a time. An hour at a time. A minute at a time. ✌

  • @rachelectric
    @rachelectric 10 років тому +39

    Trisha girl, you are so much better than assholes who refuse to commit and make you a priority. You deserve to be someone's #1 - not just someone who douche bags call at their own convenience. I can't even imagine what the LA dating scene must be like, but I know that there are truly good guys out there who won't treat you that way. Don't ever settle!

    • @BIGGZIVKO
      @BIGGZIVKO 10 років тому

      HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.........

  • @MissAllanPoe1988
    @MissAllanPoe1988 10 років тому +172

    I just can't take her seriously.

    • @TheLuvsya
      @TheLuvsya 10 років тому +48

      then dont watch her videos

    • @MissAllanPoe1988
      @MissAllanPoe1988 10 років тому +14

      myranda sais Sounds like a very mature answer. Good job.

    • @MarilynMurcury
      @MarilynMurcury 10 років тому +67

      MissAllanPoe1989 Even more Mature of you to comment on a video you "don't take seriously"...good job.

    • @Potterhead1099
      @Potterhead1099 10 років тому +26

      Then don't watch her

    • @MissAllanPoe1988
      @MissAllanPoe1988 10 років тому +4

      ***** You can only fuss in so many videos before people lose interest and stop feeling anything for the person anymore.

  • @belovedbeauty1479
    @belovedbeauty1479 9 років тому

    your one of he strongest women out there honestly you just poured your heart out to the world with millions of people ready to hate on you and your such an inspiration world round for all women, men, just everyone to stay strong

  • @j.louisemeeks2400
    @j.louisemeeks2400 8 років тому +1

    Trisha--You are very honest and open. A lot of people would think you have the perfect relationship! They would never ever dream that any man would "do ya wrong". Thanks for sharing...we don't all have perfect lives, not even Trisha Paytas (but your life is almost perfect!).

  • @TheFlowerchild11
    @TheFlowerchild11 10 років тому +23

    Always remember, God gives his hardest battles to his strongest soldiers. Maybe he was removed from your life for a reason you will never know... Don't carry the load of thinking you did something wrong.. Cleanse your soul by crying... Release him..

  • @dynisha19
    @dynisha19 10 років тому +8

    Im really sorry this happened to you.. nobody deserves to b hurt regardless of what level y'all were on, I hope you find someone that deserves the love that your trying to give :)

  • @BUBBADERS79
    @BUBBADERS79 9 років тому +2

    IT'S WONDERFUL HOW YOU CAN BARE YOUR SOUL AND HEART TO US. I KNOW NOT EVERYONE ON HER CAN BE ADULT ABOUT THIS BUT I APPRECIATE YOUR HONESTY AND YOUR INCREDIBLE COURAGE TO DO THIS VIDEO AND BE SO VULNERABLE. I HAVE BEEN SO HEART BROKEN FOR ALWAYS GIVING SO MUCH TO WOMEN AND CHANCES AND YET THEY STAY THE SAME AND NEVER SHOW ME THE SAME KINDA LOVE BACK. YOU'RE A WONDERFUL, AMAZING AND BEAUTIFUL WOMAN INSIDE AND OUT AND I KNOW YOU WILL FIND THE RIGHT PERSON ONE DAY MUCH

  • @rachela131
    @rachela131 8 років тому +61

    came from roger bart video

  • @keepingupwithdez
    @keepingupwithdez 10 років тому +28

    Sometimes God moves a counterfeit out of the way so you can meet you perfect match. He knows the desire's of your heart and if a real relationship is what you want he had to get rid of the counterfeit so the real thing could inter your life and heart .some one that truly treasures you is on the way. Angel Hugs to you

  • @DalilaCabrieles
    @DalilaCabrieles 10 років тому +6

    Stay strong Trisha

  • @2000FaceSmiley
    @2000FaceSmiley 8 років тому +48

    I love your sweater in this video!

    • @paige739
      @paige739 8 років тому +16

      ME TOO I was looking at her the entire time like "I need that sweater"

  • @laurinsharpe12
    @laurinsharpe12 8 років тому +40

    She used to be so pretty. She still is, but she used to look so different.

    • @jaslinglover
      @jaslinglover 8 років тому +7

      I agree, her skin looks really good here and of course, she's much thinner compared to now. She looks like she has a healthy glow.

    • @thankunext1625
      @thankunext1625 7 років тому +5

      her lips are the biggest change but whatever makes her happy

    • @shelleyelizabeth78
      @shelleyelizabeth78 7 років тому +4

      +Mikayla Eneria but sometimes it can be too much. She had pretty lips to begin with. Now they r too much and it's not flattering. But like u said its her thing she can do what she wants.

  • @itstamtamxo
    @itstamtamxo 10 років тому +52

    I mean this in the most nice and sincere way...You need a therapist.

    • @LALAROCK786CLUB
      @LALAROCK786CLUB 10 років тому

      LOOL!!

    • @renoverrin9624
      @renoverrin9624 10 років тому

      HAHA

    • @becca269
      @becca269 10 років тому +1

      That's kinda rude

    • @itstamtamxo
      @itstamtamxo 10 років тому +6

      Becca Mackey its not rude, its just some insight. Rejection sucks, and it
      is clear she needs to figure out better ways to cope from rejection.

    • @KG-kk3ef
      @KG-kk3ef 9 років тому +3

      Everyone needs therapy.

  • @langox510x
    @langox510x 10 років тому +18

    Sounds pretty lame. I mean break ups happen, but the clown could have at least given you a phone call. In my opinion he took the cowards way out.

  • @thetapper3218
    @thetapper3218 9 років тому +1

    I love you and hope you feel better! I feel horrible this is awful! Keep your head up Trisha!❤️

  • @eviehopevick
    @eviehopevick 10 років тому +8

    It's okay Trisha :( be strong!

  • @ninarose4047
    @ninarose4047 9 років тому +27

    don't trust anyone Trish , you are beautiful ..

  • @mariahmorales8389
    @mariahmorales8389 9 років тому +38

    Don't act like none of you girls have not been in this position. Whether it was physical or not. We all go through this. And instead of bashing her for her mistakes how about we learn from it and stick up for other women. Because we all know some of you girls have done stupid shit for the guy you love. You girls are so quick to judge when I'm sure some of the people you know can point out all of the mistakes you've made. So don't act all high and mighty because you're not. We all make mistakes. It's part of being human.

  • @riasarkar5711
    @riasarkar5711 9 років тому

    You are totally justified in feeling the way you do.
    I seriously cried watching this. Hope you feel better :(

  • @Alexandra9390
    @Alexandra9390 10 років тому +25

    maybe he was actually still married & his wife found out..

  • @annamarieporter95
    @annamarieporter95 10 років тому +14

    Definitely sounds married. My bey his wife found out and threatened to leave if he didn't cut all contact off with you immediately. Sorry girl. Hope everything turns out okay

    • @latarielle6657
      @latarielle6657 10 років тому

      I bet you are right. Especially since it was so sudden.

  • @MsHoney-ez2ph
    @MsHoney-ez2ph 7 років тому

    I know this video is old but anyone know where she got those pillows in the background??

  • @sprock4chick
    @sprock4chick 8 років тому +14

    This video breaks my heart cos I totally relate. Big hugs x

  • @Kiwiilee37
    @Kiwiilee37 10 років тому +7

    it's ok trish we all love you

  • @annaclaire7776
    @annaclaire7776 10 років тому +5

    It's okay. Be strong sweetie. It will get better. Even though you weren't together, you loved him. It will get better. I'll be here for you. Love you so much.

  • @anandahawes1789
    @anandahawes1789 9 років тому

    PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE know how awesome you are - I've only just watched this so I'm sure you're feeling better

  • @candlesbyvictoria
    @candlesbyvictoria 9 років тому +4

    I am a new subscriber and I really just want to give you the biggest hug ever.. I know this video is a few months old and you are probably over this heart break by now at least I hope you are but the Momma in me just wants to hug you!

  • @ThatBrazilChick
    @ThatBrazilChick 10 років тому +28

    Oh Trish, he lost an awesome, beautiful and loyal woman. He's the one who should be gutted.

  • @keeganzuris
    @keeganzuris 10 років тому +5

    seeing this side of you and how upset you are, makes me so sad. Trisha you deserve an amazing man who will make you his one and only and wants to tell the world about you and never leave. and i know its painful to realize when someone you truly care about is not right for you, but its all a part of the healing process. things will get better. you know this! you have already been through so much and you got through it. you can get through this too. spend time with your family. spend time with your friends. do all the things that make you happy because you deserve it. i went through something similar where the guy i was pretty with cut me off with NO explanation. i went crazy, texting and emailing and calling and got nothing in return. one day when i had moved on, he contacted me apologizing and asking me to take him back. i had alreadty completely moved on with someone else and he became so bitter from it. thats how it works! i was so much stronger and i know in the end you will come out stronger and happier, i love you trish! we all love you!! keep us updated! kissiessss!!!!!!!!! XOXOXOXOXO

  • @menace44423
    @menace44423 9 років тому

    I understand this completely, you're such an amazing person

  • @linanight5177
    @linanight5177 9 років тому +1

    Trish I'm so sad for you. You so don't desreve this or his treatment because you are so kind sweet and onest person. I really admire you. Keep your head up high if he dosen't get what he has found it's his bad. So sorry for you :,(

  • @Kelly-vv3hy
    @Kelly-vv3hy 10 років тому +5

    Trish I have always loved you, but oh my gosh I am LOVING the "real" Trish lately. I absolutely adore seeing this side of you. You are beautiful.

  • @YessicaGypsy89
    @YessicaGypsy89 10 років тому +10

    I totally understand when guys disappear. And when its hurts so much u can't take it. Trust me I've been there. With time your heart will definitely heal. Stay Strong Girl.

  • @anicaantonio
    @anicaantonio 9 років тому +2

    Done watching this video.. I am literally crying while watching this because now, I feel the same way :( idk! Uughh.. I don't want to cry for the same reason again, its so hard!! But Trish.. Srsly? As I see you on this video, you are strong a person :) Trish I'm so greatful that I saw your video.. You give me a strength to handle this situation.. Thank you so much! I love you, I love your videos & I love you just the way you are..

  • @LoveAlexx
    @LoveAlexx 9 років тому +6

    I love you so much & I totally understand where you come from, every woman goes through this whether they like it or not. the pain is just temporary baby girl, don't sweat it, you're so gorgeous! PLEASE watch my "Heartbreak" Video on my channel if you ever go through this again, hope it helps, love ya! xoxo

  • @RightedLefty
    @RightedLefty 10 років тому +33

    I'm so sorry Trish. :( It doesn't matter how you dress, or that you have bleach blond hair. You didn't do anything wrong. This is his bad, not yours at all. It's his loss. You're a sweet and beautiful person with so much love to give. I hope you find someone who appreciates that and gives you what you deserve. I sat through this whole video wishing I could sit beside you and just listen and give you a hug. Feel better.