What nobody tells you about moving to America | My Struggles as an International Student

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  • Опубліковано 20 вер 2024

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  • @FisayoGracieAbby
    @FisayoGracieAbby  Рік тому +6

    Welcome!! What are your thoughts?

  • @AmaraOsuji
    @AmaraOsuji Рік тому +13

    I loveeee this video.
    I was also so shocked by how much homework I had to do. I vividly remember saying to myself ‘can I just catch a break please!’ It was so bad that the one week where I didn’t have anything due, I felt like something was wrong or I definitely was forgetting something I had to do but I really wasn’t 😩
    As for imposter syndrome, that one is story for another day🥲
    Just know that one day I caught myself wondering if I got accepted into my program just for ‘diversity’ 😭
    Thankfully, things are much better now.

  • @InvestWithPrudence
    @InvestWithPrudence Рік тому +13

    Impressive how much you’ve grown and adapted in just two years, Fisayo! I’m so happy for you! I’m glad that you mentioned the importance of the credit score in the US. For many people coming to the US, it’s something new. But it’s like your financial identity, and it impacts a lot of big things in life: rental application, auto rate, mortgage rate, and even insurance cost! So the earlier you know about it and start building it, the better! And more people should know about it! ❤ Love your content, and will keep watching your videos :D

    • @FisayoGracieAbby
      @FisayoGracieAbby  Рік тому +1

      I totally agree with you Prudence. Thanks for sharing your perspective with our community!

  • @estherobikoya8081
    @estherobikoya8081 Рік тому +9

    Loneliness - I triple agree. This place is not easy for the single ones that do not want to mess around. It seems like you have to be the one to ask guys out here 😭. That’s not how we do in my village.
    Imposter syndrome- That is my daily life. I have gone to different office hours and told my Professors I am not doing again.
    Credit score- I also found it weird when I first heard of it. Till now, it’s still a bit hard for me to be spending money that’s not mine.
    Language and Accent - I was tired, I couldn’t hear them because they were too fast, they couldn’t hear me. Disaster up and down 😂. I had to google pronunciation before I ask questions. They said my accent is like Music 😅.
    Labour- I am now a tailor, hairdresser, nail technician, carpenter, event planner 😂. The list continues. I am doing everything by myself and nobody send me.
    Outings- See that splitting of bills ehn, I was shocked. I was like *is this how you people do do over here*.
    The list goes on but God has been faithful.

    • @FisayoGracieAbby
      @FisayoGracieAbby  Рік тому +1

      Awww, felt different emotions reading this. Well done Esther, you’ve come this far and you definitely have a long way to go. Don’t let imposter syndrome in, you deserve every table/room you get invited to so keep your head up🥰

  • @oluwafemiprecioussanni8073
    @oluwafemiprecioussanni8073 Рік тому +6

    From what you said about the assignments... That your Excel solution is awesome and can even be made better by adding Power Automate to send reminders via email.

  • @annfrost3323
    @annfrost3323 Рік тому +2

    A lot of potential employers also check your credit. It is like getting a report of how you handle your life and learning if you are reckless with your own money. They don't want to hire someone who is irresponsible with money especially if you are looking at a job in finance or you'll have a company credit card or even to work at a bank.

  • @thegreatlearner7611
    @thegreatlearner7611 Рік тому +7

    "Can i have my silence pleasee" 🤣🤣

  • @titilopebanji5255
    @titilopebanji5255 Рік тому +3

    I can relate so well. For me, I can hear people clearly but some particular people never hear me. It has been getting better with time though. The self imposter syndrome has been massive too and tough, but I still believe I am and will make progress. Credit, lol, it's strange and scary but I learned it's the life. I could go on and on. Thanks Fisayo, I've followed some of your videos right from my visa interview season

    • @FisayoGracieAbby
      @FisayoGracieAbby  Рік тому

      Awww @imposter syndrome, I trust you’ll make significant progress if you stay intentional. You’ll be fine🤗
      Thanks for watching!

  • @Annicksworld
    @Annicksworld 8 місяців тому +2

    I still have this issue of loneliness and I don’t have anyone to talk to I haven’t started school yet but I feel like going back home am just fade up with the loneliness all time at home for close to 6months now

    • @FisayoGracieAbby
      @FisayoGracieAbby  7 місяців тому +1

      Hello Annick, i'm really sorry to hear that. What do you do currently, while you're waiting for school to start and where are you located? Do you have a community of other Africans around you?

  • @Joan_gold
    @Joan_gold Рік тому +4

    Absolute truth
    Imposter syndrome is crazy😭
    Sometimes I find myself feeling I'm not smart enough
    But I know I am
    I'd take ur tips
    And that loneliness 😂
    Nobody favors anyone here for free o
    I've had to grow up byforce
    See me paying rent😭😂
    God is still awesome
    I'm happy for your growth!!!
    And u look stunning and sound eloquent too!

    • @FisayoGracieAbby
      @FisayoGracieAbby  Рік тому +2

      “See me paying rent”🤣🤣 I’m hollering!!
      You’re smart! Keep encouraging yourself, you’d do just fine 🤗

  • @olarewajutunmisejoseph2286
    @olarewajutunmisejoseph2286 Рік тому +1

    This is beautiful to watch❤

  • @dumebioti1561
    @dumebioti1561 Рік тому

    Love how you mentioned the solutions to the challenges!! Well done👏

  • @Temiakinode
    @Temiakinode Рік тому +3

    That part of not having anything to say or trying to construct your sentences and practicing your accent in your head just to ask a question 🥹

  • @victorabel1655
    @victorabel1655 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Fisayo.... These are really helpful tips

  • @olorimae
    @olorimae Рік тому

    I love it so glad I caught up with videos I missed

  • @olamideadeboboye2507
    @olamideadeboboye2507 Рік тому

    Thanks for sharing Fisayo….Nice videos

  • @varavinture341
    @varavinture341 Рік тому +2

    My crush is back with a new bangerrrr🤸🤸

    • @FisayoGracieAbby
      @FisayoGracieAbby  Рік тому

      Haha thank you! Which of the struggles can you relate with?

  • @khondwanibanda5537
    @khondwanibanda5537 Місяць тому

    This is a very informative video.
    How many courses did you take per semester?

  • @olorimae
    @olorimae Рік тому

    My struggle will be doing things myself 😭 I like having help for physical labour

  • @oluwasayomichael7182
    @oluwasayomichael7182 Рік тому +1

    Impressive
    Thank you for the awareness 😊

  • @tolulopelajmk
    @tolulopelajmk Рік тому

    i've always wondered what Imposter syndrome meant, lool, omooooo thanks for sharing some of your experiences

    • @FisayoGracieAbby
      @FisayoGracieAbby  Рік тому

      As a very confident babe that you are🤣 Imposter syndrome has no place around you

  • @Emereole_Chioma
    @Emereole_Chioma Рік тому +1

    Love ettttt
    Looking forward to doing an MBA , although still a pharmacy student. Did you have any pharmacy coursemate? And how’s the job opportunities like after an MBA there ?

    • @FisayoGracieAbby
      @FisayoGracieAbby  Рік тому

      Yes I knew of people who Seyi did medical sciences, not sure if it was specifically pharmacy.
      There are several job opportunities, you just need to know what you are looking for

  • @billie.
    @billie. Рік тому +1

    Nice video as usual. Please what tips would you suggest to keep being in contact with adcom after interview.

    • @FisayoGracieAbby
      @FisayoGracieAbby  Рік тому +3

      Sure. After the interview, send them an email thanking them for their time and letting them know you enjoyed getting to know them. Then mention that you’re looking forward to receiving the decision on xyz date they specified during the interview or stated on their website.
      You shouldn’t have to followup again until after decision day (I.e if they don’t get back to you)

    • @billie.
      @billie. Рік тому

      @@FisayoGracieAbby Thank you very much.

  • @mercyotoo5132
    @mercyotoo5132 Рік тому +2

    Hello Fisayo, thanks for sharing your journey with us. Feels so relatable. Could you please advise choosing between a 1 year MBA programme and a 2 year course duration, of the two, which would you recommend

    • @FisayoGracieAbby
      @FisayoGracieAbby  Рік тому

      Hi Mercy! It depends on what you’re looking to get out of the MBA. I preferred the 2 year program that’s why I went for it.

    • @christopherreed3019
      @christopherreed3019 Рік тому

      2 years are better. I wouldnt recommend a one year MBA program. Goodluck

  • @aghedolaura6452
    @aghedolaura6452 2 місяці тому

    I have about 4 assignment to submit despite not resuming yet

  • @maryafolake2830
    @maryafolake2830 Рік тому +1

    Nice

  • @adeoluabiodun4357
    @adeoluabiodun4357 Рік тому +1

    listening to your videos at 1.5x lol

  • @alizanba9116
    @alizanba9116 Рік тому

    In what consist the MBA program pls ?

  • @unik_wealth
    @unik_wealth Рік тому

    Hi Fisayo, I have a question. Is it easy to transition from graduate school to working in the US?

    • @FisayoGracieAbby
      @FisayoGracieAbby  Рік тому +1

      Yes! I’ve shared about this in my videos on getting internships. Please watch them

    • @unik_wealth
      @unik_wealth Рік тому

      @@FisayoGracieAbby thanks alot, I will search on your playlist rn