The First Days After a C-section | Doula Diaries Episode 3

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  • Опубліковано 12 вер 2024
  • A doula's work doesn't end after the baby is born. In Maria's case, it's just beginning. Watch Maria help her client through the very first days after her c-section on Episode 3 of Doula Diaries.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 95

  • @alexandrastulz6588
    @alexandrastulz6588 5 років тому +308

    When Maria started speaking, I was instantly relaxed. I’m not pregnant or even trying but I want to hire her lol

    • @MasegoB
      @MasegoB 4 роки тому +6

      That happened to me too. I just laughed at myself. I need her in general. And I'm not preggers either🤣😣❤

    • @honeybdream
      @honeybdream 4 роки тому +3

      I know right ⁉️Must be her energy

    • @zoetaguma
      @zoetaguma 4 роки тому +1

      Yess!

    • @TheHourlyMom139
      @TheHourlyMom139 3 роки тому

      Me too, I thought it was just me!

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 4 роки тому +201

    Idk why these keep showing up in my recommendations. But I like the show.

  • @mercybadoe3086
    @mercybadoe3086 4 роки тому +77

    Maria could curse me out and it would still sound so relaxing 😂😂😭

  • @breanabennett5384
    @breanabennett5384 4 роки тому +175

    “New human”😭😭😭

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 4 роки тому +36

    Awe he is so handsome. It is challenging for all new mommy's. I'm glad my mom was there to help me in a sense. It was tough. But we got through it. He is 14 now, and taller then me. Lol.

  • @emesass5959
    @emesass5959 4 роки тому +6

    That baby should be on TV commercials for Pampers or Gerber. He is stunningly beautiful.

  • @maggiematthews4065
    @maggiematthews4065 4 роки тому +59

    I am 25wks pregnant with twins and it's my first time being pregnant (am terrified to say the least) but watching these videos is helpful even though am still far off giving birth

    • @rowanblake3604
      @rowanblake3604 4 роки тому +3

      Congrats! Hope u have a safe+healthy pregnancy

    • @fiestyone
      @fiestyone 4 роки тому +1

      Congratulations 🎊🎉...best of luck!!

    • @amyj4438
      @amyj4438 4 роки тому

      Congrats love!! Try hypnobirthing classes. Learn as much as you can and know that the more you know the better. Hubs n I moved to a midwife path at GW hospital (D.C.) and loved it. They encouraged doulas, mental health checks, hypnobirthing etc. In the delivery room they listen SO WELL! My first son took 44 hrs n after about 30 hrs of no sleep at 5 cm i finally got seen epidural and took snot 1.5 hrs to push. My 2nd son it was 8 hrs n by the time i got to thre hospital i waz already 5 cm. I pushed him out in 2 pushes on the bathroom floor of my hospital room. Lol. I had a doula the 2nd time. My husband and doula were great! My first 1 my doula was my husband and My dad (for 2 hrs) lmbo you'll feel better once you watch calming birthing videos and make sure you are cared for by ppl who care (that's why I got the midwives instead of an OB).

    • @liyanibernier5720
      @liyanibernier5720 4 роки тому +1

      Use birth control stop breeding the planet is already full

    • @savvypalz510
      @savvypalz510 4 роки тому

      Good luck..u will do great!!

  • @mzmeeka315
    @mzmeeka315 4 роки тому +22

    I notice moms always braid their hair before child birth. I love it ❤️

  • @sarahmahlangu5895
    @sarahmahlangu5895 4 роки тому +9

    Maria's voice is so soothing 😍😍😍😍

  • @lisbethbatista4695
    @lisbethbatista4695 4 роки тому +23

    I need Maria in my life! Wish I could hire her.

  • @dumbplum
    @dumbplum 4 роки тому +63

    Wow never knew there was such thing as a PP doula... really wish I was in the states near family going through this first pregnancy

    • @Bkrunz
      @Bkrunz 4 роки тому +1

      Congratulations!🎊

  • @Kuwkay
    @Kuwkay 4 роки тому +22

    I need maria as a life coach

  • @erikacroft245
    @erikacroft245 4 роки тому +18

    Maria sounds like Gal Gadot ❤️

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 4 роки тому +25

    I got braids before I had my son as well.

  • @elainebird58
    @elainebird58 4 роки тому +2

    I had a c-section, and thankfully alot of help..it hurt lol but when you get the baby in your arms you forget about the pain...I would do it again❤❤❤

  • @sherlandasurry7466
    @sherlandasurry7466 4 роки тому +5

    I had all c-section with my children. I wished I had a doula to help relax me as I prepared for my c-sections.

  • @zimasajika609
    @zimasajika609 4 роки тому +9

    Beautiful video. It's interesting to see different cultures, in my culture, your mother and sisters arrive before the birth and help you. All you do postpartum is breastfeed and bond with your baby. They teach you how to bathe the baby and breastfeed.

  • @rerobinson1328
    @rerobinson1328 4 роки тому +4

    She is so calm!

  • @YourNewPrincess
    @YourNewPrincess 4 роки тому +2

    "new human"

  • @octaviawilliams3159
    @octaviawilliams3159 4 роки тому +9

    Beautiful couple!

  • @alexjohnson-fry3778
    @alexjohnson-fry3778 3 роки тому

    Every one of these is incredible I've watched every one and they just make me so joyous

  • @MrNmarty123
    @MrNmarty123 4 роки тому

    Maria had me relaxed and I was just watching the video

  • @delaney1570
    @delaney1570 4 роки тому +3

    August 8 is my bday!! Sending love to my twinny

    • @TakiMomoify
      @TakiMomoify 4 роки тому +1

      Oh, it’s coming up in a couple days! Happy early birthday!! ❤️

    • @delaney1570
      @delaney1570 4 роки тому +1

      Thanks!!!

  • @chrissycatwitch2
    @chrissycatwitch2 4 роки тому +2

    Super cute baby

  • @ktsls82
    @ktsls82 4 роки тому +37

    I've given birth to 7 children. I never "hated" my husband or felt annoyed with him after giving birth. Strange commentary!

    • @615BlackBarbie
      @615BlackBarbie 4 роки тому +23

      Thank God you had a great husband. We all didn't have that.

    • @indiatate
      @indiatate 4 роки тому +77

      Wow its almost like there are separate human beings from you and who dont have the same feelings and experiences as you do

    • @malibuuuwoo5656
      @malibuuuwoo5656 4 роки тому +4

      India Tate 😂😂

    • @Kriistall7
      @Kriistall7 4 роки тому +11

      Do you need a pat on the back? I'm confused as to why you're humble bragging about your husband

    • @BeauteOr
      @BeauteOr 4 роки тому +4

      Krista w because only bitchy American girls have this stupid behavior. Your husband wants to be nice to you and you re a bitch. Also , what kind of mother leave a tiny baby to have dinner . You can see she s a terrible mother

  • @tictok6948
    @tictok6948 4 роки тому +1

    Beautiful baby.

  • @chummychimchim
    @chummychimchim 5 років тому +27

    *How much do Doula's cost?*

    • @esthermccant65
      @esthermccant65 5 років тому +10

      Chummy Chimchim depends on the doula... my packages vary based on the services requested by each client.

    • @snopeasnopea
      @snopeasnopea 5 років тому +13

      500-2500

    • @gericacammack1588
      @gericacammack1588 5 років тому +15

      There are free non profit organizations and there are fee based Doula services

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 4 роки тому +2

      @@snopeasnopea that is not too bad considering.

  • @valerie4912
    @valerie4912 4 роки тому

    BEAUTIFUL family ❤️

  • @Chocolate.barbie444
    @Chocolate.barbie444 4 роки тому

    Awesome video!

  • @lctamoya
    @lctamoya 4 роки тому +1

    He is so handsome

  • @moxiejae321
    @moxiejae321 4 роки тому

    Beautiful 💙

  • @k.7544
    @k.7544 4 роки тому +9

    Does the husband even talk?

  • @ericawilliams6900
    @ericawilliams6900 3 роки тому

    My mother-in-law was my doula 🙏🏿🙏🏿👌🏿🙌🏿💋

  • @mairead788-6
    @mairead788-6 Рік тому

    Im having my c section in two weeks. I wouldn't have it any other way.

  • @lctamoya
    @lctamoya 4 роки тому +3

    A csection would be my choice as well since I have endometriosis and fibroid

    • @elainebird58
      @elainebird58 4 роки тому

      Its not a choice you make

    • @lctamoya
      @lctamoya 4 роки тому

      @@elainebird58 yes I know maybe I should have my said my dr would recommend. And yes ppl can choose I have seen people choose

    • @lauram7536
      @lauram7536 4 роки тому

      Why would a C-Section be the preferred option? Wondering cause I also have endometriosis

    • @lctamoya
      @lctamoya 4 роки тому

      @@lauram7536 I have alot of adhesions and a simple movement for me is pain my bowels and intestines are attached and I have alot of vaginal pain I also have alot of bowel issues. Am in pain as we speak. My ibs is triggered tied with bleeding constantly. With all that said if I got pregnant would be high risk and I would probably be hospitalized alot. So am not trying to get pregnant but things happen.

  • @jason666pitbull
    @jason666pitbull 4 роки тому

    This man had no say so at all , such bullshit ;they didn’t ask him not one question not how he feels nothing.

  • @pamm5
    @pamm5 Рік тому +1

    No, not the same results. C-sections are great for emergencies, but not good for your body to have unnecessary scar tissues that makes you vulnerable to rupture. If you medically need it, yes, get it. But don’t just do it because it’s convenient or because you don’t want to feel labor pains. It is a major surgery.

    • @Smthmnk
      @Smthmnk 8 місяців тому

      Mind your business

  • @razm.3135
    @razm.3135 4 роки тому +6

    Is this just for the show or is she really overwhelmed by everything in every situation? I’m confused. So the Doula is a babysitter? Where’s this lady’s mother, sister, aunt, or girlfriend? This is not a multiple birth situation. The baby has no special medical needs. Girl…. Have several seats and take care of your baby!!!

    • @amellewilliams4752
      @amellewilliams4752 4 роки тому +21

      Sometimes women need extra help. I’d much rather my patients have too much help than not enough. Also doulas are professionals who are there to primarily focus on the mom and her needs. Recovery can be exhausting and brutal, and sometimes family members are all cooing over the baby and not focusing on mom. All in all, this can’t hurt. I’m proud that she’s advocating for herself and making sure she is supported.

    • @liyanibernier5720
      @liyanibernier5720 4 роки тому +7

      Why you so rough she can afford it dumb ass
      You just jealous and bitter because you won’t ever get to have a doula

    • @taraa4281
      @taraa4281 4 роки тому +11

      One of the reasons why pp depression is so high in the west is bc new mothers receive such little help compared to literally anywhere else in the world. Generally ppl will be around you for months on end, sometimes family sometimes a hired help. It’s really common. Also not everyone has family nearby. My parents are immigrants and my mom was really alone when she had me unfortunately :(

    • @tarrynthedoula
      @tarrynthedoula 3 роки тому +2

      Everyone’s journey to motherhood is different and can have its own unique set of challenges. Recognizing the need for help and taking the initiative to get it is actually a great step in “taking care of your baby”. A c-section is major abdominal surgery that requires bed rest for at least two weeks to properly heal; its excellent that this Mama prioritized her health. Partners rarely get paternity leave and not everyone has mothers or sisters who can travel and take off of work to provide the necessary support. A lot of new mothers have friends with young children to tend to and aren’t so easily available. There’s lots of reasons someone could need additional support.

    • @garicahunter5242
      @garicahunter5242 2 роки тому +2

      So loud and so wrong 😑

  • @richard_ramirezworshiper5758
    @richard_ramirezworshiper5758 4 роки тому +3

    Other races exist too. Stop making this strictly a black thing.

    • @Fyacc
      @Fyacc 4 роки тому +22

      Keep this same energy when it comes to Police brutality okay?

    • @trevon638
      @trevon638 4 роки тому +13

      Boy hush . Stop whining damn . Yall OTHER races always whining when we getting some air time

    • @ebonyprincess9097
      @ebonyprincess9097 4 роки тому +9

      Richard_Ramirez worshiper and they're represented all over the place. Your comment reeks of veiled hate and racism