How To Overcome Loss And Grief | Marisa Peer

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  • Grief doesn’t go away when you suppress and ignore it. In fact, it only comes back stronger or manifests itself as a physical condition. Watch this video to understand the stages of grief and how you can process and cope with loss.
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    Marisa Peer is the author of 'I Am Enough' and creator of Rapid Transformational Therapy®️(RTT). Marisa Peer is an English best-selling author, nutritionist, relationship therapist, hypnotherapist trainer, and motivational speaker. She is using hypnosis for anxiety, weight loss, addiction, and overcoming fear.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 264

  • @Solerisa
    @Solerisa 4 роки тому +59

    This is also true for any other type of loss. Losing your job, or a divorce, or losing a pet, etc. Death is death. The death of a relationship is also a death. The level of grief might be different, but any loss needs to be mourned.

    • @urgentemail8690
      @urgentemail8690 4 роки тому +1

      The title scared me of this video. But your comment made me look at it in another way . Thank u

  • @EarthAngelCarol
    @EarthAngelCarol Рік тому +2

    Thank you so much I love this. I just lost my little dog of 17 years. He was my family, my partner, my everything and I’m grieving him right now if you could talk about losing your pet it would be so helpful. Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @Thinkpositivebepositive1
    @Thinkpositivebepositive1 4 роки тому +21

    My dad died last october from lung cancer, it was and its still devastating for me and my family. We can believe it! But life goes on and we have to find the strength to go forward... 🥺 hes in our heart and mind forever

  • @SuperRitai
    @SuperRitai 4 роки тому +41

    Dear Marisa, Your timing and support Synchronicity for so many people. Thank you. Namaste

    • @AlexisDubChin
      @AlexisDubChin 4 роки тому +2

      7-20-14 someone I loved very much committed suicide and I'm finally feeling ready to accept. ♡ This video was beautifully freeing.

  • @DV-dt9sq
    @DV-dt9sq 4 роки тому +19

    I had so many loses that I don't know where to begin. One is happening now. I am so tired of loses. So tired. And I thaught that this time I have found person who is in love with me. 😖. I don't have no one to talk to, but this was kind of comforting. Thanks.

    • @MGSpecial2023
      @MGSpecial2023 4 роки тому +2

      I've found talking to and petting pets snd caring and sharing plants snd flowers to be a helpful substitute ehen I feel alone. There are also numerous online help groups and websites where you can reach out anonymously or at least read how others have overcome similar situations. For example, I enjoy dancing, so during the covid period, I've participated in free online classes thru a site called dancingalonetogether.com. It's been a real help to give my spirits a boost with a little exercise when I'm feeling a bit down.

    • @foxywhitetip7387
      @foxywhitetip7387 4 роки тому +1

      Just read an article “Pets ease depression and anxiety” no surprise here saving a life is even better

    • @DV-dt9sq
      @DV-dt9sq 4 роки тому

      @@MGSpecial2023 : Oh, I just saw this. Thank you for sharing your experience dear Mary. :)

    • @rroman2752
      @rroman2752 4 роки тому +3

      D V , I SUGGEST YOU CONTINUE LISTENING TO MARISA PEERS VIDEOS. IT WILL HELP YOU THROUGH THIS DIFFICULT PERIOD AND MAKE YOU STRONGER. MUCH LOVE FROM PUERTO RICO!!!

    • @DV-dt9sq
      @DV-dt9sq 4 роки тому

      @@rroman2752 : Thank you Roman. I do that. 🙋

  • @kerrilynndehart9127
    @kerrilynndehart9127 4 роки тому +3

    Sometimes we go through these long seasons of loss. It's been nearly 7 months since my mama passed. I was furloughed in March, I had a major surgery in June and my dog is dying. I just finished the estate and cleaning her room will be finished next week. I've cried an awful lot, because I miss my mama (not her suffering) and I miss our routine. I mourn the loss of family and routines.

  • @worldpeoplestories9867
    @worldpeoplestories9867 4 роки тому +7

    The loss of a loved one is terrible. I wish you all the strength and patience to survive this.

  • @Bingeworthy
    @Bingeworthy 4 роки тому +15

    Thank you so much for this. Please consider more content about recovering from a break up.

  • @Dabedreon
    @Dabedreon 4 роки тому +10

    I lost my wife of 35 years just over a year ago. There are still tears some days especially when I'm working in the rose garden i planted for her. I'm thinking maybe I'm approaching moving on. I can't see the light at the end of the tunnel but I accept its there and I'm looking for it. Thank you for this.

  • @patriciahale2653
    @patriciahale2653 4 роки тому +20

    Listening to you speaking in that lovely soothing voice you have has made me feel so much better. Still sad, but so much less so. Thank you x

  • @seiblair43
    @seiblair43 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you Marisa. My husband just died and my heart is broken. I needed to hear it was ok for me to cry.

  • @AUAndre
    @AUAndre 4 роки тому +18

    Thank you so much, Marisa ! My father died last month and I let myself cry and mourne him and with him all who died before : my mother, my grandparents, my grand-grandmother... I didn't cry for them, I had to be strong ... and I think that is why I became stuck in my life. Could you do a video about how to change things in order to end being stuck in your life for years? Thank you for all your work and support!

    • @rroman2752
      @rroman2752 4 роки тому +2

      GREAT SUGGESTION

    • @callmemom6936
      @callmemom6936 3 роки тому

      I concur, this would be great content.

  • @sinamofidi3847
    @sinamofidi3847 2 роки тому

    The kiss at the end was beautiful.

  • @maryannedebono4772
    @maryannedebono4772 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you Marisa. I lost my husband on July 6th. He passing was sudden. I have not been able to cry but I miss him so much. I’m scared of what I have to face!

    • @alisonmanson3414
      @alisonmanson3414 4 роки тому +1

      I am so so sorry to hear about your 💔 loss. I feel your pain as I lost my darling younger sister unexpectedly on July 8th, and she was also my best friend, confidante and twin soulmate. I think you are stunned and still in shock that you haven't yet cried - possibly because you maybe feel once you start you might not stop. Also the pain from a sudden death of a loved one is visceral, brutal , and literally takes your breath away, leaving you feeling both the numbness and pain you'd expect from a physical amputation. I really hope you manage to tap into your sadness and express it, as I've cried every day until my eyes are swollen, but if I kept in my grief I think I'd explode. I also know I'm not going to "recover" from this bereavement any time soon, and will have to take each day as it comes. Like you, my future looks very different now without my dear beloved one. I sincerely wish you all the best in the road ahead, and hope you find strength to deal with your grief.

    • @PatriciaGillespie-fc9mn
      @PatriciaGillespie-fc9mn Місяць тому

      @@alisonmanson3414thank you for this as this is my current situation and I feel so broken without my your her sister who was my best friend.

  • @shaynatulane8742
    @shaynatulane8742 4 роки тому +24

    Could you please speak about the heartbreak associated with experiencing a tendency to be drawn to friends and romantic partners who behave in an avoidant manner? …and could you please discuss intermittent reinforcement and love addiction and offer advice related to being involved with a partner who consistently behaves inconsistently/unpredictably? And offer advice for communicating with someone who is behaving this way?

    • @aashishrivastava3179
      @aashishrivastava3179 4 роки тому +2

      this is really needed

    • @karaszimarianna4003
      @karaszimarianna4003 4 роки тому +2

      I'm interested too.

    • @christinachheng7447
      @christinachheng7447 4 роки тому +2

      Same!

    • @shaynatulane8742
      @shaynatulane8742 4 роки тому +2

      @Quazi Roberts Thank you for taking the time to offer these comments. I feel that your assessment holds truth - I can definitely identify with struggling with low self esteem, and this line "when someone is aloof or avoidant, it seems as though they are calling the shots and as if you should be thankful that they are interested in you - validating that you are worthy of a superior’s attention..." This line really rang true for me and gave me something to ponder.... There is one part of what you wrote that I am still trying to understand, though, and wondered if you could further explain this line... "When a friend/partner is overly keen or just keen it implies that they are not worthy of your attention..." I'm not sure what this means... And again, I appreciate you taking the time to comment and look forward to understanding more if you feel led to further comment in order to help me better understand.

    • @foxywhitetip7387
      @foxywhitetip7387 4 роки тому

      Sounds like narcissism and there is no cure for that . Except to stay away or will be drained.

  • @cameliaseghedi4528
    @cameliaseghedi4528 4 роки тому +6

    Talk about timing, I just lost my dear aunt last night, and these words are really helpful right now. Thank you for this video and for all the work that you're doing.

  • @terrysimmons3987
    @terrysimmons3987 4 роки тому +1

    Thank u for this article. I have just watched my husband travel to heaven after years of illness. We were 54 days short of 50 years. I have just begun the stage of anger and I do cry often as that is my temperament. Tears come at joy, sadness, fear, etc. For my whole life. So these years r no surprise. But anger was a surprise as this was not my husbands fault. But have leArned from others the say info u shared I. This article. So its a confirmation from God that this does lie ahead of me if I am to completely heal. Thank you so.much!!!

  • @cherieegger3243
    @cherieegger3243 4 роки тому +7

    Thank you so much. I am so sad and I needed to cry and now I am crying!💗

  • @ancuta-soso
    @ancuta-soso 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for this video. My dad died in may this year. And yesterday and today I had such a hard time, even if i read about grief and loss. I understand now, again that i need to feel the feelings and maybe i had such a hard time these days because even if i was so sad and down, i was judging myself for feeling them. Which in fact is normal. Thank you again 🤗💐

  • @smokeywhale
    @smokeywhale 4 роки тому +5

    Lost my best friend in April. This really helped me. Love and blessings to you Marissa.

  • @Fantasia-Faye
    @Fantasia-Faye 4 роки тому +3

    Thank you Marisa. I so needed to hear this today. My 12 year old dog died suddenly two days ago and I am absolutely heartbroken. This video helped me understand all the emotions I am going through. I have such anger at myself that I may have missed some warning signs that I attributed to her age that may have been clues. I am devastated. Thank you for this content, it was very helpful to me during this terrible time.

    • @lotus746
      @lotus746 4 роки тому +2

      I’m sorry for your loss. It’s so hard. I lost my beloved dog a few weeks ago and it’s terrible. I feel sad all the time and lonely. I had her for 16 years, she is my best friend and I love her so much. and now it’s so empty and I miss all the things we did together.❤️

    • @Mtnsunshine
      @Mtnsunshine 4 роки тому +2

      Fantasia Berry So, so sorry for your loss. Yes, our four legged friends are as special to us as any human. Please know that we have also experienced your pain in the past and are sending you the best thoughts possible as you go through the grieving process. Sadly, it sucks and there are no shortcuts to that process. Take care. 🙏🏼🌹

    • @Fantasia-Faye
      @Fantasia-Faye 4 роки тому +1

      Hella, thank you. I am so sorry for your loss as well. I feel your pain. It is devastating, they are really family to us. I will be praying for you and sending warm thoughts your way.

    • @Fantasia-Faye
      @Fantasia-Faye 4 роки тому

      Karen W thank you. Your words have brought me comfort. I really appreciate it.

  • @Annakiwaszkiewicz
    @Annakiwaszkiewicz 4 роки тому +9

    Dear Marisa, thank you for this video . I really needed to listen to it today. I would be very grateful if you could make a video on what red flags and qualities to look for in a future love partner so the relationship last xx

  • @lubovlebedenko1560
    @lubovlebedenko1560 4 роки тому +1

    I can hardly find the right words to describe how thankful I wm for not just this video but every advice of yours! Since my childhood I've never let myself feel my feelings! And that's really terrible. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and helping people all over the world!

  • @starlightblue8552
    @starlightblue8552 3 роки тому

    I love your voice and the gentle way you talk about surviving grief.

  • @HIMEnatural
    @HIMEnatural 4 роки тому +9

    I love listening to your voice ❤️ Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us.

  • @0874jes
    @0874jes 4 роки тому +1

    Dear Marissa, thank you so much for this video. You’re so soothing to listen to; a voice of reason in so much chaos. My step-daddy shot himself and my Mom found him this passed Thursday. I’m having a really hard time watching her go through this while I’m trying to as well. He was facing the beginning of the end stages of Parkinson’s disease at 75 and she is 72 next month. She feels like she doesn’t know what she’s going to do without him. They have this amazing 6,000 square foot home on the beautiful TN river that she can’t maintain. She feels so hopeless and I’m not sure how to support her in a helpful way. I keep saying all the wrong things and I feel like I should just shut up and be near. It’s even harder because my first born who was the first grandchild my stepdad ever had and was so adored, died at 8 months tragically with a fast growing bacterial meningitis and he was gone within less than a week. We didn’t know what his cause of death was and they discovered him in the process of dying (aspirating) and took him to the ER. We didn’t know why he died until the autopsy results came back. Now I am reliving that trauma and compounding the loss with my stepdad. How do I keep the loss of my son from making this loss so much harder? I would really appreciate your advice. Thank you & God bless you.

  • @pahadiama
    @pahadiama 4 роки тому +2

    Marisa!!!
    I can't think of a time when I've watched any of your videos and not picked up at least one thing that has given me answers to the puzzles in my mind that at times turn in to loud noises. I love you.
    I'm trying to write a book. It's my first and I would love it if you could make a video specifically for a first time writer. Thank you so much, my guiding angel.
    Hugs 🤗

  • @23Bentley45
    @23Bentley45 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much for acknowledging, that life won’t be the same and it can’t be the same without that loved one who died; but that I will still be able to have a good life and moments of happiness.
    I was afraid to stop mourning, because it would mean “forgetting “. But you made it clear, that “moving on” doesn’t mean your life will go back to what it was before your loved one died.

  • @rroman2752
    @rroman2752 4 роки тому

    MARISA PEER YOU ARE AMAZING!!! YOUR WORK IS BLESSING THE WORLD. MUCH LOVE!!!

  • @Alexandra-gy7pb
    @Alexandra-gy7pb 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much! Please consider making a video about how to cope with ending old friendships and finding new ones.

  • @YaraAchcout
    @YaraAchcout 9 місяців тому

    Dear Marisa,
    Thank you for your impactful video on grief. While your insights have been incredibly helpful, I felt something missing. Having recently lost my 29-year-old son, I believe a dedicated video on loosing a child would be immensely beneficial. Your perspective is invaluable, and I'm sure many others in similar situations would greatly appreciate it.
    Best,
    Yara

    • @YaraAchcout
      @YaraAchcout 9 місяців тому

      I find myself torn, adrift without anchors. Since becoming a parent, my life has revolved around their well-being, happiness, and future-a guiding star, even as I continued to advance my career. The thought of losing a child was never part of my considerations.
      I lost my mom in 2015 and went through the exact five stages you describe. Eventually, I could say, 'I loved my mom, she loved me, and I'm grateful for the time I spent with her.' However, losing a child is a different experience. It feels profoundly wrong for him to leave before me.
      It's not about my enoughness either, nor is it about any parents' issues.
      Whereas losing a parent, an undoubtedly sorrowful experience, seems to fall within the natural course of life, the loss of a child profoundly challenges the very essence and meaning of life.
      Some say one can never truly grieve the loss of a child.

  • @jeremywu1238
    @jeremywu1238 3 роки тому +1

    I miss you so much, Grandma

  • @SunshineGrace
    @SunshineGrace 4 роки тому +3

    This was such a lovely video Marisa. 💐 There's no way around grief is there? The only way is to go through all the feelings in order to move forward in your life. I also believe there is "healing in tears," 😢😪😭 and recently someone told me that when you cry, it releases oxytocin which is a feel-good hormone. I hope that's true.
    I did want to ask you if you could create a series about how we can create more EMPATHY in our country and in this world. So many people don't understand what empathy means. They don't understand or know how to "show up" for other people who just want "to be heard" and "be seen." I can see through my own loss and grief, how the world need so much help learning about emotional intelligence (EQ), including empathy. Please help LOL! 🤗 I would love that!
    Thank you for your desire to be of service to all of us. You are definitely doing what you were called to do.
    Much love and light,
    💛🌟
    Sunshine 🌻

  • @guadalupesantoyo7097
    @guadalupesantoyo7097 3 роки тому

    Tks so much for your words. My older sister, who was like my twin, and my mother, both past away in a very short period of time. I really miss them. At the beginning of this year I decided not to cry anymore. Because it really hurts so much. Tks.

  • @paulncvic
    @paulncvic 4 роки тому

    Hi Marisa, as always, thank you for sharing your gift with us. Grief is particularly of interest to me as I lost three dogs in a relatively short period of time after each had cancer, went through treatment and finally succumbed to the disease. I grieved for months then years and one day those animal spirits led me to search for grief induced depression and found something they captured what I was feeling- complicates grief. As I read the risk factors I saw myself. Just knowing there was a name for what I was feeling made me feel better. I discovered an amazing program through Columbia Univesity and it was a game changer for me. This was about a year and a half ago now. Then one day you appeared on my UA-cam feed and I was so excited to hear your words. Had I not been through the complicated grief program I don’t believe I would have been receptive to your amazing words. Grief is a thief and it isn’t something you get over but rather something that one learns to incorporate into one’s life. I now look forward to the future rather than waiting for the grief and everything else to be over. Thank you for your wisdom. I would be interested to know your awareness and thoughts on complicated grief.

  • @sallywebster5135
    @sallywebster5135 4 роки тому

    This has really helped me with something people often won't associate with grief, and that is feeling very sad about having to move from my dream house and home. This was done in a rush because of Covid income loss, which is still worrying. I miss my place of work and life, the garden, the neighborhood and can see that 2 weeks into a new house in a new area, I'm in the denial phase of grief. Watching this has really helped me place my feelings. Thank you Marissa. I wonder if there could be a talk on loss of identity and connection in situations like mine. I'm lucky compared to many, but I believe it's good to still express loss, whatever it is.

  • @ElizabethFord-k2j
    @ElizabethFord-k2j 2 місяці тому

    Love your work a hypnosis for those who have separated or divorsed or boundaries would be well appreciated due to the amount of people going through it ❤

  • @Lena-yj4il
    @Lena-yj4il 4 роки тому

    Each loss is painful.My mother died 13 yrs ago.It was not eaven one single day I wouldn't think of her.The very first year it was a mental torture for me, after that each year was easier.I like that video so much-thank You!

  • @solangeperetti2990
    @solangeperetti2990 4 роки тому

    Recently I discovered that what I'm feeling is a grief of "dreams that didn't come true" . Someone told me. It has been long 2 years of grief and now I watched this video from Marisa and it cleared my mind! As Marisa said, everyone has a time to pass through it and we shouldn't rush. Thank you!! This explanation helped me a lot ! Thank you !

  • @jacquesantonio
    @jacquesantonio 4 роки тому

    Eu não falo inglês. Eu vejo seus vídeos com a tradução simultânea, que realmente não é muito boa, mas dá para "pegar" o essencial. Sou do Brasil. Tu fala com um carinho, dá para sentir o amor com que tu dá tuas dicas! Sou muito grato por tudo isso, e vou aprender a falar sua língua, para poder absorver melhor seu conteúdo, que tem uma energia repleta de gentileza! Gosto muito de ti, Marisa Peer, tu não faz idéia do quanto isso tudo me ajuda!

  • @lauralei4445
    @lauralei4445 2 роки тому

    Thanks you so much for this! I shared this with a bunch of my family. We recently lost my dear nephew and stepfather very close together. This helps normalize the processes and feelings that we need to go through. It’s so therapeutic. Live your work! It has helped me in my life tremendously ❤️ God bless

  • @nancyvasquez9412
    @nancyvasquez9412 4 роки тому

    My father just died July 10th. This video has really helped me. I am in so much pain and so emotional. Thank you!

  • @ruthbiafora5443
    @ruthbiafora5443 4 роки тому +3

    Thank you!! I love you for all you give.❤️

  • @idaalavioon
    @idaalavioon 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much! My dog just passed away yesterday and he was my perfect gentleman (12.5 years of pure unconditional love ❤️). I was thinking how silly we have to feel grief for so long, but I sought out your advice to understand what things will be like for me. I will focus on feeling the feelings and being self-compassionate.

  • @youlaki16
    @youlaki16 4 роки тому

    You’re such a wonderful woman, Marissa! Thank you. Please do a show on the loss of all we’re experiencing and have lost during Covid-19. I wish I could meet you in person. Sending gratitude from South Africa. 🌼

  • @lotus746
    @lotus746 4 роки тому

    Thank you Marisa for talking about this with so much respect and understanding. I been through a lot of grief and loss in my life and I’ve heard so many times that I should just not be so sad and be positive instead or think about something else and so on. People don’t respect grief or if they can’t take peoples real emotions. I’m not afraid of feelings, not mine or someone else’s. I think that’s how I survived so many heartaches is because I let myself feel. It’s really hard now beacause I’ve always had my mother to turn to and talk about how I feel, but since I lost her I have no one that really listens and that’s hard.

  • @isabelleisabelle68
    @isabelleisabelle68 4 роки тому +1

    Resilience plays also an important role in the end of grieving whatever it be (job, relationship, dear ones)... reaching resilience requires much work on the self and takes alas a lot of time also...

  • @AngeliAnjali
    @AngeliAnjali 4 роки тому +5

    Great timing!

  • @jaynewman9340
    @jaynewman9340 4 роки тому +4

    Thank you Marissa, 💜, a few weeks ago I requested if you could do one on loss and grief and you have...you look after us so well 😻, this has consumed me for so long.....I had death of a relationship, then my father, then my beautiful British Blue boy Charlie, losing a pet is also very painful, he comforted me and helped me get through when my relationship ended and losing my father...xx

    • @foxywhitetip7387
      @foxywhitetip7387 4 роки тому

      Foxy WhiteTip was our fearless leader and I never went anywhere without her for 10 years. It tortured me to watch her decline and pass 💐it seems to be opening up a Pandora’s box

  • @Misskitttyrr
    @Misskitttyrr 3 роки тому

    So true! This happened when my dad died, I got eczema all over my body and many wounds started weeping. I went to 7 different doctors then hospital. It was like this for a year.
    Thank you marissa x

    • @carlac.9268
      @carlac.9268 3 роки тому

      Can you pls do a video on ghosting by your boyfriend?it hurts cause he was a friend of mine.he did it to me while i have covid. I thought he was immature & disrespectful for leaving without a word instead of telling it straight to my face.

  • @camille29099
    @camille29099 4 роки тому

    Dear Marisa, thank you very much for your help and contribution. ❤️
    You are a great role model for women and motherhood. I learn a lot from following you.

  • @carolineschlunke
    @carolineschlunke 4 роки тому +3

    Just in the right moment ❤
    I am in denial, mixed with anger

  • @kerry-anne39
    @kerry-anne39 4 роки тому +1

    My mother died in May 2019 and my father died in December 2019. Since then my hostile and abusive siblings have taken my parent's house and money and left me out. At least I'm free of their abuse now. And my daughter has completely rejected me. I am lovable. My son is loving and caring thank God I have him, he is an absolute blessing and a beautiful loving caring and kind young man. I have developed a severe burning rash which started when my mother died and got worse when my father died, the rash has worsened it is extremely painful from all this grief.

  • @carolineschlunke
    @carolineschlunke 4 роки тому +6

    Dear Marisa could you do please a youtube video on grief about a relationship, in particular when your partner has cheated on you

  • @annobrien8942
    @annobrien8942 3 роки тому

    Thank you, you are so comforting.

  • @p.wesleyburrowsjr6576
    @p.wesleyburrowsjr6576 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for sharing this video. It really helped me.

  • @cathypage8806
    @cathypage8806 3 роки тому

    My husband died 18 months ago. Thank you so much for sharing this Marissa. I find what you have said to be very helpful and healing.
    Please could you do something about how to recover from Fibromyalgia. Thank you.

  • @darjaklemencic2668
    @darjaklemencic2668 4 роки тому

    Dear Marisa, this video is so beautiful and so natural - not forsing anyone to feel happy all the time 💞

  • @ريانة-و7ط
    @ريانة-و7ط 3 роки тому

    Bless you. Wonderful and very helpful. Thank you so much!

  • @sheilahall6327
    @sheilahall6327 3 роки тому

    Dear Marisa. Thank you for doing what you do. Your videos are wonderful and actually the best support I've found these days. Could you please consider making more videos on overcoming heartbreak and/or getting over a (difficult) relationship? How to find the courage to carry on. Again, thank you so very much.

  • @moneshaimpower
    @moneshaimpower Рік тому

    Dear Marisa, I'm following your work & implementing it in my life as well as my work... Thank you for doing what you do... Please do make a video on overcoming repeating painful life patterns...

  • @tonimcgreachan1401
    @tonimcgreachan1401 Рік тому

    Thanks so much Marissa , very helpful with my losses 🙏

  • @flamejewelry
    @flamejewelry 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much dear Marisa for the support and help understanding and going through the grief. It is so helpful 💐 could you please talk about the feelings of regret and guilt, thoutgts "if only I" etc.., during the grief. Thank you very much ❤️💐

  • @esthermungai404
    @esthermungai404 4 роки тому +1

    I love this. i have always wanted to know how to help someone to overcome grief, this is quite helpful. Thank you for sharing.

  • @martinmusokem5765
    @martinmusokem5765 2 роки тому

    Thank you Marisa for that. I appreciate .

  • @Soaring_Seajay
    @Soaring_Seajay 4 роки тому

    Thank you for this. I just put my little ferret to sleep 2 days ago and it’s been hard. You’re the best. ❤️

  • @cindycastaneda8606
    @cindycastaneda8606 3 роки тому

    Thank you Marisa! This helped me because my parents are elderly and I fear about how to cope when I do lose them one day.

  • @chriswelcome4318
    @chriswelcome4318 2 роки тому

    THANK YOU Marisa, great information. XO.

  • @kaylaarm9976
    @kaylaarm9976 4 роки тому +1

    Greetings Marisa!!!! 👏👏👏👏👏.... You hit on the point. Bingo. Loved this one. Much needed one. Could you please do a video on
    1) "To overcome self fear" and start new. I know someone who is brilliant but is not able to find the courage to start new business.
    2) How to move ahead after grief ,after getting rejected? If you already have done on these topics. Please let me the names.
    Could you please add catchy and soothing music to your videos. Thanks for bringing positivity. Love and blessings now and ever.💜💜💜💜💜

  • @ruchapusdekar.4341
    @ruchapusdekar.4341 4 роки тому +2

    I love this could you do a series on weight gain?
    There are a lot of videos out there on weight loss but hardly on weight gain for skinny girls.
    Even if I eat healthy or junk in whatever quantity I'm underweight.

  • @jaysmithcool
    @jaysmithcool 4 роки тому

    I found this to be very helpful as I am dealing with complex grief.

  • @andrea-i9q
    @andrea-i9q 3 роки тому

    Thank you Marisa for this video❤
    I lost my infant son 12 years ago.He was my third son.
    After his death I started having health anxiety.
    I have struggled with this on and off over the past 12 years.
    Listening to you speak on this video about grief makes me realise that I pushed a lot of my emotions down because I had my two other little boys to look after.
    They were 5 and 2 at the time and I did just try to "get on with it". I didn't want them seeing their mommy upset all of the time. As well, I tried to be strong around my family and friends so that they didn't worry about me.
    My question is:
    Could you please do a video on health anxiety and how to handle it? I know the grief and trauma that I went through triggered this.
    Thank you 🙏❤

  • @TrishDietlessLife
    @TrishDietlessLife 4 роки тому +1

    Hi Marisa, This in Golden information! Thanks for all you do. Much,Much love to you...🙏💞❤

  • @charliestjohn8342
    @charliestjohn8342 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you 🙏 please could I ask you for a video on moving forward from miscarriages? I have had several and am rebuilding myself up to try a forth IVF cycle. We have been trying for 7 years, the thought of these last few precious embryos failing is becoming a real strain on us. Your words would really help. Take good care and have a lovely day x

    • @АсяКузнецова-ы5м
      @АсяКузнецова-ы5м 4 роки тому +1

      Hi! Have u read Marisa's book "trying to get pregnant and succeed" ? Im pretty sure it could help u as it did to me. Even though im still healing after my loss and full of uncertainties. Im so sorry about your situation, hugs, great Mama❤️

    • @charliestjohn8342
      @charliestjohn8342 4 роки тому

      Ася Кузнецова I am very sorry for your loss, and send you peace and healing, and strength. Thank you for the recommendation, I have just bought the book, I hadn’t heard of it. Big hugs x x

  • @CarolineHRCamus
    @CarolineHRCamus 3 роки тому

    It helped a lot, thank you Marisa.

  • @rethinkingchange1319
    @rethinkingchange1319 4 роки тому

    Timely. Thank you. Please give us a follow-up on acceptance. What it is, how to get there, what it feels like, how it it expresses . . . .

  • @happyraj3396815
    @happyraj3396815 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you, you have such a beautiful heart. We lost our cat Peaches to a Cayote attack. She was only 2 1/2 and integral part of our family. I would appreciate this video. I was looking for a video on this by you and coincidently you posted it on 18 July (not really a coincident). I would appreciate if you could do one for loss of pets. Thank you and may you always flourish.

    • @shelikestuff
      @shelikestuff 4 роки тому

      I too would appreciate a pet loss video . My dog passed yesterday, somewhat unexpectedly and I’m having a really hard time . I feel so guilty like I could have done something more to help him . He was such a good dog even when dying he didn’t show he was in pain or wanted to be a burden. He is my heart and only wish I could have spent his last moment with him properly .. he was in another room when he passed and it hurts. I love him ❤️

    • @foxywhitetip7387
      @foxywhitetip7387 4 роки тому

      Guilt is a normal part of the process.

    • @foxywhitetip7387
      @foxywhitetip7387 4 роки тому

      I watched Brent Atwater videos on pet loss, she discusses the guilt factor well.

  • @Lauraisgreen
    @Lauraisgreen 4 роки тому +1

    Love this Marisa! It has helped me grieve my relationship break up

    • @MarisaPeer
      @MarisaPeer  4 роки тому

      So glad to hear this has helped 💖 Marisa Peer Team

  • @dappyolhomevideo7357
    @dappyolhomevideo7357 2 роки тому

    Thanks for this amazing podcast. It really help

  • @samzunders
    @samzunders 3 роки тому

    Thank you sooo much Marisa. I love your content. It’s heart warming and soul awakening. 🙏🏽

  • @sunandaroy4301
    @sunandaroy4301 4 роки тому +1

    This is really helpful. I am going through a painful break up from my expartner and this would help me..🙂🙂🙂 Thank you

  • @sunriseitalianbrandingnetw7495
    @sunriseitalianbrandingnetw7495 4 роки тому

    Thank you for this video... I'm having a real hard time with loss, death and suffering around me... and it's nearly driving me mad, cause I am not able to accept that really. I'm in the second half of my life already... and things affect me even more now, but anyway this was a matter since I can remember... and I'm so sad, because I often can't get over it or need a very long while to do so. It's not only about humans, but about pets as well, as I am an animal volunteer and to me animals have the very same right to live and to be mourned as humans...

  • @readwithsanjana9069
    @readwithsanjana9069 3 роки тому

    I love this video .. I noted someone of the things you said ,in my book .. and I'll follow them .. thank you so much

  • @dianakostermans5945
    @dianakostermans5945 4 роки тому

    Thank you so much Marisa for this video. I lost my dad on 15 Feb 2019.

  • @ludmilamigova3171
    @ludmilamigova3171 3 роки тому

    I like this,very helpful in difficult situation.

  • @nipaparekh1678
    @nipaparekh1678 4 роки тому

    Thank you ! Just what I needed .God bless you 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @litlgur
    @litlgur 4 роки тому

    I love it. Thank you. I love it when you explain how things are and work.

  • @gudrunerlingsdottir4590
    @gudrunerlingsdottir4590 4 роки тому

    Dear Marisa. Thank you for all your effort giving the people in the world your good advices, meditations of all kind and sofort ! I wish I could meet you in person!! I have sufferd alot - I have lost my tribe. My father died 13 years ago, my mother one and a half year after him, then I got separeated from my husband, I met 18 years old, 2013 in feb and my one and only sibling four years older than I am, he died few month later or in july that same year. I cried yes I have cried alot. But this week was seven years since my beloved brother died and me and my husband for 27 years seperated. We have both been single since '13, but my ex started seeing a woman last year and at first it wasn't bothering me much, but now it is becoming real for me. I try not to think about it, but it is hard. Our two children moved from home last year so I live alone.
    I pray for others and talked to my friends at their hard times, getting divorced or what ever... they where going through. I pray for all the people in the world that suffers - I have enough to eat and I have a home. But now I feel isolated, alone and hopeless. I am not in a good state of mind these days. I am a fighter - but it is like my light is burnt out. I have talked to thearaphists and excetera. And I agree with you that you can talk to them year after year and these are the results for me.
    You asked us to leave a comment of a subject. If you read these lines, maby you would find out a subject for people like me. I don't want to end my life middle aged.
    "How to overcome your ex that you still loves"
    "How to overcome grieving so long, as I grieve my brother"
    "How to deal with living alone after your children grow from home"
    "People always know better than me how I feel and what to do - it's annoying - sometimes you only need people to listen to you. How to answer them and react? Sometimes I don't answer my phone because I am not in the mood to deal with peole like that"
    I have never exposed myself like that on social media before. But why not? We are all humans dealing with something and I do not have to hide my grieve.
    Love and blessings to you dear Marisa - you are such a lightworker !
    And blessings all around the world 🕊♥️🕊

  • @conniestine1113
    @conniestine1113 4 роки тому

    Marisa could you please address overcoming pain from arthritis, accident, and or injury? I love your work and I'm a HUGE FAN 👏

  • @christinesilva3831
    @christinesilva3831 2 роки тому

    You’re awesome! You’ve taught me so much! I would like to know how to break up with someone you love because he’s not what I want or need, but I still have feelings for him.

  • @mngmojo2
    @mngmojo2 4 роки тому

    Dear Marisa,
    I love your content and wait everyday for your new video. Can you please make a video series on parenting. I have 2 boys 12y & 5y old. My elder one unintentionally brings my younger one down. How to have a loving nurturing relationship with children.
    Also on how parents can help build loving relationship between their children.
    Your videos have been immensely helpful.Thank you for that🙏

  • @cristelia315
    @cristelia315 4 роки тому +1

    I love you Marisa you’re the best ❤️

  • @celestehaupt3439
    @celestehaupt3439 4 роки тому

    You are truly an amazing inspiration Marisa. I love watching your UA-cam videos. Thank you!

  • @vickyrampersad785
    @vickyrampersad785 4 роки тому

    Hi Marisa, what you said about the body dealing with grief is true, it happened to me.

  • @lazartomkic8591
    @lazartomkic8591 3 роки тому

    I love listening you.You helped me so much♥️

  • @jeannebradley6272
    @jeannebradley6272 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much for this timely video. I love all your advice Marissa.

  • @1STBUCKLEY
    @1STBUCKLEY 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you

  • @usmanshahzad6718
    @usmanshahzad6718 3 роки тому

    What you do is great!!

  • @donnatownley1370
    @donnatownley1370 4 роки тому +1

    Hello Mirisa I loved this video I found it very helpful. I wondered if you could make a video about Anxiety and Covid with tips and tricks to overcome Anxiety related issues.

  • @mar6pinky
    @mar6pinky 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks Marisa, your talks are so helpful. Can you please share your thoughts on "how to get over a breakup". I would really appreciate that.