Be very careful who you tell your problems to
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- Опубліковано 9 вер 2016
- Be careful who you tell your problems to! How to recognize toxic people? Don't tell your problems to untrustworthy people. Don't tell your problems to fake friends. How to solve your problems? Don't tell everyone your problems? People who gossip a lot. Venting out your problems. Never tell your problems. Telling your problems.
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Never share information about yourself to anyone, I don't care how close someone is, don't do it.
I segregate my family and friends. I categorise everyone, I'll have friends that don't know each other, I do the same at work with colleagues, and with family. I've used this system since I was a teenager, it works a treat.
Ur doing it right! I always knew this rule but picked and chose when to use it. Now I follow it to the t!
I do the same damn thing. I keep my friendships separate for a reason. Less room for gossip lol.
@@heart-2-heart-talks-with-tj could you explain this rule in details I didn’t understand sorry?
Yep
Same here. I am a loner and I don't like to share anything that is personal to people.
Yes...narcissist or Psychopaths enjoy listing to you then destroy you after with that information you gived them! You got to be very careful
Not just narcs and psychos. Jealous people...they are ready to unleash it on you
And bordelines very evil people.
I have learned no need To be an open book
mimi richman Preach!!!
I learned that most people hate for you to be happy or progress in life. I learned that even the folks that seem genuinely caring are so deceptive in heart ❤️ I take it to God when I am unsure about stuff or have problems that I need wisdom in solving. Love ❤️ you Tyler for your wisdom
I'll never forget how a family friend of my aunt didn't have anybody to talk to about her problems and told her about years of domestic abuse. This woman was in such a disgusting situation, she couldn't leave her abuser because she had kids with him, she was just looking for a friend. Of course, my aunt said she wouldn't tell anybody. The moment she closed the phone she started gossiping about her with numerous people on Skype, Viber etc. Literally everybody knew about it a couple of minutes after the woman had shared her story.
What a nasty, nasty human being.
what she should do is divorce him and take payment for his abuse.
@@fairymairah Haven't heard from her since, I don't know what she's done
@@brooklynsbaby4367 I'm sorry about the situation.
@@fairymairah don't worry, It's not your fault
I’m in the same situation and divorce is NOT easy especially when you have limited money because of the abuser. And when you’ve been isolated etc. You gotta be in the situation to understand smh
I don't tell my business. People tell me that I'm a closed book lol I like it that way because it keeps me safe. Telling people your business will give them power to put you on blast. I have a lot of deep secrets that I'm taking to the grave. There are some things that I went through that even my female friend doesnt know about. She tells me waaay more than I tell her. But she also has a habit of telling me all her other friends business...smh. Also when you tell people your business they may not give a damn!!!!!
Hey Lady :)
Wassup Poppin..I cut someone off I am healing and greiving from her . I feel like it bad vides from her.. but at the same time people don't care about no one but themselves..
@@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 Heyyy Im.so sorry to hear that. It's hard to cut people off especially when you have a long history with them. But it's all for the best. You have to look for your sanity!!!!
He is right! They may use your problems against you, so be careful who you tell anything to.
In that sense all you end up doing is opening yourself up to trouble and the person your telling your problems to makes matters worse for you. They take advantage of your awful situation and add insult to injury.
Never say too much about your achievements, success or issues. I've learned that God is the only one to Trust and get help from. Miracles do happen when we believe in the Creator
I don't tell people my problems they really have to earn it
Roger Baptiste. I don't blame you because I do the same thing. Thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.
You are right about this man you got to keep somethings to yourself man i don't trust my co workers or some of my family members
Thank you. It's been my biggest mistake in the world which ruined my future. Bad people can turn it against you, sadly sometimes it can be family. Be careful. People can be evil and have agendas. And they'll turn it all against you.
Great vid, I wish I knew this sooner, many years back. Much love & peace ✌
learned the hard way
I’m sorry to hear that. Hopefully everything is alright with you now.
Family can be the most insidious. You don't have to tell them your fears and failures. They already know.
My biggest problem. It been blowing up in my face.
I'm very private keep things to myself
Straight facts!!!! My cousin turned on me after years of saying she had my back smh but it’s no animosity I pray for her everyday because people like that need help for real
Wowww! Thank u for this video! I feeling like crying! I thought I could trust an older woman at my church who o thought was my godmother and she proved me wrong! I recently cut her off 2 weeks ago! So toxic! Everything in this video is so on point and I’m grateful you clarified my inner voice. I feel so much better! Thank u! I’m
Never confiding in anyone’ but god! Take ur problems to the creator or whatever foundation u have! Thank u aTyler, god is truly using u!!!
You got watch those type people.. they just want to bring you down
Amen.. so true they are not trust worthy.
Sharon Anderson. Thank you so much for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.
Ty..Tyler Have a awesome day
They dont care...they'll just bully you then blame you for their bad reaction....its sad but when the table is turned they be crying and shit...lol
Thank you Tyler
You are a true gift from GOD
God bless you and protect you always
I’ve learned this the hard way
Tyler You are so right
Omg Tyler absolutely spot on
I am changing fast And not discuss my problems with a lot of untrustworthy people/ family members
Yes I am finding out all the time the people that just want to hear my problems purely for them to gossip
Even over the last few weeks I have seen through 2 fake people
I have caught them out lying but I didn't let them know
I now will be pulling right back
I don't trust them
More then lightly I will cut ties with them
I am changing too really quick ... I just alot of people .. I am working on Instagram also. People love taking advantage of other people
Great truthful video, Be careful even with family .
Thanks again Tylor you are right once again. People care about themselves . it is rare these days to find a caring person you can really hv confidence in. I Agree with you and you I believe are one of the rare people.
Yeah.. but see the ones who care about themselves always getting hurt ...from experience
I know Right. there are no good Samaritans these days !
Best to journal and just tell counsellor
Victoria Campbell Or go to GOD with it!
Victoria Campbell you have to be careful counselor too.
@@asill.6668 +1
americanpriness1 So true I had that experience so now I just write in my journal and talk to God and few close friends!
@@americanpriness1 I agree. most psychiatrists. therapists. councerlers. and more are not much helpful. and instead of trying to help people solve their problems. they give out un-nessesary medication that they might not need !
I really love how tell both types of people in the video so they can stop .
You're right Tyler they care as much about you as a stop🛑 sign out there👏
I love when you get crunk at the end!
The only way to avoid disappointment is to become rooted in truth. God help me because I'm disappointed whenever I'm naive enough to trust another person
I can relate
Don't trust anyone..it's easier and less trouble l
I have to learn this the hard way. Wish I knew when I was young so I don’t make this mistake. Now I make sure my kids don’t do the same.
Tyler, I totally agree on your stance to not tell people ur problems unless they earn it. Indeed not everyone in society is trustworthy. How sad but so true.
General O. Thank you so much for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.
You're absolutely right, but what's the best way release the negative problem that affects psychologically specifically there's no many trust worthy friends or family?
Thank you
jane170 pay counselor to unload :-)
I started a new job recently and my friend tried to get me to tell him how much I make. Nice try buddy but never again lmfaooo
There's people who say to me they are in my best interest. I don't believe that. It is starting to scare me but I refuse to live in fear. I just don't share anything personal.
I just happened to watch this video of yours, & I wanted to thank you for making it. I really appreciated the points and stuff that you made in it.
and I hear exactly what you're saying, because personally speaking, I do not post anything about my problems on Facebook or anywhere else on the internet.
Why not? Well because quite frankly it's nobody else's business what my personal problems are. & I got to say this also that I hate people who constantly trying to pump others for information, and who come in others with a phony smile acting like they care, when reality all they care about is getting information about you.
Another reason why I don't like these social media sites, is because of people get on there brag about their problems, they also at times will also muddy another person's reputation, especially if that person did them wrong, whether that was intentional or not.
Personally, if I'm having a disagreement somebody I'm not going to go and muddy their reputation all over the internet. I'm not going to mention their name, I'm not going to mention anything about having a disagreement with that person, I'm not going to do that at all.
Why?
Because frankly I don't believe it that's right, I don't believe that that is the right way to do something. That's the kind of bullshit that you see going on in grade school!
I firmly believe if you have a problem with somebody, that you should have the decency to walk over and tell it to that person's face.
The Cowboy. So true in what you spoke here. Peace and blessings to you.
I have a big problem about opening up to people who I hardly don't know about my personal business about inside my home. I hate this about myself cause it hurts and I can't help it. A female friend in my congregation had to tell me to be very careful of how much I say to anyone.
I was just thinking ten minutes that I need not tell my friend my problems and have been avoiding it and then this video came up as soon as I got on UA-cam. Thanks for the confirmation. Love your channel.
That's right Tylor !!
Thanks alot,Tyler,you are beyond your years,the beautiful part about this is it only backfire for the backstabbers, the dog that brings the bone,also carry the bone.from Ms.tonya
i only tell them what i want them to know im private person
Tyler you are the truth! 🙌💯
Love your videos, so unique.
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏SALUTE!
Hello, I don't have problems. Its life
@Joe Sawyeryeah but not a problem! if you believe it then you be it.... as I state it's life...its whatever you feel it is.... peace and love 💋
They'll take it and use it against you later on down the road.☹️☹️☹️
wow thank you, your videos really help me self evaluate and answers some of my concerns
Absolutely ❤❤Thank you so much 🙏🙏
Jonalyn Solijion. You're so welcome. Thank you for your comment.
Thank you so much Tyler you are so right
Thank you this the truth
Great Video Daphne Cotton. INCREDIBLE BROTHER GOD BLESS YOU RIGHT! ●Castano BROWN FAMILY!
Daphne Rodriquez. Thank you so much for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.
Thats Why I dont share much. Even if I do,its very superficial ,for example- if x harmed me , i will share it as " u cannot trust ppl these days,i too have had interactions with such ppl"
This way u are neither giving out the precise info,yet u are not being bashed for being ' too reserved'
Be very measured about who you put your trust in, there is one thing you must listen to and that is your gut, if you think there is a doubt about that person you will be 100% correct and don’t share , I made that mistake with my family members and they went to town on me m I had to cut them off , I learned the hard way
They will also use the information you've gave them against you. As always another great post Tyler. Thanks.
I love yo videos stg kinda like my therapy ❤️💯
Be careful who you trust and who you tell your problems to because not everyone who smiles at you is not your friend
What about those that eavesdrop on your conversation when you tell your problems... idk how true it is that someone can hack on your conversation onto the phones...so it's hard to express my feelings knowing there's nosey people out here.
“That boy And then lol “wassup✌️
💯💯sad within our ppl we are support one another unfortunately it’s not like that
True
Learned the hard way, a teacher exploited the secrets I confided to him about and started a network of people at my school to bully, harass, antagonize, provoke and to share the information amongst many more in the process. Had to drop out of school by force because my life started to get put at risk. The whole situation exposed a lot of enemies who wished for my downfall which happened to be my closest friends and other friends. Would’ve been nice to walk the stage whether I had friends by my side or not but at the very least I would’ve had my diploma and created a great memory for years to come while making my mom so proud in the process. Graduating late but that’s fine, bottom line people don’t trust anyone. People can really put on a good role as if they genuinely understand and care for you but in reality they seek to destroy you and your pathway to success. Trust in God and not in the flesh. Demons exist and they look like us.
How I wish I’ve seen this video 3yrs ago
Heh, I had to tell like so many special needs teachers on how…I got to the point where I came to school and just sat there and do nothing all day LMAOOOO.
Keep up the great work. I love this video. That's why I don't tell anyone my problems. Til I can handle it on my own accord, I am selective on who to talk to about taking advice on how to handle my problems. Peace ✌😘
Man yall need to learn how to journal or talk to a thrapist. Seriously.
That's sometimes Good. but what if you have Family speaking for your Againsts your will !? Especially if they spread rumors about you !
Really appreciate ur kindness to help others.Your advice are quite feminine in a sense(more of the heart/feelings)because most mentor or advicer on utube teach or advice with philosphy which not everyone love or can comprehend(its too much of the head).I guess it work for some people especially some females.🖒🖒
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I suggest giving your Problems to God !
My husband and sibling would ask me what is wrong and act like they really want to know but turn right around and get smart. Once my husband said "what the hell do you got to worry about" and that was the last time I told him any of my problems, he had to find out by snooping into my life.
Come on with this word