When People Act Like This, They Secretly Hate You

[@TrayDayX]

The worse part is they will invite you over just to play you

[@PL-tj5sd]

Right! That is soo weird! Why do they do that?!? 🤔

[@mondliedwin4857]

Childish

[@lorraine497]

Keep distance

[@tcampbell1676]

Learning to use discernment when it comes to people can save you from unnecessary bs.

[@lorraine497]

Learning this the hard way

[@lorraine497]

Pple don't like progress

[@bbbggg7392]

I literally just explained this to my mom. You have to be sober minded and watchful of the company you keep. Trust your discernment. Evil and wickedness always reveals itself.

[@just4dalaughters431]

Jealousy is like a disease, anybody can catch it. They will start calling ur success bragging.

[@ay-tj7pj]

Yup, they will say you are humble bragging when you are being humble and will say you are bragging when you are just trying to share what's going on with your life. You could never win with toxic people, they only see negativity.

[@religion-free]

people think just talking & outing
about jealous people is bragging

[@ronaldmay5819]

SUCCESS breeds haters.
No one hates on people below them so if they are hating on you it's because your above them.
Don't stoop to their level, just leave em and forget em.

[@theinsightfulvisionary0197]

You're right about that!!!

[@Demon34N]

Read it backwards and haters breed success. Haha 😂

[@mistermoo7602]

That's not true at all, people are far more likely to punch down. There's tons of middle-class people who look down on working class and tradesmen while viewing them as obstacles that prevent people who are well-off from having even more success.

[@Destiny11wwww]

You would be surprised

[@jay07261986]

​@@mistermoo7602both instances are forms of ego trippin

[@xq39]

I notice when friends start being overly critical of you or they always posting them being with friends without you thats time to walk away.

[@PearlTheSpinster]

Ppl that think a person removing toxic ppl from your life means you think you are better than them are in fact toxic AF and should be on the removal list too

[@richardcalderon613]

No its not not dealing with idiots you sound ridiculous

[@stevejr.1077]

When they say that they really mean "they think you ARE better than them" it's a way for them to try and guilt trip you for bettering yourself. Some people just don't want to be left behind.
You see this same example everywhere. Like when someone decides to gain muscle there's always someone who will say "oh they're using steroids" or someone who gets beat in a game/competition you'll they will resort to "you're cheating"!
It's just the constant Downplaying. They know you're doing the damn thing. It's an attempt to throw you off so you can go down to their level and when you're on their level they won't see you as someone who is better than them. Not a threat to their ego.

[@stevejr.1077]

You probably already knew this I felt the need to write it out.
#confirmation #affirmation

[@Bliss226]

What's funny is I got called toxic for doing exactly that. I had removed a person from my friend group cause they wanted to keep the worst type of people in their life, I mean all the serious red flags. Their mom died and I was trying to be there for them cause I experienced the same passing earlier than same year. I told them I don't want to talk about these people, while I was cooking them dinner. They kept crossing my boundaries bringing them up so I said what was on my mind about these individuals, and got called toxic for not wanting them and their crazy ex in my life.

[@mohammedghalebalmadani239]

True AF!

[@millionmiledriver]

Just be careful. There are times when the Ego gets too big and we simply assume people are jealous.

[@EgyptianWaters]

Mind=blown 🤷‍♂🙇‍♂

[@json9368]

Yea that’s true

[@teresacondon33333]

This is not the ego once u outgrow the ego u become your true self then ppl are jealous cause they still have masks it's not ego but first you will need to go through that.

[@KiyoAloto]

Yeah true but trust yr gut. Backbiting people dont hide well.

[@PassportBrosAndBlondeManWeaves]

@@teresacondon33333 exactly

[@tkkinlaw]

Yup people mad weird nowadays. 😂 💎💎💎

[@kingdomreturn304]

Bro also Bro talking got a healing voice to detox which is good.
I was gonna was just doing my shopping normal, theres this girl that works there,
she stares at me hard when I shop there.
Maybe shes frustrated you know whats the D, she just needs to talk a bit and go from there lol.
Im not sure why she does it, maybe something in my person shes looking lol.

[@maxwell9734]

If you accidentally pinch your finger in the car door, .. and, you hear them Snicker.. or, if you drop something on the ground, right next to them and they just look at it.. and laugh when you get down to pick it up. .. notice the subtle actions they do.

[@Jacobytru]

I deleted my FB with everyone on there. I don’t like seeing what others are doing, and it didn’t make any difference. You know why? My phone is still dry. I changed my number too and gave it to a certain few.

[@user-qp2kj9gb4b]

100

[@lorraine497]

I mind my business

[@lorraine497]

When you elevate or shine pple tryna dim your light or destroy u

[@lorraine497]

Or just wanna see you secretly fail

[@AlexAlex64696]

I wanted to delete mines but I had stuff on there I only got like 90 people on it tho

[@stevenwelty3579]

I have had this problem. With a coworker. I was always nice to this person. Never understood it.

[@poetsrear]

Trauma. Negative parents. Didn't learn affection of positive emotion. Only double sized range of negative emotion. And they know dirty was donw to them so they hate happy/positive people, because they aren't taught how to be that and they're jealous. So instead of admitting this and asking "hey man how to be as cool as you are?" they do the only thing they know....

[@Nerey1997]

Coworkers aren't friends don't get emotionally invested in them. Focus on your money.

[@nevercashingout]

@@Nerey1997LMFAO rs if you don’t speak outside work they’re not friends

[@justin219]

I avoid girl coworkers as much as possible even former one

[@user-ix4wn1th5m]

Sometimes a person needs to end the relationship. It can become toxic and the negativity can bring upon resentment.

[@FernandoIfillRuiz]

That’s absolutely true most of the times the individual himself/herself have to end it before it gets worse and it’s too late.

[@user-ix4wn1th5m]

@@FernandoIfillRuiz Yes

[@HandofHolmes]

Facts. Once it starts… there ain’t no stopping it. I hurt myself more trying to reconcile and heal relationships/groups with people who just wanted my spot. I’m just putting all the energy back into myself now… that’s what makes them mad. If you’re working in yourself/your projects, you don’t really have time for ‘em anyways.

[@RareCamo1233]

I just feel like I'm living in lonely future times that's all

[@beverlysmith6539]

It's no secret who doesn't like us! Who cares! Love yourself live your best life!

[@mam9475]

Family moves like this too

[@pendafen7405]

Why do people talk badly behind your back when you're in a depressive non-productive period, though? I've experienced that so much, relatives and friends grinning in my face and acting supportive, only for me to find out they're all maliciously gossiping and complaining about me or laughing at me in private. What is that about? Where does it come from? Because it can't be jealousy.

[@myharmonybody]

It makes them feel better about their miserable lives. Them talking about you takes the focus off of what they are not doing

[@audreyquinn73]

There is a German word which does not have a direct translation into English: Schadenfreude. It means "damage-joy" or a person who takes pleasure in another person's suffering or misfortune. It's a narcissistic trait stemming from a person's contempt for you because even if you fail to reach your goal, you display more courage in the attempt to reach your dreams, and they are jealous of your strength.

[@pendafen7405]

@@audreyquinn73 ooh this is really interesting and insightful, thanks. So to be clear, it's about gossipers wanting to make sure we don't get praise or attention for living our truth and aiming to be better, even if we're kind of flopping?

[@NarcSlayer912]

Facts 💯 When I found out that the people around me didn't really like me like that (and never really did 👈🏾😬) I began keeping my distance and being cool with being my own friend. Aint nobody got time to be in a secret competition I don't even know I am in just to compete with you in your mind for a spot you think you can take from me that only exist within the limits of your own insecurities. Seek help instead ✌️🏾🤡

[@kavijackson868]

Frienemies are the worst!!!

[@maddog11ful]

The golden rule- treat others how you want to be treated, even if they hate you.

[@wizard8437]

Mmm… but don’t sit there and allow them to drain your energy.. dead weight cut them off.
Logically speaking most humans never PICK THEIR FRIENDS. You’re friends with people because you were forced. Either school or a job and you made friends with them there. That is the importance of travel, hobbies and money.
Because you get to go out of your way and pick people who are like you and match with you better than anyone you were forced to meet and you had commonalities that pushed friendship THROUGH CIRCUMSTANCE.
Circumstance like not being a loner, weird, having friends etc. this doesn’t mean they aren’t your friends etc but they aren’t chosen.

[@VemjayiOS]

No.

[@Populous1]

All of Y'all stay mad.

[@Populous1]

@user-zn7gd3lb8e What's good is that you all do not understand Hate, let alone why someone might Hate.

[@Populous1]

@user-zn7gd3lb8e Your world is ending because of Spirits you chose to torment.

[@devonkahananui9939]

Sometimes, hate is confused admiration.

[@nameunavailable8995]

🫨🤔‼️

[@victoriaanderson863]

Nicely said 👌 👏 👍 😀

[@Natalia-eb4yb]

If they acted sour and talked bad about you on top of it for you succeeding, they weren't your friends. If someone repeats information that you said you wanted just between you to your ( ex friends ?) or anyone, that's invading your privacy.
I've had bad experiences with abusive people and one of the first signs was over complimenting or over helpful and then making little critiques all the time or acting sour when I'm talking about my goals or achievements. If a person acts like that and you get a sick feeling, get away from them and don't look back. That person is an abuser , maybe even has a cluster b personality disorder and if that's the case, they'll do everything to destroy you and everything you worked for and hold dear and blame you for it and act like you're disordered and crazy. Avoid people that want to one up you too because that's another sign of a controlling abuser. That behavior isn't funny. It's about control.
Good for you and don't feel bad for wanting to better yourself and be around healthier people.
Thank you for sharing.

[@khaeyenen3163]

"friends" are a waste of time.

[@PulseRELOADED]

I can certainly relate to this , as soon as i started to level up in life ppl from my past started talking shyt on me outta nowhere, i was like damn i thought we was tight . Where tf did this come from?

[@joan3115]

So, um... There is a thin line between love and hate. Haters are nothing but your undercover and secret LOVERS. Your existence triggers them, but their triggers are not your problem. Keep shining! 🧚😇✌🏽

[@naomisoze2862]

Then They Copy & ACT Like They Came Up With YOUR Brilliance 😂

[@DerrickJohnson-hl2iu]

I've been though this before, this is why i stay to myself.

[@jacknjill3000]

When you do well or better than your friends, they get jealous and start hating on you. I’ve had that happen many times. But when my friends do well, I’m really happy for them or I want to be doing just as well and I look at as positive influences.
Only a few can avoid being jealous and secured with themselves. Lots of fake haters out there and I had to learn this the hard way.

[@Talore-Evans]

If people hate you without cause, it's because they hate themselves first and are projecting onto you. Sometimes people don't make the grade that qualifies them to be human. When that is seen, it's best to cut your losses and move on.

[@Stars12291]

This is spot on brother! If someone hates you, then it's more than one person hating you. Then it becomes difficult to thrive to the top!

[@hyemuhyemu8221]

Jealousy is a bih behavior. Men that get jealous of other men AREN'T men. I'm gonna have to throw hands on these haters, including my brother

[@AreoSky]

lloyd banks said in a song
"envy hides behinds compliments, so watch who you take them from"

[@squirrall]

Hey, needed this.
Been going through this after I started a new job I’ve been working towards since I graduated. Just into our 30s now and majority of them friends didn’t do similar or flunked out first year by not trying.
If you’re reading this, prioritize yourself and don’t be like me. I was empathetic for too long and for 10 years I allowed myself to downplay my success. I let myself believe I was being a good friend by not talking about what I had going on. Not being my full potential or being happy for my successes because I thought I didn’t want to embarrass them infront of their family or other with my own family if I was asked how I was doing.
Because sooner or later, those people were the only ones asking how I was doing and these ‘friends,’ only seemed interested if I wasn’t doing okay.
Again, cut it off sooner if you’re going though something similar and you’re only so many months or a few years into it. It’s not worth it. You’re growing and you can’t make yourself stagnant for them.

[@KBlade1]

This. Thanks. 🔥

[@jjfreshkilla2630]

Had too loose a lot of people when I got successful amount of people that hate on you is weird all you have to do is grind

[@naomisoze2862]

Embrace Your Isolation ❤ Tell Nobody Nothing, They Will Do Anything To Undo Your Good Doing.. Remain Powerful, Everyone 🔥

[@AlexAlex64696]

I've had family do that to me but I learned my lesson 💯

[@FallenSummer84]

Envy and jealousy are the key factors

[@david_gaia]

the more i level up with my habits, the more weird looks i get from people i grew up with in my hometown. this one guy from my past didn't even recognize me when i went to pick up some food the other day. idk why people hate when u want the best for yourself.

[@aarefahahmed5532]

Very true, I've had to let go of everyone, it's not only about what u have also just the type of person u are, even after u end things they still watch u, and can even try to reconnect like nothing was ever spoken lol

[@prvdvnge1]

feelings of inadequacy can be hard to deal with ngl gotta feel like you prove your worth or sum I got better with it by realizing and re-realizing nothing is without work and also the feeling of getting good at that you were ass at is like an ecstasy or at least for me

[@prvdvnge1]

wont ever get a big head tho im a beginner always

[@MissOne]

Two words...
UNHEALED TRAUMA 😢

[@pamelarolston9905]

Leave well and leave well enough alone! When you know the vibe between you is not the same anymore!!! 😏👏🏻

[@brianhlp30]

thanks for sharing dude. been going through this alot lately with old friends.

[@thethe4665]

Tell nobody nothing!!! They will mess up up

[@josebro352]

What a shame that people see success as having "THINGS". This country sucks. My brother lives in Portugal and society is so different there.

[@Tovenciplay]

Really? so what does success means overthere if its not having Things

[@josebro352]

@@Tovenciplay They don't attach importance to acquiring material goods like America does. They also don't have the 'keeping up with the Joneses mentality' that Americans do. Success over there means a job well done or a long and happy marriage. Here in the US it means you have the latest iPhone and the biggest house on the street and you're a showoff. It's soul crushing and sad how someone could have just received their bs in sociology from Harvard and chose to join the peace corps and help others in foreign countries instead of joining the rat race in America and that person wouldn't be viewed as "successful". The hard earned degree means nothing in comparison with a new Lexus. How sad.

[@jessw.6250]

Well I was doing the opposite going downhill w/severe depression. But, I never told my friends. 1 friend would answer my text a day or 2 after. I asked them to let me know at least a day before when they want to hangout but, they kept asking the day of. So I ghosted them.

[@Cubandragon99]

R E S P E C T .

[@neverresign7248]

Make sure you listen, people have a tendency to reveal themselves in questions they ask questions.

[@Annais1211]

Very wise words.
Thank you.

[@xxxenaaa1993]

No - u could be the struggling one and *they* STILL *hate* yoU and THATS a deeper discussion . Destiny stealing is REAL

[@QuietMrShh]

And you have better things than I do and you jealous of me how.
You got a house im in an apartment why would you be jealous of that?

[@xxxenaaa1993]

@@QuietMrShh it’s that priceless *GOD GIVEN JOY* money could neva buy … it’s dat *lIght* yoU kno?

[@QuietMrShh]

@@xxxenaaa1993 but you really want them to win and you be trying to put the light on them and they try and sh*% on you.

[@danielsosanya1381]

​@@QuietMrShh I learned from my life jealousy isn't just about who has more or less. Someone can be jealous of you if they feel inadequate or inferior in any way. For example a rich person could be jealous of a broke person because the broke person has more charisma or is more comfortable in their own skin or to them has a better sounding voice. It's crazy but people get jealous & hate on the most miniscule things

[@Sha-uy3hm]

Be careful & always stay mindful

[@Wize2Wizdom]

Yep! They been falling off left and right.. I'm done playing small for people

[@spaciousgrace3816]

Maybe when the jealousy occur in the other person, as a friend, you should be there to give them a sense of security in hopes of them to gain a key towards success.
Majority of the times it turns into a shit show because of the way you’d respond to them. Always be poised and keep it real with yourself.

[@ezothezoe]

What plies say What's in my pocket dawg? Big face hundreds
Just left the mall, bought everythang that I wanted
I kinda mad with you haters, I'm real disappointed
Cause what you didn't tell the people is I got plenty money (Okay)
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑

[@malcolmwhite6204]

Hi Keith, my name is Malcolm White, and I just wanted to say that I am such a big fan of your UA-cam educational channel, and the contents that you post about are so spot-on. And also, the value that you add to your video topics are absolutely incredible, and insightful as well. Please keep continuing to do this brilliantly motivational page up, and running, my good friend 👍. PS: Do you think that you can please do a video topic, and analysis about why men should have street smarts in their own lives? If you don't mind?

[@0888peter]

John 3:16, 14:6 KJV
Keep speaking the truth!

[@bradmiller7741]

💯💯💯💯💯💯 it’s easy, to just sit back & … HATE !!

[@socialstealthh]

Not the group chat 😂

[@poetsrear]

CESSPIT OF HABITUAL LOSERS UNCONSCIOUSLY COMFORTING EACHOTHER WITH UNDEAD INSIDE JOKES ON REPEAT AND EVERYTHINGS SUPPOSED TO BE SO FUNNY ALL THE TIME ALTHOUGH IT'S NOT.

[@everettelderberry5362]

I’m Going Through the Same Thing, I’m Getting Ready to Do Something That Has Never Been Done in History! And I Lost All My Friends! Shit is Fucked! I Can’t Explain it All But I Manifested Something and Documented the Whole Process! The World’s Going to Change. I’m Doing it So I Can Prove to People and Teach them How. It Took 7 Years Man! 24 Hours a Day! Lol For Real! I’m Almost Done! !

[@1ROCKY89]

Good message moving forward we outgrow the ego world focus on yourself and be open to learn every moment praise God ✌️

[@akxsha]

Hi wanna let you know don't fret over the back handed comments these bots or secret haters that you know of says about you. The guilt and irritation shows among in their energy. Caught a live one didn't you? 😂😂

[@meowmeowmeow-7040]

you are a solid individual

[@Hiphopcracy23]

Some of those people are real too bro they just realize you came up and now it's time for them to do the same and it's not going to happen with you around

[@stevenwelty3579]

Haters gonna hate

[@NicoleSimon-uc6dc]

Good for you King 👑

[@vanessaskin]

Appreciate you Keith! Great video and vibes!

[@seedsowersofisrael.4660]

I can agree. A lot of this is caused by Sowers of Discord as well

[@vannarooski8730]

I used to be so excited to see my best friend I’d come in the door dancin and doodlydooing..just happy to be away from home and the kids and hubby just to chit chat and have some we time and I get told somethin is wrong with me I’m taking a bunch of pills and such and what does she need a friend like me for (I’d pop by randomly and tidy up the house after they left to have fun with grandkids so she wouldn’t have to come home to the disaster that was made just trying to leave somewhere with 3 grandkids.)
I was so sad that that chapter with her in my life was over. I knew right then and there she didn’t like me anymore.

[@shellyfoust6812]

True. I lost some weight and instead of my so called friend encouraging me to keep up the good work or say that,I look good, she said now that you lost weight nobody can tell you nothing now. I didn't comment on what she said but it made me think was she really my friend

[@Tovenciplay]

First if all losing some weight is healthy just you have to make sure you’re doin it the right way fun fact: not everyone can achieve or maintain the weight they have lost
If she did say keep it up thats not bad not to take it personally

[@2021noname]

Keith, rinse your mouth with 1/2 water and 1/2 peroxide and wash your face and hair with gold dial liquid soap please brother

[@MissOne]

😮

[@01MJ10]

Thank you for sharing 💜🙏🏾🌸

[@sayusayme7729]

Thank you, loving and learning. 🌌

[@Unique247official]

genuine facts here

[@Killerwhale317]

Make sure you dont smell funky, people hate that too.

[@illzwillzwatuz963]

If you don't like the way your life is designed to change your actions and or change your mind

[@marklouis1890]

We're a the villain in someone else's story and also whether we are alive or dead somebody is going to talk about us and it won't always be in the best light. So just leave your life the best way that you see fit

[@COWABUNGA92]

Thank you Keith

[@tinahuley1712]

Deep jewels 💎 thanks 🙏

[@HelloMyFavoriteVids]

Make sense because I noticed that with a guy that I was closed to and he would tell me he was doing stuff to fix his car then my car was in need of work and I fixed it faster and he stopped talking about it 😂

[@lacadmin2844]

It's a good thing I don't have friends or family

[@stacypalma8637]

New levels new devils -

[@donnahall-kumar333]

If the golden rule applies to All situations then why did I Am that I Am send Moses to Pharaoh? 👀👂👂✨

[@OfficialSevenFaced]

life hurts

[@AllNightTNT]

Good work here. Worth a sub. Keep it comin! I can resonate with this pretty well right now

[@teresacondon33333]

Hi all yeap i love when you say how are they when you talk to them like if they go on their phone ,walk out the room, always do something and not give u full attention, when u give full everything u see its not a match see it and then they will come back abit more to you its like a game but who wants games 😁 your support # 🎉❤

[@Kikiuni]

Well said!

[@ismailpatel7222]

I agree 1 billion percent true brother

[@KeithWatkins-vo5he]

Right on King

[@JusDion]

question is if youve got friends how tf did you get successful on your own?
Alot of ppl have friends but dont know how to be one.
You said you were taking steps to make your life better, did you not have you friends in the room/conversation with you?
There's hella ppl that are conditioned into saying i did it by myself.
sound like you the type to leave yo girl at home go to the gym and come home mad that shes gaining weight. when your a man relationships arent 50/50 its my will against yours. if my will has value for my family i cannot leave them to fail thats called a deadbeat.

[@NST-H]

Thank you for this

[@johnlui887]

I did being extremely jealous to a girl, collegue who joined our team later than me, like 6 months later, she got more popular, work better, more recognition, everybody likes her, she used to work under me
I just cannot imagine people compare me to her, like saying how could she need to work under him, just mad think about that, and start raging

[@Tovenciplay]

At least you can admit to yourself of being jealous once

[@user-fo5gc8rf9k]

Got this video sent by my homie just because I didnt wanna hang out yesterday I mean come on bro

[@rik-keymusic160]

I don’t have any friends anymore

[@noveltycrusade]

That's what I'm goin for ❤

[@SHAJE-ASMR]

Your face is so beautiful.

[@Sha-uy3hm]

At least your young and get it now ❤

[@0n0ff53]

What brand are the glasses you are wearing. I like that style - need glasses too.

[@conscientiousobjector5988]

Delusions. Moving on... 😌

[@charlenehartfiel7580]

Hello dearie
Am new to your channel
Much love ❤

[@IncredibleMeep]

My boy recorded this in hdr

[@elankhamanicastillo]

you have such beautiful features

[@bterry6164]

💯💯💯

[@veredcohen9079]

A handsome guy

[@mlmajortodaleague147]

💯