Religion makes you do that. Now I have most my questions answered and even if they won’t amswer anything else, my assumptions are straight up near correct.
As someone who left an abusive and controlling marriage(I was slightly older married at 24, divorced at 30), there are so many red flags here. I had no idea what red flags were at 24, so I really feel for her.
BouncyTrouncy she didn’t attend Christina’s pregnancy announcement, quit the band and their parents and sisters seem not to approve of Emmyn. They didn’t comment on it or liked the pics on Instagram. Emmyn made his mum organise the wedding with just his parents and none of her family members. He came wearing a beanie, it’s his first relationship and he seems really immature and obsessed with her. They are not even together for a year and they do not address any of the controversy. Dani’s tics got way worse. Ofc it could have different reasons, but it just feels wrong watching them.
i read and see a lot of things about toxic relationships and all the things dani is doing since they got married like leaving the band, not being with their family and friends, he's always intoropiting her. all this things are red flags for me, because they are things that happens in toxic relationship, so im kinda afraid that dani is in a toxic relationship (sorry if my english is bad)
i have not read one positive comment about their marriage. yes, it is their lives, but it seems odd that this many people have a weird feeling about this marriage.
im completely ok with the fact that they wanted a small wedding. but dani has always (from what we can tell) had a good relationship with her sisters and parents. suddenly NONE of them are invited to the wedding, just emmyn's parents. if dani never got along with her parents, thats fine but the fact that emmyn's parents were invited but dani's were not (even though there is nothing wrong with their family as far as we can tell) is a bit suspicious.
it's kinda bizarre thinking about it now, because like Dani has like 10 siblings. so like basically 10 siblings and both parents will fill up the entire wedding venue IF THEY WERE INVITED
I don't think she was trying to alienate the Cimorellis. I think she was just trying to be realistic as was possible with the seating capacity at the time. After all, she was told the venue could only hold about 12 people, and that was the amount of people just from the Calleiros alone; and naturally, since Emmyn's mom was the one organizing the event, she was understandably gonna prioritize HER family 'cause I'm sure they all wanted to be there ro celebrate the occasion. What would you have rather had her initially do -- include one half of the Calleiros and one half of the Cimorellis, and then exclude the other half of both families? 'Cause I'm sure that would've seemed just as devious, if not more devious! Besides, in the end, they made it work for both families, so there's no need to villainize Emmyn's mom
@@Star_Jewel But how would she feel if she was left out of the wedding like that? I just think she shouldn't have agreed to organize the wedding without the bride's family especially when the bride is so young
@@lalla3625 We may never know the full reasoning behind it. Let's just be grateful both their families got to attend the ceremony and celebrate the momentous occasion
I know we don’t have any right to know about what’s going on, but please address what people are confused about. There so many red flags. 1. Not inviting her family originally. 2. The behaviors everyone is seeing, especially that Dani’s ticks are revealing themselves a little more (sometimes due to stress and anxiety). 3. It’s very obvious that she’s being isolated from her family. It’s all about Emmyn’s family and his mom. I got married at 19. It’s not about your age. It’s about your husband potentially being dangerous and toxic and everyone who loves you, is very clearly worried about you. Especially your sisters, who have had your back since the day you were born.
Zoë stop please! Emmyn probably reads these comments you know! Calling someone you only see for a few minutes a couple of times a week on UA-cam “dangerous and toxic” is dangerous and toxic in itself!
@@Star_Jewel lmaoo stfu. We HAVE the right to talk about all this now, why? BECAUSE DANI AND EMM*N ARE EXPOSING THEIR RELATIONSHIP FOR US TO COMMENT AND SPECULATE ABOUT IT. I'm so tired of y'all saying "it's none of our business" when it's clearly our business now that dani talks about her hubby 24/7 on social media. Stop being so naive. If they didn't want us to talk, they wouldn't have a WHOLE ASS CHANNEL TO EXPOSE THEIR RELATIONSHIP
And Zöe you're absolutely right. Yes you got married at 19 but your partner is probably a lovely, respectful person that has never shown any signs of being a potential abuser like emm*n did
I think your looking at this the wrong way. If you really look at the videos they say a lot of things without saying them. For instance she said how stressed she was while trying to please everyone else and how a lot of people weren’t supportive of the marriage. If I was Dani I would do the same thing have a small wedding because it’s about the marriage not trying to impress people (her family) when she says that she was just going to invite Emmyn’s family that speaks volume think about what Emmyn has to go through dealing with a very catholic family that probably isolate him and makes him feel like an outsider and I don’t think it’s all about his family I think that’s their support system now since her family obviously isn’t. Dani made the right choice she has grown up she’s even said she’s not catholic anymore hasn’t been for a year or two she chose her husband and I don’t see anything wrong with that.
I’m sorry you’ve never experienced love. This is what marriage is all about. Compromise. And also, she seems to have a brain of her own so I’m PRETTY sure it’s not him “controlling” her. It seems he is more the puppet to her.
ebbykordei lol it doesn’t make sense. They should have been there for both sisters. So many people in that family they should have split it up. I’m sure Lisa would have understand
@@MsBlueBreeze I think that makes it even more sad because it was the night before Dani's big day and they didn't spend it with her and it was also Lisa's big day but they didn't spend it together. Don't get me wrong I don't blame lisa but if it were me I would let Dani have her day / spotlight and then after the wedding I would reveal / celebrate the engagement.
you can have a tiny wedding and still have at least YOUR PARENTS too wtf. It makes me assume your parents didn't like it. Why are his parents allowed and not yours?
To me, based on everything that's been said, her family didn't approve of him and their relationship - for whatever reasons they may have. That basically left Dani with having to choose between the two; her fiance or her family. I probably wouldn't have picked my family either if they didn't support me.
@@DehydratedHumor if my family didnt support me marrying a guy at 19 i would stop and listen to thier reasons why. "Love" is blinding and i would sure as hell not want any of my sisters marrying an emotionally manipulative 19 year old fame chaser.. i wouldnt support that marriage and id expext my family to do the same. The difference is being there for your WHEN it all comes crashing down. I hope the Cimorelli sister are there for Dani WHEN this crashes.
I think they did not approve bc she changed her religion, she was raised a Catholic but it seems she did not get married in Catholic ceremony, she is probably Protestant, both are Christian but there are differences...I was trying to support the relationship but changing religion bc of some guy? Really weird
I respect the fact like that she wanted to go to school. But I feel like he just kind of alienated her from her family and is toxic as hell for her. And I think it's hilarious that she said she was leaving cimmorelli and UA-cam and then is like on every single episode of this channel. And everything they post is hella cringey tbh.
And don't get me wrong I love Dani, I have since she joined the band. Shes my age, and I see a lot of potential with her but I feel like he completely stifles it. And him and his family just seem like huge toxicity.
I’m sorry? It’s called compromise. Maybe she also agreed with him about so & so. Stop trying to make one person the bad guy. The point of marriage is the need of 2 people COMMUNICATING with each other. It seems they have a healthy marriage.
Oh stop judging, like chill, this was their decision together to make. U don’t know them so u don’t have to write a unnecessary comment 🤦🏽♀️ goodness grow up
I just feel lied to... and that makes me the most distrusting and skeptical about everything they say now... Dani left cimorelli to do graphics design and not be on UA-cam and focus more on graphic design and other stuff, but then makes more vlogs twice a week with Emmyn, etc. I just don’t know what to believe, I just want Dani to be safe and happy, but something seems off and I don’t like it.
She literally did most, if not all, of Cimorelli’s album designs and merch... she had a steady career where she was growing her design skills and she easily could’ve tried to branch out by sharing her stuff with others in the field. She definitely did not need to quit the band to “be a designer”. It’s a completely bogus cover story 🤷🏻♀️
1. Her schooling is online. 2. I’m personally in school for Digital Media (Graphic Design amongst other stuff) it doesn’t take all day every day. I still have a life and spend a ton of time with my husband alllll while still going to school. 3. You only see a GLIMPSE of her day a couple of times a week. 4. She owes you absolutely NOTHING.
Chloe Kingdon yes!! a big part of what cimorelli does is go on tour, which she definitely does NOT have time for. also their videos were very professional and those usually take a lot more time than just these casual sit down ones. dani just didn't want to be in the band and wanted to be a graphic designer. you know a very small percentage of her life. let her and emmyn be.
Will you guys please just address all the controversy surrounding your marriage? I know it’s none of our business, but so many of us are just concerned and just want to make sure everything is good between you and your sisters.
You can just say that if her relationship with her sisters are good . I mean , did you see their video and dani's video about leaving ? OF COURSE the sibling are in good relationship.
YeYe eah yeah but something just feels so weird and like off. Like why wasn’t Dani there when Christina announced her pregnancy? Why have none of the sisters shown like any support on social media? Why isn’t Emmyn following all the sisters and why aren’t some of the sisters following Emmyn? They all follow Max and Chad. Like we could just be reading into it too much, but it just feels so weird. And that fact that Dani won’t address it, even just to tell us to chill out, is also weird. Sure they were all crying when Dani left the band, but they are sisters and it was a big change. But that doesn’t mean something isn’t going on behind the scenes. But it also doesn’t mean there is something going on behind the scenes. I just wish she’d at least acknowledge it, even just to say everything is fine. That’s all
AsHLiegH-MaRie HoPe Woahhhhhh! Calm down, I never said it was our business. Like omg sorry some of us are showing genuine concern for someone else. I’ve been following Cimorelli for 10 years, so excuse me for wanting to make sure that everything is good. My bad 🙄
@AsHLiegH-MaRie HoPe THANK YOU! People are being so annoying over this! She just said in this video that all of her sisters were there! And even if one of them had a problem with it, she is wise enough to put her own ego under the fact, that her sister is happy and getting married to her best friend. This marriege is none of their business and none of your business. When will you guys finally see that Dani doesn't have to say anything about this topic.
It’s not your marriage to be worrying about. Everything you’re seeing is from a screen. You don’t know him or her personally so there’s no need to put out judgement.
Adriana cx I never said I was “worried” about there marriage 😂 I commented “something is off” how is that being judgmental? Obviously you haven’t gone through and read the rest of the comments because if you had you’d see that I’m actually being NICE compared to majority of the other people who’ve commented 👏🏻
Kelly Luiten i’m sure you can also see how it’s a little weird that someone who was so close to her family and sisters has a wedding where none of them are invited. obviously we don’t know jack shit about them but it raises some concerns, not that our concerns matter anyways
He was basically her STALKER, he even admitted that in one of their videos.. that's where this goes wrong, she wasn't going to invite her family because they weren't approving of the marriage so instead they weren't going to invite any of them (probably because he didn't want them there) this marriage already was doomed from the start, she will probably be divorced in 2-3 years. did her dad even walk her down the aisle? and also she said she doesn't want to sing anymore but on her Instagram she sings solo randomly, I think parents told her sisters to remove her from the group. hmm everything is going wrong with her life.
nonye bizzn I’m 100% sure Emmy said Dani: “it’s me or Cimorelli”. And since Dani seems so in love... she decided to go with him. This is so, so wrong. I really hope Dani will get out of this toxic relationship one day.
It’s not your marriage to be worrying about. Everything you’re seeing is from a screen. You don’t know him or her personally so there’s no need to put out judgement.
Kyla Lambalot also showed up in sneakers to take away SOMEONES DAUGHTER very disrespectful knowing the kind of religious family they have are you stupid
Clearly Dani is going thru a rebellious/self-discovery phase. Hopefully, the decisions she is making will work out for her in the long run. Wishing her the best.
Ichabod Crane how is she rebelling? Lol they are both silly and are perfect together. Just bc he is weird, chunky and silly doesn’t mean that he is bad. Seems like he’s a sweet guy and genuinely loves her. Also they’re way more financially stable then most of their subscribers lol but everyone worried about them 😝🤣
@@TheWesleys She is rebelling by planning a wedding w/o her family, not being married by a Priest, not asking her mom "a concert pianist" to play at her wedding, leaving the band....This is a common thing for young people to do and typically has both good/bad too it. I made no negative comments about her husband or her relationship. Next time, maybe you could respond to what is actually being posted?
Naomi H I moved in with my husband 3 years before we got married . I’m not saying it’s okay but everyone learns from mistakes and sometimes they might just turn into a blessing
Ichabod Crane lmfao I planned my wedding alone, I didn’t have a priest marry me, we got married at 19 (we are now 22 and expecting), his parents disagreed, we had an 8 month engagement ...doesn’t mean I was rebelling. We were in love and it was our life and we decided for us. It’s about us not them. Dani is fine. She made her choice for her and not her family. It’s not rebellious.
She says she no longer wants to be a people pleaser, but she does everything her husband wants... She got married young, she decided to walk down the isle with the song he wanted (even though his mom didn’t play it at the end), she left the band, she shares a youtube channel with him, she didn’t do a big wedding because his family said so and she asked HIS mom to plan the wedding having already a lot of sisters and women in her own family 🙄🤦🏻♀️
1. She said Yes 2. Maybe she liked the song too?? 3. She said that she thought about leaving long ago already 4. Why wouldn't she share a channel?? 5. Please watch the video, she didn't want a big "people pleaser" wedding 6. It is easier to plan a wedding with One person than with 6 women........
You spilled. She even deleted her tw account when her own fans expressed their concerns about the whole situation. She is literally giving this guy control of her entire life and decisions
She said she didnt want to worry about anything so she handed it all over. Shes not pleasing anyone shes making herself happy and handing everything over so shes not so stressed
@@oliviaalmendra4585 She deleted her Twitter because it was a toxic environment full of ignorant people like you passing judgment on her personal life w/o knowing the full story
It’s not your marriage to be worrying about. Everything you’re seeing is from a screen. You don’t know him or her personally so there’s no need to put out judgement.
Adriana cx dude are you gonna comment this under everyones shit? People are worried, and no it’s not “our” marriage, but people can also voice their concerns, which are REAL concerns. Of course we don’t know him or her personally outside of the videos, but if he acts like a skeeze-ball on camera, how do you think he acts off camera?
Emalee June hell yeah I am. The amount of times you guys have said “it’s a red flag” does NOT even match up to how many times I have said it. I personally think he is a puppet to her. She seems just as ballsy as he does. Yes they talk over each other but they’re still young....they haven’t matured as of yet. We don’t even know the full story of Their marriage & it’s not our business either.
DANI please consider this - he is isolating you from your family. You even quit your job because your family was involved. This is emotional manipulation and potential abuser behaviour, PLEASE be careful, please!
Frensis26 unfortunately she just sees this as hate rather than advice, she wont take it in because shes 19. All this crazy manipulative, abusive behavior is unseeable to her. Us who have experienced this exact situation know what were talking about, but unfortunately theres also a ton of 12 year olds with no experience in dating that are defending this, and instilling the idea that this is okay. It sucks shes gonna end up finding out the hard way 😕
Diletta Baratto I got married at 19. It was the best decision of my life. We are 22 now. It wasn’t for sex, it was because we wanted to be with each other forever. Not everyone thinks the same. Leave her alone.
Maisie seems like a very healthy relationship, one where the guy basically forces the other to marry just to have sex. Come on now they can’t be serious
The Love Witch if they chose not to accept her for who she is that’s their problem. They’ll come round. Family’s fight, family’s fall out. Doesn’t mean they don’t love eachother and things can’t mend
Honestly, when everyone who has loved and cared for you and supported you and proven to have your rest interest at heart in your life is “not supportive”, maybe it’s time to take a step back a re-evaluate the entire situation. It’s so easy to get caught up in the “BUT I love him and he loves me” without looking at the big picture. I just really hope everyone is wrong because uffff... Side note: I need to throw out how uncomfortable it makes me when he interrupts Dani to rephrase what she’s trying to say to make her look bad. Example... when she was talking about planning the wedding and how she was so stressed out because she knew that there’s a certain expectation or standard when it comes to getting married, especially in large families. She was trying to explain how she’s a huge people pleaser, therefore it was especially stressful for her. He interrupted her to say “yeah well, she wanted a big wedding to impress people”..... that discredits everything she had just spent time trying to explain. That’s not a healthy relationship.
It’s not your marriage to be worrying about. Everything you’re seeing is from a screen. You don’t know him or her personally so there’s no need to put out judgement. They’re married. Just let them be.
katherine m there’s nothing to call out. They’re fine with each other. You can see she loves him and he loves her. If anything it seems he is a puppet to her. She may be the balls in the relationship. Just saying you shouldn’t straight out assume he’s the bad guy because of what happened with the wedding and such. No one knows the FULL story.
@@Adrianaaa121200 you can love someone and still be in a toxic, unhealthy relationship. there are red flags and we are calling out those red flags. i can't believe you disagree with doing that?? standing up for people when they seem to be in trouble is kind of a no-brainer
katherine m I’m pretty sure if she was in a toxic relationship she would leave. It doesn’t seem that he abuses her verbally or physically. Yeah obviously we weren’t made to be perfect and yes we have flaws but they love each other. She shows him a lot of love so there must be SOMETHING right in their relationship. I’ve been in a toxic relationship and this is no where near as bad as it is. This is only an assumption you guys are making because you don’t like him. You don’t like how she’s left the band. So you all find a way to attack him which is not cool on my end because MAYBE Dani did it for herself. Maybe her family was toxic. Who the hell knows. Everything’s on camera
That's not it at all. At the time, they had to be realistic with the seating capacity since they were only told they could only fit 'x' amount of people inside the venue. Naturally, since Emmyn's mom was the one who organized the event, she was understandably gonna prioritize the Calleiro family -- the family of said organizer -- since that whole family was gonna comprise the *limited* capacity they were told was possible then. In the end, though, they managed to make it work so that the Cimorelli family could attend as well
BouncyTrouncy family comes first, I don’t care if “the organizer” set it up for his family alone. They were getting married, all families should have been included from the get go and friends should have been left out if sits were limited. Cousins, aunts and uncles go next after family. So they should have made sure the household families were present first and if no room for the others, oh well, they can have a small party in the backyard for the ones they couldn’t afford to sit.
I feel SO SO SO sorry for the Cimorelli family. If WE are pissed for this whole dani-marrying-a-creep situation, imagine what the parents and siblings went through, damn...
Wow... You really think you know the whole story? What if it was her family that wasn't supportive? What if she wanted them there but some refused ? Remember , she's marching to the beat of her own drum. She's being unique and making her own choices. Moving in together before marriage , getting married fast and young. What if she wanted everyone there but not everyone supported her. Maybe their relationship is great...and what's so bad about wanting a quick and small wedding. It's her choice. If anyone can seriously read every little detail about these two based on how they look, talk and act then you should join Patrick Jane from the Mentalist at the FBI because your pro.
It starts off as seeing each other everyday, then him pressuring her to get married, then slowly isolating her from her family, then manipulating her to quit her job/being in the band to start a new UA-cam channel with him... something is very off and disturbing about him.
I mean damn the only “sign” missing to tell you guys not to get married was a freaking billboard. For your family to immediately be concerned is a huge red flag. Also - what was the rush? Why not wait until you’re older and stable in life?
Honestly I'm trying to figure out why on earth this video was in my notifications... I didn't even know those people and frankly I don't really care? O.o UA-cam's algorithm at its very best!
BouncyTrouncy are you good? You’re FERVENTLY defending these two - why are you so invested in strangers on the internet? People are clearly just confused and concerned about the situation because it doesn’t make a lot of sense.
@@lucyhawkes3662 I'm fervently defending them due to the continual fervence of busybodies like you who can't seem to take this relationship for what it is w/o acting like there's all these deep-rooted secrets that have to be unearthed. It's like y'all can't just take the hint that maybe there are certain things neither of these people are comfortable addressing. Just 'cause info is withheld doesn't mean there's sketchy activity going on behind the scenes or that anyone is in danger or whatever conspiracy theory gets pulled out of thin air. At the end of the day, they are complete strangers; so we are not entitled to this detail or that detail if they deem it too personal to share. Why can't we just all be supportive -- and I mean, TRULY supportive -- of their journey instead of seemingly looking for ways to doubt them? Social media is never gonna tell the full story, especially in a video that ony lasts for 'x' amount of time. Like, did it ever occur to you that they may be more mature than they let on? Like I said, social media is never gonna tell the full story, so it's pointless to judge any aspect of their lives when none of us are friends or even acquaintances of theirs. What they share and don't share is their decision and their decision alone -- that's it and nothing more.
It’s weird that being engaged was one of the hardest times of her life. That her family or friends weren’t with her the night before. Her family weren’t originally going to be invited. That he wore a beanie to his wedding. That they lived together before they got married and they keep talking about praying and the lord. I wonder if she’s any happier now or if it’s still hard now because she was so close to her sisters and they aren’t around now
I think it’s weird that people are analysing their relationship and looking into every detail and coming up with all kinds of conspiracies and theories.
That should have been a huge red flag to Dani alone but she’s young and impressionable and tbh most ppl don’t realize how bad things are in a relationship until it’s over.
I don’t think they’re getting worse. We’re just seeing more of her actually sitting down and talking rather than mostly doing singing covers. And she’s talking about something so personal to her so she’s probably a little anxious because of what people are going to say and have already said about the situation.
I used to listen to cimorelli nearly ten years ago but haven’t watched anything from them in quite some time and even I pretty immediately caught the facial tics. Hard to say what the cause is but it does make one wonder if it’s related to the relationship.
I knoww its so weird cause I agree w all the comments that point out the red flags but its her life which none of us really know in depth and also should be none of our business (even tho they're making it public which makes it so confusing cause the good thing would be not to judge a personal thing but at the same time its out there in the public eye for people to watch and comment?!?!) BUT i also kinda like the positive comments that support her and defend her decisions cause its her life and tbh WE DON'T KNOW SHIT like we have what we see here but not the whole picture so we could be right but also wrong (i REALLY hope we're wrong and she's okay). AND the fact that everyone leaves a comment just like that, like they're not gonna read, like they're not gonna find out what we think, man that must be hard, to be so judged. I honestly just hope she's okay, but I have a very weird feeling from all of this
It sounds like his side of the family wanted control of the wedding. His family sat them down and convinced them not to do the big wedding in March. Then his mom is in charge and despite knowing how huge Dani’s family is, books the smallest room I’ve ever heard of. Really weird.
everyone is ignoring all of what Dani is actually saying, she didn't want to people please, she was stressed with planning, not many people were going at first. DANI SAID she told Emmyn's mom to handle it.
clearly no one was supportive and its understandable. shes young. they RUSHED. I feel like this has been her only serious relationship? any family would voice concerns on it. doesnt make them bad people. then, no one from her family were even gonna get an invite? as a mother, is that not the most gut wrenching feeling? your child isnt inviting u to their wedding? like the fiance or not...you invite them. and not involving them in any of the fun stuff? clearly this strained their relationship theres no way it didnt. i think thats clearly what pushed her to leave the band. i find this all so confusing. she left her faith as well? they were waiting for marriage etc which i probably why it was a quick marriage but, then it wasnt even a traditonal wedding? so why bother? just move in & have sex before marriage then if u arent going to follow ur faith with the wedding itself? this all seems bizzare. i think he clearly knew he wasnt getting better then dani. and his family saw her as a payday. thats why they were so supportive. odd situation. i hope for the best but, family is important. its fairly obvious she has a large & loving family. she shouldnt be running. hope her sisters find a way to help her
i just don’t feel the chemistry that i thought i would .... we love you dani but know that there is a difference between a loving marriage and seeking the comfort of settling down
i’ve been in this relationship. he becomes your life. you stop including your family in your life because you’re sick of hearing them make comments about him. you become farther and farther away from your friends. you look at him 24/7 to gauge his mood and make sure he’s not getting angry. her body language and the situation of the wedding and the complete rejection of any stressers are all huge red flags of this relationship not being okay. i’m sure you love him, and obviously i don’t know if this is accurate to your life. but please pay attention to how yoU feel. don’t live your life walking on eggshells.
Yeah, and she was trying to plan EVERYTHING in 6 months at first? That's way more stressful than planning like 1 yr - 1.5yrs out. I have been with my fiance since May 2014, we got engaged in October 2018, and we're not getting married until June 2020. I was 20 when we got engaged and will be 22 when we get married. Even though I already had known and been with Judah for 4 years, I really don't think we were ready for marriage at 20. We're waiting until marriage for sex too, but it isn't that hard to do because we both agreed to that commitment back in 2014. Also, we signed on an apartment in January and he moved in but I won't until we're married in June. I guess my thought is that we've been in like all of the circumstances that they listed for pushing the wedding up... But we solved it by pushing it back instead. Honestly it has been the least stressful process of my whole life because everything was taken care of way in advance, and now I'm just chilling until the day. We're also starting out both with full time well paying jobs because we're graduating from college in May and have been hired by companies already. By waiting to get married we've set ourselves up for a really successful and happy life together, and there's less stress going into it! I feel like they didn't talk to the right people about what they should have done.
Dakotah Van Huss Honestly, I don’t blame them for not wanting to wait, maybe they just wanted to get it done! I wouldn’t want to wait... and not just for sex. You just want to marry the person you love!
Victoria Hatzson most ppl just believe if you love the person why wait? There’s no difference in getting Married older like 30 the there is at 19 Ppl should only date if they see themselves having a future with the person
Shelby Loft I don’t know why but me personally I get really stressed and indecisive when I have too much time to think so I would want to have a nice small/medium wedding with a short engagement and just save money to travel with my special human ❤️
Dani, I'm proud of you for not being a people-pleaser and do what you want. HOWEVER I think you should've let your family or at least your closest sisters in on your plans before that. This is a HUGE life-changing moment and I think as young as you still are you should've been counseled by more people than just Emmyn and his family. Sometimes close people see things we ourselves can't see. I'm very glad to hear that it was a faith-based wedding and honestly this whole wedding story is HILARIOUS and sounds like a fun rom-com. I see why people freaked out about the beanie but now that you've explained it really is no big deal and reminds me of that one episode of HIMYM where Marshall accidentally shaved his head and wore a hat for the wedding. ^^
what is the point of your comment except to get likes from people at another's expense!! Who likes being told by a complete stranger what they SHOULD have done months ago when it's in the past?! most unhelpful thing someone can do to another person. They are happily married and were bold enough to share this with the world. Give these human beings some grace!!!
Is it just me or did anyone else find it weird that Emmyn's parents and everyone had more to do with the wedding than Dani's side? Like not even her sisters were that much involved
This ain't right ! Dani is being isolated from her family . This marriage has a bunch of red flags all over It's all about Emmyn's family and I feel like why wasn't Dani's famliy at the wedding ...she also walked down the aisle on the song that HE wanted ....and she didn't even have a say and that just selfish to now invite your own family to you wedding . Here I was thinking , oh okay she is leaving the Cimorelli band to do graphic designs ... But now she is spending twice as much time on UA-cam as she did on the sisterchannel I just don't like Emmyn for some reason ...he is just like a walking red flag !! She is being isolated from her family and that's wrong ...no offence though . Also I think he manipulated her into leaving the band .. cause look he has a band why didn't he leave the band and she had to But this marriage looks toxic and just RED FLaGs all over ...She says she isn't gonna be a people pleaser anymore , but she literally do everything Emmyn says and she wanted to have a big party ...but when his aunt and uncle said don't have a big party she just agreed and her parents didn't even get to plan anything for the wedding , it's not right ..... He wasn't even dressed properly for the wedding , he wore a beanie and sneakers NO Judging and NO Offence All of us are just VERY protective of you Dani ...and we don't want you to get hurt .
She seems very isolated from her family and that is an indication of a toxic relationship...but maybe her family is the toxic one and she’s getting out and saving herself. Not saying I’m an Emmyn fan but u never know...
The fact that his family had a sit down and convinced her to do it their way is really weird. She didn’t tell her family, only his, that they changed the date of the wedding. She was always super close with her family until the engagement so it feels so uncomfortable.
It’s not your marriage to be worrying about. Everything you’re seeing is from a screen. You don’t know him or her personally so there’s no need to put out judgement.
It’s not your marriage to be worrying about. Everything you’re seeing is from a screen. You don’t know him or her personally so there’s no need to put out judgement.
Adriana cx what do people do when they put things on a “screen” for millions to watch? They put on a persona that makes them seem likeable. I can only imagine what Emmyn does when the camera isnt rolling. Your comments all sound dumb af, especially with these videos right in front of your eyes.
Adriana cx dani specifically made this video putting out the details of their relationship on to the internet. shes famous, people are obviously going to judge what they see especially if it’s as strange as this situation is. why are you trying so hard to defend them on every comment people are just concerned for her.
Actually I think the time consuming thing was bull. Lisa does a lot of the editing and Dani doesn’t have to go to every single meetings and be a part of every single thing they do. She can still sing covers and do challenges on that channel. There was no reason to leave except her husband.
Spring Lady exactly. Her and emmyn even have a video where they explain later on that they edit for HOURS every single day then go to bed. Really time consuming.
Obviously, Dani is seeking some independence. Imagine being home-schooled and then being in a family business since age 9. Although there are some wonderful things about the Cimorelli family, can you imagine how claustrophobic that would be? Not surprised, she seems to be attaching to Emmyn's family which offers new relationships and ideas. The freedom will be good for her. That said, I would not be surprised if she rejoins Cimorelli some day. From a career standpoint, not sure she realizes how good she had it.
There are other ways to become independent that don't involve ISOLATING yourself from your loved ones and ignoring your own decisions and perspectives to focus on your boyfriend's/husband's only. Take Christina for example. She got married too and she wanted to be independent too (specially since she's older), so she moved in with Nick. But that doesn't mean she stopped contact with her family like Dani did, Christina would have NEVER allowed to have her OWN wedding without her family. This is not something Dani is doing, all these impulsive decisions she is taking SCREAM "emm*n" everywhere, and that's the problem here
C ceas ce C ce ce have you ever considered that her family is isolating her? She wasn’t going to change her mind in marrying him. They might as well just be supportive and then support her through any consequences of her decision. And who knows maybe it won’t end in consequence. Why would she want to be around people who are being judgmental of her choices?
it's more like an incredibly naive young girl who, in her craving for freedom, lacks the ability to recognize red flags and attaches herself to a boy and family that take advantage of her vulnerability.
Emily Luisa i really can’t imagine being so young and feeling held down by marriage. they both have so many experiences and heartbreaks that they should’ve experienced before jumping into this. i’m worried.
Miranda i truly believe that you cannot experience a good relationship or marriage until youve experienced a heartbreak before. You need to learn and get experience before jumping into something so permanent. When this relationship is over, she will learn from it and it will be then that she realizes what she needs to be weary of. Just sucks that they made such a permanent decision before they ever got that experience, because now theyre gonna have to go through the long, stressful process of divorce, just to break up with each other.
Arturo it’s sad that you feel that way. The divorce rate is higher today than ever and it’s partially because people feel like they need to live and get it “out of their system”. Spoiler alert: that doesn’t lead to a happier marriage. Quite the contrary. It leads to jealousy and resentment and regret. Why waste time with someone who isn’t your SOMEONE??
I feel really sorry for the Cimorelli family. Imagine seeing your daughter/little sis dating some guy that’s kinda weird, then getting engaged AT NINETEEN to the guy even though they barely know each other, then telling her to PLEASE reconsider because he seems dangerous, and then find out that HIS FAMILY was planning a wedding for themselves only. None of the Cimorellis deserve this. I’m sure they tried, specially Christina, to make her see how wrong the situation is... and yet she didn’t listen. And now she’s trapped with this obsessive/manipulative guy AND his creepy family forever
"Up until then, guys I'm not gonna lie, it was probably the worst few months of my entire life." - Dani talking about the months leading up to the wedding because literally *everyone* around them disapproved and didn't want them to get married. To me, this sounds SO MUCH like a Disney movie where the teenage girl stamps her foot and says, "But daddy *I love him!* He's perfect!" about the man who turns out to be the evil villain trying to destroy the kingdom and kill the main characters not even 3 days later. Girl, have you even seen Frozen?
If I want to get married and my family disapproved I wouldn’t care she has her life mom and dad don’t always have to be involved in anything she was a singer from a really young age listening to what ever one had to say around her and now it is her turn to take control of her life
༺ ᴇᴛʜᴇʀᴇᴀʟ:妍 ༻ it’s not toxic. I’ve been in a toxic relationship & this is no where near it. They have a healthy marriage, you can see the love they have between each other, they communicate well, yes they may talk over each other but they both haven’t matured as of yet... they need a lot of time and will eventually grow out of that
@@Kyla Lambalot they're Catholic and don't believe in divorce. The only way you can divorce is if you prove you were never in love in the first place. So it really is permanent for them. That's why it's so important to them that Dani truly got to know who she was marrying
@@lexi305 they are divorced only "on paper", but still married in church (I believe, since it's really hard for the Vatican to accept the matrimonial cancellation)
It’s not your marriage to be worrying about. Everything you’re seeing is from a screen. You don’t know him or her personally so there’s no need to put out judgement.
I got married at 20 to someone that was just the right amount of manipulative and emotionally abusive to keep me around. I got out after a year. Worst mistake I ever made. I hope Dani is not in a similar situation.
And also that they're adults and in charge of their own lives. If they both wanted to do this, there are reasons for it. We don't need to know anything, but they're happy and that's wonderful.
Rusbel Bautista not really There’s no difference in getting married when your 30 then there is when you are 19 As long as you love the person it’s there choice.
I think people are just worried about Dani.. Of course there's no need to be rude or mean but there have been many red flags that people have noticed in their videos and that's why they are concerned
wow, initially it was just going to be Emmyn's parents and grandma at your wedding? So no one from your family? I know there must be a lot we dont seen behind the scenes. Stay strong
Because Emmyn's mother was the one organizing the event, and she had to go with the amount of people it was realistic to invite at the time in order to fit the capacity of the venue. Naturally, she was gonna prioritize Emmyn's family since the amount of people in that family one was gonna comprise said capacity. It would make no sense to only invite one half of both families and exclude the other halves. However, they made it work, and the Cimorellis got to attend as well
@@Star_Jewel 100% disagree it "would make no sense to only invite one half of both families and exclude the other halves." it is ideal in most situations that both the bride and groom have at least a couple people from their respective families. The decision to have only Emmyn's family was definitely because Dani's family didn't originally support. Family issues are messy and I've been there so I was just showing my support to them because I know it's hard.
I think Dani said it herself: initially they were only going to invite people who made them feel supported and comfortable in their decision. Come thanksgiving her family came around so they got invited.
It so sad how Dani could have avoided this whole situation by taking the time to meet someone who's actually worth it. Like she could have had a beautiful wedding with her happy family and a lovely and respectful husband... and yet she risked EVERYTHING for this... guy
guys they have probably seen the MANY comments regarding our curiosity about their sisters opinions on their marriage but they are just choosing not to discuss it and we need to respect that :) I get that you're concerned but its their life not yours (no hate at all just my opinion)
I had my baby at 21, people were nasty and horrible about it. For me, I knew it was right, 7 years with my partner and my two beautiful children and still with their dad and as in love as ever. Some people know earlier in life what they want/need. God has a plan, it's not always the same as everyone else, but you roll with it. Life isn't the same for everyone. I love my life, and it's just as perfect and solid as someone married at 30. Love you both xx
How did you leave the band because you “didn’t have time for it and wanted to focus on graphic design” but post like twice a week with this dude about your relationship... like I thought you were so busy with graphic design?
I came back to this video a year later. It makes me so sad all of the awful comments about Emmyn. I can’t comprehend why you guys can’t just be happy for them. It makes me sick. I hope that Dani and Emmyn don’t let this get to them because they seem genuinely happy. I love you Dani and Emmyn and I love watching y’all
I have so many thoughts about this but I'll only say that I'm sorry you didn't get the support you needed (and deserved) on such a special occasion. I'm glad you had a beautiful wedding afterall and I hope you have a very happy&healthy life together! ♡
The truth is, this seems like a relationship that's using each other to fill and feed their insecurities instead of a relationship that's truly constantly bettering each other. That's just honestly what wee see
I’m 19 and married, I actually got engaged last year in January (I was 18) and got married in April. I love my husband so much and I’m so blessed to be with him. I know it was Gods will for us to be together. But anyways guys don’t be discouraged by the negative comments. God bless you both! ❤️
the “negative comments” are just people who are concerned for her. i’m glad your relationship is going well but there are a lot of red flags with these two and people are just worried.
So they basically confirmed that no one wanted them to get married
Ashley Kohi I don’t think no one wanted them to get married. I think they didn’t want them to get married so soon.
@@jonaidawilliams9244 exactly my point
I haven’t been keeping up with her family but does it matter?
I can't be the only one seeing a lot of red flags in this relationship. She seems isolated from her family :(
This doesn’t seem right to me either
I can assure you are not the only one seeing the red flags.
Religion makes you do that. Now I have most my questions answered and even if they won’t amswer anything else, my assumptions are straight up near correct.
As someone who left an abusive and controlling marriage(I was slightly older married at 24, divorced at 30), there are so many red flags here. I had no idea what red flags were at 24, so I really feel for her.
sara H Congratulations on being able to leave ❤️ You deserve better!!!! Sending lots of love
I.do.not.like.him. He gives me a really weird gut feeling, idk. Also the fact he isolates you from your family is a huge red flag
What makes you think she's isolated?
Agreeeee 1000 percent! Still hope for the best though!
BouncyTrouncy she didn’t attend Christina’s pregnancy announcement, quit the band and their parents and sisters seem not to approve of Emmyn. They didn’t comment on it or liked the pics on Instagram. Emmyn made his mum organise the wedding with just his parents and none of her family members. He came wearing a beanie, it’s his first relationship and he seems really immature and obsessed with her. They are not even together for a year and they do not address any of the controversy. Dani’s tics got way worse. Ofc it could have different reasons, but it just feels wrong watching them.
Sameeee
i read and see a lot of things about toxic relationships and all the things dani is doing since they got married like leaving the band, not being with their family and friends, he's always intoropiting her. all this things are red flags for me, because they are things that happens in toxic relationship, so im kinda afraid that dani is in a toxic relationship (sorry if my english is bad)
i have not read one positive comment about their marriage. yes, it is their lives, but it seems odd that this many people have a weird feeling about this marriage.
im completely ok with the fact that they wanted a small wedding. but dani has always (from what we can tell) had a good relationship with her sisters and parents. suddenly NONE of them are invited to the wedding, just emmyn's parents. if dani never got along with her parents, thats fine but the fact that emmyn's parents were invited but dani's were not (even though there is nothing wrong with their family as far as we can tell) is a bit suspicious.
@@skylahelbig6818 i completely agree.
Skyla Helbig a bit? I didnt know abt these things but girl its VERY suspicious😭 hope for the best for the both of them!
yeah it's really bad
I was thinking the same
🤦🏾♀️ oh Dani!!! This video did NOT help you guys at all. If anything this video made your marriage even more sketch and low key sad
not trying to be judgemental but why do i feel like he is the reason why dani left the band
Oh, 100%!
Yup
No that’s what I thought aswell like he’s the editor of the videos I think and I was thinking what if he done that so she leaves the band
**whispers** because he is
Lowkey i kinda feel the same
I think the weirdest part is that emmyn's mother was willing to organize the 12people wedding knowing that dani's family was not aware of it
It’s clear now that his whole family is as creepy and messed up as him
it's kinda bizarre thinking about it now, because like Dani has like 10 siblings. so like basically 10 siblings and both parents will fill up the entire wedding venue IF THEY WERE INVITED
I don't think she was trying to alienate the Cimorellis. I think she was just trying to be realistic as was possible with the seating capacity at the time. After all, she was told the venue could only hold about 12 people, and that was the amount of people just from the Calleiros alone; and naturally, since Emmyn's mom was the one organizing the event, she was understandably gonna prioritize HER family 'cause I'm sure they all wanted to be there ro celebrate the occasion. What would you have rather had her initially do -- include one half of the Calleiros and one half of the Cimorellis, and then exclude the other half of both families? 'Cause I'm sure that would've seemed just as devious, if not more devious! Besides, in the end, they made it work for both families, so there's no need to villainize Emmyn's mom
@@Star_Jewel But how would she feel if she was left out of the wedding like that? I just think she shouldn't have agreed to organize the wedding without the bride's family especially when the bride is so young
@@lalla3625 We may never know the full reasoning behind it. Let's just be grateful both their families got to attend the ceremony and celebrate the momentous occasion
I know we don’t have any right to know about what’s going on, but please address what people are confused about. There so many red flags. 1. Not inviting her family originally. 2. The behaviors everyone is seeing, especially that Dani’s ticks are revealing themselves a little more (sometimes due to stress and anxiety). 3. It’s very obvious that she’s being isolated from her family. It’s all about Emmyn’s family and his mom.
I got married at 19. It’s not about your age. It’s about your husband potentially being dangerous and toxic and everyone who loves you, is very clearly worried about you. Especially your sisters, who have had your back since the day you were born.
"I don't have the right to know what's going on, but please address what I feel I have the right to know about" #logic
Zoë stop please!
Emmyn probably reads these comments you know! Calling someone you only see for a few minutes a couple of times a week on UA-cam “dangerous and toxic” is dangerous and toxic in itself!
@@Star_Jewel lmaoo stfu. We HAVE the right to talk about all this now, why? BECAUSE DANI AND EMM*N ARE EXPOSING THEIR RELATIONSHIP FOR US TO COMMENT AND SPECULATE ABOUT IT. I'm so tired of y'all saying "it's none of our business" when it's clearly our business now that dani talks about her hubby 24/7 on social media. Stop being so naive. If they didn't want us to talk, they wouldn't have a WHOLE ASS CHANNEL TO EXPOSE THEIR RELATIONSHIP
And Zöe you're absolutely right. Yes you got married at 19 but your partner is probably a lovely, respectful person that has never shown any signs of being a potential abuser like emm*n did
I think your looking at this the wrong way. If you really look at the videos they say a lot of things without saying them. For instance she said how stressed she was while trying to please everyone else and how a lot of people weren’t supportive of the marriage. If I was Dani I would do the same thing have a small wedding because it’s about the marriage not trying to impress people (her family) when she says that she was just going to invite Emmyn’s family that speaks volume think about what Emmyn has to go through dealing with a very catholic family that probably isolate him and makes him feel like an outsider and I don’t think it’s all about his family I think that’s their support system now since her family obviously isn’t. Dani made the right choice she has grown up she’s even said she’s not catholic anymore hasn’t been for a year or two she chose her husband and I don’t see anything wrong with that.
He is a walking red flag.
Why?!
Agree
I’m sorry you’ve never experienced love. This is what marriage is all about. Compromise. And also, she seems to have a brain of her own so I’m PRETTY sure it’s not him “controlling” her. It seems he is more the puppet to her.
Adriana cx you pressed?
Seriously, if you say red flags, you must have an idea what the flags are... explain yourself please. Thank you
She’s always been so close to her family. This is all just so weird and he is making me uncomfortable😖
i can’t believe she was alone on the night before her wedding like she didn’t even go to her family and being with her sisters that sucks
ebbykordei it was the night Chad proposed to Lisa and they were all celebrating Lisa’s engagement
CL oooh okay makes sense
Plus she was sick...
ebbykordei lol it doesn’t make sense. They should have been there for both sisters. So many people in that family they should have split it up. I’m sure Lisa would have understand
@@MsBlueBreeze
I think that makes it even more sad because it was the night before Dani's big day and they didn't spend it with her and it was also Lisa's big day but they didn't spend it together.
Don't get me wrong I don't blame lisa but if it were me I would let Dani have her day / spotlight and then after the wedding I would reveal / celebrate the engagement.
you can have a tiny wedding and still have at least YOUR PARENTS too wtf. It makes me assume your parents didn't like it. Why are his parents allowed and not yours?
To me, based on everything that's been said, her family didn't approve of him and their relationship - for whatever reasons they may have. That basically left Dani with having to choose between the two; her fiance or her family.
I probably wouldn't have picked my family either if they didn't support me.
And why were his family even ok with that?
@@DehydratedHumor if my family didnt support me marrying a guy at 19 i would stop and listen to thier reasons why. "Love" is blinding and i would sure as hell not want any of my sisters marrying an emotionally manipulative 19 year old fame chaser.. i wouldnt support that marriage and id expext my family to do the same. The difference is being there for your WHEN it all comes crashing down. I hope the Cimorelli sister are there for Dani WHEN this crashes.
I think they did not approve bc she changed her religion, she was raised a Catholic but it seems she did not get married in Catholic ceremony, she is probably Protestant, both are Christian but there are differences...I was trying to support the relationship but changing religion bc of some guy? Really weird
Pa Ba catholic is still Christian so is Protestant so she changed denominations not religions
This whole video is uncomfortable to watch..
Why? :o
This whole channel* is uncomfortable to watch
@@DreamOnAStarXx omg yes this relationship seems so toxic for dani
I respect the fact like that she wanted to go to school. But I feel like he just kind of alienated her from her family and is toxic as hell for her. And I think it's hilarious that she said she was leaving cimmorelli and UA-cam and then is like on every single episode of this channel. And everything they post is hella cringey tbh.
And don't get me wrong I love Dani, I have since she joined the band. Shes my age, and I see a lot of potential with her but I feel like he completely stifles it. And him and his family just seem like huge toxicity.
wow she’s being completely manipulated by him.......
I’m sorry? It’s called compromise. Maybe she also agreed with him about so & so. Stop trying to make one person the bad guy. The point of marriage is the need of 2 people COMMUNICATING with each other. It seems they have a healthy marriage.
Oh stop judging, like chill, this was their decision together to make. U don’t know them so u don’t have to write a unnecessary comment 🤦🏽♀️ goodness grow up
@@Adrianaaa121200 😂
How?
dont assume.
Her getting sick, someone hitting her car before the wedding....hmmm... it was a sign .
I just feel lied to... and that makes me the most distrusting and skeptical about everything they say now... Dani left cimorelli to do graphics design and not be on UA-cam and focus more on graphic design and other stuff, but then makes more vlogs twice a week with Emmyn, etc. I just don’t know what to believe, I just want Dani to be safe and happy, but something seems off and I don’t like it.
She literally did most, if not all, of Cimorelli’s album designs and merch... she had a steady career where she was growing her design skills and she easily could’ve tried to branch out by sharing her stuff with others in the field. She definitely did not need to quit the band to “be a designer”. It’s a completely bogus cover story 🤷🏻♀️
Ya I’m low key worried about this situation
Yeah it almost seems like she has less of an opportunity to do what she loves to do now... which makes me even more confused.
1. Her schooling is online.
2. I’m personally in school for Digital Media (Graphic Design amongst other stuff) it doesn’t take all day every day. I still have a life and spend a ton of time with my husband alllll while still going to school.
3. You only see a GLIMPSE of her day a couple of times a week.
4. She owes you absolutely NOTHING.
Chloe Kingdon yes!! a big part of what cimorelli does is go on tour, which she definitely does NOT have time for. also their videos were very professional and those usually take a lot more time than just these casual sit down ones. dani just didn't want to be in the band and wanted to be a graphic designer. you know a very small percentage of her life. let her and emmyn be.
Will you guys please just address all the controversy surrounding your marriage? I know it’s none of our business, but so many of us are just concerned and just want to make sure everything is good between you and your sisters.
You can just say that if her relationship with her sisters are good . I mean , did you see their video and dani's video about leaving ? OF COURSE the sibling are in good relationship.
YeYe eah yeah but something just feels so weird and like off. Like why wasn’t Dani there when Christina announced her pregnancy? Why have none of the sisters shown like any support on social media? Why isn’t Emmyn following all the sisters and why aren’t some of the sisters following Emmyn? They all follow Max and Chad. Like we could just be reading into it too much, but it just feels so weird. And that fact that Dani won’t address it, even just to tell us to chill out, is also weird. Sure they were all crying when Dani left the band, but they are sisters and it was a big change. But that doesn’t mean something isn’t going on behind the scenes. But it also doesn’t mean there is something going on behind the scenes. I just wish she’d at least acknowledge it, even just to say everything is fine. That’s all
AsHLiegH-MaRie HoPe Woahhhhhh! Calm down, I never said it was our business. Like omg sorry some of us are showing genuine concern for someone else. I’ve been following Cimorelli for 10 years, so excuse me for wanting to make sure that everything is good. My bad 🙄
@AsHLiegH-MaRie HoPe THANK YOU! People are being so annoying over this! She just said in this video that all of her sisters were there! And even if one of them had a problem with it, she is wise enough to put her own ego under the fact, that her sister is happy and getting married to her best friend. This marriege is none of their business and none of your business. When will you guys finally see that Dani doesn't have to say anything about this topic.
People shouldn’t put their lives online if they aren’t willing to share it.
Something is really off.
It’s not your marriage to be worrying about. Everything you’re seeing is from a screen. You don’t know him or her personally so there’s no need to put out judgement.
Adriana cx
I never said I was “worried” about there marriage 😂
I commented “something is off” how is that being judgmental?
Obviously you haven’t gone through and read the rest of the comments because if you had you’d see that I’m actually being NICE compared to majority of the other people who’ve commented 👏🏻
I feel like people jump on the bandwagon of being concerned. Both seem happy to me. Best wishes ✨
Kelly Luiten i’m sure you can also see how it’s a little weird that someone who was so close to her family and sisters has a wedding where none of them are invited. obviously we don’t know jack shit about them but it raises some concerns, not that our concerns matter anyways
He is kind of big
He was basically her STALKER, he even admitted that in one of their videos.. that's where this goes wrong, she wasn't going to invite her family because they weren't approving of the marriage so instead they weren't going to invite any of them (probably because he didn't want them there) this marriage already was doomed from the start, she will probably be divorced in 2-3 years. did her dad even walk her down the aisle? and also she said she doesn't want to sing anymore but on her Instagram she sings solo randomly, I think parents told her sisters to remove her from the group. hmm everything is going wrong with her life.
nonye bizzn I’m 100% sure Emmy said Dani: “it’s me or Cimorelli”. And since Dani seems so in love... she decided to go with him. This is so, so wrong. I really hope Dani will get out of this toxic relationship one day.
@@verosalvo1 hopefully she will come to that realization before shes like 40 and looking back with regret, we can only hope!
If you watched the video where she announced she was leaving band, it seemed like she really didn’t want to.
It’s not your marriage to be worrying about. Everything you’re seeing is from a screen. You don’t know him or her personally so there’s no need to put out judgement.
@@Adrianaaa121200 emmyn is that you?
Ya boy wore a beanie to the wedding. 😂😂😂 Imma head out. You probably should too, Dani.
Harry Adams best comment 😂
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Kyla Lambalot also showed up in sneakers to take away SOMEONES DAUGHTER very disrespectful knowing the kind of religious family they have are you stupid
Dana L let people live their life special snowflakes
I love you’re comment that was amazing my year has been made 😂
gurrrl get out of that relationship. RED FLAGS ALL OVER
Dude shut up honestly. They’re married. Stop trying to pressure them into getting a divorce.
What are these red flags... ?? Dont just assume, you need to illustrate what you mean.
@@Adrianaaa121200 are you blind? do you not hear or see the signs?
Panda Boo I think you should just mind your own business. She’s a grown woman. She doesn’t need to be babied by any of her fans.
What are the red flags everyone keeps saying!????
Clearly Dani is going thru a rebellious/self-discovery phase. Hopefully, the decisions she is making will work out for her in the long run. Wishing her the best.
Ichabod Crane how is she rebelling? Lol they are both silly and are perfect together. Just bc he is weird, chunky and silly doesn’t mean that he is bad. Seems like he’s a sweet guy and genuinely loves her. Also they’re way more financially stable then most of their subscribers lol but everyone worried about them 😝🤣
@@TheWesleys She is rebelling by planning a wedding w/o her family, not being married by a Priest, not asking her mom "a concert pianist" to play at her wedding, leaving the band....This is a common thing for young people to do and typically has both good/bad too it. I made no negative comments about her husband or her relationship. Next time, maybe you could respond to what is actually being posted?
The Wesleys they had also planned to move in together 4 months before getting married...
Naomi H I moved in with my husband 3 years before we got married . I’m not saying it’s okay but everyone learns from mistakes and sometimes they might just turn into a blessing
Ichabod Crane lmfao I planned my wedding alone, I didn’t have a priest marry me, we got married at 19 (we are now 22 and expecting), his parents disagreed, we had an 8 month engagement ...doesn’t mean I was rebelling. We were in love and it was our life and we decided for us. It’s about us not them. Dani is fine. She made her choice for her and not her family. It’s not rebellious.
She says she no longer wants to be a people pleaser, but she does everything her husband wants... She got married young, she decided to walk down the isle with the song he wanted (even though his mom didn’t play it at the end), she left the band, she shares a youtube channel with him, she didn’t do a big wedding because his family said so and she asked HIS mom to plan the wedding having already a lot of sisters and women in her own family 🙄🤦🏻♀️
Angelica Martinez I was confused on why she asked her. And why they moved the date from a March 2020 to December 2019? Maybe I missed something
1. She said Yes 2. Maybe she liked the song too?? 3. She said that she thought about leaving long ago already 4. Why wouldn't she share a channel?? 5. Please watch the video, she didn't want a big "people pleaser" wedding 6. It is easier to plan a wedding with One person than with 6 women........
You spilled. She even deleted her tw account when her own fans expressed their concerns about the whole situation. She is literally giving this guy control of her entire life and decisions
She said she didnt want to worry about anything so she handed it all over. Shes not pleasing anyone shes making herself happy and handing everything over so shes not so stressed
@@oliviaalmendra4585 She deleted her Twitter because it was a toxic environment full of ignorant people like you passing judgment on her personal life w/o knowing the full story
This seems like a toxic relationship.
He called himself attractive... boy your personality ain’t even attractive itself 🙃
I know right. He doesn't look 19, he is not even likable.
Suman M omg he’s 19 💀 noooo oh no I thought he was older
It’s not your marriage to be worrying about. Everything you’re seeing is from a screen. You don’t know him or her personally so there’s no need to put out judgement.
Adriana cx dude are you gonna comment this under everyones shit? People are worried, and no it’s not “our” marriage, but people can also voice their concerns, which are REAL concerns. Of course we don’t know him or her personally outside of the videos, but if he acts like a skeeze-ball on camera, how do you think he acts off camera?
Emalee June hell yeah I am. The amount of times you guys have said “it’s a red flag” does NOT even match up to how many times I have said it. I personally think he is a puppet to her. She seems just as ballsy as he does. Yes they talk over each other but they’re still young....they haven’t matured as of yet. We don’t even know the full story of Their marriage & it’s not our business either.
DANI please consider this - he is isolating you from your family. You even quit your job because your family was involved. This is emotional manipulation and potential abuser behaviour, PLEASE be careful, please!
Frensis26 unfortunately she just sees this as hate rather than advice, she wont take it in because shes 19. All this crazy manipulative, abusive behavior is unseeable to her. Us who have experienced this exact situation know what were talking about, but unfortunately theres also a ton of 12 year olds with no experience in dating that are defending this, and instilling the idea that this is okay. It sucks shes gonna end up finding out the hard way 😕
Frensis26 thank you for stating this because I got the creeps just watching and that rarely happens for me
@@dreamscape3901 and now they’ve broken up, because it’s been going around that he cheated on her. I wish she realized when we were all saying it
But why get married in the first place? No pressure, no planning.. just lining your relationship as it is. Simple. WHY SUCH A HURRY??
exactly
Diletta Baratto to have sex
Diletta Baratto I got married at 19. It was the best decision of my life. We are 22 now. It wasn’t for sex, it was because we wanted to be with each other forever. Not everyone thinks the same. Leave her alone.
Maisie seems like a very healthy relationship, one where the guy basically forces the other to marry just to have sex. Come on now they can’t be serious
Diletta Baratto that’s so extremely common in religion based relationships lmao y’all must not have grown up in church...
so our predictions were right, not everyone was happy about this marriage....hmmmm....
The Love Witch what is your point? Troll.
Not important when the couple is happy. Everyone else is extra
Ultimate Jin Bia it is important when someone is as close with their family as dani is
The Love Witch if they chose not to accept her for who she is that’s their problem. They’ll come round. Family’s fight, family’s fall out. Doesn’t mean they don’t love eachother and things can’t mend
@@MM-bv5os it is important. could mean that Dani is hiding her REAL feelings if HUNDREDS of people are pointing out a bunch of red flags.
„God please send me a sign“
*God sending like 20 signs*
Everyone: still ignoring them
Susanne Kr trueeee
the caraccident, the being sick etc, basically sounded like God saying ‘mm maybe not’
soooo true
Yep, soooo true!!!
The problem is: Most people want God to give them the signs THEY WANT. 🤷♀️
Lmao!!! XD XD
omg I don't understand why she wasn't taking these clear hints
Honestly, when everyone who has loved and cared for you and supported you and proven to have your rest interest at heart in your life is “not supportive”, maybe it’s time to take a step back a re-evaluate the entire situation.
It’s so easy to get caught up in the “BUT I love him and he loves me” without looking at the big picture. I just really hope everyone is wrong because uffff...
Side note: I need to throw out how uncomfortable it makes me when he interrupts Dani to rephrase what she’s trying to say to make her look bad. Example... when she was talking about planning the wedding and how she was so stressed out because she knew that there’s a certain expectation or standard when it comes to getting married, especially in large families. She was trying to explain how she’s a huge people pleaser, therefore it was especially stressful for her. He interrupted her to say “yeah well, she wanted a big wedding to impress people”..... that discredits everything she had just spent time trying to explain. That’s not a healthy relationship.
It’s not your marriage to be worrying about. Everything you’re seeing is from a screen. You don’t know him or her personally so there’s no need to put out judgement.
They’re married. Just let them be.
Adriana cx that is terrible advice. if something seems wrong or concerning, it needs to be called out for the well-being of others.
katherine m there’s nothing to call out. They’re fine with each other. You can see she loves him and he loves her. If anything it seems he is a puppet to her. She may be the balls in the relationship. Just saying you shouldn’t straight out assume he’s the bad guy because of what happened with the wedding and such. No one knows the FULL story.
@@Adrianaaa121200 you can love someone and still be in a toxic, unhealthy relationship. there are red flags and we are calling out those red flags. i can't believe you disagree with doing that?? standing up for people when they seem to be in trouble is kind of a no-brainer
katherine m I’m pretty sure if she was in a toxic relationship she would leave. It doesn’t seem that he abuses her verbally or physically. Yeah obviously we weren’t made to be perfect and yes we have flaws but they love each other. She shows him a lot of love so there must be SOMETHING right in their relationship. I’ve been in a toxic relationship and this is no where near as bad as it is. This is only an assumption you guys are making because you don’t like him. You don’t like how she’s left the band. So you all find a way to attack him which is not cool on my end because MAYBE Dani did it for herself. Maybe her family was toxic. Who the hell knows. Everything’s on camera
so what I’m getting from this is, Dani wasn’t going to invite her family to her own wedding???
Black Balloon right...because he said his mom only invited 12 people...that’s already the size of her family alone.
Tnuhhh exactly what i was thinking!
Sounds like she’s ashamed of what she’s doing by marrying him.
That's not it at all. At the time, they had to be realistic with the seating capacity since they were only told they could only fit 'x' amount of people inside the venue. Naturally, since Emmyn's mom was the one who organized the event, she was understandably gonna prioritize the Calleiro family -- the family of said organizer -- since that whole family was gonna comprise the *limited* capacity they were told was possible then. In the end, though, they managed to make it work so that the Cimorelli family could attend as well
BouncyTrouncy family comes first, I don’t care if “the organizer” set it up for his family alone. They were getting married, all families should have been included from the get go and friends should have been left out if sits were limited. Cousins, aunts and uncles go next after family. So they should have made sure the household families were present first and if no room for the others, oh well, they can have a small party in the backyard for the ones they couldn’t afford to sit.
I feel SO SO SO sorry for the Cimorelli family. If WE are pissed for this whole dani-marrying-a-creep situation, imagine what the parents and siblings went through, damn...
Well look at you, acting all self-important with your judgmental opinion
BouncyTrouncy arent you feeling entitled and judgemental as well🤔
@@MsBlueBreeze Not at all. I'm simply calling BS
BouncyTrouncy nice rephrase
Wow... You really think you know the whole story? What if it was her family that wasn't supportive? What if she wanted them there but some refused ? Remember , she's marching to the beat of her own drum. She's being unique and making her own choices. Moving in together before marriage , getting married fast and young. What if she wanted everyone there but not everyone supported her. Maybe their relationship is great...and what's so bad about wanting a quick and small wedding. It's her choice. If anyone can seriously read every little detail about these two based on how they look, talk and act then you should join Patrick Jane from the Mentalist at the FBI because your pro.
i feel like God was sending signs to not get married
The Lord knows better than us all. Wouldn’t be surprised
I THOUGHT THE SAME THING!
Yeah like seriously now tho...
yes
That’s what i was thinking..
It starts off as seeing each other everyday, then him pressuring her to get married, then slowly isolating her from her family, then manipulating her to quit her job/being in the band to start a new UA-cam channel with him... something is very off and disturbing about him.
Now we know why everyone was crying so hard in the Dani's leaving video.
they have had this channel since sometime around November whats your problem?
@@best2yougracie I agree. Some people just don’t get it 🙄
@@abigailkaminski3620 right?
You hit the nail on the head. I hope it ends well though
I mean damn the only “sign” missing to tell you guys not to get married was a freaking billboard. For your family to immediately be concerned is a huge red flag. Also - what was the rush? Why not wait until you’re older and stable in life?
Because they want to have sex
@@lleexxii tea
@@lleexxii or maybe they had sex already and felt bad about it.
or maybe it's none of your business
Lexi Daigle Because Emmyn wants to have sex**
I have so many questions about this entire situation ....
And I'm sure they're nothing different from the countless repetitive prying this couple continues to experience on here ...
Honestly I'm trying to figure out why on earth this video was in my notifications... I didn't even know those people and frankly I don't really care? O.o
UA-cam's algorithm at its very best!
BouncyTrouncy are you good? You’re FERVENTLY defending these two - why are you so invested in strangers on the internet? People are clearly just confused and concerned about the situation because it doesn’t make a lot of sense.
@@lucyhawkes3662 I'm fervently defending them due to the continual fervence of busybodies like you who can't seem to take this relationship for what it is w/o acting like there's all these deep-rooted secrets that have to be unearthed. It's like y'all can't just take the hint that maybe there are certain things neither of these people are comfortable addressing. Just 'cause info is withheld doesn't mean there's sketchy activity going on behind the scenes or that anyone is in danger or whatever conspiracy theory gets pulled out of thin air. At the end of the day, they are complete strangers; so we are not entitled to this detail or that detail if they deem it too personal to share. Why can't we just all be supportive -- and I mean, TRULY supportive -- of their journey instead of seemingly looking for ways to doubt them? Social media is never gonna tell the full story, especially in a video that ony lasts for 'x' amount of time. Like, did it ever occur to you that they may be more mature than they let on? Like I said, social media is never gonna tell the full story, so it's pointless to judge any aspect of their lives when none of us are friends or even acquaintances of theirs. What they share and don't share is their decision and their decision alone -- that's it and nothing more.
@@Star_Jewel ok emmyn
"We finish each other's..."
Me: SANDWICHES
Jinx jinx again (frozen hahaha)
THAT’S WHAT I WAS GOING TO SAY (when you know it you know haha)
Frozen feelings hahaha
@@aj3185 I WAS JUST GONNA REPLY THAT TO THIS COMMENT
@@agnes3109
SAME lol
It’s weird that being engaged was one of the hardest times of her life. That her family or friends weren’t with her the night before. Her family weren’t originally going to be invited. That he wore a beanie to his wedding. That they lived together before they got married and they keep talking about praying and the lord. I wonder if she’s any happier now or if it’s still hard now because she was so close to her sisters and they aren’t around now
Living together before getting married is not weird, its normal :)
I think it’s weird that people are analysing their relationship and looking into every detail and coming up with all kinds of conspiracies and theories.
Piggy Puddles definitely
Celine typically for strict Catholics this is a no no. Even amongst other faiths. Living together before marriage is a temptation to premarital sex.
That should have been a huge red flag to Dani alone but she’s young and impressionable and tbh most ppl don’t realize how bad things are in a relationship until it’s over.
i don't like him... reasons are the same as in like 99% of the other comments
I disagree
@@abigailkaminski3620 i wrote that comment 10 months ago... people change their minds😐
@@line231 I’m happy to see that you’ve changed your mind 😊👏
I’d rather my husband-to-be have bad hair than a beanie ON OUR WEDDING DAY
Wiggles2282 He was more so focusing on himself huh “ohhh my hairs bad so i gotta wear a BEANIE on my WEDDING DAY!”
Kyla Lambalot it just makes it look like he doesn’t care.
Not even Jughead would wear a beanie to his marriage
Kyla Lambalot yeah exactly. nobody is original these days
@@RoguePlutonia fr tho
Dani looks so much like the icecream girl from Stranger things in this
brittin maya hawke?
Robin?
Isa Moguel yes!
Same 😱😅
omg yesss maya hawke
anyone else concerned that her mouth ticks are getting worse/more frequent?
Rachel she is touching her face a lot too...
like that’s an anxiety tick
I don’t think they’re getting worse. We’re just seeing more of her actually sitting down and talking rather than mostly doing singing covers. And she’s talking about something so personal to her so she’s probably a little anxious because of what people are going to say and have already said about the situation.
I used to listen to cimorelli nearly ten years ago but haven’t watched anything from them in quite some time and even I pretty immediately caught the facial tics. Hard to say what the cause is but it does make one wonder if it’s related to the relationship.
What's ticks?
Why were they not gonna invite Dani’s parents to the wedding originally? They said they were just planning emmyns and his grandmother ???
@Sydney Rapp *weren't
That is so messed up. It’s so obvious how emmyn is trying to isolate her from her loved ones
him and his whole family are so disgusting I want to cry
@@oliviaalmendra4585 what why???
Dodie
i wonder how Dani feels reading the comments...also I see all the red flags you guys are mentioning...
I knoww its so weird cause I agree w all the comments that point out the red flags but its her life which none of us really know in depth and also should be none of our business (even tho they're making it public which makes it so confusing cause the good thing would be not to judge a personal thing but at the same time its out there in the public eye for people to watch and comment?!?!) BUT i also kinda like the positive comments that support her and defend her decisions cause its her life and tbh WE DON'T KNOW SHIT like we have what we see here but not the whole picture so we could be right but also wrong (i REALLY hope we're wrong and she's okay). AND the fact that everyone leaves a comment just like that, like they're not gonna read, like they're not gonna find out what we think, man that must be hard, to be so judged. I honestly just hope she's okay, but I have a very weird feeling from all of this
what are the red flags? y’all keep saying rEd fLaGs but don’t mention what they are
She's literally looking to him for the answers.
Hate to break it to you but you got married on a Wednesday lol
😂😂😂
LMFAOOOOOO best comment on the whole video
HAHAHA OH NO
No offense,
But Emmyn looks like the snapchat baby filter😂
Siiiiiiiiiiiiii
He looks like the one guy from home alone
Ellen Davtyan HAHA
Totally! Baha!!!
TRUUUUUUEEE OMG LMAO
but why would his mom pick a venue for wedding that only fit 12 people in it?!
Honestly what wedding venue is that tiny to begin with? Did they plan to get married in a ting home???
It sounds like his side of the family wanted control of the wedding. His family sat them down and convinced them not to do the big wedding in March. Then his mom is in charge and despite knowing how huge Dani’s family is, books the smallest room I’ve ever heard of. Really weird.
because Dani said she wanted it to be small since alot of people weren't coming at first.
everyone is ignoring all of what Dani is actually saying, she didn't want to people please, she was stressed with planning, not many people were going at first. DANI SAID she told Emmyn's mom to handle it.
clearly no one was supportive and its understandable. shes young. they RUSHED. I feel like this has been her only serious relationship? any family would voice concerns on it. doesnt make them bad people. then, no one from her family were even gonna get an invite? as a mother, is that not the most gut wrenching feeling? your child isnt inviting u to their wedding? like the fiance or not...you invite them. and not involving them in any of the fun stuff? clearly this strained their relationship theres no way it didnt. i think thats clearly what pushed her to leave the band. i find this all so confusing. she left her faith as well? they were waiting for marriage etc which i probably why it was a quick marriage but, then it wasnt even a traditonal wedding? so why bother? just move in & have sex before marriage then if u arent going to follow ur faith with the wedding itself? this all seems bizzare. i think he clearly knew he wasnt getting better then dani. and his family saw her as a payday. thats why they were so supportive. odd situation. i hope for the best but, family is important. its fairly obvious she has a large & loving family. she shouldnt be running. hope her sisters find a way to help her
And brothers****
“God give me a sign”
She was so busy looking for the good ones, that she missed all the bad ones.😔
It's none of our business I get that but, so many red flags I'm seeing make me very concerned.
Yeah I hope she doesn’t regret getting married so young...
I have the most uneasy feeling about him /this relationship.... something is so wrong :(
Absolutely agree
he's giving me major creep vibes. like he is more of an obsessed fan with her than her actual partner.
Right, there are a lot of red flags that we cannot just ignore. Hope is just nothing to worry.
angelina angel JSHSJJS
This girl is making a huge mistake...
i just don’t feel the chemistry that i thought i would .... we love you dani but know that there is a difference between a loving marriage and seeking the comfort of settling down
Sis, he seems so disinterested, you can do better. Seriously haven't seen one positive comment
i’ve been in this relationship. he becomes your life. you stop including your family in your life because you’re sick of hearing them make comments about him. you become farther and farther away from your friends. you look at him 24/7 to gauge his mood and make sure he’s not getting angry. her body language and the situation of the wedding and the complete rejection of any stressers are all huge red flags of this relationship not being okay.
i’m sure you love him, and obviously i don’t know if this is accurate to your life. but please pay attention to how yoU feel. don’t live your life walking on eggshells.
My biggest question that I was expecting to be answered in this video... Why the rush??? Why get married so soon and so young??
they answered this question in the first Q&A they did about their marriage ! :)
Yeah, and she was trying to plan EVERYTHING in 6 months at first? That's way more stressful than planning like 1 yr - 1.5yrs out. I have been with my fiance since May 2014, we got engaged in October 2018, and we're not getting married until June 2020. I was 20 when we got engaged and will be 22 when we get married. Even though I already had known and been with Judah for 4 years, I really don't think we were ready for marriage at 20. We're waiting until marriage for sex too, but it isn't that hard to do because we both agreed to that commitment back in 2014. Also, we signed on an apartment in January and he moved in but I won't until we're married in June. I guess my thought is that we've been in like all of the circumstances that they listed for pushing the wedding up... But we solved it by pushing it back instead. Honestly it has been the least stressful process of my whole life because everything was taken care of way in advance, and now I'm just chilling until the day. We're also starting out both with full time well paying jobs because we're graduating from college in May and have been hired by companies already. By waiting to get married we've set ourselves up for a really successful and happy life together, and there's less stress going into it! I feel like they didn't talk to the right people about what they should have done.
Dakotah Van Huss Honestly, I don’t blame them for not wanting to wait, maybe they just wanted to get it done! I wouldn’t want to wait... and not just for sex. You just want to marry the person you love!
Victoria Hatzson most ppl just believe if you love the person why wait? There’s no difference in getting Married older like 30 the there is at 19
Ppl should only date if they see themselves having a future with the person
Shelby Loft I don’t know why but me personally I get really stressed and indecisive when I have too much time to think so I would want to have a nice small/medium wedding with a short engagement and just save money to travel with my special human ❤️
I have a feeling she doesn’t talk/ hang out with her sisters anymore, is that just me?
I highly doubt that. Just 'cause something isn't posted on social media, doesn't mean it didn't happen
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YES ITS JUST YOU! her and Lauren still talk over instagram
Dani, I'm proud of you for not being a people-pleaser and do what you want. HOWEVER I think you should've let your family or at least your closest sisters in on your plans before that. This is a HUGE life-changing moment and I think as young as you still are you should've been counseled by more people than just Emmyn and his family. Sometimes close people see things we ourselves can't see. I'm very glad to hear that it was a faith-based wedding and honestly this whole wedding story is HILARIOUS and sounds like a fun rom-com. I see why people freaked out about the beanie but now that you've explained it really is no big deal and reminds me of that one episode of HIMYM where Marshall accidentally shaved his head and wore a hat for the wedding. ^^
What's done is done -- no sense in pondering over shoulda/coulda/woulda
what is the point of your comment except to get likes from people at another's expense!! Who likes being told by a complete stranger what they SHOULD have done months ago when it's in the past?! most unhelpful thing someone can do to another person. They are happily married and were bold enough to share this with the world. Give these human beings some grace!!!
“a faith based wedding” doesn’t make a relationship stronger lol
Is it just me or did anyone else find it weird that Emmyn's parents and everyone had more to do with the wedding than Dani's side? Like not even her sisters were that much involved
This ain't right ! Dani is being isolated from her family . This marriage has a bunch of red flags all over
It's all about Emmyn's family and I feel like why wasn't Dani's famliy at the wedding ...she also walked down the aisle on the song that HE wanted ....and she didn't even have a say and that just selfish to now invite your own family to you wedding .
Here I was thinking , oh okay she is leaving the Cimorelli band to do graphic designs ... But now she is spending twice as much time on UA-cam as she did on the sisterchannel
I just don't like Emmyn for some reason ...he is just like a walking red flag !! She is being isolated from her family and that's wrong ...no offence though . Also I think he manipulated her into leaving the band .. cause look he has a band why didn't he leave the band and she had to
But this marriage looks toxic and just RED FLaGs all over ...She says she isn't gonna be a people pleaser anymore , but she literally do everything Emmyn says and she wanted to have a big party ...but when his aunt and uncle said don't have a big party she just agreed and her parents didn't even get to plan anything for the wedding , it's not right ..... He wasn't even dressed properly for the wedding , he wore a beanie and sneakers
NO Judging and NO Offence
All of us are just VERY protective of you Dani ...and we don't want you to get hurt .
The fact that they posted this and cimorelli also posted about marriage and that
She seems very isolated from her family and that is an indication of a toxic relationship...but maybe her family is the toxic one and she’s getting out and saving herself. Not saying I’m an Emmyn fan but u never know...
she is isolated from her family, she didn't even go to Christina's pregnancy announcement
@@ajnr6876 And she wasn't even with them during Christmas and New Years Eve
No I'm 99% sure it's Emmyn's family Emmyn in general he is isolating her from her sisters
@@ajnr6876 So? For all we know, Dani got the news separately. Doesn't mean she's isolated from her family
@@coni8441 And you know this HOW?
something about this seems fishy...
The fact that his family had a sit down and convinced her to do it their way is really weird. She didn’t tell her family, only his, that they changed the date of the wedding. She was always super close with her family until the engagement so it feels so uncomfortable.
Exactly
Having to defend every decision you’ve made as a couple is off
This
This gives off such weird, uncomfortable, creepy vibes😕
It’s not your marriage to be worrying about. Everything you’re seeing is from a screen. You don’t know him or her personally so there’s no need to put out judgement.
It’s not your marriage to be worrying about. Everything you’re seeing is from a screen. You don’t know him or her personally so there’s no need to put out judgement.
Adriana cx what do people do when they put things on a “screen” for millions to watch? They put on a persona that makes them seem likeable. I can only imagine what Emmyn does when the camera isnt rolling. Your comments all sound dumb af, especially with these videos right in front of your eyes.
Adriana cx dani specifically made this video putting out the details of their relationship on to the internet. shes famous, people are obviously going to judge what they see especially if it’s as strange as this situation is. why are you trying so hard to defend them on every comment people are just concerned for her.
She can’t be part of cimmoreli cuz it’s time consuming but has time to film and post here??? Kinda weird
Actually I think the time consuming thing was bull. Lisa does a lot of the editing and Dani doesn’t have to go to every single meetings and be a part of every single thing they do. She can still sing covers and do challenges on that channel. There was no reason to leave except her husband.
Spring Lady exactly. Her and emmyn even have a video where they explain later on that they edit for HOURS every single day then go to bed. Really time consuming.
I feel like she didn't want to be a singer in a band anymore
Married almost 12 years. I also got married at 19. Our loved ones were stressed! But 12 years and 5 kids later it was all worth it ❤
Probably your partner never showed abusive/obsessive tendencies like emmyn did
@@coni8441 I don't make assumptions about people and niether should you.
@@coni8441 And you know this how?
brittanymcguff love this! Dani and emmyn seem so happy idk why all these comments think this marriage was a mistake
@@Vanessa-nr4pn My guess is, because so many people still see her as the little girl in Cimorelli and can't seem to acknowledge her maturity
Obviously, Dani is seeking some independence. Imagine being home-schooled and then being in a family business since age 9. Although there are some wonderful things about the Cimorelli family, can you imagine how claustrophobic that would be? Not surprised, she seems to be attaching to Emmyn's family which offers new relationships and ideas. The freedom will be good for her. That said, I would not be surprised if she rejoins Cimorelli some day. From a career standpoint, not sure she realizes how good she had it.
There are other ways to become independent that don't involve ISOLATING yourself from your loved ones and ignoring your own decisions and perspectives to focus on your boyfriend's/husband's only. Take Christina for example. She got married too and she wanted to be independent too (specially since she's older), so she moved in with Nick. But that doesn't mean she stopped contact with her family like Dani did, Christina would have NEVER allowed to have her OWN wedding without her family. This is not something Dani is doing, all these impulsive decisions she is taking SCREAM "emm*n" everywhere, and that's the problem here
@@coni8441 Exactly what I was going to reply
Except she is depending a lot on him and his family.
C ceas ce C ce ce have you ever considered that her family is isolating her? She wasn’t going to change her mind in marrying him. They might as well just be supportive and then support her through any consequences of her decision. And who knows maybe it won’t end in consequence. Why would she want to be around people who are being judgmental of her choices?
it's more like an incredibly naive young girl who, in her craving for freedom, lacks the ability to recognize red flags and attaches herself to a boy and family that take advantage of her vulnerability.
Who’s here after the breakup?😭
What break up? I thought they were still together (from her video)
@@clarev6518nooo they’re separated, I’m watching old vids now
This is so depressing.
Emily Luisa i really can’t imagine being so young and feeling held down by marriage. they both have so many experiences and heartbreaks that they should’ve experienced before jumping into this. i’m worried.
Miranda i truly believe that you cannot experience a good relationship or marriage until youve experienced a heartbreak before. You need to learn and get experience before jumping into something so permanent. When this relationship is over, she will learn from it and it will be then that she realizes what she needs to be weary of. Just sucks that they made such a permanent decision before they ever got that experience, because now theyre gonna have to go through the long, stressful process of divorce, just to break up with each other.
R2RO i agree 100%!
Arturo it’s sad that you feel that way. The divorce rate is higher today than ever and it’s partially because people feel like they need to live and get it “out of their system”. Spoiler alert: that doesn’t lead to a happier marriage. Quite the contrary. It leads to jealousy and resentment and regret. Why waste time with someone who isn’t your SOMEONE??
She literally had 3 signs as to why she shouldn't have been married
So the Cimorellis didn’t like emmyn after all lmao WE LOVE A WOKE FAMILY 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Nobody said that or even remotely implied it -- you are just looking for an excuse to invoke your misplaced hatred, and that is sad & pathetic
@@Star_Jewel YOUR COMPLETELY RIGHT
The 18th dec was a Wednesday not a Tuesday.. But they keep saying they got married on a Tuesday?
Wait that's true, wow that's weird 🤔😅
This only gets weider and weirder, what the heck ??
Dec 18th, 2019 was a Wednesday
2018 guys
Time stamp 9:40 dec 18, 2018
I feel really sorry for the Cimorelli family. Imagine seeing your daughter/little sis dating some guy that’s kinda weird, then getting engaged AT NINETEEN to the guy even though they barely know each other, then telling her to PLEASE reconsider because he seems dangerous, and then find out that HIS FAMILY was planning a wedding for themselves only.
None of the Cimorellis deserve this. I’m sure they tried, specially Christina, to make her see how wrong the situation is... and yet she didn’t listen. And now she’s trapped with this obsessive/manipulative guy AND his creepy family forever
Not forever. Divorce exists, and that’s exactly what they have just done, go for one. Hope she is okay.
"Up until then, guys I'm not gonna lie, it was probably the worst few months of my entire life." - Dani talking about the months leading up to the wedding because literally *everyone* around them disapproved and didn't want them to get married.
To me, this sounds SO MUCH like a Disney movie where the teenage girl stamps her foot and says, "But daddy *I love him!* He's perfect!" about the man who turns out to be the evil villain trying to destroy the kingdom and kill the main characters not even 3 days later.
Girl, have you even seen Frozen?
If I want to get married and my family disapproved I wouldn’t care she has her life mom and dad don’t always have to be involved in anything she was a singer from a really young age listening to what ever one had to say around her and now it is her turn to take control of her life
If Emmyn edits these then y’all better be careful cause the comments gonna get turned off on the next videos
Summer the whole channel should be turned off
nah they've been getting comments like these for months
He's so narcissistic lmfao all the video editing has revolved around stuff he's said that he thinks is funny
Dani, EMMYN IS NOT SAFE FOR YOU
Honestly please shut up. They’re married now.
Adriana cx them being married doesn’t change the fact that they’re still in a toxic relationship...
Define not safe!? What do you see, that she obviously cannot see?
༺ ᴇᴛʜᴇʀᴇᴀʟ:妍 ༻ it’s not toxic. I’ve been in a toxic relationship & this is no where near it. They have a healthy marriage, you can see the love they have between each other, they communicate well, yes they may talk over each other but they both haven’t matured as of yet... they need a lot of time and will eventually grow out of that
How??? I just don’t understand.
LOL so her sisters didn’t like Emmyn
Can’t say I don’t understand where they’re coming from.
@@Kyla Lambalot they're Catholic and don't believe in divorce. The only way you can divorce is if you prove you were never in love in the first place. So it really is permanent for them. That's why it's so important to them that Dani truly got to know who she was marrying
C Anne lol that's not entirely true. My whole family is catholic and a few have gotten divorced 🤷♀️
@@lexi305 they are divorced only "on paper", but still married in church (I believe, since it's really hard for the Vatican to accept the matrimonial cancellation)
Ingrid Braz marriage literally is a signed paper when you come down to it though
Not trying to be rude but was your family disappointed in you Dani for rushing your wedding?
Whaaat?! Danis family was not invited to her own wedding?!
He has made Dani feel cringey this guy is so unlikeable. Worst time of your life Dani, really you are 19, you ain't even faced with life yet.
It’s not your marriage to be worrying about. Everything you’re seeing is from a screen. You don’t know him or her personally so there’s no need to put out judgement.
iiGalaxyIris yes I am. Because the amount of times you guys have said “it’s a red flag” does not even match up to how many times I’ve said it.
this aged poorly :(
I’m just confused as to why she was the one who went to the hotel, instead of him. And emmyn got to enjoy the luxury of his own home like whaaat
I got married at 20 to someone that was just the right amount of manipulative and emotionally abusive to keep me around. I got out after a year. Worst mistake I ever made. I hope Dani is not in a similar situation.
So she talks about wanting to do things her own way than has Emmyn's mom plan and control the entire wedding...
And suddenly i feel sorry for the Cimorelli family....
yeah lisa is with that loser chad what a shame
I think people forget that both Dani and Emmyn are REAL humans with Real feelings
And also that they're adults and in charge of their own lives. If they both wanted to do this, there are reasons for it. We don't need to know anything, but they're happy and that's wonderful.
Rusbel Bautista not really
There’s no difference in getting married when your 30 then there is when you are 19
As long as you love the person it’s there choice.
I think people are just worried about Dani.. Of course there's no need to be rude or mean but there have been many red flags that people have noticed in their videos and that's why they are concerned
Mara Kat. Yeah I can understand that. I do agree too that it feels off
I’m just saying getting young married is not a big issue
@@marakat.7529 Perception isn't reality, though
wow, initially it was just going to be Emmyn's parents and grandma at your wedding? So no one from your family?
I know there must be a lot we dont seen behind the scenes. Stay strong
Because Emmyn's mother was the one organizing the event, and she had to go with the amount of people it was realistic to invite at the time in order to fit the capacity of the venue. Naturally, she was gonna prioritize Emmyn's family since the amount of people in that family one was gonna comprise said capacity. It would make no sense to only invite one half of both families and exclude the other halves. However, they made it work, and the Cimorellis got to attend as well
@@Star_Jewel 100% disagree it "would make no sense to only invite one half of both families and exclude the other halves." it is ideal in most situations that both the bride and groom have at least a couple people from their respective families. The decision to have only Emmyn's family was definitely because Dani's family didn't originally support. Family issues are messy and I've been there so I was just showing my support to them because I know it's hard.
I think Dani said it herself: initially they were only going to invite people who made them feel supported and comfortable in their decision. Come thanksgiving her family came around so they got invited.
bbfan because they know he is bad for her
It so sad how Dani could have avoided this whole situation by taking the time to meet someone who's actually worth it. Like she could have had a beautiful wedding with her happy family and a lovely and respectful husband... and yet she risked EVERYTHING for this... guy
@craisins 86 I'm glad you didn't 💕
this fatass
She deserves someone better. Someone who got ambitions and not this guy who seems to be relying on Dani and this channel to get by.
Sooo December 18 was a Wednesday..... I mean i know people forget things but like IDK
wait wdym, I'm confused lol
This whole thing seems sketchy...
guys they have probably seen the MANY comments regarding our curiosity about their sisters opinions on their marriage but they are just choosing not to discuss it and we need to respect that :) I get that you're concerned but its their life not yours (no hate at all just my opinion)
hiy a they basically addressed it by saying that not everyone agreed.
Dani G where did they mention this?
Red Sorceress a bunch of times. 2:25 is where they first addressed it
But then they said the sisters were at the wedding and also helped her get ready
soulpainter yea cause that’s what a good sister does, even if you don’t agree
I can’t still move on from her being out of the band :<
But as long as I see her happy I’m happy :>
In the introductions I keep waiting for the “I’m Dani”
I had my baby at 21, people were nasty and horrible about it. For me, I knew it was right, 7 years with my partner and my two beautiful children and still with their dad and as in love as ever. Some people know earlier in life what they want/need. God has a plan, it's not always the same as everyone else, but you roll with it. Life isn't the same for everyone. I love my life, and it's just as perfect and solid as someone married at 30. Love you both xx
How did you leave the band because you “didn’t have time for it and wanted to focus on graphic design” but post like twice a week with this dude about your relationship... like I thought you were so busy with graphic design?
I came back to this video a year later. It makes me so sad all of the awful comments about Emmyn. I can’t comprehend why you guys can’t just be happy for them. It makes me sick. I hope that Dani and Emmyn don’t let this get to them because they seem genuinely happy. I love you Dani and Emmyn and I love watching y’all
Emmyn is controlling ur life n made u leave da band... there u go guys
I have so many thoughts about this but I'll only say that I'm sorry you didn't get the support you needed (and deserved) on such a special occasion. I'm glad you had a beautiful wedding afterall and I hope you have a very happy&healthy life together! ♡
Why do I feel like she is forcing her self to laugh and look happy with him in front of us ? She is like sick and tired from his immaturity
That's a stretch lol. But yeah I agree the relationship gives a weird vibe
The truth is, this seems like a relationship that's using each other to fill and feed their insecurities instead of a relationship that's truly constantly bettering each other. That's just honestly what wee see
I’m 19 and married, I actually got engaged last year in January (I was 18) and got married in April. I love my husband so much and I’m so blessed to be with him. I know it was Gods will for us to be together. But anyways guys don’t be discouraged by the negative comments. God bless you both! ❤️
the “negative comments” are just people who are concerned for her. i’m glad your relationship is going well but there are a lot of red flags with these two and people are just worried.
d a they clearly don’t want to talk about everyones opinion on their relationship, so everybody needs to relax & let them live their lives
It's not the age that's the problem. And if I was in a shitty relation I'd like people to try and help me too.