Can you please talk about girls who ghost, and ghosting girls to our advantage. I searched and haven’t found this from you. It’s a common thing to do on both sides
Factz, black man get out of this country (United States) and explore cause your not just limited to American women. It’s millions and millions of women out there
My men that are working a 9/5 remember if your own women aren’t choosing you there’s plenty of other types of women that will. Go on the team that is rooting for you
Why y’all think Kevin Samuels been popping off after he starting talking about “Black” women, bc before he was only talking about men and no one was listening 🤧😴
It's because their dads would disown them if they did that for how stupid they are lol. It makes them think for 1 second. But also none of those sisters looked like of the upmost quality just some random girls off the street or out of the club.
Plenty of brothers in IT,medicine,business, tech, legit entrepreneurs etc. Remember they won't give a damn and will just move on when you get locked up...then you gotta deal with the shit personally
1. Put self first 2. Step your education up: read daily, get your credentials. 3. Step your physical, mental and spiritual health up. 4. Step up your investments: stocks, savings, revenue. 5. Step your hygiene, style, home environment up. 6. Step your inner circle up. Only those that understand your grind and support each other.
Im proud to be a 9 to 5iver plus I'm saving my money to start my own business I workout everyday at home and Im putting in the necessary work to find my purpose. I'm chasing money and happiness, and self improvement to become the best version of myself
@@JRich165 why u need help, if u asking for help u already know what u gotta do. I understand if u need someone to slap u and wake u tf up but come on. U disrespecting yo self with this situation. Since u literally see her kid I’m guessing you must love sloppy seconds right? Just remember her kids father had his seed oozing out her box if u need wake up call
A lot of black women in this video don't like 9-5 guys but they get angry when we date outside our race when we level up and become the high value man smh
Any girl who gets involved with the scammers, pookies, ray rays, ballas, grove street and bad boys deserve the horrible lifestyle that comes with these guys. Don't feel sorry for them
Facts let em do what they gon do they will wanna change their decision later in life 5-10 years later with 4 or 5 kids she have to take care of by herself 💯
As a nerdy black dude from California I always thought maybe I was lame Because of constant rejection and getting made fun of but this year I started dating out and it’s a whole different world I don’t have to act Ignorant to impress other vvomen
You can be Beta and a woman can think you're alpha and you can be alpha and a woman can think you're Beta.... it all boils down to how much they like somebody that determines if they're going to make or break rules not necessarily who's alpha and who's Beta in reality.....it's all about her perception ... men don't let these women determine which one you are let who you are as a person and your life determine that not women
@Wild Life That only Applys to low value Females that y'all be trying to chase your mind & how you act Will determine the future. Looks just get you in the door
@Wild Life okay but that has nothing to go with having value. You would have to prove that it's bs instead of just pulling something out your ass make it make sense for me thank you
It goes down to if shes a feminine woman or a masculine woman. Masculine women naturally crave alphas but heavily rely on beta males to thrive. Feminine women act right to alphas 💯
When they're in their sexual prime they are repulsed by the nice guy/safe option. When they're out of their prime they look for the nice guy/safe option not out of desire but out of practicality... and that nice guy who desires a family will be given the ultimatum of navigating the uncertainty that is dating market or settling down with a woman who would have rejected him in the past but now acknowledges him. The caveats being that said woman has another man's kid and unbeknownst to him she doesn't want anymore kids. So he is compelled to raise another man's seed and serve as a seat warmer until the child's father returns or something better comes along... and then the nice guy is exiled from his surrogate family.
Yep, or even if she doesnt have kids, he still has to deal with women that are physically beneath him...A male 7 has the same value as a female 4 in todays marketplace.
As a young Black man, I’ve been afforded the opportunity to travel to over 22 different countries. Traveling automatically levels up your mindset, persona, and perspective. There are all kinds of women out there for you to choose from. They will come in all different ethnicities and ages across the socio-economic status. You just have to be wise and remember to do what’s best for you at the end of the day. If you continue to live in your purpose, life will unfold for you in ways you could’ve never dreamed of.
So when he get locked up or killed, she’ll need that 9-5 lawyer to help her ray ray get a lighter sentence, she’ll need that 9-5 police officer to track down his murder suspects, she’ll need that 9-5 doctor to save her ray ray who’s clinging to life from a gunshot wound. I’d rather be a boring doctor or lawyer than have to keep my head on a swivel trying to make fast money.
Funny thing is, its not really fast money at all. I have yet to find a drug dealer making more money than what I make with my 9 to 5. A majority of those women are young tho. So when they hear 9 to 5 the first on their mind is probably someone working at mcdonalds. Guarantee if they said lawyer, drug dealer, or scammer a lot of their answers would be different.
These are the same women 10-15 years down the line will be crying about being a struggling single mother and turning to religion in the church speaking in tongues praying with the pastor for a good high value man. But like Kevin Samuels said, you already met him but you wanted the scammer and drug dealers.
@@shuntavaisjohnson345 these are your aunt's, big cousins and mamma who told you your daddies wasn't shit, she left out the part she had a chance to get a good man but he was too lame, boring, Corny and soft
@@death5talker45 nah they dead serious. And im speaking from experience. White girls worried more about you having money than how you make your money. Ima career guy and they like the fact im focused on my career and going to college to further it. Black girls are unimpressed with my career😂their mindsets are different. I mean yea all woman are opportunist, but overall white woman go for career 9-5 guys just facts
I tell young men expand your dating pool. Start interacting with girls from other countries and cultures. Your whole mindset will change. Especially when you start coming across black women from other culture. Big difference
@@alvpha the complete opposite of everything you do with women here. Say hello ask them out. Most importantly make sure they have shown interest. International are a lot easier to talk especially if your a American man
Remember, the girl that’s a 5 has a lot of dudes in her DMs giving them false hope. Just go work on yourself. Go get your money up, go to the gym, educate yourself once you up these women will notice and the right one for your program will come. Don’t focus on them let them come to you and let her know you the prize stay cold and stay on the grind be focused
Exactly facts. They want the good man when they're used up and they're cookies are just alright or a lil good but not as good as it was when she was young and gave all the goods to that Chad, Tyrone, Pookie n RayRay. I see nothing but the pattern. All the women chase the bad guy in they're prime n when she aint as fine as she was in her prime n she even alright looking or ugly then she'll chase the good guy and now the good guy no longer wants her no more, he wants the women who is fine, added value to his life, gave him his needs & wants. That's the kind a man all women wants n needs is a good loyal chick who is going to provide ur every needs and wants but they damn hard to find. This is why I just at this point stay on my grind n not chase chicks.
They give excuses to why they didn't give a good guy a chance they were self proclaimed good guys but they see a whole toxic dude who got multiple baby mama's but say they can change them and get mad when they see no positive results
Fellas you better get on your grind while you can. I know you feel that inflation kicking your ass. And it’s only going to get worse. Trade, entrepreneurship, or tech is the only way to cement your financial future. Don’t get distracted by the slim thick Women out here. We all know what they will cost you when you are not focused on your purpose.
Steph, I been watching you for awhile bro, since 2019… you changed my life then & you’re continuing to do so. You the one who introduced me to real life sh*t, since then I’ve graduated highschool, dropped out of college, failed my real estate exam and switched over to the mortgage industry, preparing for my test soon (there’s no cap salary your income depends on your hustle)… I just wanna say that you doing Gods work bro, keep doing you bro, hope to meet you some day.
Imma be honest at this point only way to even the dating scene is to get all men to agree to only give the 8’s 9’s / 10’s our time , then they would have no choice but to take whatever they can type shit 💯💯, treat em like they treat us 💯
That already happens with marriage and relationships. Women have power over sex, we have power over relationships. So many women don’t think they have to earn marriage and think because a guy has known them for x amount of years that he has to marry them but if we don’t see her as wife material, we won’t do it
Wolverine is 5’3 and Cyclops ( Scott Sommers ) is 6’3. Cyclops is what Jean Grey wanted but Wolverine is who she needed and desired . This is coming from a man who’s over 6ft, I’ve lost out on men who are shorter than 5’7. Trust me….how you carry yourself & your confidence can take precedence over anything else. Keep dropping gems Steph. Respect my brother. 💯 ✊🏾
Oh well bro!! A lot of our women lost a generation plus of good BM because they’re all in love with pookie and ray ray.. we were put in the friend zone, invisible to them and was clearly not attractive to them. It’s always when it’s too late and when they hit the wall and when we’re got our body and purpose right. I’m good Brodie!
I was just talking about this today, social media killed everything. I slide in this ig model dm after she followed me first and she left me on seen. She was BAD but I shoot my shot and charged it to the game
Don’t do it. I just had one follow me. I just enjoyed the pics for a few minutes and went on with my day. Real life is the way to go, you can’t gauge someone’s interest in you through social media, you gotta be able to see the body language
I've struggled hard and still do finding a female its stuck in my head 24/7 365 days a week and I've come to the realization that I'm spending so much time focusing on females and I dont got none of my shit together broke with 1400 dollars in my savings thanks stephon ima start from today and work.
@@marcooo8408 Much better I'm moving into a new place beginning of next year and I'm working on my liscense. Just finished my first semester of welding school at juco.
Shout out to the all those scammers and drug dealers. I am a 9-5 five black man. Been an accountant for 15 years, just got promoted to GM. 9- -5 Black Men please block out this nonsense and focus on yourself and your goals.
I Ain’t Tripping On That Dope Boy Shit I’m 6’8 31 Got My First Kid On The Way This Grind As A Company Truck Driver Gone Pay Off Im Stacking Right Now I’m Working Towards Getting A Semi Too Be A Owner Operator For A Bigger Bag Keep Grinding Fellas
@@dmdproduction1328 Already 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽 Be Careful Out There Driver.. I’m Rolling On Thanksgiving As We Speak Headed To Wisconsin Told My Chick Save Me A Plate I ll Be Back 💰💯
@@raresabraleaks8216 If Your Talking Bout Trucks Running By Itself Nah I Don’t Believe That Will Be Anytime Soon. If Anything A lot Of Company’s Going From Manual 10 Speed Trucks To Automatic Trucks Where All U Do Is Drive No Shifting No Clutching
As a man I'm happy with who I am I don't need to change myself for any girl or anybody. I appreciate myself & show compassion for where I'm at right now in life no matter how far it may seem I was born into this world alone bet you ima leave alone as well thank you
It’s funny how the majority said they’d choose a drug dealer 🤣🤣. I wonder if they’d have that same energy if they was sitting in there drug dealer boyfriends car with him while his opps pull up tryna tag him out⚰️. Unbelievable
damn Steph is Irritable these days Lolz, he don't normally be so expressive . Bro got some thing on his heart he know he had to share with his viewers. We all the better for it too. Thanks bruh you absolutely right about everything you just said. Our only option is to be our full selves man.
Idk even know what’s considered lame anymore because you could still be in the streets and be a lame. A lame is personality trait just because you in the streets doesn’t mean you can fight. The street persona is nothing more than an illusion. The crazy part is you can find a lame who is a better fighter than some streets dudes. It doesn’t matter if your a killer in the streets because anyone could pull a trigger a toddler can shoot someone. That’s why I don’t respect when they say they like killers because it’s flawed.
U right about a man is a man for as the title of who can fight or not. But it comes more than just pulling a trigger to be a killer. Its about war and with come behind that. Physically anyone can but u still gotta be handle with comes after that.
@@beecool2603 majority of killers have ptsd and have nightmares of being killed which has them on edge all the time and usually need drugs to cope very similar to ppl who went to war, unless they are on serial killer time. These are the reasons why I don’t take it as presented
When you really think about it the society they love, live in and do what they want freely is made and maintained by 9-5 guys😂and they bashed these same dudes smh
Women hate good men sooo much that they are choosing to die alone, rather than be with one. On God, I had a chick in my simpin’ days tell me: “I don’t see myself with you, because I’m honestly afraid to be happy.” Focus on the mission, fellas! 💵
Facts. They fucked up in the head. 9 times outta 10 her father wasn’t present and she’s a lost soul with out the structure a father provides. Estrogen overload. The man was on this earth first. We can’t properly function without a man’s presence.
I felt stupid because people knew I was bad academically but when I stopped caring about people my grades improved because now I stopped focusing on people's opinions but rather on education
You have to see those young ladies are city girls/Meg the Stallion/Cardi B disciples and everything they asking for is what they hear in those songs and raps and in the media
Rebellious men tend to make more money, have higher testosterone, better physiques, more respect, and protect their loved ones better than any typical “nice guy”. You can’t blame girls for preferring a scammer over a 9 to 5 dude, they’re a better partner investment as far as protection and providing. Now I’m not saying to become a scammer but I am saying to embrace your masculine nature and not repress it, start a business or move to a new city! Take risks cause you’re built for that as a man. Stay focused gang!
@@TheFadewolf Well what I’m saying isn’t that you need to be hood but that you shouldn’t blame women for their choices and that you should embrace your masculine side in whatever that manifests to. Could be the gym, entrepreneurship, or anything, not just being a scammer.
I get what you're saying but a rebellious man doesn't exist. Rebels have a teenage boy mindest. Only a disciplined man can claim true manhood. So one can have the physique, money, masculine demeanor but he's no more than a boy if he can't control himself. And all scammers eventually get caught or the money dries up, no finesse is sustainable.
@@MichaelDrift_ The problem is there is no "game" if woman are the ones in charge and the ones who pick the rules. of course im going to blame them for this.
there are indian chics, mixed raced/exotics, asian chicks, white chicks, non-westernized blacks, latinas, and god knows how many other categories of women to pick from. Westernized black women should be INVISIBLE to us men.
Yall got to realize that a lot of men actually like the female version of pookie and ray ray.... just because a woman is attractive it doesn't make her a good woman... I don't understand why men don't get this if these women was 500 pound women liking pookie and ray ray no one would care so why do we care when it's clearly a bad woman who is attracted to bad things and bad energy which explains why she's attracted to bad things and bad energy ...men got to get it together and stop sweating bad women ..Remember looks don't make her a good woman or good sex
What i come to understand is that humans generally associate good looking human beings with positive traits and less attractive people with negative traits just because someone looks good doesn't equate them to a good human being and vice versa
@@cboy-ou2hr but you'll notice that most of these insecure men and women don't go for the best looking ones. They go for the 3rd or fourth best looking (who often have way inflated egos and terrible attitudes cause they're good looking enough to hang with number one, but not bad looking enough to know they're not in the same league), all cause they don't feel worth of the best
@@cboy-ou2hr Yeah basically whatever they're attracted to they hope and pray that it ends up good for them and that's not how it works you gotta find somebody you're attracted to that is actually good for you too you can't change them into something that you want them to be they already have to be that And sadly the more options a person has AKA the better looking they are the more likely they're going to play around and do you dirty that's just the way it is.... people can't handle blessings whether it good looks or someone actually liking them
Man step you the 🐐 I stepped up my image n my girl ask me who I’m getting cute for cus it was her first time seeing me not dressing broke now she flocking on me IMAGE is 1# fellas but make sure you secure the bag as well 💯✊🏾
They be saying drug dealer but the 9-5 be having more money then the drug dealers like realistically the drug dealers got nice cars but stay in a traps house like how that make sense
Black Women are finished. I am so glad I started dating out. I’ve been in a happy relationship for the past six months. If she keep it up, the wedding ring is on the way.
Men try to build their own roster, but women have their own league (each team signifies multiple dudes lined up for each role, for example….this team of guys is for dinner dates, this team of guys is for text buddies and phone buddies, this team is the all validation team, this team of guys are the dudes who are actually fucking me(nba champs), this team of guys are the dudes who give me money, and etc
I always laugh when I hear a chick complaining about dating. If a decent looking girl in her 20s can't find a suitable man it is their own fault. And this applies to all races.
A lot of y’all dudes put to much emphasis on who ain’t choosing you you’re too busy focusing on the ones that aren’t and missing plenty of golden opportunities right in front of you
These chick's just gotta show up and they have unlimited options and we have to level up in life to get the options that we want 💯 and if she makes you wait for the box she not interested in you 💯
its a service model, you just have to look somewhere else for the service you know you want and knowing why is what makes it a need, something in male nature regarding survival. her nature is assuming that she is always going to survive and so her values reflect a sort of useless service model. and that is why she never wakes up, even when she does she can choose to go right back to sleep under water. that said, look outward, away from hometown, its part of growing up. and part of that is this music, this scene, it ain't going to sound the same. its hypnotic, its a loop for a reason. you can choose to go back to sleep but you know well what fate that is
If you notice something that all these girls have in common is that, they are all from the city. You will never hear about a girl's talking like this from the country. It's always these city girls who are spoiled and think the world owes them something they think that a man has to meet all these ridiculous standards in order to be with her basic self. Which is why you'll never see me married to a city girl. I'm happily married to a girl that's from the country and she doesn't even like this shit this is exactly why you raise your daughters right and don't raise them in the city if you can help it. Limit their social media or as a matter of fact don't let them have social media simple as that.
Damnnn Steph… this is one of your coldest videos to say the least. You nailed it on so many talking points and simply confirmed tha shxt I b tryna tell nuggas who don’t listen. Keep talkin yo shxt G. I wish u tha absolute best in your endeavors and much success! 🥶🔥🔥💯
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Can you please talk about girls who ghost, and ghosting girls to our advantage. I searched and haven’t found this from you. It’s a common thing to do on both sides
who gives a fuck about these girls in the first place? you're literally showin us pump and dumps
They made a deal with WHITE SUPREMACY to keep Blackmen at the bottom.
I pray every black man get they passport and see how much abundance is in this world. Amén 🙏🏿
Factz, black man get out of this country (United States) and explore cause your not just limited to American women. It’s millions and millions of women out there
@@longrange34 billions🤫
I will as soon as they stop the vaccine mandated for traveling to other countries
@@longrange34 Just don't come to the UK, it's exactly the same. matter of fact any westernised country.
@@mightybryan1033 I respect the fight but they won't walk back their decision on it.
“Remember fellas: we ALWAYS win in the end only when you put the work in.” -Steph
*put in the work
Facts my G💯 can’t focus on these 304’s
That’s not true either way
Facts...put in the work, put self first.
@@Jambuc829 Simped out. We hate to see it.
My men that are working a 9/5 remember if your own women aren’t choosing you there’s plenty of other types of women that will. Go on the team that is rooting for you
Peep how the snow bunnies picked 9-5🤔 and not the scammers/dealers in 1:27. Crazy bruh
@@TrevieTrev aye bro that’s why I don’t discriminate because our own will put us down before the system do at times
Why y’all think Kevin Samuels been popping off after he starting talking about “Black” women, bc before he was only talking about men and no one was listening 🤧😴
It's because their dads would disown them if they did that for how stupid they are lol. It makes them think for 1 second. But also none of those sisters looked like of the upmost quality just some random girls off the street or out of the club.
Plenty of brothers in IT,medicine,business, tech, legit entrepreneurs etc. Remember they won't give a damn and will just move on when you get locked up...then you gotta deal with the shit personally
1. Put self first
2. Step your education up: read daily, get your credentials.
3. Step your physical, mental and spiritual health up.
4. Step up your investments: stocks, savings, revenue.
5. Step your hygiene, style, home environment up.
6. Step your inner circle up. Only those that understand your grind and support each other.
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Add crypto and real estate to your list
Crypto is a life changer by far
My nigga
Pretty summed it up...thank you!!!!
Im proud to be a 9 to 5iver plus I'm saving my money to start my own business I workout everyday at home and Im putting in the necessary work to find my purpose. I'm chasing money and happiness, and self improvement to become the best version of myself
keep goin
Come to gym my guy lol
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Build the kingdom man! That will give you strength and freedom of many forms
Same
Remember whatever you do, don’t you ever become a step father.
Ever, ever, ever!
Amen
wow..im there already
@@JRich165 why u need help, if u asking for help u already know what u gotta do. I understand if u need someone to slap u and wake u tf up but come on. U disrespecting yo self with this situation. Since u literally see her kid I’m guessing you must love sloppy seconds right? Just remember her kids father had his seed oozing out her box if u need wake up call
@@KirigayaMarc this some hard truth here. But it’s all real. I’m gone get right out here
A lot of black women in this video don't like 9-5 guys but they get angry when we date outside our race when we level up and become the high value man smh
If I'm a 9-5 dude Idgaf if these black don't like me
And it's fitting that the 2 white girls are the only ones who said 9 to 5
@@Eman14128 fr
They are lost. Leave em alone.
Bro something you guys need to understand is that black women love drama, if you can not give her that the chances of keeping her is low.
Any girl who gets involved with the scammers, pookies, ray rays, ballas, grove street and bad boys deserve the horrible lifestyle that comes with these guys. Don't feel sorry for them
And they always the victim when they telling their story to the simp. 😂
You sound jealous and bitter because you ain't getting no play with the women.🤣🤣🤣
Facts let em do what they gon do they will wanna change their decision later in life 5-10 years later with 4 or 5 kids she have to take care of by herself 💯
@Natalie _ a woman gets it 🙌🙌
@@thabisozungu9264 exactly. It's a circus with these chicks. They talking about "best friend, he hurt me again"
As a nerdy black dude from California I always thought maybe I was lame Because of constant rejection and getting made fun of but this year I started dating out and it’s a whole different world I don’t have to act Ignorant to impress other vvomen
That’s why I only like Asians
It's a cold blitz ..Cus i love black women . But they so addicted to sensationalism that they demerit themselves from even being datable smh
@@feodiente9460 maaaan tell me about it.
it aint just black women you'll see
@@dailyselfimprovementredpil4671 oh yeah... Just sistas got too many sound bites ..lol
You can be Beta and a woman can think you're alpha and you can be alpha and a woman can think you're Beta.... it all boils down to how much they like somebody that determines if they're going to make or break rules not necessarily who's alpha and who's Beta in reality.....it's all about her perception ... men don't let these women determine which one you are let who you are as a person and your life determine that not women
@Wild Life That only Applys to low value Females that y'all be trying to chase your mind & how you act Will determine the future. Looks just get you in the door
@Wild Life okay but that has nothing to go with having value. You would have to prove that it's bs instead of just pulling something out your ass make it make sense for me thank you
@Wild Life And when I mean value by the way doesn't necessarily mean material list of stuff
@Wild Life You should keep that in mind
It goes down to if shes a feminine woman or a masculine woman. Masculine women naturally crave alphas but heavily rely on beta males to thrive. Feminine women act right to alphas 💯
A woman told me once that women will always want someone else because no one man can satisfy all of a woman's needs.
When they're in their sexual prime they are repulsed by the nice guy/safe option. When they're out of their prime they look for the nice guy/safe option not out of desire but out of practicality... and that nice guy who desires a family will be given the ultimatum of navigating the uncertainty that is dating market or settling down with a woman who would have rejected him in the past but now acknowledges him. The caveats being that said woman has another man's kid and unbeknownst to him she doesn't want anymore kids. So he is compelled to raise another man's seed and serve as a seat warmer until the child's father returns or something better comes along... and then the nice guy is exiled from his surrogate family.
Spot on
Fuck that lmao. If she don't want MY kids, she not the one. I'ma keep it pushing
Deep
that was a whole Tyler Perry movie
Yep, or even if she doesnt have kids, he still has to deal with women that are physically beneath him...A male 7 has the same value as a female 4 in todays marketplace.
dont be a wannabe thug if you wasn't born into that life, introduced, or influenced...it *dont end WELL*
Saw my boy laid up in a box chasing that life
Agree
@@realbanger you deadass?
@@DannyBoy426 yeah was selling kush and pissed of the wrong people on a sale. there was no reason for him to even sell his parents had money.
@Gods True Creation Ong it's demons in their hearts they hungry and looking for an excuse to spill blood
As a young Black man, I’ve been afforded the opportunity to travel to over 22 different countries. Traveling automatically levels up your mindset, persona, and perspective. There are all kinds of women out there for you to choose from. They will come in all different ethnicities and ages across the socio-economic status. You just have to be wise and remember to do what’s best for you at the end of the day. If you continue to live in your purpose, life will unfold for you in ways you could’ve never dreamed of.
Thank you fam I need to hear that 🙏🏾
So when he get locked up or killed, she’ll need that 9-5 lawyer to help her ray ray get a lighter sentence, she’ll need that 9-5 police officer to track down his murder suspects, she’ll need that 9-5 doctor to save her ray ray who’s clinging to life from a gunshot wound. I’d rather be a boring doctor or lawyer than have to keep my head on a swivel trying to make fast money.
Excellent point 💯
Funny thing is, its not really fast money at all. I have yet to find a drug dealer making more money than what I make with my 9 to 5. A majority of those women are young tho. So when they hear 9 to 5 the first on their mind is probably someone working at mcdonalds.
Guarantee if they said lawyer, drug dealer, or scammer a lot of their answers would be different.
Some lawyers doin all three😂😂
@@blacksyrianiskenderunboi9388 FSE 🤣🤣🤣
None of those professions are 9-5 lol
These are the same women 10-15 years down the line will be crying about being a struggling single mother and turning to religion in the church speaking in tongues praying with the pastor for a good high value man. But like Kevin Samuels said, you already met him but you wanted the scammer and drug dealers.
True
Facts.
@@shuntavaisjohnson345 these are your aunt's, big cousins and mamma who told you your daddies wasn't shit, she left out the part she had a chance to get a good man but he was too lame, boring, Corny and soft
They will just blame us you know the usual
This is a certified hood classic
Everything is a certified hood classic
@@thedeanogaming ngl u ain't wrong 🤷😂💀
Facts I can tell this about to go hard
This comment made my day 😂😂😂😂
@@thedeanogaming 😭🤣
It’s wild that the only white girls he asked said 9 to 5 🤦♂️
Sh*t is sad
They're Lying Their Asses Off
SMGDH
@@death5talker45 nah they dead serious. And im speaking from experience. White girls worried more about you having money than how you make your money. Ima career guy and they like the fact im focused on my career and going to college to further it. Black girls are unimpressed with my career😂their mindsets are different. I mean yea all woman are opportunist, but overall white woman go for career 9-5 guys just facts
@@QFromFlorida why is that tho
I tell young men expand your dating pool. Start interacting with girls from other countries and cultures. Your whole mindset will change. Especially when you start coming across black women from other culture. Big difference
Them Dominican black woman hit different G I’m tryna tell you.
@@Shhhhh30 bra all day man Brazil as well
What's the best way to interact with girls from other countries?
@@alvpha the complete opposite of everything you do with women here. Say hello ask them out. Most importantly make sure they have shown interest. International are a lot easier to talk especially if your a American man
Bruh worshipping the black woman has gotten me into lotta trouble
Remember, the girl that’s a 5 has a lot of dudes in her DMs giving them false hope. Just go work on yourself. Go get your money up, go to the gym, educate yourself once you up these women will notice and the right one for your program will come. Don’t focus on them let them come to you and let her know you the prize stay cold and stay on the grind be focused
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Nawh I couldn’t do a 5 She have to be fine or either decent not scary looking ah 😂🙌🙌
nigga what is a 5 to you
Nice
Ain’t that the truth
I'm only apart of her rotation "she's not mine it was just my turn" this registered well with me
Notice how the white girls was the only ones who said 9-5, our sistas gotta do better bruh fr
It's a lost cause man
@@jonw.415 Facts
Dam shame it's a disgrace
Gotta get one ☝🏾
I’d love to see them ask white/non-black women this question 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Peep 1:27 and how they choose
They'll Lie
they gonna lie dude. even the religious women feel the same they just fake it and pretend.
@@TrevieTrev they listed it backwards but it was still in correct order 🤣 the mind games
@@eddydeathwishe4638 🤣🤣🤣 you not wrong
Modern Woman don’t even look at the avg. in a heartbeat, but wonder where all the good men go!
Exactly facts. They want the good man when they're used up and they're cookies are just alright or a lil good but not as good as it was when she was young and gave all the goods to that Chad, Tyrone, Pookie n RayRay. I see nothing but the pattern. All the women chase the bad guy in they're prime n when she aint as fine as she was in her prime n she even alright looking or ugly then she'll chase the good guy and now the good guy no longer wants her no more, he wants the women who is fine, added value to his life, gave him his needs & wants. That's the kind a man all women wants n needs is a good loyal chick who is going to provide ur every needs and wants but they damn hard to find. This is why I just at this point stay on my grind n not chase chicks.
@@diamantesmith9800 big facts
@@OgeeThegodfather facts 💯💪
They delusional asf
They give excuses to why they didn't give a good guy a chance they were self proclaimed good guys but they see a whole toxic dude who got multiple baby mama's but say they can change them and get mad when they see no positive results
Fellas you better get on your grind while you can. I know you feel that inflation kicking your ass. And it’s only going to get worse. Trade, entrepreneurship, or tech is the only way to cement your financial future. Don’t get distracted by the slim thick Women out here. We all know what they will cost you when you are not focused on your purpose.
Cant wait to put a nice car in my dating picks to see what matches I hit 🤣
Steph, I been watching you for awhile bro, since 2019… you changed my life then & you’re continuing to do so. You the one who introduced me to real life sh*t, since then I’ve graduated highschool, dropped out of college, failed my real estate exam and switched over to the mortgage industry, preparing for my test soon (there’s no cap salary your income depends on your hustle)… I just wanna say that you doing Gods work bro, keep doing you bro, hope to meet you some day.
Its pretty incredible how life altering the content of people like Steph and Casey Zander are
Yup
My fatass been in the gym since Feb and it's thanks to Steph for that motivation to start. That shit was hard for me to do
JP, keep at it, little bro! Switch and move! The grind never stops! Stay persistent!
@@Top_o_da_foodDChain thank you my g!
@@NOYBZ the way to go, keep grindin bro!
Getting in shape, breaking bad habits, and changing your mindset puts you in the Race…. Getting money wins the Race.
Facts you ain’t lying
No cap just go with the flo till u get in them guts then she hooked as long as you beat it the fuck down when u slide in her
Imma be honest at this point only way to even the dating scene is to get all men to agree to only give the 8’s 9’s / 10’s our time , then they would have no choice but to take whatever they can type shit 💯💯, treat em like they treat us 💯
Yep
Been on that
Fact
That already happens with marriage and relationships. Women have power over sex, we have power over relationships. So many women don’t think they have to earn marriage and think because a guy has known them for x amount of years that he has to marry them but if we don’t see her as wife material, we won’t do it
@@stebo5562 yep
Wolverine is 5’3 and Cyclops ( Scott Sommers ) is 6’3. Cyclops is what Jean Grey wanted but Wolverine is who she needed and desired . This is coming from a man who’s over 6ft, I’ve lost out on men who are shorter than 5’7. Trust me….how you carry yourself & your confidence can take precedence over anything else. Keep dropping gems Steph. Respect my brother. 💯 ✊🏾
Who in the actual fuck told you that wolverine is 5'3??
@@amirikiri4112 Wolverine IS 5'3. Look it up.
@@mayisaythatsasmashingblous5876 Yeah everyone that reads comics knows this, anyone that doesn't you can tell they only know Hugh Jackman's wolverine
@@amirikiri4112 because he is lol
We are losing our culture to clout and ego 🤦🏽
Oh well bro!! A lot of our women lost a generation plus of good BM because they’re all in love with pookie and ray ray.. we were put in the friend zone, invisible to them and was clearly not attractive to them. It’s always when it’s too late and when they hit the wall and when we’re got our body and purpose right. I’m good Brodie!
Yep its monk mode/celibacy time
Soulless
Remember an old man telling me fast money don’t last long, slow money will.
True
I was just talking about this today, social media killed everything. I slide in this ig model dm after she followed me first and she left me on seen. She was BAD but I shoot my shot and charged it to the game
Prolly just so you can follow her
Don’t do it. I just had one follow me. I just enjoyed the pics for a few minutes and went on with my day. Real life is the way to go, you can’t gauge someone’s interest in you through social media, you gotta be able to see the body language
you gave her what she was looking for: validation. she don't need you anymore lol
I did this for 3 years and that was the end of that. No more IG notifications and no more messaging shorties on IG. Waste of time.
@@TheBookOfHarper haha facts my guy
I've struggled hard and still do finding a female its stuck in my head 24/7 365 days a week and I've come to the realization that I'm spending so much time focusing on females and I dont got none of my shit together broke with 1400 dollars in my savings thanks stephon ima start from today and work.
How’s it going so far?
@@marcooo8408 Much better I'm moving into a new place beginning of next year and I'm working on my liscense. Just finished my first semester of welding school at juco.
Shit you doing good $1400 you got more then me bro . Keep grinding G
Yeah bro stack up them savings, I just say these females gon come naturally through work or school. Patience is a virtue and in time things will come
Shout out to the all those scammers and drug dealers. I am a 9-5 five black man. Been an accountant for 15 years, just got promoted to GM. 9- -5 Black Men please block out this nonsense and focus on yourself and your goals.
beta
@@Palefeast L
I Ain’t Tripping On That Dope Boy Shit I’m 6’8 31 Got My First Kid On The Way This Grind As A Company Truck Driver Gone Pay Off Im Stacking Right Now I’m Working Towards Getting A Semi Too Be A Owner Operator For A Bigger Bag Keep Grinding Fellas
I’m a driver myself ✊🏽
@@dmdproduction1328 Already 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽 Be Careful Out There Driver.. I’m Rolling On Thanksgiving As We Speak Headed To Wisconsin Told My Chick Save Me A Plate I ll Be Back 💰💯
Bruh ain’t all truck services about to get automated?
@@raresabraleaks8216 If Your Talking Bout Trucks Running By Itself Nah I Don’t Believe That Will Be Anytime Soon. If Anything A lot Of Company’s Going From Manual 10 Speed Trucks To Automatic Trucks Where All U Do Is Drive No Shifting No Clutching
And they wonder why brothers run to other races for a “normal relationship” with “normal expectations”.. ig got these women’s heads messed up fr
As a man I'm happy with who I am I don't need to change myself for any girl or anybody. I appreciate myself & show compassion for where I'm at right now in life no matter how far it may seem I was born into this world alone bet you ima leave alone as well thank you
I think it depends on the environment. Over here in Paris women will never choose a scammer or drug dealer over a 9 to 5.
That's a black american women mentality, maybe some in the UK as well, but that's not the majority all over the world!
No kap UK on dat too
Look up Jacques mesrine
It’s funny how the majority said they’d choose a drug dealer 🤣🤣. I wonder if they’d have that same energy if they was sitting in there drug dealer boyfriends car with him while his opps pull up tryna tag him out⚰️. Unbelievable
9 to 5 is average now and average is unacceptable
Hypergamy on steroids.
They want a lifestyle that they could brag about on social media
damn Steph is Irritable these days Lolz, he don't normally be so expressive . Bro got some thing on his heart he know he had to share with his viewers. We all the better for it too. Thanks bruh you absolutely right about everything you just said. Our only option is to be our full selves man.
Idk even know what’s considered lame anymore because you could still be in the streets and be a lame. A lame is personality trait just because you in the streets doesn’t mean you can fight. The street persona is nothing more than an illusion. The crazy part is you can find a lame who is a better fighter than some streets dudes. It doesn’t matter if your a killer in the streets because anyone could pull a trigger a toddler can shoot someone. That’s why I don’t respect when they say they like killers because it’s flawed.
U right about a man is a man for as the title of who can fight or not. But it comes more than just pulling a trigger to be a killer. Its about war and with come behind that. Physically anyone can but u still gotta be handle with comes after that.
@@beecool2603 majority of killers have ptsd and have nightmares of being killed which has them on edge all the time and usually need drugs to cope very similar to ppl who went to war, unless they are on serial killer time. These are the reasons why I don’t take it as presented
Do they know doctors, lawyers, engineers, business owners, real estate developers, etc work 9-5?
When you really think about it the society they love, live in and do what they want freely is made and maintained by 9-5 guys😂and they bashed these same dudes smh
They don’t care for those kind of men till they see he’s dealing with another race of women 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
Well he talking the regular low paying jobs
They already know they can’t get them.
@@jkennedy2871 If you were a lawyer or a doctor, they’d say you were too busy and that you should work less.
The ice cream (Baskin Robbins) analogy you use regarding her options was so on point. 💯
Women hate good men sooo much that they are choosing to die alone, rather than be with one. On God, I had a chick in my simpin’ days tell me: “I don’t see myself with you, because I’m honestly afraid to be happy.” Focus on the mission, fellas! 💵
Facts. They fucked up in the head. 9 times outta 10 her father wasn’t present and she’s a lost soul with out the structure a father provides. Estrogen overload. The man was on this earth first. We can’t properly function without a man’s presence.
@@H1MXavier FACTS. My ex had a fucked up relationship with her pops. Big Red flag.
@@johnathandavis9098 EVERY TIME!!!!
Can’t make this shi up dude
They like scammers cus they are one. Takes one to know one. Stay woke fellas
I felt stupid because people knew I was bad academically but when I stopped caring about people my grades improved because now I stopped focusing on people's opinions but rather on education
That mentality held me back
Go where you're wanted fellas! Peace of mind is everything
Every time steph drop a new video I automatically press the like button before watching, cus I know his content is always on point👏
Facts my G🔥 I gotta refill my coldness 🥶
Facts dawg 💯
We gotta get colder
lol
We're already below freezing
Swrs
@@srgavemetheglow1869 bruh🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@justody1 lol just saying. How much colder can we get?🤷🏾♂️
Stephs background music always got me in my feels
Be a 9 to 5 but be a warrior train in the gym and fighting sports
Thing is these 304s be having ALL three!
She will never be a Queen, without a true KING !
You have to see those young ladies are city girls/Meg the Stallion/Cardi B disciples and everything they asking for is what they hear in those songs and raps and in the media
Rebellious men tend to make more money, have higher testosterone, better physiques, more respect, and protect their loved ones better than any typical “nice guy”. You can’t blame girls for preferring a scammer over a 9 to 5 dude, they’re a better partner investment as far as protection and providing. Now I’m not saying to become a scammer but I am saying to embrace your masculine nature and not repress it, start a business or move to a new city! Take risks cause you’re built for that as a man. Stay focused gang!
Lol all that sounds good but bra I seen 9-5 dudes make women bend for a 100 bucks you dont gotta be hood or a drug dealer to get the cat bra
Gang Gang!!! Mcdeeeys after bail!!!! 😆🤘 CLINK CLINK!!! Rittenhouse has the man balls.
@@TheFadewolf Well what I’m saying isn’t that you need to be hood but that you shouldn’t blame women for their choices and that you should embrace your masculine side in whatever that manifests to. Could be the gym, entrepreneurship, or anything, not just being a scammer.
I get what you're saying but a rebellious man doesn't exist. Rebels have a teenage boy mindest. Only a disciplined man can claim true manhood. So one can have the physique, money, masculine demeanor but he's no more than a boy if he can't control himself. And all scammers eventually get caught or the money dries up, no finesse is sustainable.
@@MichaelDrift_ The problem is there is no "game" if woman are the ones in charge and the ones who pick the rules. of course im going to blame them for this.
Don't know where I'd be if I never ran into these videos. Keep it up Steph. You are the real deal my guy
Bro hands down the realist shit you could have ever said aye he need a Grammy and 2 nominations for the truth 💪🏾💯💯
Funny I met a fine azz Indian chick that was impressed with Black programmers.
Take note on the type of women wanting drug dealers and choose wisely.
there are indian chics, mixed raced/exotics, asian chicks, white chicks, non-westernized blacks, latinas, and god knows how many other categories of women to pick from. Westernized black women should be INVISIBLE to us men.
This is why Childish Gambino married a white girl. He more than likely knew black women would consider him a “lame”.
he ran
And it was crazy how he got criticism for marrying a white woman by very same group of women who didn't want him in the first place.
@@Palefeast How?
What man, IN HIS RIGHT MIND, would choose ANY of these chicks?🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You would be surprised bro
Yall got to realize that a lot of men actually like the female version of pookie and ray ray.... just because a woman is attractive it doesn't make her a good woman... I don't understand why men don't get this if these women was 500 pound women liking pookie and ray ray no one would care so why do we care when it's clearly a bad woman who is attracted to bad things and bad energy which explains why she's attracted to bad things and bad energy ...men got to get it together and stop sweating bad women ..Remember looks don't make her a good woman or good sex
What i come to understand is that humans generally associate good looking human beings with positive traits and less attractive people with negative traits just because someone looks good doesn't equate them to a good human being and vice versa
Nature is undeafeated...
@@cboy-ou2hr good point I'm Definitely guilty of this
@@cboy-ou2hr but you'll notice that most of these insecure men and women don't go for the best looking ones. They go for the 3rd or fourth best looking (who often have way inflated egos and terrible attitudes cause they're good looking enough to hang with number one, but not bad looking enough to know they're not in the same league), all cause they don't feel worth of the best
@@cboy-ou2hr Yeah basically whatever they're attracted to they hope and pray that it ends up good for them and that's not how it works you gotta find somebody you're attracted to that is actually good for you too you can't change them into something that you want them to be they already have to be that And sadly the more options a person has AKA the better looking they are the more likely they're going to play around and do you dirty that's just the way it is.... people can't handle blessings whether it good looks or someone actually liking them
Nah this your REALEST video G 💯🥶!
A 5 gets more DMs then drake 💯
preach!
😂😂😂😂 cold facts
The name ‘StephIsCold’ belongs to only this man only 💯🥶🥶
Your videos are refreshing among the manosphere, bruh! Keep expressing that shit! 💪🏽
Black men go where you're appreciated
Man step you the 🐐 I stepped up my image n my girl ask me who I’m getting cute for cus it was her first time seeing me not dressing broke now she flocking on me IMAGE is 1# fellas but make sure you secure the bag as well 💯✊🏾
They be saying drug dealer but the 9-5 be having more money then the drug dealers like realistically the drug dealers got nice cars but stay in a traps house like how that make sense
Not every trapper is Tony Scarface Montana or Nino Brown I blame Hollywood for glamorizing drug dealers
Black Women are finished. I am so glad I started dating out. I’ve been in a happy relationship for the past six months. If she keep it up, the wedding ring is on the way.
Make sure and make her sign the prenup
Make sure to get that prenup signed. Also don’t buy a house with her along. Make sure YOU get that house paper signed in YOUR name only.
Bruh 6 months aint enough time to be thinking about marriage. You barely know her bro.
Don’t marry her and have three backup plans. Poly is where it’s at.
Slow down bro… damn.
I felt your passion on this video! Real talk, appreciate your input and advice!
Men try to build their own roster, but women have their own league (each team signifies multiple dudes lined up for each role, for example….this team of guys is for dinner dates, this team of guys is for text buddies and phone buddies, this team is the all validation team, this team of guys are the dudes who are actually fucking me(nba champs), this team of guys are the dudes who give me money, and etc
Sad and cold world we live in tbh
So spot on bruh
It safe to say at least 95 percent of ADOS BW (all ages) are like this.
It’s just birds chirping 😂 Get to a bag get in shape and enjoy the little things. You welcome 💯
Yup facts
@Max Sorry my profile pic made you relapse. Lol weak minded
@@THESCP-PRO 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀
Listen to black girl lost by nas he knew about this shit in the 90s crazy
Then they wonder why they single mothers. Choose men that will be murdered or locked up over a man how makes his money the mature way. Sad
Notice he was asking women walking the streets lol
LMAOOO
Actually becoming pookey and Eayray is a different kind of vibe I fw
Facts bro!!! We always have to level up as men. As for women they don’t have to do anything!!!!!
WHAT A TIME TO BE ALIVE
It's crazy how none of our "Sistahs" think an honest living is a priority. Easy to see why we are where we are.
I always laugh when I hear a chick complaining about dating. If a decent looking girl in her 20s can't find a suitable man it is their own fault. And this applies to all races.
accept female nature n keep it pushin kings 🧏🏽♂️
Stay on your grind fellas
A lot of y’all dudes put to much emphasis on who ain’t choosing you you’re too busy focusing on the ones that aren’t and missing plenty of golden opportunities right in front of you
It's all giggles until the gas and lights go off and that $600 car note needs to be paid which she is already 3 months behind.
She can have it. Long as you don't lose it🌟💯
Even your muscle only take you so far. Its all about your state of consciousness.
These chick's just gotta show up and they have unlimited options and we have to level up in life to get the options that we want 💯 and if she makes you wait for the box she not interested in you 💯
My Sista's don't be mad when we are married to a Latina Filipina waiting for ya to get your act together😂😂
Always remember fellas American Black women are not the only black women in the world.💪🏽
AND JUST CAUSE THEY SCAMMING OR DEALING IT DNT MEAN THEY GETTING A SLICE 💯
its a service model, you just have to look somewhere else for the service you know you want and knowing why is what makes it a need, something in male nature regarding survival. her nature is assuming that she is always going to survive and so her values reflect a sort of useless service model. and that is why she never wakes up, even when she does she can choose to go right back to sleep under water. that said, look outward, away from hometown, its part of growing up. and part of that is this music, this scene, it ain't going to sound the same. its hypnotic, its a loop for a reason. you can choose to go back to sleep but you know well what fate that is
Steph's the King out here. I ain't lyin.
NICE SERMON BY PASTOR STEPH!!!!
Fellas, keep the main thing the main thing AKA your purpose and everything else will fall in place.
Batman:"what are you doing Pamela?"
Poison Ivy:"Looking for a hot date"
Batman:"With the Gotham police?"
If you notice something that all these girls have in common is that, they are all from the city. You will never hear about a girl's talking like this from the country. It's always these city girls who are spoiled and think the world owes them something they think that a man has to meet all these ridiculous standards in order to be with her basic self.
Which is why you'll never see me married to a city girl. I'm happily married to a girl that's from the country and she doesn't even like this shit this is exactly why you raise your daughters right and don't raise them in the city if you can help it. Limit their social media or as a matter of fact don't let them have social media simple as that.
Low-key that's the truth. And tbh girls from the country are GOLD compared to these city rats 💯
Damnnn Steph… this is one of your coldest videos to say the least. You nailed it on so many talking points and simply confirmed tha shxt I b tryna tell nuggas who don’t listen. Keep talkin yo shxt G. I wish u tha absolute best in your endeavors and much success! 🥶🔥🔥💯