@@asterdisaster2278 I hear you. I am still screwing up, Financially my insurace just got cancelled. Now I have to pay more. Great news . I wish ADD ON PEOPLE So they could know what we are going through. It Sucks and Makes Life a Million Times Harder.
@@kevinkillelea8926 That's just how our ADHD life is. It'll take an eternity to get rid of all the drawbacks... better put that time in the few weaknesses that matter the most and try to make the rest worthwhile. Try Meditation, i'm going to start it to see if it can help.
That kindness thing is super important - last semester in college I tried to redirect myself into self kindness when I realised I was being overly harsh. At first it felt really weird and hollow and it still does sometimes but my grades went from Cs to As in a matter of weeks.
I am extremely hard on myself that I tend to disassociate, therefore creating setbacks on my goals. The need to remember not to be so hard on myself is so difficult.
Subbed. This was gold. I am not even sure whether I have ADHD but I have definitely problems with understanding time and progress and remote end goals. So thank you!
5:50-6:15 I feel this daily. I’m crying so hard because I always try my best but I always feel behind. I’m trying to change though and better my life so I’m a work in progress and that’s okay
I always found hard making lists , the hardest part is probably perception of what is possible to do in what amount of time and constant reconsideration. can happen today or week later, but goals constantly cycle around... and this has to be addressed ASAP because if you do not achieve a goal for a very long time it cripples your morale, then it is really hard to even name what you want, I'm not exactly sure myself or how would it make me happy...
Ffs I got 45 seconds in and realised I was trying to freestyle over the backing track hahaha. Managed to finish now, thanks for the great content it really helps.
Wow! Stuart, this is exactly what I needed today! I walked around Office Max to purchases dry erase board ( my old one is old!). I wanted to separate my business from personal life ! Thank you it was very very helpful!
I feel extremely selfish because I’m constantly trying to keep myself in check and end up so focused on how I act around ppl I forget to relax and enjoy the moment. Then when I can’t think of anything to say I get so in my head about everything that I end up masking which major worse. The cycle sucks
I have an appointment with a psychologist to see if I want to go ahead and get diagnosed with ADHD. The secretary's first question was "Do you have health insurance?" - I do and she told me it costs about $2000 to get diagnosed..approx. - I'm a little dubious about after money was the first concern....not sure why I get that feeling...but...
Nice instead of being cocerned with Helping the patient get better. If you dont have $2000 were not seeing you. Hope the Doctor gets ADHD. Try asking the Church for Help ADHD MAKES LIFE Harder. You can also try CHADDD ITS FREE
Thank you for these videos. I recently got diagnosed for inattentive adhd and it was a weird experience and the doctor automatically recommended me meds and said I would benefit. Not sure if I want to take them I’m very scared and don’t want it to give me more problems or mess with my reproductive stuff ? Anyways these videos really help so I can try to manage without the use of medication.
ADHD Management Thank you for your reply! Your comment has been extremely helpful. I am taking the same medicine and had to slowly titrate up using volumetric dosing. Just like you I considered discontinuing, but now after your comment I will persevere.
Incompetent is a perfect description of how I feel.
Truth
I hear you, I also feel Cursed and Damned Stuff always going Wrong and screwing up.
@@kevinkillelea8926No matter how much you're prepared there's something that always gets uncounted and then it's one after another..
@@asterdisaster2278 I hear you. I am still screwing up, Financially my insurace just got cancelled. Now I have to pay more. Great news . I wish ADD ON PEOPLE So they could know what we are going through. It Sucks and Makes Life a Million Times Harder.
@@kevinkillelea8926 That's just how our ADHD life is. It'll take an eternity to get rid of all the drawbacks... better put that time in the few weaknesses that matter the most and try to make the rest worthwhile. Try Meditation, i'm going to start it to see if it can help.
This Chanel deserves more recognition 👀
That kindness thing is super important - last semester in college I tried to redirect myself into self kindness when I realised I was being overly harsh. At first it felt really weird and hollow and it still does sometimes but my grades went from Cs to As in a matter of weeks.
I am extremely hard on myself that I tend to disassociate, therefore creating setbacks on my goals. The need to remember not to be so hard on myself is so difficult.
Subbed. This was gold. I am not even sure whether I have ADHD but I have definitely problems with understanding time and progress and remote end goals. So thank you!
Thks man 😘😴
Stoaic philosophy is great for us adhders
your voice is so caring and calming oh my god... thank you
Yay I'm the first viewer! Saw it was uploaded 38 second ago and clicked it straight away! HAHA! Xxx
Can you please put a summery of your tips (bulletpoints) in your discription of your video?
It would help to keep the overview.
Thanks.
Yes please cause it's not easy to watch it all without distraction and had to waste more time
5:50-6:15 I feel this daily. I’m crying so hard because I always try my best but I always feel behind. I’m trying to change though and better my life so I’m a work in progress and that’s okay
I always found hard making lists , the hardest part is probably perception of what is possible to do in what amount of time and constant reconsideration. can happen today or week later, but goals constantly cycle around... and this has to be addressed ASAP because if you do not achieve a goal for a very long time it cripples your morale, then it is really hard to even name what you want, I'm not exactly sure myself or how would it make me happy...
Good advice but I find I'm so busy that my list never ends - always things being added. It is nice to see what's been done/completed though...
I here you.
Thank you. Baby steps not getting g overwhelmed. Just started new meds on lower dosage. Been a rough week. Would like to get things done today.
Thank you! I was having a bad day today thinking about negative aspects of it and goals that I haven't achieved so I really needed this. ☀️
Very helpful video, I have already started doing this!!!!
Reveals some good strategies, very much applies to my messy efforts, to achieve things, and multiple daily struggles, to get life organised.🧐
Yep it is a daily pain in the Ass Schedule.
Ffs I got 45 seconds in and realised I was trying to freestyle over the backing track hahaha. Managed to finish now, thanks for the great content it really helps.
Great advice but what if you can’t break down the baby goals to get there
I love what you're doing.
Wow! Stuart, this is exactly what I needed today! I walked around Office Max to purchases dry erase board ( my old one is old!). I wanted to separate my business from personal life ! Thank you it was very very helpful!
I feel extremely selfish because I’m constantly trying to keep myself in check and end up so focused on how I act around ppl I forget to relax and enjoy the moment. Then when I can’t think of anything to say I get so in my head about everything that I end up masking which major worse. The cycle sucks
I know the feeling, it's a conscious effort to not overthink.
Your eyebrows are amazing!
Very nice eyebrows.
I have an appointment with a psychologist to see if I want to go ahead and get diagnosed with ADHD. The secretary's first question was "Do you have health insurance?" - I do and she told me it costs about $2000 to get diagnosed..approx. - I'm a little dubious about after money was the first concern....not sure why I get that feeling...but...
Nice instead of being cocerned with Helping the patient get better. If you dont have $2000 were not seeing you. Hope the Doctor gets ADHD. Try asking the Church for Help ADHD MAKES LIFE Harder. You can also try CHADDD ITS FREE
God it shouldn’t cost that much
What do you do for a living, i.e. your profession, other than youtube? Thnx.
What about if you can’t identify the steps you need to take to reach the end goal
Brainstorm ideas
Thank you for these videos. I recently got diagnosed for inattentive adhd and it was a weird experience and the doctor automatically recommended me meds and said I would benefit. Not sure if I want to take them I’m very scared and don’t want it to give me more problems or mess with my reproductive stuff ? Anyways these videos really help so I can try to manage without the use of medication.
I cant remember having gotten anything done 🤔
very good stuff
Very insightful analysis. However in your last video, you mentioned you were considering ceasing Elvanse. Did you discontinue Elvanse?
I did temporarily. I'm back on it as the concentration is needed. Side effects are diminishing as I develop more tolerance.
ADHD Management please let us know is taking break helped you to resit your tolerance and got you back on track!
ADHD Management Thank you for your reply! Your comment has been extremely helpful. I am taking the same medicine and had to slowly titrate up using volumetric dosing. Just like you I considered discontinuing, but now after your comment I will persevere.
please let us know is taking break helped you to resit your tolerance and got you back on track!
What do I do about teachers rushing me
Um... Tell them about your struggles/your ADHD? 🤷♂️
Yes your videos are helping me feel more hopeful and better about myself.
Why don’t you do vid’s anymore?
1.5x 🙂
El guapo