How To Win Friends And Influence People?

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 12 січ 2025

КОМЕНТАРІ • 442

  • @thehellyblog
    @thehellyblog  5 років тому +190

    This is one of the greatest requirements in your personal and professional life- being able to make friends and influence people.
    And....I know There is a minor editing error in this video! I am a human so please pardon that 😭
    And...How many of you are already good at making friends and influencing people?

    • @baljeetsingh7196
      @baljeetsingh7196 5 років тому +1

      I am very polite person sister, so I use polite words to anyone so it is easy for me make influence people.

    • @naiduswati29
      @naiduswati29 5 років тому

      Thank you Helly for sharing such wonderful points from the book.

    • @studylover2719
      @studylover2719 5 років тому +2

      Hey Helly.. make a video on ( how to become master in our path) iam an engineering student of instrumentation..
      I have alot of interest but . Iam unable to find out my status of this instrumentation journey..
      Soo plzzz make a video about becoming master of our profession

    • @rahulrongepatil248
      @rahulrongepatil248 5 років тому

      Best books I've too.

    • @vinothbalaji9
      @vinothbalaji9 5 років тому

      I'm just following you , I read the books what u read,
      I read 7 habits, when u post video, now Im listening this book , u uploading video
      What a coincidence
      I'm using storytel, by ur link,

  • @CloakedVoyageur
    @CloakedVoyageur 5 років тому +104

    I just cannot express how glad I'm to find your channel. Your education choices are just like mine, went with science and then somehow managed to score well. Then chose to do B.A. and studied literature. Started playing guitar and was a part of a couple of bands. While things are still difficult to an extent and I have quit music, reading and writing is beautiful and helps in feeling better. Keep doing what you're doing. Hopefully we can talk someday.

    • @pritushsarkar3061
      @pritushsarkar3061 4 роки тому

      Me too

    • @chetanarya4883
      @chetanarya4883 4 роки тому

      Doing B.A. is the f*ckiest decision ever

    • @bablusharma7691
      @bablusharma7691 3 роки тому +1

      @@chetanarya4883 why so?

    • @sdpta2004
      @sdpta2004 3 роки тому

      Me too bro.. now i am in 12 th standard... idk what will happen to me.. what will i do... but i want to read english literature (hons) ... but my parents want that i will read pharmacy.. idk what is my destiny... please help me... im in serious condition

    • @UPSCIFS2025
      @UPSCIFS2025 3 роки тому

      🌝🌝🌝

  • @yusufazhar448
    @yusufazhar448 5 років тому +80

    How to win friends and influence people
    1 never criticise anyone
    2 genuinely interest in people
    3 smile more
    4 use the name of the person
    5 be a good listener
    6 talk in terms of their interest
    7 make them feel important
    8 influence people to say yes then ask what you want
    9 encourage your team members
    10 make sure that they are happy

  • @ashikahammed3002
    @ashikahammed3002 5 років тому +77

    *I purchased this book 3months ago. But I couldn't start yet* Yes, I'll start tomorrow itself. Thank you verymuch for your review 😊😊

    • @life.of.kaiiii
      @life.of.kaiiii 5 років тому +4

      I purchased 2 years ago and it's lying in my shelf

    • @SurjeetSumanAcharya
      @SurjeetSumanAcharya 4 роки тому

      @@life.of.kaiiii same here 😅

    • @tariqkhan9427
      @tariqkhan9427 4 роки тому

      How much it cost

    • @aashrithasai.v6442
      @aashrithasai.v6442 4 роки тому

      @@tariqkhan9427 It's 160 to 175 Rupees (India) in Amazon right now.

    • @sangitadey9605
      @sangitadey9605 4 роки тому +1

      @Rajkumari Patel @Aashritha Sai.V just got for 61 rupees from flipkart.😅

  • @soumyaranjan4626
    @soumyaranjan4626 5 років тому +34

    😂😂😂First 30 seconds or so, it sounded just like some fitness brand add.. You like, "I sucked at making friends n forget bout influencing people and then I read this and it changed my life." 🤣🤣that was funny but so relatable.. And congrats for the silver play button... Hope you get that gold play button soon.. 🌟🌟👏👏❤️

  • @sekarrajendran0078
    @sekarrajendran0078 5 років тому +1

    You are the best UA-cam there's no word to encourage you

  • @sukanyasamanta4839
    @sukanyasamanta4839 5 років тому +7

    You are a saviour Helly..I was feeling low today n this actually helped me a bit. Love for you always :)

  • @adityyuh
    @adityyuh 5 років тому +6

    The earrings look good! And I'm gonna read this book soon, bought it a long time ago but I thought I didn't need it then, but now that I'm going to be in after new school and have turned into an introvert, I think I should give it a read!

  • @MemersRocks
    @MemersRocks 5 років тому +4

    This one is one of my starting books from which I started and what the amazing book it is... Still after so many years of being published, still this book holds each and everything true. The complete Carnegie Family is so talented.

  • @rishabhbeniwal7128
    @rishabhbeniwal7128 5 років тому +5

    I love the way you sign off in the sweetest voice possible "byee byee"

  • @mobinfrancis1607
    @mobinfrancis1607 5 років тому +5

    I would say the non fiction section is incomplete without this awesome write by Mr.Dale Carnegie. Even though this book had crossed 80+ years after the first publish, it still add values to the society.
    Mr.Dale throws light to compassion,respect,genuineness,attitude and power of encouragement during the converse between the 'Sapiens'. You may feel kinda little distress during the read , because Mr.Dale had written these when the digital age is not yet in the planet. We probably need to relate few stuffs.
    Its quite good one compared to the new age bluff "motivational books".
    -Mobin

  • @Lavanya.1097
    @Lavanya.1097 5 років тому +3

    Thanks for making such an awesome video helly ! I absolutely needed it !
    And as a student, I'm glad that youtubers like YOU are helping and encouraging children to read more books and be productive....
    Keep it up abd thanks again....
    Lots of love from Bhubaneswar....

  • @skyward7903
    @skyward7903 5 років тому +1

    I started watching you videos when you had 2k subs and now there are 130k+
    CONGRATS!! I hope you get more!

  • @dr.prasanthnaik128
    @dr.prasanthnaik128 5 років тому +2

    Hi Helly! I'm glad to see you online. Keep rocking

  • @sakshitaneja2390
    @sakshitaneja2390 5 років тому +3

    I read this book a long time back.. I think I will read it again.. I have genuinely applied smiling and using names and it was actually effective..
    Review was great 😎😎

  • @niveditasharma959
    @niveditasharma959 5 років тому +45

    No u r a very good influencer cause u influenced me to read

  • @bat_of_gotham
    @bat_of_gotham 5 років тому +6

    You're doing a good job, Saheli. I'll share this video with people who need to learn more about grooming their personalities. Meanwhile, make more such videos. Thank you.

    • @humaqueen189
      @humaqueen189 5 років тому

      Give me A book 😂i am from Pakistan

  • @MohitK96
    @MohitK96 5 років тому +2

    I am realizing this after graduation the importance of friends when I used to very limited in college.

  • @tomjarreytomjarrey8687
    @tomjarreytomjarrey8687 5 років тому +1

    cuteness overload with sunglasses

  • @PranayBrajabashi
    @PranayBrajabashi 4 роки тому

    I don't know why🤷🏻‍♂️ but I think I'm addicted to you and your videos ,

  • @booradely6423
    @booradely6423 5 років тому +2

    I just finished reading this! Lo and behold here's your review perfectly in time! Wow

  • @bhushan21699
    @bhushan21699 5 років тому

    It's not a question of which Helly looks better, Helly is the most beautiful person- always has been

  • @Madhu-Yadav
    @Madhu-Yadav 5 років тому +5

    Already read this book... Loved it to the very alphabet of it....
    Will recommend this to everyone of any age...

  • @akash__cs
    @akash__cs 3 роки тому +1

    First time in this channel👍🏻
    Great❤

  • @ehsaaswithvikas3254
    @ehsaaswithvikas3254 4 роки тому +1

    Saheli, your library is very beautiful

  • @harshitjotwani7604
    @harshitjotwani7604 5 років тому +1

    Thanks for reviewing this book. Very good review.

  • @Dave-cd8sm
    @Dave-cd8sm 2 роки тому

    I'm seeing your video for the first time and I must say that you did a really great job. I really liked your content. Just one personal suggestion from my side is, try a rimless spec next time you buy a spectacle for you, I think You'll look really great. Keep up the good work.

  • @ashishtewari4972
    @ashishtewari4972 5 років тому +8

    Hey helly your suggestions are always greats and today you're looking gorgeous in this suit... and this suit suits you.

  • @kalaiarasis2798
    @kalaiarasis2798 5 років тому +2

    Hatsoff for such a genuine content.. Huge thumbs up.

  • @vishnupriya8662
    @vishnupriya8662 5 років тому +25

    Hi Helly didi! You look great today, your hair style is adorable....
    Love from Pondicherry 💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟

  • @simmichoudhary6871
    @simmichoudhary6871 5 років тому +4

    Helly,
    you give correct info about this book, and your efforts are very useful , i like your work for making review about this book, genuinely good one book!

  • @west9492
    @west9492 5 років тому

    Aahhh..... Just one day past, when i was thinking about 'should I buy that book?' and here Low of Attraction worked... ......and the best suggestion i got from u. TNQ HELLY....

  • @siddharthbhopatrao5861
    @siddharthbhopatrao5861 5 років тому +2

    This is one of the best self-help book...

  • @jasrajsubhedar6380
    @jasrajsubhedar6380 4 роки тому +1

    this was one of the best videos of yours I've came across🤗🤗🙏🙏

  • @rituhira6468
    @rituhira6468 5 років тому +3

    In my small town if i smile to eyery body ''dey strt expect smthing else''
    😛😛so its better to be ignore ''dem 'smwhere we need to give dem agression expresion if people ''tease ''or commnt '''
    Dats d my thinki other else '
    I ll definetely read dis book '
    I lv ur channal Helly 😍

  • @shreyaspanchal
    @shreyaspanchal 3 роки тому +1

    "We are actually being a**hole"😂😂

  • @globalscience5062
    @globalscience5062 5 років тому +1

    Hiii helly when I first saw you I don't have words..

    • @ujwaljagtap8681
      @ujwaljagtap8681 5 років тому

      GLOBAL BIOLOGY TUTORIAL ,, buy dictionary please

  • @vaishnavishirsekar6369
    @vaishnavishirsekar6369 5 років тому +1

    It's great that you are now reading non fiction you are helping us to develop our personality and Even I noticed u are getting better at ur work

  • @arifulislamshohag
    @arifulislamshohag 5 років тому

    Start loving your channel..very good work

  • @spallavikrishna9423
    @spallavikrishna9423 5 років тому +1

    Hey helly , good content and worth watching 😁 keep going 😄

  • @mokshgupta8232
    @mokshgupta8232 3 роки тому

    The video was really great
    Glad to find your channel

  • @sailabalapanda4371
    @sailabalapanda4371 5 років тому

    Thanks alot helly...
    This video of urs helps me alot in my booktalk....
    Thank you so much...

  • @jayantimazumdar8903
    @jayantimazumdar8903 5 років тому

    I liked this video a lot ❤. I've already read this book and others but doesn't got the clue why I never been able to continue. So it will be better for many that you make a video on how to read books and other writeups in an effective way but within few days.

  • @shwetaarya743
    @shwetaarya743 5 років тому

    Thanks Helly for this useful info

  • @stephysimon4700
    @stephysimon4700 5 років тому

    First view 😍anyway I have read the book last yr and it's really awesome.
    By the way you look great with a smile Helly😍

  • @tusharvaswani8588
    @tusharvaswani8588 5 років тому +1

    Helly,really I liked your video n your effort..!!loved your channel

  • @tomarsingh6367
    @tomarsingh6367 5 років тому

    Wow!!! Right now I am reading this book.And your video pop up.

  • @rahul6616
    @rahul6616 5 років тому +3

    First like ,
    Then watching
    My by default action for your videos too !!
    Idi chala bagundi.....

  • @gen-z643
    @gen-z643 5 років тому +8

    Helly, plz make a video on "The power of now"

  • @pranaymane8103
    @pranaymane8103 5 років тому

    I just love the way you speak

  • @leninsurjan9863
    @leninsurjan9863 5 років тому

    This video helped a lot helly thanks

  • @azizulkhan1721
    @azizulkhan1721 5 років тому +5

    After I read this book 2 months ago,I changed my life too(though I got it for free technically)

    • @thehellyblog
      @thehellyblog  5 років тому

      That is great!

    • @ourfeelings164
      @ourfeelings164 5 років тому +1

      How much your life bro...
      This type of comments gives me more lol

  • @sunilkumar-sc5fw
    @sunilkumar-sc5fw 5 років тому +1

    You are grt
    You always appreciate us to read books
    Ive already read this book,its really a wonderful book

  • @mittalboi6610
    @mittalboi6610 3 роки тому

    When she said I was reading this audiobook 😂

  • @shubhamkumarsharma
    @shubhamkumarsharma 5 років тому

    Very empowering explaination of the book.
    Thanks you helly for bringing such a great review.

  • @govindbagariya9784
    @govindbagariya9784 5 років тому

    so good video helly. very good review. i read it. thank you helly.

  • @ssharma1412
    @ssharma1412 5 років тому +1

    Very nice and helpful video...am not good at reading non-fiction...but loved the way u presented the video...thanku for sharing...

  • @krunaljadav2105
    @krunaljadav2105 5 років тому

    Now I realized that so many people has used these tricks on me. And I was totally influenced.

  • @RishabhRawat_98
    @RishabhRawat_98 5 років тому +2

    I have read this book.. Its really influential.
    Thanks for revising me the book and the concepts again😁😁..🙏

    • @sumnaarshad4466
      @sumnaarshad4466 5 років тому

      Is there a story in this book or this book is just about do's and don't?

    • @RishabhRawat_98
      @RishabhRawat_98 5 років тому

      @@sumnaarshad4466
      Actually , there are many real life examples mentioned in this book which tells u how to apply the concepts and how these concepts help people achieving their goals. Some of them are Dale carnegie's personal experiences and observations.

    • @sumnaarshad4466
      @sumnaarshad4466 5 років тому +1

      @@RishabhRawat_98 okay. .I get it now, ,actually few months go I have read (13 things mentally strong people don't do) by Amy morin. .it was amazing but not so much interesting as comparing to 40 rules of love. .well thanks Rishbah 😊

    • @RishabhRawat_98
      @RishabhRawat_98 5 років тому +1

      Pleasure😊.
      U may also try "The power of habits" by Charles Duhhig if u haven't yet. It is a good book too.

    • @sumnaarshad4466
      @sumnaarshad4466 5 років тому

      @@RishabhRawat_98 is it story?? Coz I love stories either fiction or non fiction ❤

  • @nanichinna1629
    @nanichinna1629 3 роки тому

    looking great helly

  • @luckysuniqueness5921
    @luckysuniqueness5921 5 років тому

    You described so nicely, you helped a lot by summerising the book. Thank you very much.

  • @socialjustice4874
    @socialjustice4874 2 роки тому

    what ever you said was excellent, and really love your taking , it would be more better to avoid artificiality way .

  • @amitachandanshive1959
    @amitachandanshive1959 5 років тому

    I have this book but dint read full.I think I will read it now.Thanks

  • @youlit.7680
    @youlit.7680 5 років тому

    Amazing, Helly. 😄

  • @mutthulakshmi1730
    @mutthulakshmi1730 5 років тому +2

    Takeaways start from 1:45

  • @feelvai8289
    @feelvai8289 5 років тому

    helly your English is just bomb💜

  • @nikhilwagh7314
    @nikhilwagh7314 4 роки тому

    I have only two friends in college. I don't talk to anyone because I'm introvert person😔.I will buy this book right now.

  • @abhijitc100
    @abhijitc100 5 років тому

    Best book for human behaviour . I have read it twice

  • @pranavpatil9973
    @pranavpatil9973 5 років тому

    Yes.. and I downloaded storytel through ur link yesterday...

  • @saravanangovindan9646
    @saravanangovindan9646 5 років тому

    I love you Helly 💓

  • @findyoursuccess2678
    @findyoursuccess2678 3 роки тому

    Very nice video and I love your presentation style... keep it up👍

  • @payalmatang2572
    @payalmatang2572 5 років тому +9

    It is very helpful video. Thank you...thank you very much for this

  • @varshuslittleworld6291
    @varshuslittleworld6291 5 років тому

    I loved how you explained point 3 ❤

  • @Poojasinha2023
    @Poojasinha2023 5 років тому +2

    Hey saheli! I hope I wrote your name correct.😊
    It was the most useful video.
    Thank you. You did it beautifully.

  • @sandhwikumari9692
    @sandhwikumari9692 5 років тому

    Hi helly I love our book review videos it's make me more curious about book reading although I did not love to do that previously but now I develop this hobby thanks..😍

  • @jontychudasama694
    @jontychudasama694 5 років тому +1

    I love this video.

  • @Chesh35
    @Chesh35 5 років тому +10

    It's been lying on my Amazon wishlist since ages now😂. Probably it's time I buy it😝.
    PS - 8/10 people pronounce my name incorrectly, even after I've told them how it's spelled! That pisses me off all the time😑

    • @thehellyblog
      @thehellyblog  5 років тому +3

      Did I too ?😭

    • @Chesh35
      @Chesh35 5 років тому +3

      @@thehellyblog nope! You pronounced my name perfectly in the voice message 🙈😘

    • @Zen_Sportz
      @Zen_Sportz 5 років тому

      I hope you are not marathi as चेष्टा means MAKING OPINION

    • @Chesh35
      @Chesh35 5 років тому

      @@Zen_Sportz I'm Bengali

    • @alex-sv8ru
      @alex-sv8ru 4 роки тому

      It's pronounced chaeshTa right? White people will definitely not be able to pronounce it.

  • @samkul1699
    @samkul1699 5 років тому

    Awesome 😁👍👍👍 also love your reviews keep doing them😋😋

  • @motasimnirob1730
    @motasimnirob1730 5 років тому

    When my mood was bad then I do such type of behaviour that the friendship is closed

  • @malkisehgal2481
    @malkisehgal2481 5 років тому

    I have Just Started Reading The Book( 1 Hour before your Video)...

  • @KomalGujarsLifestyle
    @KomalGujarsLifestyle 5 років тому

    Thanks Helly to share wonderful tips of how to influence people... Superliked the video 👌👌👍👍

  • @divyadiv1432
    @divyadiv1432 4 роки тому

    Hi dear.. Really appreciate your work. You r such an amazing human being.. Love ❤ You

  • @RaeesUnboxingwala
    @RaeesUnboxingwala 4 роки тому

    7:35 instead of using "but" use "and"
    Not me words 🙌🏼 it's being told in the book 😆

  • @yourstudybuddy9705
    @yourstudybuddy9705 5 років тому

    Definitely gonna read this book. ❤️

  • @ranveer438
    @ranveer438 5 років тому +1

    Really u r going better n better day by day.. U r an inspiration for me... For some days i dont want to read more , what can i do now?

  • @simmichoudhary6871
    @simmichoudhary6871 5 років тому +2

    i read that book in 2014, :) best forever

  • @rahimchoudhary1320
    @rahimchoudhary1320 4 роки тому

    Awesome explaining 👏👏👏

  • @smitdholakiya5957
    @smitdholakiya5957 5 років тому

    I already read this book but I like your video so I am here...

  • @yashjain4563
    @yashjain4563 3 роки тому

    @1:10 she just Criticize she would have had some better friends
    Moral: now I don't want to criticize her
    Tbh : Your Smile is awesome 💙

  • @nitishgautam5728
    @nitishgautam5728 3 роки тому +1

    3:35 Non of them🤪😂

  • @shashibala7882
    @shashibala7882 5 років тому

    I just completed reading this and it was just awesome ...

  • @somdeepbose2592
    @somdeepbose2592 5 років тому

    Thanks.... Helpful... I love your videos.... ❤️❤️

  • @Inspiringtalks04
    @Inspiringtalks04 5 років тому

    nice helly its truly inspiring

  • @smithaks6578
    @smithaks6578 4 роки тому

    Helly u r amazing .could u make video on how to overcome fear of speaking in front of people in stage.

  • @vigneshwark5482
    @vigneshwark5482 5 років тому +2

    Let's read this book 📖. Due to many issues we are forgetting to Smile 😣😣

  • @mayankbhatnagar7485
    @mayankbhatnagar7485 5 років тому +1

    Helly Helly Helly...
    You are Goddess of Heaven...
    You Are,You are...
    What I say...
    Seriously Love you yarr...
    So happy to see you

  • @Tarunadeoraaa
    @Tarunadeoraaa 5 років тому

    Just because of you dii I started reading books 😊thank u so much 🤗

  • @GMIqbalMahmud
    @GMIqbalMahmud 5 років тому +10

    How To Talk To Anyone - Leil Lowndes. This book opposes the things said in the book of Dale Carnegie's. She says those methods are backdated and doesn't really work at 21st century. Maybe you will read Leli's book too and make another video with a clear non-conflicting concept. Thanks.

    • @thehellyblog
      @thehellyblog  5 років тому +4

      Wow challenging!

    • @GMIqbalMahmud
      @GMIqbalMahmud 5 років тому +1

      @@thehellyblog Looking forward to the video. ^_^

  • @ashiva2603
    @ashiva2603 5 років тому

    Thank you i am buying this book.

  • @banashreechakraborty6864
    @banashreechakraborty6864 5 років тому +1

    Hey , if u have kindle then why u buy these hard cover books ??
    It's only a query .