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КОМЕНТАРІ • 163

  • @beeyou8055
    @beeyou8055 3 роки тому +5

    Happy Wedding Anniversary !! Thank GOD that the tables have turned in your favour and everything is falling into place. Don’t worry, GOD will always stand by good people and protect them! GOD bless y’all!!

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому +2

      Thank you so much 😊

  • @ps-rd5fo
    @ps-rd5fo 3 роки тому +18

    My dad brothers are very very rich they are billionaires but we don't have even lakhs except our grandfather small house and small place attached to it.they took equal share from this also it's okay parents properties are equal for all their children. they even took extra and always kicking us down.unfortunately our parents are very humble and calm going they can't fight for themselves also they are very innocent...

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому +9

      Anthe innocent people ke issues create chestharu... simple ga naalugu thanni muuthi palagoditharu ante valla joliki raaru

  • @HBK25959
    @HBK25959 3 роки тому +20

    akka mi videos chusina prathisari ela anipisthadhi aantae .......manam chinnapdu ....cellphones leni kalam lo ....Sunday evening ayithae friends aandaram vedhilo pillolam kurchoni aa inti katha ee katha ani chepukoni excite ayitham ga aala untundhi akka ....mi voice way of talking ....ani chusthunte .....literally ur videos are a stress reliever akka bcoz it reminds all our childhood ....n a good knowledgeable videos how a woman to be in this present generation .......y bcoz aapati generation lo aantae mogodu aadadhani respect n equal chusthunde thana sagabagham la ....so manam vallaki respect isthuntimi .....ipudu mogodu ani aakaram varakae not character wise not bold enough too ...marriage meru chepinatte oka fate lagae ayindhi chala Mandhi ammailaki .....but ur videos are really voice of every women akka ....never ever stop this series akka

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому +5

      Thanks a lottttttt... you have no idea how much this means to me

  • @shrutikitchenlifestyle
    @shrutikitchenlifestyle 3 роки тому +7

    What a sentence aba need to fight when ur right, major issues matches with me too but I was very Athrodox and my husband was not and I wish u a happy wedding anniversary

  • @bhavanimogili4571
    @bhavanimogili4571 3 роки тому +2

    I like the theory of god punishing and the talks about karma rather than us fighting sometimes we should leave it to god.. good one mounika recently started watching your videos glad I did :)

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому

      Thank you... please stick around

  • @sruthireddy6207
    @sruthireddy6207 3 роки тому +2

    Leave it to god! This line Changed my life too... I waited like 20 bleady years to see someone destroy who threw mud on my family. Now, those peoples life is with no peace ✌️. Waiting and being patient..... life lessons... however leading life as you said...😌

  • @chandanap123
    @chandanap123 3 роки тому +4

    Hammaya there's no mistake from ourside. Chill bro..
    Happy wedding anniversary akka 🎉💃👨‍👩‍👦

  • @himakada9615
    @himakada9615 7 місяців тому +1

    Doing anything is different from doing something on a public platform for public as the audience

  • @nvihari777
    @nvihari777 3 роки тому +3

    Though your decision matters.. IMO it is not good to share personal things ..may be if they change their evil thoughts & again get close to each other , your personal bondings might be at risk... anyway wish you good luck & happy anniversary mounika

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому +3

      I will never let them come back in to our lives... never... Thank you Vihari

  • @apoorvanh5774
    @apoorvanh5774 3 роки тому +3

    It was very beautiful the way she opened up... Very nice🔥

  • @prajnavlogs
    @prajnavlogs 3 роки тому +1

    Me.luk super ga undi oka blue color bindi pettukoni.unte old mvie heroine la.undevaru wid dt winged liner 😍
    Happy anniversary

  • @sahithin4201
    @sahithin4201 3 роки тому +2

    Mounika , you are like a virtual best friend to all the girls who means a lot even though not in touch, such sweet msgs and experiences from where do we learn .. u know or not you are bringing difference in the mindset for many of girls for the good
    Kudos girl, lots of love ❤️

  • @speakenglishbharat9242
    @speakenglishbharat9242 3 роки тому +1

    Hey monika. This is bhavya..I started watching your channel coz you express exactly the same way I do...today I realized...I am undergoing the same difference prob u faced.....lots of love to u ...we have same mindsets

  • @elapakurthilakshmi7367
    @elapakurthilakshmi7367 3 роки тому +2

    Very good mounika, andaru life lo sure ga okari kosam okaru change avutaaru ade happy ga vutundi💐

  • @keertana02
    @keertana02 3 роки тому +6

    Your way of explaining is awesome...to the point

  • @jhansipriyanka
    @jhansipriyanka 3 роки тому +2

    Nijam ga 😄😀Another level Another level Assalu Me Gutsy ki full Fidha Ayipoya ma ❤️😍😘🤣🤣🤣Chala Baga chepparu Andaru antha open ga chepparu Chala chala Dhairyam ga👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻Finally U people came Out of dis shit😀

  • @eshwari475
    @eshwari475 3 роки тому +2

    Happy wedding anniversary akka
    Next year anniversary ki mi subscribers above 1 lakh kavaliani korukuntunamu ❤❤

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому

      Nijanga aithe bavundu

    • @eshwari475
      @eshwari475 3 роки тому

      @@OkkaMaata kachitanga avtaru Akka Annakanna Ekuve avtaru😊

  • @geethar9669
    @geethar9669 3 роки тому +1

    As you said its fortunate that you have got such good understanding in laws.. I am a working wife a software engineer. My case is different... My in-laws are good by heart but they follow few old traditions which are uncomfortable.....every family among my relatives follows these traditions... one such tradition is that a daughter in law should not sit at the same level as her father in law. Not even a dining table... my in laws and husband eats on the table together. I eat separately or eat while sitting on the ground. If such traditions are followed, how can a daughter in law own in-laws as their own family.....how can she feel comfortable when she cant even have a lunch together with the whole family.... I still feel like an outsider even after 3 yrs of marriage. I am being silent since i don’t want them to be hurt coz that was an act of showing respect to them. But I firmly decided that I wont allow such shitty traditions for future generations in my family....!!

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому

      What’s your husband’s take on this?

    • @geethar9669
      @geethar9669 3 роки тому +1

      @@OkkaMaata He understands that I eat alone and Sometimes he eats with me sitting down... he is more into preventing clashes or in having peace with them since we visit them twice a month....and they visit us twice a month... since it is just few days a week i ignore and move on.....I am yet to confront him on my thoughts about this tradition. But I know his answer... he would suggest me to adjust so as to avoid clash with them or hurting them.

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому

      @@geethar9669 how about you just ask him to wait and you both can eat together whenever they are around so you don’t feel left out

  • @SinAR18911
    @SinAR18911 3 роки тому +3

    Adi matter mamaiah Doctor anthe amma dignity ❤️huge respect 🙏 doctor

  • @kkkomalmudhiraj4297
    @kkkomalmudhiraj4297 3 роки тому +1

    Akka normal ga marriage ipoyaka okka girl a okka family shan avthadi and automatic ga the way of thinking change ipothadi and girl ki two House's untai mom's and in-law so eddari happiness chala imp...okka family ki relatives midha appudu hope untadi coz vallu chala years nundi valla tho untaru kabbati nammutharu coz valla eye muskapothai but okaa girl kodal ga entry esthe thanaki ah acting arthem ipothadi coz vallaki allavatu ipothadi but manaki kothaga untadi and ella women ki first a telsipothadi mana family ki emina ayeduntey anduke appudu kuda wife mata vinnu ani antaru.. Coz already predict chestharu women... And lots of love akka... Happy wedding anniversary niku chakre bro ki

  • @meghanavarma4226
    @meghanavarma4226 3 роки тому +2

    How did i even miss your channel?! Literally binge-watching all of your videos!!!❤️ Love you akka❤️

  • @swethachowdary4676
    @swethachowdary4676 3 роки тому +1

    Now I am facing same issue akka I respect her. A lot she keeps on how to behave how to sit how to behave she will always scold me but my husband don't expect me to reverse back to my mother in law she literally says to her son that's she did a mistake🙄 my husband got struck in middle btwn my mother in law and me even tough if my mother in law scold me I used to not day my husband she says 1st take care of her son and next job I can't be how she expect I facing so much of this issue think chesi chesi na hair kuda udipothundi😭😭😭 finally tottaly iam into ur shoes

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому +2

      Manathoni ainantha manam change avvali too much aithundi ante na valla kaadu ani cheppeyali

  • @muramallagayathri7728
    @muramallagayathri7728 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you akka...
    Hope your family gets out of this..
    HAPPY ANNIVERSARY akkaaa... hope your mavvaya health also gets fine akka... love from vizag !

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much Gayathri

  • @shalinimittu1888
    @shalinimittu1888 3 роки тому +1

    Happy wedding anniversary to u both🤩Idantha chusaka all I can say is you are such a vocal and strong lady. Me matalu muchatlu entha sepaina vineyochu le...Friends? 🤝🤜

  • @shaistafirdose4345
    @shaistafirdose4345 3 роки тому +5

    Looking great in this outfit ❤️
    Your last 3mts msg I really loved it.👍

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому

      Thank youuu

    • @gayatripalli8389
      @gayatripalli8389 3 роки тому

      @@OkkaMaata can make a video of last 3 minutes . From 35 minutes

  • @chinni8057
    @chinni8057 3 роки тому

    Last sentences are simply awesome , no words akka , bhale cheppaaru❤❤
    And mee hair style chala bagundi akka

  • @malleshkumar6595
    @malleshkumar6595 3 роки тому

    Happy anniversary akka.. Like seriously u became a relative to me because of this video.. Oka relative ela vachi cheptharo ala chepparu.. Life lo manam meet ayithey meeru kachitanga naaku raakhi kattali I wish!! Thank you.. God bless you Akka

  • @sushmavejalla9868
    @sushmavejalla9868 3 роки тому +2

    Happy marriage anniversary mounika garu and chekri garu💐

  • @ranik306
    @ranik306 3 роки тому +2

    Happy Anniversary! 👨‍👩‍👦
    Stay bonded> family togetherness is the best you could ask for :)
    Love how you shared your immediate after marriage experience.
    My experience was reverse of your s
    I was grown in always say yes to parents and elders type
    My husbands was questioning, reasoning, magnifying small things kind if family
    I'm still understanding, trying to bond and fit into family as we meet occasionally is a learning experience- no one tells you these
    I can connect to your talks
    We will be having our 6th wedding anniversary this May as well.. ❤

  • @vaniduvvuri6951
    @vaniduvvuri6951 3 роки тому +1

    Hi Mounika,
    Nice video . At least your MIL is reasonable . My mil is totally a hydroxide , money minded and liar including my co sister . Too much of politics at home . I stay far away , but when I come for vacations , I really hate to stay at my in laws place . Anyways Happy wedding Anniversary to you 🎉🎉

  • @littlethingsinlife8693
    @littlethingsinlife8693 3 роки тому +1

    Chala baga cheppav...about relations....Roches rocks🥳

  • @charishma4454
    @charishma4454 3 роки тому

    It's very rare to see a open minded and outspoken girl like you love to you from me

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому

      Thank you so much 😊

  • @asharahulu5923
    @asharahulu5923 3 роки тому +4

    I love your makeup and hair and also your outfit. Looking cute❤️

  • @lakshmisunitha773
    @lakshmisunitha773 3 роки тому +1

    Lots of love for you guys 💖💖💖💖💖, Hpy Anniversary to both of you👩‍❤️‍👩

  • @sonykada5804
    @sonykada5804 3 роки тому +1

    Happy Anniversary Monika.I agree with you on some points like we should fight for our rights, the family bond increases in crisis, we will cherish and be thankful to those moments in our life.Telugulo oka samitha undi, ariche kukkalu karavavu ,Kariche kukalu arravavu. In my opinion they just want to bring you down with by scaring you all, but I think they will not succeed in any of those .You will have the best family life .

  • @divyas924
    @divyas924 3 роки тому +1

    Happy wedding anniversary mounika sis .. vlog super me expressions super

  • @undabhatlaleelakumari9458
    @undabhatlaleelakumari9458 3 роки тому

    Wish u happy marriage anniversary akka👨‍👩‍👦. Sorry for the last wishes

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому

      Wishes important epudu chesthe endi ❤️

  • @vaishnavidevi7769
    @vaishnavidevi7769 3 роки тому +2

    E video chusthunnapu I was actually cooking chikudukaya🤣🤣🤣

  • @mahithareddy6455
    @mahithareddy6455 6 місяців тому

    Parents kids ni small age lo correct cheyakapothe chala problems vastay after marriage

  • @bhagyasrisrtp4783
    @bhagyasrisrtp4783 3 роки тому +1

    Nijanga Mee family lagane maa family lo kuda kaallu mokkadam and godavalu😊😊😊

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому +1

      Andaru illalo yedavalu common anamata

  • @siacollections7029
    @siacollections7029 3 роки тому +1

    Hiii Monika gaaru saw all your okkamaata series.Keep gng.

  • @mamathagoud1199
    @mamathagoud1199 3 роки тому +5

    Chakri Anna is lub❤️

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому

      You guys are ❤️❤️❤️

  • @gayathrivaddepally3059
    @gayathrivaddepally3059 Рік тому

    Aba genuine talkk andi seriouslyyyy ❤

  • @rushalibandari9516
    @rushalibandari9516 2 роки тому +1

    I’m a new subscriber and I so love the way you talk, and am literally hooked onto both your channels. This video is something I could relate a lot to. Hope people in my family also see the true colors of the people who claim to be our well wishes but are literally snakes.

  • @sungeethavlogs2619
    @sungeethavlogs2619 3 роки тому +1

    Happy anniversary Monica,❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @pallavi3848
    @pallavi3848 3 роки тому

    It's pallavi from Mumbai.. Nice story.. God bless u r family

  • @Talkativetejareddy
    @Talkativetejareddy 3 роки тому +1

    Dressing n ni look bagundi❤️😘
    My god mounica....starting lo nen kuda ma mammaya mundu kurchuntae titaedi
    Ipatiki kuda ma mammaya untae kinda kurchovali...😭

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому +1

      Vammooo enti Avuna? Kinda enduku kurchovali? Nenu ma mamayya friends lagane untam

    • @Talkativetejareddy
      @Talkativetejareddy 3 роки тому

      @@OkkaMaata inti pedda respect ivali ala antaru em amna ante

  • @reshmareddy8308
    @reshmareddy8308 3 роки тому +1

    Happy marriage anniversary akka💐

  • @himakada9615
    @himakada9615 7 місяців тому

    Hope ur FiL and MIL are doing well now

  • @pavithrasgoodlife7924
    @pavithrasgoodlife7924 3 роки тому

    Happy wedding anniversary mounika

  • @shivayomiee9205
    @shivayomiee9205 3 роки тому

    Very informative video your video are very nice. I suggest you to make video on car driving tips for beginners women & empower them

  • @satyateluguvlogsinusa7026
    @satyateluguvlogsinusa7026 3 роки тому +1

    Happy wedding anniversary sis🥰👍

  • @kaparabooinabhavana9632
    @kaparabooinabhavana9632 3 роки тому +1

    Happy anniversary sis💝

  • @TG01012K
    @TG01012K 3 роки тому

    Relatives dislike kodithe 5-8dislikes vundali kani 25+ dislikes vunayi enttabha.
    😂🤣😂
    Anyway manchi useful content.👍

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому +3

      Maadi koncham pedda family le

  • @abhignakayala9336
    @abhignakayala9336 3 роки тому +5

    Looking cute in braid monica..❤️

  • @happybeing7252
    @happybeing7252 3 роки тому +1

    Happy anniversary dear

  • @chaitanyabommu1797
    @chaitanyabommu1797 3 роки тому +1

    Happy Anniversary 🎉

  • @manasaamboori9571
    @manasaamboori9571 3 роки тому

    Happy anniversary Mounika & Chakri

  • @mohanakrishnakorlapati1856
    @mohanakrishnakorlapati1856 3 роки тому

    Happy anniversary akka

  • @gajulachandana7633
    @gajulachandana7633 3 роки тому

    35:00 dagara miru chepina point na parents cheptharu akka. Manchi chesina chedu chesina manam evarni em anodhu devudu chuskuntadu ani. Mossam cheste manaku kakapoina nxt generation ki ina bad jargudhi ani. Mi videos chala baguntay akka❤️sending you loads of love

  • @HBK25959
    @HBK25959 3 роки тому +3

    those dislikes are from relatives 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому +3

      Bwahahahahahaha.... naku idi epudo telsu.... a video pettina .. 2-3 mins ke dislikes kottestharu.. nenu full navvukunta

  • @atoz2001
    @atoz2001 3 роки тому

    Hello Monika...happy anniversary 🌹🌹im also from medak...plss tell me when I visit medak..let me meet u once plsss

  • @sandhyateluguchannel6855
    @sandhyateluguchannel6855 3 роки тому +1

    Happy anniversary 💐💐🎂

  • @bhharathibandi2157
    @bhharathibandi2157 3 роки тому +1

    Mounika Roches....❤️

  • @bhagyasrisrtp4783
    @bhagyasrisrtp4783 3 роки тому +1

    Happy anniversary 🎉

  • @amrutamogilineedi
    @amrutamogilineedi 3 роки тому

    Happy Anniversary !!

  • @pravallikanandana8983
    @pravallikanandana8983 3 роки тому

    Happy wedding anniversary sis

  • @Nadrushtilo_By_Gayathri
    @Nadrushtilo_By_Gayathri 3 роки тому

    Actually sitting crosslegged is not elegant. even the queen of london does not sit crosslegged when in public.

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому

      Princess Diana and Meghan markle have been spotted sitting cross legged many times... guess the queen has a lot of catching up to do

    • @Nadrushtilo_By_Gayathri
      @Nadrushtilo_By_Gayathri 3 роки тому

      @@OkkaMaata They are not from royal family as you know and have always been rebels about the traditions of the house. Forget about the royal tradition, we dont need to follow them.But, I have always found women sitting without cross leg visually more formal and when cross legged, it looks casual. Also, when in public the royals are constantly photographed so they dont want awkward moments, may be thats one of the reasons too.

  • @santhi206
    @santhi206 3 роки тому +1

    Civil issues 20 years aina solve kaavu akka

    • @santhi206
      @santhi206 3 роки тому

      Maa mother vallavi court lo 19 years ayyi still lagging

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому

      Ammooooo

  • @sowjanyabalija3801
    @sowjanyabalija3801 3 роки тому +1

    Hi akka miru selt pencils thintara chepandy plz

  • @chinni9234
    @chinni9234 3 роки тому +1

    Happy wedding anniversary akka❤️
    I love your vds a lot.....okkamata vds kosam chala wait chesthuntaa.... Keep rocking akka🤩 love you 💕

  • @bjyothsnavideos3647
    @bjyothsnavideos3647 3 роки тому +1

    Lots of love from ZHB

  • @Userzeer
    @Userzeer 3 роки тому +1

    Mimmalni evaru em cheyaleru akka

  • @nandinipriyanka95
    @nandinipriyanka95 3 роки тому +4

    You look damn cute today 👌👌

  • @drkk3199
    @drkk3199 3 роки тому

    Hugs to you babe

  • @harika4711
    @harika4711 3 роки тому

    Happy anniversary..

  • @happybeing7252
    @happybeing7252 3 роки тому

    You are looking gorgeous 😍

  • @gayathrivaddepally3059
    @gayathrivaddepally3059 Рік тому

    Aba same situation face chestuna abba

  • @Honey5124
    @Honey5124 3 роки тому

    You look very cute.

  • @likhithareddy2099
    @likhithareddy2099 3 роки тому +1

    1st view akka

  • @pallavi3848
    @pallavi3848 3 роки тому

    So sweet voice

  • @kalpana453
    @kalpana453 3 роки тому

    Excellent 👌👌👌

  • @priyankad6836
    @priyankad6836 3 роки тому +2

    @24:35 theera chustae andaru lang**** dongalae🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому +2

      Ala ochesindi flow lo

  • @RamaDevi-gi9lx
    @RamaDevi-gi9lx 3 роки тому +1

    50th view..!!

  • @happyme8271
    @happyme8271 3 роки тому +3

    Luv u aka❤️
    37:09 🔥

  • @raghavimekala5216
    @raghavimekala5216 3 роки тому +1

    Hi akka

  • @shirishareddy.-
    @shirishareddy.- 3 роки тому +1

    Hi

  • @sweetoansari
    @sweetoansari 3 роки тому +1

    24:35 I cannot stop laughing 😂😂😂😂

  • @renukan9301
    @renukan9301 3 роки тому

    31 st like akka🐱

  • @subbunittala2012
    @subbunittala2012 3 роки тому

    English oddu amma.. Telugu lo ki vacheyi

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому +1

      English medium kada so avesham osthe translate chesi matlade Antha time undadu

  • @mamathakamireddy2907
    @mamathakamireddy2907 3 роки тому

    What is the point of this video akka ? 🤔

  • @raghavimekala5216
    @raghavimekala5216 3 роки тому +1

    29 like

  • @sreegowri9341
    @sreegowri9341 3 роки тому

    Happy anniversary akka