Okka Maata 20 : does being dark effect your confidence?

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  • @hpsai2345
    @hpsai2345 3 роки тому +21

    Message to the girl - Pls move out of that house, stay in a hostel or flatting with your friends and continue working, buy a flat of your own and Then see the world and see how the world sees you... you will see a huge change in people’s point of view...

  • @manasagarre2458
    @manasagarre2458 3 роки тому +1

    Absolutely perfect suggestion icharu for her. If she felt bad of being discriminated she can't do the same to other person. Everyone Should learn to accept themselves. Nenu overweight untanu from my teens almost 80 kg around untanu. Everyone used to make fun of my figure. Starting lo feel ayedanni no friends,no boy friend etc ani. And then I was qualified as Chartered accountant and cost accountant which boosted me self confidence. Then I started accepting myself for what I have. My husband married me because I am a CA but not that I was beautiful. Just be satisfied for what you have and stop bothering about what others think about you. You atleast have good health, good education, good job with decent salary. You should be thankful for all these things and stop feeling for being dark.

  • @himabindukudikala7962
    @himabindukudikala7962 3 роки тому +3

    Message to the girl - Meeru Job chestunaru, baga earn chestunaru and independent ga oka decision teskune position lo unaru... Me intlo matches chuse vishayam lo ekada wrong velthundi ani 2 years lo realise avvalekapoyara? Main problem adhe ikada... Meru ela unaro alane represent cheyandi.. Color imp kadu.. Character imp.. Ipati nundi vache matches meru select cheskondi.. Meru dark skin unte , dark skin una valane choose cheskondi.. May be vallu kuda meru face chesina problms eh face chesi untaremo kada... Asalu marriage eh avvadhu.. Brathakadam waste ani matram anodhu... endukante marriage aina.. avakuna.. adhokate me life kadu... marriage ayye time ki avtundi.. Be responsible and independent..

  • @aparnak7752
    @aparnak7752 3 роки тому +2

    First off all....lots of love to the girl...ipativaraku strong ga ikadivaraku life lead chesavu manchi job thechukunav idhi asalu easy kadhu so ee confidence n positivity continue cheyyi hope you think wise n nothing negative stops you from raising heights...chala inspiring videos positive vibes videos chudu listen to mounika roches other videos definite ga you will think out of box...try it...hope you lead your life in your way not in other's way dear...

  • @madhavipuram3528
    @madhavipuram3528 3 роки тому +1

    Excellent..good to hear

  • @monikalakshmi2979
    @monikalakshmi2979 3 роки тому +4

    Mounika roches rocks subscribers shocks.... recently I watched ur marriage video u couple 💑 looks gorgeous 😍 💖 💗

  • @shrutikitchenlifestyle
    @shrutikitchenlifestyle 3 роки тому +4

    Every one in our family use to say fair girls only easily get marry to a nice person, we r four cousins and one among us was with dark skintone so ppl thought it's will be difficult for her wedding but she was the one who got married first among 4 (with a nice person ), so dnt get low be confident and ur confidence make u look more beautiful,one more thing dnt take ur moms words seriously because she is also facing the same problem what ur facing,thanks for the story

  • @Jyoshnagurram
    @Jyoshnagurram 3 роки тому +11

    I got rejected by many companies.. Then I felt low but this particular girl got into a job which I didn't have.. Colour doesn't feed me and my family but a job does...so what iam going to say to that girl is these are the speed breakers, after that the road is plane so keep going

  • @meethomeesravanthikrishna
    @meethomeesravanthikrishna 3 роки тому +4

    Exactly i felt d same tanu aa abbai physical appearance chusi reject chesinapudu kuda tappey ..even tana mind lo kuda adey vunapudu repu tana nundi vachey future generation lo kuda alaney padipotadi...ala ani cheppi vallani pelli cheskomani kadu atleast tana thinking verela vundali...wat if reverse ayyi vuntey like amey chala bagundi oka dark color abbai pelli chupulki vastey..🤔

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому

      There is no solution to this other than being comfortable with ourselves and being sure of what we want

    • @meethomeesravanthikrishna
      @meethomeesravanthikrishna 3 роки тому

      @@OkkaMaata yes true ...even she should ready to accept this solution..

  • @divyak1085
    @divyak1085 3 роки тому +12

    Na life kooda similar ga undedi neenu kooda Chala bad comments face chesenu life I lots my self confidence . naku ok cousin sister undi tanaki naku okesare marriage proposal chooseru but tanakan naku fast GA marriage fix iendi .she and her family feel so jealous feel iyaru because Andru Nanu fair GA leevu ani marriage fix avatam kastam ani anevalu ma mother Chala feel iedi .evaru anukoni vidanga ma husband ma cousin proposal reject chesi naku ok chepedu Andi choosi ma cousin ki nameeda koopam vachi indirect GA un know Things chesindi. Now I am a wife of IES officer and 2 kids ma husband ki neenu ante Chala istam.now he supports me any soo much

  • @chandanap123
    @chandanap123 3 роки тому +2

    My own sister has faced several issues regarding her skintone. My parents had serched groom for almost 5years😒. I know the pain...

  • @sarithaspt4
    @sarithaspt4 3 роки тому +1

    Nice one Monica! I always look forward to your stories.
    You may fall in love with looks, but will have to live with their character. So, always prefer to be with someone who makes you feel good no matter what. I personally feel going after extremely good looking people, just for that, will end up making you more insecure than you are.

  • @priyankavadthya1058
    @priyankavadthya1058 3 роки тому +1

    Amma aparichithuralu lokam lo chala mandhi chala badhalatho vunnaru health bagoleka ,thindi leka,job leka, acid dhadulaki gurai face kaalipoyi inka rakarakaala problems tho chala suffer avthunaru nuv chala andhanga vunnav thalli na mata nammu velli adham lo face chusko u r beautiful nuv okka colour kosam assalu badha padodhu mundhu meeru andhanga vunnara leda anedi me colour valla theliyadu me bright smile valla thelustundi oka pani cheyandi velli daily adham lo oka 5 mins face chuskoni happy ga smile chesthu pics theskondi me andham meeke thelustundi me amma inko sari descriminate chesthy moham meeda Aneyandi meekem analanpisthy adi meeru chakkaga earn chesthunaru okkalle kuda brathike dhairyam vunnaka kuda low feel avvakandi be positive loads of love from PRIYA ❤️

  • @ramyasrirenikunta6332
    @ramyasrirenikunta6332 3 роки тому +1

    Hi akka....
    This is a good stand to speak on things like this. As u said most of the girls like her in lifetime face this atleast once, specially during marriage times. Even Iam the one facing this ofcourse not to her extent. My mom sometimes says like you are dark, it may be difficult to get fair guy or one who is settled soo good career wise. I don't prefer a fair guy or like but I specifically look for good hair and pleasant looking guy. But when we hear such kind of stuff from our known people, it really hurts bad. So just be confident and positive towards your heart and brain. In this cases, all we need to stand for ourselves no matter what , when, where and with whom.
    Thank you Mounika akka for such good content outrise.

  • @padmadholi491
    @padmadholi491 3 роки тому

    Hi...even I faced the problem since my childhood and had lot of inferiority complex. Thanks to my company in which am working since last 20yrs...I came out of it...am out of it atkeast to 80%. Thanks for bringing this up.

  • @Bhavs_smiley
    @Bhavs_smiley 3 роки тому

    Good topic ! But one thing what I felt is I think you should have not suggested or said that getting beautified through medical procedures is reasonable.
    It is not at all suggestible if one want to change their color, increase their height, get a nose job done, ... then there won't be end to it. Its always good that we accept ourselves first and just smoothen/glorify your skin and maintain a healthy n reasonable good looks. We would become definitely more presentable and last but not least, without confidence, even a fair girl or tall boy would look like a fool on stage n even a dark skinned person would look handsome, pretty if presented themselves well.
    So please raise your confidence levels n positivity. Things would fall in place.

  • @chinni8057
    @chinni8057 3 роки тому

    well said akka , evaru ila cheparu , you bring impact on many minds , meru chepina story vinte naku maa cousin gurtochindi thanani kuda maa relatives lo chala mandi enti antha nallaga unnav ani antaru , aa vishyam mida thanu nannu ala anakandi ani serious aythe malli thanane tidutaru , thanu confident ga undadaniki try chestadi maa cousins andaram kuda thanani motivate chestam but still pelli chupula kosam pics emana pettamani evarana adigithe she don't , first mana society change aytene andarki confidence vastadi akka
    meru ee video tho chala mandini inspire chesi untaru❤❤❤❤

  • @jyoshnarajaneni
    @jyoshnarajaneni 3 роки тому +4

    15:50True words akka❤️

  • @ramstwinnie8227
    @ramstwinnie8227 3 роки тому

    Dear anonymous
    As mounika said ignore color. You are already succeeded in your life. Fairness anedhi its just an phase in a life. Age pergutuna kodhi fairness chnge avtundi. Mundhu meeru ah perception tiseyandi tarvata mee mom ki chepandi.
    Mounika garu cheparu ela ithe mimalni reject chesaro physically handicapped person ki ichi chestnaru inka nenu nduku ani ankunaru ante meeru reject chesinate kada andi athanu ntha feel avtaru. Meeku nachinattu mee career lo success iyaru alane mee mrge lo kuda meeru straight ga think cheyandi meekosam okaru putte untaru.
    All the best for your mrge

  • @abhilashroy3741
    @abhilashroy3741 3 роки тому +6

    Now i learned Hair is also very very important

  • @likhithalikhi7391
    @likhithalikhi7391 3 роки тому +1

    chala chala manchiga chepavu akka ....... mana Midha manaki confidence vundali adhi important😍

  • @b........232
    @b........232 3 роки тому +1

    Hi akka..
    Ur lipstick colour was looking nice👌👌

  • @kadageethikasaismownitha8034
    @kadageethikasaismownitha8034 3 роки тому +1

    akka do video on bodyshaming also

  • @zubrenostumbi8887
    @zubrenostumbi8887 3 роки тому

    CAN YOU DO A VIDEO ON DARK ARMPITS LIGHTENING PLEASE

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/9kd2mDAgjt0/v-deo.html

  • @sugunaakula8902
    @sugunaakula8902 3 роки тому +4

    People who cannot appreciate the beauty of soul expect others to appreciate the inner beauty. So hypocritical.

    • @syamprasad9076
      @syamprasad9076 3 роки тому

      It's inbuilt foolishness in people. Life Will be hell if u expect it to be heaven. When u understand this and divert to other things u'll feel a bit relief even in hell(life) forget about heaven.

  • @raylaprlasj
    @raylaprlasj 3 роки тому +2

    Marie Graobe is one the highest-paid model and she is a Cameroonian..so just like age is a number..black is another color

  • @navyasribheema3966
    @navyasribheema3966 3 роки тому +3

    Color discrimination.. Body shaming.. Ivanni antaru valla narrow minds ki taggattu.. But adi mana meeda effect chesthe mana mindset ni correct cheskovali..

  • @sushmavejalla9868
    @sushmavejalla9868 3 роки тому +4

    16:10 wonderful words really it's truth hats off to u ma'am

  • @chaitukongara4352
    @chaitukongara4352 3 роки тому +1

    Akka in your every video there will be something to learn🤗

  • @mahalaxmikunchakuri
    @mahalaxmikunchakuri 3 роки тому +1

    Ah smile edaithe undo💯💯💯entha mudduga navvuthav akka👌👌👌

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому +1

      ☺️☺️☺️☺️

  • @VallikaVlogs
    @VallikaVlogs 3 роки тому +1

    U r not the only one there r so many people out there , I am also a kinda one where I have been suffering with back acne ,I am not too fair or too black but I'm wheatish fair where the back acne spots visible much more, I didn't even wore a saree till now bcz of the insecurity of what others think by the way I'm 27 now still I had back acne issues and even my parents are looking for proposals for me , I felt bad many times in my life about this issue ,I visited many doctors where I didn't found results, now I realized that it's only a part it is not that judge my life , I am the one whom to be proud of myself, so if anyone who is going through with any kinda issues don't worry it's okay to be like that it's normal , u r not alone there r so many people out there and if possible reach out to doctors of your choice for better results .

  • @nagarjunab7499
    @nagarjunab7499 3 роки тому +3

    Got one of the video as UA-cam suggestion and ended up watching all yours videos in a day. Great work 👍👏
    The irony is that most people will take this color discrimination as a joke and making fun out of it.
    Parents are unknowingly rubbing this shit on children.

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому +1

      Exactly that too in 2021... even when Covid is proving that life is so unpredictable

  • @RamaDevi-gi9lx
    @RamaDevi-gi9lx 3 роки тому

    I just like the way u explained...😍

  • @muppidishirisha7122
    @muppidishirisha7122 3 роки тому +2

    No one literally NO ONE ON THIS EARTH who wantedly get their birth in a particular COLOR, CASTE N CASH i feel akka... but DISCRIMINATION OF COLOR, CASTE ivi high range lo untay mana routine life lo... even i have faced caste discrimination in my life but evaro edo annaru ani naa life ekkada aagipoledu kada akka, and am very happy for what am having in my life thats enough for me ani naa feeling in each stage of my life... What ever the thing akka manaki em undo adi chaalu ane oka satisfaction tho life lead chesthe we can make our self complete n our life good ani naa feeling akka... and coming to the vedio It's good as usual n the way you narrate it always lovable akka... 😊😊😊

  • @deepthienganti7234
    @deepthienganti7234 3 роки тому +1

    Hello Monica, I wish I could talk to her personally. I have a brunch of things that I wanted to share from my personal life. If she is okay me talking to her I would love to talk to her Monica.

  • @hitheshreddy7701
    @hitheshreddy7701 3 роки тому +1

    Colour doesnt judge people beauty , every one is beautiful in there own ways , girls whose skin tone is black even looks beautiful lets change the society mindset its in the hands of younger generation

  • @sanageetanjali8330
    @sanageetanjali8330 3 роки тому +3

    Every one r unique in their own way.

  • @sushmasri6528
    @sushmasri6528 3 роки тому

    U r makeup is so awesome and look sooo gorgeous 😍😍😍😍😍

  • @deepupatapati1047
    @deepupatapati1047 3 роки тому

    Akka U design every story very clean and neat 👌🥰

  • @vedhasriterli4612
    @vedhasriterli4612 3 роки тому +1

    didi story so nice

  • @intheendweallarenumb
    @intheendweallarenumb 3 роки тому +1

    Jarguthadh dii, pakka jarguthad ma intla Kuda ma Mumm eh antad adi bhi baitol odhleshey

  • @mokshsagar4998
    @mokshsagar4998 3 роки тому +1

    I always eagerly wait for ur video akka... Nd before I watch I hit like button.. U r extremely good I love listening stories.. Much love ❤

  • @grateful765
    @grateful765 3 роки тому +1

    I am regularly watching this series ad it's really nice akka keep doing it more

  • @ranik306
    @ranik306 3 роки тому +1

    Hey!
    This is seen only in India.
    Fairness of such a high priority.
    I would blame the mother and society for this situation.
    No child is different based on color, gender, disability.
    Stay happy and healthy thats all matters everything else is not relavant.

  • @gayathriramme6756
    @gayathriramme6756 3 роки тому +3

    Saddest thing is colour bias is teached by our very own family.....

  • @majsbsainsvshssh
    @majsbsainsvshssh 9 місяців тому

    Good

  • @kanugaswaruparani4490
    @kanugaswaruparani4490 3 роки тому +1

    Aaka menu milalimi oka suggestion aadacha

  • @RajeshKumar-ef8ge
    @RajeshKumar-ef8ge 3 роки тому

    First u need to accept urself, love urself so much and shine from with in. Ur life will change with it

  • @prajnavlogs
    @prajnavlogs 3 роки тому

    Nenu me story complete avvagane anukunnadi same eme evaro tanani color valla reject chesaru andi bt she rejected someone cz of deir disability ...tanaki yrs nunchi unna discriminatn ni simplega oka disabled persnni chesukovatam waste andi ..so as u said we cant judhe her its her rule kani alane a vere vallandaridi ade rule...edi perfect cheparu...
    Coming to the girl situatn yes e dsirciminatn untunfi...my girl is lil.dark compared to me ,boy fair so antu untaru janalu and family valu ammai kasta fair ipoyunte bavunnu ani...bt i ecplained myngirl she is golden brown and her bro is lil light brown...so she wud nw tel everyone proudly dt she luks golden brown....manam kooda kasta open ga alochinchali next generatn nunchi color discriminatn a lekunda kids ninpenchali....any persn jus like dt reject cheyakunda travel chesi elantivado /elantido chusi peli chesukovalanedi na thot epudu kooda though its arranged mar

  • @ajo6805
    @ajo6805 3 роки тому +2

    Eroju u r looking great andi chala freshga unnaru

  • @sindhuja9650
    @sindhuja9650 3 роки тому

    Chinnapudu pillala dagara parents matladakudanivi acolor gurinchi physical appearence gurinchi correctga raise chesaru adi kakunda inko imp thing anti antey bawa maradalu ala varasa aite a children munde nv na kodalivi or alludivi na koduku pelanivi ela matladataru peddha ayaka amai mind gani abayi mind gani or vala parents lo avri mind aina change aite a child hopes petukunte tana marriage gurinchi chinnapude decide aiyi future lo ala avakpote how it affects their life.. Edi apdina me channel. Lo dini gurinchi chepandi

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому

      Got too many stories about that

  • @aparnak7752
    @aparnak7752 3 роки тому +1

    Waiting ✋

  • @kprassu
    @kprassu 3 роки тому

    I am surprised you didn't talk about inner beauty Mounica!! First impression can be based on how someone looks but personality changes a lot! After you speak to a nice kind intelligent person you never look at their skin anymore!! There's very shitty and very awesome people in any color... wait until someone sees the true you!! Let go of the shallow minded people who can't see beneath your skin. On the other hand please don't forget that dark skin tones are beautiful! (Though I have lighter skin) I have always been attracted to dark skin toned! Thats why married a dark awesome man who is beautiful inside out! For me my beautiful chocolaty kids are the prettiest in the world. Girl in the story... you are worth it, you are beautiful just the way you are, don't change yourself!

    • @sambarajulaxmi4832
      @sambarajulaxmi4832 3 роки тому

      I agree with you PK. But the topic is abut the skin color not about the inner beauty. If she (mounica) want to talk about inner beauty she make Another video and she will talk for sure. May be she thought like y to change the topic ani Continued the flow I think. Hope u got that point.

    • @kprassu
      @kprassu 3 роки тому

      @@sambarajulaxmi4832 Laxmi garu... I commend your abhimanam andi!! Nenem cheppaano meekem ardam aindo thelvatle andi!! Mallokasari chadavandamma!!

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому +1

      you said you have always been attracted to dark skin tone does that mean or reflect that light skin tone people should feel inferior...
      the girl in the story kept telling that her mom, people around her shamed and criticized her for her skin tone... how does she feel about that is something she never even thought of...
      once you get to know the person skin color does not mean anything but how do you come to that point ? here the girl is meeting guys who are here after seeing her picture... how i can emphasise on inner beauty? I told that she is beautiful and she knows it too which is why she is very reluctant to change her skin... wants someone to accept her for who she is...

    • @kprassu
      @kprassu 3 роки тому

      @@OkkaMaata Evvaru inferior feel avvaddu ane na point Kada, naku jasmine ishtam ani chepthe roses inferior ani kaadu kada. Both are beautiful in their own way. I said I am surprised only because all other videos of u I watched I felt every single time that you think exactly like me, I have commented that on other videos also. This is the only video where I felt that point was missed (not when spoke about the girl but when speak in general at the end). Cuz amongst the people I met in my life friends chuttaalu, colleagues etc you stick with them because of who they are inside kada..

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому +1

      @@kprassu pelli chupullo who they are inside ani telidu kada

  • @susmitha2601
    @susmitha2601 3 роки тому +1

    Akka oka live cheyyandi malli

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому

      Cheddam 10k kosam waiting

  • @eshwari475
    @eshwari475 3 роки тому

    Wow akka 19 hrs lo 3.5 k views

  • @manishareddy79
    @manishareddy79 3 роки тому +1

    You are looking beautiful akka❤️lots of positivity and love to you 💕💕

  • @sanageetanjali8330
    @sanageetanjali8330 3 роки тому +2

    Devudu prathi okkariki edo okati lopam pedathadu.by the way all r creatures of god .don't hurt anyone.should not lose self confidence on ourselves.

    • @hpsai2345
      @hpsai2345 3 роки тому

      Nallaga undadam lopam kadu

  • @shirishareddy.-
    @shirishareddy.- 3 роки тому

    So chala mandhi elaney vunttaru bakkaga vuntey bakkaga vunnaru Ani lavuga vuntey lavuga vunnaru nallaga vuntey nallaga vunnarani anttu eduti varini badha peduthu vunttaru edhuti varu m anukunttaro Ani alonchicharu

  • @meghana4210
    @meghana4210 2 роки тому

    Do u know Kylie jenner

  • @divyak1085
    @divyak1085 3 роки тому

    microdermabrasion at skin doctor treatment and has to follow some skin lite cream help for skin tone

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому

      Too many side effects for skin lite...

    • @divyak1085
      @divyak1085 3 роки тому

      @@OkkaMaata no we have to follow skin doctor gudline I am not telling cosmetics medicated treatment

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому +1

      @@divyak1085 yes that we should. But the cream has so many acids that it will reduce melanin content but will make it extremely sensitive to sun which will result in premature aging

  • @aparnareddy6519
    @aparnareddy6519 3 роки тому +2

    Omg uh r cute!❤️

  • @bhargavig8591
    @bhargavig8591 3 роки тому +1

    Super akka

  • @sahithisagar8556
    @sahithisagar8556 3 роки тому

    Akka nijame color effects life nt only life career kuda akka that is because of other peoples comments itself

  • @swathirayalavari7521
    @swathirayalavari7521 3 роки тому +1

    Even I faced same problem with my family members comparing with my sister ,even my brothers also insulted,after marriage my kids ma husband color vaste, హమ్మయ్య nee color రాలేదు kids అనేవారు 😭

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому +1

      Anthe maararu vaalu maname inka mana kids color important kaadu ani cheppali

  • @roopaavula5567
    @roopaavula5567 3 роки тому +1

    Akka looking gorgeous ❤️🔥

  • @deepu-ty7lv
    @deepu-ty7lv 3 роки тому +1

    Akkaaaa❤️❤️❤️

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому +1

      🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

  • @lavakrrish2047
    @lavakrrish2047 3 роки тому

    Color gurinchi mana mundu antaro ledo teliyadu kani bakkaga unavalanu matram ndukala unav tindi tinava emana pblma hospital chupinchuko ani champukoni tinntaru MA ayyanaku leni badha e janalaku yento artam kadu vallu ala anapudu manasu yelago avtadi a feeling nanu weak ga chestundi roju rojuku

  • @vasubabupullepu6641
    @vasubabupullepu6641 3 роки тому +1

    Cute akka😘👌

  • @anuhyaaaaaaa
    @anuhyaaaaaaa 3 роки тому +2

    Fat shaming, body shaming , colour degradation ivvani asalu inka enni rojulu.... literally ane valu osari funny ga annaro ledo kavalani antaro kani...tarwata evarni annaro valu literally mental health issues techkuntaru #nodiscrimation and video bagundi akka as always

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому +1

      Vallu asalu anadame aaparu...manam vinadam aapeyyali anthe

    • @anuhyaaaaaaa
      @anuhyaaaaaaa 3 роки тому

      Avunu akka anthe ignore cheyali and confident ga undali

  • @pavanisajja2075
    @pavanisajja2075 3 роки тому +1

    Hey...hi mounika 😍🥰

  • @gayathriramme6756
    @gayathriramme6756 3 роки тому

    My mom says I'm born darker than my brother and sister but donno hw I became fair now I never visited any parlor and don't use products or remedies. I'm 22yrs and old started my career till now but my husband is dark so my mom said you didn't obeyed my words and married to dark person now ur baby will born dark to her surprise he has beautiful face among our both families everyone is jealous....donno why colour play such an important role since my son born everyone talk to me only about his colour and appearance only. No one cares how fast he is learning new skills this hurts me.......I don't teach my son all this rubbish

  • @sudhagorre844
    @sudhagorre844 3 роки тому +3

    Polio tho disabled Aina athani pelli cheskotam valla thanu antha badhapadatam Naaku artham avatledu. I find it’s discriminated too. In all the Description u just shared, athani nature/character gurinchi thanu mention cheyaledu. To feel unfortunate and to die just because she is destined to marry him is according to me not correct.

  • @shalinimittu1888
    @shalinimittu1888 3 роки тому

    Okkate chepta, me mukku aite bagne undi..me face ki correct gane undi. No at all odd. Dani em cheyakandi. Trust me 🤗👍

  • @sudharani5512
    @sudharani5512 3 роки тому

    Tanani colour bati judge chestunaaru ani anaru kada Tanu wat she is doing oka disability undi ani oka man ni judge cheydam correct a ??

  • @mounicak2404
    @mounicak2404 3 роки тому

    Asalu body shaming ae vaddu kada. Colour, hair, body type edaina why would it be a matter. Being healthy is important. How nice your behaviour is anedi consider cheyyali anthe.
    Oka father vunnaru. Aayaniki hair Ledu, colour Ledu he is a responsible family man.
    Neighbour handsome vunnadu anni super. Pani pata vundadu edi pattadu.
    Same applies to women as well
    Whom does society respects?
    Certain age tharvatha inner beauty matters adedo early ga thelsukunte andariki baguntundi

    • @mounicak2404
      @mounicak2404 3 роки тому

      I agree life partner ila vundali ani requirements andariki vuntayi. But respecting other individual is very imp.

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому

      Love marriages lo you know the person kabatti valla behavior telustadi... arranged marriage lo in a pile of profiles to choose one we have no other choice than to look for a few qualities that you like

    • @mounicak2404
      @mounicak2404 3 роки тому

      @@OkkaMaata True Nenu marriage gurinchi anatledu prathi okkariki partner ila vundali ani vuntundi kada
      Naa point society gurinchi. Friends and parents kuda colour chustharani ani I’m a bit surprised.

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому

      @@mounicak2404 oh no... if you follow me on Instagram I posted a few screenshots of posts where women are asking home remedies to make their months baby fair

    • @mounicak2404
      @mounicak2404 3 роки тому

      @@OkkaMaata Just saw your Instagram posts. It’s really sad to see. Parents kuda ila vunte entha painful asalu kids ki
      Glad that mee video valla atleast kontha mandi lo ayina aa realisation vasthe

  • @hpsai2345
    @hpsai2345 3 роки тому

    Post ur ad in matrimony and find your own match...

  • @sainikhila2182
    @sainikhila2182 3 роки тому +1

    First comment

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому

      Thank you Nikhila ❤️

  • @saralakudikala9686
    @saralakudikala9686 3 роки тому

    Hair okati..Colour okata andi..Rendu body shaminge kada

    • @OkkaMaata
      @OkkaMaata  3 роки тому +1

      Ledu andi preference chepthunna manaki arranged marriage lo when you don’t know somebody’s mindset then we are left with only choice of liking a photo... after a couple of years of traveling together you will like the person and physical beauty does not matter

  • @priyatales4449
    @priyatales4449 3 роки тому +1

    Lot's of love from Priyanka Reddy 😍