Okka Maata : Is Marriage important ? | Mounika Roches
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akka meeru psychology cheyyakunna meeru asal thop level psychologist.....touched all perspectives,.....virtual hugs.....
Thank you
Hii akka
Plz share ur cousins marg stry...which according to u all was superb mrg...bt fromt he very next day c had to suffer a lot
Just wanted to say one thing Thank You thank you❤ more power to u😘
Nice insight on marriage and I also think somewhere the enthusiasm to date someone fades as you age.. society, friends family etc. 30s,40s,50s lo dating ante kastam 😅
Hi akka naku 2022 Oct lo marriage aindi but we never had sex, mrg ayyaka kothalo tensions unnay ,ippude pillalu vadhu ankunta nannu avoid chesevaadu,inka nenu adgatam start chesthe vadhu Ippude pillalu pudtaaru ani,inka malli adgithe natho godava padthav nenu ela ravali nee degariki ani avoid chesthunde, chinna chinna godvalu start ayyayi appudu nv naku vadhu anevaadu,nenante istam ledu ane vaadu inka ma parents ki call chesi mee ammai na paina uke algutundi ani complaint chesevaadu,so oksari peddaga indi godava so appudu ma intlo cheppesina that we both never had sex ani,Appud ma parents involve ayyaru , first ma husband ki nachachepparu but vinakapoyesariki hspl ki teesukelte Appudu telsindhi he had pblm like he cannot do sex, dr suggested some tablets and if tablets wont work ,he must have operation,e vishyam pellayaka 6 months ki telsindhi that he is impotent,he cheated me by hiding his impotence,but appatiki tana ante naku chala istam puttindhi,but pellaina Kani nenu happy ga lenu akka memu roommates la undevalam,Kani athanu ante istam kabati Anni barincha,athaniki full ego and yedaina chinna godava Aina compromise kaadu nene compromose ayyedaani prathisaari,na ego ni champukoni degariki velledaani,na behaviour ni hate cheyadam start chesaadu like nenu chinna pillala behave chesthunna anta,na behaviour change cheskunna athani valla,taruvta prathi chinna daniki natho matladtam manesevaadu inka chaala ante chala chesaadu like cheyi pattukunna andarimundu tittevadu,natho enduku baagundavu andaritho baaguntavu anti nenu adgute na meeda negativity undanta anduke anta and kanisam na degarikaina ravu ante na mukham chuste rabudikadanta ,ila avoid chesevaadu ,naku fever vachina pattinchkotle and naku leg ki debba tagilina he doesnt care about me but nakistam kabati ivani barincha,naku asalu telidu athaniki physical pblm undani endukila chesthunnadu ankunna,hspl ki vellaka kuda adgina niku e vishyam telidha enduku pellicheskunnav nannu ani adgithe athaniki telidhanta athaniki pblm undani,athanu cheppedi abadam ani telisina ponile telisi telika pelli cheskunnademo ani vadilesa, ina nenu vadalipettale na support icha manam tablets use cheddam adi kakapothe veredi ani but he is not intrested to use tablets he need some time anta appatike hspl ki velli 15 days aindi but he never admitted his mistake or feel guilty for cheating me by marrying and hiding his impotence, need some time anagane ok ani cheppina okavela tablets work kakapothe will you go for operation ante, operation work varaku veltado ledo kada ani annadu but nen anna for suppose if it won't work will you go for surgery ante no ani cheppadu akka ,ika anthe akka natho sariga matladatam maanesaadu ma bro velli adgadu ma husband ni enti nee pblm aslu ma chelli tho sariga undavu ani adgithe na behaviour change cheskovali anta and nenu chala demands chesthunnanta and naku athani behaviour tho visugochindhi, tablets use chey ante side effects anta vala mamaya tho anevaadu, edo edo cheptunnadu nanu indirect ga vadilinchkovali ani Chusaadu memu chala try chesam ika athanu Marela ledu ,andari mundhu panchayithi kuda pettam but em labham ledu we got divorced ,divorce kavadhu ani chala try chesanu akka but athani side nundi ye response ledu ,nen lekapoina farak ledu so we divorced.divorce ki kuda baga late chesaaru akka 1 yr ayyevarku divorce ki oppukole,naku e Nov 2023 lo divorce ayyindhi akka, ayyaka telsindhi intlo valandariki telise nannu mosam chesaaru ani and paiga ma husband vallu ma relatives ki relatives, so telisina vaale mammalni mosam chesaaru,ma husband Vala bro ,ma bro friends akka Aina andaru bale mosam chesaaru akka ,telisina valani pelli cheskunte baagunta anukunna but vaale mosam chesaaru, Nenu full sad lo unna em cheyyalo ardam aitaledu akka.
Just loved the way you keep things real & raw and that thing alone keeps me hooked up throughout❤️🔥 Unknowingly you give us deep insights on real things and I’m thankful to you for that. Kindly do not worry about where is this channel going and plz do videos on topics where you’re drawn to and I’m telling you that for sure your real tribe will find you like I can resonate to your wisdom and spiritual talkings🤍😇
This is the best thing I heard today! Thank you so much
This is your x factor. Narrating a story in a more practical way. So please continue. Please dont stop UA-cam videos until it is necessary.
I am following you since long back. I really appreciate your efforts and your personality. Thank you so much for not posting any shit in your channel. Meku em content cheydaniki lenappudu edoka pichi pichi videos pettaledu. Me channel essence nunchi deviate avvaledu. We are proud that we are your subscribers.
Weekly once ayina sare edoka topic meda video pettadaniki try cheyandi. We will wait for you.
Shorts upload cheyandi. Meku lakhs lo subscribers ravali and money flood ravali ani korukuntunna. Lots of love ❤
chala thanks akka, its good to see someone talking about marriage and other sensitive topics, chala baga cheparu keep going
we will always be there to support you and to share love😁😁😁😁
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generally pelli chupulu avtunapudu as a girl , when they give alone time aslaa em matladachu??
m topics avoid cheyali??
kachitam ga address cheyalsina points enti , just to have a better understanding of what our future would be together...
is it ok being expressive?? or pogaru anukuntara if we express our wishes
just wanted to know, me channel lo youth chala mandi untaru kada ,help avtundi , kudirite deni meda video cheyandi ,
thank you ,lots of love😁😁😍😍
U rocked the topic with raw 🎉Thank you mounika garu, keep going 🎉
Thank you
Life partner ni ela choose cheskunetappudu elanti jagrattalu theeskovalo video cheyara mounika please please
I wish this video goes viral and reach more audience. And i have seen the story that a celebrity reacted and laughed hard😂
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Chala baga chepparu sister..
Next video..
If possible do a video on Having kids is necessary or not ?
Will do andi!
Sister same na doubt idhe
@@OkkaMaata
Thank you dear.mi analysis and way of explanation baguntundi.
Wow.. asalu ela intha clarity in thoughts ee age lo
Am Andi entha Baga matladutunnaru ....such a good explanation for youth ....
who r not interested to marry ....
Thank you
Please talk about - How to deal with Anxiety and Depression Akka - Loss of Mother
Need these kind of motivations in these days and inko real life story tiskoni chepandi akka so that 1% awareness ochina chalu… content bagundi
Thank you
“How to keep up the marriage to the level best after a baby” my suggestion for the topic
mee words chala baguntay, you are perfect human. I had 2 marriages, na first marriage lo ataniki some physical issue undi like we never had sex. Highly egoistic never admit his flaw which can be fixed by doctor, but his ego stopped it and moreover tanaku issue undani realize avvadaniki naku 2 years pattindi but tanu tana family ki mundu nundi telsu, so vallu pratidi godava chesevallu , always nannu matalato himsinchevallu from day1 of marriage. naku matladdaniki chance ichevallu kadu , matladina pattinchukunevallu kadu no value.Society kosam Pelli cheskunnadu for dowry and to say that he is man to everyone . USA lo undevallam, I was just like panimanishi cooking cleaning home , this fellow na character abuse cheydam start chesadu, chala chusadu nenu evartonaina affair petkunta ani, Vadu chusi chusi USA lo no fault divorce mutual file chesadu, India aite 498a cases untay ani teliviga usa lo file chesadu . At that moment I cried lot but felt happy finally coming out of this lock, epdaite court divorce notice vachindo my parents started supporting me that I got trapped ani, I contested divorce in usa and got divorced. E person tana friends andarki naku verevalto affair undani tappudu pracharam chesadu , basically that was the intention of his whole family from day1. Andaru including my parents ankunnaru na life spoiled and I cannot have normal life like everyone. Later on I went with studying masters in usa at age 28 and got into job. Any how divorce ayna 3 years ki I got married again. Now I am very happy, my husband is a gem and got precious family. Ipdu ma relatives friends family nannu chala respect chestaru , they say am so strong that I took my life into my hands and built it again . Abusive marriage lo undoddu , divorce or marriage is not an end of life. Just move on ..okate life ..make peace with life ..be happy be peaceful
Hi @sshokshetty same naku kuda mee lane jarigindi. We had no sex,naku mrg ayyaka 6 months lopu telsipoindi athaniki pblm undhi ani adi urike godvalu ayyayi appudu ma family tho open ayya maku inka first night kale ani so appudu ma family valu enter ayyi doctor ki chupincharu physical pblm undi ithanu sex cheyaledu dr tablets icharu work out kakapothe operation annaru but tanaki tablets vadalane intrest ledu mosam chesi pellicheskunnadu, family valaki motham telsu and also prathidaniki nanne torcher chese valu and nenu adganu kudq tablets pani cheyakapothe surgery ki veltava ante no annadu aslu tablets vadaniki intrest ledu inka surgery na,nannu vadilinchkovali ani chala chesadu athanu divorce kavalani direct ga adgevaadu kaadhu but nathone divorce adgaalani chala clever ga nannu mental abuse chesadu,naku chala doubts undipoyayi abbaiki chinnaptnundi undha pblm leka middle lo vachinda ani but em teliyadu enduku pellicheskunnado emo but nannaithe mosam chesi na life tho adkunnaru, divorce kavodhu ani chala try chesa endukante tane na life partner ani fix ayya ,chala badapadda inka ade baadalo unna nake ila jargala ani baadestundhi,chala try chesanu nenu kuda relation varaku cheyali ani but tanaki intrest lenapudu em chestham and nenu tanani chala nammina and istapadda but nanne mosam chesaaru paiga vaalu maaku durapu chuttalu.recent gane divorce aindhi same naade tappu annatu baita cheptunnaru and chala badapadtunna em cheyyalo ardam aitaledu.
Hi @sshokshetty same naku kuda mee lane jarigindi. We had no sex,naku mrg ayyaka 6 months lopu telsipoindi athaniki pblm undhi ani adi urike godvalu ayyayi appudu ma family tho open ayya maku inka first night kale ani so appudu ma family valu enter ayyi doctor ki chupincharu physical pblm undi ithanu sex cheyaledu dr tablets icharu work out kakapothe operation annaru but tanaki tablets vadalane intrest ledu mosam chesi pellicheskunnadu, family valaki motham telsu and also prathidaniki nanne torcher chese valu and nenu adganu kudq tablets pani cheyakapothe surgery ki veltava ante no annadu aslu tablets vadaniki intrest ledu inka surgery na,nannu vadilinchkovali ani chala chesadu athanu divorce kavalani direct ga adgevaadu kaadhu but nathone divorce adgaalani chala clever ga nannu mental abuse chesadu,naku chala doubts undipoyayi abbaiki chinnaptnundi undha pblm leka middle lo vachinda ani but em teliyadu enduku pellicheskunnado emo but nannaithe mosam chesi na life tho adkunnaru, divorce kavodhu ani chala try chesa endukante tane na life partner ani fix ayya ,chala badapadda inka ade baadalo unna nake ila jargala ani baadestundhi,chala try chesanu nenu kuda relation varaku cheyali ani but tanaki intrest lenapudu em chestham and nenu tanani chala nammina and istapadda but nanne mosam chesaaru paiga vaalu maaku durapu chuttalu.recent gane divorce aindhi same naade tappu annatu baita cheptunnaru and chala badapadtunna em cheyyalo ardam aitaledu.
@@sasana3868 same story nadi , Naku divorce ayndi 2018 lo then 2020 lo malli pelli cheskunnanu , happy now . 1 year na husband toh travel chesi,date chesi pelli cheskunnanu , now we are best freinds for life . Ma in laws and husband Anta very good people , blessed .Be financially independent and take control of life into your hands , Anta manche jargutadi .
@@sshkoshetty1857 nake ila aindi ani chala badapaddatunna but aslu bada nundi baitaki ralekapotunna, naku affair ani chepukuntunnaru Vala side ,inka family lo jaaliga chustunnaru, but mee comment Vala knchm hope vachindi tnx for ur comment na lane inka unnaru ani telsindi and mee husband ki pblm undhi ani meeku ela telsindhi and Athanni emaina chesara like kottadam kaani case pettadam Kani ila mosam chesi pellicheskunnanduku edaina punishment ichara and athanu malli evari naina mosam chesi malli mrg cheskunnada.
@sshokshetty nake ila jaragala ani chala badapadda chala badalo unna,telsi kavalani pellicheskunnarani na life tho adkunnaru ani chala badapadtunna ,telisi na jeevitham tho adkunnaru ani ika antha aipoindi em undhi jeevitham ki ankunna, elantivalu enduku o adapilla life tho adkuntaro, malli pelli ante entha kastam ammailaki but mee comment chusaka ila chala mandhi unnarani ardam aindi , mee comment tho oka chinna hope vachindi tnx for d comment and meeru ela discover chesaru mee husb ki pblm undani and emaina punishment ichara mosam chesi pellicheskunnanduku like kottadam leka case pettadam kani and mee husb malli pellicheskunnada mimmalni mosam chesinattu.
Ya i have also same thought and extremely thinking about life....in my opinion marriage is the drama
TRUE words.😊😊
Hi monika i have been watching your vedios.. mee vedios chala baguntaiye intresting ga... I mean useful... Suspense story okati cheparu adhi baga nachindhi... Thanqu waiting for next vedio😊
Thank you
Very well said. Same opinion. ❤
U Nailed it!! Keep rocking Mounica… free talk is v good.
Thanks a ton
my suggestion is somwhat related to this topic.....bad parenting like emotionally absent parents like say animal movie......and children growing in such homes or with toxic relationship at home....valla perspective ela untadi marriage meeda...how to they be strong or seeing bad marriage at home avvi ela untay ane topic meeda chesthara,....personally i would like to know kids growing up within broken marriage....valla perspective same untadi marriage meeda
Will definitely do this
😂😂...chesukovala ledha anedhi mainly depends...on situation, and state of mind...
Financial position
Mental stability
Perspective
Emotional attachments..both old and new...
If everything goes fine...it's fine...
Life long adjust avthu undali anna kastam...that wil disturb.. individual life...etc etc...
So marry if u have patience...if u have time for ur people and if u r broad minded...
Just amazing ❤❤❤...I just turned 30 I'm in that phase should i get married or not...through this video I got clarity...what u said regarding 40s nd 50s is very much true...I just turned 30 all of my frnd got married and they r very much busy with their family..I feeling loney now a days.... Seems like I have to get married soon....
Thankyou so much I woke up to this video...😊. Gonn tel my parents to look for matches...will definitely text you the good news soon😃
God bless you ...lot of love to you❤❤❤❤❤
thank you
Present generation lo relationships, andulo unde problems, bestie pov on girls gurinchi maatladadandi akka..
Chala chala baga chapparu , to give it try n try n try to sustain relationship . Ur speech has more depth n reality based on real life examples. Very helpful video Thank you so much mam. Do much more videos without stories, problems faced by women , to differentiate real problem or they just magnifying things. It might be postportum or work life n personal life balance or women achieve dreams out all odds in her life
Thank you so much 🙂
Could you please do a video on how to advance in our career and professions so fast and how to build network, connections as an introvert please,
Hi akka your videos will be so good that I feel like inperson your talking to me... I will always be waiting for the videos... Next topic u can plz tell about how to save or spend money... I think it would be helpful to many...
Will do
What happened Monica? All good? Waiting for more of ur videos here
Enta perfct ga chepparo asalu!!!! I feel like na marriage ku mundu ee channel n especially ee video post ayi unte may b I would have behaved matured in some casese and na side mistakes ayyevi kademo anipistundi 😅.. any ways this video is very very helpful for those who are about to get married 😊
Thank you so much
Thanks for your insight on marriage. I really liked it. Subscribed
Glad you liked it!
Next video body shaming bcz of weight pettandi akka plzplz plz
Very nice, u gave full clarity❤
Talk about divorces happening in these years I mean celebrity ve baitiki ostunay what about common people
Main reasons for divorce
New generation ki teliyali
I really loved the way you explained and it is really good
Glad you liked it
I feel once u hav a bad experience its very difficult to go for him again , freedom pothe ika poinatte relationship lo untu insulting ive untunayi ipudu marriages lo ekado untaru manchi relationship
U rrrrrrrr unique….. be the way u r❤
This is nice ❤ well shared.
Actualga if u remember in go girlies u used to comment kind of negative abt marriages (negative ante negative kadu bt ya e video laga )i used to be very positive and used to say marriage is like ideal ...but now i agree with u 100% manam enni matladukunna enta anukunna chnage anedi constant 10yrs back la same undaru a edaru kooda as u said irrespective of gender and mana likes dislikes kooda mana environemnt batti maripotai so its nt jus abt men bt women kooda change avtaru ekalamlo okarne pelli chesukoni life anta undali ante chala chala tuff very few r able to do dt...nenu chusina cases lo chala chala chinna issueske vidipoyaru asalu abuse or meru chepina 1st lo unna a reasns lekunda....1st few yrs vache tensns aftr 10yrs vachina difficulties anni face chesi as u said bayataki cheppakunda unte it is easier to survive a marriage ....i feel my marriage survived nly due to dt no matr wat both of us didnt tel any issue bw us to evn a frnd ....dt helped a lot.. wen i saw dis ede main pt naku connect ayndi...
Thanks for such a relatable video and u surprise me every single time by ur videos...okka mata kakunda inkem cheyyagalaru anukunna bt dis is such a useful video....keep going ❤
Talk abt toxic parents ,toxic siblings ,toxic relatives ...ede kaka chala useful info abt child abuse etc manam news lo chustunnam kadha ela parents careful undali abt kids ani
Thank you! This made my day
Hey plz make a video on kid’s education, schools. I mean do they really need international schools and standards etc
Nice motivation and inspiring
Thanks a lot
Relationship with relatives ...and sublings ....and ...
today's boy and girl discrimination
Properties sharing...
Atha kodalu relationship..
2 different mentality hus nd wife .
Have like this relationship
Nd money topics ....
E topics mida matladathara sis ....
I liked v much 😊
Thank you so much akka! Means a lot!
😘😘😘
Love ur perspective...
So glad!
I will stay 😊
యువర్ స్పీచ్ టాక్స్ ఇస్ సేమ్ ఎస్ మహేష్ సిస్టర్ గట్టమినేని
Correct sister
kudossssssss🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
Thank you
kudos to you...this is such a profound way of putting out things 👏
be it stories or a topic like today, I personally admire the way you dissect the subject and give out the right analysis. You are a big Empath and I really hope you continue sharing your words of wisdom with those who need them the most. You are a healer in many ways.🙂
Sadly meaningful content boring ankuntaru janalu but mee content depth andarki ardam kaadu. And let them be. You shine no matter what. Hope to see you more and more ❤️
Thank you so much!
Recently "childfree by choice " start chesaru kada , dani pina me opinion like both married couple who choose to have no choldren , need ur opinion on that
Will do
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Love love love ❤
Thank you
50 ayyaka bathakadam ane ooha chala baundhi😂😂😂😂😂😂
Unfortunately we are going to live for a long time
Next video - Thotikodalu toh relation, I smell lot of jealousy from my brother in law wife .
Matches set avvatledu mounika now a days ....chala time taking ....matrimony lo nammadam correct aaa..
Now a days situation...
Iam married with 2 kids.
Hello mounica this is Soumya. Can I ask one question? I'm in that phas i don't interested in this time of my marriage. People are forcing for me to accepting the marriage.
Yes please
Marriage ae oka complicated journey daani ee parents and arrange marriage Inka complicated ga chestai my parents r also searching for me but I m not liking anyone or Naku nche vallaki nenu nchtledu.....love, feelings are most important and fundamental thing in a marriage but this groom hunting process u know jathakalu caste job complexion looks bla bla it's like a business deal inni factors and rejections the process is flawed I feel.....but marriage is a beautiful thing wen 2 PPL r in love with each other build home grow together raise kids ....not everyone is lucky to get a gud partner for whom we can adjust and similar values sharing is also very important
Don’t go for arranged marriage
If you think that arranged marriage is like a business deal you will never be able to love your partner instead you will keep thinking about better options or will keep regretting people you rejected.
Go for love marriage .
Kids ni theskurakodadhu ante yemo valu pillalu puttaka martharemooooooooooooooooo ani anukuni theskostharu 🌝
But adi kuda FLOP . Aa yedava appudu kuda maradu adhe MAGICUU
Pelli cheskuni eddaru vundataniki YEDO OKKKKA POINT ina vndali HOLD-ON avvadiniki yemi ledu yente bailuderadame akkadnunchi mana TIME WASTE.
No
Its good ....keep going ....but the thing is please don't talk about pseudoscientific things like water has memory....
No it’s proven!
lets do live together
just trail antunnaru kada....what if a person grows up in a home with toxic parenting no siblings, emotionally absent parents damaging selfconfidence, not allowed in creating friendships , not allowed to even develop extra interests , and full of insecurities .....who's father is just willing to get rid of the girl by getting her married and there is no certainity that even when the marriage fails for any reason....the will never even try to know the facts but undoubtedly doubt the girl.....whats ur take on her marriage should she get married...................( im praying that u should read this comment )
If a girl grows in such an environment then she should find a guy herself, a guy who gives her the confidence in relationship, love and future
@@OkkaMaata akka mee next okka mata video ochevaraku nenu musaldani aiPothanemo akka 😛
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