Great video counseling, Eric. May I ask, do you do zoom counseling ever? I am ready to step away from my 12 year marriage. I have been looking for pro Bono attorneys, and so far no luck. We have been separated since 2019😳, and he's in MT, I'm in Ohio. He tries to keep the marriage going that part sounds nice. However, he is a narcissist, grew up like you mentioned in the video and has kept me out if everything, even after I moved 2000 miles to make a life with him. I was the roommate, like you mentioned in another video. I didn't know His income, didn't know what bills we had and when they were due, didn't have any idea of bank accounts, didn't have access to his home office, his truck, the mailbox, his PO Box, his computer, his cell phone and not permitted to answer his office line (even though I worked as both a dental assistant and receptionist for over 20 years). 12 years later, we can't have one discussion without someone getting upset, UNLESS I just listen to him talk about his work. Anyway, I'm worn out and talking about it for very long actually effects me mentally. I start forgetting things, and it almost feels like I'm being held under water. So, I have to distract myself with something else and I avoid him as much as possible (avoid, as in don't answer his calls). I want a divorce, and then he goes on about how "I" am not committed. Amazing stuff. Ok, maybe a zoom call isn't needed now. Ha. But I do just want to find the peace to walk away. Every thing you mentioned above, has happened over and over for 12 years. He keeps himself protected and safe by not allowing me in, but it is the death of us. Thanks for the video🙏
@@Voices_in_Heaven sounds like a difficult and painful situation. I do virtual counseling. Email me at info@altaredmarriage if you ever want to connect for counseling
I totally neglected and abandoned my wife through miscarriage like 7. It's horibble of me. She has divorce papers ready. Theres much more. So much more. If I started from the beginning you wouldn't believe me.
Wow. Nailed it. Watched this together. Crickets...
Great video counseling, Eric.
May I ask, do you do zoom counseling ever? I am ready to step away from my 12 year marriage. I have been looking for pro Bono attorneys, and so far no luck. We have been separated since 2019😳, and he's in MT, I'm in Ohio. He tries to keep the marriage going that part sounds nice. However, he is a narcissist, grew up like you mentioned in the video and has kept me out if everything, even after I moved 2000 miles to make a life with him. I was the roommate, like you mentioned in another video. I didn't know His income, didn't know what bills we had and when they were due, didn't have any idea of bank accounts, didn't have access to his home office, his truck, the mailbox, his PO Box, his computer, his cell phone and not permitted to answer his office line (even though I worked as both a dental assistant and receptionist for over 20 years).
12 years later, we can't have one discussion without someone getting upset, UNLESS I just listen to him talk about his work.
Anyway, I'm worn out and talking about it for very long actually effects me mentally. I start forgetting things, and it almost feels like I'm being held under water. So, I have to distract myself with something else and I avoid him as much as possible (avoid, as in don't answer his calls). I want a divorce, and then he goes on about how "I" am not committed. Amazing stuff.
Ok, maybe a zoom call isn't needed now. Ha. But I do just want to find the peace to walk away. Every thing you mentioned above, has happened over and over for 12 years. He keeps himself protected and safe by not allowing me in, but it is the death of us.
Thanks for the video🙏
@@Voices_in_Heaven sounds like a difficult and painful situation. I do virtual counseling. Email me at info@altaredmarriage if you ever want to connect for counseling
@@RelationShots Thanks, I'll do that now, and at least get rates. Thank you🙏
😂😂😂 guilty of work husband... Although he was not attracted to the opposite sex so never crossed a line. 😂😂😂 He cuts for Rod and I. ❤
I totally neglected and abandoned my wife through miscarriage like 7. It's horibble of me. She has divorce papers ready. Theres much more. So much more. If I started from the beginning you wouldn't believe me.