How to deal with Self Doubt, & Imposter Syndrome Tips EVERY young person

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  • @frazadoodl
    @frazadoodl 3 роки тому +157

    Not Vee being a successful side gig therapist for the whole internet while she publishes books and runs the world

  • @Maria-kg1nh
    @Maria-kg1nh 3 роки тому +10

    Love the quote... "Take it or leave it. If you're gonna leave it, please leave quietly and don't make a disturbance." I'm going to have to use that! Thanks for all the motivating videos. God's love and blessings!!!

  • @z.njomba2226
    @z.njomba2226 Рік тому

    I've recently addressed bad/disrespectful behaviour towards me from someone senior to me & since then things have been sour.
    After that it felt like I was loving & respecting myself & mostly it was like I was redeeming my inner child who was treated poorly growing up and grown me standing up for that little inner girl.
    This video is from a year ago & it popped up as a recommendation, it definitely seems like God's thumbs up, assuring me.

  • @xxazxx6539
    @xxazxx6539 3 роки тому +36

    Vee, this is what I needed to hear! The problem that I have is that when I have a bad grade I immediately talk down on myself, cus I always try to do well and if things don’t go that way I start vomiting myself…
    Thank you so much for this video! 🤍💌

  • @rolivhuwasadiki4397
    @rolivhuwasadiki4397 3 роки тому +6

    "When are you going to step-out and step-up for you"....really felt that. Thank you so much💞💝💯🖤💥

  • @Gigi-lk6bj
    @Gigi-lk6bj 3 роки тому +4

    It’s so sad that this video has such low views. If the video was titled ,,how to make him fall in love with you’’ it would have millions of views. This just shows how much respect we have for ourselves as human beings. We need to start loving ourselves FIRST…❤️

  • @9cloudrachel207
    @9cloudrachel207 2 роки тому +1

    The amount of notes I've taken from this video and I'm only 4 minutes in. Vee, this is life changing. I have these conversations in my daily life, but I love the way you present this... "we need to work on this immediately; we need to nip this in the bud". it makes me realize my self doubt really is something that works against me, you know!? God, I LOVE you

  • @jamjam0409
    @jamjam0409 3 роки тому +2

    I noticed that when I write down something I don't like or anything with a negative attitude it always ends up with me being positive.
    It's like you said.

  • @basmah28
    @basmah28 3 роки тому +4

    If you are leaving, please leave quietly and don't make a disturbance! Ha! Loved it. You are wise beyond your years, my young friend

  • @sakshi8574
    @sakshi8574 3 роки тому +19

    Currently feeling this Vee!
    I'm an engineer and have recently started working. Being a fresher, there are a lot of things that I'll be learning over a period of time and me being me, am expecting myself to know everything already. I try to get everything done all by myself and if there's even a miniscule of mistake on my part, I beat myself up for it and start doubting my ability.
    Lovely video Vee. Keep going, love from India. ❤

  • @queenmuleya1392
    @queenmuleya1392 Місяць тому

    Thank you Vee.listening to these nuggets with my 13year old daughter and am being transformed too

  • @tintamanengu
    @tintamanengu 2 роки тому

    So glad I've found this channel, new sub. Wanted to see more black girl UA-camrs like this as I get serious about my own academic and begin my own journey.

  • @alliestutoring5949
    @alliestutoring5949 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much for this! I just finished my first semester at Harvard and was experiencing a lot of self doubt and burnout. I'm working on regaining my energy over this break and really needed to hear this.

  • @Fleurr5678
    @Fleurr5678 3 роки тому

    that green on you guuurrrrrrlllll!!!! beautiful!!

  • @eudorad.b3786
    @eudorad.b3786 3 роки тому +5

    Thank you so much, Vee 😘 Such an in-time empowerment for me~ I've been really stressed and self-doubted because of starting my career in a wonderful office, always doubting that do I really possibly worth this opportunity... Your're right, I don't even think about why I have this "under-proved" conclusion! Thank you!

  • @annepaulinetiu4036
    @annepaulinetiu4036 3 роки тому

    Vee i just followed what you said in this video and I never thought I could feel this peaceful.
    Ive always taken to account the bad thoughts and bad things in my life instead of the good ones because I have thought that with acknowledging more of the negative ones I could be prepared for the next negative things ahead. I've always been a positive girl, despite what people say is BAD i dont consider it as one until something happen to me and I blame myself for not considering this things enough.
    But it led me to nothing but self hate. I stopped being positive. Instead of seeing things loosely, I become rigid and controlling. Only reminiscing the bad things in which it holds me back on living my life to the fullest. I hope this peace would continue, because I believe I have a extreme mood swing and this peace would just be temporary.
    I am just here to say that you are helping me a lot Vee! Thank you so much, and sorry for my bad english.

  • @violetletsoalo1031
    @violetletsoalo1031 3 роки тому +16

    I was just yesterday asking my lecturer about this and their experience with imposter syndrome as a white academic and practicing lawyer, I'm black and I would like to hear from you your thoughts, in a more intersectional view, what you think creates the contrast between the experiences of white varsity students and graduates with imposter syndrome and that of black students and recent graduates.

  • @violettehumphries8085
    @violettehumphries8085 3 роки тому

    the fact that i was just wondering why i don't have self confidence and why my inner voice is so nasty and then i go on youtube and you're in my recommended 🥺 have to watch this

  • @lenga5710
    @lenga5710 3 роки тому +18

    Thank you so much Vee❤️ For everything really✨ You’ve helped me both academically and on a personal level. So inspirational ❤️

  • @jenniferkyere9807
    @jenniferkyere9807 3 роки тому +4

    God bless you Vee...I’m gonna step up and step out for me!!!! And for Jesus❤️💃🏻

  • @Nzuri33
    @Nzuri33 3 роки тому +4

    I really admire you and would love to be your friend..seriously..you are an inspiration

  • @lynaarinaitwe7948
    @lynaarinaitwe7948 3 роки тому +51

    I think I needed this 😂😪

  • @nishigandha4135
    @nishigandha4135 3 роки тому +1

    This is the video you never asked but needed!!!!!!!!!

  • @ericamasterson7126
    @ericamasterson7126 3 роки тому +6

    Perfect timing, really needed to hear this. Thank you 💕

  • @TotalDramaOwenandNoah
    @TotalDramaOwenandNoah 3 роки тому +3

    Empowered by Vee 2021?
    *Yes*

  • @gizemozturk5196
    @gizemozturk5196 3 роки тому +2

    The most helpful video I have EVER watched in my entire life

  • @firuzfesiha311
    @firuzfesiha311 3 роки тому

    Today I've got my first placement I was so nervous , self doubted and feel like I can't do it , After listening to this I feel so ready to take the first step in what I have been waiting for so long . THANK YOU VEE 🤗

  • @alicianicola5820
    @alicianicola5820 2 роки тому

    Hi Vee, I just watched this video, and you have just made me love myself so much 😊 I’m an over thinker, I doubt myself soo much, and I never ever wrote comments, but I just wanted to say you’re so inspirational and amazing ☺️☺️☺️

  • @lightlumiere2335
    @lightlumiere2335 3 роки тому +3

    I really love this empowerment series. Thank you Vee, you're such an amazing person💛

  • @alicelaugharne6695
    @alicelaugharne6695 3 роки тому +4

    Vee you are glowing! thanks so much for yet another great video

    • @asadzahoorshabiry8884
      @asadzahoorshabiry8884 3 роки тому

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  • @charlottehanson9255
    @charlottehanson9255 2 роки тому

    I really loved this! There were some things I needed to hear

  • @mollyfrance5583
    @mollyfrance5583 3 роки тому +17

    i love you vee! i’ve been subscribed for ages and you’ve inspired me so many times not just through working but everything else ❤️

  • @7.hnx9
    @7.hnx9 3 роки тому +2

    I needed this so much, thank u so much vee much love x.

  • @helenwatterson8636
    @helenwatterson8636 2 роки тому

    thank you vee you’re the best x

  • @sabrinaalexandra9902
    @sabrinaalexandra9902 3 роки тому +1

    Thankyou so much for these tips! I already journal a lot because I struggle with depression so I write down my thoughts. But I'm def gonna get a new journal to work on my self-doubt💯

  • @sheril7880
    @sheril7880 3 роки тому +4

    Thank youu veee, really needed thiss 🥺♥️

  • @dhiapatel5444
    @dhiapatel5444 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks Vee for this video! I really appreciate you covering various topics as well as StudyTube and realising many people really also appreciate it! Oh and always love your content :) You are such an inspiration and your voice is so peaceful :) x

  • @cloaksandghosts
    @cloaksandghosts 2 роки тому

    I've got A* AAB in my A levels (yep appeared in four. in my AS year I had 5 out of which I dropped 2 in my A2 and picked up a new one in addition to the three). And yet, still crippled by self doubt, fearing rejection and a whole mess of problem. I also have a huge gap during which I worked due to a number of circumstances and that stresses me out even more. As deadline approaches my worry also rises

  • @kazg0091
    @kazg0091 2 роки тому

    You and Breeny Lee are my therapist queens☺️

  • @margiannapet9657
    @margiannapet9657 3 роки тому +5

    I really needed this today, thank you so much Vee you are such a blessing to us and such an inspiration🥺♥️

  • @LifewithCharmaine
    @LifewithCharmaine 3 роки тому +2

    Needed this ! Thanks vee !

  • @pinkpopcorn805
    @pinkpopcorn805 2 роки тому

    Why am I crying so much and why Vee ALWAYS appear in recommendation when I need?

  • @longunicorn
    @longunicorn 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much, Vee!!! I'm so empowered❤❤❤💥

  • @joanne7370
    @joanne7370 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you, this was exactly what I needed to hear today ❤️

  • @myphucnguyenang7515
    @myphucnguyenang7515 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much, Vee!

  • @samanthasayers2584
    @samanthasayers2584 3 роки тому

    Vee you beautiful human, this was so good!

  • @mainyakudirwa5494
    @mainyakudirwa5494 3 роки тому

    Thank you very much ❤ that's very powerful 👏 wish will go back to start again

  • @patriciabronya944
    @patriciabronya944 3 роки тому

    Vee i love you soo much, i really really needed this, thank you so so much!!!

  • @busayooyedoyin7303
    @busayooyedoyin7303 3 роки тому

    Love you babes! You look so good in this green top 😍😍😍

  • @Ivy-gc6go
    @Ivy-gc6go 3 роки тому +1

    yayyyyyy new video 🥰🥰🥰🥺 love youuuuuuu♥

  • @silvialogan9226
    @silvialogan9226 3 роки тому +1

    These are excellent tips which you are giving, Vee. You are going to help a lot of people.

  • @spillomina
    @spillomina 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks so much for this!

  • @bosemopalo3192
    @bosemopalo3192 3 роки тому

    Thank you sooooo much Vee Kativhu, you are such an Angel

  • @ogonnaokonisa2528
    @ogonnaokonisa2528 3 роки тому

    I just pre-ordered your book (audible) for my long commute.

  • @malakk2671
    @malakk2671 3 роки тому

    This helped much, ur just so great. Love u❤

  • @blueswan7655
    @blueswan7655 3 роки тому

    Vee your skin is glowing 😍

  • @1sharondiva
    @1sharondiva 3 роки тому

    Just what i needed to hear, i love you Vee

  • @Nzuri33
    @Nzuri33 3 роки тому +2

    Thanks for this video

  • @vsboardza
    @vsboardza 3 роки тому +2

    Hi Vee! Fellow V here. I have issues with self doubt and self sabotage. I want to go to the clinic and get help and maybe get meds but I keep stopping myself. I can't seem to keep good habits and I keep feeling stuck

  • @hannahz8030
    @hannahz8030 3 роки тому +2

    Hi Vee love your motivations! I was just wondering what to do if I can't leave something such as my annoying siblings since im still quite young.

  • @Ivy-gc6go
    @Ivy-gc6go 3 роки тому +1

    I really needed this video

  • @caishaloyaan258
    @caishaloyaan258 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much, i felt this message in the heart ❤️

  • @kennethkennedy9268
    @kennethkennedy9268 3 роки тому

    Thank you for this Vee!

  • @PillarMhlekwa
    @PillarMhlekwa 3 роки тому

    I needed to hear this. Thank you Vee.❤️

  • @amyyohannes
    @amyyohannes 3 роки тому

    Love your channel !

  • @Faith-sr8zw
    @Faith-sr8zw 3 роки тому

    Did you make this video for me!? Younger me needed this sooo bad

  • @alkagrover7420
    @alkagrover7420 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks
    Love from India.🤗

  • @qudratkolapo1789
    @qudratkolapo1789 3 роки тому

    I really needed this thanks you are a real motivation

  • @habebaismail2420
    @habebaismail2420 3 роки тому

    Thank you Vee I really need to hear that

  • @elamejabea2137
    @elamejabea2137 3 роки тому

    Wow ! Thank you so much for this video

  • @learnwithpeninah6283
    @learnwithpeninah6283 3 роки тому

    Wow! Am seriously working on self doubt..... I started my channel to tackle it too.... Thanks for this video. New subl frm Kenya💕💕💕❤️

  • @bhava4795
    @bhava4795 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much for the video Vee. I really needed to hear this today ❤️

  • @RichardGalindo96
    @RichardGalindo96 3 роки тому

    Wow. This is very useful! Thank you. 🙂

  • @kenzabelaid883
    @kenzabelaid883 3 роки тому

    Thankk youu vee ;* ;* you inspire me everyday, love you soo much, I hope that I can meet you one day ❤️❤️❤️

  • @IZZYSIDDALLMUSIC
    @IZZYSIDDALLMUSIC 3 роки тому

    I love this video Vee! Your such an inspiration to me, a small youtuber xx

  • @Lx-py2xb
    @Lx-py2xb 3 роки тому

    Loved this, thank you Vee💛

  • @maureenluzeji1158
    @maureenluzeji1158 3 роки тому

    Thank you for this Vee❤

  • @delisasimelane2901
    @delisasimelane2901 3 роки тому

    I needed this reminder!! Thank you Vee❤❤

  • @belnicenzinga
    @belnicenzinga 3 роки тому

    Me just about to look up a self love video and this pops up on my feed! 😍

  • @tabtab8061
    @tabtab8061 2 роки тому

    Vee you are such a nice person ... 😀😀😀

  • @eishanadeem9039
    @eishanadeem9039 3 роки тому

    I just love love love what ever u say😭❤❤

  • @Vip__honey
    @Vip__honey 3 роки тому +2

    Another Awesome VideO As Always * 💋

    Love your Channel 💙

  • @Leah-vf1hj
    @Leah-vf1hj 3 роки тому

    needed this. thank you!

  • @richardabecompany6273
    @richardabecompany6273 2 роки тому

    Great content! The least I could leave is a like and a comment 👍

  • @ananonebieridze1197
    @ananonebieridze1197 3 роки тому

    This is so beautiful

  • @momszaiqedarkitchen
    @momszaiqedarkitchen 3 роки тому +1

    Very nice sharing 👍

  • @aayushmagautam7953
    @aayushmagautam7953 3 роки тому

    that was needed🤧 thanks🥰..

  • @bwunyszzz
    @bwunyszzz Рік тому

    hiii, I'm in aris n I saw ur presentation today, congrats 💞

  • @luash5073
    @luash5073 3 роки тому

    Vee is definitely giving us young Iyanla vibes 😌❤️

  • @josieaavila
    @josieaavila 3 роки тому

    Video suggestion: positive affirmations to combat imposter syndrome in asmr 😭❤️

  • @shivaaniselvan1305
    @shivaaniselvan1305 3 роки тому

    Perfectt timing😍 tqsm💕

  • @inutukatoti1706
    @inutukatoti1706 3 роки тому

    Very helpful, thank you

  • @lamatsenjwa5029
    @lamatsenjwa5029 3 роки тому

    Thank you Vee💛

  • @liljaschumann7533
    @liljaschumann7533 3 роки тому

    QUEEN!!!

  • @elisabetta4478
    @elisabetta4478 3 роки тому

    By the way, Stanford uni campus is stunning. I had been there back in 2010.

  • @amorzindavida9152
    @amorzindavida9152 3 роки тому

    Therapy helped me pass my exams

  • @Nina-nz6jq
    @Nina-nz6jq 3 роки тому

    This is amazing. Wow.

  • @mrsbsbakes987
    @mrsbsbakes987 3 роки тому

    Thanks Vee❤️

  • @AhmedAlbaloch1652
    @AhmedAlbaloch1652 3 роки тому +1

    Your good videos woow😀🤣🤣😘😘😋😋

  • @ebeneezer4750
    @ebeneezer4750 3 роки тому

    Thanks a lot