1:19:00 sahil Bhai's way is very unique, he totally make you depress first and the give you pill to depression😁😁(first makes you believe you have done nothing in life and then makes you belive that you can do everthing in life, thats good tak tick)😁
I really love that example "Iron ore have to be put into fire ,melted that it deform and to be hammered to make the best sword" if it doesn't go through these phases it's of no use. its just another stone laying on the surface of the earth... salmaneee tun comment partha he.
All psychotherapy is western education. Most of them have false assumptions about where mental illnesses come from, I would go so far as to say that they don't even understand what trauma means. All trauma according to psychotherapy is rooted from parental childhood abuse, which in my opinion is quite a myopic view when examining a person's thoughts. I have spent 7 years in psycho therapy and I can speak with some confidence that most of the understanding on which therapists asses their clients is utterly flawed. This is also false that therapists give a 3rd person non-biased perspective on a persons life, therapists can sometimes be more biased than your parents. There is no maturity test that a therapist has to go through, they only have to be well versed on the meaningless technical jargon they are taught. Alot of the therapists I had were too easily convinced to take my side when i narrated a story. Some of them even started crying over something over which i wasn't necessarily upset about ! Especially in male female settings, a slightly charming male can easily skew understanding of female therapists (which are the majority of the workforce) and have resulted in a lot of illicit relationships. I feel after the 7 years of therapy none has freed me more from mental illness than understanding the Quran. As one verse in the Quran very aptly puts it "Only God knows what is in the innermost heart of man". The Creator knows what His creation needs and has mentioned all the ways man can achieve the goodness of both this world and the hereafter.
btw this entire notion kai mard ko dard nahi hota is bs dard hota hai but iska matlab ye nahi hai ke rona dhona shuru kardo deal with the problem rather than crying about it your family depends on you ffs and we need this more than our previous generations when men are losing their masculinity due to so many factors we have to double down
You don't have to figure "everything" out, just enough for you to function as an "individual" (with your own original/ organic thoughts/ point of view) rather than a "reflection of the society". For that you need to read, observe, question assumptions and contemplate and reflect a lot on the questions inside and outside. Because there is no question that you can think of, that cannot be answered. There is an answer somewhere. You just need to understand different perspectives of looking at the same question. And find out the most "common sense" based perspective. Critical thinking and emotional intelligence skills help with this. Then you need to become and create role models/ leaders/ people of influence in the community who're going to teach people that "commom sense" based perspective in the future as well.
1:18:25 yo my Guy Amaan... Thats what i felt .Not that i don't respect the person generally .But like "bacho wale masle as compared to History of Islam what Prophet been through and his companions " then again people are getting weaker and weaker.
46:00 if women can resolve most of the problems in world!!!! then why we have this much problems eixting in world when women are present here from first day humans put foot on this planet(sent by ALLAH ofcourse). Either this statment isn't true or women haven't done thier part😂😂😂
I really hate that kind of person who thinks they are most "Bechara person" ever exist. I mean dude. Don't expect life to be fair. if you did nothing wrong life can still do whatever he want to.Allah put you these hardship to make you more stronger and the best version of your self.Their are people who had more miserable time then you but they keep moving forward. I mean if i was not Muslim and the factor of Hope wasn't in me I would have gone crazy for 5-6 time till now...I also faced some bad time but i didn't think of them, now .that was past .I and what's my age 18(More or less) .Just thank Allah what he gave you and look down to those who didn't even those thing that you have .....I mean you got food ,place to live .are physically healthy, have parents can access Knowledge. C'mon .don't compare your self to others or you'll be always depressed.
Amaan Bhai apny podcast py any waly guests sy discount coupon tou manga kro yrrr hamary liy. 5500 for 60 mint is too much for a guy like me😢, koi discount to krwao hrrr insy like 500 for half an hour like😁
Disclaimer ; ) Agar ya parh kr sign nhi deya next video main tou pakry jain gy ap log q k ap log kahty hain k ap videos k comments zaror kiya krain ham party hain😂😂😂 Aman bhai many BS in computer sciences ki or job kr rha usi field main tou main ya feel krta hu k meri creativity bound hou rhi sirf utny main jou many parha or sekha. Clearly main jaab first 3 semesters main tha tou bohaat zyada creative or asi chezain khud sy kr jata tha jou class k toppers bhie nhi kr paty thy(some assignments and projects😂 that i just nailed it, yaha tak k teachers ko yakin hi nhi kiya k many ya khud ki hy{coding} or usko complete krny k chakr main assigment submit late ki or accept phir bhie nhi huy. Lol😂 ), so I am not able to create new things in creative manner on my job. So why my study is making me baised in a scene to see things in a specific lens, although I was more creative when i was less focused in early years of my degree?! Have any answer to that?!
11:22 burger bache.. yar the thing that we go through are worse than those i mean i'm not comparing. Everyone have different situation and different way to dealt with it and some don't even know the ways... but whenever a middle class person had a problem ,sometimes "Ammi ka ek thapar " put you out of those places ..and i believe these physiological problems are lot in above middle or elite classes ,if if middle class have these kind of problem the don't even know that they have and pass through that phase without even noticing and I think it's the best (Z Bezt thing) when you know you have a problem, sometimes it become that placebo effect kinda thing But the other way around. if you read this then leave a like.and smile "kuch nahi hota depression waghara ye baas doctoron ne paisa kamane ka naya tarika nikala he...be happy "
45:10 mery 2 cuzn hain jinko hamari family main hamny sabsy zyada care ki hy , aik k father uski bohaat zyada care krty thy or aik cuzn k father fout hou gy thy jab woh pada bhie nhi hui thi or usky dono chahu ny uski bohaat zyada care ki still both go to psychological therapist. How can this be explained with what you are talking about here?!...
Amaan Bhai I have an idea, we could use AI to link the, studies , notes, links, about what is talked about in video,. Good idea na😉... UA-cam should add this feature by stealing this idea from this comment, or they can give me job to apply this by the way.😁
Aik category ya bhie hy k haam deen py sirf zubani , kalami amal krain lakin lakin yakin kamil sy ALLAH ki raza k liy na krain tab bhie depression ki taraf ja skty hain ya socty huy k haam Namaz parh rhy, rozy rakh rhy lakin phir bhie haam depression ko face kr rhy hain... So take step by step your deen and on every step make your actions accroding to deen but just for raza of ALLAH.
@@abdullahwaseem9134 I get it what you are saying bro you are just saying it in a broader perspective , I am trying to pin point the core reason why implementation of deen only done by heart in a persons live will make the depression stay away from him otherwise there is still a chance that you implement deen(forcefully or with no focus or without your heart in it) and still tends to be depressed. That why psychologist like this young girl thinks saying to therapy paitents to just pray and read quran won't resolve depression problem, because it doesn't untill unless the paitent do it for a good solid reason(for us that is just for ALLAH with pure heart).😊
I don't understand why you guys are speaking 2 different languages "Urdu & English". Either speak Urdu or English. Is it mandatory now a days to say a few words in one language and a few in another language.
Cracking Akward jokes in front of psychologist is a good approach by Aman Bhai q k yahi tou woh professional log hoty hain jou in jokes ko bilkul serious nhi lain gy q k they know k Amaan trigger krta hy new conversations asy jokes sy or or zyada open hou kr guest apny thoughts btaiy har tarah k thoughts jo guest k zehn main hy or guest k believes kya hy. He does that always with Sahil bhai and i always wait for him to do this with sahil bhai😂😂
I don't get it what is so funny about it. Mental health is no joke. May Allah don't get you in that mindset but it is a horrible thing to go through. So please don't make fun of it. Respectfully.
Urdu main brother, psychology 101 bta rhi ain. Matlab k kisi bhie urdu bolny waly psychologist ko sun lain jasy k qasim Ali shah, batain takrebaan wohi hain... Saab ki batain or points aik jasy hi observe kiy hain many 😅
she is so energetic , i really enjoy the whole podcast,, and learn a lot of thing that every alone person should listen this.
thank you .
She Got all My respect ❤❤ a Powerful Women ❤❤ ❤ thanks Aman For bringing Such people in ❤❤
1:19:00 sahil Bhai's way is very unique, he totally make you depress first and the give you pill to depression😁😁(first makes you believe you have done nothing in life and then makes you belive that you can do everthing in life, thats good tak tick)😁
Yes & i think its the first step towards revolution
I really love that example "Iron ore have to be put into fire ,melted that it deform and to be hammered to make the best sword" if it doesn't go through these phases it's of no use. its just another stone laying on the surface of the earth...
salmaneee tun comment partha he.
All psychotherapy is western education. Most of them have false assumptions about where mental illnesses come from, I would go so far as to say that they don't even understand what trauma means. All trauma according to psychotherapy is rooted from parental childhood abuse, which in my opinion is quite a myopic view when examining a person's thoughts. I have spent 7 years in psycho therapy and I can speak with some confidence that most of the understanding on which therapists asses their clients is utterly flawed. This is also false that therapists give a 3rd person non-biased perspective on a persons life, therapists can sometimes be more biased than your parents. There is no maturity test that a therapist has to go through, they only have to be well versed on the meaningless technical jargon they are taught. Alot of the therapists I had were too easily convinced to take my side when i narrated a story. Some of them even started crying over something over which i wasn't necessarily upset about ! Especially in male female settings, a slightly charming male can easily skew understanding of female therapists (which are the majority of the workforce) and have resulted in a lot of illicit relationships. I feel after the 7 years of therapy none has freed me more from mental illness than understanding the Quran. As one verse in the Quran very aptly puts it "Only God knows what is in the innermost heart of man". The Creator knows what His creation needs and has mentioned all the ways man can achieve the goodness of both this world and the hereafter.
Lol... so depression is from allah or because of chemicals not functioning properly in our brain? is there a natural cause or a supernatural cause
Aman ne make sure kia hai koi galti se bhi ap therapist ky pass na chala jay
Aman op🔥
I hate to be the one to say it but Aman Bhai -1000000000 aura for speaking against Manto.
Therapist exists because of individualism in society
Not entirely
Not entirely
Ummm the biggest factor in mental health issues are parents. So...
Bring tribal society back
Aman being a menace to society again. But honestly it was a fun discussion
Aman wins .therapy is gay. earliar eon vibes Aman and Haider roasted that all therapy thing. Listen to it if you are on Aman side
Men should not cry but absorb stress, as diamonds are formed under pressure. 💎
btw this entire notion kai mard ko dard nahi hota is bs dard hota hai but iska matlab ye nahi hai ke rona dhona shuru kardo deal with the problem rather than crying about it your family depends on you ffs and we need this more than our previous generations when men are losing their masculinity due to so many factors we have to double down
Amanullah Bhai looks like Mota John wick 🥰
😂😂😂😂
Cute version of john wick, that doesn't have guns but thoughs to attack/jab people with it.😂
Give us Aman’s analysis as a therapist :)
9:52 Amaan literally mocked the people who need psychological help.
Therapist: Someone who's figured themselves out and is helping someone else figure themselves out.
and how does one know if they have figured themselves out?
You don't have to figure "everything" out, just enough for you to function as an "individual" (with your own original/ organic thoughts/ point of view) rather than a "reflection of the society".
For that you need to read, observe, question assumptions and contemplate and reflect a lot on the questions inside and outside. Because there is no question that you can think of, that cannot be answered. There is an answer somewhere. You just need to understand different perspectives of looking at the same question. And find out the most "common sense" based perspective. Critical thinking and emotional intelligence skills help with this.
Then you need to become and create role models/ leaders/ people of influence in the community who're going to teach people that "commom sense" based perspective in the future as well.
the therapist would need therapy herself after talking to Aman😂
Where did she got her education from? Ma sha Allah
1:08:00 good point by Aman bhai.
Aman was not the ideal choice to sit with a therapist
Walikum salam
1:15:55 Aman op again keh bhi dia or nhi bhi kaha love u hogya g 🤍
1:18:25 yo my Guy Amaan... Thats what i felt .Not that i don't respect the person generally .But like "bacho wale masle as compared to History of Islam what Prophet been through and his companions " then again people are getting weaker and weaker.
While i saw this when i am looking also to take admission in psychology
46:00 if women can resolve most of the problems in world!!!! then why we have this much problems eixting in world when women are present here from first day humans put foot on this planet(sent by ALLAH ofcourse). Either this statment isn't true or women haven't done thier part😂😂😂
sigma sigma boy sigma boy sigma boy
Can some tell me about host's formal qualification?
Property Dealer 😂😂😂
@@abdulbasitqureshi9760 I wanted to know about education degree?
58:17, seriously, don't tell their wife and don't tell their kids. 😯
I really hate that kind of person who thinks they are most "Bechara person" ever exist. I mean dude. Don't expect life to be fair. if you did nothing wrong life can still do whatever he want to.Allah put you these hardship to make you more stronger and the best version of your self.Their are people who had more miserable time then you but they keep moving forward. I mean if i was not Muslim and the factor of Hope wasn't in me I would have gone crazy for 5-6 time till now...I also faced some bad time but i didn't think of them, now .that was past .I and what's my age 18(More or less) .Just thank Allah what he gave you and look down to those who didn't even those thing that you have .....I mean you got food ,place to live .are physically healthy, have parents can access Knowledge. C'mon .don't compare your self to others or you'll be always depressed.
23:51 😂😂😂
To english me hi bat kr leya kro baqi sari bhi
Amaan Bhai apny podcast py any waly guests sy discount coupon tou manga kro yrrr hamary liy. 5500 for 60 mint is too much for a guy like me😢, koi discount to krwao hrrr insy like 500 for half an hour like😁
is it just me or does she look that viral punjabi girl who grabbed the mic and started interviewing the reporter?
Disclaimer ; ) Agar ya parh kr sign nhi deya next video main tou pakry jain gy ap log q k ap log kahty hain k ap videos k comments zaror kiya krain ham party hain😂😂😂
Aman bhai many BS in computer sciences ki or job kr rha usi field main tou main ya feel krta hu k meri creativity bound hou rhi sirf utny main jou many parha or sekha. Clearly main jaab first 3 semesters main tha tou bohaat zyada creative or asi chezain khud sy kr jata tha jou class k toppers bhie nhi kr paty thy(some assignments and projects😂 that i just nailed it, yaha tak k teachers ko yakin hi nhi kiya k many ya khud ki hy{coding} or usko complete krny k chakr main assigment submit late ki or accept phir bhie nhi huy. Lol😂 ), so I am not able to create new things in creative manner on my job. So why my study is making me baised in a scene to see things in a specific lens, although I was more creative when i was less focused in early years of my degree?! Have any answer to that?!
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11:22 burger bache.. yar the thing that we go through are worse than those i mean i'm not comparing. Everyone have different situation and different way to dealt with it and some don't even know the ways... but whenever a middle class person had a problem ,sometimes "Ammi ka ek thapar " put you out of those places ..and i believe these physiological problems are lot in above middle or elite classes ,if if middle class have these kind of problem the don't even know that they have and pass through that phase without even noticing and I think it's the best (Z Bezt thing) when you know you have a problem, sometimes it become that placebo effect kinda thing But the other way around.
if you read this then leave a like.and smile
"kuch nahi hota depression waghara ye baas doctoron ne paisa kamane ka naya tarika nikala he...be happy "
یار اسکو انگلش والے چینل پر لینا تھا ،!!
کچھ سمجھ نہیں آرہی انکی باتوں کی !!
45:10 mery 2 cuzn hain jinko hamari family main hamny sabsy zyada care ki hy , aik k father uski bohaat zyada care krty thy or aik cuzn k father fout hou gy thy jab woh pada bhie nhi hui thi or usky dono chahu ny uski bohaat zyada care ki still both go to psychological therapist. How can this be explained with what you are talking about here?!...
Bro should talk about addictions more
Probably the dumbest and shallowest guest of eon history. For the first time mota bhai did a good job
گڈ ورک
ameero ky chonchly hai :P
🤍
Aman bhai nihilism pe bhi baat karo
Amaan Bhai I have an idea, we could use AI to link the, studies , notes, links, about what is talked about in video,. Good idea na😉... UA-cam should add this feature by stealing this idea from this comment, or they can give me job to apply this by the way.😁
subscription bahtr ha session say
Depression is nothing but deen se doori. 🗣️
You are wrong brother.
Depression exists cuz we are living inorganic life, in the middle of full materialistic things.
Aik category ya bhie hy k haam deen py sirf zubani , kalami amal krain lakin lakin yakin kamil sy ALLAH ki raza k liy na krain tab bhie depression ki taraf ja skty hain ya socty huy k haam Namaz parh rhy, rozy rakh rhy lakin phir bhie haam depression ko face kr rhy hain... So take step by step your deen and on every step make your actions accroding to deen but just for raza of ALLAH.
@@abdullahwaseem9134 I get it what you are saying bro you are just saying it in a broader perspective , I am trying to pin point the core reason why implementation of deen only done by heart in a persons live will make the depression stay away from him otherwise there is still a chance that you implement deen(forcefully or with no focus or without your heart in it) and still tends to be depressed. That why psychologist like this young girl thinks saying to therapy paitents to just pray and read quran won't resolve depression problem, because it doesn't untill unless the paitent do it for a good solid reason(for us that is just for ALLAH with pure heart).😊
I must say Amanullah bhai "you're such a khachra and Maskhra 😂 16:08
If someone needs to talk about addiction, i can help them out. I'm not a professional, but i can help u out.
bro im addicted to eon podcasts
43:44 with due respect miss we can't.
Marad ko wasy darad hota hy mentally but mostly they become careless to what they can't resolve or just resolve the problem😁
MOTA JI YE EON ENGLISH NAHI HA
@56:11 jhik jhik 🗿
I don't understand why you guys are speaking 2 different languages "Urdu & English". Either speak Urdu or English.
Is it mandatory now a days to say a few words in one language and a few in another language.
Amman was too annoying in this podcast, cracking awkward jokes at awkward times. someone tell this guy real life is not like reddit.
"Looking at your comment, I can say one thing: you carry too many trigger points.
Cracking Akward jokes in front of psychologist is a good approach by Aman Bhai q k yahi tou woh professional log hoty hain jou in jokes ko bilkul serious nhi lain gy q k they know k Amaan trigger krta hy new conversations asy jokes sy or or zyada open hou kr guest apny thoughts btaiy har tarah k thoughts jo guest k zehn main hy or guest k believes kya hy. He does that always with Sahil bhai and i always wait for him to do this with sahil bhai😂😂
لو یو
0:05 Her Smile MashAllah
I don't get it what is so funny about it. Mental health is no joke. May Allah don't get you in that mindset but it is a horrible thing to go through. So please don't make fun of it. Respectfully.
Bahen angrezi jyada bol rhi h samjh se bahar h
Urdu main brother, psychology 101 bta rhi ain. Matlab k kisi bhie urdu bolny waly psychologist ko sun lain jasy k qasim Ali shah, batain takrebaan wohi hain... Saab ki batain or points aik jasy hi observe kiy hain many 😅
@mk95max2 ek jaisi h ya anek jaisi lekin ye to english bol rhi h