Derek & Meredith (3x25) - You're Constantly Leaving me
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- Опубліковано 16 жов 2024
- I do love you. Don't you see? Don't you understand? You're the love of my life.
I can't leave you. But you're constantly leaving me. You walk away when you want,
you come back when you want. Not everyone, not your friends, but you leave me.
So I'm asking you...if you don't see a future for us, if you aren't in this...
please...please just end it, because I can't. I'm in it. Put me out of my misery.
It's an iconic scene, and it's supposed to make us root for Derek here, but I can't help but think that it's what he deserves from her. She was ready for him and then she finds out he was married, he can't divorce his wife and then proceeds to go back and forth until he decided he loved her the most. Now he has the audacity to come say he wants to see other people if she doesn't take him back wholeheartedly??? Man I was young when I watched this show and thought it was all so romantic, but now watching it for the 5th time again as an adult really changes perspective.
Same. I watched it for the first time a long time ago and I'm on a Grey's Anatomy high again. However, I think they're both partly at fault. Meredith should communicate more and Derek should be a little more patient. Nevertheless, you can't deny that are both so in love with each other.
“For the fifth time” 😂😂 I love this LOL
I always hated her with other men bc Shonda always made other relationships seam like they are perfect. I love the Derek/Meredith relationship bc it's real and how real life looks like... The fairytale relationship doesn't exist and it's not what I wanted to see from the show, Meredith and Derek were perfect bc they weren't
ffs at this time she even confided in richard but not derek. he was right, she was constantly leaving him and only him, she didn’t do that with her friends. plus what does his divorce have to do with anything? they were way past that at this point, he had already divorced addison, he told her to choose finn, they were on good terms and he was right to want her to stop pushing him away. if she didn’t want a relationship with him just say so and put him out of his misery.
@@screenshotscenes she was confused. Despite it taking place over three seasons, it was a single year. She met and fell in love with Derek, discovered he had a wife, got her heart broken, tried to put herself back together, had Derek constantly playing with her emotions, met Finn, discovered her father started a new family, lost her mom and dog, nearly died more than once, lost Susan. And you expect her to just be able to be fine and make a choice after all of that trauma in a single year?
this is so emotional, probably one of the best scenes
This scene is so emotional and memorable, it made me love Derek more and I wanted to see him happy even though it was not the right moment, Mer & Der are everything, they were love
I am Derek right
Now
Don't you see? Don't you understand? You're the love of my life. I can't leave you. But you're constantly leaving me. You walk away when you want, you come back when you want. Not everyone. Not your friends. But you leave me. So I'm asking you, if you don't see a future for us, if you're not in this... Please... please just end it because I can't. I'm in it. Put me out of my misery.
this scene - the opening shot, the dialogue, the song - will forever be iconic.
What is the song
@@thedoctor15031990 Within you - Ray lamontagne
"Put me out of my misery" gets me every time. How can you walk away from a man after that?
Did I miss something? Just a couple episodes before this he was contemplating his relationship with Meredith because he wanted to be chief and she “compromises that”.
Then he flirts with another woman at a bar and told Meredith it was the “highlight of his week” ... and now he has the audacity to pull the narrative “I’m all in this and you’re not”...? Tf? Derek sucks. Why do we romanticize them so much??
the way he touches her the way he looks at her UGHH i want a derek shepard😩
This song was also used in other first ep of season 4 ! Perfect break up song for both shows 💔
What is the song
Why is this man SO perfect ❤️😭😭
@Ashli B It's called a fucking opinion. DEAL with it.😧
God Bless everyone and God loves everyone Amen ❤️🙏🏽
there’s something really irritating about the people who defend this man to death. no offense to the mcdreamy lovers but i’m watching this scene and i’m remembering all the other scenes and all i can remember now is not the man i loved when i was younger.... but an incredibly manipulative person who did the absolute most to make meredith feel bad without properly acknowledging her pain and hurt and upset.
it’s especially concerning to hear about how he met a girl in the bar (lexie) and he didn’t do anything but he could have, but then turns around and says “i love you though meredith.” like that was supposed to be a wake up call. if a guy said that to me i’d tell him to go find the girl in the bar lmao
They were both extremely messed up and immature people when they met. They were both horrible at relationships and were constantly hurting each other. However, their relationship with each other was strong enough to push both of them to keep trying to change and be better. They slowly made each other better and healthier people.
@@junbh2 it was only strong because the plot needed it to be. they did not make each other healthier people. this was a toxic couple that was a romanticization of abuse, manipulation, and codependency. they were not good for each other. no matter how hard derek tried, he would fall back into attacking meredith if she had an opinion that fell out of line with his. meredith did mature and she did grow but she needed therapy before anything else but constantly denied it. cant imagine being able to really work on myself or my marriage when my husband says i’m exactly like my neglectful mother every time we get into an argument. i understand people really like them together but this is truly not a relationship that i would ever call “strong” with a positive connotation of any kind.
Sheesh!! That was more than 16 years ago!!!
This is so beautiful ❤️.
Put me out of my misery
I know she has the daddy issues and abandonment issues but after what hes just sed what sane woman would walk away from that.
I know she wanted christina to get married to restore her faith that ppl can live happily ever after but come on girl!!!! its mcdreamy
Ok thats my rant done
I would have walked away 😂😂
@@sarahburke8938 same he was so ignorant and blunt
My favorite dialogue *-*
Meredith could of had a stroke.
That stroke lead her into a coma where she dreamt up all the seasons since before Derek 's death. When she wakes up...Derek 's there with the kids more grown up....George didn't die....all the rest....but she doesn't remember Derek, she doesn't remember her kids, nor being a surgeon....she learns who she is in the next seasons.....her adventure is finding herself again.....the end of season show is leaving to find herself again..on her terms..... sounds like a good idea for a script to me.....its TV
ANY of that kind of stuff is possible with TV ..awww the joy of fantasy...writing.....
Cali Fever
Scriptwriter Niagara Fls
Bro pulled an uno reverse card.....
meredith te entiendo tantooooooooooooooooooo
I related to Derek in such a profound way. Honestly, Maradeths character and the way she "handled" matters made me hate her. She is a very contradictory, selfish, and wish-washy person when it comes to Derek. I had always hoped Derek would move on.
Derek is probably the worst nice guy in the history of nice guys. He left her over and over again.
They were kind of awful in the first seasons and it was amazing to see them grow
She has every right to be, Derek constantly left her and he gave her reasons not to trust him. For example; he didn't tell her he was married, he kissed rose after he told her that he wanted to build a life with her and called her a whore for moving on. He hurts every woman he is with. Meredith deserved better than him.
Que sad :'c
What is the song that is playing in the background
SONG????
Within you - Ray lamontagne :)
within you!!
İn turkish version derek leaves meredith on they wedding day and told her to same words... More dramatic
Naw, I'm out champ
😍
Oh my God, this was horrible. 1 DISLIKE COMING UP!!!