BODY LANGUAGE Mistakes ❌🚷😎👀
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- Опубліковано 6 жов 2024
- Most people read your body language to decide whether you're likeable, trustworthy, and competent, among other things, within one second of meeting you.
"You may have heard that you only have a few seconds to make a first impression," says Bernard Marr, an author and global enterprise performance expert, in a recent LinkedIn post. But the truth is, the other person's brain has made up its mind (so to speak) about a you "within just milliseconds."
"Until we get to know someone," Marr says, "our brain relies on snap judgments to try to categorize the person, predict what they will do, and anticipate how we should react."
One way to hack this split-second judgment is to be aware of your body language, he says. Whether you're applying for a job, asking for a raise, or meeting with a new client, altering or being mindful of your body language can influence the other person's perception of you, and may change the outcome of the situation.
1. Crossing your arms.
This gesture makes you look defensive, especially when you're answering questions. "Try to keep your arms at your sides," Marr says.
2. Leaning forward.
It can make you appear aggressive. "Aim for a neutral posture," he suggests.
3. Breaking eye contact too soon.
Body language is an aspect of nonverbal communication where physical behavior is used (as opposed to or in addition to words) to convey information.
Body language includes:
facial expressions
posture
gestures
touch
the use of space
eye movement
It’s also known as “kinesics.”
Interpretations of body language vary from country to country, and from culture to culture.
It’s important to practice awareness of how your local culture interprets nonverbal cues so that you can prevent miscommunications from occurring.
Many nonverbal gestures are made up of different parts.
According to Barbara and Allan Pease, authors of The Definitive Book of Body Language, “The shoulder shrug is a universal gesture that expresses confusion. It has three main parts. Exposed palms show nothing is concealed in the hands, hunched shoulders protect the throat from attack, and raised brows serve as a universal, submissive greeting.”
The expression you make when delivering bad news, the posture you take while leading a meeting-these are all manifestations of body language.
We express and interpret these bodily signs without even thinking.
Try watching one of Charlie Chaplin’s silent movies.
See how his eyebrows move, and how his arms flail during particularly tense moments?
His body language pulls us deeper into the narrative-when he frowns, we frown. When he runs off, we lean back in anticipation. When he tilts his head back and laughs, we laugh along with him.
Practicing these nonverbal cues is an important aspect of business etiquette. In order to succeed as an entrepreneur or manager, it’s crucial to communicate effectively, with our words and body language.
What about remote work, where meetings are virtual? Body language still matters. Many of these body language guidelines apply even when you’re not in the same room with someone.
The Power of Body Language
Most presenters focus their preparation time on the words they will say, but research shows that body language accounts for as much as 55 percent of a message’s total impact. Meanwhile, your tone of voice accounts for 38 percent of the impact and your actual words for 7 percent.
This means that most of us are missing a big piece of the communication puzzle.
In her life-changing TED talk below, Amy Cuddy shows just how powerful body language can be. Not only does it change the way people perceive us, it also changes the way we perceive ourselves.
Touching any part of your face or neck is a low-power position (as opposed to the high-power poses mentioned above) and can indicate anxiety, nervousness or a lack of control.
One surefire way to lose your audience’s attention is to turn your back on them. Not only does it seem to send the message that you don’t care about what they think, it is also just plain rude.
Oh well .
Folding hands is just self soothing .
-Former Fbi agent
Source- wired.
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Touching the face covering the mouth or any form of hiding like arms fully in pockets can be signs of lying
Itachi uchiha also folds his hands that means a genin can easily slay him😅
@@terminentzer Nope, signs of deception arent that clear cut
@@gaming_decksbcz he can put everyone in genjutsu 😅
Your voice is so confident & body language too ❤❤
Now a days I'm handling client face to face, & feeling good😊
Wonderful!
Arms folded doesn't show that you lack confidence. It's a self soothing mechanism that humans have, and doesn't portray anything other than that.
You made me think I understood Hindi for a second 😂
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Keep tone high and low is actually a way to engage audience. Depending upon the words we are speaking we should exaggerate it and speak louder while slower for some words. Its recommended not to have monotone
Mujhe Ek trick batayi thi college me mere Campus councilor ne aggar Eye contact me issue ho to... aggar aap chashma lagate hai to thoda sa rigid frame wala chashma pehne us din aur (Yeh dono ke liye Aap chashma pehne yaa nahi) Dono eyes ke beech me- Jis area me Unibrow banta hai- wahan pe concentrate karen.. isse aage wale bande ko lagega ke aapne eye contact banaya hai... Smile rakha karen taaki aage wala uncomfortable feel naa kare, aur usi tarah se minute seconds keliye eye contact toden.. taaki, same reason, aage wala creep out naa kar jaye and Blink often
Abhinav bhai make a full video on body language pls ❤️❤️❤️
Dude your 30 seconds motivation are enough for a sub💀
Sometimes we have to accentuate our voice for good communication
Speaking in even tone might bore the listeners, changing the tone will help getting back their attention.
Dude ur videos r helpful
Who are introverts forget it😅
Exactly
Yes we know everything but we don't know how to apply it😕🙁
Voice modulation r very much helpful.....
You are right bro 👍
Formal Edit lite😂🙌
ha bhai
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mey to unke vedio samajh ke aiya tha😂
Sir Nice explanation
Did not underatand a word, but I agree✊️
Thank you sir 🙂
Thanks 🙏
Thanks brother ❤
Really very much impressed by your tips and look! I want to share u one thing daily i work out aerobics after that what should we take pls advice bro
Dhaniwadh
Wow 😳
Tonality is important bruhh you need to adjust your voice according to the word or the moment but i really appreciate the other ways you mentioned in your short but the matter if the fact is if you listen to any charming personality such as jordan belfort or any successful person they will guide you to adjust your tone
Wow
why do i love your accent so much?
Yes
Nice bro 😀
👌👌 please make video how to walk confidentiality
Be smart,Be expressive than impress,be neutral
Thanku bro
Hello sir you are awesome
Op ❤❤❤
Yes I learned this in PR development classes for defence
Yeah sir my dad taught me everything u said but most of these things I can't follow
Aye!! can you repeat but, slowly?
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South India me arms close karna respect show karta hai, to kya we log low confident hote Hain। Just don't rely on theories.
I disagree with the last point ...talking continuously with an even tone will make the speech monotonous
🌚☻👀 devious activities.
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Formal edits jaise ho ap
Mai bhi dewangan hu bhai🥳🥳
Also abhinav❤
Arms crossed is comfortable I like to cross my arms
you look like the formal edit
I was about to say this
He is senior of him.
He is one of the OG fitness UA-camr in India.
I thought the same
Hi bhaiya I am ziaudeen from tamilnadu how are you India
The formal edit 2 😂
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Okay right
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Is hand movement a bad habit during explanations or, even general talks ???
I have no idea what this man is saying but at least there are captions 😩
THAKUR HI THE ASLI ALPHA MALE!!
You looks similar with zlatan Ibrahimovic.
Fun fact: Paisa hai to kuchh krne ki zrurat nhi, uuunnn he sab kuch mil jayega....
Voice wala nhi ho raha
Confident people have these body language.people who learn these body language will not be confident.
Bruh never heard of modulation 🤌🏼
3 advice is wrong tone fluctuation is good to have if you are speaking in monotone that's not good communication
Bro shirt kaha se karidtey go??
I thought he's formal edit
Body pleasure delishes
इस बंदे की टिप्स फोलो कर के मेरे तीन क्लाइंट्स भाग गए।
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Eye contact mere se hota he nhi hee🌝😁🤭
Bhai aap amit mahajan ko jaante ho
Sir, do you know about voice modulation ?
Apni posture sidha kayse kare
Check my old videos. I have covered this topic.
Mujhe kya mai tho Introvert hu
Same
Kbtak
Bs eye contact ni ho pata
hum ne to ghar mein he bolna hota hai bas uskay liye yeh sab jaroori nahi😁
Sab mere pass hai par meri awaj ni me thoda totla hu sab majak ban dete hai awaj ki meri 🥺
Same bro I pray to god now all good😊..
@@dr.anshgupta8425 thx you Bhai ❣️🥰
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Ks😮
My voice problem bad
Club ke bouncers kisi se baat nhi krna chahte arms cross krke khade rhte h
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Ok 😂🤪
Inmein se ek bhi quality mere andar nahin hai 😂😂😂😂
Same tips but different person
or ager apme bhut Sara confidance hai to iske bina attractive lagoge
Bhai Agar Stammering ho to 😢😢😢😢😢
What did he say?
Dusro k liye ittna kuch karey😶😶😶
Bhaya jeb me paisa rupaya hota hai to ye sab language ka koi matlab nhi hai.😎
What’s your hight bro?
But u looked so funny
Close arms 😂😂😂😂 bhai tum Swami Vivekananda ji ka nam sune Ho? Unka favourite pose hai close arms.. unka confident pura duniya janti hai
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There is nothing wrong in Voice Modulation.
You are more like formal edit
Ehdr honey di paaati pyi aaa salya
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Just spreading insecurity 😍😂😂
What
I am Muslim
Mai apny samne wala aghr boy ho to akhon mai akhyn dal kr bat kro ga
OR aghr female ho to ankhyn nichi kr ke yh hamre iman ka hissa hai.......💓📿
Part of iman is ola hu uber booooommmm 🔥... Stop spreading the disease of your satanic cult
Jake sar tan se juda chilla ye channel nhi hain mullo k liye 🤣😂
Molisa he kya
In this video bro you are use 50%60% word of English bro hindi me bola kro
English bolna koyi fation nhi hai kyunki English to America ka bhikhari(bagger)bhi bolta hai
Sir apka phn no plz
Finding yahoo page in 2009