Mona Monyane Opens Up on Mental Health | Marriage | Loss and Resilience | Perspective with Itu

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  • Опубліковано 20 гру 2024

КОМЕНТАРІ • 307

  • @Riad.N
    @Riad.N Рік тому +29

    The way Mona can articulate her story yerrrr. Realest interview I’ve ever watched.

  • @lindi6962
    @lindi6962 Рік тому +7

    I appreciate your ability as an interviewer to listen. It's something a lot of interviewers lack, but you allow the guest to tell their story fully and clearly with no fear of interruptions. Well done. It takes time to develop as an interviewer, but you're on the right track. You're doing great!

  • @Riad.N
    @Riad.N Рік тому +8

    “ going into a relationship trying to heal each other rather than healing yourselves for each other” shuuuu the wisdom here

  • @thato3094
    @thato3094 Рік тому +12

    This was such a relevant, vulnerable, conversation. The guest's emotional intelligence and articulation was spot on.

  • @mamellolehloka5901
    @mamellolehloka5901 Рік тому +8

    Going back to God...that's the journey I have started just recently - The journey of HEALING. I had an ectopic pregnancy in May also lost a fallopian tube in the process. Started therapy, admitted into psychiatric facility in July. Two weeks after coming out, my car got stolen. All of this raising a 7yr old girl that looks up to me in all this mess that I am. In the hope of letting my guard down and allowing a man into my life he suddenly just disappeared. But I believe this is all part of the journey. Thank you Momo! This put everything in perspective for me. It all makes sense now. Love you stacks!

  • @missnontokozo
    @missnontokozo Рік тому +5

    "Please be kind to people who have lost kids. It's pain they learn to grow around. It's not a pain that goes away" 😢

  • @langelihlenyuswa5920
    @langelihlenyuswa5920 Рік тому +9

    God definitely sent me to watch this. Yoh, this was insightful especially when you stated how when you were at your lowest you went back to God who FULLY restored you!

  • @ccrose7179
    @ccrose7179 10 місяців тому +5

    I've always admired Mona's beauty hle. I don't think before this interview I had seen any interviews from her. I can honestly say you are an AMAZING woman, best storyteller and still a beautiful queen. I have no exact words to describe exactly how this interview touched my core. I've been in a rut for weeks and wanting to give up on life, stop praying because I thought aaaaaiii....God, you're distant and very quiet. Mara after watching this interview my spirit has been awoken and felt reassurance from the God I serve bona. I'm taking a bath, putting on my make-up and going out to celebrate my birthday tomorrow because I was swimming in pity party and had decided I was not going to celebrate my birthday and sulk because God doesn't love me. I have tears in my eyes as I'm typing this because I am very much grateful to have stumbled upon this interview. THANK YOU Itu and THANK YOU Mona. I love and appreciate you ladies, you have no idea what you have done and re-ignited in me. May God continue to bless and cover you and your loved ones. Ngiyabonga kakhulu!!!

  • @Riad.N
    @Riad.N Рік тому +8

    Geez what a phenomenal woman , met her at the Duma KaNdlovu acting classes and instantly fell in love with her natural beauty, straightforwardness and sense of humor.❤

  • @nkhen_c357
    @nkhen_c357 Рік тому +24

    I love her....she is amazing.

  • @ntobisomwelase587
    @ntobisomwelase587 Рік тому +13

    The interviewer is giving me Ntokozo Mntambo vibes she is calm and beautiful ❤️. What a beautiful interview from Mona I learned a alot as a person who used to self pity alot, she went through alot and somehow moved on continued to be happy in her life ,so why not do the same.

    • @itumelengsekhu-pedi
      @itumelengsekhu-pedi  Рік тому +2

      I love it..thank you so much! I really appreciate it and yes there’s nothing you can’t do

  • @rethabilemotshwane397
    @rethabilemotshwane397 Рік тому +9

    Nna Mona gives me goosebumps. I can't explain it...

  • @auntyb4130
    @auntyb4130 Рік тому +11

    I have a friend whose only son died at 11...every year I find myself crying for her not her son... Understand me, this is bcoz I knew deeply what that boy meant to her

  • @charityleeuw1209
    @charityleeuw1209 Рік тому +8

    Divorce will teach you what you don't want that's for sure! I feel you girl!❤

  • @kms708
    @kms708 Рік тому +4

    Mona is a healed woman , she is not shaming her ex husband ...her self awareness is at another level.

  • @khanyamazkhali6949
    @khanyamazkhali6949 Рік тому +3

    I could listen to her the whole day! I love her!

  • @winniemaduna
    @winniemaduna Рік тому +10

    The most authentic interview i have ever watched, for me growing up without a father has made me strong and dominant in relationships because i had to figure out a lot of things on my own 😑 I want to be soft and submissive but I'm struggling a lot in that regard

    • @itumelengsekhu-pedi
      @itumelengsekhu-pedi  Рік тому +2

      It takes a whole lot of healing to get over such. For me it is the same as well, I’m very dominant but I’m learning day by day to be more “wifey” for a lack of a better word

    • @bongampanza3402
      @bongampanza3402 Рік тому

      Same

  • @khosimanana623
    @khosimanana623 Рік тому +8

    This was beautiful to watch. There's something about a person who is at peace. Mona is at that place and her aura and energy tells it all. Shine my sister

  • @siphumelelekhulemkhize9689
    @siphumelelekhulemkhize9689 Рік тому +5

    Mona is such a vibe man!!! She is true to herself and not even afraid to be herself one bit When we become ourselves we unconsciously motivate others to be themselves. I am motivated.

  • @malatetjadebra9889
    @malatetjadebra9889 Рік тому +6

    Mona is a whole mood, podcast on another level. I love you ladies. Keep up the good work interviewer

  • @ayamandlovu8167
    @ayamandlovu8167 Рік тому +6

    I love how she's well spoken and the confidence the woman she is❤my gosh such a breath of fresh air

  • @motheowalerato701
    @motheowalerato701 Рік тому +2

    This woman has been through the absolute most bathong😢 But her resilience ❤❤

  • @bokamosomorema949
    @bokamosomorema949 Рік тому +7

    ah, Mona is such a lovely beingggggg

  • @florimas2019
    @florimas2019 Рік тому +4

    I love Mona, I feel like she is very wise woman, keep it up ❤️❤️

  • @keneilwetsieane
    @keneilwetsieane Рік тому +8

    She talked to me. How insightful 👏 👌 I could relate with so many aspects as a called woman. This was meant for me, preordained, knowing that I nearly not watched. Thank you Holy Spirit 💓 💖

  • @SouthAfricanfolkstories
    @SouthAfricanfolkstories Рік тому +3

    AMAZING!!!...The guest the interviewer.Came here from tiktok

  • @ledwabalouise5108
    @ledwabalouise5108 Рік тому +9

    Mona can talk hey. looooove her. she looks fabulous also. Undeniably funny 😍😍😍

  • @auditingtaxmadeeasy
    @auditingtaxmadeeasy Рік тому +7

    I enjoyed this conversation so much. Its so therapeutic listening to both of you. Mona you're such a beautiful woman, in and out, and I'm so proud of far you've come. How you've gotten yourself out of such a dark place . Not many women are able to do that.

  • @petronellazwane4602
    @petronellazwane4602 Рік тому +3

    I saw a short of this interview on tiktok, and I was touched and instantly felt the edge to watch it. Really eye opening. Love Mona. Thank you for sharing your life journey brutally so❤❤

  • @leratozwane40
    @leratozwane40 Рік тому +3

    Wow…..Mona is amazing 🥰.. I can listen to her all day ❤

  • @PhutiTMoloto
    @PhutiTMoloto Рік тому +7

    Love Love the both of you gorgeous women ❤❤❤

  • @weselinamosieleng8056
    @weselinamosieleng8056 Рік тому +4

    I've learned a lot from this episode...i love Mona's energy en i must say very talkative😂😂chomi...thank you so much.

  • @ReshoketsweMthombeni
    @ReshoketsweMthombeni Рік тому +4

    Mona is absolutely gorgeous and so wise! What a woman. This was so insightful!❤️

  • @annemokwena8883
    @annemokwena8883 Рік тому +6

    Hallo Mona, one preacher once said"God trusted your father with his sperm. But He did not trust him with his being " meaning bo yena ba hae ho wena. That is why you took God as your Father. Psalm68v5 and that is why you turned out to be the strong woman you are❤

  • @ZuluGirlInNewYork
    @ZuluGirlInNewYork Рік тому +8

    When she spoke about cleaning up after a man, I felt that. I’m stuck in a marriage where I have to clean up after a man. It annoys me so much and honestly I have tried talking to him but it doesn’t make a difference. I’m so annoyed with him all the time. I just wish I could wake up divorced 😢

    • @ladyras
      @ladyras Рік тому

      Cleaning up in terms of the mess in the house or the decisions he makes?

    • @ZuluGirlInNewYork
      @ZuluGirlInNewYork Рік тому +10

      @@ladyras come to think of it, both. The literal mess of his clothes all over as well as bad financial messes. Not even 6 months ago, he resigned from a well paying job and moved to a different company just for a managerial position but the pay is significantly lower than the previous job and it is much further, so more petrol. Of course I don’t mind shared finances but I feel like I’m doing a lot more especially considering that my salary is less. Sorry for the long text, I’m venting.

    • @linkiekasale1848
      @linkiekasale1848 Рік тому +1

      Sending love and hugs to you❤❤

    • @I_am_Gee_
      @I_am_Gee_ Рік тому

      Zulugirl , sending you love and light ❤❤❤

    • @motheowalerato701
      @motheowalerato701 Рік тому

      ❤❤❤

  • @nnana15
    @nnana15 Рік тому +61

    Tik tok brought me here.

  • @nthabisengtsotetsi3085
    @nthabisengtsotetsi3085 Рік тому +4

    Mona you're so calm and interesting to listen to. Love ❤️ the wisdom aswell.

  • @motheowalerato701
    @motheowalerato701 Рік тому +2

    "Mara ka understanda abuti and it's ok"😅 Mona is a vibe❤

  • @lesegom9461
    @lesegom9461 Рік тому +6

    She’s such a beautiful soul ❤ thanks for the show Itu ❣️

  • @zintlecele316
    @zintlecele316 Рік тому +3

    Mona is absolutely amazing ❤, great interview 👏

  • @sanelematong7724
    @sanelematong7724 Рік тому +3

    God can give all that you have lost... Beautiful interview 🙏

  • @thatogix8259
    @thatogix8259 Рік тому +7

    This was funny, entertaining, healing , educating all at the same time

  • @erridamadoda4643
    @erridamadoda4643 Рік тому +5

    What a gem of a podcast, gem of an episode! Such an authentic,heart -warming episode! Well done queens!

  • @bongigarane4399
    @bongigarane4399 Рік тому +6

    Clips u saw on tiktoc really made me aware of this podcast. New subbie. Loved this interview so much

  • @nomondenyembe8825
    @nomondenyembe8825 Рік тому +3

    Itumeleng love you you give guests a space to express themselves fully

    • @itumelengsekhu-pedi
      @itumelengsekhu-pedi  Рік тому

      Thank you my angel, nna I’m just here to listen because I like the indaba’s 🤣🤣🤣🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈

  • @qaqambafuzile5967
    @qaqambafuzile5967 Рік тому +7

    Ohh my God what a great conversation,been smiling and laughing through and through but I learnt so much ❤❤

  • @tshwanelopuswe7907
    @tshwanelopuswe7907 Рік тому +3

    Itumeleng she's so calm ❤❤❤

  • @nomfundonomahlubimathambo5352
    @nomfundonomahlubimathambo5352 Рік тому +3

    It's crazy how I'm watching this episode and this month marks a year since the passing of my daughter. It's feel like you narrator my story.Thank you so much for sharing your story It's giving me hope ❤

  • @keneilwetsieane
    @keneilwetsieane Рік тому +4

    It's important to do it in time. Wow 👏 😮 👏

  • @BonganiTau
    @BonganiTau Рік тому +5

    This was such a wholesome and inspiring conversation. May God continue to bless you ladies and may the platform grow bigger and inspire more people.

  • @mmalekgoa1989
    @mmalekgoa1989 Рік тому +3

    very beautiful interview, the growth is super amazing she has acquired so much wisdom hle

  • @angelahMomo
    @angelahMomo Рік тому +4

    She is so much fun to watch, what an Amazing woman!! ❤

  • @ipelengsegang5408
    @ipelengsegang5408 Рік тому +5

    I’ve always loved this girl and this interview was great

  • @MorobeLefasa
    @MorobeLefasa Рік тому +3

    Learned a lot from this interview

  • @bongigarane4399
    @bongigarane4399 Рік тому +4

    Mona is such a vibe😂😂😂😂😂😂. Lovely interview. Thank you for bringing her on 😂😂😂😂😊😊🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @leratoseerane9694
    @leratoseerane9694 Рік тому +2

    The wisdom here 😭❤️

  • @thulaninkala
    @thulaninkala Рік тому +3

    So much healing in this interview, thank you for sharing Mona ❤️ & ✨

  • @lebogangdibetsoe4648
    @lebogangdibetsoe4648 Рік тому +2

    Mona!!! Damn I'm in tears the part about her baby😢😢😢

  • @millicentmotheogane7842
    @millicentmotheogane7842 Рік тому +3

    This is my favorite interview... I love these pair shem ❤🎉😅I'm finished with laughter

  • @Lebo_12960
    @Lebo_12960 Рік тому +2

    Absolutely love mona

  • @mashamase2784
    @mashamase2784 Рік тому +5

    ITU looking beautiful in that attire ❤
    Mona I can relate with you when talk about growing up without your Dad. Your beautiful cc❤

  • @NoniMfula
    @NoniMfula Рік тому +6

    “If you really take things for what your spirit tells you they are , you avoid a lot of drama ….”…..I love this so much ……
    We are always in-denial , we force situations, we want a certain family structure so bad that we overlook a lot of important things …we even forget what are dream husbands are ….they it crumbles,we fall into depression

    • @itumelengsekhu-pedi
      @itumelengsekhu-pedi  Рік тому +1

      Eish…this is so true but mostly it’s because we want the perfect life because most of us had broken homes and we end up breaking up our own homes by our deeds because we are broken people. Healing is very important

  • @edub201683
    @edub201683 Рік тому +6

    You are amazing Mona and very animated chomi😀..Modimo is Faithful..🙌🎉🎊I like the way you say 'Abuti GOD' it shows the relationship you have with your heavenly Father😍

  • @lettamolefe6579
    @lettamolefe6579 Рік тому +4

    All I can is wow!! I needed to hear this

  • @sibongokuhlenkosi4474
    @sibongokuhlenkosi4474 9 місяців тому +2

    Beautiful interview😂❤ Love Mona’s energy & wisdom! May the light continue to shine Itu✨

  • @twinmom9728
    @twinmom9728 Рік тому +2

    This conversation was BEAUTIFUL ❤ loved loved it

  • @heavenly_turn
    @heavenly_turn Рік тому +2

    This was so beautiful to watch and listen to...I love the self reflections the most

  • @mpho__makena
    @mpho__makena Рік тому +11

    I am definitely her target audience, honey. Wow! Actually...POW🎉periodt, bathong❤

    • @itumelengsekhu-pedi
      @itumelengsekhu-pedi  Рік тому +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 we love you…kea leboga hun 😍❤️🍷🎉

  • @naledimokoto379
    @naledimokoto379 Рік тому +3

    I pray that he releases the hurt I caused him. I pray for him and want him to be happy !Shuuu!!

  • @nthabisengmasikila4543
    @nthabisengmasikila4543 Рік тому +6

    I smiled throughout the interview....loved it❤😊

  • @thatogix8259
    @thatogix8259 Рік тому +2

    What’s a name above love that I can express how I feel for this lady ❤

  • @LivingCourageously
    @LivingCourageously Рік тому +2

    Love Mona, beautiful interview

  • @joymufaro1202
    @joymufaro1202 Рік тому +1

    Mona Montane thank you my sister I resonate with you. All you shared so profound ❤❤❤

  • @thembanimakhathini2126
    @thembanimakhathini2126 Рік тому +2

    Beautiful interview. So soothing and healing. Thank you❤

  • @molotocynthia8010
    @molotocynthia8010 Рік тому +6

    My love for Mona😍❤️👌🏾

  • @ladyras
    @ladyras Рік тому +7

    Yah Mona you've been tested. Am glad you're on the other side now

  • @philanonkelela9630
    @philanonkelela9630 Рік тому +8

    Thank God for Tiktok i wasn't going to see this

  • @nokwazishezi-wf7li
    @nokwazishezi-wf7li Рік тому +6

    She is such a gorgeous girl 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @gracemalau5736
    @gracemalau5736 Рік тому +3

    Beautiful interview❤...Love love 💯

  • @Eventsbytsholo1
    @Eventsbytsholo1 Рік тому +5

    I'm glad I subscribed to this channel. I have learned a lot from Mona, she is such an amazing and strong woman who has been through a lot😢. Thank you Itu❤❤❤❤

    • @itumelengsekhu-pedi
      @itumelengsekhu-pedi  Рік тому +1

      Thank you for subscribing, I appreciate you sooo much 🍷❤️🔥💃🏽

  • @nikitanxele5999
    @nikitanxele5999 Рік тому +2

    PAWOOOOOOO🎉 Love love this BEAUTIFUL Interview ❤❤❤❤

  • @ThembakaziGcweni-dr5tg
    @ThembakaziGcweni-dr5tg Рік тому +2

    This is beautiful and healing

  • @ndinomholondilula
    @ndinomholondilula Рік тому +7

    Phenomenal women 🙌🏿

  • @InnocentiaMashilwane
    @InnocentiaMashilwane Рік тому +4

    So liberating this interview … I so loved it. I have found myself reflecting so much. This is so women empowering ❤❤❤

  • @yolaunderscore6881
    @yolaunderscore6881 Рік тому +4

    Itu’s interview style🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @itumelengsekhu-pedi
      @itumelengsekhu-pedi  Рік тому

      Thank YOU so much ❤️❤️❤️😍😍😍😍🍷🍷🍷🍷💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

  • @rabelanim4462
    @rabelanim4462 Рік тому +1

    What a great interview, Mona you changed my life today so inspiring ❤

  • @theodoramyendeki6396
    @theodoramyendeki6396 5 місяців тому +1

    Awesome interview and informative

  • @melodymudziki8726
    @melodymudziki8726 Рік тому +4

    To my Ex kkkkkkk Thank you for giving me these beautiful daughter's waal May God bless you!

  • @priscillasabi8325
    @priscillasabi8325 Рік тому +1

    Oh Tiiseto what a beautiful interview..thank you Itu for inviting mona we learned alot from this interview❤

  • @mphomlaba595
    @mphomlaba595 Рік тому +2

    Beautiful interview

  • @ThembakaziGcweni-dr5tg
    @ThembakaziGcweni-dr5tg Рік тому +2

    I love her honesty

  • @edithsimelane3031
    @edithsimelane3031 Рік тому +6

    Mona very intelligent and beautiful 🤌🏾✊🏾

  • @phutithantsha9578
    @phutithantsha9578 Рік тому +1

    Ohh what a beautiful interview Ausi Mona😊. A healed woman is indeed a powerhouse❤
    Am still stuck on what she said while looking herself in the mirror "I see what i feel like in the inside, reflected to me on the outside"..This is because i literally know how it feels like looking all beautiful on the outside, but dying inside because your heart is just so conflicted. So grateful God got me through and this conversation warmed my heart so much❤❤🎉

  • @masingitashelly2270
    @masingitashelly2270 Рік тому +5

    Itu is soooooo beautiful!!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️💕💕💕

  • @mphoentle7790
    @mphoentle7790 Рік тому +2

    Much respect for u Mona montane🙌🏽

  • @DoroKoribe
    @DoroKoribe Рік тому +11

    Oh, thank you so much, ITU, for bringing in my fav🥹. Such a beautiful woman filled with so much wisdom. I love her so much ❤

  • @siyandangozo
    @siyandangozo Рік тому +1

    Yoh this was such an amazing conversation thank you so much ❤

  • @nakedirapudi5417
    @nakedirapudi5417 Рік тому +12

    At least she didn’t become a Sangoma, instead she ran to God! ❤

  • @GivenLegodi-mo6oj
    @GivenLegodi-mo6oj Рік тому +5

    Beautiful and insightful interview 😊Mona is such a breath air to watch 😊Itumeleng your emotional intelligence when you interview 😊amazing 💐keep up the good work Queen ❤️

    • @nokuthulamsweli8578
      @nokuthulamsweli8578 Рік тому +1

      True her emotional intelligence is very good if it was me will be crying now and then 😟😟

  • @gcotyelwangqela8161
    @gcotyelwangqela8161 Рік тому +2

    Beautiful interview ❤❤loved everything abt it