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  • Опубліковано 27 лис 2024

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  • @emilyrobxrts
    @emilyrobxrts 6 років тому +16508

    The pretty basic episode made me cry so hard, my heart absolutely broke for you. You are so beautiful Remi and you always have been. It’s so upsetting how rude and cruel people will be just to try and make themselves feel that little bit better. You are a wonderful, inspirational woman and you deserve the best in this world. Sending you all the love and positivity, you’re KILLING IT 💓

    • @iwasnvrhere9970
      @iwasnvrhere9970 6 років тому +26

      Yessssss Emily your sooooo right Remi should listen to you, we all should listen to you (and you are like amazing)

    • @sarayarvizu3921
      @sarayarvizu3921 6 років тому +12

      Love this comment and love you remi ❤️

    • @avabaumann3250
      @avabaumann3250 6 років тому +12

      💕💕💕🙌🙌🙌🙌

    • @wilmawong5048
      @wilmawong5048 6 років тому +22

      I agree that it’s upsetting to see people comment rude things just to make themselves feel better for about 5 seconds or less...
      Quoting Thumper’s mom: “if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all”

    • @raya3513
      @raya3513 6 років тому +6

      ιĸr

  • @AlishaMarie
    @AlishaMarie 6 років тому +8351

    MY FAV VIDEO OF YOURS!!! Rem you have such a beautiful soul and I’m proud of you for speaking up about this topic. I love you!!!! 💞💞💞

    • @anicucqiridze8419
      @anicucqiridze8419 6 років тому +9

      My favorite too

    • @vqnillla.
      @vqnillla. 6 років тому +6

      Is it really u alisha

    • @Izzy-or5xb
      @Izzy-or5xb 6 років тому +5

      Sameeee luv ya both ❤️❤️❤️ you guys were beautiful ever since your first videos keep going beauties

    • @isalinegurne2103
      @isalinegurne2103 6 років тому +5

      💖😘😪

    • @lisacohen5022
      @lisacohen5022 6 років тому +4

      LOVE YOUUUUUUU BOTH❤️

  • @annie14892
    @annie14892 6 років тому +5675

    It's sad that the majority of body shaming comes from other females

    • @megan4475
      @megan4475 6 років тому +36

      That's such bullshit

    • @camille6679
      @camille6679 6 років тому +170

      that's the saddest part of all of this... woman tearing down other woman, like shit that's wild

    • @Mia-qi3wd
      @Mia-qi3wd 6 років тому +70

      Megan B it’s the truth

    • @melsburk2782
      @melsburk2782 6 років тому +115

      @@megan4475 Not really though. Women are insecure about their own bodies, so they tear other people down. It's just a fact.

    • @megan4475
      @megan4475 6 років тому +7

      Melani Burkhart nah it’s not, that’s not what a fact is.

  • @JENerationDIY
    @JENerationDIY 6 років тому +1648

    Seeing those comments literally makes me so frustrated!!! I’ve always loved your personality and admired your confidence since I started watching you a couple years ago. I’m so glad people have such a great person to look up to who is making a positive impact.

    • @soniac4691
      @soniac4691 6 років тому +4

      ah ive missed you

    • @preranathippesha5497
      @preranathippesha5497 6 років тому +1

      You're so right ❤️❤️❤️

    • @sofi5703
      @sofi5703 6 років тому +10

      JENerationDIY I never knew my favourite youtubers watch each other videos 😊😊😊 Anyways you’re right and it just makes me mad. 😡

    • @miajoanss
      @miajoanss 6 років тому +1

      JENerationDIY JEN!

    • @blissjosy5853
      @blissjosy5853 6 років тому +4

      I didnt know yoy watched her and you are so right. Sh e is one of the cutest people on the internet and she is so so nice and she has always been nice. So people who dont even know her dont have the right to tell her that.

  • @cashmoneychanel1209
    @cashmoneychanel1209 5 років тому +3295

    I lost 75 pounds and everything you’re saying is 100% accurate

    • @bobbobby6352
      @bobbobby6352 5 років тому +88

      Congrats! I have only lost 20 so far but want to lost 20 more!

    • @harper7149
      @harper7149 5 років тому +28

      Congratulations! I am so happy for you!

    • @carolinelantz8539
      @carolinelantz8539 5 років тому +7

      coco cat GOOD FOR YOU GF! I hope people will realize how ya feel

    • @rae9766
      @rae9766 5 років тому +13

      I lost about 43, 20 more to go

    • @Lisa-ol4ze
      @Lisa-ol4ze 5 років тому +2

      @@bobbobby6352 what workouts do you do?

  • @colourful_dori
    @colourful_dori 6 років тому +3822

    I lost 145lbs and it baffles me how different people treat you after you loose weight :(

    • @candypietravels
      @candypietravels 6 років тому +88

      That's so sad but true now I know how my gf feels

    • @mimiabdo4421
      @mimiabdo4421 6 років тому +51

      Can you please give me some tips im also trying to loose weight

    • @chanisebailey2790
      @chanisebailey2790 6 років тому +144

      @@mimiabdo4421 cut back on sugar and junk you can still have them just smaller portions if you love soda try carbonated water and mix crystal light with it also healthy food doesn't need to be boring throw some colors in there to make it fun if you're having salad throw some baby tomatoes and cranberries in there avocado grilled chicken feel like chocolate go for it dark chocolate is lifee xD

    • @mimiabdo4421
      @mimiabdo4421 6 років тому +34

      @@chanisebailey2790 thanks for the tips your so nice! Im definitely gonna keep them in mind

    • @caustic7064
      @caustic7064 6 років тому +10

      Spill the tea sis

  • @karlafernandez6268
    @karlafernandez6268 6 років тому +185

    If you are mad about the thumbnail- you are clearly missing the point of this video and her pretty basic podcast. She has every right to post a picture of whatever she wants- it’s her body. It’s HER transformation.

  • @night_sky_queen4941
    @night_sky_queen4941 6 років тому +605

    I'll be honest, I wasn't really that much of a fan of Remi before. Not for any specific reason, just that I'm not a fan of those types of channels in general. But after seeing this, I have a new found respect for her. She's a genuine person, smart and really level headed and sincere and I can always appreciate that.

  • @trashboat8204
    @trashboat8204 5 років тому +1915

    I love how she showed the usernames lmfao

    • @klaragrant1654
      @klaragrant1654 4 роки тому +15

      Ikr

    • @sydneysteele4185
      @sydneysteele4185 4 роки тому +1

      ikr

    • @karan_karan_karan
      @karan_karan_karan 3 роки тому +18

      lol right! i creeped the ppl who said those mean things and its so funny how they're like...such hypocrites lol

    • @Maya-vk2cx
      @Maya-vk2cx 3 роки тому +2

      lol yeah stalking them :)))))

  • @felicitay8056
    @felicitay8056 6 років тому +418

    I hope you ALL paid close attention to what Remi said. She's getting hate for being pudgy and now she's getting hate for living healthily. AND she never said the comments don't bother her anymore, she just accepted the fact that she can't please people! So before you comment nasty on someone's post look at yourself in the mirror and imagine what you would do and how you would feel if the words were said to YOU. THANK U, NEXT!
    Continue to stay strong and continuing growing to the best version of you, Remi. -xo😘
    Update: REMI HEARTED😭❤️

    • @kenzaghodbane5890
      @kenzaghodbane5890 6 років тому +1

      Confussion Tales THANK U, NEXT YAAAAS

    • @felicitay8056
      @felicitay8056 6 років тому +1

      kenza ghodbane I'm so triggered by bullies. I too was bullied for my weight from a very young age. I want to start a UA-cam channel shortly but I have to make sure my mentally to standing up to bullies is VERY STRONG before I do.
      Sister Rem snapped and I applaud her for her confidence. Thank u, next was very fitting🙂

    • @kenzaghodbane5890
      @kenzaghodbane5890 6 років тому +2

      Confussion Tales I was too actually! I was a lil chubby as a kid and some kids teased me about it so I feel you and I related to Remi so much. I’m now “ skinny ” too and all the kids that used to bully me now want to be my friends me so I know bullies are hypocrites and horrible people.
      I’m sorry you had to go through this stay strong and slaaaaay 💕
      Btw huge arianator over here so that warmed my heart ❤️

    • @felicitay8056
      @felicitay8056 6 років тому

      I'm sorry that you too had to be a victim of bullying but I'm happy to know that you're doing well; and that you're able to decipher who's genuinely your friend who isn't

  • @katiecupcake7317
    @katiecupcake7317 6 років тому +500

    Whatever you're wearing, whatever dance you're doing, whatever pose you're doing in a pic... you're still you. And you seem like an absolute sweetheart. Goofy, funny, sassy, cute & YES you can be hot too (you always were)! Keep your chin up. Those of us loyal watchers understand and support you xxx

  • @EarlsFamilyVlogs
    @EarlsFamilyVlogs 6 років тому +1500

    It's heartbreaking how rude people can be and I am so sorry that you had to experience all of that, you are so beautiful and your fitness journey has been so inspiring!

    • @MollyMalave
      @MollyMalave 6 років тому

      Earls Family Vlogs i love you guys!! I watch ur family vlogs every time I get the notification that u have uploaded! Please follow me on instagram @xx.molly_malave.xx and on UA-cam 🥰🥰🥰

  • @kitkatkathryn6
    @kitkatkathryn6 5 років тому +2487

    Slut shaming is NEVER okay! You look amazing and I'm glad you're so confident with your body! But please hold onto a bit of that carefree dorky girl you used to be that didn't give a shit what people thought because I love her!

    • @Doodlebopjunior
      @Doodlebopjunior 5 років тому +6

      Kathryn Adams ehhh it’s ok sometimes

    • @clarissambera1899
      @clarissambera1899 5 років тому +38

      Nux Lee no no it’s not

    • @TheSighphiguy
      @TheSighphiguy 5 років тому +6

      @@clarissambera1899 what if the girl actually is a slut?

    • @blemmablartel
      @blemmablartel 5 років тому +54

      Sigh Phi Guy then leave her alone and mind ya own business?

    • @HewaKiku
      @HewaKiku 5 років тому +18

      @@TheSighphiguy I know replying to this is most likely pointless and I won't change your mind but please define slut and explain what is bad about it

  • @meredithfoster
    @meredithfoster 6 років тому +2699

    You are an icon, living.

    • @zixzizia1066
      @zixzizia1066 6 років тому +16

      Are you anorexic?

    • @laurenleaf7846
      @laurenleaf7846 6 років тому +12

      Your ill and need help

    • @helenfaith1508
      @helenfaith1508 6 років тому +15

      Zix Zizia shut up let her be happy for Remi. That’s what we’re all here for right.

    • @yente583
      @yente583 6 років тому +78

      @@zixzizia1066 and ​@Lauren Leaf you've got to be kidding me right? The WHOLE point of this video is to showcase how rude and influential it is to comment on others body types, but STILL y'all come up here to spread negativity? Even if that would be the case, it's rude as a stranger to assume anything and tell her what to do, mental illnesses like that are very sensitive subjects and a truly personal and private matter to be handled delicately. Some people will never learn...

    • @hdlovergirl
      @hdlovergirl 6 років тому +18

      I see that Jaden Smith reference hah

  • @KyleeNguyen
    @KyleeNguyen 6 років тому +4494

    Remi is the nicest ever but ppl are so rude like..??

    • @samanthathames
      @samanthathames 6 років тому +4

      Kylee Nguyen your so right

    • @misa4534
      @misa4534 6 років тому +2

      Kylee Nguyen yeah like wtf

    • @7superherokids63
      @7superherokids63 6 років тому

      were you talking about me

    • @ashley1919100
      @ashley1919100 6 років тому

      Lama28 yes...nicest

    • @danielleboo9137
      @danielleboo9137 6 років тому +3

      Honestly it’s like you see someone doing happy and being genuine and you’re being rude ????🤮

  • @taylorsimone8846
    @taylorsimone8846 5 років тому +212

    This is my first video of you, but girl I'm so proud of you!! F*** those other people because theyre just wasting their time. They just want to make themselves feel better. But to answer you question "Who says those things?" it's just the people who are insecure about their own selves and when they see someone living life to the fullest they feel they need to bring that person down to their level. I know it's hard to ignore certain comments but you honestly have to just pay it no mind because their opinions don't even matter. they're just a nobody behind the screen that have NO right to tell YOU HOW TO LIVE Y O U R LIFE.

  • @lenashelly1703
    @lenashelly1703 6 років тому +236

    “Be unapologetically yourself” is 100% my new fav quote

  • @SeaLemonDIY
    @SeaLemonDIY 6 років тому +785

    I'm so shocked at the reactions you got when the only difference was your weight. Ugh, it's so sad there is so much hate on the internet. You do you Remi, keep being your silly self. Those who matter don't mind, and those who mind don't matter 😉

  • @juliannaleiva3752
    @juliannaleiva3752 6 років тому +405

    I totally get the thumbnail after watching the ENTIRE video... your doing so many great things in your life right now!!! I love how you continue to keep going through all of this. Your awesome we love you Remi!

  • @hannaheppelin1272
    @hannaheppelin1272 5 років тому +159

    I just have to say you are such a good role model especially for people that are struggling with their bodies and I think it is so encouraging to the people who are struggling with their bodies can be encouraged by you to be healthier and keep their bodies in shape just like how you are which is healthy and in shape

  • @mhb884
    @mhb884 6 років тому +933

    I haven't watched her in a while , and her transformation is amazing!!

    • @rnecleo9571
      @rnecleo9571 6 років тому +1

      m_884 ikrrr

    • @Kayla-pt5rt
      @Kayla-pt5rt 6 років тому

      m_884 ik same! The last video I remember watching by her is a video of he dancing and I was shook when I saw this! Go her!!

    • @lauryncave959
      @lauryncave959 6 років тому +1

      Exactly, I haven’t watched her in a year or so but she was so beautiful and still is❤️

    • @jessicalela3402
      @jessicalela3402 6 років тому +1

      she looks amazing!! omg

    • @zaibelli6968
      @zaibelli6968 6 років тому

      SAMEE

  • @spvnishshawty
    @spvnishshawty 6 років тому +200

    I haven't watched Remi in forever and her transformation is amazing !!

  • @maggieabdel2838
    @maggieabdel2838 6 років тому +516

    people are only hating on her because she accomplished what everyone wishes they could

  • @evemaya6545
    @evemaya6545 5 років тому +572

    Oh my god ! I had stopped watching you maybe a year ago (for no particular reason I guess I my interests just changed) but I’ve just seen this pop up on my homepage !! This is insane I had no clue about any of this and I am so incredibly proud of you for everything you’ve done and have gone through. I think I started watching you around 5 years ago and as I said before I’ve only just started to watch your videos again. Btw you look absolutely stunning remi !! 💞💞

  • @Bellamfriedman
    @Bellamfriedman 6 років тому +429

    Preach baby, preach

  • @authormadisonrose
    @authormadisonrose 6 років тому +483

    People are mad at the thumbnail but this is exactly the point she is trying to make. Thank you for making this Remi, it really needed to be said. #girlssupportinggirls

    • @keithlachtnain
      @keithlachtnain 6 років тому +10

      simplymadi I totally agree, I don't know why people are so mad about the thumbnail. They should just let her do whatever she decides #BoysSupportingGirls

  • @camrincosta4628
    @camrincosta4628 6 років тому +349

    It's sad that remi even has to make a video about this. I love u girl

  • @aley2545
    @aley2545 5 років тому +558

    Everyone reading this (this wasn't an accident, you seeing it) YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND YOU ARE LOVED, YOU ARE INSPIRATIONAL AND YOU ARE GRACE. love yourself because you are the only you. ❤️❤️💕❤️

  • @alexslack
    @alexslack 6 років тому +326

    wow I have so much respect for you

  • @morgangrigsby7336
    @morgangrigsby7336 6 років тому +1016

    The only reason other women say you've changed is because they preferred the insecure you, it's not that you've changed it's that now you can do things you couldn't do when you were bigger that you wished you could and now you can, so what if you'd like to show a little skin you worked your ass off to do so, your proud of the work you did and want to show some of it off, nobody says anything to already thin women, there should literally be no reason to put another woman down in this way except your own insecurities and jealousy, it's that simple.

    • @vanessawaard8787
      @vanessawaard8787 6 років тому +9

      see thats a FACT and i wish that wasn't a thing

    • @brandnyuday
      @brandnyuday 6 років тому +17

      This. I am currently trying to get into shape (I'm slightly overweight) for my wedding and you won't want to know how many girl friends around me have discouraged me to do it.

    • @morgangrigsby7336
      @morgangrigsby7336 6 років тому +13

      @@brandnyuday see there shouldn't be any reason to not encourage your friends when they really want to do something, so that tells me they have other reasons that are probably negative especially if what you want to do isn't harming you and better for you, I just recently lost alot of weight and it was well worth it, it made my confidence go way up so I definitely believe you can do it and you'll feel great when you do!

    • @lucianajonhson6374
      @lucianajonhson6374 6 років тому

      G

    • @lucianajonhson6374
      @lucianajonhson6374 6 років тому

      R

  • @strawberrycupcakes8194
    @strawberrycupcakes8194 6 років тому +64

    People are so hypocritical. I'm a size 14 and considered plus size. The thumbnail does not trigger me and I honestly don't think you should change it. As for people calling the picture inappropriate, I'm pretty sure ya'll have seen worse. Remi has changed but that isn't a bad thing. I'm proud of you Remi continue to post and live your life. Because at the end of the day it's YOUR life!

  • @CastroNathalie
    @CastroNathalie 5 років тому +425

    It called jealousy honey my momma always taught me that 😇

  • @meredithfoster
    @meredithfoster 6 років тому +964

    YES REMI SOMEONE NEEDED TO SAY THIS

    • @HI-hb5yf
      @HI-hb5yf 6 років тому +27

      Meredith Foster when are you going to speak about your weight lost?

    • @no.7442
      @no.7442 6 років тому +11

      @@HI-hb5yf she doesnt need to, its her life

    • @HI-hb5yf
      @HI-hb5yf 6 років тому +23

      no. Her weight lost is sad. She was already skinny. She lost all her friends and a lot of viewers. She should seek help

    • @no.7442
      @no.7442 6 років тому +11

      It's hard to post something personal though. especially on the internet, you shouldn't tell her what to do since the internet can be cruel sometimes.

    • @taylorwaldroff8870
      @taylorwaldroff8870 6 років тому

      D T if you follow, she has talked about it and she lost her weight in a healthy way through going to the gym. she has explained herself many time. i wish i could tell you which videos specifically so you could go to them and get the explanation you are looking for but i do not remember off the top of my head.

  • @juliannemaria1654
    @juliannemaria1654 6 років тому +159

    REMI IS A QUEEN
    NO MATTER THE WEIGHT
    SHE GIVES ME CONFIDENCE
    SO YOU BETTER QUIT THE HATE!!!!

  • @MissTiffanyMA
    @MissTiffanyMA 6 років тому +1849

    I love my hott wife so much!

    • @oliviaferguson3292
      @oliviaferguson3292 6 років тому +6

      MissTiffanyMa your a lesbian

    • @avakay3586
      @avakay3586 6 років тому +39

      Olivia Ferguson lmao that was so straight forward

    • @bruhkent6895
      @bruhkent6895 6 років тому +16

      Riley Bowling im sorry why I we using the word ‘lesbian’ as an insult. That is SO not ok. Please stop

    • @amalia2390
      @amalia2390 6 років тому +5

      Olivia Ferguson I know that was probably meant as a joke but I really hope that wasn’t used as an insult thank u

    • @kailynandteagan5522
      @kailynandteagan5522 6 років тому +1

      Olivia Ferguson she not

  • @TinTin12399
    @TinTin12399 5 років тому +202

    Your dog in the background is toooo cute 😍

  • @AJ-nn9ut
    @AJ-nn9ut 6 років тому +244

    My son and I watch your videos together. He’s 6 and I’m not much older than you. He’s been watching you most of his life, I started watching your diy’s. Your videos and just you as a person makes him want to get up and dance, as a mom, if he’s going to have a role model, I’m glad it’s you. He loves your recipes we recreate or just snuggle time watching the vlogs. He’s looking forward to vlogmas this year like always. Thank you for making a little boy happy and not afraid to be himself

    • @safiyyahbata924
      @safiyyahbata924 6 років тому

      That’s so cute #team Remi

    • @TessaundraYT
      @TessaundraYT 6 років тому

      that is adorable!

    • @mariahm7876
      @mariahm7876 6 років тому

      adorable

    • @AJ-nn9ut
      @AJ-nn9ut 6 років тому

      Thanks for the comments 😊 I don’t comment ever and felt compelled to on this one. Team Remi. Happy holidays everyone!

  • @kaygarcia3990
    @kaygarcia3990 6 років тому +318

    Not a subscriber but this video caught my attention. Wtf is wrong with people that we feel the need to judge someone else for doing what makes them happy? Why the double standards and judgement now that she’s thinner? People will always judge you when you are doing better than them. Always. There are several sayings that say that say something along the lines of “only insecure people judge others” or “you will never be judged by someone doing more than you, only those doing less” and it’s true. Secure people, happy people, and those who have a lot going on in their lives have better things to do than judge others for the pictures they post, the way they dress, act, speak, or dance.
    I myself am guilty of judging others when I was younger and felt jealous/ threatened by someone else’s looks, abilities, popularity etc. Nowadays I couldn’t care less. I’m not going to judge someone else for the way they dress, act, or pictures they post. If they feel beautiful, happy, confident, that’s all that matter. You do you girl!
    We have to lift each other up instead of tear each other down. It doesn’t have to be woman vs woman to see who’s hotter, thinner, etc.

  • @Anna-or4ts
    @Anna-or4ts 6 років тому +54

    i’ve been watching you for years and i can see how much happier you are. this past year i’ve also had a major change ( not fitness wise but i’ve changed a lot) i noticed how i realized how no matter what i do people will still have something bad to say. i totally relate to what you’re saying. i’m doing what makes me happy and is best for me. you’re such an inspiration to me and so many other people. keep being you! :)

  • @jessicaphillips3521
    @jessicaphillips3521 5 років тому +86

    I totally understand this... I have a friend that HATES any girl that is pretty and skinny and it’s because she is self conscious about herself. I hate it, I love her so much but she hates girls she doesn’t know and it’s draining to hear her constantly bash other girls. People need to GET TO KNOW PEOPLE. Don’t judge people based on how they look.

  • @Katelynflowersxo
    @Katelynflowersxo 6 років тому +177

    I never thought you “changed” I just thought you “grew” as a person!
    Nothing wrong with growing 🤗💕

  • @siopaobun
    @siopaobun 6 років тому +45

    “I just need to be unapologetically myself.” This right here. I felt this. This is wonderful life advice. Thank you.

  • @jessicacaldwell9275
    @jessicacaldwell9275 5 років тому +166

    Why did this make me sad. Like really sad. Even if they are scandalous pictures if she wants to show herself in a BATHING SUIT BTW let her

  • @Romulano100
    @Romulano100 6 років тому +921

    I think that overweight women are not as sexualised as women with normative bodies, so their actions would not be labelled that fast as sexy and consequently slutty, but as funny and corky. In a way that is similar to how men are normally treated. So this nonsense bs needs to stop

    • @cosmic.raspberri
      @cosmic.raspberri 6 років тому +13

      Yes oh my goodness. This needs to be a top comment. That's so true. Thank you.

    • @LoganGoneDigital
      @LoganGoneDigital 5 років тому +5

      Another type of body that is not deemed as “perfect” or “Hollywood standards” is curvy body, mainly because they are deemed as “Overweight when they are clearly not.

    • @peachy-1511
      @peachy-1511 5 років тому +11

      @@LoganGoneDigital nah nowadays curvy bodies are more favored than skinny

    • @danishmodern55
      @danishmodern55 5 років тому +1

      " normal bodies " would be correct grammar- or a " body normative " - normative bodies is not correct grammar

    • @Romulano100
      @Romulano100 5 років тому +5

      @@danishmodern55 I am not a native English speaker so thank you for the correction!

  • @CrayCristy
    @CrayCristy 6 років тому +721

    Wait what you can block comments with keywords on it? #LearningWithRemi

    • @sythasin7487
      @sythasin7487 6 років тому +13

      I'm with you on this

    • @ma5333
      @ma5333 5 років тому +1

      Yea on Instagram

    • @ma5333
      @ma5333 5 років тому +1

      It’s confusing

    • @Anna133199
      @Anna133199 5 років тому +1

      @@ma5333 Also on YT. I watched a video of a guy with bad teeth who said he manually approves the comments with the word 'teeth' in it on YT.

  • @juliag3376
    @juliag3376 6 років тому +178

    Does anyone else wish they were best friends with Remi? She seriously is so likable, pretty, funny, and overall a great person!

  • @alyssatony3701
    @alyssatony3701 5 років тому +299

    You're so amazing and inspirational wow ❤️

  • @bellap.2766
    @bellap.2766 6 років тому +44

    I had no idea the first minute or two where this video was going, but once u started talking about people's reactions it broke my heart how mean people can be. Truly mind blowing. We love u Remi and man all we gotta say is bye bye to all the haters and thank you, next!

  • @Angela-jq2zi
    @Angela-jq2zi 6 років тому +129

    I’m so proud of you for your journey❤️ You don’t deserve any of this hate when you have done nothing wrong! I love you remi and you’re an amazing role model. You are always beautiful😘 before and after The weight loss doesn’t matter, you’re a goddess

  • @avooneverything
    @avooneverything 6 років тому +546

    I don’t understand how someone can say that a bathing suit picture is one step away from porn, but whatever... I think you’re 100% right about people putting you in a box and now that you look differenty they’re confused because you don’t fit the stereotype. Don’t let that stop you, the people who truly love you, know that you’re the same person no matter how you look and the other ones are just fake fans 💕

    • @sierrasparks2000
      @sierrasparks2000 6 років тому

      Yes I agree

    • @dachshundlover14
      @dachshundlover14 6 років тому +8

      Its like going to a beach and saying its one big porn scene when everyone’s there just tryna have fun

  • @ratyukii9693
    @ratyukii9693 5 років тому +1054

    Excuse me haters?
    Ummm
    Hate on rem in a bikini, then go hate on the other one hundred million girls wearing bikinis

    • @deyradelen
      @deyradelen 5 років тому +16

      m a y f l o w e r PREACHHHHH literally every girl now -_-

    • @ToyaKRed
      @ToyaKRed 5 років тому +6

      ant that right you said that

    • @Gunner-Bruce
      @Gunner-Bruce 5 років тому +6

      Umhummmmm

    • @milkywaes7058
      @milkywaes7058 4 роки тому

      Yeah like Sommer Ray

    • @AmalWatchesStuff
      @AmalWatchesStuff 4 роки тому +7

      maybe don’t hate on anyone

  • @benedettavandoni7845
    @benedettavandoni7845 6 років тому +280

    Also, people who think putting your leg up for pictures is remotely sexual or slutty clearly haven't done gymnastics or dance, I'm a former gymnast and I do that silly stuff with my leg up all the time cause I can't pose in pictures ahahah

    • @makeupanddance1548
      @makeupanddance1548 6 років тому

      Same I’m a dancer and I always pose with my leg up.

    • @MsMuffinQueenie
      @MsMuffinQueenie 6 років тому

      Also, it’s just fun tbh??? Like it’s weird but I do it all the time bc it’s fun.

  • @meganreidler
    @meganreidler 6 років тому +362

    Omg Eli’s reactions were priceless. What a guy he’s a great friend 😂😂😂💖💖💖

  • @nijerikagreen8033
    @nijerikagreen8033 6 років тому +210

    💯💯 I was so happy to see you on your insta story having all that fun with your friends and stuff, I was literally laughing with you! You’ve always been so great ♥️!

  • @giannabastone
    @giannabastone 5 років тому +14

    I know this video was posted so long ago, but I just wanted to say you’re beautiful and I love you. You have such a good soul, I’m so proud of everything you’ve been through.

  • @LC-sp9ox
    @LC-sp9ox 6 років тому +355

    People will find a way to make women feel insecure. I've always been skinny and people tell me to eat a burger, like my body is wrong in some way.... People suck. You go girl. Proud of your achievements and this video.

    • @haydencampbell8171
      @haydencampbell8171 6 років тому +6

      Lizzie Canida I’m really skinny too and I’ve even had coworkers ask personal friends if I even eat food- just sucks

    • @crystaljones6090
      @crystaljones6090 6 років тому

      Lizzie Canida You’re perfect. Anyone that makes you feel differently is a complete idiot ❤️

    • @carmenyt
      @carmenyt 6 років тому

      Can relate x

    • @yorkiem1698
      @yorkiem1698 5 років тому +4

      Lizzie Canida I can relate so much! I’m really skinny (slightly under weight) but not to an extent where it’s unhealthy, and I always have my aunts and uncles saying stuff like “Wow, you should really eat more” or “My god! You get skinnier every time I see you! You gotta gain more weight!” And sometimes I hear them talking to my mom like “Are you feeding her well?” Or “ Did she eat today?” Like, even if they’re just joking around IT BOTHERS ME! Don’t you think I’ve tried to gain more weight?!? I CAN’T! I’ve accepted it, my moms accepted it, my doctor says that I’m okay and I shouldn’t worry, so stop!
      Sorry, got really emotional there...

    • @jj-qr4ro
      @jj-qr4ro 5 років тому

      Same! People called me chicken legs for years even though no matter how much I eat or don’t eat I can’t change that

  • @dbs2051
    @dbs2051 6 років тому +120

    This is such a necessary video. I have never watched your videos before and I don't think I have the same sense of humor, but that doesn't matter. Ill learn to love it. You brought up so many necessary points and I'm sorry that people feel the need to treat others this way. A lot of people have internalised a lot of self hate and they really need to reflect on why they choose to say mean things to people who are just living their lives. ANYWAYS, I will start watching your videos now. Boom, subscribed.

  • @sampaqq
    @sampaqq 6 років тому +221

    by watching this video it’s made me only realize one thing..loose the weight only if you need the happiness. if you’re unhappy with your weight then do something to change it. don’t change it because you want to change AND you want others to accept you. your happiness is the only thing that matters. if you’re happy with yourself then GO YOU!!!

    • @kayeve2605
      @kayeve2605 6 років тому +11

      samantha ryan Loosing weight is not only about “if you need the happiness” How about being healthy and preventing diseases! That’s the most important, it’s not all about looks!

    • @catchats
      @catchats 6 років тому

      Losing weight is not a guaranteed happiness fix!!

    • @jackieorozco3990
      @jackieorozco3990 6 років тому

      Kay Eve true but if its not you that is being “unhealthy” then why speak on it. Not saying you personally but if people actually cared for her health they wouldn’t be calling her a cow. There are other ways to say if you think she should loose weight for health reasons.( but still don’t think anyone should say anything unless your her doctor) But they don’t they just want to make fun.

  • @stella0583
    @stella0583 5 років тому +4

    I've lost over 100lbs in just over a year. Complete lifestyle and mindset change. This is the second time. Everything you're saying and experiencing hits home hard. I let it derail me the first time 8 years ago and gained it all back. Never again! Stand proud and stay happy! So glad you've mentioned the emotional growth. I've been at both ends twice now. I was a 24ish and down to a 12 now. Not at goal but will be this year and for life💪🙏🏼

  • @jillianrogers3854
    @jillianrogers3854 6 років тому +47

    I’m not exaggerating when I say that I have wanted to lose weight for over 5 years....I have tried and tried to get into a routine but nothing has worked and I have been the same weight for years. It hurts seeing all of these people shaming you for doing something that makes you feel happy. You lost this weight because you wanted to and you pushed yourself to do something so incredibly difficult, yet you get shamed for it. What gives anyone the right to do that to you or to anyone?? I find what you did so inspiring and the fact that the only person you were worried about was yourself, makes it even more so. What you have done really makes me want to push myself to be more disciplined. Thank you for sharing, I really do appreciate and love what you had to say ❤️

    • @hailsvlogs1188
      @hailsvlogs1188 6 років тому

      Jillian Rogers try fasting i lost 150 fasting it sucks at first but omg its worth it if u want more information on how my journey was you can dm me on instagram @hailz_beth 😊

  • @lacelessparasite
    @lacelessparasite 6 років тому +177

    Remi, you took control of your life for you and to be healthier, the point you are missing is that scares people, if you can do it (as a normal person, with a genuine amount to lose) then anyone can do it right ? So they have their own massive insecurities and no excuses now ! You just destroyed all their excuses ! I love your UA-cam and you have done amazingly well, be proud ! 🥳

  • @MegaBrookeybear
    @MegaBrookeybear 6 років тому +43

    In regards to you saying that you’re sorry that you keep talking about your transformation.... DONT EVER FEEL SORRY. KEEP TALKING ABOUT IT. YOU DID THAT! It’s the accomplishment of a lifetime and so so so soooo many people don’t get to achieve because they give up or lack the motivation. People have no idea how hard it can be to do a complete 180° of a lifestyle, and to keep the dedication through the easy and hard days. To get to where you wanted to be is an unreal feeling. You look phenomenal, and you should feel proud of everything❤️ don’t let anyone make you think you’re getting annoying by talking about it!

  • @user-dh1dn2cg2n
    @user-dh1dn2cg2n 5 років тому +76

    i stopped watching you a few years ago (no reason,my interests just changed) and i’m SO PROUD OF YOU REM

  • @AlexaPaige
    @AlexaPaige 6 років тому +80

    Honestly I admire Remi for still being able to laugh and be herself despite all the negative double standards she faces. You are KILLING it girl, no matter what anyone says 💞

  • @marycasha7582
    @marycasha7582 6 років тому +118

    I got so mad at this. Why isnt it okay for her to post a photo where she feels good, and confident? Women have the right to feel good in whatever they do, and the comments you got on the photos were DISGUSTING. you are beautiful and I’m EXTREMELY PROUD of you for how far you’ve come, and the transformation on your body. It would be so hard to do what remi does and I bet that you couldn’t do it ether, so don’t hate if, your jealous. LOVE YOU REM 💕 💗

  • @user-gj3kp8tt1d
    @user-gj3kp8tt1d 6 років тому +387

    Wear as much or as little as you want, it's your body!
    PS its bad enough guys call girls demeaning names, respect women that have been fighting for equality for hundreds of years & don't take down your fellow girls!

  • @ariellelyons
    @ariellelyons 5 років тому +122

    Ok so i found your channel from the psycho neighbor video just today and i was like “i wonder what her videos look like now” and i almost thought you sold your channel to someone else because I didn’t recognize you 😂😂😂 but the second i started watching this i automatically recognized the exact same personality from that video from 3-4 years ago. I’m so proud of you for losing that weight! That’s super impressive and not everyone can do that and i’m proud that you’re proud. I’m gonna subscribe and I normally don’t watch these kinds of channels anymore because i’m usually super jealous of the decor and neatness in the background but you’re so adorable and bubbly and you’re honestly the kind of person i wanna be around 24/7. Good for you girly!

  • @mindovermegan3247
    @mindovermegan3247 6 років тому +70

    Yes girl. You just can't win. Live for what makes you happy and be your beautiful confident self.

  • @brooklynb7330
    @brooklynb7330 6 років тому +91

    i can’t believe this. i haven’t watched her in two years and came back to the channel and IM SO PROUD OF HER.

  • @meredithfoster
    @meredithfoster 6 років тому +584

    “I look constipated” 😂😂😂

    • @telesd1359
      @telesd1359 6 років тому +23

      Wtf r u doing here

    • @melinamartinez3170
      @melinamartinez3170 6 років тому +12

      @@telesd1359 what's ur problem

    • @amandalynn3300
      @amandalynn3300 6 років тому +5

      @@telesd1359 She's supporting her friend. Please try not to spread hate.

    • @telesd1359
      @telesd1359 6 років тому

      @@melinamartinez3170 wtf r u talking about .hate? Don't even get me started

    • @olayemifadahunsi5342
      @olayemifadahunsi5342 6 років тому +3

      Aracy Teles Da Rocha Charles so rude 😒😒😒 you need help

  • @lauramanning8659
    @lauramanning8659 5 років тому +113

    😞 my heart hurts for this. Whhhyyy are people so hateful #hatersgonnahate

  • @paos6340
    @paos6340 6 років тому +131

    Loving the dark hair on you!!

  • @amandacutrer1754
    @amandacutrer1754 6 років тому +573

    i haven’t watched remi in forever and now she’s thinner with black hair.. WOAH

    • @VanshikaaSharma
      @VanshikaaSharma 6 років тому +4

      I love your display picture here!!!!

    • @ashley1919100
      @ashley1919100 6 років тому +2

      BILLIE

    • @VanshikaaSharma
      @VanshikaaSharma 6 років тому +1

      @@ashley1919100 yessss!!! *She's still playing in my background while I'm working* 😭💗

    • @ashley1919100
      @ashley1919100 6 років тому

      Vanshika Sharma she’s amazing af 😍😍

    • @user-zo8nl9be5l
      @user-zo8nl9be5l 6 років тому +1

      BILLIEEEEE

  • @isabellaroman3339
    @isabellaroman3339 6 років тому +118

    Who's been here since Remi room was literally all purple and it was her fav color!💜 like if u have!

  • @muococoa
    @muococoa 4 роки тому +8

    OK I am so sad I didn’t see this sooner but I just want to say that when this video was posted I weighed around 225 pounds and wanted to feel more healthy so I started a weight loss journey and now I weight 116 pounds and I can definitely relate to this ever since I lost this weight I started celebrating it more and wearing cute leggings and shorts skirts and all of my friends were not accepting that! I am glad at least your friends are on your side about this... imagine if your friends were judging you for being happy about your body and being confident and wanting to celebrate the way you look right now... it is devastating and I know you probably are not going to see this comment but if you do I just want to tell you that you’re an amazing soul and just be yourself I love you the way you are and thank you for being so open about this ❤️

  • @HayleyWilliams92
    @HayleyWilliams92 6 років тому +333

    GO 🙏🏼 OFF 🙏🏼 seriously this makes me so sad.
    I think someone loving their body can be the most challenging battle, and its like, for the few people who finally DO get there, they're shamed for loving it.

    • @roopz10
      @roopz10 6 років тому +1

      Yas we live for queens supporting queens

  • @kimberlyhunt6632
    @kimberlyhunt6632 6 років тому +309

    your hair looks so good, I kept getting distracted lol

  • @fionakelly4248
    @fionakelly4248 6 років тому +48

    Honestly I’m so proud of Remi for her transformation!!! It’s not easy and I think that it is completely unacceptable for people to hate on her for her just being herself!

  • @Sweetkimmmy00
    @Sweetkimmmy00 Рік тому +5

    Watched this video when it came out and it still hits to watch. Remi really rocks

  • @TheLifeofKiara
    @TheLifeofKiara 6 років тому +291

    I freaking loveeee you Remi!! And I am literally going through the same thing!!When I was over eating and unhealthy people said that I was a cow and that my husband would leave me and now I’m 25 lbs down and I’m annoying because I’m always talking about my weightloss . Smh people will ALWAYS have something to say

    • @svnflqwer
      @svnflqwer 6 років тому +5

      keep being proud of it nc weight-loss is not easy!

    • @satansmistress265
      @satansmistress265 6 років тому

      Girl be proud of who you are fuck what they say because like you said they will always talk! Go ahead and keep talking about your weightloss show off your hard work and never stop being you! Good job on losing some weight you got this so keep going!

  • @bellapearce6688
    @bellapearce6688 6 років тому +747

    *Not even going to lie, double standards, in regards to weight and literally everything else, makes me sick.*

  • @emilyemiranda
    @emilyemiranda 6 років тому +33

    i am a really modest person. partially due to my christianity, mostly due to who i am as a person. i don't feel comfortable wearing clothing pieces that aren't jeans, t-shirts, knee-length dresses, etc. but that's me! i wear that because i feel confident and comfortable in my comfy sweaters and worn-in jeans. just because i won't wear the same clothes as remi does, or as the people i follow on instagram do, doesn't mean i'm better or that they're worse. i am not on this earth to judge what another person is wearing. it's more than just clothing - i would die before i would start twerking in public or expressing myself outwardly in a way like that. but remi feels comfortable and confident doing so, and always has! again, im not here to judge any of that behavior. to be honest and vulnerable, watching each of my friends transition from being more like me to people who were becoming sexually intimate, starting to dress differently and less modestly than me, etc., that was really hard. i couldn't grasp the concept of why someone would want to be like that. but i have come a long way. a loooooong way. these friends are still my closest friends, as much as we differ on what we CHOOSE to do with our bodies. i am not here to judge them, and im not here to judge people i don't know in real life and only see online. my firm belief is that i have no right to comment on something that isn't hurting someone physically or mentally. remi, this was such an incredible video and i am so sorry for what the world around you has chosen to put you through. i continue to be an avid follower and i think this video really put a lot into perspective to me, and shed light on things i wasn't even conscious of, but that now are so obvious. thank you for opening your heart and being so vulnerable. im also sorry for any thoughts i've had about how you've "changed" negatively, because i'll admit i've had them. i've never commented anything mean, but i've had those thoughts and i have no right. this is definitely going to make me do a lot of reflecting. much love

  • @BrittPearceWatches
    @BrittPearceWatches 3 роки тому +1

    DO YOU BOO BOO - BE YOU, EMBRACE YOURSELF, BE CONFIDENT! You look amazing either way! And we love ya!

  • @elizabethyanda6532
    @elizabethyanda6532 6 років тому +66

    I’ve lost 30 pounds this year, and I can honestly say i feel like we’ve been doing this together!

    • @mandisakuzwayo7156
      @mandisakuzwayo7156 6 років тому +1

      YASSS girl, you go!

    • @heyjillian
      @heyjillian 6 років тому +1

      That’s awesome hun! 💟😊

    • @vengalakrishna2071
      @vengalakrishna2071 6 років тому

      That's freaking awesome girl!!! 💜💜💜. You go girlfriend!!!!! 🎊💕♥️!!!!!.

  • @Buckethatkitty666
    @Buckethatkitty666 6 років тому +153

    I'm not really interested in the content you produce but I feel like you're the nicest Person and an amazing example for young people who grow up with the Internet. Eversbody should see this Video.
    Kisses from Germany

  • @dmac5935
    @dmac5935 6 років тому +38

    As a fitness professional I commend you on your hardwork to get where you are today. Health and fitness is not only outer appearance, it's how you feel inside that also counts. You seemed happy and healthy before, now you seems happy healthy and lean. Its human nature to emphasize fault while compromising virtue. Keep doing yo thing 💪👍

  • @ericataylor8248
    @ericataylor8248 3 роки тому +6

    I needed to watch this and hear what you said in this video. I know it’s 2 years after you posted it but girl you are such an inspiration and I really appreciate you being 100% you. I am just sorry that this world is made up of some really terrible people who have nothing better to do then sit behind a keyboard and screen and bully others.

  • @kasikay
    @kasikay 6 років тому +68

    *I’M SO PROUD OF YOU REMI!*

  • @emma-bc9jr
    @emma-bc9jr 6 років тому +189

    Idk how people (the haters) can be so terribly disgusting. I may not have gone through what you did (being in the public eye and all) but people have said things about me and to me and I’ve tried to change. But truth is, we should just be ourselves because the people that we’re going to be surrounded with are going to love you for who *you* are and you won’t have to put up a front. I love you Remi and I’ve been supporting you since before your journey and I’ll continue supporting you now. You’re killing it just how *you* are❤️❤️💕💕

    • @emma-bc9jr
      @emma-bc9jr 6 років тому +1

      Nina N what kinda logic is this?

    • @lucyyeranosian3795
      @lucyyeranosian3795 6 років тому +1

      you could have not said it better!

    • @emma-bc9jr
      @emma-bc9jr 6 років тому

      Lucy Yeranosian ty😊

  • @magdalenasarafova
    @magdalenasarafova 6 років тому +51

    You must be so strong woah.. I can't imagine living like that people are so cruel. I love you, keep doing whatever you want, keep being happy

  • @gaokaliathao1180
    @gaokaliathao1180 5 років тому +46

    Yassss girl! Middle finger up to these haters! Keep your confidence girl! ❤️❤️

  • @crystal9549
    @crystal9549 6 років тому +75

    This honestly breaks my heart. People just don’t get that what someone else does is none of their concern. I love where we are going technology wise as a society, however it’s also an excuse to hide behind a screen and say such rude, disgusting things. I guess chivalry really is dead, but just remember who you are and live ur life. If I’m gonna die, I’m not gonna let someone’s IRRELEVANT opinions control my actions. To simplify everything I just said ... yolo : ). In all seriousness , you have as many supporters as you do haters and I’ll always snap / pop off for u. ❤️❤️

  • @Jocelyn-bh8mw
    @Jocelyn-bh8mw 6 років тому +23

    Remi I wish I could explain how much you’ve helped me grow in the last few months. Your videos inspired me to start my own health journey and I have now lost over 40 pounds! I also struggle with body dysmorphia and didn’t understand what it was until you mentioned it and it was like a light turned on in my head. It’s comforting knowing someone else feels the same way even if it is really hard to deal with. Just wanted to say thank you and I hope you continue to be unapologeticly yourself because you are amazing. ❤️

  • @christinamariemoney
    @christinamariemoney 6 років тому +82

    Who else thinks Remi is beautiful no matter what she looks like?! She is such a kind and loving person! Beauty comes from the inside just as much as the outside! xo

  • @kareenat8412
    @kareenat8412 5 років тому +1

    I legit only came to see this after the pretty basic episode. Just wanna say that the PB podcast has legit saved me as a person and has just mentored me on such a huge scale, so thanks for gracing us with is presence xx

  • @mirandazhang1040
    @mirandazhang1040 6 років тому +36

    remi is actually the sweetest and she deserves everything she has and more

  • @brislymonroy
    @brislymonroy 6 років тому +152

    I feel like people are just soo use to seeing you being soo innocent and sweet that now that you’ve change and are soo confident people are confused on how to react lol like how is someone who would be soo innocent jsut start being like that .. which is nothing wrong with feeling sexy lmaoo like who cares . REMI YOU fire af 😍💕💕

    • @vannylinares9667
      @vannylinares9667 6 років тому +1

      Brisly Monroy exactly!!! You know some people are just cruel others are just like wow your changing but in reality this is just you. Even if you have changed there is nothing wrong with change girl! Plus I’m sure that other girl had hate comments and she blocks them too so tbh keep it moving, keep feeling hot and sexy and beautiful you deserve it!!!!!

  • @raetvnetwork
    @raetvnetwork 6 років тому +111

    This video taught me how STRONGGG youtubers are! Like how tf do you deal??????? LOVE YOU REMI

  • @kaleighlarson7881
    @kaleighlarson7881 5 років тому +7

    Who says this kind of stuff? This almost made me cry, bc this is something you have worked hard for and it is to so not ok to say these types of things. And to people scrolling through the comments, just remember, even if they are a UA-camr, it doesn't mean they don't have feelings. Love you Remi so much! so proud of you for making this video!

    • @imanimoulton2574
      @imanimoulton2574 5 років тому

      You have the exact same name as someone ik lol

  • @anonymouscooldude8749
    @anonymouscooldude8749 6 років тому +39

    i’m not subbed to remi but i do casually watch her and i have been for a long while now. i stumbled upon this video and she DOES NOT deserve hate whatsoever. from what i’ve gathered over the past few years Remi is the sweetest person ever and i don’t think her personality has changed at all. keep doing you girl 💗💗 haters will hate and be jealous