DEALING WITH PAIN AFTER HAVING $EX FOR THE FIRST TIME || Waited Till Marriage

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  • @favournkemkah521
    @favournkemkah521 Рік тому +53

    I enjoyed watching this video. I've encountered your page several times, but felt I was too young for the "do the do" talks😂. I had the ideology that it is bad, but got to understand that it's God's special gift to married people and it's best when the bed is undefiled. I'm older now, and I always wonder what it would feel like. Basically I fantasise about it and sometimes I have the urge to test the waters but, since I heard there is pain attached to it, my mind cancels the idea. Seeing this video, it's clear that the mind acts as a factor to the pain. Thanks for the update. By the way, I'm waiting for that special someone, and by God's grace I'll wait patiently. Amen.

    • @worldofblessinguti
      @worldofblessinguti Рік тому +2

      Hey, sis, I see you.
      Thank you for sharing this.
      You're definitely not alone.
      Thank you!

    • @helena.oweaver
      @helena.oweaver Рік тому +3

      You just said my whole mind. I thought I was the only one.

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  Рік тому +6

      My love, God will bring his person to you when the time is right. I am glad you're holding on, temptations will surely come, but trust me, the wait would be so worth it.

  • @patience15andrew
    @patience15andrew Рік тому +21

    It's an honor to be part of those who wait. I look forward though. Thanks, Vickie

  • @numberkayjonathan6985
    @numberkayjonathan6985 Рік тому +6

    The major thing is your partner (male) understanding the situation and can tell you to relax and encourage you. 😊 good job madam fash!

  • @toyin_afolabi
    @toyin_afolabi Рік тому +3

    Welcome back Mrs Fash, we miss you here.
    THANK YOU LORD FOR VICTORIA

  • @deboraholonade766
    @deboraholonade766 Рік тому +27

    I got married November this year, we were both virgins by God's grace but I must tell you this sex thing is not an easy something, it took us 20days after our wedding before my husband could enter Jerusalem because of the stress and long journey of traveling back to our base, the wedding was done in the west while we live in the east, again we both fell sick that we even visited hospital because of it.
    Hmmm the day I was disvirgin eh, I cried my heart out because the pain was so much , I could see the joy on my husband face now that he's penetrating well now, he told me one day that the thing is so sweet but I must tell you the thing no be seresere, I pray I will enjoy sex well because I still use to feel pain once in a while even though he does foreplay before the do!

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  Рік тому +1

      Hmmn... my dear, it will get better. Thank you for sharing

    • @gbadeboomolara7118
      @gbadeboomolara7118 Рік тому +9

      Yes this is me,even though it's been almost 5 month I got married as a virgin,but this month,I prayed about it and God heard my prayer,I've stopped feeling pains and I've started enjoying sex,my husband even commended me that I've improved

    • @irene_peacewambui6987
      @irene_peacewambui6987 Рік тому +2

      Let me comment because I will need this encouragement when I get married. I got a pelvic injury, and I can imagine if normal body is painful 😫 how about mine... or even it blocked 😂😂😂.
      God help me!

  • @kafeenkesteem6610
    @kafeenkesteem6610 Рік тому +4

    Thanks Victoria for the many lessons you continue to share

  • @joancadeton356
    @joancadeton356 Рік тому +1

    Welcome back , I have checked UA-cam a number of time for your video. Trust you good.

  • @rebeccaolaonipekun
    @rebeccaolaonipekun Рік тому +2

    Welcome back Victoria its been a while here , i just check your channel this afternoon that it been long I hear your sweet voice and smiles ❤

  • @chiomam8380
    @chiomam8380 Рік тому +3

    Thanks for all you share. It'll be nice if you link the videos you make reference to for each new video cos sometimes it's difficult to know which video you are referring to. I love that you are real, wweldone❤ ❤❤❤

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  Рік тому

      I will, thank you... it's usually in the description box though

  • @abiodunomotola
    @abiodunomotola Рік тому +1

    I was like aunty Victoria Fash otojometa. Thank God. We are glad you're back

  • @BQ900
    @BQ900 Рік тому +1

    It’s doesn’t hurt after it stops.😂❤❤❤thank you Ms Victoria

  • @queenesther909
    @queenesther909 Рік тому +2

    Hi mama, Welcome back we missed you.
    I sha keep checking my UA-cam everyday ni.
    How are you doing?
    It nice having you back .

  • @cuprunnethover2509
    @cuprunnethover2509 Рік тому +2

    Thank you Lord for Victoria! I think maybe I should start praying about it then? Although, I am not sure when I will get married?

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  Рік тому

      It's never too late to start praying 🥰

  • @gbadeboomolara7118
    @gbadeboomolara7118 Рік тому +1

    I ran here when I saw the heading,I missed you ma'am

  • @meka7418
    @meka7418 Рік тому +5

    That's beautiful you waited until marriage I wish I would have waited till marriage too but I do hope to get married one day

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  Рік тому +2

      It's not too late to wait love. Thanks for watching ❤️

    • @samsamura2640
      @samsamura2640 Рік тому

      Leave marriage for the untouched women, they are the ones eligible. Just saying.

    • @megan_mack
      @megan_mack Рік тому

      @@samsamura2640are you untouched ?

    • @graceokrahkwakye6162
      @graceokrahkwakye6162 10 місяців тому

      ​@@samsamura2640you should be ashamed of yourself. I'm guessing you are sinless?

  • @goodnesschisomchidozie9389
    @goodnesschisomchidozie9389 Рік тому +2

    Thank you Lord for Victoria 🙇🏼‍♀️.....I really missed you ma'am 😘

  • @nanbabinbong888
    @nanbabinbong888 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for sharing, I'm waiting for the video for guys please. Need to share with my fiance, thank you.

  • @vashtirhooms2669
    @vashtirhooms2669 Рік тому

    Welcome back Victoria it's been a while I pray that the Lord will continue to surround you with his choicest blessings 🙏

  • @medeyztouche_gallery1
    @medeyztouche_gallery1 Рік тому +2

    Good day Mrs Victoria, I do and listen to your videos and I loved them alot. But I have a question for you. Please, I'm still a virgin but I and my fiance are getting married in the next two months from now. I just want to know how it feels to break virginity for the first time and for how long does it takes for the blood to stop, and or how long does it takes to get back to normal self. And also what are the changes will I have after the day of disvirgin. Must I go out the day or second day after breaking my virginity. Thank you

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  Рік тому +3

      You need to watch all my videos on wedding night. I have addressed all these questions in the past

    • @medeyztouche_gallery1
      @medeyztouche_gallery1 Рік тому +1

      Okay thanks ma

  • @angelamartekimarkwei8608
    @angelamartekimarkwei8608 Рік тому +3

    Thanks be to God you are back. Very interesting topic.

  • @edesiriimonieroh
    @edesiriimonieroh 7 місяців тому

    Thank God for victoria Fash

  • @tayucourage452
    @tayucourage452 Рік тому

    I've missed youuu, thanks for the hot🔥 tips😀

  • @blessingbabatunde8605
    @blessingbabatunde8605 Рік тому

    Welcome back
    Thank God for your life

  • @VeraPossibilities
    @VeraPossibilities Рік тому +1

    THANK YOU LORD for Victoria

  • @beatriceolatayo4145
    @beatriceolatayo4145 Рік тому

    Victoria🥺🥺🥰 welcome back!

  • @learnfrenchwithruthaniekan
    @learnfrenchwithruthaniekan Рік тому +1

    I really appreciate you Ma, God bless you Ma

  • @christianahenderson3543
    @christianahenderson3543 Рік тому +11

    I immediately click on dis..Never had sex before, always paranoid and thinking about the pain over something i haven't done😂 ..let me enjoy the video, Always trust ur insight about matters.

  • @georgiayoung9124
    @georgiayoung9124 6 місяців тому

    Don’t they have a spray called Dermoplast? It’s a numbing spray usually used after baby. Actually why not do the postpartum routine? Ice,heat,spray & rest that poor lil thang. Get him off another way.

  • @rejoiceololade1845
    @rejoiceololade1845 Рік тому

    You are so beautiful….goosh😊
    Thank you for loading me with wholesome knowledge.

  • @VaronPeters
    @VaronPeters 9 місяців тому +2

    My first time having sex, on my weeding night, i literally bled for two days, that ogah was inpatient. Ahhhhh guys come and listen dont be like that ogah

  • @ogunlekeolayinka8722
    @ogunlekeolayinka8722 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Lord for Victoria

  • @shayshay6784
    @shayshay6784 Рік тому +1

    Thank you lord for Victoria
    ❤❤

  • @uniquelifestyle36
    @uniquelifestyle36 Рік тому +1

    When the entering is about to enter😂😂. Let the singles breath o

  • @nancykinyuy8343
    @nancykinyuy8343 Рік тому +1

    Just to add,I've learnt that water lubricant is the best.

  • @delorisagwe9853
    @delorisagwe9853 Рік тому

    Second here 🥰🥰🥰
    Some wisdom

  • @eluanmark4204
    @eluanmark4204 Рік тому +9

    First here😂… I ran here I almost broke my legs😩😂😂… how have you been Victoria? It’s been a while… Thank you Lord for Victoria🙏.

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  Рік тому +1

      😄😄😄
      Please don't brake it oo
      Thanks so much

  • @deborahnabuyo7984
    @deborahnabuyo7984 Рік тому

    I heard you can use hot salty water down there to help heal faster

  • @terezasaniasammy302
    @terezasaniasammy302 Рік тому

    This is very great.Thanks victoria

  • @je39981
    @je39981 7 місяців тому

    I am waiting but my experience getting a Pap smear that was enough for me to know the type of pain I would experience. Pap smear pain is enough I couldn't imagine anything more HA LOL

  • @kathycarsondickson6460
    @kathycarsondickson6460 Рік тому +3

    First time here... I have the honestly same I am scared to have sex again because it has been almost 10 years since my ex passed away and I haven't had sex since so I'm really scared now 😂

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  Рік тому +1

      Aww, I'm so sorry. Make sure you watch the next video coming out today, I have some tips for you 😉

    • @georgiayoung9124
      @georgiayoung9124 6 місяців тому

      Me too tips for getting back in the saddle so to speak

  • @euniceolawoyin1041
    @euniceolawoyin1041 Рік тому +3

    Thank God for your life and its sustenance. Quite an ages,but thank God you're back, may God continue to watch over you 🙏.I've learnt one or two things from this content, even after about 3decades that I've been into marriage, that will be of help to me.Prior marriage there's no one to give a health talk like this to educate a first timer like me then,my friends who also waited till wedding night also roughened it, so not much was given as experience to lessen pains associated with first time doing the do.But thank God hubby too was a first timer this enabled him understand the pain,its like ,his gentleness and patience and been kind eased the related pains before the body adjusted to it.But now I can educate others in my shoe by sharing with them this video (girls getting ready for marriage ).Thanks Vicky for this content 👍👍👍👍❤❤❤.

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  Рік тому

      Love it! Thank you so much for sharing ma

  • @marriagematers
    @marriagematers Рік тому +1

    Nice teaching but if I may advice if u can avoid lubricant do becos some of this lubricant has some chemicals that nutralises the strength of the semen expecially if you are trying to convince. Learn your partner and know the forplay that works for her

    • @matthewsuccess3005
      @matthewsuccess3005 Рік тому +2

      Has this been proven scientifically? Besides it's just to make it easy for penetration at first and then as time goes on they can go without lubes.

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  Рік тому

      Not true though. Using saliva as lubricant does that. Not waterbased lube

    • @abundancemo
      @abundancemo Рік тому

      There are lubricant made specifically for people who want to conceive and have difficulties. It's called "preseed". Meanwhile, lubricant doesn't neutralize the potency of the semen.

    • @rajitaiwo4139
      @rajitaiwo4139 Рік тому

      Thks sis it's was every painful for me
      My first nite I hate him but he later beg me
      After 2weeks

  • @monicahwafula2120
    @monicahwafula2120 Рік тому

    Thank you so much for sharing this!!

  • @zarrzarr9989
    @zarrzarr9989 Рік тому

    What men turns a women on she is already prepared it take time

  • @judithakpos
    @judithakpos Рік тому

    Thank you so much for this.

  • @Temitope_Lawal
    @Temitope_Lawal Рік тому

    Never had it. And I'm so scared right now because it's so close😢

  • @nursepearl4455
    @nursepearl4455 Рік тому

    Thank you ma

  • @TheOkoroblessing
    @TheOkoroblessing Рік тому +1

    👌💖