I spent a day with EX-AMISH (who escaped)

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  • @AnthonyPadilla
    @AnthonyPadilla  3 роки тому +3850

    come back in just over a week for *I spent a day with DREAM*
    THE PODCAST:
    ≡ ▸ open.spotify.com/show/5aOLuPenneHbhLh05fmkeu
     ▸ podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-spent-a-day-with/id1550213250

    • @kytota1470
      @kytota1470 3 роки тому +143

      Dope, I’ll definitely stick around for that.

    • @chaimeu
      @chaimeu 3 роки тому +190

      can't wait for Green bean man

    • @moon.mp3148
      @moon.mp3148 3 роки тому +153

      Homeless green blob man woohoo

    • @moon.mp3148
      @moon.mp3148 3 роки тому +23

      @@chaimeu yeee

    • @t00thless46
      @t00thless46 3 роки тому +6

      @@moon.mp3148 yee

  • @Jay-xr6dc
    @Jay-xr6dc 3 роки тому +12747

    It’s crazy to think that she called a stranger, ran away from her parents and known life with said stranger and then had to build a life for her self with no qualifications and $50

    • @natl5692
      @natl5692 3 роки тому +59

      Just like Madonna!

    • @natl5692
      @natl5692 3 роки тому +39

      (sorry this is a joke, don't hate me)

    • @jaffrry5120
      @jaffrry5120 3 роки тому +617

      The person that gave the phone seems like they're on a mission to get people out of there.

    • @nicolen3177
      @nicolen3177 3 роки тому +165

      That's scary 😂 But she had the courage to do so! And look where she is now

    • @oliviac295
      @oliviac295 3 роки тому +165

      Yeah it's like they gaslight you into thinking the world outside is dangerous and wrong while at the same time not knowing much about it so it's hard to leave

  • @panditopanda772
    @panditopanda772 3 роки тому +43140

    Can we just talk about the fact that Emma was forced to sleep with a man when she didn’t want to? That is so awful that any girl must go through that at a young age

    • @Mai-tai-
      @Mai-tai- 3 роки тому +5324

      Right, I'm mad at the comments saying that "escaped" was a bad word to use in the title because it is 100% the right word in her case and I'm happy she's free

    • @user-qh6gn8lf7k
      @user-qh6gn8lf7k 3 роки тому +2070

      Exactly I couldn’t stop thinking about how vulnerable that situation is

    • @Okkkkkkk-ol5kz
      @Okkkkkkk-ol5kz 3 роки тому +2363

      Yeah I really didn’t like the way that Anthony just laughed it off and made light of it. I know he’s trying to ease the tension but it came off as strange and insensitive

    • @mariapelzer8005
      @mariapelzer8005 3 роки тому +659

      @@Okkkkkkk-ol5kz Yeah I was about to comment that too, it seemed insensitive af

    • @anoukferwerda9699
      @anoukferwerda9699 3 роки тому +742

      @@Mai-tai- knowing Anthony and his team, the title was probably picked with the best intentions. He even put up a pole with different options

  • @strawberrymilk6963
    @strawberrymilk6963 3 роки тому +5485

    I love how Antony said that he had ignorant ideas about Amish people but was still wanted to learn about them and be more insightful

    • @pvic6959
      @pvic6959 3 роки тому +182

      this whole series is to make the ignorant people less ignorant. I absolutely love what hes doing with the reach he has. 10/10 all around great dude

    • @meganmullis5386
      @meganmullis5386 3 роки тому +49

      I know, I love Anthony's perspective, just going in admitting that he doesn't know about the topic and wants to learn, that's what true journalism is, but it's also just amazing to see someone so down to earth and humble. I wasn't sure how to feel about him leaving smosh when he did a few years ago because I had been a fan of smosh since I was a kid, but I'm so happy to see what he did with his new platform and to see that he uses his fame to constantly spread insight and awareness on lesser known topics is so great. He's honestly one of my favorite UA-camrs because of that and his general attitude.

    • @Weepysponge
      @Weepysponge 3 роки тому +2

      He knew more than I did 😳

    • @fablefanboy
      @fablefanboy 3 роки тому +2

      Yeah Antony is great haha antony

    • @AugustTheStag
      @AugustTheStag 3 роки тому

      Anthony**

  • @daniellespelich3029
    @daniellespelich3029 3 роки тому +10810

    The woman who gave Emma her number and picked her up is an angel. I love that she’s helping other young women escape the Amish community.

    • @bill7759
      @bill7759 2 роки тому +13

      Chihuahua

    • @rataqueso2307
      @rataqueso2307 2 роки тому +5

      @@bill7759 chihuahua

    • @bill7759
      @bill7759 2 роки тому +6

      @@rataqueso2307 deer head chihuahua

    • @rataqueso2307
      @rataqueso2307 2 роки тому +5

      @@bill7759 chihuahua

    • @bill7759
      @bill7759 2 роки тому

      @@rataqueso2307 teacup chihuahua

  • @heyo_potato
    @heyo_potato 3 роки тому +14902

    I helped an ex-amish escape... she's living her best life now. We cut her hair, bleached it, took her to new places, she got a job. She is happy she left.

    • @AnxietyRat
      @AnxietyRat 3 роки тому +359

      So happy to hear she is doing better! You are amazing for helping that woman. 😊👍

    • @identifierat
      @identifierat 3 роки тому +214

      @Sumeyo Hassan the introduction of the video explains what amish is; now, an ex-amish is someone who used to have that lifestyle but doesn't anymore.

    • @acog_is_good1650
      @acog_is_good1650 3 роки тому +33

      love how u have like a 2month old account and a picture of a child as your pfp either youre a bot, a child, or its just a coincidence

    • @skyward8893
      @skyward8893 3 роки тому +123

      @@acog_is_good1650 or you could just have made a new account?

    • @acog_is_good1650
      @acog_is_good1650 3 роки тому +10

      @@skyward8893 it looks like the definition of a fake account tbh

  • @danicatempleton6745
    @danicatempleton6745 3 роки тому +18157

    The concept of having saved money for a year thinking you'll be set, only to have it actually just be $50 is actually low-key terrifying

    • @Average_FooFighters_Fan
      @Average_FooFighters_Fan 3 роки тому +579

      Sadly some countries function like this even today

    • @yoshikagekira7343
      @yoshikagekira7343 3 роки тому +18

      Ikr

    • @galacticspaceGuy
      @galacticspaceGuy 2 роки тому +55

      @@Average_FooFighters_Fan unfortunately true, the good thing is one of these is Russia's currency which will hopefully help Ukraine in the war against Russia. If Russia wins and eventually invades a country in the NAVO ww3 will def start

    • @Br00ke291
      @Br00ke291 2 роки тому +27

      @@galacticspaceGuy yes. I do hope no war happens. So many people have already died or were forced to leave there families. Imagine how it will be if a war does happen

    • @NotePortal
      @NotePortal 2 роки тому +9

      thats like 13 cents per day

  • @pangolin1489
    @pangolin1489 3 роки тому +7090

    that ceiling has battle scars at this point

    • @TheBepis1309
      @TheBepis1309 3 роки тому +183

      I'd imagine that they don't even fix it, they just put in a prop 2×4 and some sawdust for him to jump through each time.

    • @libertylibertylibertyliber1520
      @libertylibertylibertyliber1520 3 роки тому +45

      @@TheBepis1309 I thought he was actually jumping but the things falling were special effects.

    • @Tominzay
      @Tominzay 3 роки тому +39

      "battle scars" I always say this in jaspers voice

    • @cyracandella2226
      @cyracandella2226 3 роки тому +37

      It's gotta be special effects. I never for a second thought he was actually jumping through the ceiling and then I've seen people commenting on it and I'm like ???? I just don't think it would make sense that he's actually jumping through the ceiling in each video.

    • @sunsetskye483
      @sunsetskye483 3 роки тому +60

      @@cyracandella2226 They know that, they’re joking

  • @kalyriewells
    @kalyriewells 3 роки тому +1046

    I just visited the Amish last weekend and it definitely was quite bizarre. The guide who took us through the town boasted about how no babies cried and mothers only fed the children but other than that they were left to fend for themselves. We did end up seeing a baby that looked about maybe 1 almost 2. He didn't utter a word. Never laughed or smiled. Just sat stock still with no curiosity at all. It was so sad

    • @bigclitenergy
      @bigclitenergy 2 роки тому +206

      That honestly sounds like emotional neglect

    • @okapibibi
      @okapibibi Рік тому +143

      @@bigclitenergy The Amish make me sad whenever I think about them. The physical, emotional, and sexual abuse of children is very prevalent in Amish communities. They keep to themselves and live as though they were in the 1800s to be "closer to God", but they do so many barbaric things to each other and their animals that, if their God approves of behaviour like that, then I can't imagine what their heaven is like. It's distraught to learn about the reality of these people.

    • @bigclitenergy
      @bigclitenergy Рік тому +17

      @@okapibibi god everything you said was beautifully accurate

    • @firemonkey1015
      @firemonkey1015 Рік тому +4

      @@okapibibiCan I get a statistic on this? Or are you just touting a load of fear monger and nonsense? I’ve never heard of any of this happening and I lived near several Amish communities.

    • @thepengyknight
      @thepengyknight Рік тому +26

      Living in an Amish community was so incredibly boring that even the babies were just staring into the distance, having nothing better to do

  • @tronontouch9925
    @tronontouch9925 3 роки тому +21437

    I love how respectful Anthony is to everyone, he never shamed anyone or made them feel bad for what they’ve gone through

    • @andii-
      @andii- 3 роки тому +525

      except the flat earthers lmao. then he was trolling them.

    • @PersonTP
      @PersonTP 3 роки тому +103

      Except if we think about the Trisha Paytas and DID situation... He acted out on anger and frustration instead of thinking clearly

    • @thesaltyspitoon6342
      @thesaltyspitoon6342 3 роки тому +26

      Why would he

    • @TheseUseless
      @TheseUseless 3 роки тому +117

      I mean, you gotta remember that children are often indoctrinated into religion. It isn't often a choice people make.

    • @ordinary_nosebleed5077
      @ordinary_nosebleed5077 3 роки тому +6

      The video for me is 26 minutes ago and this comment is 29 minutes ago

  • @paintmeupgolden
    @paintmeupgolden 3 роки тому +6532

    “turns out she had left the amish 30 years before” wow! and she’s helping other amish leave when they’re ready. that’s wild

    • @Zeiko501
      @Zeiko501 3 роки тому +124

      That woman is a hero!

    • @daisydee5398
      @daisydee5398 3 роки тому +8

      im sure this comment nor the reply is meant to be a joke.
      _but _*_boy_*_ does my brain like to think it is-_

    • @StarField369
      @StarField369 3 роки тому +24

      @@daisydee5398 i think the way it’s written reads as sarcasm, even if it’s not

    • @aur9035
      @aur9035 3 роки тому

      @@StarField369 yeah its the !

    • @erxs
      @erxs 2 роки тому +10

      @@chlorhex6785 it's not hard to recognize when someone is part of a community you used to be part of when they dress the same way you used to dress and behave the same way you used to behave. the woman obviously recognized that she was amish, and slipped her the phone number on a piece of paper or whatever. as for the phone, it was either given to her by the woman as well, she bought it with the money she spent years saving up (though i doubt, since she obviously didn't know the value of things before she escaped), or it was stolen (which i also doubt, because that's definitely a sin to the amish). so probably given to her along with the phone number.

  • @alicestefani5111
    @alicestefani5111 3 роки тому +15105

    They believed that if they went out of the community they would burn in a never ending fire and they still preferred leaving... that says a lot about what they have endured

    • @catherinetyndale1734
      @catherinetyndale1734 3 роки тому +387

      Never ending fire sounds like a fear tactic

    • @tamakiamajiki675
      @tamakiamajiki675 3 роки тому +434

      @@catherinetyndale1734 totally. Sounds like they were using fear to help keep ppl in place.

    • @hey_lavenderboy4208
      @hey_lavenderboy4208 3 роки тому +241

      @@tamakiamajiki675 jehovahs witnesses have a similar thing but they kinda sugar coat it. Instead of going to burn in hell it's like oh you don't want to live in paradise? Then you'll no longer exist and just be dust and not live forever like the rest of us if you don't convert

    • @ssunsspott
      @ssunsspott 3 роки тому +62

      Maybe this is speaking to my ignorance but why are Amish communities allowed still? It's all feels so... manipulative

    • @tamakiamajiki675
      @tamakiamajiki675 3 роки тому +113

      @@ssunsspott freedom of religion/ beliefs I guess

  • @jessicacopland7382
    @jessicacopland7382 3 роки тому +542

    When the girl said she was pulled out of school at 15 and she was so sad because she had dreams of going to college, I suddenly got choked up and was really surprised how hard that hit me emotionally. I was raised jehovah's witness and I was pressured to leave school before I graduated. When I went to college against my mother's wishes, I was basically cut off. I got kicked out about a year later and have been shunned ever since.

    • @juxp16
      @juxp16 2 роки тому +29

      This seems really hard but i‘m proud of you for following your dreams. What you did takes courage and strength. I hope you‘ve built a good and peaceful life for yourself! Wishing you all the best :)

    • @TeddyBruises
      @TeddyBruises Рік тому +20

      As a fellow ex jw, I'm proud of you for following your heart 💖 you'll be much happier living the life you want, not the life you are expected to have.

    • @priyasathasivam304
      @priyasathasivam304 Рік тому +4

      different cultures are so so interesting, i’m south east asian and my family would be BEYOND disappointed if i weren’t in university right now

  • @chubster05
    @chubster05 3 роки тому +9824

    i love how anthony padilla's channel teaches you about different ways of life an experiences people have had, it's really interesting.

    • @AxxLAfriku
      @AxxLAfriku 3 роки тому +2

      ORORORORO!!! I spend half of my day sleeping! ORORORO!!! Then I sometimes get up and tell you that I am a famous content creatorORORORORO!!! Please don't sleep while driving, dear chu

    • @kerollaynemoreira7536
      @kerollaynemoreira7536 3 роки тому +45

      I don't think there's anyone putting anything out like his channel, he's on another level when it comes to content and care and specially impact

    • @imbored...4102
      @imbored...4102 3 роки тому +3

      Ur pfp is awesome 👏

    • @oliviaandani7295
      @oliviaandani7295 3 роки тому +3

      Pfp is immaculate

    • @abbadabbado
      @abbadabbado 3 роки тому +3

      Agreed. I always feel like I've learned things.

  • @chaimeu
    @chaimeu 3 роки тому +9903

    I feel like Anthony is like one of the most open minded and respectful people on youtube.

    • @chaimeu
      @chaimeu 3 роки тому +173

      @@meatismurderbevegan4224 I can smell the fish bait from here

    • @mayadraws7934
      @mayadraws7934 3 роки тому +198

      @@meatismurderbevegan4224 be respectful of others lifestyles they don’t hav to be vegan!

    • @isuckedurmum9709
      @isuckedurmum9709 3 роки тому +20

      Your pfp gives me hope that the fandom is still alive 💀🤚

    • @ILikeBirds
      @ILikeBirds 3 роки тому +4

      Easily

    • @islathegamer7167
      @islathegamer7167 3 роки тому +9

      If I don't want to be vegan I don't have to

  • @row7707
    @row7707 3 роки тому +4211

    In middle school there was a Mennonite girl in my class and I just remember how hard it was on her. She was the only Mennonite girl in the school and other students as well as a couple of substitute teachers would really bully her. I could tell how she had such a hard time fitting in since she was home schooled before and how hard her parents were on her at times and told her not to hang out with anyone that was wearing shorts.

    • @eyesneveropen-meow-5125
      @eyesneveropen-meow-5125 3 роки тому +279

      the teachers fuckin bullied her?

    • @babyyodel3738
      @babyyodel3738 3 роки тому +94

      I grew up in a mennonite heavy town so I want to school with a few and they were also given a hard time by teachers and other kids

    • @howiegruwitz3173
      @howiegruwitz3173 3 роки тому

      That's not real Amish tho

    • @cajdoesstuff9454
      @cajdoesstuff9454 3 роки тому +66

      @@howiegruwitz3173 doesn’t matter they are similar enough

    • @waterwraith1189
      @waterwraith1189 3 роки тому +34

      @@cajdoesstuff9454 They have similar beliefs but their distinctions are important.

  • @camilam3975
    @camilam3975 2 роки тому +2267

    For what i've perceived to be a super conservative lifestyle/community, i am STUNNED to hear they would allow boys and girls to sleep in the same bed in the middle of the night, especially without consent. I don't understand why they would allow that at all

    • @rahxthehorror
      @rahxthehorror 2 роки тому +374

      What happens behind closed gates can be horrific.
      My sister in laws ex husband was part of an extremist Christian cult when he was a kid. Its was drilled into them not to have sex before marriage.... However apparently there were secret passages leading to the leaders rooms/offices. If I remember correctly, he said he would watch his sisters being taken through them during the day while the parents weren't there (The family lived outside the main camp but still big part of community and the kids would go to school within the camp) But couldn't say anything in fear of being beaten. His sisters won't talk about what happened but we can all guess :(

    • @stadot1427
      @stadot1427 2 роки тому +99

      @@rahxthehorror as terrible as that is...it's still secretive. It's hypocritical, definitely, but there's some sense of "we know this isn't right, so we have to keep it a secret". But when the standard tradition for the whole community is unmarried people spending the night together, it just doesn't follow at all.

    • @camilam3975
      @camilam3975 2 роки тому +78

      @@rahxthehorror that’s so horrible omg. Those poor girls

    • @elinolike
      @elinolike 2 роки тому

      you'd be surprised about how much boys and men can get away with within conservative communities

    • @HomoAlone1
      @HomoAlone1 2 роки тому +97

      I think in those communities in general, your body is not your own. It is mostly belongs to the authority figure, either a cult leader, your parents(of course not your mother lol.), or some elders(yes also dudes, what is a woman? Lol.)

  • @shaylacook6966
    @shaylacook6966 3 роки тому +14684

    Anthony! Would you consider doing an episode with residential school survivors? In Canada, we just got news that a mass grave of 215 children was uncovered in the West. These schools were in operation up until 1996, and the history and experiences from these schools still impact Indigenous peoples today. Myself included. It is an issue that is sometimes not taken seriously by people who don’t have a family connection to the horrific events that went on at these schools, some people feel that we should just “move on”. It would be amazing to spread knowledge on this history and give survivors, families, and Indigenous peoples a platform to share their stories! I love your content & understand this suggestion is not an easy one to go about. Thank you for giving so many people a platform to share their stories, and sharing these interviews with us! I’ve learned so much from your videos!

    • @nathaliel3611
      @nathaliel3611 3 роки тому +217

      boosting this!

    • @RK-is1xp
      @RK-is1xp 3 роки тому +69

      Even if he did the us that would be good

    • @friendlyfirecracker1276
      @friendlyfirecracker1276 3 роки тому +30

      👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

    • @cynderelliee
      @cynderelliee 3 роки тому +85

      I would watch and support a million times over

    • @pinlight97
      @pinlight97 3 роки тому +102

      Amazing idea...fellow Canadian and teacher who just finished a First Nations, Métis, Inuit course.

  • @Sunshine0235
    @Sunshine0235 3 роки тому +7439

    My horse is ex amish. She was abused by them head shy and wasn't trusting. It's been a year now and she's doing better. Still flinches from stuff occasionally and random things will freak her out(like a hoodie in your hand ) thinking you're about to hit her. I didn't want her to go back to the amish so I brought her home and she had her baby 6 weeks after, so saved 2 from them.

    • @applepeachbirdduckmaster801
      @applepeachbirdduckmaster801 3 роки тому +544

      My barn has an Amish rescue as well. Someone else had her first, but we do know she went to them with a broken jaw, and she doesn’t really act like a horse most of the time. Never seen a hose or a sponge or cross ties or anything. She’s gotten better mostly though.

    • @Veratheprettiest
      @Veratheprettiest 3 роки тому +174

      Ugh yuck. Glad you're taking care of them though!!

    • @Lena-xy8id
      @Lena-xy8id 2 роки тому +156

      Yeah they're not great to their animals

    • @Suninrags
      @Suninrags 2 роки тому +334

      I dont quite understand why the amish abuse animals? Like... they are supposed to be pious Christians shouldn't they have respect for their horses as they rely in them a lot? And they are also God's creations? (I don't belive in gods but putting myself in their perspective)

    • @kaylee1769
      @kaylee1769 2 роки тому +53

      The poor baby 🥺so glad you saved her

  • @joshdilley8077
    @joshdilley8077 3 роки тому +1817

    We have a gentleman in our church that grew up Amish hearing the stories of how he grew up is really interesting. The best thing is he is still able to talk to his parent’s on a weekly basis they have a great relationship even though he left the Amish church

    • @nutkja
      @nutkja 3 роки тому +103

      As a Mennonite (non plain clothes type) I wish we had seen this perspective. These interviewees came from some of the strictest Amish communities. Many other Amish communities are more liberal and open these days.

    • @joshdilley8077
      @joshdilley8077 3 роки тому +37

      @@nutkja yes I would 100% agree with that most communities have moved on and learned to accept certain things we are from northeast Indiana so I was a little surprised with the northern Indiana point of view

    • @waterwraith1189
      @waterwraith1189 3 роки тому +39

      ​@@nutkja I personally disagree with the existence of gated communities(it's unhealthy) and the insidious religious manipulation that occurs there. People need to interact with AND live near others of different backgrounds and experiences. It's crucial. Their beliefs are also for the most part- with some exceptions- destructive and outdated. I also heavily disagree with missionary work. "Missionary work is just another name for colonization." I think having a more diverse set of interviewees is important, as long as it's not heavily skewed in support of these types of communities because I believe it should be discouraged. I don't think every community is this strict or conservative, but I also don't disagree with it being a cult. The way I define a cult is contentious, anyhow. I like diversity, I don't like ethnic/racial homogeneity. I also disagree with raising a kid religious, especially if it's a dualist faith- I find it abusive. (god/devil, good/evil)

    • @a7fog324
      @a7fog324 3 роки тому +14

      @@joshdilley8077 CJ Kate and Emma are all near the age of 30. they grew up in the 2000s so any of the progressive amish that you're familiar with is probably relatively new

    • @joshdilley8077
      @joshdilley8077 3 роки тому +3

      @@a7fog324 the gentleman from our church is 33 I really think it all just depends which community your from

  • @linda_bertino
    @linda_bertino 3 роки тому +885

    I met an Amish girl in Pennsylvania, she was the sweetest. we shared the same name and birthday. we called here and there but she decided to stay within the Amish community. her family was open towards me and said that the next time i visit i can have dinner with her family.

    • @cashagon
      @cashagon 2 роки тому +125

      From what I've seen and heard each Amish community is different. Because they don't typically use phones or have a computer they are more isolated. What one group does, another might not. Some usemcars, some don't. Some let their kids wear t-shirts, others don't. (Mostly I've seen boys wear t-shirts, not so much the girls)

    • @linda_bertino
      @linda_bertino 2 роки тому +60

      @@cashagon what I know is that she used the old home phones to call me and her family was welcoming to me and even answered the phone. I spoke to her mom and she was really nice

    • @firemonkey1015
      @firemonkey1015 Рік тому +9

      @@cashagonWell yeah, I don’t know why people think they’re all the same. It’s like with us, not every family is exactly the same even though we live in the same society. A lot of people hating on the Amish here for no reason at all. Every Amish person I’ve met was super nice and giving.

  • @threadyprawn8944
    @threadyprawn8944 3 роки тому +4658

    I still remember one time when I was 4-6, my Uncle had an Amish family come over for something, and I was sitting on the couch playing with my Ds. The family had kids over, they seen me, and immediately came over to see what I had, so I introduced them to Pokemon and tried teaching them how to play it. It was the first time I met Amish people, and I was so shocked at how they didn't know what Pokemon was or Spongebob, and just kept telling them all about it, and watched some episodes of Spongebob with them to show them more. The parents didn't like me though, I remember them making dirty looks at me when they came over

    • @softie_vinyl
      @softie_vinyl 3 роки тому +851

      theyre just mad they couldnt be pokemon masters

    • @banana-uo3be
      @banana-uo3be 3 роки тому +79

      @@softie_vinyl lmaoo

    • @Blazedasonic
      @Blazedasonic 2 роки тому +118

      First time I ever played a Pokémon game was at an Amish person’s house because they had Pokémon Blue on a Gameboy Color.

    • @lover_gurl
      @lover_gurl 2 роки тому +31

      Wow- ty for telling

    • @pemo2676
      @pemo2676 2 роки тому +142

      i cant imagine sitting there judging a ~5 year old like something disgusting, its petulant behaviour to give dirty looks to a *small child* for christs sake

  • @bowie8068
    @bowie8068 3 роки тому +2652

    imagine having parents as understanding as Anthony
    *Couldnt be me*

    • @Strawberry_PopTart
      @Strawberry_PopTart 3 роки тому +41

      This is unrelated to ur comment, but I like ur pfp

    • @bowie8068
      @bowie8068 3 роки тому +14

      @@Strawberry_PopTart Thank you

    • @jaythecryptid3655
      @jaythecryptid3655 3 роки тому +3

      I wish 💔

    • @shivamparikh9471
      @shivamparikh9471 3 роки тому +3

      @catto hate the annoying ones like these not all some are chil

    • @idkmypurposeman.3606
      @idkmypurposeman.3606 3 роки тому +5

      @@meatismurderbevegan4224 .....being vegan makes you insane cuz you can't have the nutrients in meat.....suck it up

  • @Athena_420
    @Athena_420 3 роки тому +2459

    I wonder if the reason that girl’s family didn’t use forks is because they resemble pitchfork which is associated with the devil or something?

    • @alliefoster4942
      @alliefoster4942 3 роки тому +337

      Ive heard that some peoples beliefs are that it too closely resembles a farm tool that is usually used to shovel poop and stuff like that so that could also be too

    • @something3638
      @something3638 3 роки тому +155

      No, i dont think it could be associated with the devil, i think its because its more of a farm tool. You use a hayfork for hay, and it sounds like they just do a lot of farming!

    • @nevadag606
      @nevadag606 3 роки тому +147

      That’s actually the reason modern forks have 4 prongs, originally they had two that wasn’t enough grip y’a know, so they made it 3. The church said “it looks like satan’s tail! It looks like a trident/pitchfork!” So they upped it to 4 and it just stuck lmao

    • @mthra164
      @mthra164 3 роки тому +56

      @@nevadag606 they started out as just a metal thorn to poke your meat with. It's kind of cool how forks evolved.

    • @pvic6959
      @pvic6959 3 роки тому +40

      @@nevadag606 imagine that power move though. yeah satan, I eat with your tail. what you goanna do about that""

  • @whistlindiesel
    @whistlindiesel 3 роки тому +8570

    Since we’re on the subject of cults, do jehovahs witnesses!

    • @HolaHolaHola420
      @HolaHolaHola420 3 роки тому +226

      Ik not apart of it, but I didnt know it was a cult, I thought it was a religion

    • @cherry_blossom5372
      @cherry_blossom5372 3 роки тому +503

      @@HolaHolaHola420 it is considered a religion I believe. I have a jehovas witness friend and she lives a totally normal life apart from she goes to religious meetings.

    • @alexiscarter2697
      @alexiscarter2697 3 роки тому +47

      My grandma is a Jehovah’s Witness

    • @chenstormstout9456
      @chenstormstout9456 3 роки тому +503

      If anyone hasn’t watched Chris Stuckmann’s video on growing up a Jehovah’s Witness, please do. They’re so much worse than you think.

    • @potat5140
      @potat5140 3 роки тому +127

      My cousin in law is practicing it with his family and nothing crazy there. They have meetings, help each other etc. I think some of their beliefs are a bit out there ( no blood transfusion for ex ), but nothing like this insanity, so I dont think its anything cult like, or any other religion would be a cult as well

  • @reaganaltman1753
    @reaganaltman1753 3 роки тому +8573

    "the amish religion is a cult. leave" i love that lmaoo

    • @KreeZafi
      @KreeZafi 3 роки тому +418

      Love how straightforward he was about that, I hate it when people tiptoe around such things out of fear of offending people

    • @cakesareokay8134
      @cakesareokay8134 3 роки тому +61

      @@KreeZafi I get that but also people cancel you over the littlest things like Tommy I saw someone try and cancel him for being in the Dream SMP or talking to Tubbo

    • @KreeZafi
      @KreeZafi 3 роки тому +70

      @@cakesareokay8134 I understand why people avoid saying controversial things. It's just unfortunate that it has to be that way.

    • @bl1zzard234
      @bl1zzard234 3 роки тому +19

      @@cakesareokay8134 the same thing that happened to tommy happened to FaZe kalei, the newest faze female member, got banned from tik tok cause she joined faze

    • @gargeebanerjee2333
      @gargeebanerjee2333 3 роки тому +28

      @SAMIRA AMINJONOVA no

  • @ahzidag394
    @ahzidag394 3 роки тому +7476

    I just realized he's looking at a framed green screen.

    • @mint7908
      @mint7908 3 роки тому +383

      wait thats why its looks sus

    • @dead-claudia
      @dead-claudia 3 роки тому +195

      tbf tvs with frames like that do exist

    • @prig1557
      @prig1557 3 роки тому +11

      @@mint7908 SUS

    • @Hyperkooki
      @Hyperkooki 3 роки тому +218

      hes video chatting them....

    • @gachafoxyt3590
      @gachafoxyt3590 3 роки тому +255

      @@Hyperkooki yeah, but the green screen allows the editors to put the video chat in the video

  • @cuuntrisma993
    @cuuntrisma993 3 роки тому +1068

    My best friend is an a ex Amish and they have no family left in the Amish community but we’re trying to find them on the outside world

    • @jennaye8142
      @jennaye8142 3 роки тому +61

      good luck to you both! I'm sure it's hard not knowing where their family is.

    • @brianna3785
      @brianna3785 3 роки тому +8

      I hope you find them! Best of luck :]

    • @ABAO2009
      @ABAO2009 3 роки тому +8

      wait, so they all escaped separately?

    • @Kohixhu
      @Kohixhu 3 роки тому +4

      @@ABAO2009 I think yhat that person escaped alone and then a long while later their family escaped separate

    • @moonsnakesheddingskin
      @moonsnakesheddingskin 3 роки тому +1

      Someone in my family escaped a long time ago, before my grandparents were born, & I later had a chance to meet some Amish that were able to show in their family bible that we were indeed cousins some generations back, but they said they could not acknowledge the relationship. I was 7 or so & I observed how the women & children were treated & the general vibe of the whole thing made me grateful that my great-great whatever got out of there.

  • @jimthescrub
    @jimthescrub 2 роки тому +367

    This reminds me when my mom took me back-to-school shopping last year and this amish couple came in. The husband was literally TELLING the wife what shoes she was going to wear, and I nearly blew up.

    • @alonnamarie5134
      @alonnamarie5134 Рік тому +55

      My OBGYN said he isn’t even allowed to talk to his female Amish patients, there is a group of elders that come in and stay in the waiting room they are consulted and decide everything

    • @lizg8055
      @lizg8055 Рік тому +8

      @@alonnamarie5134 wow

  • @ashleysartattack5600
    @ashleysartattack5600 3 роки тому +841

    My grandmother’s next door neighbors were Amish. This was in Hagerstown, MD, near the PA border. They let me play with their kids and their dog when I was a child. But they had a huge fight because when my grandfather passed away, my grandma decided to date again and they thought it was very inappropriate for her to have a boyfriend stay the night at her house. It really broke her heart because she was friends with them for so many years. My grandmother passed away shortly after and my family blamed them because they think their judgment of my grandmother is what killed her, literally.

    • @Theirtherethere.
      @Theirtherethere. 3 роки тому +9

      I live in southern md .. right next to alot of Amish ppl ..and a shit ton of basically Amish market strip malls lol but outside lol

    • @scarletshield009
      @scarletshield009 3 роки тому +11

      Isn't there a concept that certain people's life is beyond their control?

    • @wb739
      @wb739 3 роки тому

      @@scarletshield009 (No)

    • @scarletshield009
      @scarletshield009 3 роки тому

      @@wb739 so they believe in pronouncing judgment upon others?

    • @wb739
      @wb739 3 роки тому +26

      @@scarletshield009 it's part of maintaining control/the cult.
      Maintaining a position of authority, yes even to the point of claiming to either know or pronounce the condemnation of 'outsiders' is part of how control is maintained. If you understood that the religious leaders that make your life miserable had no control or were wrong about those outside your community, they lose power to manipulate you to stay.
      I was raised Mennonite (Amish is a sect of the Mennonite denomination), and there are many positions I still respect, but the system, the patriarchal set-up, the ways 'community' and adherence are maintained are very much cult tactics.
      Getting kicked out has honestly been like realizing your childhood was abusive- you look back and see how absolutely twisted 'normal' was.
      I still struggle now and then with feeling like I should be 'ashamed' not because I believe I've done anything wrong or angered a God, but simply because my family/community believes I have, and that is what is final authority in cult indoctrination.

  • @elm7942
    @elm7942 3 роки тому +1366

    This could easily have a Part 2. I was so intrigued by their stories that the video felt short. I guess I expected more on the topic, still a great video as always.

    • @nutkja
      @nutkja 3 роки тому +41

      I really wish Anthony had included more about Amish/Mennonite history. It really helps explain why these communities are the way they are today. Also I wish they would have pointed out that the Amish are just a branch of the broader Mennonite church. Most Mennonites today are more liberal.

    • @sunsetskye483
      @sunsetskye483 3 роки тому +2

      Agreed, I’d love to see more about this

    • @mandieeXD
      @mandieeXD 3 роки тому +10

      Kate's actually from a show called Breaking Amish on TLC. If you have a chance, check it out!

    • @stratosphere94
      @stratosphere94 3 роки тому +1

      @@mandieeXD that show has some prooooblems tho

    • @mandieeXD
      @mandieeXD 3 роки тому

      @@stratosphere94 You don't have to watch it 🤷‍♀️

  • @ninagoode6300
    @ninagoode6300 3 роки тому +1676

    Hi Anthony! I’m from Canada and we just found out devastating news that 215 children from residential schools were found deceased. I would love for you to interview families of those who were forced into residential schools so people around the world can learn about this and understand the generational trauma Indigenous people face today.

    • @alliexcx5576
      @alliexcx5576 3 роки тому +16

      Well. That makes me feel depressed

    • @mollytaylorsversion3865
      @mollytaylorsversion3865 3 роки тому +22

      I’m from Canada too, and I met a family with some dead children. I cried.

    • @FogCrawlerTT
      @FogCrawlerTT 2 роки тому +24

      Wow a lot is going on in Canada that we don't know about, I've never even heard of residential schools. Condolences to the families for their losses.

    • @frost_the_sn2678
      @frost_the_sn2678 2 роки тому +6

      @@FogCrawlerTT aren’t the families dead by now since residential schools happened a while back

    • @kittysoftpaws3677
      @kittysoftpaws3677 2 роки тому +9

      I get generational trauma if it was like under 100 years ago and it doesn't really make sense for it to be continuing so severely after 100 years but apparently this was in like 1996 right? It's wild shit like this is still happening for no good reason
      Modern civil society my ass

  • @nathanr5737
    @nathanr5737 3 роки тому +695

    I'm glad you got three people from different Amish communities, means we really get a wider outlook on the lifestyle and not just one experience

    • @andiehernandez1995
      @andiehernandez1995 2 роки тому +7

      I'm not from the US and I thought the Amish only lived in Pennsylvania. It's interesting to know they also live in other states.

  • @audrey2658
    @audrey2658 3 роки тому +1411

    no one will ever convince me the amish arent a cult

    • @giftenjoyer3664
      @giftenjoyer3664 3 роки тому +41

      @waterbottlegamingtv I'm talking about a kind of mindset/system that sacrifices meaningful things in life such as community and religion for utility and for a number on a balance sheet. It spreads like a disease so that is what I called it.

    • @gargeebanerjee2333
      @gargeebanerjee2333 3 роки тому +2

      @@giftenjoyer3664 mindset and systems are very different things and the person you responded to were not talking you

    • @gargeebanerjee2333
      @gargeebanerjee2333 3 роки тому +12

      @@giftenjoyer3664 and if you're religion forces you to sleep with people you don't like then that's like being immune to fever but instead you get cancer,the fever referencing modernity .

    • @giftenjoyer3664
      @giftenjoyer3664 3 роки тому +1

      @@gargeebanerjee2333 Patriarchy means that you can invest in women. Lack of patiarchy means you just have sex with them and leave them.

    • @stickysocks6369
      @stickysocks6369 3 роки тому +42

      @@giftenjoyer3664 if I had a dollar everytime Christian men treated women like objects istg 🙄

  • @beandaddy720
    @beandaddy720 3 роки тому +1131

    "The Amish community is typing"
    Wait....
    No they aren't

  • @ThePanMan11
    @ThePanMan11 3 роки тому +447

    I don't know if this was intentional but I noticed that all the ex amish were wearing cool/pastelle colors and Anthony, the outsider, came rocking a bright, red shirt with graphics on it.

    • @AnxietyRat
      @AnxietyRat 3 роки тому +33

      I noticed that too! CJ was wearing the most colourful ( still blues but kinda bright) shirt compared to the women.

  • @Naptural85
    @Naptural85 3 роки тому +1028

    Anthony has such a kind spirit and aura 🙏🏾❤️

  • @Famegal123
    @Famegal123 3 роки тому +584

    really breaks my heart that she said she had to learn she was pretty that she never once thought that before :(

    • @minksrule2196
      @minksrule2196 3 роки тому +9

      I was the same I only learnt I was pretty last year and I'm not Amish. Not sure if Amish people exist in Australia tbh

  • @Bambiluvr
    @Bambiluvr 3 роки тому +1634

    He should spend a day with Residential School Survivors. Or Residential day school survivors.

    • @zonixtin993
      @zonixtin993 3 роки тому +6

      residential day school survivors?

    • @poe4life691
      @poe4life691 3 роки тому +12

      @Adam ok that happened in Anne with An E

    • @daspammer5896
      @daspammer5896 3 роки тому

      @Adam ok whoa I didn’t know it ended so recently, that sounds like something from the 1700s

    • @rosecabezas8249
      @rosecabezas8249 3 роки тому

      if you wanna know more when i was in middle school i read a book called “my name is not a number”

    • @rochellebradley9182
      @rochellebradley9182 3 роки тому +2

      @Adam ok watch we were children

  • @DBarnes9009
    @DBarnes9009 3 роки тому +610

    "I always thought the Earth was flat."
    Me instantly going to the comments to see if I can find a flat earther upset.

  • @mewgiah8057
    @mewgiah8057 3 роки тому +674

    Unfortunately it is often women who are the biggest victims of religion / cults. Hearing that girls story of being forced to date men was pretty gut wrenching.
    I know she told the story as not such a big deal, but being forced to be intimate with someone you dont like or even know(even if its just a kiss or hug) is really disturbing.
    Also these groups often have strict rules specifically at keeping women tied down. The rules are obviously written by men who are insecure and don’t want females in their culture to have options.

    • @PROVOCATEURSK
      @PROVOCATEURSK 11 місяців тому +2

      Women chose to stay in religions, no respect for anyone staying in an evil religion.

    • @iamnothale
      @iamnothale 9 місяців тому

      @@PROVOCATEURSK Just wait until you hear how much the cult tried to keep people from escaping.

    • @rainpooper7088
      @rainpooper7088 6 місяців тому +11

      @PROVOCATEURSK
      Ah yes, because it's so easy to leave when your community doesn't allow you to own property or receive a proper education.

  • @katet8639
    @katet8639 3 роки тому +713

    Idk why I smiled seeing Kate, I used to watch Breaking Amish with my mom and always wondered what happened to some after the show. It seems she's doing fine, and I'm happy for these people.

    • @Problematic_Scorpio
      @Problematic_Scorpio 3 роки тому +15

      I just thought to myself wait I've seen her before. I remember her from that show also!

    • @kinskins100
      @kinskins100 3 роки тому +18

      I was looking for a Breaking Amish comment!!! I recognized her from there too

    • @Carl-_-Jones
      @Carl-_-Jones 3 роки тому +2

      @@kinskins100 same!!!

    • @NoicesVoicesAfrica
      @NoicesVoicesAfrica 2 роки тому +4

      Same here! Most of them from breaking Amish are doing good now

  • @King_Jonghyun
    @King_Jonghyun 3 роки тому +445

    A few years ago I went to the beach with my friends and I remember it being windy so there weren't that many people around. We wanted to take a picture together so we asked a girl that happened to be the only person near us. She smiled apologetically and said she wasn't allowed to touch the phone, then I noticed she wasn't exactly dressed for a day at the beach. Amish people aren't common at all in my country so I remember me and my friends being very confused but we understood something wasn't right and left her alone. It's been a long time but I will never forget the sadness in her eyes and the way she kept apologizing for not being able to take a picture for us. I hope she is free and fine wherever she is. :(

    • @itgirlinIT
      @itgirlinIT 3 роки тому +36

      Aw I hope she's free now ):

    • @monilove4088
      @monilove4088 3 роки тому +6

      I hope one day she leaves ,it’s not a good life having so many restrictions

    • @pigpjs
      @pigpjs 3 роки тому +5

      She might have been Mennonite. Different sects are stricter than others. They dress like the Amish but have slightly more relaxed rules.

  • @MsBannannas
    @MsBannannas 2 роки тому +89

    In all honesty, I used to watch Breaking Amish on TLC. I get random thoughts about Kate all the time and have been wondering how she’s been or what she’s been doing. This gives me closer knowing that she wanted to stay in the outside world and that she’s been loving it more than in that show. She’s always deserved the best in my opinion

  • @Ash_Andromeda
    @Ash_Andromeda 3 роки тому +267

    I grew up in Central Pennsylvania where a lot of Amish live, and I remember one time I was working at a flea market and there was a TV showing skateboarders - this little 6 year old Amish boy came up to me and started watching. I said hi to him and he started telling me about his uncle that went "English" (left the Amish community) and is a skateboarder, and how he wants to "go English" too so he can skate.

  • @dasha_ucko
    @dasha_ucko 3 роки тому +371

    I visited part of the Amish community in Eastern Pennsylvania, and got an explanation of their way of living from current members, so it's really interesting hearing what it was like for someone who decided to leave the community.

    • @dasha_ucko
      @dasha_ucko 3 роки тому +13

      @Srilakshmi They said mostly the same things as Kate, but they just had a lot more emphasis on the good parts of their life than the bad.

  • @morbidviolets950
    @morbidviolets950 3 роки тому +891

    I would love to see “I spent a day people who recovered from eating disorders”

    • @muffins8566
      @muffins8566 3 роки тому +7

      Yes

    • @hakiikah8343
      @hakiikah8343 3 роки тому +2

      Yes

    • @SpicyMcG
      @SpicyMcG 3 роки тому +20

      Yes! I’m recovering ❤️‍🩹

    • @jen5868
      @jen5868 3 роки тому +20

      @@SpicyMcG proud of u! keep going babes.

    • @SpicyMcG
      @SpicyMcG 3 роки тому +4

      @@jen5868 Thank you 🙏🏻🥰

  • @shishsquared
    @shishsquared Рік тому +53

    The irony of interviewing ex Amish over video call is not lost on me

  • @Daisy624
    @Daisy624 3 роки тому +521

    I live in a part of Pennsylvania where there are Amish communities very close by. Though I’ve lived my whole life seeing them frequently, I’ve never taken the time to truly understand what their lives are like. Thank you for using your platform to bring awareness to all kinds of topics and for letting them talk about their experiences.

    • @melissagriffin6694
      @melissagriffin6694 3 роки тому +9

      I live in Lancaster n my favorite place to eat is shady Maples n it's an Amish smorgasbord n I always wondered too.

    • @doxdew
      @doxdew 3 роки тому

      I'm also from Pennsylvania, but I've had very few encounters with Amish people. After watching this video, I realized I barely knew a single thing about them. Glad to be more aware of what they go through.

    • @DeElric
      @DeElric 3 роки тому +3

      I too am from PA! A rather rural area with lots of amish and mennonites that I actually have interacted with on a regular basis for years (mainly due to my work). They make the best food around and own a lot of small businesses (small engine shops, construction, Food) in my area. I've had a mixture of good and odd interactions with them. I always try to talk to the girls but you can tell they're kind of scared to. I've had the men on a few occasions flat out say they'll find a man to help them instead even though I could easily help.For the most part they're super polite though.

  • @Brodeeneuberger69
    @Brodeeneuberger69 3 роки тому +268

    I love how Anthony really cares about peoples mental health so much that he even has sponsors from therapy mechanics. This dude is so wholesome.

  • @kiaraetsuko
    @kiaraetsuko 3 роки тому +1165

    The only question I was kinda missing is how are their relationships with their fammilies now? Did they stay in the Amish community, do they have some contact with them, did maybe some of their siblings leave too?

    • @avat.7857
      @avat.7857 3 роки тому +91

      It all depends on their church. Since they seem to have a much stricter church than the ones around me they probably are not in touch with their family anymore and may have been shunned. Not all Amish churches are like this though because I have lots of Amish family and live in an area with lots of Amish communities and I know most people around here do not get shunned when they leave the Amish.

    • @babsb9889
      @babsb9889 3 роки тому +40

      Around here, if you are Amish and you leave the community/church before you are baptized into it, you will not be shunned, because you aren't considered a member. It's only if you become baptized (they don't baptize infants) that then leaving becomes an issue as far as being shunned. Although I know some Amish families who had family members leave and while technically the person who left is shunned, they still stay in contact with them.

    • @harlee4587
      @harlee4587 3 роки тому +6

      @@avat.7857 what is getting shunned? Im sorry if this is offensive, i just wanna learn!

    • @SirisLayer
      @SirisLayer 3 роки тому +28

      @@harlee4587 usually it means that people will neither interact with you, nor respond to your calls or other means of establishing contact. They will cut you out of their lives sometimes even pretending you never even existed. They won't talk to you ever again.

    • @harlee4587
      @harlee4587 3 роки тому +4

      @@SirisLayer thank you!

  • @devonlara9286
    @devonlara9286 3 роки тому +74

    Omg!! Anthony NEEDS to do one on ex-Scientologists! That would be SO interesting.

  • @bbolt8473
    @bbolt8473 3 роки тому +1243

    Sadly, he couldn’t spend the ‘whole’ day with the Amish because they escaped.

    • @bbolt8473
      @bbolt8473 3 роки тому +453

      @@meatismurderbevegan4224 I’m vegetarian but I don’t like to push my beliefs onto others

    • @GG-ll6zx
      @GG-ll6zx 3 роки тому +384

      Meat Is murder be vegan bro I’m vegan and I even think you’re annoying. Let people make their own decisions and shut up.

    • @angel-hu3bp
      @angel-hu3bp 3 роки тому +81

      @@meatismurderbevegan4224 no

    • @joranjansen8670
      @joranjansen8670 3 роки тому +117

      @@GG-ll6zx it's a bot. It comments "Be vegan!" underneath every comment in the comment section. Look at its comment history.

    • @ILikeBirds
      @ILikeBirds 3 роки тому +8

      LOL 😂 I actually laughed out loud

  • @mackinzielizabeth872
    @mackinzielizabeth872 3 роки тому +331

    i thought kate looked familiar and then i realized she was on breaking amish

    • @OriBoh
      @OriBoh 3 роки тому +12

      Same I’m surprised she didn’t mention any of that during the interview.

    • @biaamback2683
      @biaamback2683 3 роки тому +14

      Same! I wish she had talked about her experience in the tv show. I loved it.

    • @OriBoh
      @OriBoh 3 роки тому +26

      @@biaamback2683 I have a feeling she may be not that proud of her moment on tv. I remember there being a lot of drama between the group & her. & just a lot of drama in the group in general

    • @craftingemily
      @craftingemily 3 роки тому +5

      @@OriBoh I remember that! The show came out my senior year and then when I got back from my first year of freshman year college I binged the drama of the second season.

    • @becks7794
      @becks7794 3 роки тому +4

      Yes! I knew I recognized her from a show...couldn't remember the name!

  • @Nicollemily
    @Nicollemily 3 роки тому +131

    It’s Kate from Breaking Amish! So glad to see she is thriving!!

    • @charlottecardenas3148
      @charlottecardenas3148 3 роки тому +6

      I knew I recognized her from somewhere !!

    • @jiwon2839
      @jiwon2839 3 роки тому +2

      I was just about to comment that! So glad to see her again

    • @belinhacruz3152
      @belinhacruz3152 3 роки тому +1

      Omg i noticed her too! I'm glad she's doing okay!!

  • @CatalleyaStorm
    @CatalleyaStorm 3 роки тому +51

    I really love this interviewer. He’s just so respectful and understanding. I was interviewed before and it wasn’t the best.

  • @theladygagasimp
    @theladygagasimp 3 роки тому +243

    Anthony is honestly one if the best UA-camrs. He uses his influence that he has built over the past 15ish years to give voices to people and empower them.

  • @dulce_does_it_all
    @dulce_does_it_all 3 роки тому +273

    I remember watching Kate on TLCs Breaking Amish. It's nice to see she's still enjoying the "outside world "

    • @kittenspit6
      @kittenspit6 3 роки тому +12

      She’s still a successful model I believe!!! It’s so amazing.

  • @stinky6521
    @stinky6521 3 роки тому +965

    Emma sounds like she has an accent but doesn’t ? im trippin lmao but anyway I’m glad she talked about how mental health is almost nonexistent in the Amish community and how it affected her. beautiful video

    • @kimberlyramlakhan3054
      @kimberlyramlakhan3054 3 роки тому +274

      The Amish have their own language that has similarities to the German language , it is likely for some ex Amish to retain an accent

    • @helloworld5256
      @helloworld5256 3 роки тому +155

      The Amish have their own dialects of dutch. Her accent almost sounds like one of my friends who's Ukrainian.

    • @stinky6521
      @stinky6521 3 роки тому +9

      v v interesting

    • @515aleon
      @515aleon 3 роки тому +72

      @@kimberlyramlakhan3054 Yes. Pennslyvania Dutch was a misunderstanding. It should have been Deutch. Though I have read somewhere it was kind of like Swiss German and very hard for Germans to understand either.

    • @fraeni90
      @fraeni90 3 роки тому +24

      I’m Swiss and it’s very similar to when Swiss people speak English!

  • @qimree
    @qimree 3 роки тому +19

    Wow I was really surprised when I saw Anthony release this since I really don’t hear many people talking abt the Amish on the internet, and as someone from Amish ancestry I really appreciate it. My dad was Amish and my mother was what’s called Beachy which is basically like Amish except they have access to limited technology (cars, electricity, flip phones, etc) I’ve heard so many stories from my parents abt the Amish community and I still experience it a lot from my relatives who are still apart of it. I remember my mother telling me abt how whenever she got a new car that was anything other than black, she had to paint it because the church wouldn’t allow anything else. And my dad actually showed me some of his papers he wrote and his report cards back when he was in school. They had to write completely in cursive and also did some of their work in German so I literally couldn’t read anything lol. Idk if a lot of people know this but all Amish people speak what is usually just referred to as Dutch (also called German-Dutch or even Pennsylvania Dutch), it’s a type of dialect that u can only find in the Amish communities, it’s kinda like if German, Dutch, and English had a baby, that’s the best I can describe it. It is a completely spoken language and has no written form, that’s why German is normally used in schools. And I can 100 percent tell u that all the formerly Amish featured in this video can speak it. Now, there definitely are Amish communities like Emma’s where they don’t do very *ahem* nice stuff, which is awful. But there are also lots of communities that are super peaceful and that don’t do stuff like that. And school definitely depends on the community, both my mother and father actually stopped at 8th grade but unlike Emma they were actually taught all of the American history and geography and science (creation science of course) and all that.
    Honestly I could rant on forever but I think my paragraph is plenty long lmao

  • @theserbiancloaker5972
    @theserbiancloaker5972 3 роки тому +524

    I wonder how much money they spend on repairs on the roof that anthony falls thru every episode

    • @candi4202
      @candi4202 3 роки тому +1

      This is a joke right?

    • @sillygoosetaur
      @sillygoosetaur 3 роки тому +14

      @@candi4202 yeah

    • @ABAO2009
      @ABAO2009 3 роки тому +9

      Add all his butt surgeries to that

    • @moistapple
      @moistapple 3 роки тому

      I don’t even notice it at this point 😂

    • @crimsonhunter7598
      @crimsonhunter7598 3 роки тому

      @@ABAO2009 splinters :0

  • @bethanymarble2049
    @bethanymarble2049 3 роки тому +525

    Wait hold the phone can we spend more time on the dating ritual section because that part was messed up

    • @Victoria-pu9bm
      @Victoria-pu9bm 3 роки тому +43

      Literally am disgusted

    • @Aelffwynn
      @Aelffwynn 3 роки тому +9

      She wrote a book, so I'd imagine there is more explanation there.

  • @TessMac
    @TessMac 3 роки тому +175

    I used to be obsessed with The Amish as we have several communities nearby in rural Minnesota. I didn’t realize how unbelievably different that lifestyle was..Also loved seeing that Kate is still happy & thriving..I watched her on that Amish show several years ago. Wonderful interviews as always Anthony.

    • @lunatronlina
      @lunatronlina 3 роки тому +5

      Yeah as a fellow Minnesota person or whatever I was just like “oh okay that’s a thing that exists” but now it’s weird how different that must be

    • @jijitters
      @jijitters 3 роки тому +2

      Honestly I live in Minneapolis so I had no idea there even were Amish communities in MN. It's like separate worlds live so close to one another.

    • @TessMac
      @TessMac 3 роки тому

      @@lunatronlina EXACTLY! Love to my fellow Minnesotan!❤️

    • @TessMac
      @TessMac 3 роки тому

      @@jijitters There are several communities throughout Northern Minnesota & Western Wisconsin..HOWEVER I highly recommend Take a 2 hour drive south of the cities to Harmony (SE MN) where basically the entire town is Amish. You can drive from farm to farm & purchase homemade products. From baked goods, soaps, quilts & the most AMAZING woodwork you’ll ever see. I bought a Full length Mirror with a built in Hidden Jewelry Box that is fantastic! They also sell the best Tables, Armoires & Rocking Chairs! I always spend way too much when we drive down to Harmony. It’s a lovely day trip & a beautiful drive in the rolling hills along the river. Much love to a fellow Minnesotan!❤️

    • @babyyodel3738
      @babyyodel3738 3 роки тому

      I grew up in Scottsville Kentucky so there were a lot of ommish and minnonites and I was always so interested in it all

  • @GothicShadow13
    @GothicShadow13 3 роки тому +85

    That girl that got a random persons number was lucky it was no one bad. I’m glad that she and the others had a successful way out. Not knowing exactly what can and can’t go wrong in the world could of lead to really bad things where they wouldn’t be here today.

  • @chaoticxxstars
    @chaoticxxstars 3 роки тому +125

    I love how Anthony talks to different groups and brings awareness. I think he should talk to different tribes of Native Americans!! Both from Canada and US!
    Oh, and let’s not forget the Inuit.

    • @elana4006
      @elana4006 3 роки тому +1

      I have so many questions if he ever does that video.

  • @pinkfairy18
    @pinkfairy18 3 роки тому +756

    I searched for the definition of "Amish" on Google and looked into some of their rules, and apparently, the use of zippers and buttons is prohibited...
    ✨ w o w ✨

    • @JaredtheRabbit
      @JaredtheRabbit 3 роки тому +8

      Damn.

    • @HereticalPuppy
      @HereticalPuppy 3 роки тому +133

      I know zippers are but I think buttons are fine. Its different for every community but that's how my neighbors are

    • @nutkja
      @nutkja 3 роки тому +79

      @@HereticalPuppy Depends the the community. Amish communities can vary wildly in beliefs and customs. The strictest communities don't use buttons but these days most do.

    • @Possum.man27
      @Possum.man27 3 роки тому +1

      Lmao *wow*

    • @emily1520
      @emily1520 3 роки тому +18

      Oh yeah its wild, I live near some Amish people and all the women/girls have to keep their clothing together with pins

  • @unknowndab9524
    @unknowndab9524 3 роки тому +95

    You gotta love how respectful Anthony is to everyone. He’s a good person and not problematic.

  • @MrAdryan1603
    @MrAdryan1603 2 роки тому +5

    You could make another 20 videos of you just talking to these awesome people about their stories and I would watch every second. It's so phenomenal to learn in such a positive setting about their culture & rules & daily life, significant memories, examples of what they were taught & how they thought, how they felt after leaving... It's so cool that they are willing to share this stuff with others. Obviously these are so incredibly fascinating to me.. Cheers for speaking to these really nice people and making them feel comfortable & asking them to share their stories. I love the way you interview ppl & how you treat people in general, it's just really positive & kind and it's refreshing to see that.

  • @weebywoo5128
    @weebywoo5128 3 роки тому +314

    "Wasn't allowed to wear red" Sounds a lot like the village 😳😂

    • @ravenpotter3
      @ravenpotter3 3 роки тому +14

      Well I’m pretty sure M Knight Shamala (is that his name?) lived in PA so he probably was aware of the Amish.

    • @Hand_Of_Doom333
      @Hand_Of_Doom333 3 роки тому +2

      @@ravenpotter3 its pronounced shamallamadingdong 🤗 yea he from pa tho lol

    • @user-is2jl6iw4e
      @user-is2jl6iw4e 3 роки тому +4

      And the handmaid‘s tale

  • @kristameihoefer8520
    @kristameihoefer8520 3 роки тому +305

    I love how kate just laughs about her awkward moments like her whole tradition to living in the English world wasn’t documented 😅

  • @brandizzlemejia2875
    @brandizzlemejia2875 3 роки тому +123

    Emma’s story is so inspiring. What a true survivor and thriver.

  • @rebekahsaysno9161
    @rebekahsaysno9161 2 роки тому +21

    Highly recommend Emma's book; it elaborated on her circumstances even more and some of the unbelievable things she went through.

  • @Alrightherewego
    @Alrightherewego 3 роки тому +73

    I grew up around a few Amish people. We usually only saw them riding to town, to the main store or at the fair, but they were always kind and I was always so interested in their lives because it was quite different from my upbringing. . . This is so interesting!

  • @claireabel7994
    @claireabel7994 3 роки тому +33

    Hey, as a survivor myself, can you please interview survivors of the troubled teen industry? I think that more people really need to know about the troubled teen industry

    • @menopriezvisko94
      @menopriezvisko94 3 роки тому +2

      What is troubled teens industry?

    • @enderfxstudis7741
      @enderfxstudis7741 3 роки тому

      @@menopriezvisko94 Idk

    • @Sarahsmokes777
      @Sarahsmokes777 3 роки тому +6

      @@menopriezvisko94 so basically it’s an industry where people have businesses to help “misbehaving troubled teens” a lot of them are exploiting, abusive assholes preying on desperate parents and mentally Ill teens

  • @VixxenX0
    @VixxenX0 3 роки тому +49

    Anthony is so polite and respectful to everyone no matter what they say

  • @shaynewebb4361
    @shaynewebb4361 2 роки тому +13

    Can we all just appreciate how funny and down to earth Emma is. She is such an amazing person.

  • @alexandramancusi8404
    @alexandramancusi8404 3 роки тому +70

    With Anthony’s respectfulness towards the people he interviews and his interviewer skills in which he researches more deep prior to the interview to ask the proper and educating questions, he should be doing way more then UA-cam

  • @Meggsie
    @Meggsie 3 роки тому +434

    So I did the math because.
    7 times hotter than a campfire is an oxy-acetylene torch (used for welding metal.)
    You're welcome.

    • @gracecc6853
      @gracecc6853 3 роки тому +4

      ouch!

    • @naynay2217
      @naynay2217 3 роки тому +15

      Imma ruin it cuz I like ruining things.
      The reason people say it’s 7 times stronger is cuz the fire on earth isn’t the real one people say. The fire in hell is and that is why it is 7 times stronger. So the fire isn’t something else it’s Hell’s fire.

    • @naynay2217
      @naynay2217 3 роки тому +1

      @Raquel De Abreu 2026 I’m saying that’s probably what they meant.

    • @zarahqadir8101
      @zarahqadir8101 3 роки тому

      Thanks 😅

  • @deemadiab8851
    @deemadiab8851 3 роки тому +222

    So Emma looked basically like the Amish version Wednesday Addams when she was younger

  • @coldpai1191
    @coldpai1191 3 роки тому +17

    I am sometimes tempted to go in a full traditional Ojibwe garb and and challenge the Amish village a few towns over just as a 1700s vs 1700s thing

  • @MynicknameisViolet
    @MynicknameisViolet 3 роки тому +160

    Emma's story sounds like it can be a movie

    • @eeyf
      @eeyf 3 роки тому +3

      I'd love to watch it!

  • @Reihanism73
    @Reihanism73 3 роки тому +23

    Anthony, I believe I'm writing this on behalf of all your fans and even those who still aren't: We're super thankful for your content. There are so many things that we've never been aware of, and thanks to your videos, we now know better that life isn't the same for everyone

  • @pinupgirl9160
    @pinupgirl9160 3 роки тому +145

    Kate was on the show “Breaking Amish” she became a New York model.

  • @randomknowledgeperson2872
    @randomknowledgeperson2872 Рік тому +1

    anthony has the special gift of being able to make every single guest feel like they are fully understood and appreciated and i can just see in their face how good they feel. amazing job dude

  • @MellowJelly
    @MellowJelly 3 роки тому +1882

    Anthony! I know you have good intentions and you are probably a nervous laugher like I am, and because the scenario being described was uncomfortable and far-fetched, you sorta laughed at the one girl who was describing a non-consensual interaction between herself and the boy that came into her room, and you also asked her if she liked it. I know you didn't mean harm but I know you will want to be aware of this so you can be more careful with these subjects in the future

  • @bomoore9872
    @bomoore9872 3 роки тому +674

    can you do "I spent a day with Satanists." The misconceptions around them are insane and they are always treated as terrible human beings. But no one ever hears their side of the story. Idk, I just think it'd be nice to learn

    • @emilypatterson2915
      @emilypatterson2915 3 роки тому +54

      That's something I would most definitely watch just to clear things up for me

    • @pandapooh1668
      @pandapooh1668 3 роки тому +65

      I did hear about a satanist church that did some really helpful things, minority citizens that were scared to walk home or anywhere because they could be hurt or harassed could go to the church and someone at the church would help them out and walk them home or where ever they needed to go and I think that’s such a great thing. People always think they’re bad people but that just proves that they’re good people who simply have their own beliefs.

    • @amandaconstanza
      @amandaconstanza 3 роки тому +1

      watch the serie Son of sam, for me it was a huge explanation about satanism, obviously the extreme ones, but that gave me the idea that they often hide those beliefs to not have problems

    • @pandapooh1668
      @pandapooh1668 3 роки тому +12

      I wasn’t sure who they were helping exactly, but now I found out they help Muslim people get around if they are scared which is awesome!

    • @saccharine1452
      @saccharine1452 3 роки тому +29

      Im a Luciferian, something similar to Satanism in a way. Im secretly one tho since the people around me have very different beliefs than me. It hurts my soul deeply that people say bad things about these two religions and beliefs. It's always about "respect all religions" until it comes to Satanism or Luciferianism. I was even called a devil worshipper even tho i do not worship to Satan or pray to him. Im also a baby witch, who is trying to work with demons. Being a witch is also looked down upon sometimes which should be also normalized.
      I also might add that theres a huge stigma about working with demons, which is so wrong to me. Because if you look at demons like Stolas or even Paimon they are actually pretty helpful in some situations.
      I hope anthony could make a video about that.

  • @PierceTheWoodey101
    @PierceTheWoodey101 3 роки тому +85

    9:22 Emma as a young girl looks like Ofred from The Handmaid's Tale

  • @hopemitchell5388
    @hopemitchell5388 Рік тому +2

    found Emma’s book in a neighborhood little library and it was a truly breathtaking read. Incredibly inspired by her strength and resilience and wishing her nothing but the best in life.

  • @Rjey45ForteFev
    @Rjey45ForteFev 3 роки тому +344

    Normal people: How's this going in quarantine?
    Amish people: wut?

    • @luciasoosova2182
      @luciasoosova2182 3 роки тому +17

      They told Amish when it started

    • @luciasoosova2182
      @luciasoosova2182 3 роки тому +8

      @Bia Oliveira screenshot from Twitter. Someone asked if Amish knew what was happening and someone responded by news article.

    • @jessiecantrell2790
      @jessiecantrell2790 3 роки тому +10

      My brother in law works with someone who is either Amish or German Baptist and he just thought it was a joke for awhile lol

    • @cocomousy
      @cocomousy 3 роки тому +1

      My dad is a driver for Amish. They knew about covid early on but most didn't care about it and would go to large events without masks.

    • @Mt4evr
      @Mt4evr 3 роки тому +2

      The Amish know about Covid 😂 They don't live under rocks. They go to town to go shopping, or go to the dentist or doctor just like the rest of us. And many will also get news from the people that drive them around

  • @zaninafilipovic5741
    @zaninafilipovic5741 3 роки тому +426

    Interview with survivors
    Who stopted using drugs
    Their starts using and winning those addictions
    What were problems during druging
    How their families lived with those people
    What addicted people do so they can have drugs
    What were they using ?
    Etc...

    • @sydneyelliott
      @sydneyelliott 3 роки тому +9

      this is a great video idea!!!! i hope your comment gets more likes so that anthony sees 😊

    • @aresblanque9916
      @aresblanque9916 3 роки тому +15

      I would be willing to participate for that but too many ppl will be nasty in the comments.

    • @sydneyelliott
      @sydneyelliott 3 роки тому +18

      @@aresblanque9916 i’d love to share my story because at first i was nervous about what people have to say but then i realized that it’s nothing to be ashamed about but rather something to embrace and be proud of because you don’t have to do anything for anyone except yourself ☺️💛

    • @inkryption3386
      @inkryption3386 3 роки тому +8

      @@aresblanque9916 eh, you'd be surprised. You'd probably see a lot more positive than negative. Especially in a community like this. Obviously, you'd still see the toxicity if you scrolled down far enough, but that's any place on the internet. Just makes 'em less special at the end of the day.

    • @candi4202
      @candi4202 3 роки тому +17

      I'm a recovered heroin addict. Been clean for almost 5 years. Got all my kids home. The things i did to get drugs were shameful. I can't believe i ever used to be a junkie. Thank God I'm alive

  • @t_m_420
    @t_m_420 3 роки тому +187

    This is very interesting, some things remind of being a Jehovah's witness. They're not the same, but the whole thing about being shunned if you leave, not really being able to be a part of the world, like not watching certain shows or not listening to certain music, dressing "modestly" etc. It's similar in that sense.
    I would love to see a video with ex Jehovah's witnesses!

    • @hey_lavenderboy4208
      @hey_lavenderboy4208 3 роки тому +9

      Same! It's nice to find a good amount of ex jws in this comment section

    • @t_m_420
      @t_m_420 3 роки тому +9

      @@hey_lavenderboy4208 It is! If you want to check out a channel that debunks the beliefs and has a nice community of ex JW's, I reccomended Lloyd Evans' channel. I remember I ca6m across his videos was I was doubting myself if I did the right thing to fade & leave. I've been watching him since 2015 & his videos take an in depth look at some JW material.

    • @hey_lavenderboy4208
      @hey_lavenderboy4208 3 роки тому +1

      @@t_m_420 oo that sounds interesting. I've seen his name in a couple of other comments as well so I'll definitely check him out

    • @whistlindiesel
      @whistlindiesel 3 роки тому +4

      Glad you made it out too :)

    • @alliesco6802
      @alliesco6802 3 роки тому +3

      So glad everyone made it out

  • @BookVybez
    @BookVybez 3 роки тому +29

    This was so tastefully done Anthony! All this did was educate us! Wow I learned a lot and I identify with a lot, having left a cultish church myself.

  • @embarrassedcap
    @embarrassedcap 3 роки тому +34

    glad CJ just straight up said it's a cult. I feel like a lot of people, ex Amish or not, are hesitant to call it that.

  • @enchantedRightHook
    @enchantedRightHook 3 роки тому +20

    I spent the day with: what UA-cam needed to spread love and acceptance. I appreciate this teams hardwork!

  • @brittaa_
    @brittaa_ 3 роки тому +154

    Please do an episode to raise awareness for indigenous people and survivors of residential schools!🧡 what happened to those 215 kids was genocide and more people should be aware. This can not go on like this.

    • @jolielavey1769
      @jolielavey1769 2 роки тому +5

      215 were originally found there were far far more

    • @firemonkey1015
      @firemonkey1015 Рік тому

      What about what’s happening to white countries, with influx on immigration killing out our bloodline over time. That’s real genocide. Not natives living perfectly fine on reservations.

    • @L4xu0rii_PNG
      @L4xu0rii_PNG Рік тому

      I hope you’re aware that you got your episode!! It’s, “I spent a day with indigenous people.” I haven’t watched it yet, but knowing Anthony, it’s gonna be good!

    • @ImMrquesadillaman
      @ImMrquesadillaman 11 місяців тому

      What happened ik this comment is from 2 years ago BUT WHAT THE HELL HAPPENED.

  • @catblue4690
    @catblue4690 3 роки тому +15

    Their story of how they left was so inspiring to me. It’s nice to know that they made it.

    • @lampyrisnoctiluca9904
      @lampyrisnoctiluca9904 Рік тому

      Wtf is stopping me from just saving something like 2000€, asking my doctor to prescribe me a three month worth of meds, getting a passport and a blue card - and then just sit in the plane to Ireland? I wanted it for so long, but am afraid to do it. I know that I am intelligent and capable of finding my way in the foreign lands. The worst thing that can happen is me returning back home! I have been thinking about it for some time already. My mom doesn't take my wish to leave seriously. I should have just left this summer. I spent the money instead. I had this "idea" of returning to school to do my master's like this would somehow help me. I should have left instead right then and there. The life is just running past me and I am stuck. Unable to find a job here. I am either overqualified or not qualified enough for jobs. The unemployment is huge here. They fired me from my last job for not being a perfect experienced working machine. I was on a minimum wage. I know there were more equally replaceable people around for them to exploit and fire after two months. They will find or already have found the people willing to be worked up to the bones. I now need to hope that the next people to employ me won't be so exploitative. But they can be because there are so many unemployed people waiting for a job around. Politicians are all into "young being selfish and leaving" and "brain drain" nonsense instead of doing anything to help us build a life here. I should have just waited for my last paycheck to come and then leave. But I choose to listen to my fear instead. What am I even doing with my life? Am I to wait for a decade to finally find a real job? I want to cry. The only thing keeping me here is a fear of using all my meds before having the healthcare thing sorted out. It may or may not happen. Lately I am thinking about the whole thing as of something worth taking a bet over. I was just trying to watch UA-cam to stop thinking about it and this got into my recommendations. Are they spying on me or something? I now really want to cry.

  • @tiannabowring5778
    @tiannabowring5778 3 роки тому +35

    Hi Anthony!! Long time fan! As you may or may not have seen in the news, Kamloops BC in Canada has uncovered 215 unmarked graves of children who attended residential schools. That's just one school out of roughly 119. It was a giant epidemic here in Canada. I think it would be so great if you could have residential school survivors come on and talk about what they went through and how it affects them now! There's so so so many issues facing our indigenous peoples here in Canada and your platform could seriously do some good!!

  • @GingerThereforeNoSoul
    @GingerThereforeNoSoul 3 роки тому +73

    My heart breaks 💔for the girl whom was forced to have men in her bed even he she said no.

  • @HilltreesHarmony
    @HilltreesHarmony 3 роки тому +199

    Spend a day with people with epilepsy! Seizures are such an interesting and complicated matter and I'd love to (or have other people) share their experiences!

    • @515aleon
      @515aleon 3 роки тому +3

      I agree. I wrote a comment on the Synesthia video. But mine are under control--there's a huge range of experiences.

    • @Xaforn
      @Xaforn 2 роки тому

      Wow definitely, I’ve had them my whole life

    • @realleon2328
      @realleon2328 2 роки тому +1

      Would love this! I feel like epilepsy is a disorder is either reduced or glossed over in mental health discussion and padilla is SO good with those kinds of interviews. Loved his piece on DID

  • @heyitsmira17
    @heyitsmira17 3 роки тому +6

    I've followed Anthony at the beginning of Smosh and through some years until things started kinda falling apart, and I'm just really proud to see where he's come to. Nice job! Glad you're still making content for us~