If I can get through taking care of everything, raising two healthy kids , working full time; there is nothing left to fear ever again. With God backing me up I am going to be ok. It is by far the most painful experience that one can go through. Realizing the addiction won.
I so appreciate Michelle's work! Its been a huge blessing to me and my SA spouse! I wish I saw this earlier in my journey of betrayal trauma, but this is exactly what I have experienced. In time, after my brain settled down a bit from the PTSD, I learned that I needed to face my fear of "potential" more loss and grief, (and it's been hard work) but Michelle is so right in her teaching... it was only when I was able to decide on my boundaries (not threats to my betrayer) and be willing to take action on those convictions no matter the price (what I wanted in a relationship & within ANY relationship for healthier interactions going forward), that I became more empowered to face the risk of more loss, in exchange for more peace and joy. IT took time but KNOWING that the exchange was indeed going to result in a healthier me, it became worth it!, I am still growing and changing and Michelle's resources are so helpful in conjunction with my personal therapy and participating in groups and being available to other betrayed spouses.
I appreciate your videos, Michelle. Thank you. I’m at the stage of asking him to move out but he will not. We have been at a gridlock here for years. My big loss I’m afraid of is having to be the one to move out of my house…
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If I can get through taking care of everything, raising two healthy kids , working full time; there is nothing left to fear ever again. With God backing me up I am going to be ok. It is by far the most painful experience that one can go through. Realizing the addiction won.
I so appreciate Michelle's work! Its been a huge blessing to me and my SA spouse!
I wish I saw this earlier in my journey of betrayal trauma, but this is exactly what I have experienced. In time, after my brain settled down a bit from the PTSD, I learned that I needed to face my fear of "potential" more loss and grief, (and it's been hard work) but Michelle is so right in her teaching... it was only when I was able to decide on my boundaries (not threats to my betrayer) and be willing to take action on those convictions no matter the price (what I wanted in a relationship & within ANY relationship for healthier interactions going forward), that I became more empowered to face the risk of more loss, in exchange for more peace and joy. IT took time but KNOWING that the exchange was indeed going to result in a healthier me, it became worth it!, I am still growing and changing and Michelle's resources are so helpful in conjunction with my personal therapy and participating in groups and being available to other betrayed spouses.
Thank you so much for your comment!
Once again, Michelle nails it!! One question though-how do you ask them to leave the house when they pay the mortgage and you don't?
Michelle, Thank you so much for your help, clarity and understanding ❤️
Thank you for this video. I am definitely stuck because I am overwhelmed with pain.
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I appreciate your videos, Michelle. Thank you.
I’m at the stage of asking him to move out but he will not. We have been at a gridlock here for years. My big loss I’m afraid of is having to be the one to move out of my house…
Thanks for your comment!
Braving Hope is a ground-breaking coaching intensive for betrayed partners around the world. Move out of the devastation of betrayal, relieve your trauma symptoms and reclaim your life. To find out if Braving Hope is right for you, schedule a call now: michellemays.com/hope