You are not a victim

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  • Опубліковано 11 чер 2024
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  • @GoldStar9
    @GoldStar9 Місяць тому +7910

    How did she know that I was falling to that mindset again??

  • @gauri4023
    @gauri4023 Місяць тому +4429

    "stop abusing yourself by being the same person that you dont like" i need posters of this everywhere

    • @Khd70
      @Khd70 Місяць тому +20

      Let it be on your wallpaper and write it down in every notebook and especially write it on ur mind

    • @silverkitty2503
      @silverkitty2503 Місяць тому +4

      yup!

    • @chocojellys
      @chocojellys Місяць тому +9

      i need to print this on every tshirt that i have so everytime i look at myself in the mirror i get humbled😂

    • @beansandgreens365
      @beansandgreens365 Місяць тому +1

      I clicked for the cat

    • @jannatulmiftah2592
      @jannatulmiftah2592 Місяць тому +1

      Same!

  • @perendia
    @perendia Місяць тому +999

    „survivors have scars, victims have graves“

  • @uzmaraihan7479
    @uzmaraihan7479 Місяць тому +686

    "When someone wants something so badly, they will get it done any way"

  • @victoriacathcart8460
    @victoriacathcart8460 Місяць тому +3685

    The cat falling asleep in the sink 😂

    • @xojust_j
      @xojust_j Місяць тому +138

      This distracted me a lot

    • @urhotmom186
      @urhotmom186 Місяць тому +91

      That was sooooo funny I couldn’t stop laughing 😭

    • @victoriacathcart8460
      @victoriacathcart8460 Місяць тому +12

      @@urhotmom186 lol me too!

    • @myself2196
      @myself2196 Місяць тому +7

      Lol 😂

    • @calicojellyza
      @calicojellyza Місяць тому +49

      Star of the show😭😭😭

  • @imanjamila
    @imanjamila Місяць тому +2261

    “If you think you’re so goddamn ugly do something about your face!!!” Ate and left no crumbs

    • @gablillyjay
      @gablillyjay Місяць тому +87

      LMAO when she said that I almost spit my coffee out 😂❤

    • @NathalieAlesandra
      @NathalieAlesandra Місяць тому +40

      She's so real

    • @kiwi696
      @kiwi696 Місяць тому +88

      frrr whenever I see any insta reels I'm tired of some people always commenting 'step 1: be pretty' 🤡

    • @yznuwu3268
      @yznuwu3268 Місяць тому +47

      @@7esnaI don’t understand what your comment means?

    • @sharlisarkar5929
      @sharlisarkar5929 Місяць тому +19

      Hahaha... 😂 That was funny. But that nothing means that you should go for surgery and what. Love myself for what I am right now , i am satisfied with my beauty.

  • @GorgeousPenguin
    @GorgeousPenguin Місяць тому +149

    ‘The only thing that is promised in life is that we will die.’
    Liz said the deepest thing ever without even realising it.

    • @aniya7079
      @aniya7079 9 днів тому +2

      in Islam death is called certainty

    • @Rosecupkie
      @Rosecupkie 4 дні тому

      That's like a verse of quran..

  • @sadgurl4753
    @sadgurl4753 Місяць тому +124

    She is literally yelling at me and I love it

  • @locika3056
    @locika3056 Місяць тому +2014

    "your life is shit because of you" hit sm thank u for that

  • @Austin_Jason
    @Austin_Jason Місяць тому +15606

    Those who didn't come from TikTok are allowed to like this comment.........

    • @meyzwh
      @meyzwh Місяць тому +478

      This is not making you special

    • @RosieRosePetal
      @RosieRosePetal Місяць тому +26

      @@meyzwhok sure

    • @aicirpb
      @aicirpb Місяць тому +160

      why do ppl always say this💀

    • @user-bv5sq9dy7w
      @user-bv5sq9dy7w Місяць тому +13

      @@meyzwhit’s a joke…..

    • @SceneDollx3
      @SceneDollx3 Місяць тому +53

      @@meyzwh they just greedy for comment likes like it's gonna have any meaning in their life 😮‍💨

  • @PalesaPhake-nk2lx
    @PalesaPhake-nk2lx Місяць тому +86

    "my father abused me.....bluh bluh but you know what ??when you are successful they want to be there "Liz you got me there🙏

  • @donewlifee
    @donewlifee Місяць тому +34

    "your life is shit because of you" yea needed that

  • @louiseheggendorn496
    @louiseheggendorn496 Місяць тому +1431

    "Stop abusing yourself by being in the same circle that you don't like. Stop abusing yourself by being the same person that you don't like." that HURTS

  • @Pickingwisdom
    @Pickingwisdom Місяць тому +748

    “I am not here to making you feel comfortable”
    REPEAT THAT

    • @maryahbashir7982
      @maryahbashir7982 Місяць тому +14

      But honestly I feel comfortable even when she’s yelling at us

  • @SN-32
    @SN-32 Місяць тому +35

    She slapped me into reality and I remain to sit and listen

  • @charms_sunlight
    @charms_sunlight Місяць тому +55

    Her mindset, the way she thinks about stuff, her perspective about diff things makes so much sense!

  • @prettytoxic
    @prettytoxic Місяць тому +777

    the aggressive YOU DONT HAVE ANYONE TO BLAME just woke the shit out of my soul

    • @fripaupusch
      @fripaupusch Місяць тому

      Same omgg

    • @zenorian6952
      @zenorian6952 Місяць тому

      Lmao samme. Haha

    • @sadhbhdelahunt
      @sadhbhdelahunt Місяць тому +3

      Whats Lmao mean?

    • @ebisebissla
      @ebisebissla Місяць тому +5

      " laughing my ass off ", people who talk in english use this in stead of " hahahah "

  • @coqey
    @coqey Місяць тому +855

    "I heard you were falling into the victim mindset again." u got me

    • @ccb.443
      @ccb.443 Місяць тому +1

      real 😔

  • @darksun2063
    @darksun2063 Місяць тому +39

    Girl you really need to stop with the better help promotion if you just do your research you will see the issues and lawsuits this company is facing. Not only they faced a lawsuit back in 2018 they are facing a lawsuit again there are tons of stories of people who tried betterhelp and were disrespected by the so called “therapist”. It costs from $260-$300 it is not cheap and they are not licensed therapists. FYI for anyone who wants to know they’re in a lawsuit coz they shared users data with Facebook

  • @unqua
    @unqua Місяць тому +34

    The way she said "your life is shit bcz of you" .🤐

  • @prettytoxic
    @prettytoxic Місяць тому +760

    the cat being all comfy in the sink got me 😂

  • @mlp_bestchannel88
    @mlp_bestchannel88 Місяць тому +685

    ~You are not victim~
    • Realise that life is an imagination
    • Realise that you are creator of your imagination
    • Ask questions to yourself
    • Being a victim makes you feel safe
    • Changing your life and stop blaming others
    • Your life only change if you change
    • Growth is: 2 steps forward and 1 steps back
    • Realise that you are addicted to drama
    • Realise that you have a control
    • Ask yourself: Why do I allow those people in my life
    • What are you doing to fix your life
    • When you want something badly you will find a way
    • Go from complaining to gratitude
    • Realise how privileged you are
    • We need the good and the bad to keep world in balance
    • Past and future don't exist
    • Recognize the ways you sabotage yourself
    • Start taking responsibility for your behavior
    • Taking care of yourself first the most selfless act
    • You deserve anything you desire

    • @keifmyr
      @keifmyr Місяць тому +7

      thanks bro it was necessary❤

    • @daemon.tabris
      @daemon.tabris Місяць тому +2

      you know she say that is NOT selfless?

    • @sanaperween3161
      @sanaperween3161 Місяць тому

      Jyo ku.ikoi😮 Mall 😊

    • @sanaperween3161
      @sanaperween3161 Місяць тому

      Jyo ku.ikoi😮 Mall 😊

    • @t9kio
      @t9kio Місяць тому +8

      omg can someone like this so i can't lose this comment

  • @lollol00979
    @lollol00979 Місяць тому +26

    I like how honest she is

  • @crybaby5075
    @crybaby5075 Місяць тому +26

    I want to thank you liz, because when I first watched your video I was 15 and deeply in substances addiction, in toxic relationship with older drug addict, who was very abusive. Because of your video I changed my whole life, stopped using, started going to the gym, cut off this guy. Right now I am 17 and I’m in healthy relationship, I go to the gym 4 times a week, I have good grades, I healed from addiction and ptsd and I’m ending my therapy. I’m so grateful for your videos. (Btw sorry about my english but thats not my first language)

    • @jaz9552
      @jaz9552 Місяць тому +6

      i am so so sooooo proud of you, keep going !!! sending you love, peace and light

    • @Princesse77783
      @Princesse77783 Місяць тому +2

      You can be extremely proud of yourself ❤ keep going this way

    • @crybaby5075
      @crybaby5075 Місяць тому

      @@jaz9552 thank you

    • @crybaby5075
      @crybaby5075 Місяць тому

      @@Princesse77783 thank you sm

    • @djklmnx
      @djklmnx 11 днів тому +1

      you are genuinely amazing!

  • @mansi1160
    @mansi1160 Місяць тому +736

    You're literally the big sister we never had but needed in our livesss🩷🩷🩷🩷🎀🎀

    • @Austin_Jason
      @Austin_Jason Місяць тому +8

      I'm gay❤😊❤😊

    • @kimhiba9209
      @kimhiba9209 Місяць тому +4

      i agreee ❤

    • @whos.mayy13
      @whos.mayy13 Місяць тому +5

      100% 🩷

    • @gagana4312
      @gagana4312 Місяць тому +2

      But for me therapist mom❤

    • @HM87520
      @HM87520 Місяць тому +6

      ​@@Austin_Jason good for you

  • @emilyarocho
    @emilyarocho Місяць тому +638

    The How to detach video saved my life. It gave me the strength to leave my abusive husband of 15 years, then as punishment he went to court to put me on a psych ward because I must be crazy if I want to leave!!. While I was in there I kept repeating your video on my mind (God is not done with you, you are alive, you have the power!) Fast forward 6 months I have an amazing life!! Better than what I could Imagine. I live in a dream house in a little paradise island called Culebra with my 3 dogs all funded by my milli boyfriend who is a saint and I am at peace for the first time in my life. No crying!! I never thought normal life is not crying every week. I can sleep at anytime, wear whatever I want and just be happy and relax! Thank you Liz

    • @Didithurtwhenyoufellfromheaven
      @Didithurtwhenyoufellfromheaven Місяць тому +21

      Happy for you❤❤

    • @Latifaaah
      @Latifaaah Місяць тому

      That could never be me. Cuz I’m not a weak B like u that attract those type of men 😂😂 hope your ex-husband finds u again 😊

    • @ajfna
      @ajfna Місяць тому +16

      Aww im happy for u 💖💖💖

    • @gracey111
      @gracey111 Місяць тому +13

      Wow!! Thats so powerful🔥

    • @priyagahalot5317
      @priyagahalot5317 Місяць тому +9

      best decision ever

  • @troglodyte2042
    @troglodyte2042 Місяць тому +35

    I'm a guy. My hero is David. Ironically when video began i asked "do ladies even know about David Goggins". I was not expecting him to be mentioned. Good to see someone talking to women about victim mentality. Huge respect.

    • @congee9417
      @congee9417 Місяць тому +7

      We could tell you were a guy even without you mentioning

    • @troglodyte2042
      @troglodyte2042 15 днів тому

      @@Yoon_Andy i worry and think about what i want. Thank you.

  • @shamefulthoughts2712
    @shamefulthoughts2712 Місяць тому +13

    you know sometimes i try to undermine her influence and energy like pffft what could she possibly say that's so life changing. then i watch her videos every one in a while and its an absolute reality check. she deserves her success.

  • @stellapetrou
    @stellapetrou Місяць тому +240

    I don't know who needs to read this but nothing can stop you to create your dream life. There are no excuses.

  • @matias.m.p
    @matias.m.p Місяць тому +220

    4:47 The way the cat laid down to sleep in the dishwasher 🥹

    • @sunset8047
      @sunset8047 Місяць тому +1

      I took that sooo out of context

  • @EtherealParu1
    @EtherealParu1 Місяць тому +6

    "The only thing that's promised in life is that we will die." BRO I AM SPEECHLESS-

  • @Geordiekenna
    @Geordiekenna Місяць тому +286

    I heard a quote from a stalking documentary that said “I’m not a victim, I’m a survivor” and I think that’s an amazing quote

    • @Honey70708
      @Honey70708 Місяць тому +4

      Two things being true at once

    • @Geordiekenna
      @Geordiekenna 27 днів тому

      @@Honey70708 yes but it’s about perspective

  • @chloe9499
    @chloe9499 Місяць тому +455

    Literally came at the perfect time 😭😭😭

  • @aamna_zehra
    @aamna_zehra Місяць тому +2

    Mother liz thanks for your support and guidance ❤

  • @viavg5347
    @viavg5347 Місяць тому +42

    why did you delete the last Video of sabandliz?! I wanted to see it so much. Don't let negative comments influence you. There are still people who enjoy watching the podcast and appreciate the happy side of you and are therefore looking forward to a positive video that can lift their mood. which doesn't always have to be so serious. You both let yourself be influenced by the negative, which is just incredibly disappointing. If you give up so quickly, you shouldn't even start with new ideas. I'm deeply sorry.

    • @rizzuschrist
      @rizzuschrist Місяць тому +1

      they’re putting an end to that channel

    • @rainyray387
      @rainyray387 Місяць тому

      @@rizzuschristwhy

    • @Smokingqueenrat
      @Smokingqueenrat Місяць тому

      ⁠no they aren’t

    • @Minty_Aqua
      @Minty_Aqua Місяць тому +1

      There are some teachers who don't practice what they preach. And many people study psychology because they have problems themselves.

  • @iblameesree
    @iblameesree Місяць тому +192

    THAT SHOE CUP💀

  • @Vin.G0gh
    @Vin.G0gh Місяць тому +182

    2:08
    “Imagination, life is your creation” -Barbie

  • @RanbirDeepiYoutube
    @RanbirDeepiYoutube Місяць тому +4

    "No one is going to save you" TRUE 💪💪

  • @juliavasic4019
    @juliavasic4019 Місяць тому +5

    I swear every person on this world need to watch this video

  • @moonl1qht_
    @moonl1qht_ Місяць тому +317

    mother came to rescue us again 💗

    • @revxnth
      @revxnth Місяць тому

      This cat lady isn’t saving anyone

    • @SceneDollx3
      @SceneDollx3 Місяць тому

      @@revxnth ok incel

    • @moonl1qht_
      @moonl1qht_ Місяць тому +16

      @@revxnth yeah she isn't but her mindset sure is

    • @ShineIvymarsh-
      @ShineIvymarsh- Місяць тому +10

      ​@@revxnthtf then why r u watching her

    • @avries6
      @avries6 Місяць тому +1

      @@revxnth not you under every positive comment . dude she is more successful than you right now

  • @similitude2341
    @similitude2341 Місяць тому +314

    She is going deeper and deeper into sprituality😂😂, thats why she can explain this way.

    • @hayamounirji7771
      @hayamounirji7771 Місяць тому +3

      Hey, what hat do you mean?

    • @revxnth
      @revxnth Місяць тому +2

      Yeah listen to a cat lady 😂😂😂😂

    • @HM87520
      @HM87520 Місяць тому +7

      ​​@@revxnth wdym??

    • @HM87520
      @HM87520 Місяць тому +42

      ​@@hayamounirji7771 I think they mean that she is getting more spiritual that's why she is able to explain her thoughts very well.

    • @sylviasimasiku2603
      @sylviasimasiku2603 Місяць тому +2

      She watch shera seven heavy

  • @user-gf8hm9oy1f
    @user-gf8hm9oy1f 10 днів тому +2

    No way she went from introducing Marsie calmly to attacking us 😭😂😂😂

  • @Julia-dj7kp
    @Julia-dj7kp Місяць тому +1

    Liz I can´t stress enough how much you've helped me in my journey. Without your videos I wouldn't be the person that I am today or have nearly as much confidence as I do. Your work doesn't get unnoticed. Thank you so much. Bless you and your beautiful soul for helping so many people 🥰

  • @Amber-yu2ph
    @Amber-yu2ph Місяць тому +141

    She doesn't sugarcoat everyone and will always tell the truth

  • @hahahhaha7858
    @hahahhaha7858 Місяць тому +92

    The ”You Will have more of what you don’t have” changed my mindset

  • @feminine2675
    @feminine2675 22 години тому +1

    I LOVE HER, I ABSOLUTELY NEEDED THIS TYPA SCOLDING 💗

  • @simonejanew5782
    @simonejanew5782 Місяць тому

    I seriously needed this. Thank you😭❤️🙏You deserve the world for helping us all get through our own BS❤️

  • @AnkitaGore-qx7rn
    @AnkitaGore-qx7rn Місяць тому +100

    Again she comes at rescue when we need..😭😭

  • @summertimesadness444
    @summertimesadness444 Місяць тому +73

    Thank you all for support :)! ~~
    I've been depressed for such a long time, but this video gave me motivation so I'm going to change my life and give you updates :))
    Day 1: I have read a book instead of scrolling on tiktok and it was hard, because I have short attention span, but I read 30 pages!!
    Day 2: I have problem with eating because I'm too tired to cook and everyday i eat the same food, so today i went to a restaurant for a burger and fries and later bought myself a piece of cake :))
    Day 3: As I mentioned earlier I have short attention span, but today I tried to study for my statistics exam (ugh, I hate math) and I've done few exercises and learned some new formulas

    • @studentlife8240
      @studentlife8240 Місяць тому +6

      I am so proud of you. i hope you keep going no matter what 🥺❤️

    • @alicetekaya1519
      @alicetekaya1519 Місяць тому +5

      keep us updated

    • @hellosou
      @hellosou Місяць тому +3

      Congratulations! I am so proud of you. Keep going. The only obstacles are the ones you put ahead of you, you are capable of anything and everything.

    • @kyugzi
      @kyugzi Місяць тому +3

      so proud of you, what book did u read?

    • @kyugzi
      @kyugzi Місяць тому +1

      so proud of you, what book did u read?

  • @josianetsh
    @josianetsh Місяць тому +3

    Liz your timing is always so spot on!

  • @ilwjennna
    @ilwjennna 8 днів тому

    I LOVE HOW SHE YELLS AND TEACHES US🙏🏾

  • @Amira-ss6zj
    @Amira-ss6zj Місяць тому +101

    She always has perfect timing

  • @uaknl1830
    @uaknl1830 Місяць тому +90

    girl literally 1h ago i was like “liz still hasn’t posted??” and i’ve manifested so hard, im so happyyy

  • @Higlorynwaneri
    @Higlorynwaneri Місяць тому +1

    I love how you think literally, my mindset literally changed from 0-100 in few seconds. Thank you 😊

  • @username16161
    @username16161 Місяць тому

    i’ve started watching you a few days ago and i already feel a big change in my mentality and ways of handling life. thank you for all your inspiring videos you’re such an icon❤️✨✨

  • @harmanjotkaur0209
    @harmanjotkaur0209 Місяць тому +112

    my grandmother passed away yesterday i was crying throughout the video and remembering her say this girl is so beautiful whenever i watched your videos near her...its very hard time healing and studying at the same time beacuse ive been preparing for a national conpetitive exam since two years which is in 20 days... i was really so attached to her and considering myself victim in this crucial time..this video helps at a perfect time

    • @whos.mayy13
      @whos.mayy13 Місяць тому +14

      im so sorry for your loss, i pray things will get better soon for you

    • @Thepokerface2.1
      @Thepokerface2.1 Місяць тому +9

      I am very sorry for you I hope you'll heal and that your exams go well

    • @brecamara777
      @brecamara777 Місяць тому +6

      Im so sorry for your loss, i hope she is in a better place... and hope you'll get better soon ❤

    • @aliza_sophia
      @aliza_sophia Місяць тому +11

      it's SO normal to grieve,. some people can really have a big impact on your own energy/auraa. remember to make space for the memories, but dont let them consume you🤍 i like to meditate and set a boundary, for when the energy of the other person is allowed to enter mine. if you suddenly cry out of nowhere and thoughts and memories are consuming you, then let them enter your body, feel it, take a break and just be. after youre done crying, then let go and try to visualize a "bandage" over the episode. that helped me so much when i lost my dad🤍
      im extremely sorry for your loss💕

    • @Browngirlstuff
      @Browngirlstuff Місяць тому +4

      preparing for NEET? dont worry it will go all too well and remember everything happens for a reason.

  • @arandomyoutubeviewer3694
    @arandomyoutubeviewer3694 Місяць тому +101

    Timestamps for everyone 🤍🤍:
    2:04 Realize that life is an IMAGINATION
    4:30 Realize that YOU’RE THE CREATOR OF YOUR IMAGINATION‼️
    5:18 Being a victim makes you feel safe
    5:50 Changing your life and STOP BLAMING OTHERS
    7:00 Growth is: 2 steps forward and 1 step back
    7:52 Realize that you’re ADDICTED TO DRAMA😭
    8:50 Realize that YOU HAVE CONTROL‼️‼️🤯
    10:16 When you want something badly you will find a way. 💜🤍
    10:57 Go from complaining 😩to GRATITUDE‼️😌✨✨
    13:11 Past and future DON’T EXIST.
    13:47 Recognize the ways you sabotage yourself
    14:51 Taking care of yourself is the most selfless act.
    15:45 You deserve everything you desire. 🤍
    Love y’all 🤍🤍🤍

    • @she1156
      @she1156 Місяць тому +3

      Aww thank you honey🍓

    • @cloutbro8250
      @cloutbro8250 Місяць тому +3

      Also 5:18: Being a victim makes you feel safe + 5:50: Changing your life and stop blaming others

    • @arandomyoutubeviewer3694
      @arandomyoutubeviewer3694 Місяць тому

      @@cloutbro8250thank you so much 🤍

    • @arandomyoutubeviewer3694
      @arandomyoutubeviewer3694 Місяць тому

      @@cloutbro8250thank you so much 🤍

    • @nobody6690
      @nobody6690 Місяць тому +2

      Thank uuu ❤❤

  • @Noodles-iy3tm
    @Noodles-iy3tm Місяць тому

    I love that her words are not sugarcoated! It hurts me but encourages me at the same time

  • @user-yf1td4qm2i
    @user-yf1td4qm2i Місяць тому +1

    rhank you Liz!! I started seeing yout videos when I was in a terrible mental state and u helped me a lot, now I'm way better, but still when I see your videos even if i dont feel like I need them that much it keeps inspiring me and reminding me those things I learnt and can't forget!! truly grateful

  • @Womaimnida
    @Womaimnida Місяць тому +52

    You are litteraly a physical representation of my guardian angel.

  • @steffe-yo
    @steffe-yo Місяць тому +38

    Aww the cat is adorable 😭

  • @idontreallycarexx
    @idontreallycarexx Місяць тому +1

    You don’t know how much I needed this video right now! Thanks Liz.

  • @yashveenbharaj728
    @yashveenbharaj728 21 день тому +2

    You say that nobody's going to save you, but you are saving us all❤

  • @Mary-eo7ir
    @Mary-eo7ir Місяць тому +45

    What a precious little lady! We love her!!!

    • @Mary-eo7ir
      @Mary-eo7ir Місяць тому +17

      To b clear talking about the kitten but we love Liz too mwah

  • @BunnyKook.97Official_
    @BunnyKook.97Official_ Місяць тому +36

    BRO I WAS LITERALLY HAVING BREAKDOWN NOWDAYS AND THIS-????!!!

  • @frostytipsasmr
    @frostytipsasmr Місяць тому +2

    THANK YOU, I really needed this, I’m so tired of the victim mindset, it’s so self sabotaging. This video change my whole mood for the day, best video to watch before going to work. THANK YOU LIZ!

  • @bellabrlyna
    @bellabrlyna Місяць тому +1

    for some reason i always cry every time i watch your videos. i'm really grateful that someone said this in my life

  • @oceanblvdK
    @oceanblvdK Місяць тому +35

    "try again,try again" i felt that,i'm trying to get back into my medschool....

    • @tasfiaaastha45
      @tasfiaaastha45 Місяць тому

      Good luck! you can do it

    • @oceanblvdK
      @oceanblvdK Місяць тому

      @@tasfiaaastha45 thank you so much ;) this is so sweet of you

  • @SugaKookiLuvs754
    @SugaKookiLuvs754 Місяць тому +16

    SHE CAME AT SUCH A PERFECT TIME I SWEAR😭

  • @gracegabriel9281
    @gracegabriel9281 Місяць тому +7

    I couldn’t comment on sabandliz last video because the comment section is turned off,but I am here to say I really loved the canned of sabandliz and I love everything about the two of you and I’m also so in love with the relationships between the two of you god bless both of you and I’ll always love both of you even if you’re off camera ❤️❤️🫶🏿🫶🏿

  • @babyboopxo
    @babyboopxo Місяць тому

    Thank you fir keeping us awake and also being open about being abused as a child, i have been too and it feels nice to see someone similar to me on the internet who also has a lot of motivation

  • @meow5312
    @meow5312 Місяць тому

    God bless this woman.... so ahead of everyone, deserves every single thing she has and lots more... her gorgeous mindset and soul reflect on her beauty. I didn't think i could love a person I've never seen in real life, but it's impossible not to love her. Wishing you all the best Liz and sending the best of energy towards you!

  • @kreetibansal23
    @kreetibansal23 Місяць тому +22

    A harsh reality check is all what we need sometimes. Thank you Liz.

  • @fatemaabdelrahman8964
    @fatemaabdelrahman8964 Місяць тому +21

    SCREAMING,CRYING,THROWING UP . I NEEDED THIS . I REWATCHED ONE OF UR VIDOES TODAY BC I FELT MYSELF GOING BACK.

  • @nini_mandu_loves
    @nini_mandu_loves Місяць тому

    i was really falling again in this mindset and it woke me up
    liz thank u so much u are a guiding spirit

  • @notcoolatalll
    @notcoolatalll Місяць тому +2

    I will speak for myself and change myself

  • @Tomielena
    @Tomielena Місяць тому +47

    Ok but why this cames up when I started again to spiral in that mindset 😭😭😭

  • @Roasting_bro22
    @Roasting_bro22 Місяць тому +32

    The quote that I read in a book is the thing that gets me everytime " YOU'RE NOT A VICTIM. YOU'RE A SURVIVOR" .

    • @sofiayalar.1336
      @sofiayalar.1336 Місяць тому +1

      Oh i read that on ''the choice' by edith eger

    • @Roasting_bro22
      @Roasting_bro22 Місяць тому

      @@sofiayalar.1336 I read it in another book . But it helps me everytime

    • @sofiayalar.1336
      @sofiayalar.1336 Місяць тому

      @@Roasting_bro22 oh I see :) which one?

    • @Roasting_bro22
      @Roasting_bro22 Місяць тому

      @@sofiayalar.1336 it was a novel tho with domestic abuse ..ummmmm I'll think and lyk

  • @euphoric.stuffs909
    @euphoric.stuffs909 Місяць тому +1

    genuinely thank you liz, i love you for this

  • @patygarc1aa_
    @patygarc1aa_ Місяць тому

    in this exact moment, today. i needed to hear this. i was feeling sorry for myself because i didn’t get a text back. this snapped me back immediately and i’m starting to realize my worth more.

  • @ayadesu284
    @ayadesu284 Місяць тому +13

    the mindset of this girl changes my life tysm

  • @divineshinetarot95
    @divineshinetarot95 Місяць тому +17

    Best quote of the video, “If you think you’re so GD ugly, do something to fix your face!!!” I seriously love her!

  • @coklatstroberi4674
    @coklatstroberi4674 9 днів тому

    Thankyou, Liz. Being able to watch your video is a privilege and honor to me. I want to change my life so badly since my teenager life. Even my society so depressing and told me that i'd never make it, I will prove myself that I AM CAPABLE OF CHANGING MY LIFE TO BE MY BEST LIFE. been trying to manifest since 2 years ago, and i think now I'm going back to my old pattern. Now, I'm ready to thrive again, to be my best self, changing myself and my life, and living my best life. ❤❤❤❤

  • @theariadna
    @theariadna Місяць тому

    I love how passionate she is when she says this. It comes off not as motivation as a subconscious MESSAGE. So powerful.

  • @saniyahuja
    @saniyahuja Місяць тому +14

    Momma, you have changed me for the better. I am so GRATEFUL to have you in my life. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us, mommy. Love YOU💗🧿

  • @alliyahmelendez
    @alliyahmelendez 26 днів тому

    I needed to hear this desperately thank you. You articulated every single thing perfectly.

  • @maeyun9793
    @maeyun9793 Місяць тому +1

    Gonna keep rewatching this video every once in a while that I feel like im going back into the victim slump again cuz wow this video really knocked me back to reality

  • @LeslieBTv
    @LeslieBTv Місяць тому +11

    The fact she mentioned David speaks volumes! I love HER

  • @MandyJRoss
    @MandyJRoss Місяць тому +13

    If you're reading this I'm praying something amazing happens for you today.❤️🙏🏼

  • @vishakachander3450
    @vishakachander3450 Місяць тому +1

    I never felt the need of getting a therapist. You are my therapist. Thank you for everything. ❤️

  • @ghadifaiz2714
    @ghadifaiz2714 Місяць тому

    No one affected me like you , thank you Liz I really appreciate everything you said you don’t say sweet things like other you said the truth and the truth hurt sometimes but after that you can’t forget it and you will really change

  • @kavyaasrivastava
    @kavyaasrivastava Місяць тому +37

    Mother never disappoints

  • @whatthis4366
    @whatthis4366 Місяць тому +8

    Ego broken, good one! Thanks !

  • @Buzzoit
    @Buzzoit Місяць тому

    Thankyou for the kick in the butt I appreciate hearing!

  • @jerrytrung3793
    @jerrytrung3793 21 день тому +1

    Thank you Liz! Love your videos and all the truths!

  • @faith_precious
    @faith_precious Місяць тому +7

    Listened to this more than once. Showing up for yourself is a job you have to do yourself.🙂🙂

  • @stutisingh8366
    @stutisingh8366 Місяць тому +38

    I screamed my heart out after seeing the notification

  • @saritasharma_29
    @saritasharma_29 13 днів тому

    thank you so much liz, like genuinely. sometimes i feel no one is there, but you. i love you so much. i hope you stay well and know you are saving lives.

  • @sithmi2381
    @sithmi2381 Місяць тому

    Liz you’re always saving me🙏🏻 forever grateful

  • @nopeno1559
    @nopeno1559 Місяць тому +5

    Earlier today I had a panic attack after several weeks of trying my best to improve. I felt so helpless and sad, thinking if I can't have the life that I see so vividly in my mind I'd rather die. I hate feeling helpless, hopeless and anxious. Everything felt out of control. It took a lot of courage to tell myself to keep going and not give up. I really needed this video Liz. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for all the things you do.