Storytime: I Met My Husband in Haiti

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  • Опубліковано 22 жов 2024

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  • @Heyjayy-k4q
    @Heyjayy-k4q 2 роки тому +61

    Any Haitian woman who has made it to the point of marriage has jumped hell and high water to get to that point because our families literally try to sabotage it 😫😂until they realize it’s a real relationship. .. they want us to eventually get married but they despise dating. Lol.. can totally relate. Great story!

  • @valerieazor1719
    @valerieazor1719 2 роки тому +19

    I'm rolling how focused you were on 1992. As you know I met my husband in Haiti and he was born in 92. He was hesitant to tell me his age because he thought I would have a problem with it. If I focused on age I would've missed out on love. And lord parents...don't get me started. If I listened to my parents I would of again missed out on love. Both my parents apologized to my husband for not accepting him for me in the beginning, they love him.

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  2 роки тому +1

      Girl not me😅…well not at 24 at least. I still had enough time to look for love. I would have just been on to the next lol

  • @edelefrancois4230
    @edelefrancois4230 2 роки тому +27

    Hi Rutty, your story is very similar to mine. I too met my husband in Haiti while visiting my grandmother. Yes, Haitian families can be very protective of their girls. No matter how old you are. We've been married for 20 years now and you are inspiring us to follow our dreams of moving back to Haiti when our daughter graduates college. Thanks for sharing

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  2 роки тому

      Congrats on 20 years of marriage!! 🎉

    • @edelefrancois4230
      @edelefrancois4230 2 роки тому +1

      Thanks. God has been good to us.

  • @thevoltairefamily
    @thevoltairefamily 2 роки тому +21

    Girl, I know exactly what you talking about, it doesn't matter how old you are sometimes your family acts like you're a teenager it's a Haitian thing I guess.you’re doing amazing with your channel keep up the good work 🇭🇹.

    • @annepierre-joseph2713
      @annepierre-joseph2713 2 роки тому +4

      It's not a Haitian thing lol it's all the Caribbean people all the foreigners thing lol I'm telling you I met my husband in Haiti myself in 2010 after high-school omg just like she say my family my mom omg they give me hell it came to the point where I was coming to haiti to visit him without my parents knowing love is love

  • @saekuto
    @saekuto 2 роки тому +3

    "Ti pye ay chèch" 😂😂 granmoun sa yo hahaha!! Very nice story time, please do more 🙏🏾❤️

  • @scherilmathieu6680
    @scherilmathieu6680 Рік тому +1

    I love grandma “ ti piel sèch 😂😂😂” something my grandma would say. I’m happy I fell on your channel you’ve gained another subscriber.

  • @mercandog507
    @mercandog507 2 роки тому +4

    I went back home pou ti zel mwen. When i tell you I’m in love? A breath of fresh energy.

  • @pascaledixon
    @pascaledixon 2 роки тому +8

    Great story. One of my most adventurous relationships was with a guy I dated in haiti. We were living the life. One day in Port au Prince, the next day in Cap Haitian. We had long summer nights in Jacmel and toured the Citadel in Milo. Good times. Once we started dating in America everything changed. The stresses of life here in America does not allow you to live your best life. Anyways it was good while it lasted. Question- has Sammy ever lived in America with you before you moving to and if not, why?

  • @MadeByTriniLena
    @MadeByTriniLena 2 роки тому +1

    🤣🤣🤣 you called him out “why you acting like that, you shy”

  • @KingSolomon-n4f
    @KingSolomon-n4f 10 місяців тому +1

    What an inspiring story full of lessons. Watching you all the way from Ghana. Keep up the good work, my good friend and sister. 🙏

  • @bethsaidadavilma4062
    @bethsaidadavilma4062 2 роки тому +6

    Awww what a beautiful story! Good to hear all Haitian kids are eventually living the same exact life when it comes to dating and relationships 😂😂

  • @yanmck-sam5472
    @yanmck-sam5472 2 роки тому +12

    Rutty this was the cutest story. ❤️Sometimes we have to step out for love.

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  2 роки тому

      💛💛💛

  • @djmagicfinger
    @djmagicfinger Рік тому +1

    😂😂😂 funny story with your grandma 😂 li pa bat ou ?? 🏃🏿‍♂️🏃🏿‍♂️🏃🏿‍♂️🏃🏿‍♂️

  • @cestmoilouuu
    @cestmoilouuu 2 роки тому +10

    WE LOVE IT HERE❤️

  • @mickaelle8309
    @mickaelle8309 2 роки тому +7

    Giggling and laughing as if I know the whole family 😂. Thank you for sharing!!

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  2 роки тому

      😂😂 thanks for watching!

  • @naromiesbeninche6975
    @naromiesbeninche6975 9 місяців тому

    Well after watching a couple videos about life in Haiti. Of course I wanted some teas 😁😂.

  • @MadeByTriniLena
    @MadeByTriniLena 2 роки тому +2

    🤣🤣🤣 the beginning is to funny

  • @beca9180
    @beca9180 2 роки тому +2

    Great story!!!
    The story was so captivating that I ended up going to passereine, even going to gonaives bus station. Lolll, I enjoyed it.

  • @nthabelengsekhobo946
    @nthabelengsekhobo946 2 роки тому +2

    What a lovely story. You definitely like me when it comes to the age thing 😂😂😂

  • @lisascaribbeankitchen5482
    @lisascaribbeankitchen5482 2 роки тому +2

    Beautiful story can relate so much to your experience. I'm happy you followed your heart and didn't let their initial opinions stop you.

  • @f.-j.j.5738
    @f.-j.j.5738 2 роки тому +7

    Aouch, your channel is bitter sweet. I'm a Gonaives/Gros-Morne girl and miss everything so much.
    I also lived a year in Cap-Haitian. Your family was right to be scared. When teens, young adults leave to go to Port-au-Prince, they have good intentions to study and make something of themselves. But sometimes things get hard, they can't make it on their own and they get recruited in gangs as a survival route.

  • @mlo9797
    @mlo9797 2 роки тому +1

    I’m pretty sure a lot of girls in haiti understand what you are talking about i love your story ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏new subscriber

  • @ELamy802
    @ELamy802 2 роки тому +2

    Beautiful story ❤️. When it's right....it's right.

  • @danasadventures1194
    @danasadventures1194 2 роки тому +4

    I’m a few minutes in and you’re funny 😄 thanks for sharing your love story ❤️❤️❤️🇭🇹

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  2 роки тому

      Thanks for watching💛

  • @gabriellelezin3690
    @gabriellelezin3690 9 місяців тому

    Hi Rutty, I really enjoy watching your videos. Loveeee it; keep it up!

  • @moorfortune901
    @moorfortune901 2 роки тому +2

    Both of yall families know each other well. And she held u when u was baby. Yall relationship destined to go far. Although your Big brother was Hating. 😆

  • @shanonbrown6170
    @shanonbrown6170 9 місяців тому

    Girl, you are SO beautiful!! ☺🩷

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  9 місяців тому

      Thank youuuu💗🥹

  • @evenatheloma5522
    @evenatheloma5522 Рік тому

    I got chilled when granma started saying kimoun ki met al? I'm thrilled when north side people talk like that

  • @challessajackson7166
    @challessajackson7166 Рік тому +1

    Congratulations 🎊

  • @JWinston7
    @JWinston7 2 роки тому +10

    Samy tap bay problem nan bouk la uii😂😂😂

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  2 роки тому

      😅😅😅

  • @claybeatsonetouch
    @claybeatsonetouch Рік тому +1

    I Think That A blessing To Find out that The You Were connected Since You Were Child And That You Didn't Had to force ANything, Just Let The Water Flow. Good Job Guys. Congratulation To you Guys @Samybeatz And @ruttyb

  • @brigittezamor7694
    @brigittezamor7694 2 роки тому +2

    Love this story!!

  • @junefran2721
    @junefran2721 2 роки тому +7

    Haitian parents are something else😀😀

  • @RobF2593
    @RobF2593 2 роки тому +1

    Beautiful Story. But sorry, I have an unrelated question. Haiti likes to measure land in "Centième", how much "quare-foot" is 1 Centième? For the life of me I cannot find it on Google.

  • @naromiesbeninche6975
    @naromiesbeninche6975 9 місяців тому

    Wow..
    What a beautiful date time. Only island people can relate 😂

  • @Thatbul
    @Thatbul 2 роки тому +7

    I live in the U.S but I want my future wife to be Haitian.

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  2 роки тому

      Yes, that video will be coming soon. I am starting a series all about moving to Haiti.

  • @tikakou92
    @tikakou92 2 роки тому +1

    Love your channel ! ❤️, so glad I found it 🤗

  • @margybernard
    @margybernard 2 роки тому +1

    I know Passe reine. A beautiful, lush, serene place

  • @HoppyDuroseauREALESTATE
    @HoppyDuroseauREALESTATE Рік тому +1

    I love that story

  • @manigatkid5405
    @manigatkid5405 2 роки тому +1

    Ruth, that was not your mother’s fault ,she suffered from haitian parents syndrome. We aren’t like parents from some other places who don’t care about who their kins chose for spouse . As you very well know, when you say I do, you are committed for life, and it’s hard to travel the road of life with a bag. I am glad Samy turns out to be a good husband. Otherwise, I would personally explore your world because you are a great woman.

  • @GegeP1804
    @GegeP1804 2 роки тому +1

    You almost missed your blessing because of 1 year age difference. I honestly don’t know how Haitian women gets married, parents and social expectations places so much restrictions on women dating. I’m glad you have him a chance.

  • @artsandadventures21
    @artsandadventures21 2 роки тому +1

    Wow that’s a beautiful love story!

  • @naromiesbeninche6975
    @naromiesbeninche6975 9 місяців тому

    It 2 am and I am laughing so hard about ti pyay chèch😂😂😂

  • @delva9001
    @delva9001 2 роки тому +1

    Love. The story you just married the love of your life

  • @summergurl21
    @summergurl21 2 роки тому +1

    Love this story 💕 Thank you so much for sharing 🙏

  • @shnidyne2804
    @shnidyne2804 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much for sharing. I love your channel. It's both refreshing and inspiring. Love to see it😍😍😍

  • @debz123lol
    @debz123lol 11 місяців тому

    Nice love story

  • @sarahmordecai9931
    @sarahmordecai9931 2 роки тому +4

    Tande non nap tann channel kreyòl la tande.😔😄

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  2 роки тому +3

      Yon chèn apa ka enteresan wi🤔 m ap reflechi sou sa.

  • @mfs1351
    @mfs1351 2 роки тому

    I did not know there was such thing as advanced bus tickets in Haiti?
    Can we hear more about the live stories, wedding etc… bonne vie a deux.

  • @evenatheloma5522
    @evenatheloma5522 Рік тому +1

    Haitian parents you can be 100 you still gonna be their child

  • @garybrutus
    @garybrutus 2 роки тому +1

    That's our Haitian parents

  • @fabiolatimeau9601
    @fabiolatimeau9601 2 роки тому

    Plasans is nice my dad family are from there

  • @magguy3301
    @magguy3301 2 роки тому +1

    NICE STORY. I M FROM PLAISANCE, LA TROUBLE TO BE EXACT

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  2 роки тому

      💛💛💛

  • @annepierre-joseph2713
    @annepierre-joseph2713 2 роки тому +4

    Love don't care about 1992 sis lol my husband is older than me and I was so nervous I'm like sheeshhh homeboy is way too old for me but my heart was like nah sis I'm good right here lol 13 years strong 3 kids marry and I couldn't be happier

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  2 роки тому +5

      I don’t mind older, but for some reason someone younger than me (even by 1 year) bothers me. Thankfully he turned out to be born in 1991 like me😂💛

    • @annepierre-joseph2713
      @annepierre-joseph2713 2 роки тому

      @@ruttyb great story I'm pretty sure 99.9% of us can relate

  • @ajeneebene6033
    @ajeneebene6033 2 роки тому +1

    Très belle rencontre, motivante histoire d'amour 💕👏🏾
    Bonne continuation!

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  2 роки тому

      Merci!!!💛💛💛

    • @elizafelz
      @elizafelz Рік тому

      Ton histoire d’amour est vraiment émouvante 🥹

  • @ruth50elidor62
    @ruth50elidor62 2 роки тому

    Thanks for sharing your story😘

  • @tjules7
    @tjules7 2 роки тому +2

    We were hoping to see Sammy in the video.

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  2 роки тому

      Nope, lol.

    • @tjules7
      @tjules7 2 роки тому

      @@ruttyb Any video of Sammy at all!

    • @gerslourdieetienne3966
      @gerslourdieetienne3966 2 роки тому

      I'm the same. No matter how cute you are if you younger than me ,I feel insecured

  • @jasminemesidor8261
    @jasminemesidor8261 2 роки тому +1

    That was an interesting love story 🥰😍😘

  • @anya6498
    @anya6498 Рік тому +1

    Turks and Caicos 🎉😊my Home

  • @karinajames4367
    @karinajames4367 Рік тому

    What year were u born?

  • @sandeelexis7726
    @sandeelexis7726 2 роки тому +2

    I pa gen anyen nn sof ti piay chèch 😂😂😂…

  • @nikalight96
    @nikalight96 2 роки тому

    Turks 🇹🇨in the building you said Provo like an islander 😁

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  2 роки тому +1

      🇹🇨 My mom lived there my whole life. She moved to the States recently. I still have family there.

    • @nikalight96
      @nikalight96 2 роки тому

      @@ruttyb that’s wassup 😁

  • @xoxoChic0102
    @xoxoChic0102 2 роки тому

    ❤ thanks for sharing! New subscriber here 🎉 🤗

  • @MadeByTriniLena
    @MadeByTriniLena 2 роки тому

    Wow his mom use to hold you as a baby, talk about full circle 🔥🎊

  • @TheForefrontRadio
    @TheForefrontRadio 2 роки тому

    Congrats

  • @nadegementor8019
    @nadegementor8019 2 роки тому +1

    Love is love it doesn’t matter where you meet the person, some people need to realize that. We need a part 2 to your beautiful love story. What makes you go back to Haiti to live there permanently? Why didn’t you bring him to the USA instead since there are more opportunities here in the US?

  • @SL-zh5fl
    @SL-zh5fl 2 роки тому +2

    Anmweyyyyyy haitian parents loll toujou pa konn moun nan paran moun nan, map imajine figi grann ou kap di sa. Sweet love story

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  2 роки тому +1

      😂 se pa manti non

  • @pretressewisesaliye
    @pretressewisesaliye Рік тому

    🤣🤣🤣so familiar !

  • @MadeByTriniLena
    @MadeByTriniLena 2 роки тому

    Awesome

  • @kickitwithtunga
    @kickitwithtunga 2 роки тому

    So cute! ❤

  • @stallion7012
    @stallion7012 2 роки тому +2

    WOW, I thought I was going to be your husband!!!

  • @GrowwithNaomie
    @GrowwithNaomie 2 роки тому

    Mi favorite movie lol .....

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  2 роки тому

      Mine too😂

  • @magguy3301
    @magguy3301 2 роки тому

    NEW SUBSCRIBER

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  2 роки тому

      Welcome!!💛💛💛

  • @kingdomqueen1335
    @kingdomqueen1335 2 роки тому

    😂🤣

  • @wilginepierre661
    @wilginepierre661 2 роки тому

    Wow

  • @nightingaleofficial3604
    @nightingaleofficial3604 2 роки тому +2

    First

    • @ruttyb
      @ruttyb  2 роки тому +1

      💛💛💛

  • @nadydorcelus4647
    @nadydorcelus4647 Рік тому +1

    I love this story