5:20 When a women is stressed "Just start doing things around so she doesn't feel alone and when it feels appropriate, give her a hug" This is just so lovely 😍
Yolili Nn This is why in a relationship, the husband comes to take the kids to their play room. Then he returns to his wife to pick her up and carry her away to passionately love her nerves away then after steamy shower together he cooks food for wife while they watch a movie together on the couch after serving kids food too. When kids get a little older, they can play in backyard too. Play in sandbox etc while husband does exact same thing above. Maybe another day when Dad is pissed off and angry, wife can do same thing back: wife takes kids to play in backyard or playroom while she tends to her husband with passionate love then after steamy shower, cooks dinner then watch Game Thrones or The Witcher or some other show in living room after serving the kids dinner too. Power couple! Raising kids is fun and exciting but is very hard and very exhausting sometimes which can stress the marriage so the power couple MUST recharge itself. Husband must take good care of wife. Wife must take good care of husband. Power couple. When I was a child like under the age of 10, I never bothered my parents according to both of their accounts because I would play in the backyard or read books or play with legos to make whole worlds and stories out of legos. I never gave them a hard time according to both of them. I wasn’t even picky with food. Anything my mother cooked, I ate and I ate in its entirety. 3 meals every day like clockwork. Structure. So now that I am adult, I do exactly as I wrote above. I play with the children my wife has given me. I introduced them to books. Gave them many books. Gave them building toys like legos. Gave them toy cars and a sand box outside in safe backyard. Made a safe play room for them with those books and legos I mentioned. They happily do their thing. They make worlds. They make stories. They read stories. They build things. When they become 12 years old, I will begin teaching them exercise and workouts. We have family holidays too like family movie night and outside date night and inside date night and one day a month where we take the kids kayaking. So I know what I’m doing. While my wife and I can breathe and love the other’s nerves away when we feel like it. Our kids are calm and happy and always feel loved and they are not picky with food. They are also very ticklish like their mother. I am not ticklish at all. ☺️ Unstressed breathing steamy marriage. Happy intelligent strong autonomous kids.
“John gray the author” 4:00 Wow you really helped me understand what was going on with my husband during this pandemic. everything you said we both did, and I’m really thankful I came across this video, now I know to pray and what to do and what not to do
This is why in a relationship, the husband comes to take the kids to their play room. Then he returns to his wife to pick her up and carry her away to passionately love her nerves away then after steamy shower together he cooks food for wife while they watch a movie together on the couch after serving kids food too. When kids get a little older, they can play in backyard too. Play in sandbox etc while husband does exact same thing above. Maybe another day when Dad is pissed off and angry, wife can do same thing back: wife takes kids to play in backyard or playroom while she tends to her husband with passionate love then after steamy shower, cooks dinner then watch Game Thrones or The Witcher or some other show in living room after serving the kids dinner too. Power couple! Raising kids is fun and exciting but is very hard and very exhausting sometimes which can stress the marriage so the power couple MUST recharge itself. Husband must take good care of wife. Wife must take good care of husband. Power couple. When I was a child like under the age of 10, I never bothered my parents according to both of their accounts because I would play in the backyard or read books or play with legos to make whole worlds and stories out of legos. I never gave them a hard time according to both of them. I wasn’t even picky with food. Anything my mother cooked, I ate and I ate in its entirety. 3 meals every day like clockwork. Structure. So now that I am adult, I do exactly as I wrote above. I play with the children my wife has given me. I introduced them to books. Gave them many books. Gave them building toys like legos. Gave them toy cars and a sand box outside in safe backyard. Made a safe play room for them with those books and legos I mentioned. They happily do their thing. They make worlds. They make stories. They read stories. They build things. When they become 12 years old, I will begin teaching them exercise and workouts. We have family holidays too like family movie night and outside date night and inside date night and one day a month where we take the kids kayaking. So I know what I’m doing. While my wife and I can breathe and love the other’s nerves away when we feel like it. Our kids are calm and happy and always feel loved and they are not picky with food. They are also very ticklish like their mother. I am not ticklish at all. ☺️ Unstressed breathing steamy marriage. Happy intelligent strong autonomous kids.
I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other, while most platonic best friends remain friends until death. Also, most people are pretty much comfortable enough to be naked around someone and have sex with someone that they have no romantic feelings towards. So sex isn't really a thing about romance. I think that having a platonic best friend is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse is. Having someone who's like a sibling to you is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse. Also, you are more likely be much more closer to someone who's like a brother or sister to you than you would be with a romantic partner or spouse. People tend to fight with their partner or spouse a lot more than they do with a platonic best friend, and you never fight with your best friend the way you fight with your partner or spouse. Partners and spouses are just temporary. If you break up or divorce them, it's hard to go back to them. With your platonic best friend, you're going to make things work, because they are your best friend, they are your go to partner. It's always easier to make amends with them than it is with a romantic partner or spouse.
5:20 When a women is stressed "Just start doing things around so she doesn't feel alone and when it feels appropriate, give her a hug" This is just so lovely 😍
Yolili Nn This is why in a relationship, the husband comes to take the kids to their play room. Then he returns to his wife to pick her up and carry her away to passionately love her nerves away then after steamy shower together he cooks food for wife while they watch a movie together on the couch after serving kids food too.
When kids get a little older, they can play in backyard too. Play in sandbox etc while husband does exact same thing above.
Maybe another day when Dad is pissed off and angry, wife can do same thing back: wife takes kids to play in backyard or playroom while she tends to her husband with passionate love then after steamy shower, cooks dinner then watch Game Thrones or The Witcher or some other show in living room after serving the kids dinner too.
Power couple!
Raising kids is fun and exciting but is very hard and very exhausting sometimes which can stress the marriage so the power couple MUST recharge itself. Husband must take good care of wife. Wife must take good care of husband.
Power couple.
When I was a child like under the age of 10, I never bothered my parents according to both of their accounts because I would play in the backyard or read books or play with legos to make whole worlds and stories out of legos.
I never gave them a hard time according to both of them.
I wasn’t even picky with food. Anything my mother cooked, I ate and I ate in its entirety. 3 meals every day like clockwork. Structure.
So now that I am adult, I do exactly as I wrote above. I play with the children my wife has given me. I introduced them to books. Gave them many books. Gave them building toys like legos. Gave them toy cars and a sand box outside in safe backyard. Made a safe play room for them with those books and legos I mentioned.
They happily do their thing. They make worlds. They make stories. They read stories. They build things.
When they become 12 years old, I will begin teaching them exercise and workouts. We have family holidays too like family movie night and outside date night and inside date night and one day a month where we take the kids kayaking. So I know what I’m doing.
While my wife and I can breathe and love the other’s nerves away when we feel like it. Our kids are calm and happy and always feel loved and they are not picky with food. They are also very ticklish like their mother. I am not ticklish at all.
☺️ Unstressed breathing steamy marriage. Happy intelligent strong autonomous kids.
“John gray the author” 4:00 Wow you really helped me understand what was going on with my husband during this pandemic. everything you said we both did, and I’m really thankful I came across this video, now I know to pray and what to do and what not to do
John Gray, as usual, gives the best answer. Someone please analyze how he does it.
lol... decades of practice! :-)
THE LAST ONE VERY HELPFUL THANKS
3:53 good advice, thank you.
John Gray is a legend
This is why in a relationship, the husband comes to take the kids to their play room. Then he returns to his wife to pick her up and carry her away to passionately love her nerves away then after steamy shower together he cooks food for wife while they watch a movie together on the couch after serving kids food too.
When kids get a little older, they can play in backyard too. Play in sandbox etc while husband does exact same thing above.
Maybe another day when Dad is pissed off and angry, wife can do same thing back: wife takes kids to play in backyard or playroom while she tends to her husband with passionate love then after steamy shower, cooks dinner then watch Game Thrones or The Witcher or some other show in living room after serving the kids dinner too.
Power couple!
Raising kids is fun and exciting but is very hard and very exhausting sometimes which can stress the marriage so the power couple MUST recharge itself. Husband must take good care of wife. Wife must take good care of husband.
Power couple.
When I was a child like under the age of 10, I never bothered my parents according to both of their accounts because I would play in the backyard or read books or play with legos to make whole worlds and stories out of legos.
I never gave them a hard time according to both of them.
I wasn’t even picky with food. Anything my mother cooked, I ate and I ate in its entirety. 3 meals every day like clockwork. Structure.
So now that I am adult, I do exactly as I wrote above. I play with the children my wife has given me. I introduced them to books. Gave them many books. Gave them building toys like legos. Gave them toy cars and a sand box outside in safe backyard. Made a safe play room for them with those books and legos I mentioned.
They happily do their thing. They make worlds. They make stories. They read stories. They build things.
When they become 12 years old, I will begin teaching them exercise and workouts. We have family holidays too like family movie night and outside date night and inside date night and one day a month where we take the kids kayaking. So I know what I’m doing.
While my wife and I can breathe and love the other’s nerves away when we feel like it. Our kids are calm and happy and always feel loved and they are not picky with food. They are also very ticklish like their mother. I am not ticklish at all.
☺️ Unstressed breathing steamy marriage. Happy intelligent strong autonomous kids.
Whoa. Wish I could save this comment lol
@@mendoza2489 Did I say something wrong? I’m sorry if I offended you.
@@DylanBegazo no not at all. I really like your outlook on parenting 🙏☺️
great advice! Thank you!!!
What if your man says you're the cause of his stress😢
I'm in the same boat kinda 😟
Spot on.
I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other, while most platonic best friends remain friends until death.
Also, most people are pretty much comfortable enough to be naked around someone and have sex with someone that they have no romantic feelings towards. So sex isn't really a thing about romance.
I think that having a platonic best friend is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse is. Having someone who's like a sibling to you is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse. Also, you are more likely be much more closer to someone who's like a brother or sister to you than you would be with a romantic partner or spouse.
People tend to fight with their partner or spouse a lot more than they do with a platonic best friend, and you never fight with your best friend the way you fight with your partner or spouse. Partners and spouses are just temporary. If you break up or divorce them, it's hard to go back to them. With your platonic best friend, you're going to make things work, because they are your best friend, they are your go to partner. It's always easier to make amends with them than it is with a romantic partner or spouse.
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