RYAN YOU WAS 🔥🔥🔥🔥 thank you Jesus for delivering me from the delusion of this society's brainwashing. I am a happily married 31 years old woman, a stay at home mom of 3, 4 and under, homeschooler. Best position I've been in and grateful for my husband for being a great man, and working hard to put me in a position to be who God created me to be.
Good evening my brothers and sister, what a vitally valuable conversation!!! Thank you for this timely dialogue!!! It is so important that we work on our relationships, as well as work on OUR Individual SELF!!! Self-Care and Self-Love must be a lifestyle with OUR own selves, before WE invite or invest in relationships with others SELFLESSNESS!!! Enjoy this wonderfully and frigid Fall Day!!! 💜💜💜🥰
There’s a conversation that I’m tired of hearing with black people about relationships- masculine in black women. There has never been a time in history where women did not work alongside black men. There are women who are literally just trying to have a decent lifestyle and be respected. We have taken this concept of masculinity and femininity and used them as boxes to oppress men from doing emotional work and understanding respect of/for women and suppressed women to believe we cannot provide for ourselves without the loss of partnership and/or unhealthy preconceived expectations of what a partner should be.
Facts ❤ Always take time and make time for yourself as a mother it’s mandatory. Even if it’s waking up an hour early praying, exercising, cooking, do something I enjoy & journal. Great advice and show! ❤
25:58 OOOOOP. And this is where I cut this conversation off. SCRIPTURE tells us “but the greatest of these is LOVE”. Yall know what he was speaking on prior to that very deep statement….? Probably not. He was speaking on, you could give EVERYTHING to the poor, you can speak in tongues, you can know every scripture, you can be a philanthropist, etc…. But anything you do without love is NULL & VOID. TRUST me when I say, as a Mental Health Therapist who studies human behavior , who studies communication, who hosts a myriad of conversations in my community, you do NOT need to BASH folk, cuss folk, and degrade folk to “start a conversation.” And YES, it was very much so degrading. The topic is completely lost when the delivery is riddled with disrespect, a lack of love, and the main purpose of it being delivered that way was to cause commotion because negativity gets people noticed easier. SMH. ✌🏾
Love these two. I do think however coachable is not age specific it’s mentality. Yes leadership is the number 1 issue im finding as a woman. We teach our kids to “listen to authority” but not walking in it. Love that Ty said Men have to fix it- because lets be honest there is a group of men who benefit from Women masculinity-this is never addressed.
Everyone is not mouthy - it’s not a man / woman war it’s a heart issue. All men are not bad and all women are not bad. One thing I notice with Tysean and Ryan, is they have not completely healed in the area of blaming.
Some men do not understand that us women are in survival mode because what are women to do when they got bills and families they are responsible for . I do not agree with a woman being masculine to be a leader or becoming successful in cooperation. Most women women want a husband and will be willing to submit but trust must be built by action.
I love these two guys but I have to say im confused.... because early in the conversation they said when women are bored we go to get degrees or to elevate ourselves and and we become too busy for our own good and that's why were single , but in their closing statements their advice to have better luck in being found by the right guy we should Go find hobbies, elevate ourselves ,do self-care in order to be found ......I'm sorry but it sounds a little bit conflicting or all over the place 🤦🤦🤦🤦
No sis, they did not say that "when women are bored we go to get degrees or to elevate ourselves", Koereyelle was the one who made reference to what the late Kevin Samuels once said. However, Ryan said he thinks it is good for women to pursue higher education if that is what they want to do but that shouldn't be a form of escapism. 29:11
I believe it’s good to get married. Just don’t be bitter and think everyone is out to get you get a level of understanding put God first. Kings stand on business Queens will follow your lead. Amen. ❤ Family is everything I grew up where my grandparents and their siblings were all married…. I definitely want commitment and have a Kingdom marriage it’s not just about us it’s generations etc. Marriage is needed in the community. 🙏🏽❤️🙌🏽
I do believe there is a level of emotional grooming when one person is being manipulated to operate in a certain way relationally without genuinely understanding the intention of the person who is teaching a behavioral pattern
more than 80% of black men date/marry black women. don't start pushing that target commercial ad narrative. but i definitely see nothing wrong with what they are saying. However, Insert dr. Umar
Good evening my brothers and sister, what a vitally valuable conversation!!! Thank you for this timely dialogue!!! It is so important that we work on our relationships, as well as work on OUR Individual SELF!!! Self-Care and Self-Love must be a lifestyle with OUR own selves, before WE invite or invest in relationships with others SELFLESSNESS!!! Enjoy this wonderfully and frigid Fall Day!!! 💜💜💜🥰
RYAN YOU WAS 🔥🔥🔥🔥 thank you Jesus for delivering me from the delusion of this society's brainwashing. I am a happily married 31 years old woman, a stay at home mom of 3, 4 and under, homeschooler. Best position I've been in and grateful for my husband for being a great man, and working hard to put me in a position to be who God created me to be.
Good evening my brothers and sister, what a vitally valuable conversation!!! Thank you for this timely dialogue!!! It is so important that we work on our relationships, as well as work on OUR Individual SELF!!! Self-Care and Self-Love must be a lifestyle with OUR own selves, before WE invite or invest in relationships with others SELFLESSNESS!!! Enjoy this wonderfully and frigid Fall Day!!! 💜💜💜🥰
Some of my favorite men ! I love to see the growth and honesty ! ❤
Thank you it starts with the men to make these streets change
There’s a conversation that I’m tired of hearing with black people about relationships- masculine in black women. There has never been a time in history where women did not work alongside black men. There are women who are literally just trying to have a decent lifestyle and be respected.
We have taken this concept of masculinity and femininity and used them as boxes to oppress men from doing emotional work and understanding respect of/for women and suppressed women to believe we cannot provide for ourselves without the loss of partnership and/or unhealthy preconceived expectations of what a partner should be.
This is a great conversation that singles really need to hear and some of the married…Great job!👏🏾🔥
Tysean and Ryan, great interview. The host had great questions.
Facts ❤ Always take time and make time for yourself as a mother it’s mandatory. Even if it’s waking up an hour early praying, exercising, cooking, do something I enjoy & journal. Great advice and show! ❤
Facts, intentional self care so we can connect and stay connected with others
Great episode❤ it’s definitely going to take the men to fix our community and families.
Really proud these men
A very interesting and informative discussion. I fully appreciate this podcast and how this subject has been treated and brought to the forefront.
Great conversation.. 👍🏽
Why are these two handsome men not married? There are so many good women to choose from.
25:58 OOOOOP. And this is where I cut this conversation off. SCRIPTURE tells us “but the greatest of these is LOVE”. Yall know what he was speaking on prior to that very deep statement….? Probably not. He was speaking on, you could give EVERYTHING to the poor, you can speak in tongues, you can know every scripture, you can be a philanthropist, etc…. But anything you do without love is NULL & VOID. TRUST me when I say, as a Mental Health Therapist who studies human behavior , who studies communication, who hosts a myriad of conversations in my community, you do NOT need to BASH folk, cuss folk, and degrade folk to “start a conversation.” And YES, it was very much so degrading. The topic is completely lost when the delivery is riddled with disrespect, a lack of love, and the main purpose of it being delivered that way was to cause commotion because negativity gets people noticed easier. SMH. ✌🏾
One of my favorite chapters(favorite scriptures???) 1 Corinthians chapter 13( KJV) The Love Chapter 😅
Love these two. I do think however coachable is not age specific it’s mentality. Yes leadership is the number 1 issue im finding as a woman. We teach our kids to “listen to authority” but not walking in it. Love that Ty said Men have to fix it- because lets be honest there is a group of men who benefit from Women masculinity-this is never addressed.
Everyone is not mouthy - it’s not a man / woman war it’s a heart issue. All men are not bad and all women are not bad. One thing I notice with Tysean and Ryan, is they have not completely healed in the area of blaming.
Some men do not understand that us women are in survival mode because what are women to do when they got bills and families they are responsible for . I do not agree with a woman being masculine to be a leader or becoming successful in cooperation. Most women women want a husband and will be willing to submit but trust must be built by action.
THIS!!!
THE BRAND OF THE FAMILY 🗣️🗣️🗣️
Can we say “Team” the language usage should be two people getting together and tag team this thing called life, love and family 🤔
I love these two guys but I have to say im confused.... because early in the conversation they said when women are bored we go to get degrees or to elevate ourselves and and we become too busy for our own good and that's why were single , but in their closing statements their advice to have better luck in being found by the right guy we should Go find hobbies, elevate ourselves ,do self-care in order to be found ......I'm sorry but it sounds a little bit conflicting or all over the place 🤦🤦🤦🤦
And I feel their (both guys) conversation about us women was very one-sided. Men and women bring childhood experiences to their adult relationships.
Some may consider degrees elevation. Others may not. Elevation could be hobbies, learning new skills, or doing things that make you happy.
No sis, they did not say that "when women are bored we go to get degrees or to elevate ourselves", Koereyelle was the one who made reference to what the late Kevin Samuels once said. However, Ryan said he thinks it is good for women to pursue higher education if that is what they want to do but that shouldn't be a form of escapism. 29:11
I believe it’s good to get married. Just don’t be bitter and think everyone is out to get you get a level of understanding put God first. Kings stand on business Queens will follow your lead. Amen. ❤ Family is everything I grew up where my grandparents and their siblings were all married…. I definitely want commitment and have a Kingdom marriage it’s not just about us it’s generations etc. Marriage is needed in the community. 🙏🏽❤️🙌🏽
Am I the only one who doesn’t agree with them on women being successful and also being domesticated. Read Proverbs 31 again.
Definitely not experts 😂😂😂 2 years on a podcast listening to others does not make you an expert
Both are SINGLE too and appears to be over 30 something ain’t adding up everyone wants to be Kevin Samuels so bad A bunch of little parrots
We shouldn't be doing Yoga as Christians
Can we please stop using the word grooming in the same conversation of two consenting adults in a romantic relationship? Its offense to SA victims.
I do believe there is a level of emotional grooming when one person is being manipulated to operate in a certain way relationally without genuinely understanding the intention of the person who is teaching a behavioral pattern
JESUS IS COMING SOON 🙏🏾🦁✝️✝️ nun if this matters fr . JESUS solves it Al
The Keke situation is not that serious, it’s entertainment, showbiz, You do have point about the brand of the family
more than 80% of black men date/marry black women. don't start pushing that target commercial ad narrative. but i definitely see nothing wrong with what they are saying. However, Insert dr. Umar
Ryan is 🤢🤢
Well UNBORE ME pls if that is the problem...
This is really good 🩷
Good evening my brothers and sister, what a vitally valuable conversation!!! Thank you for this timely dialogue!!! It is so important that we work on our relationships, as well as work on OUR Individual SELF!!! Self-Care and Self-Love must be a lifestyle with OUR own selves, before WE invite or invest in relationships with others SELFLESSNESS!!! Enjoy this wonderfully and frigid Fall Day!!! 💜💜💜🥰