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That's the truth as a child I watched it everyday after school with my mom lol they really don't make shows, movies, music, among so many other things the same anymore
OPRAH PLEASE COME BACK! I miss you a lot. Saw every show at least twice and had every O Magazine but lost them in house fire. This country REALLY needs you now.❤
Ok just a few minutes into it and I'm screaming in my head "Girl you're gorgeous, intelligent and kind. He wasn't the one for you!!!" Work on loving yourself and when a man worthy of your attention comes along let him chase you until you choose him ❤❤❤
It’s totally unreasonable to expect to be friends when you dump someone. It allows you to feel good while you rub it in their face and they can’t move on.
I’ve lost people I love who have passed away but the most painful thing I’ve experienced is losing someone who is still alive. It’s really hard. Hard to accept the loss, doubt about yourself and to not give up. Things will start to feel better over time. I’m going on about 3 years. It doesn’t hurt as bad but it does get better, I promise! We have to learn to love ourselves before we can love another. I think my biggest issue is not trusting myself to trust someone else. ❤️🩹🫶🏼
I'm in my 3rd year of my son's father/ life partner dumping me like yesterdays trash after 16 years and finding out on FB that we were no longer together ( but he was still sleeping with me). I am so hurt, betrayed, insecure, etc.
I totally agree with you on this, to know they are still out there is so hard. My husband of 19 years had an affair with his supposedly best friends wife and he left me and our 2 sons. My world was turned upside down that night. Also the man who thought my ex was his best friend passed away 3 months later. Grief is not just losing someone thru death you have the right to grieve a life with someone you loved and it's no longer there. The death of a marriage is very very painful.
The first lady is spot on. When someone is pathetically lining up your replacement without your knowledge you have every right to feel incensed by that level of disrespect and deceit and to feel angry with yourself for not realising what was happening.
True. I agree. My boyfriend dumped me with zero warning then a month later wanted to be friends. No thanks. I wouldn't be friends with anyone so insensitive and unkind.
Her biggest fear is that she will be alone forever... Time running out. Her paradigm of herself and her values, ie she's more valuable having a partner than not, had been upended. She has to learn to see herself differently and evolve.
Haha right? He had the upper hand until she labeled him a nerd. 🤓. If there was one iota of hope that definitely put the nail in the coffin. He’s happy with his new gf.
But isn't it more difficult to be in a relationship than wanting to be in one for whatever reason because you don't know what you may get , is it easier to be single it doesn't seem to be easier either way but there are people who make it work when they are single
The second woman has very low self esteem and confidence it's eye-opening to see that. She looks stunningly beautiful but she lacks connection to herself
. &&&&& the fact her friends told her he was dating someone else was crazzzyyyyyyy ...... the nerve of Oprah to bring the ex on the show was really mind blowing .. Oprah can be so damn messy sometimes lol . ..ii pray life is treating her well . . 🤷❤️💯
Yeah why does she even want to be his friend the way he ended the relationship move on there’s other fish in the sea and you need to like yourself first before you start liking somebody else he seemed very insecure get some power back
I think the second women seemed very sweet and has every right to be broken hearted, she has 3 children by this man ! She is very pretty and seems very kind! I think she needs to learn to believe in herself and not love so hard that a man can take advantage of her because she is too nice and forgiving! Have to learn some self respect and she should have not swept in under the rug her husband had an affair! Sad situation!
Christie wake up why does Dr. Phil have to tell you it’s over? He doesn’t love you anymore it’s a simple black and white situation you need to move on because there is such thing If you don’t love yourself then nobody else well
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I’d love to hear her reason for child trafficking
There has never and will never be another Oprah show
That's the truth as a child I watched it everyday after school with my mom lol they really don't make shows, movies, music, among so many other things the same anymore
100 percent… she helped me so much growing up ❤
Especially not while wearing ankle brace
Thank God we don't have to suffer another Oprah again
yep, seen most of her shows back in the day and watching them again.
Very good advice, when its over, accept it and move on.
LET NO MAN TAKE YOU DOWN!! MOVE ON AND LEARN!!
OPRAH PLEASE COME BACK! I miss you a lot. Saw every show at least twice and had every O Magazine but lost them in house fire. This country REALLY needs you now.❤
Ok just a few minutes into it and I'm screaming in my head "Girl you're gorgeous, intelligent and kind. He wasn't the one for you!!!" Work on loving yourself and when a man worthy of your attention comes along let him chase you until you choose him ❤❤❤
I wonder how their lives turned out
It’s totally unreasonable to expect to be friends when you dump someone. It allows you to feel good while you rub it in their face and they can’t move on.
I’ve lost people I love who have passed away but the most painful thing I’ve experienced is losing someone who is still alive. It’s really hard. Hard to accept the loss, doubt about yourself and to not give up. Things will start to feel better over time. I’m going on about 3 years. It doesn’t hurt as bad but it does get better, I promise! We have to learn to love ourselves before we can love another. I think my biggest issue is not trusting myself to trust someone else. ❤️🩹🫶🏼
I'm in my 3rd year of my son's father/ life partner dumping me like yesterdays trash after 16 years and finding out on FB that we were no longer together ( but he was still sleeping with me). I am so hurt, betrayed, insecure, etc.
I totally agree with you on this, to know they are still out there is so hard. My husband of 19 years had an affair with his supposedly best friends wife and he left me and our 2 sons. My world was turned upside down that night. Also the man who thought my ex was his best friend passed away 3 months later. Grief is not just losing someone thru death you have the right to grieve a life with someone you loved and it's no longer there. The death of a marriage is very very painful.
😊@@Kolamite78
The first lady is spot on. When someone is pathetically lining up your replacement without your knowledge you have every right to feel incensed by that level of disrespect and deceit and to feel angry with yourself for not realising what was happening.
@@SharonMcglothlin especially when they're living their best life while you are LITERALLY DESTROYED. No apology, no explanation, no NOTHING ....
True, how can you be someone's friend after a break-up when you have already reached a point that you don't want to be with them.
True. I agree. My boyfriend dumped me with zero warning then a month later wanted to be friends. No thanks.
I wouldn't be friends with anyone so insensitive and unkind.
“Loss is built into love.”
It’s hard for me to forgive someone that hurts me
When being alone/single isn't the end of the world even if it makes you become a recluse.
39:50 She’s got it! Remain AWAKE & grateful to take it all in 💯
Yes!
The ex boyfriend is quite charming.
i need dr Phil as my personal therapist
Darius is a sweetheart.
Her biggest fear is that she will be alone forever... Time running out. Her paradigm of herself and her values, ie she's more valuable having a partner than not, had been upended. She has to learn to see herself differently and evolve.
Oprah is so funny at 7:44
At certain angles, Kristy looks like Jennifer Garner
You’re right! She’s so pretty.
That was a great show 🥰🥰❤️❤️
Loss is Love. I LOVE THAT!!!
This episode aired in 2012 but looks like it’s from late 90s/early 00s
That has to be an error because this is definitely the late 90s or early 00s
This was aired in 2001. I think there was an error
Fair or unfair, it is what it is. ❤️
Such a liberating thing to say ❤
All is fair in love.
She doesn’t need you as a friend
Interesting issue,how to heal your broken 💔.
It’s sad and ashamed to see Kim being so beautiful yet had low esteem and scared off her ex boyfriend. Hope she’s healed and found her peace.
Darius was wise to run
Keep em coming!
Darius questioning his decision to come to the show.
Haha right? He had the upper hand until she labeled him a nerd. 🤓. If there was one iota of hope that definitely put the nail in the coffin. He’s happy with his new gf.
Inner chid
Oprah always has this horrible habit of interrupting people when they speak. Dr Phil is the professional here. Just let him do his job!
But isn't it more difficult to be in a relationship than wanting to be in one for whatever reason because you don't know what you may get , is it easier to be single it doesn't seem to be easier either way but there are people who make it work when they are single
Self love
Darius looks like he has one leg over 'the rainbow fence'... Hope she found peace.
Pretty sure his next love interest has a name like Ralph or Jason.
@12:04 it killed me that she wasn't the one for me
Oh, it didn’t kill him too badly.
thank you for bring me back on here
The second woman has very low self esteem and confidence it's eye-opening to see that. She looks stunningly beautiful but she lacks connection to herself
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that melanie chick.. woof! imagine being sad over someone like that 😂
Oprah and Dr. Phil don't know everything like they act.
💖💙💜
It's so annoying to see her humiliating herself while he moved on
First woman is nuts....they only dated for a year for cripes sake....she needs therapy.
. &&&&& the fact her friends told her he was dating someone else was crazzzyyyyyyy ...... the nerve of Oprah to bring the ex on the show was really mind blowing .. Oprah can be so damn messy sometimes lol . ..ii pray life is treating her well . . 🤷❤️💯
There’s nothing wrong getting his side of things , I don’t find that nervy at all actually . And he agreed to do not against his will 🙄
So* not
Yeah why does she even want to be his friend the way he ended the relationship move on there’s other fish in the sea and you need to like yourself first before you start liking somebody else he seemed very insecure get some power back
sounds like she mourned the relationship longer than they were actually together
They got married too young
Second woman is way to dreary and too soft. I am sorry I am probably being unkind. She is not even fighting for herself.
I think the second women seemed very sweet and has every right to be broken hearted, she has 3 children by this man ! She is very pretty and seems very kind! I think she needs to learn to believe in herself and not love so hard that a man can take advantage of her because she is too nice and forgiving! Have to learn some self respect and she should have not swept in under the rug her husband had an affair! Sad situation!
Lona ufuna lendoda nje
💯☘️🙌🏼♾️☮️💝❤️🔥💖🙏🏼😇🌈🍀🙇🏼♀️
Christie wake up why does Dr. Phil have to tell you it’s over? He doesn’t love you anymore it’s a simple black and white situation you need to move on because there is such thing If you don’t love yourself then nobody else well
She's a model. Bird brain
DR PHIL IS THE LAST PERSON I WOULD LISTEN TO WHEN IT COMES TO MY HEART.....
She is immature and in victim
Get over it
Not sure Oprah and Phil actually care about some broken heart as much as about a packet of cash.
I'm Thomas I would not pay a penny to see Oprah not worth It