@@pensonmlotshwa Can I ask u something guys, if ur Dad abuses ur mom for years infront of u, jola bomamncane ba ko next door infront of u and ur mom, decides to leave u guys with no support and poor…..somehow years later he comes back a changed accountable….what do u expect ur mom and urself to do……Forget🤔🤔🤔🤔???….
Your imitations are the best🤣but you are right and for the fact that Cassper didn't expose Thobekas dirty laundry.. That for me was a smart move... But the pain fam the marriage on top....the infidelity part was not a shocker it was the timing for me.
I have always said this , Love doesn't exist, only lastful moments do, when we have a moment with someone, we tend to extend that moment to last a bit longer, than it's intended, that is where these fucked up relationships are formed.
Lol haik I have been saying about this pretty privilege thing. Its as if like the more pretty you are or you are a lady in general in society's eyes you are this angel who does no wrong. As people we should remember that whether you are a man or woman you do wrong and we should not overlook your acts or mistakes. It does not mean you are a always the victim just cause o motho wa mosadi. That sh*t has left many men dead or in jail we should be careful.
He took accountability it's not enough... He apologized it's still not enough. So basically he must unalive himself and trust me still that won't be enough for them.
@@Luk012NW I’m saying that we’ve all made mistakes that we carry and feel like shit for… It’s important to ask for forgiveness from the person you hurt… but it’s also important to forgive yourself.
I also didn’t like how people went in on Cassper as a female. God forgave and he repented for his sins. The problem is the son who will have to see what his father did
Thank you for a different take on this matter. Casper is not my fave, however, I'm honestly not understanding why this reaction and anger towards him. It's weird and not fair in my opinion. Why is this even in the public? Perhaps, I'm missing something?
another thing is women seem to feel entitled to a man marrying her simply because he got her pregnant. if you wanted him to marry you, you should've waited for him to step up before giving him a baby. the woman he married didn't "steal her man", he married the woman he actually loved
@@pensonmlotshwa The apology and accountability seem more centered on him, with a noticeable ego-centric tone. When you listen closely, word for word, there’s a shift in focus toward what has been exposed, making it more about him 'stepping up.' I’m not saying he isn’t taking responsibility, but there’s a significant shift in focus, turning the apology into a reflection of his own actions and growth rather than fully addressing the impact of his behavior. This is just my perspective.
Bare the wife broke a family, I thought family were made through marriages or sharing DNA. Ladies are just projecting their trauma. Casper didn't even have an elaborate wedding yet, I think that was the respect.
Owamie said that people must have take that energy for Cassper to their cheating boyfriends and hudbands 🤣
@@Luk012NW FOCUS ON YOUR CHEATING PARTNERS!!! 😅🤣🤣🤣
Sisters are allergic to accountability. As men, there's no way for us to win. 😆💔
@@vhuawelomakhuvha Bro!!! Seems like there’s no win!
@vhuawelomakhuvha Can "we"stop making everything about gender war 🙄
@@pensonmlotshwa Can I ask u something guys, if ur Dad abuses ur mom for years infront of u, jola bomamncane ba ko next door infront of u and ur mom, decides to leave u guys with no support and poor…..somehow years later he comes back a changed accountable….what do u expect ur mom and urself to do……Forget🤔🤔🤔🤔???….
Casper was like, I did what I did come beat me up. I'm in Dubai 😂😂😂
What do they want him to say? Kanti sifunani? 🤷🏽♀️
@@MissCombs1511 I have no idea… he acknowledged that he messed up, he apologized.
He did say kodwa ukuthi
"Unfortunately you can't controll how people deal with pain you caused them"
@@nhlanhlanzimande4001 That’s true… but he was talking about his Baby Mama’s pain…
We’re asking ukuthi what do people on the Twitter stress want!
Your imitations are the best🤣but you are right and for the fact that Cassper didn't expose Thobekas dirty laundry.. That for me was a smart move... But the pain fam the marriage on top....the infidelity part was not a shocker it was the timing for me.
I have always said this , Love doesn't exist, only lastful moments do, when we have a moment with someone, we tend to extend that moment to last a bit longer, than it's intended, that is where these fucked up relationships are formed.
Honestly you spoke nothing but facts!!
@@MandisaManci Thank you so Mandisa 🙏🏽
Lol haik I have been saying about this pretty privilege thing. Its as if like the more pretty you are or you are a lady in general in society's eyes you are this angel who does no wrong. As people we should remember that whether you are a man or woman you do wrong and we should not overlook your acts or mistakes. It does not mean you are a always the victim just cause o motho wa mosadi. That sh*t has left many men dead or in jail we should be careful.
@@aolebogwemogotsi8016 PEOPLE LOVE GOOD LOOKING PEOPLE!!! They can do no wrong!!! So many people who are good looking (or rich) get away with murder!
He took accountability it's not enough... He apologized it's still not enough. So basically he must unalive himself and trust me still that won't be enough for them.
Question at 7:54 Does this mean that when a man says "I forgive myself" it means that it was him dealing with his guilt? Thank you for that clarity.
Crap añd cowàrdly
@@Luk012NW I’m saying that we’ve all made mistakes that we carry and feel like shit for…
It’s important to ask for forgiveness from the person you hurt… but it’s also important to forgive yourself.
Accountability is a foreign thing to some women.
Probably people took it personal because of their own personal experiences.....
@@Cleo256 That’s very true… and they were projecting!
@@pensonmlotshwa yeah it's human nature
Thobeka khona ekhipha ubuhlungu abuzwile ngiyamzwela bandla..
Hope she finds peace in all of this ..
@@nhlanhlanzimande4001 Thobeka was/is hurt… hope she heals.
I also didn’t like how people went in on Cassper as a female. God forgave and he repented for his sins. The problem is the son who will have to see what his father did
Baba❤❤❤
@@MasegoMutloane Siyabonga 🙏🏽
I like your jacket
Thank you for a different take on this matter. Casper is not my fave, however, I'm honestly not understanding why this reaction and anger towards him. It's weird and not fair in my opinion.
Why is this even in the public? Perhaps, I'm missing something?
another thing is women seem to feel entitled to a man marrying her simply because he got her pregnant. if you wanted him to marry you, you should've waited for him to step up before giving him a baby. the woman he married didn't "steal her man", he married the woman he actually loved
Big brother,cha siyafunda >>>
@@pinkhappynesslady5331 Thank you 🙏🏽 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
They will never be accountable. Their so called vulnerability will always be their trump card and free ticket. 😂😂😂😂
Damned if you do...
Kgomo ya moshate!
@@magopeni DAMNED IF YOU DO! 😭
I am with Thobeka's sister... Casper ukhohlakele,he's acting clean, and all that.
@@heathermbambeni529 Acting clean?
He literally agreed with the wrongs he did.
He didn’t blame anyone but him.
And he apologized publicly…
@@pensonmlotshwaur a man😅😅😅
@@lmx113 Fair. I hear you 🙏🏽
@@pensonmlotshwa I hear u too🙃
@pensonmlotshwa I don't buy that apology...his opening statement says a lot!
Zalani asinamona
@@nhlanhlanzimande4001 DEEP!
Timing was never a thing for uCassper.
Gaslighting!!
Yoh, I was thinking the same
@@portiaramabulana643 Explain why
@@heathermbambeni529pain landed safetley
@@pensonmlotshwa The apology and accountability seem more centered on him, with a noticeable ego-centric tone. When you listen closely, word for word, there’s a shift in focus toward what has been exposed, making it more about him 'stepping up.' I’m not saying he isn’t taking responsibility, but there’s a significant shift in focus, turning the apology into a reflection of his own actions and growth rather than fully addressing the impact of his behavior. This is just my perspective.
Sound like penuel black pen
Lamazipho🚩
Bare the wife broke a family, I thought family were made through marriages or sharing DNA. Ladies are just projecting their trauma. Casper didn't even have an elaborate wedding yet, I think that was the respect.
@@openmindedfairy9691 I don’t understand… please unpack 🙏🏽