That hits home, that appreciation that thank you and smile that you give me for my little or big efforts goes a long way for me .That alone makes me to want to do more. But women these days don't appreciate like on a high level . Sometimes you ask yourself does she really know what's happening outside . Thanks for this video made my day .
Will ur gf making u feel appreciated stop u from getting a side girl? Be honest, I agree with Penson with regards to appreciating men for the little things but girlies might confuse it wth "do it and he'll not get a side dish." Not accepting the reality that guys often get side chicks jst for the thrill, for fun nd net for control. Yes we'll def make our men feel appreciated but it won't stop y'all from getting a side girl.
@@mamofrancohe'll still get a side girl.😂🤦 But I noticed he mentioned that he'll wanna do more for his main, which is the primary benefits of appreciating the little things ur man does for u. A faithful man, ull draw him especially if he's a fat cat.
Absolutely not. There's no justification for ubufebe guys. Seeking something you already have? Why not communicate with the person you're with? The consequences of these extra marital affairs are dire. So no. There's no justification. Also, you speak like you do but society still bashes people like abo Mihlali who are side chicks? Be the hero at home where you're needed. Your responsibility as a husband and father is your household. Faithfulness shouldn't be a concept for men only.
@@samuelm_studio You can debate whether it’s right or wrong… I’m merely explaining as to why it’s happening. Many men communicate, but are never heard.
@@gcinamabaso5698 Let's be honest here, a man can get a side girl for the thrill of it even if his girl is making him feel appreciated. That's the point Penson forgot to mention. This message might be confused with "make ur man feel appreciated and he'll not get a side girl." Which is not true. Yes we'll def make our men feel appreciated but it won't actually make y'all not get side chicks, something that most of our grannies, mothers and girlies have accepted.
@@mamofranco True, I think he also forgot to mention the benefits of making our men feel appreciated which are basically him doing more, e.g. ur man takes u to Harties, u appreciate him then next time he's taking u to Cancun. Stroking his ego won't prevent him from getting a side here nd there. But it will def make him wanna do more for us, which if we're being honest most of us ladies want.
Boys don't get a side chick. Do it for your kid ( Become a hero to your kids).If your wife does not appreciate your effort anymore your kids will. Thank you Mlotshwa.
I don't want to go around dating multiple women. I just want one loyal wife. In today's daying climate, it almost feels like you're being forced to have backup plans.
The reality is that men can't actually have a back up plan due to the love they have for one woman, yes they can have side dishes but the love for their gf or wife can't be defeated. It usually takes 1 to 3 years for men to move on from their beloved. For girls, it takes 1 min especially if we've found a better replacement for u.😬🤷 For girlies it's easy to have back up plan due to our inability to love men romantically.
@theemapsmash True on the last part, I've seen/ heard stories of so many girls dating three guys in the hopes of one marrying her, when it happens the last 2 guys who also loved her are shocked. Like Penson said "women we are sneaky". But I think men can have back-ups but it's rare.
@@FictionHubZAU dnt necessarily have to give up if ur goal is to have a family. Date a girl who's into you. Think of the girl that had a crush on you in high school or varsity, yes she myb wasn't ur type physically but that shows there are gals out there who'd like u, u jst need to find the one u're attracted to. If u've been investing in ur looks, game/ rizz and leadership. If u in varsity this is the best time to find ur wife bcoz she's actually wth u for u not ur money. But u also need to show ur potential to succeed which is thru proper leadership. Remember to vet her, vet her Xter, cohabit to see her true personality. Make sure she respects u engh not to participate in anything that can make her lose u.
Once the novelty fades, a lot of women you can never do enough for. I know a woman with 3 boyfriends, one is a rich fiancé she says she wants to secure the bag, the other is an ex she just wants to hurt, I'm the third and just a plumber who knows too much
The wife is the woman who treats a man like the person he wants to be The side chick is the woman who makes a man feel like the person who he thinks he is In a perfect world it would be the same woman, but unfortunately that's not always the case
😂😂 Definitely bro our fore fathers used to have side chicks it's natural. lake of appreciation,courage and support. A men doesn't need ukubalisa and peace.
Please tell me what do you mean by natural? To me natural means it's how the Creator created it to be or meant for it to be and in light of that, I will disagree with you. God created one man and one woman out of that one man, and the first design of marriage was between one man and one woman and early marriages followed suit until.....polygamy is man made, out of our fallen state and fallen mind our desires went further and further from the will, plan and design of the Creator....and might I tell you even the first polygamous relationship birthed hatred and resentment. So nothing good comes out of multiple sexual relationships, it's not "natural" and doesn't please God.
So it’s natural to ruin homes ? Ok. Good to know that a lack of self control is natural and overcomes a lot of men. How empires fall due to lack of self control. Explains why so many black men can barely make a worthy name for themselves in society. Abo Diddy.ww , congratulations… you won 🥇
@@indianam7689 when I say natural I mean if my woman in my marriage or mjolo the relationship, her not appreciating me doing things in our relationship , her not recognizing my presents or role in my relationship, her not encouraging me that babe you really are one of a kind, and when my women doesn't recepricate that she can't live without her men not around, like needing me as her men because a men is not complete without his queen. So based on what I mentioned here that comes naturaly to a men if he sees that in his queen through talking or the queen actions towards him, that's a insight of what men are or the mentality of men. A men will go out to have a side chick because of that you as women you don't see him as a hero to you.
If men can understand how they were created, they would realize that their constant desire for chasing the new stems from the vibration of creation itself. However If a man doesn't know how to ground himself, he will continuously be in pursuit of creation, never finding fulfilment. That is why its difficult for a man to sit idle by & do nothing.
You know why it won't make sense, bcoz y'all cheat regardless. Penson shld've said "ladies make ur man feel appreciated but that doesn't mean he won't get a side gal." If we actually have to be real, some men get sides for the thrill of it, for fun etc. Now for some ladies it can be quite confusing if they're doing everything nd he still gets a side. Hence the misunderstanding.
@@gisellethebunny speaking for myself if my woman was really making happy and her character is in line with what I want in a woman and does things according to the way they should be done and appreciated me I would never cheat on her. I am saying this because I've been there before.
@@kwazilucaswhat is ur age range? You may be the exception but it cld be u're still young, there's a point in ur life u might cheat as a man net for the thrill of it, especially if u are a resourceful man. But if u indeed faithful to that point then that's what the other girlies are crying for, they want to be guaranteed that after doing all that the man won't cheat of which in most cases it doesn't work that way.
@@theemapsmash He is not the exception. From what I observe women say they want guys who don't cheat but they actively chase the types of guys who have a lot of options who have the ability to cheat anytime they want. Women don't understand just how the average guy has to beg just to be in a relationship while a small portion of guys get attention without even trying.
It's a natural thing, inadvisable due to modern circumstances. However women do outnumber us & those 'spare' women need love too. However it must be done properly
No it's not natural. God designed 1 man for one woman in the confines of marriage and polygamy was first done by humans because we are fallen and have a fallen mind but polygamy is not "natural" and multiple sexual relationships outside of marriage is diabolical, God forbids it. I don't know what do you mean by natural, maybe you can make me understand.
Go the polygamous way, it's not the best solution but a man with means can take care of more than one family. Women who don't have a permanent man in their life, either end up doing sex work or become side chicks to either survive or just pure companionship. It is very difficult but it is necessary...
Then, why not stay where they are appreciated rather than hovering around or at least communicate with their partners ke about how they feel about the relationship. Hopping around has dire consequences and sometimes it affects those who are innocent.
I have a simple answer. Men cheat when the opportunity presents itself. For example, dad and the nanny, boss & receptionist, colleagues, gym buddies etc. Convenience & opportunity.
Men need to get it into their heads that they aren't 'helping" their partner with the dishes, with bathing the kids, with school fees etc etc, that is being a participating partner in a relationship between two adults. Men's constant need to feel needed will be abolished when they make themselves useful.
Uhm u're looking at this from a 50/50 household point of view, in a 🏠whereby the man is the sole provider, the gender roles are not shared. And the message is that make ur man feel appreciated and needed wth the little things he does to avoid him getting a side chick. But knowing men they'll still get a side nyana😂😂 but at least it won't be a long term side chick.
@@mamofranco😂😂😂 The last part, the guys in the comments make it seem like there's a remedy for their cheating. My man wld tell me hw much of a good woman I am to him then ta-da I found his roll on around June this year.😫 Penson shld've said "ladies make ur men feel valued but he'll still cheat." Thina we have accepted it as long we don't find out abt the so-called side girl.
The reasoning from men who grew up in broken homes is so bizarre and toxic. Ladies/gents do not have a relationship with a guy/lady whose parents were not married. Brokenness follows them in their past (coming from broken homes), present (created broken homes) and future (cycle repeats itself with their descendants). His big brother is a mess and it seems like also him he is messy . They come from a broken home, they have created broken homes and so will their kids continue the cycle (God forbid)
That's an unfair statement; some people come from broken families and up with beautiful families; life is not a cookie-cutter. His arguments are valid facts, remove emotions from what he said; if you have married friends who were not respected and valued by their wives, you will know this happens a lot.
@@gcinamabaso5698 That's just the exception, it doesn't change the fact that a potential spouse coming from a healthy 2 parent household is a much better option than one coming from a broken home.
@@gcinamabaso5698 its ok for men to trash women coming from broken homes but men who come from the same broken families want to be exempted. Ukufeba should be criminalised in this country ngoba wow
You're very right with the broken home notion. But I think u missed Penson's message, he was giving reasons as to why a man wld keep a side gal, which can be the result of a lady not stroking his ego thru appreciating him for the little things etc. But it's not necessarily a broken home thing. It's a man thing.
I am not sure if men only want side chicks because they want to feel needed. I was a side-snack to a man for over 10 years. I met him when he had a girlfriend. They broke up. Then he asked for my permission to marry his new girlfriend. I was at his wedding also, but two kids later they divorced. Now he wants us to be official, but I'm not about to be made a step-mother to children who found me here. Im thinking maybe there are more reasons why men want a side piece? I dont know 🤷
😳😳 yoh, with your experience as a side chick, what do u think was ur role in ur 10 year relationship? If I may ask, are you an own man gal or do u enjoy just being a side chick?
@@theemapsmash All he has ever said to me is "I love how I feel when I am with you" and at the end of our situation, he said "I love that you didn't change". I honestly don't know what that meant to him. I met that man in our early 20's and we saw each other grow in life and in our careers. I stayed 10 years with him because he truly never made me feel like a side chick. He had time for me. I don't know how. And I also respected his marriage and it was me who set up the boundaries for him to not get caught. Now I am ready for marriage and motherhood and I am now going into that with someone who also does not have children.
@@Luk012NWYour journey & experience is very unique and intriguing, I'm not gonna lie, I have a lot of questions but due to respect for privacy I'mma keep them to myself. What's important now is you being in a healthy relationship leading to marriage. Wish you well🤍🤍🤍
This is very interesting. I think we should move away from expecting an individual to fulfil this deep need to be needed🤔 Maybe volunteering and being of service to our communities will help with that need to be needed, and not just expect our partner to be the sole fulfiller of this need. I don't know maybe we've become so isolated that we put all our hopes and needs on one or two people. That's a pretty ridiculous request in my books
The things you choose to talk about bro 😢. Stop mentioning what it means to be a man man really 🤞. You have no idea. Men act out being a man, because they have women by their side.
Thank you Penson 🙏🏾❤️
@@yy.unlimited DANKO 🙏🏽
That hits home, that appreciation that thank you and smile that you give me for my little or big efforts goes a long way for me .That alone makes me to want to do more. But women these days don't appreciate like on a high level . Sometimes you ask yourself does she really know what's happening outside .
Thanks for this video made my day .
Will ur gf making u feel appreciated stop u from getting a side girl? Be honest, I agree with Penson with regards to appreciating men for the little things but girlies might confuse it wth "do it and he'll not get a side dish." Not accepting the reality that guys often get side chicks jst for the thrill, for fun nd net for control.
Yes we'll def make our men feel appreciated but it won't stop y'all from getting a side girl.
@@mamofrancohe'll still get a side girl.😂🤦 But I noticed he mentioned that he'll wanna do more for his main, which is the primary benefits of appreciating the little things ur man does for u. A faithful man, ull draw him especially if he's a fat cat.
@@mamofranco 🤣🤣🤣🤣No comment
@@thabangmotaung4759 I figured, if my man answered and I saw the comment it wouldn't end well so it makes sense.😂😂
Absolutely not. There's no justification for ubufebe guys. Seeking something you already have? Why not communicate with the person you're with? The consequences of these extra marital affairs are dire. So no. There's no justification. Also, you speak like you do but society still bashes people like abo Mihlali who are side chicks? Be the hero at home where you're needed. Your responsibility as a husband and father is your household. Faithfulness shouldn't be a concept for men only.
@@samuelm_studio You can debate whether it’s right or wrong… I’m merely explaining as to why it’s happening.
Many men communicate, but are never heard.
@@pensonmlotshwa Facts are Facts, and this won't stop due to the main reason you stated, we want to be valued and appreciated.
@@gcinamabaso5698 Let's be honest here, a man can get a side girl for the thrill of it even if his girl is making him feel appreciated. That's the point Penson forgot to mention. This message might be confused with "make ur man feel appreciated and he'll not get a side girl." Which is not true. Yes we'll def make our men feel appreciated but it won't actually make y'all not get side chicks, something that most of our grannies, mothers and girlies have accepted.
@@mamofranco True, I think he also forgot to mention the benefits of making our men feel appreciated which are basically him doing more, e.g. ur man takes u to Harties, u appreciate him then next time he's taking u to Cancun. Stroking his ego won't prevent him from getting a side here nd there. But it will def make him wanna do more for us, which if we're being honest most of us ladies want.
Boys don't get a side chick. Do it for your kid ( Become a hero to your kids).If your wife does not appreciate your effort anymore your kids will. Thank you Mlotshwa.
True, even thgh I'm a girl I do believe men shldnt get side chicks bcoz side chicks are dangerous especially if they want ur position.
I don't want to go around dating multiple women. I just want one loyal wife. In today's daying climate, it almost feels like you're being forced to have backup plans.
The reality is that men can't actually have a back up plan due to the love they have for one woman, yes they can have side dishes but the love for their gf or wife can't be defeated. It usually takes 1 to 3 years for men to move on from their beloved. For girls, it takes 1 min especially if we've found a better replacement for u.😬🤷
For girlies it's easy to have back up plan due to our inability to love men romantically.
Who sets the market men or women?
@theemapsmash
True on the last part, I've seen/ heard stories of so many girls dating three guys in the hopes of one marrying her, when it happens the last 2 guys who also loved her are shocked.
Like Penson said "women we are sneaky".
But I think men can have back-ups but it's rare.
@@theemapsmash To be honest I don't care anymore. I have given up on dating. I have accepted that i will be alone for the rest of my life.
@@FictionHubZAU dnt necessarily have to give up if ur goal is to have a family. Date a girl who's into you. Think of the girl that had a crush on you in high school or varsity, yes she myb wasn't ur type physically but that shows there are gals out there who'd like u, u jst need to find the one u're attracted to. If u've been investing in ur looks, game/ rizz and leadership. If u in varsity this is the best time to find ur wife bcoz she's actually wth u for u not ur money. But u also need to show ur potential to succeed which is thru proper leadership. Remember to vet her, vet her Xter, cohabit to see her true personality. Make sure she respects u engh not to participate in anything that can make her lose u.
Once the novelty fades, a lot of women you can never do enough for. I know a woman with 3 boyfriends, one is a rich fiancé she says she wants to secure the bag, the other is an ex she just wants to hurt, I'm the third and just a plumber who knows too much
"I'm the third and just a plumber who knows too much"😂😂😂
@@TshepoMavimbela YOU KNOW WAAAAAY TOO MUCH!!!!
PHUMA!!!!
@@MyMystery9 😅🫣
@@MyMystery9 😅
@@pensonmlotshwa 😅🫣 I'm exiting
this video is golden for woman, sisters can really learn a lot from this video
The wife is the woman who treats a man like the person he wants to be
The side chick is the woman who makes a man feel like the person who he thinks he is
In a perfect world it would be the same woman, but unfortunately that's not always the case
Hits home🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
We love you Penzozo😍😍❤️❤️❤️💃💃💃
I don't have a side chick, would never get one either but I know exactly what you're talking about.
😂😂 Definitely bro our fore fathers used to have side chicks it's natural. lake of appreciation,courage and support. A men doesn't need ukubalisa and peace.
@@ThulaniMdakane-vt5wm Many will fight us and disagree… but it’s the truth.
Please tell me what do you mean by natural? To me natural means it's how the Creator created it to be or meant for it to be and in light of that, I will disagree with you. God created one man and one woman out of that one man, and the first design of marriage was between one man and one woman and early marriages followed suit until.....polygamy is man made, out of our fallen state and fallen mind our desires went further and further from the will, plan and design of the Creator....and might I tell you even the first polygamous relationship birthed hatred and resentment. So nothing good comes out of multiple sexual relationships, it's not "natural" and doesn't please God.
So it’s natural to ruin homes ? Ok. Good to know that a lack of self control is natural and overcomes a lot of men. How empires fall due to lack of self control. Explains why so many black men can barely make a worthy name for themselves in society. Abo Diddy.ww , congratulations… you won 🥇
@@indianam7689 when I say natural I mean if my woman in my marriage or mjolo the relationship, her not appreciating me doing things in our relationship , her not recognizing my presents or role in my relationship, her not encouraging me that babe you really are one of a kind, and when my women doesn't recepricate that she can't live without her men not around, like needing me as her men because a men is not complete without his queen. So based on what I mentioned here that comes naturaly to a men if he sees that in his queen through talking or the queen actions towards him, that's a insight of what men are or the mentality of men. A men will go out to have a side chick because of that you as women you don't see him as a hero to you.
Mara Wine gums still slap though...or am i old?
There is no benefit for a man to marry or be in a committed relationship.
If men can understand how they were created, they would realize that their constant desire for chasing the new stems from the vibration of creation itself. However If a man doesn't know how to ground himself, he will continuously be in pursuit of creation, never finding fulfilment. That is why its difficult for a man to sit idle by & do nothing.
We have to tip the scales somehow. The law of ratios I guess. 😂❤
Women in the comments are not getting the message and this is deep as hell.
You know why it won't make sense, bcoz y'all cheat regardless. Penson shld've said "ladies make ur man feel appreciated but that doesn't mean he won't get a side gal."
If we actually have to be real, some men get sides for the thrill of it, for fun etc. Now for some ladies it can be quite confusing if they're doing everything nd he still gets a side. Hence the misunderstanding.
@@gisellethebunny speaking for myself if my woman was really making happy and her character is in line with what I want in a woman and does things according to the way they should be done and appreciated me I would never cheat on her. I am saying this because I've been there before.
@@kwazilucaswhat is ur age range?
You may be the exception but it cld be u're still young, there's a point in ur life u might cheat as a man net for the thrill of it, especially if u are a resourceful man. But if u indeed faithful to that point then that's what the other girlies are crying for, they want to be guaranteed that after doing all that the man won't cheat of which in most cases it doesn't work that way.
@@theemapsmash lol you didn't hear what the man said in the video
@@theemapsmash He is not the exception. From what I observe women say they want guys who don't cheat but they actively chase the types of guys who have a lot of options who have the ability to cheat anytime they want.
Women don't understand just how the average guy has to beg just to be in a relationship while a small portion of guys get attention without even trying.
😂😂😂Next year I'm resigning from my side chic seat and staying single kuyafana mos
Service delivery is the problem.
If I was a man I’d have a few sides 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Can you please tell why u say that ?
@@laygossom2655 coz naturally men love women the more the merrier, everything else is a scam
Penson is cooking, full stop
It's a natural thing, inadvisable due to modern circumstances. However women do outnumber us & those 'spare' women need love too. However it must be done properly
This stats are outdated😂
@@wailaspirit3148 It must be done properly? Please unpack 🙏🏽
@@openmindedfairy9691 They are 😅
No it's not natural. God designed 1 man for one woman in the confines of marriage and polygamy was first done by humans because we are fallen and have a fallen mind but polygamy is not "natural" and multiple sexual relationships outside of marriage is diabolical, God forbids it. I don't know what do you mean by natural, maybe you can make me understand.
Go the polygamous way, it's not the best solution but a man with means can take care of more than one family. Women who don't have a permanent man in their life, either end up doing sex work or become side chicks to either survive or just pure companionship. It is very difficult but it is necessary...
Where can i get that one hlena
* Who will do these things without wanting ukungi goqa Jeso.?
I'm with you 😂😂😂😂😂
Then, why not stay where they are appreciated rather than hovering around or at least communicate with their partners ke about how they feel about the relationship. Hopping around has dire consequences and sometimes it affects those who are innocent.
@@hlumekadumezweni7943 We don’t stay because you guys get used to the life… and it becomes an expectation.
@@hlumekadumezweni7943 Then the appreciation gets less and less.
@@pensonmlotshwa They won't understand the male brain brother, ladies in the comments are using emotions rather then taking notes.
I have a simple answer. Men cheat when the opportunity presents itself. For example, dad and the nanny, boss & receptionist, colleagues, gym buddies etc. Convenience & opportunity.
It is not just men. Women do it too.
so true!!!
If u leave emotions out, ul hear the reasoning here beyond ur feelings
Men need to get it into their heads that they aren't 'helping" their partner with the dishes, with bathing the kids, with school fees etc etc, that is being a participating partner in a relationship between two adults. Men's constant need to feel needed will be abolished when they make themselves useful.
LOL! Y'all will never listen.
those are woman's duties, i dont do that in the household as the head of the house. its your job
Bet you gonna help with providing and protecting neh
Uhm u're looking at this from a 50/50 household point of view, in a 🏠whereby the man is the sole provider, the gender roles are not shared.
And the message is that make ur man feel appreciated and needed wth the little things he does to avoid him getting a side chick.
But knowing men they'll still get a side nyana😂😂 but at least it won't be a long term side chick.
@@mamofranco😂😂😂 The last part, the guys in the comments make it seem like there's a remedy for their cheating. My man wld tell me hw much of a good woman I am to him then ta-da I found his roll on around June this year.😫
Penson shld've said "ladies make ur men feel valued but he'll still cheat." Thina we have accepted it as long we don't find out abt the so-called side girl.
❤❤❤
@@MasegoMutloane 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
It cuts both ways
The reasoning from men who grew up in broken homes is so bizarre and toxic. Ladies/gents do not have a relationship with a guy/lady whose parents were not married. Brokenness follows them in their past (coming from broken homes), present (created broken homes) and future (cycle repeats itself with their descendants). His big brother is a mess and it seems like also him he is messy . They come from a broken home, they have created broken homes and so will their kids continue the cycle (God forbid)
That's an unfair statement; some people come from broken families and up with beautiful families; life is not a cookie-cutter. His arguments are valid facts, remove emotions from what he said; if you have married friends who were not respected and valued by their wives, you will know this happens a lot.
@@gcinamabaso5698 That's just the exception, it doesn't change the fact that a potential spouse coming from a healthy 2 parent household is a much better option than one coming from a broken home.
@@gcinamabaso5698 valid for who? Men .
@@gcinamabaso5698 its ok for men to trash women coming from broken homes but men who come from the same broken families want to be exempted. Ukufeba should be criminalised in this country ngoba wow
You're very right with the broken home notion.
But I think u missed Penson's message, he was giving reasons as to why a man wld keep a side gal, which can be the result of a lady not stroking his ego thru appreciating him for the little things etc. But it's not necessarily a broken home thing. It's a man thing.
I am not sure if men only want side chicks because they want to feel needed. I was a side-snack to a man for over 10 years. I met him when he had a girlfriend. They broke up. Then he asked for my permission to marry his new girlfriend. I was at his wedding also, but two kids later they divorced. Now he wants us to be official, but I'm not about to be made a step-mother to children who found me here. Im thinking maybe there are more reasons why men want a side piece? I dont know 🤷
@@Luk012NW There’s definitely more reasons!
Many gents are looking for peace… many are looking for a smash!
😂😂😂😂😂 I have no words. Women
😳😳 yoh, with your experience as a side chick, what do u think was ur role in ur 10 year relationship?
If I may ask, are you an own man gal or do u enjoy just being a side chick?
@@theemapsmash All he has ever said to me is "I love how I feel when I am with you" and at the end of our situation, he said "I love that you didn't change". I honestly don't know what that meant to him. I met that man in our early 20's and we saw each other grow in life and in our careers. I stayed 10 years with him because he truly never made me feel like a side chick. He had time for me. I don't know how. And I also respected his marriage and it was me who set up the boundaries for him to not get caught. Now I am ready for marriage and motherhood and I am now going into that with someone who also does not have children.
@@Luk012NWYour journey & experience is very unique and intriguing, I'm not gonna lie, I have a lot of questions but due to respect for privacy I'mma keep them to myself. What's important now is you being in a healthy relationship leading to marriage.
Wish you well🤍🤍🤍
Pens mf2 uphezkwayo straight danki bhuti
This is very interesting. I think we should move away from expecting an individual to fulfil this deep need to be needed🤔
Maybe volunteering and being of service to our communities will help with that need to be needed, and not just expect our partner to be the sole fulfiller of this need.
I don't know maybe we've become so isolated that we put all our hopes and needs on one or two people. That's a pretty ridiculous request in my books
The things you choose to talk about bro 😢. Stop mentioning what it means to be a man man really 🤞. You have no idea. Men act out being a man, because they have women by their side.
If u leave emotions out, ul hear the reasoning here beyond ur feelings