Their "extraordinary love"? He sounded like a textbook narcissist and she kill3,d herself after he cheated on her & abandoned his family. If that's love I'll happily stay single.
In his defense, it could not have been easy being married to a woman who was without question unstable, not her first suicide attempt. She s ibcredibly possessve if her father also.
She was very young when her mother died so her memories of her father would be more vivid kind and loving She will therefore never know of her mother's despair of the humiliation of his constant affairs
In this one instance i dont think its entirely unfair for people who have poured over sylvia's work and journals and biographies about her life or whatever to assume they know more than her children did about her life. Because her kids were 1 and 2 years old when she died, so they were fed information or given a narrative just as much as any outside audience would have unfortunately- their first hand experience with her is sadly so limited that it doesnt give them much of a leg up in terms of knowing her compared to any outsider...
@@ecalose6785 the question answers itself. You wouldnt do that over a love that was mediocre to you. Btw extraordinary does not mean im saying it was the healthiest. Im saying it was powerful, very emotionally meaningful to her, etc
This is bittersweet. No matter how much they were in love with each other, that somehow changed towards the ends with Syvia Plath herself describing the abuse she suffered in her letters.
Unfortunately Ted Hughes greatest love of his life was himself. I wish Sylvia Plath had never met him. The problem is that she thought she had found her perfect man, and nobody is actually that perfect.
I’m sorry but what was so “extraordinary” about this when he abuses her, serially cheats on her and then leaves her to fend for herself in the 1950s when women had a very limited sense of autonomy (or means) so that she kills herself? Am I missing something?
All of the things mentioned have been spoken about time and again. This is a daughter speaking about her parents, whom she, no doubt, loved. They probably were deeply in love at some point. Sylvia surely was. One can only hope that Ted loved her a fraction of that once upon a time. I did and do love, the brilliant, Sylvia Plath. ❤
I wonder if Frieda had children. One would think these things would be passed down for generations. I hope whoever gets/ got them cherishes them. I would. ❤
What I don't understand is why these precious items have been sold and separated for eternity. Why were they not housed at an institution ? Freida did not need the rather paltry one million dollars they brought at auction. The royalties alone from her parents writing must be substantial. There are no grandchildren from Ted and Sylvia to provide for. These 'beautiful things" have been scattered around the world. How sad.
My thoughts exactly. A state library would take then all, archive and preserve them. Individually up for auction, someone's looking to cash in on the money.
I am from India. In my class 10 year 2010 there was a poem THE MIRROR . Teacher orders us to make a file on any poet or author from textbook . I chose SYLVIA PLATH . When I came to know the way she died I felt , so emotional. From that time I always remembered her. Today I came across this video .
Why on earth would you sell your family's legacy ? No one would take care of it better than you in your lifetime. And if you have no kids to leave these treasures to, then to a museum they belong. So sad.
right. This is totally not about the money, of course. If you really treasure all of this and does not want the value to be lost, just give it to a museum!
These items should be bought as a complete archive; whilst both are striking, utterly talented individuals, their legacies are intertwined. Frieda speaks with great warmth and dignity. At the end of the day they were both her parents. Robin Witting
I assume the reason she’s selling now is that Uncle Warren died last year, so she is really the last of her mother’s line who remember Sylvia directly.
Actually, she was only 3 years old when her mom died. I really doubt she has any memories of her, and her brother didn't either (he was only 2). By the way, may Nicholas and his mom Rest in Peace.
@@sadem1045 All the more reason to hold tight to whatever you have. If you read Frieda’s book from last year, George, you get a sense that she needed money for her new Welsh house, gardens and bird sanctuary she was building. That most likely was the impetus for the sale, especially due to her Australian husband’s dead weight and lack of income, but luckily they separated and I think divorced.
I grew up with Hughes' poetry, he was Poet Laureate in the 80s but visited my school to readvhis poems in the 70s. I only read about his wives many years later. Something about him attracted these disturbed women to him. (But all artists and poets are disturbed to some extent, arent we)?
Just started to reread The Bell Jar last night upon rediscovery in the final cleaning & clearing of my childhood home last July. Could not be more grateful to have happened upon this video today. Thank you, Frieda. With love, Brittney
History shows she was sadly tormented beforehand. She attempted suicide long before she met Ted. She had possessive tendencies herself. The night she met him she bit his cheek. That says a lot. Ted was wrong, he made terrible mistakes. They both lived intense artistic lives and their poems endure forever. No one can make you happy, they only add to your happiness. People make mistakes in thinking that coupling makes you happy, it doesn't really. Perhaps it would've been better had they both met people who weren't so driven artistically. Tragic story.n
Frieda has no children of her own so I understand why she is willing to sell these items, still, considering how the story played out between her mother and father it is sad. Is that her garden and her pet owls? how wonderful.
Her mum and dad would be proud of her. The story of Ted and Sylvia is so famous that all these items will be cherished. When it comes to wedding rings- it's always so hard to know what to do with them...whether to bury them with the person, or remove them and keep them....
That is quite true. I wear my deceased father's wedding ring on a necklace around my neck. He was wearing it in his coffin ⚰; but, my mother agonized about whether she should keep his wedding ring until the absolute last moment before they closed the top of his coffin. Just as they were closing it, she asked the funeral home to retrieve the wedding ring and off to the cemetery we went. Having it didn't bring her solace like she thought it would, though. It only made her too sad to look at so it sat in a drawer for years before I asked to have it. 🥺
Incontestably brilliant, Plath had a heart so fierce that Hughes could only feel important in comparison by destroying her sense of feminine value. He slapped and hit her, which resulted in a miscarriage. And yet even in her anger, Plath remained devoted, idealising him and their love. Hughes upped the ante: he began to have affairs. In public, Hughes played Plath’s champion well but refused to pull his weight domestically and emotionally, meaning her ability to write was impaired. Abandoned by him with their two children in a foreign country, she rapidly disintegrated. A thoroughly nasty piece of work.
She was a handful. She was promising. He was brilliant. Her mental illness was her downfall from the start. It was always going to end that way. We're talking about poets here. You don't strive to become a poet, unless you're crazy.
Her letters could have been written by a love sick 14 year old. Not a supposedly intelligent young woman. Most poets are self obsessed narcissists and Hughes was classic example.
I was fascinated by hearing Freida talk of her parents and their love for each other in all its intensity and complexities. I was also curious about Freida's own artwork on the wall - she's very talented. Her garden is beautiful. Such a shame she also lost her brother.
Short lived deep passion between lovers is not so extraordinary as FH imagines. Till-death-do-us-part commitment that puts dependent children and the wider community ahead of rising, falling, or changing passions--that is what is increasingly extraordinary. How's that working for us?
We only see letters from Sylvia to Ted, but where are the letters from Ted to Sylvia? Where is his love for her? We only see her passion and love in those letters...
I'm so touched by seeing this woman, I hope I get to see the collection one day, is such a complex and profound life, perfectly documented for us, because Sylvia knew they were Huge.
He did hurt her there's no doubt about that & there's no way in excusing the ways in which he had but he did love her at one time too, the letters are evidence of that, the poems too- & to be quite frank without that toxic turn having never taken place, we might not have the legacy of the poet that Plath became? She was like a bolide crashing through the atmosphere in words- all that pain & suffering harnessed into something so terribly raw, (wreckless) & yet inutterbly beautiful.
so delighted to hear from the daughter of Sylvia Plath.. Love from Pakistan... ❤.. i felt extremly down when i read Daddy , Colossus and Lady Lazurus...
Today on 30 April 2024 I read about Sylvia Plath and her extraordinary literature work especially poetry I am very much influenced about her intellectual power and her poetry based on real life....
I still cannot understand how anyone could auction off these utterly intimate objects. Is, was Frieda skint? I mean, she doesn’t seem to be spendthrift. Was it income tax? I don’t get it. My parents are both gone; I have a tiny house, very little room, but I keep all the items of theirs I have.
She obviously enjoys a certain standard of living - an extremely comfortable one - and can only maintain it by flogging the family silver..? ( it pleases me to hear how you treasure your parent's possessions .! )
Frieda, don't you have kids, a partner you can rely on, a best friend? I wouldn't want to have a memory from a toxic man, yh a poet but mentally, physically abusive towards your mother, a memory of a suicidal relationship, your brother couldn't even take it anymore, your dad couldn't replace Sylvia as he tried many times, even another woman took her life too, not only Sylvia, so I'm sorry I'd never buy it even if I could afford all of it and I'm glad he suffered looking for love, his talent can't erase what he did to her.
Frieda Has a great capacity for self deception. I would be embarrassed to talk about love in connection with her parents. Some people will do anything for money ! And Sell anything !
It's often the case that the children of successful / gifted parents possess none of the abilities of their parents and are " forced " to earn a living by trading on their family connections.
Neta (verdad) que no entiendo porque se mata Sylvia y Assia por un señor tan promiscuo. Su obra es muy buena del matrimonio Hughes- Plath pero sus desbordados apetitos y su nulo respeto por su familia llevaron a muerte a estás dos mujeres; también a Shura y años después a Nicholas. Que tristeza. Quizás en su matrimonio con la segunda esposa ya se haya moderado el poeta, quizás si, porque duro mucho tiempo con Carol. Da gusto ver a Frieda, toda una artista y con su familia 🍁🍁🍁 que bueno que se rompe la cadena de suicidios!! Abrazo Frieda!!
It's funny because the times she mentions "passion" always consisted of what Sylvia wrote, what Sylvia felt, it highlights the possible loneliness Plath had probably felt....
Ted Hughes was simply terrible to women. I'm really sorry to say this, because I'm sure Freida Hughes loved her father, but she was raised by a man who had a history of being psychologically and physically abusive toward his partners.
Her mother , Sylvia did, as did her adult brother, Nicholas, a few years ago. The woman Ted left Sylvia for also killed herself in the same manner that Sylvia did, in Sylvia's flat. That woman, Assia Wevill, gassed herself and her little daughter as well.. Tragedy all around.
"Extraordinary love?" Wow. Didn't know Sotheby's used rage-bait titles. I guess if you take "extraordinary" literally and fold in the extraordinary abuse, extraordinary gaslighting, extraordinary professional jealousy, and all the rest, then yeah, I guess you're right, it was "extraordinary."
Where are the missing 2 journals and the poems against him in Ariel? Single with no kids, nothing affects u anymore, give it to Carole's family or Hugh's family, 500k dollars gained from your auctions, Frieda, the yellow dress why did u do that? no one buys your poems or what? Stop doing this. Do it for your stepsister Shura.
@@omfug7148 Yes he was a professor (I think) of agricultural/environmental studies in Alaska/Anchorage. That interest in nature came from the fishing trips and so on he had with his father. Ted Hughes kept from Nicholas and Frieda the real reason for their mother's death, suicide, until they were young teenagers. I don't think Nicholas ever married or had children. He appeared to have lead a solitary, lonely existence. His suicide was an absolute tragedy. Sylvia commited suicide, Nicholas committed suicide and Assia Wevill, a German poet with whom Ted Hughes had a relationship, committed suicide in 1969.
@@martydav9475 Nicholas Hughes did have friends and colleagues (he was a professor in the School of Fisheries at the University of Alaska) in Alaska, New Zealand, and Britain who cherished him, as the online memorials attest. He never married, but did have girlfriends-the last, tragically, discovered his body at his home near Fairbanks after he hung himself in 2009. He fought a long battle with depression.
@@lesliegoodman-malamuth9796 Thank you so much for your information. I'm glad he wasn't on his own at least and I will read those memorials. Sylvia is buried not too far from me by the way.
Wow! All the excuses that Frieda gives in this are a disgrace to her mothers memory. Most passionate and loving? You mean when he was doing the narcissistic 'love bombing' phase on her poor mother. Ted was narcissist. Sylvia and all his other numerous women were victims of narcissistic abuse. He was NEVER passionately in love! He loved NO ONE! Wake UP to narcissism. Read the ones where she talks about her father beating her mother and the miscarriage. Start to learn about narcissistic abuse here. ua-cam.com/video/m04jW_qSM2U/v-deo.html
I agree with you. People always bang on about Plath's "rage" and "jealousy" in the wake of Hughes' infidelity but reading her last letters, he sounds SO cruel. Plath sounds understandably hurt to me rather than vengeful. He made her feel ugly, physically unattractive compared to other women (not just Assia Wevill). This is a repeated theme of her last letters and it almost broke my heart. Still, the very fact we can read these letters at all is largely thanks to Frieda Hughes so I'll try not to be too rude about her father here.
Frieda should stop doing this, she made half a million 💵 so far. Hughs had a family that loved Sylvia despite the fact he never told them they were getting married, they never accepted Assia, I doubt they liked Brenda and Carole. There must be cousins and nephews. I'm sure.
You put it so well in your comment and I strongly agree with you. I don’t see any “extraordinary love” here. This is surely a case of narcissistic abuse where the beginning was love bombing and the abuse soon followed. Hughes exhibited many clear signs of narcissism. We are in a great need to be more aware of narcissism since it’s infested the society for so long without being recognized and called out. Narcissism should not be endured and enabled any longer.
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Ted Hughes was a wonderful poet when he was not too obscure. Sylvia Plath was more approachable, but a bit too subjective. All her poems were about herself.
It’s sad to see the peanut crunching crowd muscle into the comment section with their half-baked chatter. There’s no love for the taboo, for the interior worlds, for the muddied hues which love is. They criticize a love that they’ll never be able to touch or even imagine. Sitting in front of the tv placid and rotting away safe as can be.
i can't disagree Jasmine, except to say that you, just as i, do not know these people at all, and to cite evidence from artistic writings or private letters even and make a personal opinion, sidestepping the obvious position of their daughter and her quest to show their love, is not honourable and certainly not up to us. I have visited her grave, have read all her work...and Ted Hughes also...and the situation is more complex than you can imagine, BUT, I can hardly be argued that she was devoted to him, and that, her being left and betrayed is part of her ending
She makes it up. The gas oven is the ultimate. Leaves her made a note on how to resusitate her and dies as she turns up late. No one elso found ted so foul. Anne Sexton was it this idiots race. But both very good.
Their "extraordinary love"? He sounded like a textbook narcissist and she kill3,d herself after he cheated on her & abandoned his family. If that's love I'll happily stay single.
In his defense, it could not have been easy being married to a woman who was without question unstable, not her first suicide attempt. She s ibcredibly possessve if her father also.
She was very young when her mother died so her memories of her father would be more vivid kind and loving She will therefore never know of her mother's despair of the humiliation of his constant affairs
I suppose it's easier for a child to believe their parents shared an extraordinary love for each other.
I suppose total strangers know better?
Her parents were both creative, so I suppose it's easy for her to fantasize, and romanticize the relationship
In this one instance i dont think its entirely unfair for people who have poured over sylvia's work and journals and biographies about her life or whatever to assume they know more than her children did about her life. Because her kids were 1 and 2 years old when she died, so they were fed information or given a narrative just as much as any outside audience would have unfortunately- their first hand experience with her is sadly so limited that it doesnt give them much of a leg up in terms of knowing her compared to any outsider...
@@EvWuzhere if it was so extraordinary why did he leave and she commut suicide.
@@ecalose6785 the question answers itself. You wouldnt do that over a love that was mediocre to you. Btw extraordinary does not mean im saying it was the healthiest. Im saying it was powerful, very emotionally meaningful to her, etc
This is bittersweet. No matter how much they were in love with each other, that somehow changed towards the ends with Syvia Plath herself describing the abuse she suffered in her letters.
Exactly. It's so sad that nobody wants to talk about the bitter end of their relationship.
She was beaten by him cheated by him, as a woman why would I want to keep it?
A cautionary tale, there is no love greater then self worth. The rest is addiction.
Oh. My. Goodness! Your words Aliya ma'am.
Thank you for your beautiful and powerfully stated wisdom.
For a poet, the only thing that matters is poetry.
FACTS!
Exactly!
Unfortunately Ted Hughes greatest love of his life was himself. I wish Sylvia Plath had never met him. The problem is that she thought she had found her perfect man, and nobody is actually that perfect.
Sadly there is a level of narcissism to being something like that.
If it hadn’t been for Sylvia, there would be no Iron Giant.
I’m sorry but what was so “extraordinary” about this when he abuses her, serially cheats on her and then leaves her to fend for herself in the 1950s when women had a very limited sense of autonomy (or means) so that she kills herself? Am I missing something?
I think her daughter is!
I think so, that's really weird, I can't understand what was the extraordinary thing!!
Not to mention that he had also hit her so hard that she had a miscarriage.
All of the things mentioned have been spoken about time and again. This is a daughter speaking about her parents, whom she, no doubt, loved. They probably were deeply in love at some point. Sylvia surely was. One can only hope that Ted loved her a fraction of that once upon a time. I did and do love, the brilliant, Sylvia Plath. ❤
I wonder if Frieda had children. One would think these things would be passed down for generations. I hope whoever gets/ got them cherishes them. I would. ❤
He treated her like shite.
What I don't understand is why these precious items have been sold and separated for eternity. Why were they not housed at an institution ? Freida did not need the rather paltry one million dollars they brought at auction. The royalties alone from her parents writing must be substantial. There are no grandchildren from Ted and Sylvia to provide for. These 'beautiful things" have been scattered around the world. How sad.
My thoughts exactly. A state library would take then all, archive and preserve them. Individually up for auction, someone's looking to cash in on the money.
That says a lot about her daughter's character.
I am from India. In my class 10 year 2010 there was a poem THE MIRROR . Teacher orders us to make a file on any poet or author from textbook . I chose SYLVIA PLATH . When I came to know the way she died I felt , so emotional. From that time I always remembered her. Today I came across this video .
The beginning at 3:40 It was like listening to Sylvia herself, having your mother's voice must be such a beautiful and amazing gift.
100%
Why on earth would you sell your family's legacy ? No one would take care of it better than you in your lifetime. And if you have no kids to leave these treasures to, then to a museum they belong. So sad.
to make your boat lighter so you don't sink
She was the smart one exploiting her family tragedy for financial gains 😂
right. This is totally not about the money, of course. If you really treasure all of this and does not want the value to be lost, just give it to a museum!
Sylvia Plath was so gifted and talented.
These items should be bought as a complete archive; whilst both are striking, utterly talented individuals, their legacies are intertwined. Frieda speaks with great warmth and dignity. At the end of the day they were both her parents. Robin Witting
I assume the reason she’s selling now is that Uncle Warren died last year, so she is really the last of her mother’s line who remember Sylvia directly.
Hugh's family liked Sylvia, they never accepted Assia. What about them?, she must have cousins and nephews at least.
Actually, she was only 3 years old when her mom died. I really doubt she has any memories of her, and her brother didn't either (he was only 2).
By the way, may Nicholas and his mom Rest in Peace.
@@sadem1045 All the more reason to hold tight to whatever you have. If you read Frieda’s book from last year, George, you get a sense that she needed money for her new Welsh house, gardens and bird sanctuary she was building. That most likely was the impetus for the sale, especially due to her Australian husband’s dead weight and lack of income, but luckily they separated and I think divorced.
I grew up with Hughes' poetry, he was Poet Laureate in the 80s but visited my school to readvhis poems in the 70s. I only read about his wives many years later. Something about him attracted these disturbed women to him. (But all artists and poets are disturbed to some extent, arent we)?
Just started to reread The Bell Jar last night upon rediscovery in the final cleaning & clearing of my childhood home last July. Could not be more grateful to have happened upon this video today. Thank you, Frieda. With love, Brittney
Love at its most brutal and abusive . Frieda really ?
Some people will do anything or sell anything for money!
Should be kept as a collection somewhere. Not split off around the world.😮
Her voice quality--as I'm sure she has been told--is reminiscent of her mother's, even from hearing Plath's voice via recording. #trainedearsneverlie
She sounds just like her mother. That same haunting accent and cadence.
He cheated on Sylvia too many times that she was tormented and deeplly suffered No longer to endure the pain, she took her own life.
History shows she was sadly tormented beforehand. She attempted suicide long before she met Ted. She had possessive tendencies herself. The night she met him she bit his cheek. That says a lot. Ted was wrong, he made terrible mistakes. They both lived intense artistic lives and their poems endure forever. No one can make you happy, they only add to your happiness. People make mistakes in thinking that coupling makes you happy, it doesn't really. Perhaps it would've been better had they both met people who weren't so driven artistically. Tragic story.n
If you read the belljar it says it's never about man
@@pianobanter
Good to know .
Frieda has no children of her own so I understand why she is willing to sell these items, still, considering how the story played out between her mother and father it is sad. Is that her garden and her pet owls? how wonderful.
No she doesn't have any children and when she's gone Sylvia, Ted, her brother Nicholas (also suicide) and Frieda will all have gone.
yes that's her garden and house and she has a plethora of owls
What about giving these letters to a museum like V&A?
Her mum and dad would be proud of her. The story of Ted and Sylvia is so famous that all these items will be cherished.
When it comes to wedding rings- it's always so hard to know what to do with them...whether to bury them with the person, or remove them and keep them....
That is quite true. I wear my deceased father's wedding ring on a necklace around my neck. He was wearing it in his coffin ⚰; but, my mother agonized about whether she should keep his wedding ring until the absolute last moment before they closed the top of his coffin. Just as they were closing it, she asked the funeral home to retrieve the wedding ring and off to the cemetery we went. Having it didn't bring her solace like she thought it would, though. It only made her too sad to look at so it sat in a drawer for years before I asked to have it. 🥺
Incontestably brilliant, Plath had a heart so fierce that Hughes could only feel important in comparison by destroying her sense of feminine value. He slapped and hit her, which resulted in a miscarriage. And yet even in her anger, Plath remained devoted, idealising him and their love. Hughes upped the ante: he began to have affairs. In public, Hughes played Plath’s champion well but refused to pull his weight domestically and emotionally, meaning her ability to write was impaired. Abandoned by him with their two children in a foreign country, she rapidly disintegrated. A thoroughly nasty piece of work.
She was a handful. She was promising. He was brilliant. Her mental illness was her downfall from the start. It was always going to end that way. We're talking about poets here. You don't strive to become a poet, unless you're crazy.
Exactly!!
Her letters could have been written by a love sick 14 year old.
Not a supposedly intelligent young woman. Most poets are self obsessed narcissists and Hughes
was classic example.
He was brilliant and compelling but he was not a good man.
He was jealous ok
I really enjoyed watching this interview. Sylvia's daughter is just as beautiful as she is.
I was fascinated by hearing Freida talk of her parents and their love for each other in all its intensity and complexities. I was also curious about Freida's own artwork on the wall - she's very talented. Her garden is beautiful. Such a shame she also lost her brother.
Frieda…you truly got your mothers grace and beauty. Thank you for this amazing video
Like her mother, she is tall and graceful.
@@martydav9475 She also possesses a similarly rich timbre and tone of voice to her mother's.
"the extraordinary love" hmmmmm.
Not sure if love includes lying and selfishly destroying the person you "love"
With all due Respect Hughes had an affair with one of Sylvia's frrinds driving her into a depressive episode and suicide .
Yes. And when the mistress killed herself, she killed their child. Wonder why? They all had one thing in common. Ted Hughes.
Oops did not realize your comment was so old.
Some reports state he was having affairs with other women throughout their relationship .
It is strange how easily she says the words "My mother's ring fits just inside my father's ring" when they are capable of breaking the soul.
Short lived deep passion between lovers is not so extraordinary as FH imagines. Till-death-do-us-part commitment that puts dependent children and the wider community ahead of rising, falling, or changing passions--that is what is increasingly extraordinary. How's that working for us?
We only see letters from Sylvia to Ted, but where are the letters from Ted to Sylvia? Where is his love for her? We only see her passion and love in those letters...
just finished red comet so nice to see sylvias daughter i wish sylvia was there with her being taken care of by her loving daughter in her old age
I'm so touched by seeing this woman, I hope I get to see the collection one day, is such a complex and profound life, perfectly documented for us, because Sylvia knew they were Huge.
Incredible collection. The items Ted subsequently left to you will serve their own story.
He did hurt her there's no doubt about that & there's no way in excusing the ways in which he had but he did love her at one time too, the letters are evidence of that, the poems too- & to be quite frank without that toxic turn having never taken place, we might not have the legacy of the poet that Plath became? She was like a bolide crashing through the atmosphere in words- all that pain & suffering harnessed into something so terribly raw, (wreckless) & yet inutterbly beautiful.
Ella si lo amo de verdad pero él no supo corresponder a ese amor.
Que triste.
Que vidas tan intensas.
💝💝💝
The way she talks remind me so much of how Sylvia spoke! The pronunciation is super unique.
She sounds exactly like Sylvia! 🥰
so delighted to hear from the daughter of Sylvia Plath.. Love from Pakistan... ❤.. i felt extremly down when i read Daddy , Colossus and Lady Lazurus...
I don't really care for Ted Hughes and how he treated Silvia Plath however he was an amazing author.
Eww
Today on 30 April 2024 I read about Sylvia Plath and her extraordinary literature work especially poetry I am very much influenced about her intellectual power and her poetry based on real life....
I still cannot understand how anyone could auction off these utterly intimate objects. Is, was Frieda skint? I mean, she doesn’t seem to be spendthrift. Was it income tax? I don’t get it. My parents are both gone; I have a tiny house, very little room, but I keep all the items of theirs I have.
She obviously enjoys a certain standard of living - an extremely comfortable one - and can only
maintain it by flogging the family
silver..? ( it pleases me to hear how you treasure your parent's
possessions .! )
Love the dogs and the owls!
What a touching moment.
Wonder why these were not all donated to library collections and literary archives? Or sold to those sort of institutions?
Plath was very badly abused by bastard ted.
Frieda, don't you have kids, a partner you can rely on, a best friend?
I wouldn't want to have a memory from a toxic man, yh a poet but mentally, physically abusive towards your mother, a memory of a suicidal relationship, your brother couldn't even take it anymore, your dad couldn't replace Sylvia as he tried many times, even another woman took her life too, not only Sylvia, so I'm sorry I'd never buy it even if I could afford all of it and I'm glad he suffered looking for love, his talent can't erase what he did to her.
Right On !
Frieda
Has a great capacity for self deception. I would be embarrassed to talk about love in connection with her parents. Some people will do anything for money ! And Sell anything !
It's often the case that the children of successful / gifted parents possess none of the abilities of their parents and are " forced " to
earn a living by trading on their
family connections.
She has her mother's voice
Extraordinary love? Don't you mean extraordinary abuse?
Couldn't help but notice, 555 likes, 55 comments, at 15:55. 🖤
Let’s play Yahtzee
They sought a poetic life together.
Aren't the letters private love letters
That's a sad story.
Neta (verdad) que no entiendo porque se mata Sylvia y Assia por un señor tan promiscuo. Su obra es muy buena del matrimonio Hughes- Plath pero sus desbordados apetitos y su nulo respeto por su familia llevaron a muerte a estás dos mujeres; también a Shura y años después a Nicholas.
Que tristeza.
Quizás en su matrimonio con la segunda esposa ya se haya moderado el poeta, quizás si, porque duro mucho tiempo con Carol.
Da gusto ver a Frieda, toda una artista y con su familia 🍁🍁🍁 que bueno que se rompe la cadena de suicidios!!
Abrazo Frieda!!
Extraordinary individuals but not an extraordinary love story.
It's funny because the times she mentions "passion" always consisted of what Sylvia wrote, what Sylvia felt, it highlights the possible loneliness Plath had probably felt....
This was intimate partner violence. how we can do better outreach for people with suicidal ideation?
She sounds exactly like Sylvia
In one way, his love for her seems all too ordinary - he left her for a younger woman.
In fact he left her for an older woman. Assia Wevill was five years older than Plath.
If it is extraordinary it is not love.
Wow she speaks just like Sylvia
He cheated on her, didn't he? He was quite sadistic. 🙄
Ted Hughes was simply terrible to women. I'm really sorry to say this, because I'm sure Freida Hughes loved her father, but she was raised by a man who had a history of being psychologically and physically abusive toward his partners.
A person who is friendly with earth n sky why did she committed suicide?
We only learn her poetry.
Her mother , Sylvia did, as did her adult brother, Nicholas, a few years ago. The woman Ted left Sylvia for also killed herself in the same manner that Sylvia did, in Sylvia's flat. That woman, Assia Wevill, gassed herself and her little daughter as well.. Tragedy all around.
The father was for the street,
Not an ideal man.
She deserved better.
I think I made you up inside my head.
I really really want the tarot cards
"Extraordinary love?" Wow. Didn't know Sotheby's used rage-bait titles. I guess if you take "extraordinary" literally and fold in the extraordinary abuse, extraordinary gaslighting, extraordinary professional jealousy, and all the rest, then yeah, I guess you're right, it was "extraordinary."
"they need homes"
Wow. Amazing
There was nothing extraordinary about this love , such a cruel use of words after knowing what she went through .
Feel nice ...in India we r reading the laburnam top
He was such a monster
Where are the missing 2 journals and the poems against him in Ariel? Single with no kids, nothing affects u anymore, give it to Carole's family or Hugh's family, 500k dollars gained from your auctions, Frieda, the yellow dress why did u do that? no one buys your poems or what? Stop doing this. Do it for your stepsister Shura.
How can she afford that beautiful house and those owls?
I didn't know they had a daughter!
A son also who sadly committed suicide about 10 years after Ted died, I don't think that Nick could live without him, and ultimately chose not to.
@@omfug7148 Yes he was a professor (I think) of agricultural/environmental studies in Alaska/Anchorage. That interest in nature came from the fishing trips and so on he had with his father.
Ted Hughes kept from Nicholas and Frieda the real reason for their mother's death, suicide, until they were young teenagers. I don't think Nicholas ever married or had children. He appeared to have lead a solitary, lonely existence. His suicide was an absolute tragedy.
Sylvia commited suicide, Nicholas committed suicide and Assia Wevill, a German poet with whom Ted Hughes had a relationship, committed suicide in 1969.
@@martydav9475 Nicholas Hughes did have friends and colleagues (he was a professor in the School of Fisheries at the University of Alaska) in Alaska, New Zealand, and Britain who cherished him, as the online memorials attest. He never married, but did have girlfriends-the last, tragically, discovered his body at his home near Fairbanks after he hung himself in 2009.
He fought a long battle with depression.
@@lesliegoodman-malamuth9796 Thank you so much for your information. I'm glad he wasn't on his own at least and I will read those memorials. Sylvia is buried not too far from me by the way.
I suggest this podcast of 2 ua-cam.com/video/AbFh3SwMO7E/v-deo.html he was a monster
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Wow! All the excuses that Frieda gives in this are a disgrace to her mothers memory. Most passionate and loving? You mean when he was doing the narcissistic 'love bombing' phase on her poor mother. Ted was narcissist. Sylvia and all his other numerous women were victims of narcissistic abuse. He was NEVER passionately in love! He loved NO ONE! Wake UP to narcissism. Read the ones where she talks about her father beating her mother and the miscarriage. Start to learn about narcissistic abuse here. ua-cam.com/video/m04jW_qSM2U/v-deo.html
I agree with you. People always bang on about Plath's "rage" and "jealousy" in the wake of Hughes' infidelity but reading her last letters, he sounds SO cruel. Plath sounds understandably hurt to me rather than vengeful. He made her feel ugly, physically unattractive compared to other women (not just Assia Wevill). This is a repeated theme of her last letters and it almost broke my heart. Still, the very fact we can read these letters at all is largely thanks to Frieda Hughes so I'll try not to be too rude about her father here.
I suggest this podcast of 2 ua-cam.com/video/AbFh3SwMO7E/v-deo.html he was a monster
Where are the missing 2 journals and the poems against him in Ariel?
Frieda should stop doing this, she made half a million 💵 so far. Hughs had a family that loved Sylvia despite the fact he never told them they were getting married, they never accepted Assia, I doubt they liked Brenda and Carole. There must be cousins and nephews. I'm sure.
You put it so well in your comment and I strongly agree with you. I don’t see any “extraordinary love” here. This is surely a case of narcissistic abuse where the beginning was love bombing and the abuse soon followed. Hughes exhibited many clear signs of narcissism. We are in a great need to be more aware of narcissism since it’s infested the society for so long without being recognized and called out. Narcissism should not be endured and enabled any longer.
I guess to know Ted Hughes is to die for him…
This isn't love, this is abuse
Symbiotic relationships.
ferocity: gaddarlık, çok şiddetli olma durumu
air: hava
get stifling: boğucu olmak
scoffing: alay
unchastened: iffetsiz
legend: efsane
I ache to return to my proper:Hakkıma dönmek için can atıyorum
curled up: kıvrılmış
auction: açık arttırma
items:öğeler
obviously: açıkca
wedding rings
treasured: değerli adj
labeled: etiketli
acquaire: tanımak
bluntly: açıkca
conscious: bilinçli adj
I pop my clogs, my stuff just be stuff
I vauled: değer verdim
ultimate aim:nihai amaç
Nice life 💗
The only thing extraordinary was his narcissism
The terrible truth is that most men would've left Plath for Assia. Desire is stronger than romance.
My perception of romantic love completely altered by this type of titles through the times 👍
He loved her to death.
Ted Hughes was a wonderful poet when he was not too obscure. Sylvia Plath was more approachable, but a bit too subjective. All her poems were about herself.
It’s sad to see the peanut crunching crowd muscle into the comment section with their half-baked chatter. There’s no love for the taboo, for the interior worlds, for the muddied hues which love is. They criticize a love that they’ll never be able to touch or even imagine. Sitting in front of the tv placid and rotting away safe as can be.
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i can't disagree Jasmine, except to say that you, just as i, do not know these people at all, and to cite evidence from artistic writings or private letters even and make a personal opinion, sidestepping the obvious position of their daughter and her quest to show their love, is not honourable and certainly not up to us.
I have visited her grave, have read all her work...and Ted Hughes also...and the situation is more complex than you can imagine, BUT, I can hardly be argued that she was devoted to him, and that, her being left and betrayed is part of her ending
She makes it up. The gas oven is the ultimate. Leaves her made a note on how to resusitate her and dies as she turns up late. No one elso found ted so foul. Anne Sexton was it this idiots race. But both very good.
He was a monster!!
..they need homes..
Que manera de romantizar una relacion terriblemente tòxica. Esta mujer tiene que ir a terapia.
There NO love without your maker Jesus ,ONLY lust and idolization !
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Extraordinary😢 love? Nobody believes this lie.