They say we can’t be best friends with someone without developing feelings for one another, but that’s simply not true! So many great and lasting friendships are built on honesty, trust, understanding, connection, and mutual respect. You don’t need romantic love to feel a deep friendship for someone.
Sup time traveller here: 1. Everyone thinks you're already dating 0:29 2. You catch them staring alot 0:57 3. They're physically affectionate toward you 1:18 4. They're more attentative towards you 1:38 5. They're remember the little things 2:01 6. They're very protective of you 2:21 7. They're not interested in anyone else 2:44 Just commented on 4 unlisted videos, phew.
If a boy really has a crush on you, then he'll be likely to give you all of his attention. He'll turn his body toward you, make eye contact, and won't look around for his other friends or text them during your conversation (unless he uses his phone as a crutch because he's nervous).
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. It seems like it's impossible for men and women to emotionally connect with each other. I heard that gay and lesbian couples are happier than straight couples are, and I heard that gay and lesbian relationships are healthier than straight relationships are. The more similar you are to someone, the more easier it is to bond and connect with them. People of the same sex/gender understand each other more easily, and there are no inbuilt societal power imbalances as there are between opposite-sex couples. Gay and lesbian couples understand each other better than straight couples do (due to them being the same gender as each other). I heard that most straight couples are not happy being together, and I heard that people who are straight are much happier and much better off being single than they are being in a romantic relationship.
I think the hardest is when you suspect they have feelings, but they’re not upfront enough for you to shut them down. Instead they offer acts of service. They’re like, “can I give you a ride?” it’s hard to reply, “I have a boyfriend”
I'm that guy. I'm so scared of how she'll react, I don't want to ruin our friendship. But if she likes me back, I'd be doing her a disservice by not telling her. I don't know what to do 😩 we're so close already, I don't want to ruin that by making it weird.
Romantic love is not special at all. However, platonic love is special. Platonic love is one of the strongest types of love, while romantic love is one of the weakest types of love. When a guy and a girl are best friends, they won't date or be in a romantic relationship with each other since they know it wouldn't work since they are too close. That proves that romantic love is inferior to platonic love. The best feeling for many girls is being able to have platonic guy friends that are like brothers to them. Most girls prefer having platonic guy friends over a boyfriend/husband. Many girls would choose their platonic male best friend over their boyfriend/husband and give more importance to them. Most girls seem to be more comfortable being around their platonic male best friends than they are being around their boyfriends/husbands. People are closer to their platonic best friends than they are to their romantic partner. People usually love their platonic best friend more than their romantic partner. Platonic love is actually real, while romantic love is fake. Romantic relationships are actually a downgrade compared to platonic relationships.
I had a crush on my best friend for approx 10 years. He went and got married and had two children. I went to their wedding and as I drove away from that day, my heart shattered because there was no chance for us now... But now, he is divorced ..... We have been together for 5 years now and he is engaged to me 🥰🥰🥰 Don't give up hope! The best relationships are built on a solid foundation of friendship! It may just take a while for them to realise! 🖤
"They sit next to you, put their arm around you, or lay their head on your shoulder?" Me: Yeah, but she's straight... Guys, little update: She came out as bi to me and I'm a trans man (:
When we were both adults, I told my best friend I used to have a crush on him when we were teens. I could tell he was flattered by the notion. We still have a strange close connection, ever since we were teens. And yes, strangers to this day often think we are bf/gf. But he’s gay and I think I always knew (he only officially came out when he was in his twenties) Some times it’s not a romantic connection, or not vice versa anyway, but it can still be deep and meaningful. All the signs mentioned in the vid here refer to us both, except he has been in two longterm relationships and I have also been with someone off and on. But we love eachother, he knows if he ever needs a kidney that he can have mine. I told him one drunk Christmas (and later confirmed when I was sober that the deal still stands) It’s kinda like soulmates, without the romantic element in it. I am ok that we are not together as a couple, because I think he deserves better than what I have to offer anyways, and I believe he has that now. I just want to see him happy. Being a part of his life as a friend is good enough for me. Anyway, maybe this story is useful to someone.
@@chayanika6860 Happy it helped someone. I have accepted that I will probably never find anyone for myself, but it’s ok: I still have my best friend in my life (tho we no longer live in the same country) and now I have two furbabies. So, in a way, I am not alone.
Disclaimer: You can have a really affectionate loving Aro friend who does all this and yet they don't see you that way. So, careful with the grey area that is aroaceness.
@@amishasingh2973 if there's a community there's naturally a culture surrounding it. although im not sure if his comment is really a stereotype rather than just a thing that sometimes happens
@@amishasingh2973 im disagreeing with both of you. Im saying yes there is a gay culture. And no falling for straight men is not stereotypical. But that it's bound to happen when you're gay when most men are straight.
I have a female bestfriend before and now we're couple:P We both have feelings toward each others Edit: She's still my bff we always spent time together a lot
To all the people who are self-depreciating themselves saying they don’t have a crush . Your special someone will be lucky to have you ! Besides , You never know if someone’s crushing on you 😉 you typically don’t know you have a crush , that’s what makes it one 💖
Make them feel your feeling and be open, yet gentle, about it. It takes a lot to confess your feelings, but being rejected is better than watching them starting different relationship. You might be in the situation when the other half feels the same and is too afraid to ask as well. Life's too short to wait
@@grzegorzjedrzejowski5746 exactly... even if they turn you down, you'll feel better about yourself for letting them know... trust me =P Basically... do something before you can't do anything.
There might've been a time when I noticed this, but it was so long ago that it's now obscured. I haven't had a female best friend in... almost 10 years, and I'm 18 going on 19.
Ah, reminds me of my OCs, Courtney and Stella. They've been best friends since kindergarten and are now in high school. Courtney’s been starting to have feelings for Stella. She wants to tell her, but she's scared that if she shares her feelings, Stella won't feel the same way. She begins to become distant, trying to figure out how to tell her. Stella loves hanging out with Courtney and she cares about her more than anything in the world. Of course she doesn't mean to be, but she can be a bit ignorant at times. Because of this, she hasn't picked up on any of these signs yet. But she has been getting the sense that something's up, as her best friend is starting to become distant towards her. She's worried that she's somehow made Courtney upset with her, but can't figure out what she did.
Yes, it happen over time. Sadly I realized we were having an emotional affair so I had to stop hanging out with her, in order for her to give her all to her relationship. Because I really love her and want her to be happy.
When I watch these videos about how to spot signs of potential attraction from others, I'm mainly checking for any signs I might be displaying toward others. I had particular interest in this video because I wouldn't consider dating anyone I don't know, and if I develop attraction toward anyone it would be a familiar and trusted friend that I'd already feel close with.
I actually relate this this quite a lot. Even though I've already confirmed that my best friend likes me (he confessed to me) it's still really shocking to see that these apply to me.
When your girlfriend was once your best friend and you clicked the video because it took you both so long to figure out you both had mutual feelings for one another
Me clicks on this video to see if my bestfriends like me: Video: Bestfriends Physically Also me that only has online friends from another country: *O h*
1- my friends thought we were dating at my birthday, 2- he doesn’t stare a lot but i have caught him staring 3- we cuddle, share deep hugs, he puts his arm around me, and allow me to lay on him 4- yes. 5- he remembers everything about me, like everything, stuff i even forget 6- i had a crush on another guy awhile back and my current crush thought he was a jerk.. 7-he hangs out with me and talks with me a lot more than his other friends - -we are both guys -he has a girlfriend :((((
Let me help you all out:. Prior to the present day, there were many previous days upon Earth. Days are grouped into months and months are grouped into years. (the concept of "time sequence" is a subject for next semester) The so called "previous" days and months are when the comments in question were posted. You won't actually see comments for "future" days and months because they haven't occurred yet See how that works?
It would be helpful to remind people that best friends often do help each other when the other one is feeling down. Things like this have been used against me when I was falsely accused of having these feelings for someone who I never had those feelings for. I've already stopped making good friends with members of the opposite sex so I can avoid my intentions being mistaken. If we can't help each other when we're feeling down without it being mistaken for flirting, that's not exactly the definition of a good friendship, much less best friends. I now have to limit myself to almost never speaking, never hanging out, never asking how their day is going (which I used to do with my friendships with both men and women), never texting, never calling, and never excited to see them in public. Basically, a weak friendship that is borderline to acquaintanceship. If I have a crush on someone, I'm direct about it. That hasn't spared me from being mistaken, though. So, it'll help to remind people that some of these are not always a sign.
In all my life I’ve never found what I couldn’t resist, what I couldn’t turn down. I could walk away from anyone I ever knew, but I can’t walk away from you.
That moment that my best friend (who i have more than just a crush on at this point) knows i like him and didn't do anything with it except tell people i have a crush on him like he takes pride in it. But he did tell me once that he does, infact, not mind me having feelings for him. For the rest he hasn't rejected me yet or returned feelings for me yet so I'm still on a big guessing game 😎
In all these videos, the person is already acquainted with and already hangs around their crush a lot... vs avoiding the crush as much as possible.......
Lol i have a crush on my bff, i confessed in second grade, lost interest and in 5th i regained feelings, they dont like me, they kissed my other bff and always hangs out with them and never me... i like them alot and i gare myself for it, thats only one of the resons i hate my life, i know its probably way better then what others deal with and i dont deserve comfort but i really just want to have a good life...
I met this girl last year, and we instantly became great friends. When I started noticing my feelings for her, I told my other close friends who feel like I should just ask her out already. We use pet names, including things like baby, my love, and dear, and are always hugging and holding hands. We also often text each other saying "I love you", using different heart emojis, or saying how we miss the other over the span of a single weekend or day off. She made me realize my sexuality, and now I am afraid that she might not see me the same way, and that this is all platonic, as we are both girls. She means the world to me, and I don't want to lose what I do have if she doesn't like me back. It's so hard for me, and my feelings keep getting stronger. Should I just go for it? Or is this an exception because it's 2 girls? I don't know, but I would love to find out
I am a college student, and she is transferring to my school come the next spring, and she plans on being my roommate. We sit on call now every night, sometimes through the day too, and her whole family loves me. We are planning to have our first sleepover soon, and she wants to plan it to make it “perfect”. Additionally, you know the eyebrow tease thingy? She LOVES doing it to me, claiming she likes how it makes me “panic”. I haven’t asked her out yet, but I did find out she is bi, single, and with the fact that she likes to make me panic? Plus, she came to visit me once last semester, only for a short while, but there was definitely some lip contact while we cuddled. I think once she moves in, it’ll be easier to tell her my feelings, but I think it is safe to say the light is green!
@@Toasted_bread37 The flirty one. The one that you rapidly raise and lower your eyebrows? Idk if it has a certain term, I just call it the eyebrow thingy lol, but she does it all the time, and it always sends me into a gay panic
I mean all signs are kinda right 1. Not completely but the friend group thinks we should date. 2. Not so much, only a few times 3. She touches me some times when we talk and she bumps me to tease me if i teased her. 4. Yeees. But when her twin is there she is usally talks more with others. Her and her twin sister both go to the same school in the same year. 5. A few gestures here and there. 6. Yup this is true. Takes care of me mentally. Protects me from falling down cause of stress and bad thoughts.
So you mean to tell me that I missed my chance to be with him?? That we both missed our chance to be together?? Well... Its too late now 😔 I need to move on. I have been loving him for 10 years now and I think its unhealthy.
My best friend used to be like this. All of the people I knew thought we were dating but he was always told them we were just friend when anyone asked about me. He spent a lot of time hang out with me, bought me food, never dated anyone at that time, a lot of skin ship, and yet, my foolist self had never knew. I had feeling for him too. But I didn't know of he would feel the same. We're still friend now and we're both dating someone else. Sometimes in life, you missed a moment in order to stay together. If we had dated, I didn't think we are still friend today. So, guys and girls, tell them you love them when you still can. And to the people that missed the chance, it is ok to keep that saying for yourself. It is OK both ways!
Most of my best friends are male... They were the first who got jealous when I had my bf before...they got angry and shouted at me and said I was stupid and no brain... unfortunately the two of them died...and I miss our friendship... it's rare to find people whom u are very authentic infront of them and be yourself wherever u are whatever you looked and still u are accepted... Those best friends I had before they cried when I cried, if they knew I'm in trouble they keep making follow-up if I'm okay or have I eaten my meal. Nowadays it's rare to find true friends...u are lucky if u have one true friend...
My best friend had a crush on me for one year. I loved his attention and one day i realised that he was in love with me and i was in love with him. So i cut him off since im happily taken. I still miss him, it has been 2 months.
if i were to have a best friend who i caught staring at me (or anyone else who's looking directly at me), i would absolutely stare back for the fun of it
i hate assuming if my crush likes me cuz half the times it's not true but this is getting my hopes up because i do catch him staring at me a lot and he pats my head and he always asks me how im feeling everyday >///< he's so amazing and im so grateful to have him in my life, he really does make me so much happier ^-^
A cute story : * Discussion between a friend and me * -We're not friends anymore (Why ? Did I make something wrong ?) -No (So why ? I don't understand) -Because I love u... Ps : I swear I had a heart attack (I was a lil surprised, I didn't know what to answer) I eventually told him I loved him, too
1. Girls always say that😂 2. I have seen like super Good looking girls be best Friends. Usually ugly girls have ugly friends, and hot girls have hot friends. And they Both have me as a best friend😂 I might not be super cool or popular, but girls like to have me around for some reason
So I clicked on this video expecting to relate to more than half of these but I hit every single one. I’m definitely the best friend with a crush. My family (mostly my uncle I don’t see much) always asks if me and my best friend are dating when she comes along with me to family events.
I'm the one who does all these things to my best friend..and we both are girls..my best friend is a girl..and Im always doing all these things to her...😶 Yeah I have a crush on her..I have feelings for her🙃
Im pretty sure that the reason why we didn't confess yet (or at least i didn't for now) it's because we don't want to run the friendship between us and them because if they reject you it's gonna be reallyyy akward after.
@@simonacrivellari4156 yeah you're right..I don't wanna ruin our friendship I really wanna tell her and everyone that I love her..but I can't..it's bcuz it would be so awkward...and the saddest part is that she has a boyfriend but still I love her and I can't stop it..I wish I could stop loving her but I can't 🙃
My best friends does everything except physical involved actions since it's a long distance "friendship" (we're French and around 5 years ago her family left to Canada, I always dreamt to live there even before I met her). I think I love her and she gives out every signals this video indicates. I think it might be a big double crush but I want to make things right and wait until in one year (or less) I meet her in Canada (i'm supposed to move out there). I hope I'll bring enough courage to confess to her when the time's right!
Most people watching this probably want to know if their best friend have a crush on them... And then there's me that have a crush on my best friend and wants to make this sings as noticeable as possible but still not being too obvious
I've seen quite a few of these signs before they even told me. It's one thing to post videos that are helpful, but why does it feel like the videos of this channel keep following my life as new things happen?
When you watch this vid straight after the "things that tell you it's time to let go of your crush" video and realise everything in that vid is the truth, and everything you want to be true in this video is just a dream.
7 Signs Your Best Friend Has A Crush On You **Roblox Edition** 1) Everyone hates online daters on (me too bc its uncomfortable for players when 2 are showcasing affection) RBX so uh, nO. 2) Do they stare at my avatar? They say I should get a "glow up". Hmm. 3) Physically? Does RP killing and roasting each other count?? 4) Sure, sure. They reply at 10:00 PM. Oh, they also always make a funny face every time my chat gets tagged. 5) Even the things I don't even remember I did. 6) The other way around. Well, they like scaring off those little noobs when they try to one-up me with more roasting. 7) Don't think so. They got over their crush over quarantine, though I'm sure they are more "interested" in me in a getting-to-know-you kind of way. You know, the things best friends do when they try to learn everything about the other? :( I actually haven't seen my best friend since march (school) and we started to become friends from a online game called Roblox. We weren't very close at all before because we never had the same class but now we're Best Friends (we were always their to keep the other company during quarantine.)
I don’t have nor even need a crush. Several ladies were interactive toward me but I just didn’t seem to have any influence. I do respect ladies, but it all has borderlines which do not have to relate to having a bond or relationship. Like the way how you would treat a nice neighbor in your area but aren’t willing to start a relationship (crush). There are many people on this planet who could be a good candidate to be your love (especially if it is about marriage), but you have to really know who you are being with (don’t get blinded by the looks of people too much too) and know how their actions are like, including what they say. Observe their actions to know their character and personality as well. Know their family well especially before proposing for marriage.
My best friend is my Cat. He does look at me alot and lick me sometimes. he also gets onto my bed when I'm trying to sleep and sleep near me. This could be a sign
so u here to tell me...this video actually 5 months old. and also i came here bc i like my bsf lmfaaaoooo ANOTHER EDIT OMFG: he just texted right after i said that🙌🏼😏😭😭
The funny thing is I had a crush on one of my friends and after a year they confessed to me saying they liked me and we both didn’t show any of these signs
Sign 1: Everyone thinks that your friend is your Minecraft girlfriend or boyfriend
the way i immediately thought of dream and george
@@ommmmara lol
Jsjsjakams
Like number 700 ✌
@Anonymous 2003 hii
Nobody has a crush on me XD lol. The only "Crush" I have is the soda.
Same
Relatable
Well dont knock it till you try it!
Lol
:(
The fact is, your best friend can’t crush on you if you don’t have friends at all
lol i made the same comment
taps forehead
Took the words right out of my head 😆
Five head
Absolute genius lmaooo
Power move.
They say we can’t be best friends with someone without developing feelings for one another, but that’s simply not true! So many great and lasting friendships are built on honesty, trust, understanding, connection, and mutual respect. You don’t need romantic love to feel a deep friendship for someone.
This.
Those are still "feelings"... Just not the gooey kind that end up with someone getting sticky. ;o)
Facts
Facts
Facts
Sup time traveller here:
1. Everyone thinks you're already dating 0:29
2. You catch them staring alot 0:57
3. They're physically affectionate toward you 1:18
4. They're more attentative towards you 1:38
5. They're remember the little things 2:01
6. They're very protective of you 2:21
7. They're not interested in anyone else 2:44
Just commented on 4 unlisted videos, phew.
Heyo
thanks!
Yo wtf
Hey Timetravler, are you from the future like Marty McFly, or the past like Philip J. Fry?
@@saltedchocolatez leorio-
WHY ARE YOU HERE😏
Me who has a crush on my friend: oh I hope my friend won't see this-
Same :I
Same
Why not they might have a crush on you to
@@keiron.4612 i am pretty sure she doesn't have a crush on me
@@sugarcubecrossing4947 if you don't ask her you'll never know she can only say no
According to this video I got a crush on all the homies.
This comment 😂😂
Glad to know I'm not the only one 😂
And that’s ok
The bond between bros is stronger than love
I mean... you didn't deny it...
Me watching: hmm no..my crush didn't do all this...wait a sec...im the one who act like this
Same lmao
me watching this to make sure to not expose myself: 😳😳
Samee
same yall
Ayyyy! Same!
Lol
MOOD !!
If a boy really has a crush on you, then he'll be likely to give you all of his attention. He'll turn his body toward you, make eye contact, and won't look around for his other friends or text them during your conversation (unless he uses his phone as a crutch because he's nervous).
Same here
Oh carp.
Okie dokie moving on
lol ! yep
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. It seems like it's impossible for men and women to emotionally connect with each other.
I heard that gay and lesbian couples are happier than straight couples are, and I heard that gay and lesbian relationships are healthier than straight relationships are. The more similar you are to someone, the more easier it is to bond and connect with them.
People of the same sex/gender understand each other more easily, and there are no inbuilt societal power imbalances as there are between opposite-sex couples. Gay and lesbian couples understand each other better than straight couples do (due to them being the same gender as each other).
I heard that most straight couples are not happy being together, and I heard that people who are straight are much happier and much better off being single than they are being in a romantic relationship.
Does your best friend have a crush on you??
1. Does he/she hug you??
Me: i thought we were in quarantine-
Lmao
Guilty as charged, wish she'd seen this sooner so she wouldn't have found out about it while we were in a bad place during our friendship :(
Maybe she already knew but didn’t have clarity
Hey u found me , congrluations , i just wanna tell u to keep going and ur amazing , your gonna be shocked haha
Oki :)
3 weeks ag- *3 WEEKS AGO?!*
Oh, hi and thanks :) same to u!
Are you Neverland?
Wait wait wait wait
what the fun
How was this made 3 weeks ago
I think the hardest is when you suspect they have feelings, but they’re not upfront enough for you to shut them down. Instead they offer acts of service. They’re like, “can I give you a ride?” it’s hard to reply, “I have a boyfriend”
I'm that guy. I'm so scared of how she'll react, I don't want to ruin our friendship. But if she likes me back, I'd be doing her a disservice by not telling her. I don't know what to do 😩 we're so close already, I don't want to ruin that by making it weird.
Romantic love is not special at all. However, platonic love is special.
Platonic love is one of the strongest types of love, while romantic love is one of the weakest types of love. When a guy and a girl are best friends, they won't date or be in a romantic relationship with each other since they know it wouldn't work since they are too close. That proves that romantic love is inferior to platonic love.
The best feeling for many girls is being able to have platonic guy friends that are like brothers to them. Most girls prefer having platonic guy friends over a boyfriend/husband. Many girls would choose their platonic male best friend over their boyfriend/husband and give more importance to them. Most girls seem to be more comfortable being around their platonic male best friends than they are being around their boyfriends/husbands.
People are closer to their platonic best friends than they are to their romantic partner. People usually love their platonic best friend more than their romantic partner. Platonic love is actually real, while romantic love is fake. Romantic relationships are actually a downgrade compared to platonic relationships.
Everything on this list is my best friend...
Except for the last one ;-;
And she's straight...
And has a boyfriend...
Lol
@MemeAzim Likes MSM And Brawl Stars the background is the genderfluid flag. they might not identify as a boy at all times
i’m so sorry 😔
Oh damn I’m so sorry for you
Maybe you just want to be like her instead of a crush.
I had a crush on my best friend for approx 10 years. He went and got married and had two children. I went to their wedding and as I drove away from that day, my heart shattered because there was no chance for us now... But now, he is divorced .....
We have been together for 5 years now and he is engaged to me 🥰🥰🥰 Don't give up hope! The best relationships are built on a solid foundation of friendship! It may just take a while for them to realise! 🖤
Aww, that's so sweet and wholesome! I hope y'all have a great marriage and live happily together!
wow
i feel like thats not the only moral of the story
its not just to not lose hope
its to act,
That is commitment, hope you guys have a long lasting relationship
"They sit next to you, put their arm around you, or lay their head on your shoulder?"
Me: Yeah, but she's straight...
Guys, little update: She came out as bi to me and I'm a trans man (:
Same aghhh
Are you sure?
She might be for my situation too 😔
Same with me, my best friend is straight...
Fax
When we were both adults, I told my best friend I used to have a crush on him when we were teens. I could tell he was flattered by the notion.
We still have a strange close connection, ever since we were teens. And yes, strangers to this day often think we are bf/gf.
But he’s gay and I think I always knew (he only officially came out when he was in his twenties)
Some times it’s not a romantic connection, or not vice versa anyway, but it can still be deep and meaningful.
All the signs mentioned in the vid here refer to us both, except he has been in two longterm relationships and I have also been with someone off and on.
But we love eachother, he knows if he ever needs a kidney that he can have mine. I told him one drunk Christmas (and later confirmed when I was sober that the deal still stands)
It’s kinda like soulmates, without the romantic element in it.
I am ok that we are not together as a couple, because I think he deserves better than what I have to offer anyways, and I believe he has that now. I just want to see him happy. Being a part of his life as a friend is good enough for me.
Anyway, maybe this story is useful to someone.
Thanks buddy it helped. I hope you find the one for you.
@@chayanika6860
Happy it helped someone.
I have accepted that I will probably never find anyone for myself, but it’s ok: I still have my best friend in my life (tho we no longer live in the same country) and now I have two furbabies. So, in a way, I am not alone.
@@themurrrr u will find people that are going to love u for what u are, u seem like a tender person, don’t u let urself down. 🫂
@@lacyyyy ❤️ thank you for your kind words
you're a kind person 🙂 someday you will find the ONE for you
Best friends shouldn't have crushes on each other.
It's the worst kind of heartbreak.
Agreed. But attraction is a wild flower though, you can't control it.
@Red Crewmate Exactly. And it's usually due to something you can't put a finger on. Just their bare presence makes you feel good.
Well for me it worked, it's been 9 month since we're together
@@unpseudototalementnormal517 I'm glad for you.
@@unpseudototalementnormal517 *pats on the back*
Disclaimer: You can have a really affectionate loving Aro friend who does all this and yet they don't see you that way. So, careful with the grey area that is aroaceness.
Thiiiiiiiiiis.
THIS x 2!! 🤘😌
Thank you for your help
You can also have a friend like this who isn't aro.
hi, aro friend here, i had a crush on my best friend and figured out that i was demi. your mileage may vary.
I feel like it's gay culture to fall in love with your straight best friend
@@amishasingh2973 if there's a community there's naturally a culture surrounding it. although im not sure if his comment is really a stereotype rather than just a thing that sometimes happens
HAAA
@@amishasingh2973 bro it's a joke chill the fuck out
@@amishasingh2973 im disagreeing with both of you. Im saying yes there is a gay culture. And no falling for straight men is not stereotypical. But that it's bound to happen when you're gay when most men are straight.
Then isn't it straight culture to fall in love with their opposite sex childhood friend.
I have a female bestfriend before and now we're couple:P We both have feelings toward each others
Edit: She's still my bff we always spent time together a lot
That’s awesome!
*claps*
congrats im happy for u
@@hannah-we3ws ty:3
she's using this acc too Xd
she might see this comment lol
also, we just finished watching a movie together:3
@@enzo.1957 wait aw thats so cute im glad youre both happy together yall deserve it !!
IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS, I NEEDED THIS, YOU BROUGHT IT THANK YOU SO MUCH YOUR THE BEST
One of the best channels in the world. Helps me find some possible mates in life. Keep up the good work
I'm watching this to hide better my crush on my best friend
To all the people who are self-depreciating themselves saying they don’t have a crush . Your special someone will be lucky to have you ! Besides , You never know if someone’s crushing on you 😉 you typically don’t know you have a crush , that’s what makes it one 💖
That’s true! The most encouraging thing I have read today!
Ugh, I've had a crush on my best friend for years now and idk what to do about it ರ╭╮ರ
Make them feel your feeling and be open, yet gentle, about it. It takes a lot to confess your feelings, but being rejected is better than watching them starting different relationship. You might be in the situation when the other half feels the same and is too afraid to ask as well. Life's too short to wait
@@grzegorzjedrzejowski5746 exactly... even if they turn you down, you'll feel better about yourself for letting them know... trust me =P Basically... do something before you can't do anything.
Confess and move on
Me too but i don't think she feels the same and also i don't think she is bisexual since she always dated boys, i don't know what to do!!! T^T
@I'm jisoo I'm okay OH SHIT-
That first one is SO TRUE AND IT'S DRIVING ME INSANE!
Oh yeah, they're all coming together
I live in a society where asking a girl out considered weird😔
I’m so sorry to hear that, must be tough.
There might've been a time when I noticed this, but it was so long ago that it's now obscured. I haven't had a female best friend in... almost 10 years, and I'm 18 going on 19.
Ah, reminds me of my OCs, Courtney and Stella. They've been best friends since kindergarten and are now in high school.
Courtney’s been starting to have feelings for Stella. She wants to tell her, but she's scared that if she shares her feelings, Stella won't feel the same way. She begins to become distant, trying to figure out how to tell her.
Stella loves hanging out with Courtney and she cares about her more than anything in the world. Of course she doesn't mean to be, but she can be a bit ignorant at times. Because of this, she hasn't picked up on any of these signs yet. But she has been getting the sense that something's up, as her best friend is starting to become distant towards her. She's worried that she's somehow made Courtney upset with her, but can't figure out what she did.
Yes, it happen over time. Sadly I realized we were having an emotional affair so I had to stop hanging out with her, in order for her to give her all to her relationship. Because I really love her and want her to be happy.
When I watch these videos about how to spot signs of potential attraction from others, I'm mainly checking for any signs I might be displaying toward others. I had particular interest in this video because I wouldn't consider dating anyone I don't know, and if I develop attraction toward anyone it would be a familiar and trusted friend that I'd already feel close with.
My best friend had a crush on me then I had a crush on him 🙈 now we’re together 😂
Congratulations 🎊
@@MaxingOutTech thanks 😅
@@marazumdick8901 Hope you encourage each other to get out of quarantine sane!😅
Fun fact: I’m not...
@@MaxingOutTech haha thanks. you can do it 😂 I believe in you
@@marazumdick8901 Thanks!
(I needed a conversation like this...)
I actually relate this this quite a lot. Even though I've already confirmed that my best friend likes me (he confessed to me) it's still really shocking to see that these apply to me.
When your girlfriend was once your best friend and you clicked the video because it took you both so long to figure out you both had mutual feelings for one another
Protective and never talks about love
Me clicks on this video to see if my bestfriends like me:
Video: Bestfriends Physically
Also me that only has online friends from another country: *O h*
1- my friends thought we were dating at my birthday,
2- he doesn’t stare a lot but i have caught him staring
3- we cuddle, share deep hugs, he puts his arm around me, and allow me to lay on him
4- yes.
5- he remembers everything about me, like everything, stuff i even forget
6- i had a crush on another guy awhile back and my current crush thought he was a jerk..
7-he hangs out with me and talks with me a lot more than his other friends
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-we are both guys
-he has a girlfriend :((((
Wow, I was just thinking about this and then I got the recommendation 😊😅
SAMEEEEEE
like i was thinking if my best friend is in love with me
Check your settings in the Google app. Ya probably got "allow telepathy" enabled.
lol
1. "everyone think you're dating"
Me and my friend: People think we're siblings soooo
yeahhhhh me too. then I just get super awkward and then it becomes weird
I'm ✨confused✨ by all the comments that are days and months ago
You're not alone.
*same*
Im finding one rn lel-
@@jewelynb.1029 XD
Let me help you all out:.
Prior to the present day, there were many previous days upon Earth. Days are grouped into months and months are grouped into years. (the concept of "time sequence" is a subject for next semester) The so called "previous" days and months are when the comments in question were posted.
You won't actually see comments for "future" days and months because they haven't occurred yet See how that works?
It would be helpful to remind people that best friends often do help each other when the other one is feeling down. Things like this have been used against me when I was falsely accused of having these feelings for someone who I never had those feelings for. I've already stopped making good friends with members of the opposite sex so I can avoid my intentions being mistaken. If we can't help each other when we're feeling down without it being mistaken for flirting, that's not exactly the definition of a good friendship, much less best friends. I now have to limit myself to almost never speaking, never hanging out, never asking how their day is going (which I used to do with my friendships with both men and women), never texting, never calling, and never excited to see them in public. Basically, a weak friendship that is borderline to acquaintanceship. If I have a crush on someone, I'm direct about it. That hasn't spared me from being mistaken, though. So, it'll help to remind people that some of these are not always a sign.
so everyone here is gay for their best friend
me too.
Accurate
ya
Me:A girl
My Childhood Bestfriend:A boy.
Does that makes me ga-
I'm a girl and my best friend is a boy ;-;
And not everyone here is gay
@@Diehea okay and?
In all my life I’ve never found what I couldn’t resist, what I couldn’t turn down. I could walk away from anyone I ever knew, but I can’t walk away from you.
That moment that my best friend (who i have more than just a crush on at this point) knows i like him and didn't do anything with it except tell people i have a crush on him like he takes pride in it. But he did tell me once that he does, infact, not mind me having feelings for him. For the rest he hasn't rejected me yet or returned feelings for me yet so I'm still on a big guessing game 😎
In all these videos, the person is already acquainted with and already hangs around their crush a lot...
vs avoiding the crush as much as possible.......
"They dont talk about there love life"
Oh please! I have no love life
_I read that in the Squidward Quote tone/voice unconsciously and oh my God it's the best thing ever_
@@raegonyoom4681 sqiudward us the best character
@@Kleebo agreed. But I read it in the
"It's good for your soul"
"Oh peh-lease. I have no soul"
Tone
@@raegonyoom4681 nice
I dont have bestfriend but i enjoy watching physic2go’s video 😂😂
So um, it turns out it was true. So he's my boyfriend now. 💖
Aww
Congratulations
Nice 👍
Lol i have a crush on my bff, i confessed in second grade, lost interest and in 5th i regained feelings, they dont like me, they kissed my other bff and always hangs out with them and never me... i like them alot and i gare myself for it, thats only one of the resons i hate my life, i know its probably way better then what others deal with and i dont deserve comfort but i really just want to have a good life...
I met this girl last year, and we instantly became great friends. When I started noticing my feelings for her, I told my other close friends who feel like I should just ask her out already. We use pet names, including things like baby, my love, and dear, and are always hugging and holding hands. We also often text each other saying "I love you", using different heart emojis, or saying how we miss the other over the span of a single weekend or day off. She made me realize my sexuality, and now I am afraid that she might not see me the same way, and that this is all platonic, as we are both girls. She means the world to me, and I don't want to lose what I do have if she doesn't like me back. It's so hard for me, and my feelings keep getting stronger. Should I just go for it? Or is this an exception because it's 2 girls? I don't know, but I would love to find out
Progress report?
I am a college student, and she is transferring to my school come the next spring, and she plans on being my roommate. We sit on call now every night, sometimes through the day too, and her whole family loves me. We are planning to have our first sleepover soon, and she wants to plan it to make it “perfect”. Additionally, you know the eyebrow tease thingy? She LOVES doing it to me, claiming she likes how it makes me “panic”. I haven’t asked her out yet, but I did find out she is bi, single, and with the fact that she likes to make me panic? Plus, she came to visit me once last semester, only for a short while, but there was definitely some lip contact while we cuddled. I think once she moves in, it’ll be easier to tell her my feelings, but I think it is safe to say the light is green!
@@AikoRiver241 the eyebrow raise that makes you question yourself? Is that what you mean ?
Either way, that sounds Ike progress if you ask me
@@Toasted_bread37 The flirty one. The one that you rapidly raise and lower your eyebrows? Idk if it has a certain term, I just call it the eyebrow thingy lol, but she does it all the time, and it always sends me into a gay panic
@@AikoRiver241 ohhh that one, got it. I’m sure it brings emotions to the table
I mean all signs are kinda right
1. Not completely but the friend group thinks we should date.
2. Not so much, only a few times
3. She touches me some times when we talk and she bumps me to tease me if i teased her.
4. Yeees. But when her twin is there she is usally talks more with others. Her and her twin sister both go to the same school in the same year.
5. A few gestures here and there.
6. Yup this is true. Takes care of me mentally. Protects me from falling down cause of stress and bad thoughts.
So you mean to tell me that I missed my chance to be with him?? That we both missed our chance to be together?? Well... Its too late now 😔 I need to move on. I have been loving him for 10 years now and I think its unhealthy.
Wait a damn minute
3 MONTHS AGO?!
Just tell him!!!1!!!11
Th-
THREE MONTHS AGO?!
how is this made 3 mONTHS *AGO*
10 fucking years?
My best friend used to be like this. All of the people I knew thought we were dating but he was always told them we were just friend when anyone asked about me. He spent a lot of time hang out with me, bought me food, never dated anyone at that time, a lot of skin ship, and yet, my foolist self had never knew. I had feeling for him too. But I didn't know of he would feel the same.
We're still friend now and we're both dating someone else. Sometimes in life, you missed a moment in order to stay together. If we had dated, I didn't think we are still friend today. So, guys and girls, tell them you love them when you still can. And to the people that missed the chance, it is ok to keep that saying for yourself. It is OK both ways!
EVERYTHING fits, but he is in love with another girl🥺
Most of my best friends are male... They were the first who got jealous when I had my bf before...they got angry and shouted at me and said I was stupid and no brain... unfortunately the two of them died...and I miss our friendship... it's rare to find people whom u are very authentic infront of them and be yourself wherever u are whatever you looked and still u are accepted... Those best friends I had before they cried when I cried, if they knew I'm in trouble they keep making follow-up if I'm okay or have I eaten my meal. Nowadays it's rare to find true friends...u are lucky if u have one true friend...
Yoo all of these my best friend does. I don't want to break her heart tho, I'm already in a relationship with a guy....
🤌🏽communication my guy.
My best friend had a crush on me for one year. I loved his attention and one day i realised that he was in love with me and i was in love with him. So i cut him off since im happily taken. I still miss him, it has been 2 months.
Watching this makes me feel like I'm trapped in a love triangle.
Oh no
if i were to have a best friend who i caught staring at me (or anyone else who's looking directly at me), i would absolutely stare back for the fun of it
This video is helpful. I'm straighter than a pole but I only make friends with girls... Just playing it safe by watching. xD
Yee
i hate assuming if my crush likes me cuz half the times it's not true but this is getting my hopes up because i do catch him staring at me a lot and he pats my head and he always asks me how im feeling everyday >///< he's so amazing and im so grateful to have him in my life, he really does make me so much happier ^-^
My best friend is a girl and I'm pretty sure she's straight :/
Same
Bruhh this is me rnnnn, im sure she’s straight but like shes always flirting with meeee like dudeeeeee- :(
Same!!!!
she might have a little girl crush on you!! who knows
Same
A cute story : * Discussion between a friend and me *
-We're not friends anymore
(Why ? Did I make something wrong ?)
-No
(So why ? I don't understand)
-Because I love u...
Ps : I swear I had a heart attack (I was a lil surprised, I didn't know what to answer) I eventually told him I loved him, too
OMG- MY BEST FRIEND LIKED ME LAST YEAR AND SHE SHOWED ALL THESE SIGNS 😭
Haven't visited this channel in a while because of academics. But I'm convinced though that my bestie has a crush on me 😭💗
My friend stares at my always during any classes. We are both girls, she’s the pretty one not me lmfao
I’ve never seen two pretty best friends.
@@memelgaming i said friend not best friend-
1. Girls always say that😂
2. I have seen like super Good looking girls be best Friends. Usually ugly girls have ugly friends, and hot girls have hot friends. And they Both have me as a best friend😂
I might not be super cool or popular, but girls like to have me around for some reason
@@abyssal_phoenix I don’t identify as a girl but ok-
@@grace.mich11 It was a joke sorry, I just read this and it immediately came to mind.
So I clicked on this video expecting to relate to more than half of these but I hit every single one. I’m definitely the best friend with a crush. My family (mostly my uncle I don’t see much) always asks if me and my best friend are dating when she comes along with me to family events.
I'm the one who does all these things to my best friend..and we both are girls..my best friend is a girl..and Im always doing all these things to her...😶
Yeah I have a crush on her..I have feelings for her🙃
Same thing for me and my bff.
@@simonacrivellari4156 so.. we're going thru the same thing.....
Yeah...
Im pretty sure that the reason why we didn't confess yet (or at least i didn't for now) it's because we don't want to run the friendship between us and them because if they reject you it's gonna be reallyyy akward after.
@@simonacrivellari4156 yeah you're right..I don't wanna ruin our friendship I really wanna tell her and everyone that I love her..but I can't..it's bcuz it would be so awkward...and the saddest part is that she has a boyfriend but still I love her and I can't stop it..I wish I could stop loving her but I can't 🙃
These actually really helped me a lot
You released this the day I told my best friend I had a crush on her, weird timing
Before watching Me: pffft he doesn’t have a crush on me
Me after watching: nooooooo he likes me
I must show this to one of my top-tier friends!
me watching this having no friends and the only person I imagine myself with is Kylo Ren
My best friends does everything except physical involved actions since it's a long distance "friendship" (we're French and around 5 years ago her family left to Canada, I always dreamt to live there even before I met her). I think I love her and she gives out every signals this video indicates. I think it might be a big double crush but I want to make things right and wait until in one year (or less) I meet her in Canada (i'm supposed to move out there).
I hope I'll bring enough courage to confess to her when the time's right!
Hope it’s been alright !
Most people watching this probably want to know if their best friend have a crush on them...
And then there's me that have a crush on my best friend and wants to make this sings as noticeable as possible but still not being too obvious
Do that and then nonchalantly send them a link to this video one day, it seriously would’ve helped my dense brain lol
@Homie Potato jokes on you, my crush is my online best friend 🤠
I've seen quite a few of these signs before they even told me. It's one thing to post videos that are helpful, but why does it feel like the videos of this channel keep following my life as new things happen?
well I had a crush on my best friend and then...
I GOT FRIENDZONED!!!! LMAO 😂 and now she’s tryna win me back
I told my bestfriend yesterday that I like him, he told me that he likes me too! Omg I am so happy!!
Hey fellow time travelers!
Good video. Keep up the awesome work! ^^
Omg my best friend does all those things and I do like him so..... 😂😅
I’m clicking immediately so I can hope
first I think, 'lmao as if' and then thought about it...I think one of my friends like me
clay dream clay clay
@@Tireybear HELLO
Me watching this after already having rejected my best friend 😅 I saw it on recommended and got curious.
fun fact: you can't be early to a video. just on time or late.
haha this is unless people have tiMe tRaVeLLeD~
BuT i CaN sTiLl Be FiRsT, rIgHt?/???
@@sigmamale.39 uHhhHh- yEs-?
@@rinlikesbeans7326 *FiRsT!!!1!!!!1!*
When you watch this vid straight after the "things that tell you it's time to let go of your crush" video and realise everything in that vid is the truth, and everything you want to be true in this video is just a dream.
7 Signs Your Best Friend Has A Crush On You **Roblox Edition**
1) Everyone hates online daters on (me too bc its uncomfortable for players when 2 are showcasing affection) RBX so uh, nO.
2) Do they stare at my avatar? They say I should get a "glow up". Hmm.
3) Physically? Does RP killing and roasting each other count??
4) Sure, sure. They reply at 10:00 PM. Oh, they also always make a funny face every time my chat gets tagged.
5) Even the things I don't even remember I did.
6) The other way around. Well, they like scaring off those little noobs when they try to one-up me with more roasting.
7) Don't think so. They got over their crush over quarantine, though I'm sure they are more "interested" in me in a getting-to-know-you kind of way. You know, the things best friends do when they try to learn everything about the other?
:( I actually haven't seen my best friend since march (school) and we started to become friends from a online game called Roblox. We weren't very close at all before because we never had the same class but now we're Best Friends (we were always their to keep the other company during quarantine.)
I don’t have nor even need a crush. Several ladies were interactive toward me but I just didn’t seem to have any influence. I do respect ladies, but it all has borderlines which do not have to relate to having a bond or relationship. Like the way how you would treat a nice neighbor in your area but aren’t willing to start a relationship (crush). There are many people on this planet who could be a good candidate to be your love (especially if it is about marriage), but you have to really know who you are being with (don’t get blinded by the looks of people too much too) and know how their actions are like, including what they say. Observe their actions to know their character and personality as well. Know their family well especially before proposing for marriage.
My best friend is my Cat. He does look at me alot and lick me sometimes. he also gets onto my bed when I'm trying to sleep and sleep near me. This could be a sign
FUCK...
I just realized Your cat is better than me at flirting
@@simonacrivellari4156 :) Yes, please learn from him . x
TwT probably if my level of skill in flirting was a number it would be so low that it would be below hell itself.
@@simonacrivellari4156 🤣🤣🤣 at least you can't get any worse then :P
@@Greenpoloboy3 Are you challenging me?
I can't wait to have a best friend to fall in love with 🥺
so u here to tell me...this video actually 5 months old.
and also i came here bc i like my bsf lmfaaaoooo
ANOTHER EDIT OMFG: he just texted right after i said that🙌🏼😏😭😭
It’s really hard to gauge this in an online context
why its unlisted ?
I dont know. Maybe its for Patreon supporters
The funny thing is I had a crush on one of my friends and after a year they confessed to me saying they liked me and we both didn’t show any of these signs
I don’t have e a best friend I only have a friends
This video is the best honestly
Omgomg
I'm late but omg still
Sorry I'm just excited
B-
Wh-
H o w
@@Impotency i meannnnn, you can go back in time too. KILLA QUEEN