Sadly we're no longer aboard the Outremer 55 Moonshot. Deadlines and destinations do not mix well aboard a cruising boat. We're going to shift gears to hopefully make everyone happy.
Nobody died! You took a calculated risk and when you saw it wasn't working you revised the plan. Don't be too hard on yourself. The rest of us aspiring captains need an attainable goal and role model to look up to. If perfection is the standard we may as well quit now. I appreciate that you two are not perfect! Feel better soon, Megan! 🥰
You didn't make a mistake. You did what all GOOD captains do. You constantly reassessed the situation, evaluated the risks and rewards, and made a decision that was in the best interest of the crew and the boat. That is exactly how it should go, every time. Job well done.
I fully agree. You did make the right call, ocean sailing and being ill didn't match well. And it shows you staying authentic and putting yourself first. Also a big compliment, You are one of the only channels left that didn't turn into a boat manufacturer commercial channel.
This sounds like an apology video and there is ABSOLUTELY no reason for it to be that. You got sick. You are working at getting better. You MUST take care of yourself FIRST or there will be no more O'Kelly videos for us to enjoy. Rest and recover. Take the time you need now so you (and the rest of us) can enjoy where you end up. Looking forward to seeing you on the boat, where ever that may be. In the meantime, take whatever time you need to get better.
Hmm , but , one thing , if you leave her for a few weeks , , crossing ?? Hmm. I kind of wondering, . You think maybe there's a chance she'll forget you ? ..
You chose to put family health first which shows a huge amount of maturity in your decision-making, which is even more remarkable in the face of pressure to deliver (perceived or otherwise) for Outremer and your online audience!
@@TheOKellys not a mistake, just an incomplete interpretation of a situation. When more data became available, you reassessed and tacked, very much like you would if you expected wind from one direction only to have it come from another. It will work out.....and for the best....it always does. In the meantime, rest, eat well and take care of yourselves.
I thought about all this on the 1st video you guys posted about this trip. I've done some of this crazy deadline crossings professionally. This kind of trips that imply going no matter what do not match your way of life and of cruising. It goes almost entirely against your believes and way of life. What I love most about your videos is the relaxation and the positivity about sailing and cruising around. You guys are welcome to visit us here in Portugal since you're so close. I'm happy to give you a tour around here. Wish you guys all the best!
I think you know us very well. We would love to take you up on the generous offer. Unfortunately, we have run out of visa time. We will return and accept your hospitality.
Great call. Full support. Health first! (I shared my comment on Instagram, too.) Last year a friend shared this bit of wisdom, "The most dangerous piece of equipment on a boat is a calendar." Outremer's agenda is an understandable business decision, but set dates increase risk. Thank you for sharing this very human, loving, and compassionate decision with us. You continue to be wonderful role models. Megan and Nick, health, peace, and safe passage.
I am very proud of you guys for making the right decision on this. I am a retired ER Doctor and I can tell you that with this bug, persistent symptoms like this are harbinger of potential complications if you don't kick back, eat well and stay hydrated, and allow the illness to run it's course. The middle of the ocean is no place be if complications appear! Rest and recuperate and THEN rejoin the boat and enjoy good health and the best of a great voyage. Power up and go when it's time. God bless and I will continue to follow your Grand Tour.
Good decision. I had Covid twice and did not feel truly back to normal for several weeks after testing negative. It was hard enough to feel better at home on dry land. Trying to cope with this illness at sea in rough conditions would be a real mistake. Feel better! Good luck on the voyage, Nick.
There are a lot of sailing channels but yours is our favorite, and that's not because the sailing content is better, it's because of you two. We adore you both and we'll keep watching and rooting for you!!!
I’ve been so excited for this update. (I’ve also been looking at the weather) I’m so glad that you decided to take time out to look after you. To stop and rest. And wow, what an amazing looking place to rest and regroup. So important to listen to your body. Personally, I think that you have struck a really good balance that works for everyone involved - for both of you, and for the Outremer crew as well. 🙂🐿🌈❤️
That saga continues. Love you're openness and sharing of your ups and downs. ::: healing vibes ::: to Megan and ::: stay healthy vibes ::: to Nick! Fingers crossed that your new plans work out as you hope and plan!
Definitely a respectful decision- as you know from the aviation world, 'get-there-itis' can be a dangerous affliction- good luck to Nick and the rest of the crew!!
Thank you. Yes, plans have killed a lot of pilots. Thankfully altitude not as much a consideration on boats. But plans have certainly killed a lot of sailing dreams....that has been our experience.
Great update, reflecting good situational awareness and maritime decision making for a safe passage that works for the delivery crew, you and Outremer.
Likely, this is all for the best. Recovering from the C sickness takes a while. Bashing around in high seas on low energy, still a bit sick, wet, cold, stressed, sleep deprived... yeah, none of that sounds like anything but a recipe for worse. Good call, guys. Lots of sleep and soup for you, Ms. M. Stay safe and have a ball, Nick.
Agh! I feel for you guys because I’ve been there. So many mixed emotions! Having this exciting opportunity, what will your viewers think?, your commitment to Outremere, questioning your ability to deliver, how will this effect your relationship with them etc etc. and all the while trying to care for your health. This tough decision shows how much wisdom and experience you both have. The stress and anxiety will hinder your ability to heal and recover...and could lead to long term issues. I’m proud of you and respect you even more that you made this decision! Hey, and don’t worry about us viewers if it’s too much burden. I’d be happy with just crude, unedited updates of the passage if you decide to post any at all. Megan, rest up and recover-Nick, enjoy this exciting experience to sail with some great sailors on an amazing boat!
I’ve always admired you as a team. And as a captain myself, I fully understand the challenges of making exciting decisions of passages and the comfort and security of your crew…specially when you’re tied to hip. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. Cheers and get better M!
One thing about the O'Kelly's is their calm (on video) and excellent decision-making. I could tell in previous episodes that you felt uncomfortable about the timeline of the crossing because you could not prepare adequately for the unexpected. Not your style. Your compromise here is perfect. Megan sacrifices her trip for the good of the team, and Nick learns the boat under the tutelage of an experienced captain. Team O'Kelly will make the most of the situation and come out ahead. Again, excellent decision-making.
Awesome call!! When I saw you were leaving under schedule, I wondered if it would work out (and was hopeful for everybody that it would). But, this just shows that you two have what it takes to give something a try... and if it doesn't work out, you will make the right call and adjust. But, the fact that you guys called it so quickly when things didn't improve was really awesome. You guys spotted that you weren't up to full health and adjusted.
Tough circumstance. Intelligent choices. Of course wer're all with you in all the directions you'll take. It's great that Nick can step down a notch for the boat and still go. And Megan getting 'beached' is only temporary -- hope you feel better. Without a doubt the adventure continues....
It is better to be safe than sorry and pushing yourself to the max while not being fully recovered can cause other problems. Nick deciding to step down when he knows that he cannot push the boat as much as needed is the sign of a true captain. This trip across the Atlantic will hone Nicks skills and make him an even better captain even though he will be crew.
I was surprised they had you as captain in the first place. Given the schedule and the need to drive the boat hard, (race mode) AND it's still their boat, I would have thought they'd want someone really familiar with the boat and ready and able to race it across the Atlantic. No offense to you guys, but as cruisers, that's not your strength. So glad to hear you are going as crew! I discovered a long time ago the benefits of crewing and not owning. It's a lot cheaper as well, LOL. You are going to learn SO much from those guys as they push the boat hard. It will give you a lot of confidence in your next boat.
As ever thank you both for the sharing your thoughts and honesty that you had overreached a bit. Really an utterly sensible set of decisions to look after both of you to allow one to recover from COVID and the other to support the Outremer goal of getting to Miami in time. Hopefully Megan will rejoin the boat in BVIs. Fair winds to Nick for the crossing. Looking forward to the ride on that beast and beauty of a catamaran.
You guys speak so matter-of-factly and are always informative and thorough in your videos. Really enjoy your sailing/cruising insights. Easily one of the best out there. Take care. Shay
When your values are clear to you, making decisions becomes easier. And without a question, you guys made the right decision. Hope you're feeling better soon, Megan.
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Always listen to your gut: if it’s not an “absolutely, YES!” It’s a “no.” Glad to see you listening to your intuition on what is right for you! Feel better fast!!❤
Though heartbreaking, this reality check shows us how smart-thinking sailors you both are! Thanks for being so earnest with us. Lots of good things your way. We ❤ you!
Well... THAT nibbles! Absolutely the best and most responsible decision for all, given the current scenario. Take care of yourself momma bear, while papa speeds across the Atlantic. Fingers and toes crossed for safe passage(s) and a successful rendezvous in the BVI's!
The kinds of decisions I hate to make - REALLY want to, but you know deep down... don't. And then the pangs after the final decision... Of course the right call, and you'll both navigate just fine. Enjoy the extra baths!
I came for the sailing, I stayed for the O'Kelly's! In the immortal words of Shakespeare, "To thine own self be true". Proceed as you will, I'll be watching in any case! :)
Good move Captain! Never a dull moment. Reminds me of a saying my old CFI told me when he let me loose into commercial aviation many decades ago. "Remember, as your career unfolds, if there is any doubt, there is NO doubt."
Love your authenticity and good judgement. My husband and I have been watching for years. You have entertained us, educated us (I particularly loved the catamaran vs monohull series) and,inspired us. Last fall we sold our house, bought a (bigger) sailboat and are well on our way from Rhode Island to Bahamas. We are loving it - a dream come true. And you two helped inspire us and prepare us. Thank u for sharing your adventure. Can’t wait to see where you go next. Get well soon Megan ❤.
That’s so awesome to hear!! Thank you for sharing and we’re very honored to play a small part in your big adventure! Enjoy the Bahamas maybe we’ll see you out there!
A good decision. I admire your ability to asses the situation at hand and act in the bast interest of your family, crew and corporate goals. Well done!
I understand a little bit because 1. We're catamaran sailors, 2. We got covid in 2022 and it kicked our butts, and 3. our motto is "Two Yesses Or It's A No". I am so glad you pulled the trigger and made the 'no' vote for Megan because I suspect she's a trooper like I am and doesn't like to admit defeat. We just did our first bluewater overnight sail and we did so well until we broke one of those rules, and we had 12 awful hours of 8 foot seas beating us head on in a 38 foot catamaran. We decided to divert to Key West, and while it made it tougher for our passenger (who wanted to push on), we realized we needed to prioritize ourselves and the Reboot. We learned SO MUCH about being fierce about what we can do as humans vs what the Reboot can do, and what we need to do to make sure we have as much joy as possible onboard. Kudos to @catamaransOutremer who communicated transparently to you what their priorities are, and kudos to y'all for saying, hey, let's make this work for everyone, because I think while it'll be less drama, it will lead to the best possible outcomes for all involved.
Great opportunity to show everyone how to make the right decisions and adjust plans as needed. Excellent decision making process and outcome. Wishing you a fast recovery and safe travels for the two of you. Absence makes the heart grow fonder so enjoy your time of solitude - it makes the reunion that much sweeter!
Gosh, I’m glad you changed the plan. It’s better to rest and recover, and really get well. I hope more people will take a leaf from your book and realize it better to prioritize your health. It can be hard to realize you are sick when adrenaline is pushing you forward Some people don’t realize they are really sick until they land in the hospital
You may think the purpose of your videos is entertainment and sharing, na na, it’s about the lessons. Lessons on so many things. Cruising, boat management, marriage, and many many more.. This was the right call for many reasons. Thank you for sharing it with us..
We are all here for your unique and relatable adventures, so this just adds to the anticipation and enjoyment as we learn of the complexities, outcomes, the highs the lows, the whole shebang. Wishing you safety and wellness on the next segment of your grand life adventures!
Hi, I don't usually comment, but love your channel. Can't help thinking that the company would have made a much better, more positive decision to just give you the boat to do with as you wished, meanwhile making lovely, sunny and positive vlogs about it. Win/win situation, lol. You definitely made a sound decision there. I mean, (I am probably showing my ignorance here), but was wondering just how many of the intended customer base, would buy a brand new (expensive) catamaran, then immediately decide to sail across the Atlantic, in the middle of winter. With a deadline. And Covid. Anyone????
Very wise decision!. Crossing the Atlantic impaired would not be wise. Rough seas, sickness, new boat, with just the two of you...not a good combo. Mr. O'kelly, good luck on the crossing with an experienced crew with you included. You'll gain a load of experience and feel safe. So, one day you'll acquire a boat you like and sail calm waters when y'all are 100%. Stay safe and well...cheers!
It is obvious you have made and will continue to make the right choices. Always make your health a priority. Many people have had symptoms from covid that lasted weeks months even years. Wishing you the both best.
Always inspiring to see you guys going through life. Agree with other comments. Keep your spirits up. You make better decisions than most! Looking forward to following you as the adventure unfolds.
I 100% agree with your decision... it takes time to get over the bug and recover your strength! I'm glad you're taking time to recover! I love your channel and you guys inspired me to buy my own boat and start my own channel. =-) Please take care of yourselves and keep the videos coming!
Hope you're feeling better and having a little fun in Austin... lots of great music and yummy food! (I'm a Texas gal!) and that you make it to Miami for the show!@@TheOKellys
I "got the bug" too and I couldn't even have been a passive passenger on a sail boat. Being crew would have been out of the question, so skippering... You did the right choice.
It sounds like you made the right call. When time, weather, and health are all saying the same thing, it’s probably good to listen. Megan, I hope you’re back to 100% soon. Nick, don’t fall off the boat 😉
Sorry to hear of the difficulties. It's part of the nomad full-timer life, but it's still hard on those days. I was actually going to comment on previous videos that lately your videos and titles were full of intensity, kind of hyped ! Sounds like you are on your way back to your flow, your journey is a great inspiration in resilience and optimism.
Its good decision if your health is at stake. No need for apology or even explanation. Outremer has a lot hanging on this boat, especially since just a day ago AWEN (the other boat was rammed and is on shore in martinique, likely unable to make it to the show) I personally would stay as a team. Don't go NICK! No need for more " clarity " get well soon,
This a really good decision. I was wondering if maybe you were pushing your health. Like people said that darn Covid had me weak for months, I thought you must be unbelievably healthy to get over it that quickly. Now we know you are actually human and that is perfectly okay. Take care of yourselves, we are going to be here no matter what.
The fricken vid....really messed things up for a lot of people wayyyyyyyyy worse than for us. But it is a thing...gotta rest up and get over it to move on. Thank you for your patience and commitment to the rocky rollercoast road that The O'Kellys seems to have become.
I’m just happy to see you no matter what-both keep well. And this crazy weather no matter where you/we are, we’re experiencing crazy temps. Here in PNW it’s been in the teens. Se you soon, rest up and take great care!!! 🙏
Love u guys. In process of recovering from Covid & flu. Totally get it. Keep hanging in & get tx when needed (done Paxlovid, last day of antiflu today). Prayers for you both -Carter
Considering all the factors between tight schedule, sailing, pushing a new vessel to meet said schedule, and getting over C19 you absolutely made the right decision. You two are awesome cruisers, racing a performance cat across an ocean Hell-bent for leather to meet a schedule is a different kind of "sailing." I know I certainly wouldn't be the person for that either, but there are those out there that live for that kind of excitement and thrilling challenge. I hope the vessel makes it's scheduled meet and I also hope you two get some more time on her when the schedules aren't so tight.
Deep respect... well decided.. i follow you since a good time... you are really sincere... nice, funny, earnest, thoughtful... thank you..enjoy a lot your videos... first i was sceptic... but you won me over
Here’s wishing and hoping that you get better and can rejoin the boat at some point in the crossing. My wife and I can sympathize with you both because we are currently experiencing a similar situation with sickness and how long it has lasted. I got sick with the flu on December 21st, 2022 and just before new years I thought it was almost over, but then it turned into a severe cold with uncontrolled coughing. Then the day after New Years my wife caught the cold, probably from me, and now we both are trying to get over it and it’s hanging in there for all it’s worth. Get well and hope the journey is a success on many levels for both of you.
You made a good choice. Your situation turned into ONE person sailing a 50 foot brand new unfamiliar boat. THAT is asking for trouble. Taking care of your sweetheart takes priority over everything else. Good job Captain!
You two are such a rolemodel for honesty and living in the moment to me. Everyone can be glad to have you as friends. Megan, get healthy soon (I caught the same bug 3 weeks ago). It will take some time. Lot‘s of love to you both, Armin from Germany
That's some very fine high quality common sense you've show us 👍 kudos to you and Team Outermer . I'm guessing that there will still be some videos of the passage to come ? . I find it very pleasurable to watch that boat "fly" across waters ! 😸. Best wishes to you Mrs Megan for a speedy full recovery 🙏😸😺
In my opinion, the O'Kelly team made the right decision. Firstly, managing an Outremer 55 under the pressure of a tight imperative delivery deadline is not possible without knowing the boat for several months, with a few thousand nautical miles on the clock. Secondly, recovering from the Covid-19 (2024 version) is not something you can do in 2 days. I personally experienced this 4 weeks ago, after 7 days of being positive, but needing 2 more weeks to regain my muscle tone and full breathing capacity. Finally, current sea conditions between Gibraltar and the Canaries are complicated, just look at the Arkea Ultim Challenge competitors who passed through there 2 days ago on their 105 feet trimarans... In short, in my opinion you've made the right choice, the only responsible choice.
Sorry it didn't go as planned , health comes first . Get well soon. I'm a retired shipmaster and full well know the difficulties of dealing with health problems with no doctor , you made the correct decision.
Plans and sailing are rarely a good idea, although I totally understand the situation here. But factoring in personal health, personal risk, & acknowledging limitations is the sign of a true Captain. Onward ho - to more healing & passage experience for the two of you. True life, not a fake tv show. ❤
Good for you!! You must listen to yourselves and make the tough decisions. Your, our, health is all we truly have, and we have to take good care of it at all costs. I applaud you both!! Be safe always from the Philippines 💞💞
Sorry to hear you'll be apart for part of this trip to states. Excited for Nick getting some Outremer Pro time, good stuff as you continue on from Miami. Loved to see you in NW Florida, Fort Walton Beach if possible.
From Bono in the lryic "The Fly": "It's no secret that a conscience can sometimes be a pest It's no secret ambition bites the nails of success" Your decision is not a negative. It was considerate and practical of each other. I am proud of you guys. I too was curious on the timing of the crossing for delivery in addtion to Megan getting hit hard by the "Covids". Overall considered your opporunity, you took a chance. As more information revealed itself you took charge and changed direction. Good for you guys.
Nobody died! You took a calculated risk and when you saw it wasn't working you revised the plan. Don't be too hard on yourself. The rest of us aspiring captains need an attainable goal and role model to look up to. If perfection is the standard we may as well quit now. I appreciate that you two are not perfect!
Feel better soon, Megan! 🥰
Thank you for the kind words. Really.
@@TheOKellysWe will always love you!
You didn't make a mistake. You did what all GOOD captains do. You constantly reassessed the situation, evaluated the risks and rewards, and made a decision that was in the best interest of the crew and the boat. That is exactly how it should go, every time. Job well done.
Thanks. Appreciate that.
I fully agree. You did make the right call, ocean sailing and being ill didn't match well. And it shows you staying authentic and putting yourself first. Also a big compliment,
You are one of the only channels left that didn't turn into a boat manufacturer commercial channel.
This sounds like an apology video and there is ABSOLUTELY no reason for it to be that. You got sick. You are working at getting better. You MUST take care of yourself FIRST or there will be no more O'Kelly videos for us to enjoy. Rest and recover. Take the time you need now so you (and the rest of us) can enjoy where you end up. Looking forward to seeing you on the boat, where ever that may be. In the meantime, take whatever time you need to get better.
Thank you. To be perfectly honest, we don't want to let anyone down, and perhaps that was the mistake in the middle of this. Time will tell.
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Hmm , but , one thing , if you leave her for a few weeks , , crossing ?? Hmm. I kind of wondering, . You think maybe there's a chance she'll forget you ? ..
You chose to put family health first which shows a huge amount of maturity in your decision-making, which is even more remarkable in the face of pressure to deliver (perceived or otherwise) for Outremer and your online audience!
@@TheOKellys not a mistake, just an incomplete interpretation of a situation. When more data became available, you reassessed and tacked, very much like you would if you expected wind from one direction only to have it come from another.
It will work out.....and for the best....it always does. In the meantime, rest, eat well and take care of yourselves.
I thought about all this on the 1st video you guys posted about this trip.
I've done some of this crazy deadline crossings professionally.
This kind of trips that imply going no matter what do not match your way of life and of cruising. It goes almost entirely against your believes and way of life.
What I love most about your videos is the relaxation and the positivity about sailing and cruising around.
You guys are welcome to visit us here in Portugal since you're so close.
I'm happy to give you a tour around here.
Wish you guys all the best!
I think you know us very well. We would love to take you up on the generous offer. Unfortunately, we have run out of visa time. We will return and accept your hospitality.
Great call. Full support. Health first! (I shared my comment on Instagram, too.) Last year a friend shared this bit of wisdom, "The most dangerous piece of equipment on a boat is a calendar." Outremer's agenda is an understandable business decision, but set dates increase risk. Thank you for sharing this very human, loving, and compassionate decision with us. You continue to be wonderful role models. Megan and Nick, health, peace, and safe passage.
Captains of the O'Kelly lives have made the right decision!! Plans change just like the weather, get well soon Megan.
I am very proud of you guys for making the right decision on this. I am a retired ER Doctor and I can tell you that with this bug, persistent symptoms like this are harbinger of potential complications if you don't kick back, eat well and stay hydrated, and allow the illness to run it's course. The middle of the ocean is no place be if complications appear! Rest and recuperate and THEN rejoin the boat and enjoy good health and the best of a great voyage. Power up and go when it's time. God bless and I will continue to follow your Grand Tour.
Thank you. Denial is a dangerous thing, eh? It has been a stressful stretch and that is not the kind of environment we need to heal up.
Good decision. I had Covid twice and did not feel truly back to normal for several weeks after testing negative. It was hard enough to feel better at home on dry land. Trying to cope with this illness at sea in rough conditions would be a real mistake. Feel better! Good luck on the voyage, Nick.
There are a lot of sailing channels but yours is our favorite, and that's not because the sailing content is better, it's because of you two. We adore you both and we'll keep watching and rooting for you!!!
Awww thank you, we appreciate you for sharing your time with us!!
I’ve been so excited for this update.
(I’ve also been looking at the weather)
I’m so glad that you decided to take time out to look after you.
To stop and rest.
And wow, what an amazing looking place to rest and regroup.
So important to listen to your body.
Personally, I think that you have struck a really good balance that works for everyone involved - for both of you, and for the Outremer crew as well.
🙂🐿🌈❤️
We always strive for win-win. Hopefully this is the case this time.
That saga continues. Love you're openness and sharing of your ups and downs. ::: healing vibes ::: to Megan and ::: stay healthy vibes ::: to Nick! Fingers crossed that your new plans work out as you hope and plan!
Definitely a respectful decision- as you know from the aviation world, 'get-there-itis' can be a dangerous affliction- good luck to Nick and the rest of the crew!!
Thank you. Yes, plans have killed a lot of pilots. Thankfully altitude not as much a consideration on boats. But plans have certainly killed a lot of sailing dreams....that has been our experience.
Don't stress about us - we will roll with whatever you do.
Thanks guys for keep us in the loop. Sometimes you do what you gotta do. Life will work out for you, I feel it.
It will. It always does. Thank you.
Great update, reflecting good situational awareness and maritime decision making for a safe passage that works for the delivery crew, you and Outremer.
Likely, this is all for the best. Recovering from the C sickness takes a while. Bashing around in high seas on low energy, still a bit sick, wet, cold, stressed, sleep deprived... yeah, none of that sounds like anything but a recipe for worse. Good call, guys. Lots of sleep and soup for you, Ms. M. Stay safe and have a ball, Nick.
Thank you.
You two are a beacon even beyond the world of sailing! Teaching and embodying so much needed in this weary world. Bless you always!
I don't know about that, but thank you. We are just trying to do our best, and that's like anyone out there.
Agh! I feel for you guys because I’ve been there. So many mixed emotions! Having this exciting opportunity, what will your viewers think?, your commitment to Outremere, questioning your ability to deliver, how will this effect your relationship with them etc etc. and all the while trying to care for your health. This tough decision shows how much wisdom and experience you both have. The stress and anxiety will hinder your ability to heal and recover...and could lead to long term issues. I’m proud of you and respect you even more that you made this decision! Hey, and don’t worry about us viewers if it’s too much burden. I’d be happy with just crude, unedited updates of the passage if you decide to post any at all. Megan, rest up and recover-Nick, enjoy this exciting experience to sail with some great sailors on an amazing boat!
Ditto, 'raw' footage would be great. Suit the vibe of the trip
I’ve always admired you as a team. And as a captain myself, I fully understand the challenges of making exciting decisions of passages and the comfort and security of your crew…specially when you’re tied to hip. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. Cheers and get better M!
Thank you. It is a tough job being Cap. Respect.
One thing about the O'Kelly's is their calm (on video) and excellent decision-making. I could tell in previous episodes that you felt uncomfortable about the timeline of the crossing because you could not prepare adequately for the unexpected. Not your style. Your compromise here is perfect. Megan sacrifices her trip for the good of the team, and Nick learns the boat under the tutelage of an experienced captain. Team O'Kelly will make the most of the situation and come out ahead. Again, excellent decision-making.
Awesome call!! When I saw you were leaving under schedule, I wondered if it would work out (and was hopeful for everybody that it would). But, this just shows that you two have what it takes to give something a try... and if it doesn't work out, you will make the right call and adjust. But, the fact that you guys called it so quickly when things didn't improve was really awesome. You guys spotted that you weren't up to full health and adjusted.
Tough circumstance. Intelligent choices. Of course wer're all with you in all the directions you'll take. It's great that Nick can step down a notch for the boat and still go. And Megan getting 'beached' is only temporary -- hope you feel better. Without a doubt the adventure continues....
Absolutely Will. To borrow from aviation, there are old pilots and there are bold pilots, but there are very few old, bold pilots.
It is better to be safe than sorry and pushing yourself to the max while not being fully recovered can cause other problems. Nick deciding to step down when he knows that he cannot push the boat as much as needed is the sign of a true captain. This trip across the Atlantic will hone Nicks skills and make him an even better captain even though he will be crew.
Hope so. Thank you.
Good for you Megan. Rest well and hope you feel better soon!
The hardest thing is being able to say “I can’t” when you normally could and really want to do it. ❤
Great to hear an honest real update from cruising life, good luck ahead to both of you
I was surprised they had you as captain in the first place. Given the schedule and the need to drive the boat hard, (race mode) AND it's still their boat, I would have thought they'd want someone really familiar with the boat and ready and able to race it across the Atlantic. No offense to you guys, but as cruisers, that's not your strength. So glad to hear you are going as crew! I discovered a long time ago the benefits of crewing and not owning. It's a lot cheaper as well, LOL. You are going to learn SO much from those guys as they push the boat hard. It will give you a lot of confidence in your next boat.
As ever thank you both for the sharing your thoughts and honesty that you had overreached a bit. Really an utterly sensible set of decisions to look after both of you to allow one to recover from COVID and the other to support the Outremer goal of getting to Miami in time. Hopefully Megan will rejoin the boat in BVIs. Fair winds to Nick for the crossing. Looking forward to the ride on that beast and beauty of a catamaran.
Thank you.
You guys speak so matter-of-factly and are always informative and thorough in your videos. Really enjoy your sailing/cruising insights. Easily one of the best out there. Take care. Shay
When your values are clear to you, making decisions becomes easier.
And without a question, you guys made the right decision.
Hope you're feeling better soon, Megan.
Anyone looking for pointers on how to keep a relationship together for a lifetime then review this video. There's more than one nugget here and it takes two mature people to "navigate those waters".
Wow. Thank you. There is a lot of learnings we take from this situation.
Always listen to your gut: if it’s not an “absolutely, YES!” It’s a “no.” Glad to see you listening to your intuition on what is right for you! Feel better fast!!❤
Though heartbreaking, this reality check shows us how smart-thinking sailors you both are! Thanks for being so earnest with us. Lots of good things your way. We ❤ you!
It is ok and you guys are more laid back. From watching your channel for two years you always taking your time and not rushing.
You guys absolutely made the correct decision. Your health is more important than anything else.
Well... THAT nibbles! Absolutely the best and most responsible decision for all, given the current scenario. Take care of yourself momma bear, while papa speeds across the Atlantic. Fingers and toes crossed for safe passage(s) and a successful rendezvous in the BVI's!
The kinds of decisions I hate to make - REALLY want to, but you know deep down... don't. And then the pangs after the final decision...
Of course the right call, and you'll both navigate just fine. Enjoy the extra baths!
This was SO important for you to teach and model!! There is so much to pay attention to. I love you all for this.
Thank you, we LOVE you and hope all is well with you and your family!❤️
Under the prevailing conditions you appear to have made the smart choice. That is the sign of a good captain.
I came for the sailing, I stayed for the O'Kelly's! In the immortal words of Shakespeare, "To thine own self be true". Proceed as you will, I'll be watching in any case! :)
Good move Captain! Never a dull moment. Reminds me of a saying my old CFI told me when he let me loose into commercial aviation many decades ago. "Remember, as your career unfolds, if there is any doubt, there is NO doubt."
Love your authenticity and good judgement. My husband and I have been watching for years. You have entertained us, educated us (I particularly loved the catamaran vs monohull series) and,inspired us. Last fall we sold our house, bought a (bigger) sailboat and are well on our way from Rhode Island to Bahamas. We are loving it - a dream come true. And you two helped inspire us and prepare us. Thank u for sharing your adventure. Can’t wait to see where you go next. Get well soon Megan ❤.
That’s so awesome to hear!! Thank you for sharing and we’re very honored to play a small part in your big adventure! Enjoy the Bahamas maybe we’ll see you out there!
A good decision. I admire your ability to asses the situation at hand and act in the bast interest of your family, crew and corporate goals. Well done!
Thank you. Tough call, but that's what life is about.
Glad to hear you listen to your bodies and discuss ways to flexibly get where you really want to go.
I understand a little bit because 1. We're catamaran sailors, 2. We got covid in 2022 and it kicked our butts, and 3. our motto is "Two Yesses Or It's A No". I am so glad you pulled the trigger and made the 'no' vote for Megan because I suspect she's a trooper like I am and doesn't like to admit defeat. We just did our first bluewater overnight sail and we did so well until we broke one of those rules, and we had 12 awful hours of 8 foot seas beating us head on in a 38 foot catamaran. We decided to divert to Key West, and while it made it tougher for our passenger (who wanted to push on), we realized we needed to prioritize ourselves and the Reboot. We learned SO MUCH about being fierce about what we can do as humans vs what the Reboot can do, and what we need to do to make sure we have as much joy as possible onboard. Kudos to @catamaransOutremer who communicated transparently to you what their priorities are, and kudos to y'all for saying, hey, let's make this work for everyone, because I think while it'll be less drama, it will lead to the best possible outcomes for all involved.
Great opportunity to show everyone how to make the right decisions and adjust plans as needed. Excellent decision making process and outcome. Wishing you a fast recovery and safe travels for the two of you. Absence makes the heart grow fonder so enjoy your time of solitude - it makes the reunion that much sweeter!
Gosh, I’m glad you changed the plan. It’s better to rest and recover, and really get well. I hope more people will take a leaf from your book and realize it better to prioritize your health. It can be hard to realize you are sick when adrenaline is pushing you forward
Some people don’t realize they are really sick until they land in the hospital
You may think the purpose of your videos is entertainment and sharing, na na, it’s about the lessons. Lessons on so many things. Cruising, boat management, marriage, and many many more..
This was the right call for many reasons. Thank you for sharing it with us..
Wow thank you for sharing, means a lot to us. We do love to learn and share so more to come!
We are all here for your unique and relatable adventures, so this just adds to the anticipation and enjoyment as we learn of the complexities, outcomes, the highs the lows, the whole shebang. Wishing you safety and wellness on the next segment of your grand life adventures!
Hi, I don't usually comment, but love your channel. Can't help thinking that the company would have made a much better, more positive decision to just give you the boat to do with as you wished, meanwhile making lovely, sunny and positive vlogs about it. Win/win situation, lol. You definitely made a sound decision there. I mean, (I am probably showing my ignorance here), but was wondering just how many of the intended customer base, would buy a brand new (expensive) catamaran, then immediately decide to sail across the Atlantic, in the middle of winter. With a deadline. And Covid. Anyone????
Improvise, adapt and overcome. Glad you are feeling better.
Have a great trip.
Very wise decision!. Crossing the Atlantic impaired would not be wise. Rough seas, sickness, new boat, with just the two of you...not a good combo. Mr. O'kelly, good luck on the crossing with an experienced crew with you included. You'll gain a load of experience and feel safe. So, one day you'll acquire a boat you like and sail calm waters when y'all are 100%. Stay safe and well...cheers!
It is obvious you have made and will continue to make the right choices. Always make your health a priority. Many people have had symptoms from covid that lasted weeks months even years. Wishing you the both best.
Thank you.
Always inspiring to see you guys going through life. Agree with other comments. Keep your spirits up. You make better decisions than most! Looking forward to following you as the adventure unfolds.
thank you. We are doing our best here. Really.
I 100% agree with your decision... it takes time to get over the bug and recover your strength! I'm glad you're taking time to recover! I love your channel and you guys inspired me to buy my own boat and start my own channel. =-) Please take care of yourselves and keep the videos coming!
Thank you so much!
Hope you're feeling better and having a little fun in Austin... lots of great music and yummy food! (I'm a Texas gal!) and that you make it to Miami for the show!@@TheOKellys
I "got the bug" too and I couldn't even have been a passive passenger on a sail boat. Being crew would have been out of the question, so skippering... You did the right choice.
I can only imagine whilst having COVID & hurtling along at 23 knots it would feel pretty rotten. Good call Megan.
Bummer - I was so happy for you to make this journey - kept even checking AIS, I never did that before, lol - but obviously a correct decision.
You two rock - glad everyone's feeling better and looking forward to the next episode
Thank you so much for being part of the journey!
It sounds like you made the right call. When time, weather, and health are all saying the same thing, it’s probably good to listen. Megan, I hope you’re back to 100% soon. Nick, don’t fall off the boat 😉
Sorry to hear of the difficulties. It's part of the nomad full-timer life, but it's still hard on those days. I was actually going to comment on previous videos that lately your videos and titles were full of intensity, kind of hyped ! Sounds like you are on your way back to your flow, your journey is a great inspiration in resilience and optimism.
Thank you, it has been intense! Thanks for the kind words.
Its good decision if your health is at stake. No need for apology or even explanation. Outremer has a lot hanging on this boat, especially since just a day ago AWEN (the other boat was rammed and is on shore in martinique, likely unable to make it to the show) I personally would stay as a team. Don't go NICK! No need for more " clarity " get well soon,
From the jump I thought don't do it. Be safe my friends.
Sometime the dream are there .... on the wrong time. Keep up my friends 🏋🏻♀️🤟🏋🏻♀️
This a really good decision. I was wondering if maybe you were pushing your health. Like people said that darn Covid had me weak for months, I thought you must be unbelievably healthy to get over it that quickly. Now we know you are actually human and that is perfectly okay. Take care of yourselves, we are going to be here no matter what.
The fricken vid....really messed things up for a lot of people wayyyyyyyyy worse than for us. But it is a thing...gotta rest up and get over it to move on. Thank you for your patience and commitment to the rocky rollercoast road that The O'Kellys seems to have become.
Good decision. I hope your recovery is smooth, Megan.
Your adaptation to the real-world situation is both insightful and accurate. Join back up in Miami! Good call.☺
I’m just happy to see you no matter what-both keep well. And this crazy weather no matter where you/we are, we’re experiencing crazy temps. Here in PNW it’s been in the teens. Se you soon, rest up and take great care!!! 🙏
Stay strong and take care of yourselves!
Thank you for the update! Great Decision!
Good call guys, totally understand. I think you have made the right decision.
Best of luck with the rest of your plans.
Love u guys. In process of recovering from Covid & flu. Totally get it. Keep hanging in & get tx when needed (done Paxlovid, last day of antiflu today). Prayers for you both -Carter
You are making the right decision. Health first!
Considering all the factors between tight schedule, sailing, pushing a new vessel to meet said schedule, and getting over C19 you absolutely made the right decision. You two are awesome cruisers, racing a performance cat across an ocean Hell-bent for leather to meet a schedule is a different kind of "sailing." I know I certainly wouldn't be the person for that either, but there are those out there that live for that kind of excitement and thrilling challenge. I hope the vessel makes it's scheduled meet and I also hope you two get some more time on her when the schedules aren't so tight.
Let's hope so. We shall all see.
Deep respect... well decided.. i follow you since a good time... you are really sincere... nice, funny, earnest, thoughtful... thank you..enjoy a lot your videos... first i was sceptic... but you won me over
So nice of you. Thank you.
Thanks for that and good luck and Good Health! ❤
Here’s wishing and hoping that you get better and can rejoin the boat at some point in the crossing. My wife and I can sympathize with you both because we are currently experiencing a similar situation with sickness and how long it has lasted. I got sick with the flu on December 21st, 2022 and just before new years I thought it was almost over, but then it turned into a severe cold with uncontrolled coughing. Then the day after New Years my wife caught the cold, probably from me, and now we both are trying to get over it and it’s hanging in there for all it’s worth. Get well and hope the journey is a success on many levels for both of you.
You made a good choice.
Your situation turned into ONE person sailing a 50 foot brand new unfamiliar boat. THAT is asking for trouble. Taking care of your sweetheart takes priority over everything else. Good job Captain!
You two are such a rolemodel for honesty and living in the moment to me. Everyone can be glad to have you as friends. Megan, get healthy soon (I caught the same bug 3 weeks ago). It will take some time. Lot‘s of love to you both, Armin from Germany
Thank you Armin. You are very kind.
Very supportive of your decision and can’t wait to watch the rest of this chapter
Wishing good health to you both. Smart decisions. Take care, Megan and Nick.
That's some very fine high quality common sense you've show us 👍 kudos to you and Team Outermer . I'm guessing that there will still be some
videos of the passage to come ? . I find it very pleasurable to watch that boat "fly" across waters ! 😸. Best wishes to you Mrs Megan for a
speedy full recovery 🙏😸😺
In my opinion, the O'Kelly team made the right decision.
Firstly, managing an Outremer 55 under the pressure of a tight imperative delivery deadline is not possible without knowing the boat for several months, with a few thousand nautical miles on the clock.
Secondly, recovering from the Covid-19 (2024 version) is not something you can do in 2 days. I personally experienced this 4 weeks ago, after 7 days of being positive, but needing 2 more weeks to regain my muscle tone and full breathing capacity.
Finally, current sea conditions between Gibraltar and the Canaries are complicated, just look at the Arkea Ultim Challenge competitors who passed through there 2 days ago on their 105 feet trimarans...
In short, in my opinion you've made the right choice, the only responsible choice.
Thank you.
Sorry it didn't go as planned , health comes first . Get well soon. I'm a retired shipmaster and full well know the difficulties of dealing with health problems with no doctor , you made the correct decision.
Thank you for the supportive words. All ships are small on the ocean. It's no place to gamble.
Plans and sailing are rarely a good idea, although I totally understand the situation here. But factoring in personal health, personal risk, & acknowledging limitations is the sign of a true Captain. Onward ho - to more healing & passage experience for the two of you. True life, not a fake tv show. ❤
Thank you Joanna. Appreciate that.
Good call! Hope you heal soon! Have a safe crossing, Nick! Cheers🎉
Thank you!
Still a great ongoing storyline, in spite of, or maybe partially because of, the change in plans.
"It is a bad plan that admits of no modification." Publilius Syrus
I'm using that!
As usual, you've made the right big decision. Way to go!
Best of luck, Megan, kicking that bug. It's serious, but most people get completely better.
Much much respect for you both.
Best of both worlds 🙂
Outremer have made the trip a race, not a cruise. Great learning experience for Nick and best wishes for Megan's recovery.
Good for you!! You must listen to yourselves and make the tough decisions. Your, our, health is all we truly have, and we have to take good care of it at all costs. I applaud you both!! Be safe always from the Philippines 💞💞
Thank you, well said!
Sorry to hear you'll be apart for part of this trip to states. Excited for Nick getting some Outremer Pro time, good stuff as you continue on from Miami.
Loved to see you in NW Florida, Fort Walton Beach if possible.
Have fun Nick and get well soon Megan!
Big hugs guys. Get well soon Meghan! x
Gotta take care of yourself! Good call as tough as that is sometimes. Get better soon Meghan and safe travels Nick
Thank you.
Right choice. Cheers from Northern California!!!
From Bono in the lryic "The Fly":
"It's no secret that a conscience can sometimes be a pest
It's no secret ambition bites the nails of success"
Your decision is not a negative. It was considerate and practical of each other. I am proud of you guys.
I too was curious on the timing of the crossing for delivery in addtion to Megan getting hit hard by the "Covids". Overall considered your opporunity, you took a chance. As more information revealed itself you took charge and changed direction. Good for you guys.
Thank you. Wise Bono!
Hi just to make you smile ,your up to 102 thousand now.....take care hope you do ok ....
Definitely the right decision. Get well and good luck!
Health paramount. Good call. Looking forward to your future adventures.