What Causes Overspending in BPD? - The BPD Bunch

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  • Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
  • Xannie, Katja, Hak Ja, Jack, Lena, and Georgette continue their conversation from Wednesday, this time focusing on the causes for their overspending.
    Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of BPD and impulsivity with money!
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 19

  • @alphadog3384
    @alphadog3384 2 місяці тому +1

    Your videos are so informative, and helpful for making "wise mind choices" and to be open an honest about finances living with a mental health disorder, actions of the past, what finances are in the present, making plans for the future.

  • @justinrobinson7954
    @justinrobinson7954 5 місяців тому

    This is my first video watch you all since I just joined the channel today. I was diagnosed just over a year ago and I found this channel by chance. I’m struggling right now and having a hard time

    • @thebpdbunch
      @thebpdbunch  5 місяців тому

      So sorry to hear that you are going through it! Please know you’re not alone and there are a lot of resources out there ❤️

  • @rennava5666
    @rennava5666 5 місяців тому +3

    PLEASE DON’T STOP MAKING THESE VIDEOS. I HAVE STRUGGLED MANY YEARS WITH BPD AND I FELT LIKE NOBODY UNDERSTOOD ME. I JUST FOUND YOU SO PLEASE DO NOT STOP. IT HAS BEEN HELPING ME ❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @renus6015
    @renus6015 4 місяці тому

    Even I over spend. Becoming aware of behaviour. Decided to cut down on over spending. Want to gradually learn and practise spending less , do budgeting, ..

  • @danab172
    @danab172 4 місяці тому

    Sometimes I just get tired of a whole lifetime of poverty...so i want to get stuff i want even if its not the best decision.

  • @thussywussy
    @thussywussy 5 місяців тому

    thank you all so much, as someone with bpd i struggle a lot with self destructive overspending as my go to way to create chaos for myself and its been really hard to get the reins on it but thank you all for sharing your experiences, especially xanny and georgette- i often feel alone and i have a hard time explaining how i feel and why i have such difficulty managing this to others. thanks for giving me hope

  • @hurricane_valence
    @hurricane_valence 4 місяці тому

    I wish there was one of these channels dedicated to persons with ASPD Spending money is also something that happens a lot and people with ASPD as well. It's something that I tend to do a lot. I like watching your guy's channel even though I do not have a board line personality to disorder. It's just.
    The people on TikTok that say they have ASPD i think is b******* I don't know if it's really genuine or not. I definitely don't relate with most of what they talk about. I also don't think they're being honest about their disorder. I am not one to gatekeep Everyone with a personality disorder has a different degree of symptoms dumb. But the people on TikTok only cover just the tip of the iceberg of what it's really like to have ASPD and they never get into the nitty Gritty like you guys do I really appreciate this channel.

    • @thebpdbunch
      @thebpdbunch  4 місяці тому

      It would be so amazing if there was a channel like that! There’s definitely a lot of misinformation on social media and that can be difficult to navigate.

  • @Tailionis
    @Tailionis 5 місяців тому +2

    My dog passed and now im 5k down the drain. I've never experienced a pain like this before. If it wasn't for people supporting me 5k is nothing as i was 100% ready to end it all.

    • @MateoRecalde-qz3mo
      @MateoRecalde-qz3mo Місяць тому

      Im sorry. Can i ask your age? I will be around 40 when my dogs die, dont know how i will cope

    • @Tailionis
      @Tailionis Місяць тому

      @@MateoRecalde-qz3mo 37. My other dog kept me from ending it. And I ended up getting a new puppy because she was so sad. It helped us both a lot, but I still cry. She can't ever be replaced.

    • @MateoRecalde-qz3mo
      @MateoRecalde-qz3mo Місяць тому +1

      @@Tailionis im sorry

  • @stankatbarrell9878
    @stankatbarrell9878 3 місяці тому

    Me watching this after ordering my doordash 👁👄👁

  • @rennava5666
    @rennava5666 5 місяців тому

    Hang in there! I recently lost mine and it’s heart breaking but you will get through it. May God bless you!!💔🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
    ❤🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼

  • @billierichardson9885
    @billierichardson9885 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for sharing ❤. It's priceless to be able to relate to what's being expressed. Thank you.

  • @michellepowell920
    @michellepowell920 4 місяці тому

    How did u find a bpd therapist, I'm really struggling to find one in n.j.tomsriver n.j.that except my insurance...and it really make me feel more hopeless..idk where to turn

  • @suzannaleiper5101
    @suzannaleiper5101 3 місяці тому

    After overspending I find that the dent in my bank acct can make me feel like I have no security incase something goes wrong which can than destabilize me big time

  • @Unfilteredalyssa1227
    @Unfilteredalyssa1227 4 місяці тому

    So i finally realized that this is a thing with what i have. But ive been getting better with it. Made me wonder if i also have bipolar but i dont. (Nothing at all wrong with anyone having any mental health stuff) Thank you for this