My ex devalued the hell out of me, and when I couldn’t hold in the sadness from her treatment of me she attacked my sad facade and said as a consequence she wouldn’t sleep with me anymore. Then she broke up with me. I quickly moved out because we’ve broken up and made up before and I determined that I was in a toxic cycle with her and I realized I wanted nothing to do with toxic cycles or toxic people. When I left, she was furious. She said I lacked patience and that I never truly loved her. It’s difficult for me to speculate but I believe she wanted me to react in a totally different way. She wanted me to get angry or beg to have her back, or both. She didn’t expect me to bolt.
They have to always (and I mean always) emerge "the victim". This is why they twist/lie to theirselves and others. Their extremely low self esteem/fragile psyche can't handle not being the victim at all times.
@@safeeffective385 she was always the victim. Sadly I bought into her narrative early on, but that should have been a red flag to me. All her ex’s were villains according to her and I wanted to save her more than anything, but in the end all I did was join the pantheon of bad guys in her life despite my best efforts.
When you know for sure that they can do well without you, only using you as a prop to propagate their own story, you can leave them to themselves and move on. Yes it hurts. But the wound will heal in time. Just refuse to play along or pretend that you are enjoying it all. That's for your own good. Eventually they will realise that its not you that needs them. It is they who will need and tbey hate to admir it. But you would have moved on.😅😊
Unfortunately in the end I did react and sent the messages to go no contact. It was after years and years of dealing with them. I became very dependant on them and even with the messages I am not fully free in the mind I am still searching for their approval as it was a benefit of staying in the family.
Silence is power. Give them nothing, not a glance nor a single word.
These are also the tricks that abusive and narcissistic people do to regular people as well
then they hit brick wall when stumble upon like us. Thats their lesson which will haunt them
Yes, it does seem that the video is highlighting narcissistic abuse.
Some people live in this terror
Cheers dear.
That drink looks tasty.
I'm over 2 years sober now.
One day at a time.
Happy full moon in Aries beautiful day today in Las Vegas.
♥Congratulations, Gloria! Blessings...
My silence is my response.
Me too
Your life will change.be strong,
God bless.
My ex devalued the hell out of me, and when I couldn’t hold in the sadness from her treatment of me she attacked my sad facade and said as a consequence she wouldn’t sleep with me anymore. Then she broke up with me.
I quickly moved out because we’ve broken up and made up before and I determined that I was in a toxic cycle with her and I realized I wanted nothing to do with toxic cycles or toxic people.
When I left, she was furious. She said I lacked patience and that I never truly loved her.
It’s difficult for me to speculate but I believe she wanted me to react in a totally different way. She wanted me to get angry or beg to have her back, or both. She didn’t expect me to bolt.
They have to always (and I mean always) emerge "the victim".
This is why they twist/lie to theirselves and others.
Their extremely low self esteem/fragile psyche can't handle not being the victim at all times.
@@safeeffective385absolutely true and well said.
Well done mate👍👍👍.
But I want to warn you - don't took her back mate... Don't you dare...
I've seen what's will happen' next...
Better don't....
@@safeeffective385 she was always the victim. Sadly I bought into her narrative early on, but that should have been a red flag to me.
All her ex’s were villains according to her and I wanted to save her more than anything, but in the end all I did was join the pantheon of bad guys in her life despite my best efforts.
She's displaying BPD to the highest levels on the spectrum.
Ty 🙏🏼💫✨ Now that it's over, THEY have to fix their own screwed up lives, find direction elsewhere & start CONTRIBUTING to Society, instead of TAKING from it & dragging it down.©️
So true. To those who identify with this message, Be strong! U will triumph!
So true
U can't fix what's Demonic 👿
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It happened to me in 2023. But remained calm, controlling my behaviour and answers.
Yea they are demons and I told them.
🍷Cheers to us darling Joker! We are a lovely lot of warriors. Xo...
I Love you Joker❤ You are so on point
❤.. yes I SAW. 🍿🎬
How true this is and great to see it explained so well. Good video as always.
Nothing is permanent can escape unknowingly
When you know for sure that they can do well without you, only using you as a prop to propagate their own story, you can leave them to themselves and move on. Yes it hurts. But the wound will heal in time. Just refuse to play along or pretend that you are enjoying it all. That's for your own good. Eventually they will realise that its not you that needs them. It is they who will need and tbey hate to admir it. But you would have moved on.😅😊
Happy Oktoberfest, Mr.Joker! I love this channel. Motivational in that weird macabre way! Chehers to Scorpio season!
When them tables turn 🤣 🤣
Dam All the dark dirty bully bee chez who have Afficted me...for just being myself...throughout my lifetime. Dam their DARK SOULS Mind and body!
I deleted my Facebook account June 24 2024 this last summer
we can not take control of anything except ourself.
We dont even have that. Life does not belong to us. I dont even control the hair on my head.
people wouldn't listen if we asked them to walk away. Instead, we can walk away. We can choose not to listen to others and keep silent if we want.
Damm their SOULS
They see what I want them to see...
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No no no more games!;!
To win at love, you must surrender.
Unfortunately in the end I did react and sent the messages to go no contact. It was after years and years of dealing with them. I became very dependant on them and even with the messages I am not fully free in the mind I am still searching for their approval as it was a benefit of staying in the family.
To heck with suckers and narcissists.
There twisted little games😅
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Ok ty
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Now they try and stress how if they wernt so horrible.. failure was immenent
. Typical tyrants ❤❤❤😂
Today Ifelt well, content, bought a fabulous painting, who are they, have moved on smiling
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